Love-Bombed By My Ex-Husband | Ep. 19 w/ Charlotte Taylor | Between Me & You Podcast

Have you ever been love-bombed? What about so much so that your husband who you thought loved you beyond anything imaginable and then he decides to leave you in the middle of the night? What are you to do? How are you to handle it? I sat down with my Aunt Charlotte and she explains IN DETAIL what took place and how God has had to be with her every step of the way since then!
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[@kianicole001]

Every time things are calm and settled, the narc starts chaos

[@cdnicole30]

Facts

[@ednamason8336]

Like a Rollercoaster 🎢 ride, up then down..

[@suchaladytiff]

It so crazy how sooo many people have the same stories but nobody seems to believe you when you talk to people who havn’t experienced this type of behavior

[@Art-gb5ok]

This is so real.

[@ebonycarter98]

I experienced this with my ex. He had me for 5 years

[@sabrinareams4562]

I experienced this in my marriage!! I am going through the separation part now. Thank God for strength !!🙌🙏🏽

[@betsyakoko6810]

Have seen it the late gospel singer from naigeria hard one till he beat her to death

[@larhondajackson8951]

That’s so true!!..

[@angelagray736]

Her hair style is niceeeee❤

[@FEMME_CHRONICLES]

The things about narcissistic abuse is your memory becomes so foggy because of the trauma. Your mind literally blocks it out because your in constant fight/flight survival mode.

[@moniquemonae88]

If it’s one thing I’ve learned about a narcissist is that they hate to see you do better or better than them. If you make more money, doing anything good for yourself they hate it

[@lt3074]

💯 the one I left had the nerve to say I was competing against him smh...

[@user-pk7jc6rl4w]

Omg I know her the most kind woman of God . I use to do her hair in Ft Worth , Tx , I left went to Frisco she came there. The funny thing is I was in a narcissistic relationship cried with her she often prayed with me. She even had me selling Mary Kay, I was so broken couldn’t really concentrate on it . This lady was like an angel now to learn she , herself was dealing with a demon that’s what it was came to steal, kill and destroy. I love and miss you Charolette 😢 to God be all the Glory we’re free❤❤❤❤❤

[@SanctifiedLady]

She’s super strong 💪🏽

[@Donaldhelmick]

I recently went through a tough breakup. My 5-year relationship ended a month ago, and it's been really hard for me. I still love my ex-girlfriend so much and can't stop thinking about her. I've tried everything to win her back, but nothing has worked. It's frustrating, and I can't imagine being with anyone else. I've been trying to move on, but I can't seem to get her out of my mind. I know it might sound strange to share this here, but I miss her a lot and just can't stop thinking about her.

[@BenjaminJones-re8re]

I understand the pain of letting go of someone you love. I went through a similar situation when my 12-year relationship ended. I couldn't just let her go, so I did everything I could to win her back. I sought the help of a spiritual counselor, and their guidance ultimately helped me to bring her back into my life.

[@Donaldhelmick]

Amazing! How did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I contact them?

[@BenjaminJones-re8re]

His name is Fatherabulu, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can help restore your relationship with your ex.

[@Donaldhelmick]

Thanks for sharing this valuable information. I just looked him up online and I'm impressed.

[@Donaldhelmick]

Thanks for sharing this valuable information. I just looked him up online and I'm impressed.

[@nikkireacts2180]

When you said God showed you the address I knew you weren’t lying cause God guides and protects us in the midst of demons.

[@sheilanaija9235]

Amazing I had that same experience twice.

[@jocelynhicks3820]

What you say! 🤛🏾🫶🏾❤

[@RashayParker]

Thank you for sharing your story. I’m currently in a marriage with a Narcissistic man who has completely traumatized me. I’m working really hard to remove myself from him and the darkness that he brought into my life. I thank God everyday for keeping me safe and not allowing him to destroy my self worth.

[@gld927]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@JodiTheExplorer]

You are not alone in this. Keep on making your own path to freedom. You’ll be at promo the end.

[@stephdee3811]

Whatever you do, DON'T TELL HIM YOUR PLANS, EVEN IF there are kids. Play the game. LEARN YOUR OPPONENT 👍🏽

[@chelleb.1436]

Get out my sister !!!

[@niqueruffin6791]

Praying for a safe escape sis ❤

[@BNorth82]

When he left, he had found a new supply; they don't like being alone.

[@DJ-xs1pw]

I couldn’t understand why he went from women to women but I realized it was the supply he needed. He found her and married her in 2 months.

[@ednamason8336]

My ex told me he can't be alone. He was a Narcissist

[@carolfrazier5107]

I love me some Elder Charlotte!!! Yep, he was a straight up grandiose narcissist and a fool. No man in their right mind would mistreat this loving, beautiful God-fearing Queen. 👑

[@shelocsher2396]

It’s scary how patient narcs are. The way they lie in wait to flip that switch smh

[@toneyfox6328]

The devil come to kill steal n destroy= narcissist

[@sharbur5906]

This is so true!

[@jaslyn5501]

Mind blowing for sure

[@danimiller3648]

Yes....demonic

[@NuJeruGirl7922]

Very true

[@SweetCaroline10X]

Narcissists always target the kindest people. I am so sorry Ms Charlotte for what you went through. Be blessed 🙏🏾❤️

[@franco2b145]

They see kindness as weakness. If they don’t love themselves.. and they don’t, “who is this person that proclaims to love me?”

[@LoveDeeWilliams]

So glad, she told her story. I am 2 years divorced from a Narcissist. It was so embarrassing to tell my story. I thank God Mrs Charlotte is sharing her story.

[@sashalawrence4786]

You have nothing to be ashamed of dear one 😌

[@delagatsi4015]

They know exactly what they do. They are highly intelligent and calculative

[@KeishaCherre-ic2gv]

I hate them

[@twinsma14]

More cunning then intelligent. The level of lies they expect ppl to believe is ridiculous.

[@yogib8]

@@twinsma14 Yes, you are so right cunning , conniving and cynical….

[@yogib8]

I would not say intelligent, they are intentional, they are cunning, conniving and cynical

[@Trulyblessed921]

You are telling my story My husband discarded me after 14 years of marriage. He found someone in my Soriority and I was heartbroken. He also had to show off everything including vacations with me. After he left he tried to mentally humiliate me and financially ruin me. Never knew anything about this disease. Thank God for saving me. I’m still healing but I’m getting stronger daily

[@denisejackson776]

You will heal♥️

[@Dee-Dee4959]

Beloved, it doesn't matter who legally files for the divorce. Sometimes, someone has already divorced themselves from you emotionally and physically, so one of you needs to make that move when they see that the marriage has ended anyway. The legal act of filing is just to formalise a process that has already started. No shame.

[@Kara3-n4p]

As COLD as this sounds. It's all true!💯

[@NuJeruGirl7922]

My first husband was a narc. He tried to move me to Oklahoma; I knew no one there. So glad God blocked it. It went downhill from there. So glad I got away but sadly, I married again to another narc and I am divorcing him as well. Definitely taking time to work on myself right now.

[@gigilou1219]

My therapist said after dealing with a Narc take one year off from men. A minimum of one year.

[@audreylubin6977]

You go girl!!!

[@iikatmac]

To my Aunt Charlotte I am so very proud of you and am so happy for your ability to get through this tough time in your life. I thank you for allowing God to now use you to bless others. You are a phenomenal woman, bold, strong and Godly and I love you!

[@Jacee191]

OH MY LORD, was I with the same man as her? Everything she has touched on was EXACTLLLLLYY what I experienced in my marriage.

[@Dee-Dee4959]

Narcs tend to operate the same. Textbook cases. Birds of a feather. Regardless of race, geographic location, status, etc.

[@vickytaylor5464]

@Dee-Dee4959 I" m still ashame to feel to talk about it w certain family didn't know what a narcissistic even was. I was hospitalize upon released a nurse explained it to me. I looked it up after. I looked gaslighting up also. What I thought was not.

[@neceminlinda]

He knew what he was doing! I been through this with my ex, I stop sharing my good news with him, I would have a personal celebration, I started taking myself out lol .. the woman I am today can't believe I went through that foolishness smh. So glad I'm free from that spirit ❤

[@veronica4036]

I've been dealing with my narcissistic husband going on 14 years smh. He loved bombed me in the beginning and once I caught on he threw tantrums, lied, cheated telling multiple supply that I was the problem when I'm the bread winner I take care of our home, I take care of our kids he does the bare minimum he post our kids on social media like he's the best father all I can do is pray for him and his issues.

[@s.b.5029]

Same. 😢

[@toneyfox6328]

Pray that u overcome and u surely can❤

[@SophiaM-le1hx]

Move on please! Get your happiness!

[@sallyhemings2295]

Why are you staying in the marriage?

[@AshzxQuidYT]

I listened to her story and I'm glad she started from the very beginning because she was the perfect target. She felt like she was no good enough because she raised her son as a single parent, and her relationship didn't work out. Narcissist only target people they can easily manipulate. She is nice and God fearing. That's a recipe for disaster. You know how i know. I am she. Her story shook me to the core. I believe we put a name on the personality, but what we are dealing with is an evil spirit. That man sold the house and left her in a hotel! That's pure evil.

[@kendalllaster5473]

My mom and Ms. Charlotte used to work together when we first moved to Hattiesburg. I haven’t seen her in many years but she still has the same elegance from when I was six years old. Sweet lady.

[@emyleewong3600]

Yah I saw that, she really looks sweet and humble

[@tracimcduffie8566]

OMG..i wasnt married to my Ex..but this is EXACTLY how he was..it is so weird how all narcs act just alike

[@alittlegold5647]

Because there demons, so there all the same

[@kathymcdaniel9027]

Same demon!

[@starantionette194]

Know this scary situation all too well. A narcissist will and try with everything in them to destroy your life. Stuff doesn’t add up, don’t make sense. Don’t even try to figure it out. They love to betray and ghost you.

[@mzbarb]

Thank you for touching on this subject I am currently going through this after an 8 year relationship. My ex narc started showing signs within the first 4 months but I didn't know anything about narcissism so I overlooked a lot of things. Year 4 of the relationship I discovered narcissism and began to go through the cycles (love bomb, devalue, discard) regularly. Because I was caught in the trauma bond of this thing. I ruminate daily and struggle with the fact that I was in love with a man who never loved me and only wanted supply from me. I'm 1 month and 1 week no contact (3rd attempt) and trying to get through each day as much as I can. It's the future faking, lies, bread crumbs, and lack of my feelings that keep me stuck. I am beautiful, I am powerful, and I am healing. Thank you so much Aunt Charlotte for sharing your story. It resonated with me deeply. I love your strength, your spirit, and your joy! Much love to you as you continue throughout your journey 😊

[@imieshiadanielle]

Thank you so much for having the courage to share your story! I’m so sorry this is your situation but just know I’m GENUINELY PRAYING that you get you through this! That trauma bond is something serious for sure and sometimes as bad as the relationship is, that sense of healing alone can be just as frightening! Praying 💗💗💗

[@roxanneroxanne3232]

Congrats on your one month, one week of NO CONTACT 🎉 I've had a plethora of failed attempts, but each time I got stronger emotionally, was at peace and needed their attention less and less. You inspiring many (including me). Keep in loving in yourself and sticking to your boundaries ❤🙏🏽

[@mzbarb]

​@@roxanneroxanne3232 Thank you kindly ❤ I didn't mention the fact that he too had me to move in with him after 2 years of dating (once I became an empty nester). Why did I do that? It only lasted for 4 months He was really controlling once he got me at his house and away from my family and friends. He didn't want the blinds open or the doors open when it was nice out. He never wanted me outside He'd stay gone all day doing what he wanted to do. I literally moved next door to him just to have my own space again. That lasted 4 years I've experienced the black eyes during one silent rage episode that he had and that's when I knew that he really has a demonic spirit.

[@LynnsInspirationalCorner]

This is my exact story. I am 3 months completely no contact but her discarded me for the last time in January. I FINALLY see and accept what it was I was dealing with and going through. The future faking that you mentioned is the worst. It keeps your mind circling around once they discard you. It gets better though. Each day. The pain started to lift slightly each day. But I had to make the choice to emotionally move on and not secretly want him to come back like I did for all the other discards during the years.

[@mzbarb]

@@LynnsInspirationalCorner Congratulations to you on 3 months no contact 🥰 Accepting it for what it really is is the toughest part for me. Accepting that he wasn't who I fell in love with, accepting that the future faking would never come to pass, accepting that it was all a lie is just the hardest part. I'm filled with different emotions each day I love myself, I am powerful, I am healing 🤗

[@danamonet77]

Girl your hair is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@23Fulani]

Narcissists will make you a nervous wreck in a relationship. I've been there!!!

[@PaulinaJohnsonMBA]

I am praising GOD for deliverance! I lived through a hellish marriage like this! Would be mad at me paying bills! Elder Taylor literally blessed many with her testimony. This is so real!

[@GodsGraceRecovery]

A whole Tyler Perry movie.

[@Kara3-n4p]

You ain't NEVA LIED!

[@vickytaylor5464]

Ms Charlotte I am so proud you made it through living with a narcissistic . Thank you sista for sharing ❤️

[@TyraNicole.]

i’m so glad i found this podcast it’s so underrated rn! both of you gorgeous women are so well spoken this was so nice to listen to! great video !!

[@ajayasir5272]

You are such a great interviewer. You ask questions and you LISTEN. A lot of interviewers ask questions and talk over the interviewees.

[@molovefive9]

I am so thankful for coming across your channel and seeing this beautiful woman sharing her story. I have been separated for 1yr after learning of infidelity, the many lies and betrayal. I asked my husband on multiple occasions to seek help. He'd say he would but after 1 session with a "pastor" he did not proceed any further. This man really had me feeling like I was loosing my mind during our 3yr marriage but God.

[@msronniemoore3281]

As I listen, I'm amazed this sounds so much like the situationship I was in for 26 years. God bless you sista continue to stay strong. Narcissistic men can harm your mind, body, and soul. I have story to telll.

[@wonderful7090]

Yes it’s been 31 years for me. I met with an attorney today.

[@BNorth82]

I know your story; I lived it also for years. He was a diagnosed narcissist with manic depression which I didn't know until it was to late. The moving stuff is to make you think you're crazy.. I'm removed from the relationship , but he hacks all my social media accounts, into my TV, and email Calls from fake #s and just sits on the phone. It never stops!

[@denisanoel3061]

OMG, you are speaking directly to me because I went through this with my ex husband of 15 years…I was delivered 7 years ago! Amen! I went through many of the exact things that she went through!

[@lovingbrilatrice]

4 months for me Aunt Charlotte. He knew I was the one in month 1 but the lies, deceit, not taking accountability for his actions, and I’m begging someone to talk to me when he got into one of his moods. I had enough. He was an Elder and thought that booty rubs, touching etc was okay to do. When I stopped all that, oh he got upset and said I made him look stupid. I am free and loving myself again but still healing. Thank you 😊.

[@edu-buzzja5150]

The script is so accurate in describing the narcissistic person.

[@loyaltyb71052]

Very happy that she is able to speak about her experience and she's able to continue forward. Ladies we don't need a formal diagnosis for anyone that is treating us poorly. Her husband is an unkind person but what she describes doesn't accurately describe narcissism. Narcissists are NOT able to maintain their mask for this length of time. However, if she disregarded the red flags and kept moving forward, yes you can endure cluster b personality types for long periods. Narcissism has been watered down and we are so hurt we need to label their ill treatment with something. Chances are very slim you could make it to 4 yrs without recognizing this type of personality d/o.

[@queenadventures4258]

You are correct. There are almost always early signs that you are dealing with a manipulative person who has an abusive personality but if you don't know what those are, you can't recognize them. An abusive personality usually shows themselves between 3 - 6 months. They can't hold that mask up that long without it slipping. Most people don't know those early signs, but they are mostly always there. One of the first things I noticed was how this man treated other people, especially his family, she witnessed. I am not blaming her because it is not her fault, and she did not do anything wrong. She didn't know what she didn't know. A lot of times we, including myself when I experienced this, see them treating other people poorly and we overlook it because they aren't treating us that way...YET. We don't think they would ever treat us that way. We don't understand that the treatment we see will be reserved for us later. The only difference is what is being saved up for us will be 10 times worse than what we witnessed. Watch the way people treat others and specifically talk about other people. What you see them doing to other people is a warning sign.

[@loyaltyb71052]

@@queenadventures4258 100%, i commented because i had my own first-hand experience with this personality type. My encounter began in 2011, before anyone was just speaking on it. I knew there was something so very different with this person in about 90 days. It was his response to a correction and a respectful one at that. I have come across men that just don't do to fool with but vs the person i speak of I almost 100% (don't have the credentials to formally diagnose) can say was a cluster b personality type. your typical bad guy is like fire and ice in comparison to a cluster b. The difference is very different.

[@rosierose8825]

Wow!!! The relatability. Love bombing, doing things only for the public, the abuse that’s hard to believe in private, the financial abuse and verbal abuse to make you feel something is wrong with you and no one will EVER love you, you are crazy. Hard but so happy I go out of my marriage. The man who was suppose to love and protect was my biggest nightmare and abuser. Years later I’m healing and still get ptsd and a church man too using proverbs 31 to manipulate and twist the verse to serve and be meek for the abuse he was going to lay out.

[@burriti]

All these narcissists got the same M. O. They move exactly the same way.

[@alittlegold5647]

Demons 😈

[@journeycandleco.8658]

Amazing, thank you for sharing your story. I, too, was love bombed to my now ex-husband. It was a whirlwind romance. Got married after 3 months of knowing him and the mask fell off completely a year later. I felt like I wasn't going to make it. Everyday was some type of drama. He had so much chaos going on. Like you said, they live a whole double life. Be safe and all praises to God that I was able to get out and recover from all the financial losses he put me in. Now I'm just healing and focusing on me, my kids, my relationship with God first. Things are still revealing themselves, and I'm just asking God's grace to cover me and continuing to just let go, let God, and forgive but far away from me and my family. ❤ thank you for your transparency, and I pray God continues to bless you, your ministry. Your story is for his glory. God is sooooo good and merciful. God Bless everyone ❤

[@lt3074]

The regret I stayed too long & asking God to help me to forgive myself🙏🏾

[@swan6864]

I was in a 10 year marriage likw this..Double life husband and I put up with abuse and all 10 years involved his infedelity with an ex and several new supplies. Praise The Father God..For getting my son and I out.. I feel so FREE and at PEACE..

[@LaShondaDaPusha]

Elder Charlotte is so genuine , I love her transparency. ❤❤❤ Thank you for sharing, this is so needed.

[@Beencouraged777]

Been where she has been. I will say this, God gave me red flags, I ignored them and went with my “feelings” boy, did I pay a heavy price. It taught me not to ignore red flags. I was vulnerable due to past trauma, ladies we must be very careful, allow God to heal our trauma.

[@amiyadiva2882]

They’ll proceed with this behavior by bringing you their best presentation and later on wants you fall into their trap you began questioning seeing their truth there’s always red flags have to trust your intuition god revealed how smooth someone can be & what to look out for after ending your karmic cycle with that person the narcissist will take it as far as they feel they can fool you 😵‍💫😪

[@imieshiadanielle]

They literally will take it as far as they can until either: 1. They’ve found a new victim 2. You’ve found them out Everything little thing that you do starts to get on their nerves! My question is, do you think they are aware that they are wired like that?

[@taiskitchen6152]

@@imieshiadanielleyou did an outstanding interview with your Aunt and yes they know what they’re doing. Have you ever listened to The Tea on NPD (Telsha) . I thank God for her and many of us do. She speaks from a spiritual aspect of this. If you haven’t heard of her look her up on KZbin and you’ll understand.😇💗

[@asiakg]

I just don’t understand why people just can’t be honest and say I don’t want to be with you no more. It also seems like he was doing good financially at first and then as the years went on he started needing her help and instead of that he just started throwing hints that she needed to get a job.

[@toneyfox6328]

It’s spiritual n people are have cut God out thus the reason we see more narcissism/ reprobate mind

[@BNorth82]

Narcissists are sick in the head individuals. Their mission in life is to destroy you. They aren't born this way. They're created due to the environmental and trauma they were raised up in

[@Kontroversial84]

She was dealing with someone who is demon possessed. These ppl are crazy. They pursue a partner in order to torture them. Simply saying "I don't want you anymore" doesn't cause the same level of trauma as playing games and lying and deceiving.

[@kayfields8938]

So proud of Elder Charlotte for sharing her story and being a light for other women going through a dark season!

[@Iashle901]

This was beautiful and triggering all at the same time. I’m happy she’s doing okay!

[@karhondajones5473]

Narcissism is a demonic spirit. I endured alot of the same behaviors in my marriage. Thank you for sharing

[@ednamason8336]

They like to hurt you by insulting. They add insult to injury

[@QueenSugar72]

Thank you for sharing your story woman of God. Praise be to God you were delivered from that situation. Your hair is beautiful. Side note for the host - have a customized tissue box made to sit near the guests so they can have something to wipe their eyes and nose when needed. Be blessed

[@sound39532]

you pretty good at this! letting people tell they story and releasing

[@lornawise327]

She lived my life. Crazy!

[@tracybrownbeauty8347]

Man this is my same story. I am the first to divorce out of my mom's 5 girls. Raised 3 kids by myself.

[@one_2b_reckoned777]

I was with a malignant narcissist and it was one of the most darkest of my days on this earth. The gaslighting, the love bombing, the flying monkeys (refer to people who carry out the work of a narcissist or an abusive person). I have not dated in 7 yrs i have PTSD…i refuse to allow myself to go through this again, i have found peace in being alone. I will pray for you and Charlotte, i hate this happened to you 😢 But i too know that you have helped many of women become aware that they were not crazy and that this has happened to others as well. May the wonderful Lord continue to bless you❤🙏

[@cthia45]

OMG!!! This woman is telling my story!!! I can't believe what I'm hearing. I asked myself if this woman was married to ----?

[@athomewithyaf9790]

Such a good interview. Thanks for sharing your story Elder. ❤

[@writeousrhema]

Thanks for sharing your story. Reminds me of a dallas guy I dated briefly. He gave grandiose narc vibes looking back at it now

[@sharonwilhoite9989]

I'm so happy to hear this woman's story. This is me😢.

[@franco2b145]

There’s hope then right? You heard her story…right? GOD IS ABLE!!!!!

[@chelleb.1436]

This Testimony was so so awesome knowing that you aren't the only person that dealt with a person who had narcissistic behavior. I am Glad God showed me my way out!!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾. Blessing my sister!!!

[@GodsGraceRecovery]

He had been planning that!

[@goodkarma3177]

Makes you wonder why people get married in the first place. When someone takes away your financial freedom expect abuse on the back end.

[@lt3074]

💯 love bombing is a red flag of a narcissist. The narcissist I left is exactly what she said they are the best in a crowd & totally different when you get alone. They love attention. Mine was dismissive, gaslighted & verbal abusive. I have no contact , blocked his number & social media.

[@nanette3652]

Charlotte, YOU GOT THIS, you are blessed and highly favored. ❤🎉

[@MsRene81]

Idk how a clip of this showed up on my fyp on TikTok. But I knew from the first 10 sec I had to find the whole video. I relate to your story in so many ways!! And yes God will show you and they(he) will gaslight you into believing you are crazy.

[@pattonladii]

That’s what brought me here too!

[@betweenrealmsanddimensions]

Same

[@shontakey]

Thank you for sharing your story I was with one for years haven’t been with him for 6 years and he’s still the same way trying to attack me every chance he gets I can so relate

[@DionteDiDionne]

7 years for me. I prayed myself out of that mess. A week later God opened up a door. I left and never looked back.

[@deveinareynolds6885]

This is much needed! 😢

[@imieshiadanielle]

🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️❤️❤️

[@mrcttmartin]

My God , God bless this lady, I can totally relate, I’ve been going through something similar and I’m glad to know I can recover all .

[@imieshiadanielle]

You can recover AND there is healing on the other side! 🙌🏽💗 follow her because her ministry is literally leading women out of situations like hers!

[@mzbarb]

​@@imieshiadanielle Where can I follow her?

[@merclineavallon378]

Beautiful woman of God know that because of the purity of your heart that the devil is always working. I wish you love, peace and most importantly happiness again ✨❤️✨

[@tjoybell8448]

Sounds like a family member. The lies he told about his ex caused separation the entire time she was married to him. It wasn't until they divorced some 20 years later did I find out that he set her up for his family not to like her. We were able to talk at that time and this is when I found out what he had done. I apologized for my part because I should have never sided because of blood. He has since, just recently, attempted to gaslight me and I shut it down. I'm sorry that happened.

[@shemekabrown9788]

I needed her testimony tonight!🙌

[@inishimccune4930]

Blessings. Elder Charlotte, YOU ARE AMAZING! May The Most High richly bless you.

[@KM-xt4wc]

Similar experiences shared. As a single mother to my 1st daughter, God absolutely sends community and those who you need in the midst of. My church family, best friend, cousins, and my parents were everything for me and my daughter.

[@dajahcarter810]

I want to tell my story on your show… it’s devastating and mind blowing. Your show is so helpful ❤

[@suglight]

thank you for sharing your story with grace, truth and vulnerability

[@yogiegemini2053]

She was fortunate. Just because they have kids don't mean they won't hurt your kid.

[@SanctifiedLady]

Thank you for sharing your personal story, not enough people telling it. Lots of counselors explaining but this is my first interview. Be well, you are so strong, it’s amazing!❤

[@OrganicallyYahs]

Why does she say she had nobody initially and then says she has a great support system later? Maybe I’m missing something. Then it sounds like she trusted some of them bc she had to in order to provide? Hopefully he wasn’t violated by “church family “

[@TheJourneyWithWisdom]

She was speaking of her ex family when she said this part. She stated she had a community but was abandoned by son fathers family that they sided with him. A community is great but we all pray and hope our blood will be there first. ❤

[@NaturallyFit874]

Hello Aunt Charlotte 😊. Im so glad this topic is being discussed, because this cycle of abuse needs to end and expose the narcs.❤❤ They target God's chosen people 💯

[@necieden]

Praise God where God brought you. Oh, sis, our stories are somewhat similar. After 30 years of marriage and a divorce from my pastor, you will survive and thrive. FREEDOM is real in Jesus!! California

[@Tawana_X]

This lady is DOPE!! I love her & am so glad she told her story!! The part when she said he tried to make her feel like something is wrong with her touched me!!! My Ex Narc had me in the dr office telling them I was bipolar and needed meds. Actually had me believing I was crazy anytime I had an opinion about anything I was crazy and needed meds. Anytime I got upset about anything he did I needed meds. I was crazy!! Well I got the meds I needed they were called a divorce!! I have never been happier!!

[@haroldHarris-q9j]

S/O to my Grandma Daisy! Always showing love!!

[@Eastpointe]

I really enjoyed this beautiful elder sister’s life changing testimony. I’ve heard so many stories similar to this. So glad God kept her and has healed her. So glad the Lord is using her to help others. For whatever reason, there are so many narcissistic type men out here, in church and workplace. #Seek & Wait on God.🙏🏽

[@wisdomdantecourt8179]

He really sounds like he was on the DL. So many secrets and lies.👹👹👹

[@laniteaallen8961]

I can't help but to think at first thought!Wow, he wanted out ! He left her an Apt., bought her a New car, But then, I could see the manipulation, lies, the facade (he really didn't want the people at the Church to know! What he had done)! He left her without telling her, after selling the house, Made her pick out a house and even put money down! (Even though she didn't like the house, she was still willing to go! She gave up her house in Leaksville and then she was left with a car note that she literally Did Not Want!! (Her car was paid for) Yes, He was a Showboat in front of people!! But behind close doors, He was something Else! He felt he didn't have to communicate things with her because he made All the Money !! .... She is Blessed in the sense that she had community, family and finances (and God) to fall back on !! Some women in these situations are left with Nothing or No one !! .......#Great Story and I Pray your Aunt Charlotte finds her ForEver Husband #She deserves it! Thanks for telling your Story!

[@DionelyETC]

Being lovebombed is a red flag 🚩

[@valeriemoore7834]

I know her story all too well. This type of abuse is the real pandemic. It has taken me 14 yrs to see the light in my healing after 26 yrs of absolute insanity. I know of what she speaks.

[@tamlynn100]

My ex NARC is the armour bearer for the Pastor... Front row every Sunday getting sicker by the Service.😡😡😡

[@cyndidaniel7822]

What a beautiful STRONG woman. God bless you!

[@nikkiwoo5]

PSA: Ladies, you are not crazy! He changed! They can fake for years! (Instead of making me out to be crazy, I REALLY wish someone would have told me this. Hopefully this will help someone realize sooner than later that you are not losing your mind, it’s not YOU!

[@claudettelee4404]

Such a Blessing Testimony Mighty WOG!!! May God's Divine Healing Grace and Mercy continue to Rule and Reign In and Over Your Life In Jesus Name. 😢❤ Thanks So Much For Sharing

[@hebrewisraelitetribeofyuda189]

Not knowing what a narcissistic is to later find out explains it all to you

[@CarmelaCandela-yv4yz]

To protect the next generation of women I firmly believe we need to teach this in school before girls date so they are aware of the signs....teach one... save one ❤ I have two young daughters 10 and 4 and I pray they never go through what i have 🙏 my mother passed when I was a teenager and she had a happy marriage for over 30 yrs ...I was not taught the power of discernment..which made me an easy target for narc abuse

[@janicelangston5310]

Peace is the answer ❤❤❤

[@meiyaslaughter4944]

marriage is not all about love it is ministry. although it sucked what she went through god beautifully orchestrated her life with putting her over a ministry where she help now millions of women. thank you for being the sacrifice your work will be rewarded.

[@Lglover001]

Idk at least he didn’t leave her in financial ruins. Could have been a lot worse. God’s grace was over her.