TALES OF THE LONE WOLF: The Highly Sensitive Person. An Intuitive Journey

[@danrule292]

Fraya you're beautiful inside and out! I get extremely drained around humans.I resonate with everything you say.. love ya.😊

[@Anson120]

Fraya helps me with my struggles sooo much. So much better than a psycho therapist. Truth.

[@frayamortensen]

Hey there! Thank you and glad to hear my content has been so helpful. How long have you been following along?

[@teresagould6987]

Wow 🤩 this is me. I’m 50 and only realised this over the last few years that it started during my early childhood. I was very shy as a child. Thank you and brilliant video honey xx

[@themerrymalcontent7831]

I am definitely a lone wolf empath. My mother committed suicide over my father’s adultery when I was 27 and when I tried to forgive my father he told me he was a hero for being willing to take care of two women which made me completely lose it for a decade. My older brother who backed my father’s delusions I just found out is a covert narcissist who has been narcissistically abusing me my whole life. I never understood why I was so different from my brother and father but now I understand why I am the way I am which is somehow comforting despite how screwed up I am. I am pretty sure I have complex PTSD from the trauma I have suffered. I am now 65 but finding out late is better than not at all.

[@Yourfriend22200]

Thanks for existing and letting us know what we are! Truly informative and emotional as I am highly sensitive😊! Love from 🇮🇳🇮🇳

[@jyotivyas9286]

नमस्ते मित्र😊जय भारत

[@Yourfriend22200]

@jyotivyas9286 जय भारत जय हिंद 🙏

[@karenkuske5567]

Ty❤

[@khaledelsharawy3726]

You are spot on, thank you! Need that kind of validation and support. I definitely feel that we are minority, and it's hard to find such specific feedback. :)

[@frayamortensen]

Happy to hear that this video spoke to you in such a way - and I hope you'll be able to check out the rest in this series. Thank you for being here!

[@BrianPremo]

It sounds like lone wolves , highly sensitive and avoidant attachment style all have similar characteristics.

[@taylorjanegreen1]

Wow! Amazing how you put all this together!

[@frayamortensen]

Thank you!

[@mingmong007]

I'm a lone wolf, an HSP, and highly empathic. Beyond a doubt, I developed this as a coping mechanism. During my formative years, I needed to navigate around my highly narcissistic father. At same time, I was highly attuned to my mother's emotions. She was suffering like I was and needed my help. You're spot on my dear. From Toronto to Hamilton, with love.

[@frayamortensen]

Yes! Love to you ❤

[@godswittness69]

Hey man, stop hitting on my girl 😏 you think ur bein fresh but she’s mine. You jus continue bein a lone wolf brahh… lmao

[@mingmong007]

@@godswittness69 The vice is in the mind. Mine was just an expression of gratitude and thanks.

[@godswittness69]

Of course it was saint ming mong 007, of course it was.. you have no ball sack and are pure as snow

[@PadmaDorjee]

I tend to read comments to find the nuggets of gold the viewers share which usually enhance the KZbinrs expression. This is no different... I used to think "Value Signalling" would attract others, would somehow bolster a sense of self esteem or basically impress in order to manipulate my way to my desired outcome. No more. I now believe true integrity comes from the courage to be vulnerable and honest, even if you think you will lose out. This lady is so friggin smart, she will see through all the crap. Best of luck

[@williammcpeak8800]

You have very expressive eyes and you present your material in a concise manner which I among others appreciate. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us.

[@RoryBrooksWulf-sz2rv]

I'm 43 now and still feel like no one can relate to my level of everything you said, it's like sitting behind a security mirror watching the world go by, you scream but no one is hears

[@XNY_Music]

Love your enthusiasm for this subject. Also, love your hairstyle.

[@rosskcmo]

100% I’ve often felt naive and didn’t understand why other didn’t see or feel things as deeply or as obviously as i did

[@Pet-rf6rh]

Great video

[@frayamortensen]

Thanks!

[@desertcrab6331]

My goodness, it has taken me decades to figure this out. This is all true and it takes time to trust yourself. It is difficult to trust yourself when you can't trust anyone else. No one understands and to attempt to help others understand will never go well because they can't think like us. I had to adjust how I share but exclude the maze we followed to come to that opinion.

[@ccrockatt]

Spoiler: this channel is about to blow up 😉

[@TheDiveWatcher]

As I have grown older being 48 and especially over the last 10 years it's felt more like a curse.

[@jeanmurry4876]

Vince Murry , I'm 60 grew up in Chicago , seen my first murder at 16 , my next door neighbor. Just alittle background, About the pack ,I lived it you are right, everything you've said is right. You are so (profound) , (Special) ,I really can't find words to describe you. I find myself crying, because, I thought I was always kinda wierd. But when you talk about it , you make me feel Important . Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Today you have freed me and my Mind.

[@timothyotoole8224]

u definitely hit on some traits I have. never herd it put the way u do .nice work 😊

[@frayamortensen]

thank you 🙏 Glad to hear it spoke to you

[@RoryBrooksWulf-sz2rv]

My parents were never really close to me later forced to separate from them at the age of 15, they never knew how I deeply cared and needed their attention, your video here is soo true on every level! Describes my personality 1000 percent!

[@mayu23325]

No wonder your name is Fraya, you're a goddess of wisdom. Thank you for your videos! They made me feel more wholesome with my being this way I am. You've described in great detail countless of past experiences I've had where I second guessed myself because of what was being said to me or done to others around me. Your words have clarified to me that my intuition is spot on! I can't thank you enough. Peace, wealth, love and success in all your endeavors.

[@jkhan9951]

"You may think wrong, you may misunderstand or do something wrong; but, you can't feel wrong." Edith Wharton

[@duodave]

OMG I'm sooooo empathic. Why has it taken 57 years for me to find you? Off to watch all your videos....

[@jedlimen123]

Thank you, new listener here, you are providing a lot of valuable insight here, especially to those just discovering themselves..

[@djmizzou3030]

Thank you for this. Huge help.

[@frayamortensen]

Most welcome! Which part stood out for you the most in terms of most helpful?

[@djmizzou3030]

I find that I am a lone wolf and sensitive at times. I have had Multiple Sclerosis since 2012 and thankfully for my family I am not alone. I just found your channel the other day and am a big fan now. Very interesting.

[@uptone12111]

Man ! You are smarter than the average bear.Where were you 20 yrs ago lol❤

[@frayamortensen]

haha!! Good one. 20 years ago I was just starting my career in the criminal justice system as a probation officer!!

[@6stribe379]

I've been looking into spiritual stuff since I found out four years ago I'm off charts with gifts. Today was the first time I'd even heard of lone wolf empath and everything fell into place. I showed you to my sister and exactly the same thing happened. I feel like the lone wolves are all waking up. We are about to be busy. I fully believe this. Hit me up

[@MartianTom]

Spot on! I have only come to trust my intuition since I got my autism diagnosis at age 56. Before then, I viewed myself as 'deficient' in comparison to others, so I never trusted myself, my instincts and feelings. Now, I go with those things - and they've never let me down. I am, of course, highly sensitive - and an empath. There is still so much misunderstanding out there about autism - propagated and perpetuated by pop-culture stereotypes and the highly-questionable clinical descriptions in 'professional' medical publications such as the DSM-5. The naivety is so right, too! I was incredibly naive, and remain so to some extent. I've heard it referred to as 'gullibility'. Well... maybe. But I have always tend to credit other people with the values and principles that I myself uphold. And when I've been let down, I've often been told 'I'm surprised you didn't see that coming.' Narcissists are, of course, the worst. They home in on autistic people like sharks home in on minnows. But it isn't just limited to such people. I really find it hard to fully trust anyone any more - which doesn't stop me from reaching out to people when they need help. I think it's a bit like the late comedian George Carlin put it. I like people as individuals. It's when they start to 'group' ('clot' as he puts it!) that I struggle. "Once it starts getting up around, oh, say... two!" (PS I've noted your Canadian accent. My adopted homeland! I almost emigrated there a few years ago, from the UK, but had to back out at the last minute. Was heading for Saskatchewan, where I have old family connections. I've now lost my rights as criteria have since been tightened. A piece of my heart will always be out there, though. Toronto is my favourite city in the world!)

[@ebrand3673]

❤️❤️❤️ so true. Thank you!

[@GodammitNappa]

One of those situations where my body relates but my mind is picking it apart. Always been someone who likes isolation and company, who get very tired around certain people, who is very naive and assumes everyone is a good person, even those who blatantly wrong me. But yet my head still thinks I'm narcissus and worries I'm making it all up. Good old trauma responses. Working through this in therapy, thanks for more information and videos to help people like me slowly find ourselves ❤

[@tubefreakmuva]

Wow. Thankyou. So glad I found this, especially now. Ive heard about HSP, sigma males, but your explanation was so on point that you have helped massively. I will navigate your channel. Thanks 🙏

[@allanstephens4499]

Appreciate your vids thank you 🙏🏻💯 Makes complete sense all I know is how to survive and I love my intuition above all things ☺️

[@frayamortensen]

💯 Honing the intuitive gift is the best part of the journey while shaking off the nonbelievers.

[@REVAMPEDWRESTLING2K]

Thank you for this. You are the best!

[@frayamortensen]

You're very welcome!

[@juliegiles334]

Thank you. You've just described perfectly what I've been experiencing.

[@martycurtis2046]

Thank you Fraya ❤️

[@daledesroches2318]

Along with being a very interesting and informative person; from an aesthetic perspective, you’re very easy on the eye 😉

[@RoryBrooksWulf-sz2rv]

You have great topics and helps to finaly understand who I am!

[@jonathanpeters4687]

😘 FM...Thank you

[@jyotivyas9286]

😢😢😮😅ohh same lone wolf hsp empath injf all in one...what to do. Thanks yaaDear Fraya ❤❤so Real you are my Dear Friend...❤😊thank you soo much. 🎉🎉Om shri.

[@frayamortensen]

Most welcome! Thank you for watching. 🙏🏼🌸

[@kevins4426]

I love that you do this!

[@Joe-oo3gi]

Wow , excellent video

[@j6453]

I enjoy your videos. You remind me so much of Melissa Rycroft!

[@agent_exodus]

Well said 💯

[@admin_KONOHA]

Thank you darling, auuwww 🐈

[@HighOnScience]

4:10: Not only trust. When you finally realize people aren't good to you for no reason your patience drop to a record low, why care if both trust and patience has evaporated from your life

[@sitandletgo]

helped me so much! thank you!

[@tormentoxx]

Never felt so accurately described by a video. This is my life, although it doesn't feel like it has a positive sense. Yes, I'm a very good predictor, body language reader, and all that stuff, but it's also a handycap because I can't defend my self.

[@LeifLinder-v4z]

I keep a Google spreadsheet on my phone to record my "vacuum" level, one to five. On full five days I hardly exist and there is no separation between me and the other people on the subway. I feel the women across from me and her hands and her eyes and the little candy wrapper she politely folds up and puts in her handbag. I can see that she takes care of people. I can see her teenagers are stressing her out and that she was the organizer of the family when no one would take care of the dying patriarch. And I have to stop from speaking out loud or unblinking drink in her persona when she might say tersely, you don't know me. But I do. Other days I'm at level one vacuum and I don't give a [blank]

[@tarekalkhattab]

How can we use that sensitivity as a power then ?

[@Hey_You_Me]

2002 i was hooked up to high voltage. I had two emergency surgeries to be stable. 10 years to get help. When i go to the doctors, i have a friend go to do the talking. Im asked to sign a release of liability so they dont call 911. Its not easy for people and i pushed them all away. Only psyc evaluation was in 2015 by the state and i ended up with custody of a 7 year old for a year. Everyrhing sounds unbelievable so i just dont talk. Now im stuck not knowing how to move past it all.

[@frayamortensen]

Sometimes we have to just learn to be in the present moment. Not everything is meant to be understood, certainly not ourselves to other people that's for sure.

[@BigHugsFromHell]

This sounds so much like my cats... So cats can be lone wolves? This... This is blowing my mind.

[@SomeThoughtsPodcast]

Really enjoying your videos! I would love to hear more about what you think this "6th sense" actually is. (biological? metaphysical? supernatural?)

[@9983sp]

I am the epitomy of a lone wolf. I don't need people and if you mess with me, you're going to find out how vicious i can be.

[@taylorjanegreen1]

Awesome material, thank you for presenting it so well. It’s up to you but it would be great if your mic isn’t in front of your face obstructing the movement of your mouth and your chin. Whatever you decide, keep up the great work!

[@nextinline8234]

Very helpful, Thank You

[@joy-jr7dg]

Thank you 😊

[@TxSissi]

Very true 💯

[@nicholasevangelisto8264]

So Dam True !

[@XNY_Music]

Little Red Riding Hood must've picked and eaten the wrong mushrooms on the way to visit Granma. There's no other rational way to explain red's inability to spot a wolf dressed as her Granma, other than temporary vision impairment and delirium, brought on by ingesting hallucinogenic substances. The conversation between Red and the wolf was not a conversation in the literal sense, it was a conversation without words, it was two creatures finding themselves face to face, she instinctively realised her predicament, she recognised the form of the wolf, she witnessed the eyes of the wolf staring into her eyes, the wolf saw fear and weakness and showed its teeth, Red saw the teeth. The townspeople hunted and killed the wolf and legend turned this tragic event, into a parable that we tell to children.

[@frayamortensen]

I love how you've written this, and yes, there is a version that goes that way - either way - this is an example of the "toxic wolf" that we come across in our lives that try to manipulate us while our intuition tells us otherwise.

[@XNY_Music]

@@frayamortensen Thanks, I thought I might have overdone it, plus I don't normally write stuff like that. Years of analysing the countless interactions that I've had with people along the way, has given me a greater understanding of what motivates people. I read a lot of Jung and found that a great deal of what he said can be so easy to spot, once you know what you are looking for. Some lessons in life only need to be experienced once to be unforgettable, but human nature leads us to repeat our mistakes of judgement many times before we adapt.

[@sagemaster3408]

Hi Fraya I was wondering if an empath could , upon understanding who they are , somehow show or feel signs of narcissism? Because for me , I am a lone wolf empath , and with and when I found out and learned myself. I almost felt this feeling of ,” because I’m an empath and there’s Noh a mean bone in my body , etc etc , that I’m better than you.” Ty for your videos. You are awesome !

[@eugenialinn1834]

It is hard to believe ❤❤❤

[@absolute3112]

Can I tell you... Few days ago, I was actually in an incident SURROUNDED by 7 wolves. lol Wasnt scared of panicked... I just stood there, stared down the 'main ' one... and slowly walked off. Been researching wolves ever since. Thanksgiving night, ever since then... the 'wolf' references have been flooding in, including you videos. (not my phone listening to me) I dont speak at home. Maybe in my searches its triggering everything with wolves... but December 1st, I flipped my calendar IRL..what was there? a baby ... wolf. Lol So yeah the universe IS trying to tell me something. im guessing, to trust my instincts and intuition. Walk boldly

[@frayamortensen]

You’re definitely in the wolf energy! Exciting times ahead. Thank you for sharing your synchronicities with me!

[@krustysurfer]

I got to say something here is the 100th comment. What happens when instincts go awry when your instincts say it's time to hunt or it's time to kill or it's time to defend oneself? Those would lead to very serious consequences in a structured society that we live in. We can't just run around following our instincts. I have my own take on this because I'm involved in a 12-step recovery society that is worldwide and in our big book it talks about our instincts gone awry where instead of choosing the loving thing we chose a selfish thing and that leaves damage to undo and make amends for. And then what comes in is the self-doubt and self annihilation committee. Sometimes it feels best just to be alone. But are big book tells us that being alone is not good that we can get sick being alone too much. I have my doubts about all of it on a certain level I'm best if I am plugged into my higher power and not plugged into people places and things. Anyhow catch my drift I want to hear what your opinion is on this thanks.

[@frayamortensen]

the opposite of addiction is connection. So you can get sick by being alone too much - but it depends --what are you doing with yourself? No different that you can get sick by being around people too. So find the middle path, find what works for you. Don't be confined to 12 steps, find out step 13, 14, and 15 - find out where that might lead you to. #innerconnection

[@krustysurfer]

@frayamortensen I'm one of those who has always been okay being alone, I know my Creator loves me. However my Creator says if I say I love my Creator then there is work to do... there are people to serve and to be of service to, that is my highest calling. Sitting on a surfboard in the ocean or on the Great Lakes or sitting in a fishing boat or hiking or climbing sand dunes or camping alone in the wilderness I am good. ( its usually better with another, if they are on the same vibration.) However one needs to come off the mountain top to be of service. Yes It's tricky to keep from being vampirized, but that's the double edged sword of service, if I give and I give more than I should, then it's on me, its my job to go recharge myself and usually that involves; prayer meditation grounding outdoors in nature, proper boundaries and the ability to say no thank you. All very important in self-care. Also no drinking no doing drugs no smoking in keeping the temple clean. In 12 step work 13 step is a no no 🤭 but I understand what your saying. But what I'm saying is I cannot always trust my instincts I cannot always trust my feelings I cannot always trust my thoughts, I have to use love as a litmus. Why might you ask? because ego and self, the creature within may want to see a particular outcome based on selfish want. That's why the litmus test of love for me... Is it loving is it kind is it helpful? Helps me keep doing the next right thing after the next right thing helps me keep my side of the street clean. 😉 Anyways I enjoy your channel, I enjoy your mind and what you have to say, I enjoy your spirit 🫶 stay excellent sister blessings and Aloha from the Great Lakes

[@blackchartsforex3124]

From this, i might not be a 'Lone Wolf' after all. Other videos got me thinking 'this might explain it afterall', but with this now i think i might just be a very anxious loner, with low confidence and low self esteem. IF not i would have been this bulldozer The things about intuition and 6th sense are not things i instantly relate to. I do have 6th sense(or used to)...but generally i just feel dumber. Many years ago when i was like 10-14 yrs old, i used to just 'know things' especially when it was about people, so it was difficult for people to be smart with me cos i would already anticipate that possibility and many times watch it play out. These days, its like the opposite. People just be running rings around my head. Things are a lot more complicated, that you cant just trust your head. Especially with my knowledge of MBTI and INFJ/INFP/ENFJ characteristics, i think the lone-wolf being described here falls within these three types. Especially the INFJ and then a llitle less so, the INFP. Anyways. Felt nice to be understood...while it lasted. Also. seems you have issues saying '6th sense😅'...its just nice to see

[@ovrcmng]

I'm a lone wolf love your videos but how come your video quality is kind of low maybe a better camera?

[@jeanmurry4876]

Vince Murry again , how do you know these things, I don't understand how you know

[@frayamortensen]

For starters this is me! Also I have experience with coaching and mentoring many other lone wolves over the last few decades. I see patterns and like to find ways to tie these things together.

[@jeanmurry4876]

@@frayamortensen You are incredible Lady , I will be going thru all your library, thanks again. Your the Best of the Best , I promise.

[@godswittness69]

Basically anyone with cptsd will resort to lone wolf tactics as a type of survival mechanism. But lone wolf is not a clear way of defining this condition, especially because it is a romanticized pseudo neo shamanistic construct created in an attempt to find wholeness and healing, which is totally understandable for struggling individuals, but does not allow for any type of unbiased clinical analysis

[@kenjones102]

Ahwoooooo. Wait. What?

[@FrankDemers-i1b]

I was born in Hamilton Ontario with an interesting Bio at 79 yo.write me if you want a life of lone wolf>

[@dodge9600]

Most people embrace weakness until they experience strength. The rest who embrace weakness are wicked and shameless to do so.

[@JayPlaehn]

Now everyone is doing it - so now what everyone is looking for it - I guess anyway you look at it somebody has to accept give forgive guide allow - this stuff is now accelerating through the culture it’s no longer the domain of the therapists office everyone is now armed to the teeth with all this stuff especially the strugglers the victims the victimizers the controllers the spinners and hopefully somewhere somebody will let go and love and be happy with the happiness of others because that’s where all the good begins - I could write a book on it but I don’t get paid for any of this I just try and deal with it and put the making building fixing creating the priority to unites the people around a common cause of good for all - take your fair share and accept the life of service ……

[@HighOnScience]

And no, I mean no harm with my comment.

[@nailswood167]

20% is not a small percentage…