This is Why Men STOP Having Emotions

[@LordHecSquad]

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[@prestigedDL]

I watch all your videos, I respect your honesty and transparency with your viewers. I booked an appointment, hopefully we’ll be able to find the time to meet 🤙

[@matiqog]

Scheduled an appointment with you and got a no-show. It's all good. Friendly tip: post your prices for consultations on your calendar description. It creates transparency and trust for customers who are willing to pay. All the best! ❤

[@prestigedDL]

@@matiqog happened to me too, I would have been willing to pay depending on the price if I knew ahead of time. Transparency is what I appreciate about this channel

[@isaiahpage3412]

@@LordHecSquad mhe

[@eduardoortiz8482]

People can be weird man. Hating for no reason. You an inspiration tho fr

[@Cxdits]

I was one of the “haters” my point was saying you’re not ungrateful then complaining about how the world works is being ungrateful and doesn’t offer any new perspective or insights it’s pointless. People with less than double digit iq look at words, smart people look at actions. By all means he can cry if he wants i didnt know it was one of them channels though ill see my way out.

[@KaDeLaRosa]

🧘🏽‍♂️you too

[@TheUnbotheredAnalyst]

As a Black woman, I just want to say how refreshing it is to see a brother being real and vulnerable, sharing your emotions like that. It’s not something we always get to witness, and it means a lot. Thank you for showing that strength in openness. it’s powerful and appreciated more than you know! MHE!

[@CBIRL]

There are so many people who only hear what supports their narrative and try to be as performative as possible. It's exhausting trying to get it through to them that they have a problem because they don't even want it fixed. MHE!

[@DJ-xp9bs]

Exactly, i grew up mostly raised by my mom and surrounded by sisters in the south. Living in the south where it's discouraged to show emotion and having my mom teach me that i need to "man up" and basically hide my emotions had turned me into an emotionless crash out. I had anger problems because I was told to repress my feelings instead of processing them. I saw that as i got older and have changed a lot, but i still struggle with depression, anxiety, and processing my own emotions to this day

[@javier.alvarez764]

Forget about that past and don't let them define you. They will only define you if you let it.

[@cosmicystn3626]

see thats the issue in itself right there.. growing up mostly around women

[@KazTheGoat12]

17:30 facts. There’s no reason to be aggressive all the time. This is why I show respect to everyone around me because I want to be respected. It’s nothing wrong with opening up sometimes as a man. Us men put up with so much in life to the point it makes us want to crash out. Society makes it to where if men open up, people will be like, “eh…you’ll be aight, eh you’ll get over it.” I’m guilty of not really opening up sometimes because people use that stuff against me, or go out and tell my business for entertainment.

[@LordHecSquad]

Exactly that’s all I’m trying to say here

[@micah4539]

People now a days are just primed to respond and engage with things negatively first before anything else.

[@crockpotdev]

bro i had a imterview today that was actually professional and genuine. the dude was really cool. amd even if i dont get the job i have to appreciate a nice interaction. especially after so many bad ones

[@DuraanAli]

Man, people are weird, you’re inspiring tons of people to be open and work hard.

[@Logic-undefeated]

As a Black man from Brooklyn, NY, I agree with you 100%. Whenever I encounter ignorant people, I don’t even acknowledge their presence because I view them as inferior. If you can’t control yourself, then you’re a weak individual. On another note, many women in New York City have STDs due to not using protection. I’ve met 30 women in NYC who had genital herpes. So, young man, you’re not missing out on anything. Focus on making money, learn how to fight, and protect yourself at all times because this world is immoral, and malicious people are preying on us-rational, good-hearted men

[@JyMaster1]

@@Logic-undefeated im from the Nyc area. Did they tell you they had genital herpes or you had to see it for yourself?

[@highroller_GG]

Always appreciate your transparency, honesty, courage and vulnerability bro. Just a wise and kind reminder that opening yourself up, like an open book, sometimes means people will come and try to write their opinions and thoughts into your pages. Dont let anything or anyone discourage you, and keep that heart 💪 one love!

[@LordHecSquad]

Na this comment right here is FIRE i like this analogy!

[@JONGGG]

Some people really sleep out here and not understanding the messaging in these videos smh. Keep doing your thing bro, when you’re awake to the system it constantly feels like the whole world is crazy or making you out to be the crazy one. Live free 💜

[@pickledgamer]

Do YOU brother! Better to talk about it than crash out like you said! Love to hear what you have to say. People want fake, then they can kick rocks and go watch fake people. There are plenty of them. Trolls gonna troll. You got haters means you are doing it right! Let's goooo! MHE! Men Have Emotions! God bless you!

[@positiveenergyonlyasmr2943]

Some people are very insensitive as well as jealous. Continue your great content.

[@EdwinRodriguez-zt5fx]

At 26 you demonstrate a lot of maturity, respect 🙏

[@AXRTUNNING]

Bro I’ve been watching you since warzone don’t stop expressing your self I was one of does man and I’m changing that don’t listen to does man they young boys luv your content don’t stop 💯

[@LordHecSquad]

Never gonna stop and thank you

[@Dragonra2]

You’re helping people more than you think Hec. I appreciate these videos

[@Vici0]

Everything you said was straight facts. You can't control other people's insecurities and bad mindsets. Good on you for speaking up.

[@SyphonGames]

MHE - Bruh I feel you, I always look forward to watching what you post, you do be spitting facts for sure, as a male who was raised in a tougher environment I definitely resonate with this! I hate it, don't like it, as I got older I started to kind of branch out and leave that thinking, its HARD too do that, when you been drilled for 30 years about how you "Should" act, people always gonna hate bro and I'm sorry you still getting those wilding comments, all we can do is keep pushing through and ignoring the haters. I believe in ya bro keep grinding and doing you! you definitely inspire. I think sitting down every now and then just talking to the males and speaking facts in feelings, and reigning in crazy is a great idea honestly.

[@Duuunte]

MHE and yes it's fine to feel we are human no decision will be right that's why when you make a decision you stick with it wether good or bad and you learn.

[@DigitalLiquid]

People that say they wish to be in your position don’t put in the work to actually be in that position and just hate. It’s crazy 😅

[@LordHecSquad]

This is solid facts

[@stormseasonsimcoe5570]

MHE, gotta remember that we are human and not machines. I appreciate open and honest dialogue like this video and I need to practice this more in my relationships. Try not to let your emotions get bottled up or you may lash out at someone. In the past, I had some angry outbursts. This didn't happen often but when it happened it was awful. I would usually lash out at a family member. This would happen whenever I would go through experiences where I really wanted to stand up for myself or express myself but I held back. The anger just got built up inside of me..

[@s4veu2]

glad u posted this bru, the switch from games to these type videos speak to me personally as well, not that i was posting gaming vids, i was posting bs in my own opinion and why should someone make content they don’t align with ykwim

[@davidk4860]

Yeah, I think their is a big difference in showing weakness uncessarly and showing your emotions. Best and easiest example, crying. You can do that in private. The video you did the other day I saw absolutely no issues. You just spoke about your experience. It was both entertaining and insightful.

[@cobey5497]

keep it up broski i love watching your video they make me feel understood

[@dStarrPlays]

I can feel your time coming bro. I can feel your authenticity. 💪 💯

[@Cobalt_11]

I think the way I cope with this is giving myself an out date. I'm right out of school - got a nice job that is definitely a lot of work but pays decent and allows me to save a lot. I used to be a dancer as well before COVID and so I def relate to seeing my friends on tour and shi doing things all the time. 4.5 years from now (6 in this job total) I plan on taking a year off from working and trying to do other stuff. In this time I hope to develop the skills to be able to do that outside of my 9-5. This is just a job and it's not my life, I'm gonna keep on doing what I love and get good at the things I want to so when I'm free it's simply just me doing more of what I've been doing. I appreciate your perspective and it's really nice to know there's people out there who are trying to pursue meaningful lives in a world that is being drained of purpose

[@ULTIMATEGAMINGFEDERATION]

MHE. True. I will never show mine again unless it's anger.

[@SolomonGordonX]

Your videos are needed man. Thank you for your insights.

[@Urwrldd_]

M.h.e I agree men should talk about their emotions but I dnt see it changing men suicidal rates have gone up overtime every yr but I still have hope we can do more to help each other

[@ojamagerrits]

Mhe, and thx for using ur platform to talk about this type of stuff i can relate. Hope nothing but good for ya man keep it up. And to the fellas out there i hope yall find your peace too.

[@rebeccalpjohnson]

your haters are a sign that you're on the right track! love your accent and your communication style...MHE!

[@SoTrevonReacts]

hey my name is trevon i found your channel about month ago and i seen you TikTok's play cod but i just want to say u have motivated me to go harder and not care about no one else opinion

[@OfficialKyoKan]

MHE We Needa grow this is growth

[@PhixonFire]

Ngl you’re very easy to listen to and follow along. Even these minimally edited 20 minute chats fly past like they’re 2 minutes and I really enjoy turning a video on and then doing my chores and just listening. If you’ve got a friend and an interest in starting something similar to a podcast I’d love that if the episodes would be upwards of an hour long. Maybe you could have viewers send in situations or questions. I just want more content of you yapping 😂 also I’d happily edit clips if you need the help. Keep doing you. MHE

[@alextoma.channel]

Your vids are fire, bro. Keep doing what you do!

[@BlackPillVillain]

I understand your pain bro. I have a whole channel talking about mens mental health.

[@irvingzamora1837]

MHE - Keep doing your thing

[@NoHeartTPK]

Hec listen bro I totally understand you bro we literally in the same situation .

[@geo4570]

Love your vibe man

[@mm57390]

I feel this

[@d1me603]

love your vids man they're very motivational, and refreshing.

[@invadercem2]

MHE. Build your friend groups, join your local water buffalo lodge. SUPPORT YOUR BROTHERS. Peace!

[@Christopher-Alexander69]

People never understand others POV no one will truly understand your emotions and situation better than the ones closest to you. Keep doing good man your content is great :)

[@tycharmain9310]

MHE. You’re human you are allowed to feel how you feel. Even when it comes to dating and being called sensitive. Find the one when it’s time, she will appreciate that personality trait because pulling teeth with tough men is exhausting.

[@LaMaTVLIVE]

MHE nothing but W takes!🎯🎯

[@ferminsanchez4571]

Nah honestly people hate nowadays for no reason. And honestly I’m not mad because that hate comes from something not going right in their lives. The problem is instead of seeking help/ advice or even just expressing our emotions our generation will just fall back to pride and hate on others for having something we don’t or kicking someone while they’re down. Kind of silly tbh but that’s the world we live in. It’s each of our own responsibility to be better, ignore the hate and better ourselves so then we can better our circles so that instead of being in a prideful environment we’ll be in an encouraging one.

[@chaoticsymbol1055]

MHE , I love your content keep it up 💯.

[@iames]

Love your videos! Could you make a video about how your IT job interview was?

[@5lkeio]

MHE 💯

[@OscarJ-01]

You made money freely using your creativity, something lots of people fail at. It’s natural for you to have a hard time going back to being paid a wage to build someone company owners dream. Lots of people aren’t even satisfied with the lifestyle they live working a 9-5 each day, they just hate to see someone else speak out on it though because it reminds them of how unsatisfied they are. Nobody that’s actually happy with their situation will go out their way to hate on you for how you feel about your job.

[@LordHecSquad]

Never thought of it like that. This comment sealed it for me

[@liam1902]

@@LordHecSquad I have a few friends who work a corporate 9-5 but really want to do their own thing for the reasons you mentioned - being able to work on things you love, working/doing whatever you want whenever you want, etc. Typically when you work a corporate 9-5, it's on someone else's schedule (aka the business and the team you're on). I make good money at my corporate 9-5 remote job and have had the same thoughts you mentioned in your videos - "is life just supposed to be working 9-5 and all that?". I think you have to get pretty lucky at getting a nice 9-5 job for you to not mind it while also having time to do other things in life esp if you count on the 9-5 to fund your life. However, I do feel like a lot of entrepreneurs (like you and a few of my friends) tend to have those types of thoughts cause working on your own thing/business is way different than the corporate 9-5 stuff.

[@dreamstory-k9j]

Keep pushing brodie 🙏❤

[@Just1genius]

Men Have Emotions fasho.

[@jensworld444]

Hi, i recently started watching your vids. I think they are funny and you make interesting points.

[@YouTubeSouljaQ]

Title got me sayin uh oh lol

[@Kay_OC]

I’m feeling these videos where you just sit down and talk. If you throw some gameplay over these, maybe it would draw in other people in, I’m not sure.

[@keithsmith5310]

M.H.E Respect bro 🤝🏿

[@s4veu2]

fr bro

[@langstonbaker2323]

Awesome video keep going only way is up

[@OptimalVideos]

mhe,Im in hs rn 9th grade no friends just talking to people i know well, a nigga that cant talk about how he feels becsuse he feels it will be used against him,He feels ignored so he pushes others away,Lowest of the low rn he tryna get up,but he feels like he cant do it yk,Hes trying so hard,but hes making excuses,getting angry at himself instead correcting himself,Idk man he used to be on top of his shit but now its like what happened bro

[@HustlingDogg]

M.H.E keep it up Hec

[@DjProfessorKay]

i’ve been contemplating making a video about my work experience in general as a man / black man. but i’d hate to be perceived any way or anything extra coming out of it. another thing is being so venerable with absolutely no audience…kinda odd and gives room for bs 😂

[@Gabe94dotcom]

Wow cool

[@E-klips11]

yo, bruh...fuck ppl feelings. everybody gonna have a opinion. u from Brooklyn u should already kno. keep doin your thing.

[@LordHecSquad]

Facts

[@Late_AyeF]

MHE You: I can do this on my own! A good Circle: And? You're not on your own.

[@steffanbrown4780]

A whole bunch of projection keep doing your thing bro

[@Dragonra2]

Iron Sharpens Iron

[@tevin1524]

Any advice for how to really break out of being so individualistic? It feels impossible to make this change when people around you keep proving why you should stay quiet and self-reliant "Make more friends" and stuff like that is nice until they do the same thing lmao

[@Dragonra2]

12:34 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Tommybotham]

I know you're a YT'er with 100k+ subs, but you need to listen to me. If you share your emotions and some people act funny or dismiss them, they were not your audience. If just ONE person resonates with you, you did your job. Because now, you and that ONE person are no longer alone, you're together. And its never just ONE. A lot of people value what you say silently and wish you the best from a quiet position. Do not allow a number of people who don't ride with you, to dictate your honesty and transparency.

[@terrorbyt8733]

MHE

[@mikeasydacheezy1785]

I like your audio it sounds very clear how to you and what you use to record?

[@LordHecSquad]

I use obs

[@ysrenzo]

MHE!

[@domainofmastery]

This why men go bald all the repressed emotions goes to the scalp & they die earlier than women

[@meezoh]

MHE🤞keep up the vids man, never understood how ppl throw shots in the comments. if ur so in love with your job or so tough guy or wtv. then how the HELL you end up clicking on these types of vids. if you feel like he’s pussy or lazy etc then why you watching, & if u was just curious then why you hating? you decided you wanted to hear what he had to say

[@luizvinicius1412]

Sometimes unlimited PTO doesn't mean less work I get you bro

[@LordHecSquad]

Yep exactly

[@mikeasydacheezy1785]

You doing your thing on KZbin you don’t fall under when people say this generation done they talking about the lazy and always complaining those are the ones the talking about. Your from Brooklyn you see the up coming high school kids who are straight goofy.

[@tsouth-315]

MHE 🥷👍

[@LakersParadise]

I disagre ppl with tattoos are usually pretty mean. Not sure where u got that from that ppl with tats are nicer.

[@keepcool460]

You should travel the world no kaap

[@SsshhhQuiet]

mhe

[@theoriginaltaurus]

MHE, but I do think toxic masculinity is a real thing. 😅 Example: the red pill. But there is a healthy masculinity, which is not to be confused with the toxic kind.

[@LordHecSquad]

yeah i guess i can rephrase that it be the "toxic masculinity" that some people say is ALOT of people say is toxic now a days for example you can set a boundary as a man and its "toxic". I've experienced this and its weird. Just because i respect myself its toxic.... okay lol

[@tyreik4242]

MHE

[@destro697]

lel he banned my comment

[@jayscott99]

Mhe

[@aceehughes]

bro stop reading comments lol just post what you want g

[@sirshytv.2003]

Yo intros be too long gang get str8 to it stop over explaining yo self to haters.

[@LordHecSquad]

I feel u

[@FoeJxyLIVE]

@@LordHecSquadbro your intro was fine lmao

[@LordHecSquad]

@@FoeJxyLIVE i know it was,

[@LordHecSquad]

@@FoeJxyLIVE im like man i did what i usually do in most of my videos but aye, cant please em all

[@freewill7549]

A crash out is needed sometimes just so the fire in you keep burning ...

[@Logic-undefeated]

As a Black man from Brooklyn, NY, I agree with you 100%. Whenever I encounter ignorant people, I don’t even acknowledge their presence because I view them as inferior. If you can’t control yourself, then you’re a weak individual. On another note, many women in New York City have STDs due to not using protection. I’ve met 30 women in NYC who had genital herpes. So, young man, you’re not missing out on anything. Focus on making money, learn how to fight, and protect yourself at all times because this world is immoral, and malicious people are preying on us-rational, good-hearted men

[@lucentdesijn]

MHE

[@kingk.2251]

MHE

[@uluvele]

MHE

[@mm57390]

MHE

[@Jrmy.93]

MHE

[@positiveenergyonlyasmr2943]

MHE

[@TheophilusTJWiley]

MHE

[@blewcheezTV]

MHE

[@SurviveWithSully]

MHE

[@Dragonra2]

MHE