'Love is Blind' Season 3 | 1 on 1 Interview with Zanab🎙 - Talk'R

[@derekladysman317]

You say your Team Zay in this interview and you say you're on Cole side in the other interview. Don't be afraid to share your real opinion with your guest.

[@adelea414]

Its a technique to have the guest feel like you’re on their side so they get comfortable and speak freely, its part of the job yo

[@monicaelwin5841]

He needs to learn how to be REAL 😂😂

[@cindyben3089]

@@monicaelwin5841 Are you a child? He doesn’t have to pick a side. If you’ve ever been in sales you would see why he’s TEAM whoever is in front of him. Step 1. Build rapport.

[@monicaelwin5841]

@@cindyben3089 Miss Cindy look around you and read the comments it’s not just my opinion but others feel that way also, I have my opinion and you have yours and that’s that! Merry Christmas 😊

[@garxgar]

@@cindyben3089 You're right, he didn't have to pick a side. The problem is that he picked BOTH sides. Are you a child? Because most adults can tell the difference between being unbiased/professional and playing both sides.

[@wiwihoyos]

OK but as an interviewer you come up as a hypocrite! 😂 Just watch and listen to how you talk about her in Cole's interview and then he tells her "I'm team Zae" hahahaha

[@vsarmentto]

Right?? I also just watched Cole’s interview and I’m watching this one right now and I’m like ???????? How can he does that and don’t feel embarrassed? Jesus

[@alishamccoy4213]

I found this so odd as well. He doesn’t even mention his interview with Zay. So strange. I was shocked when I saw this interview as a suggestion after watching the interview with Cole.

[@Alumnia91]

@@alishamccoy4213 Same here. It is so odd. I feel like he is just hanging onto whoever comes to the podcast and swoons over them. I am so far ahead in this episode and not once did they mention Cole (by name).

[@Evie534]

Yup, I just watched his interview with Cole and he’s so fake (the interviewer)

[@alisonzambrano9936]

I saw red flags in the interviewer during the Cole interview with him like kind of being all for the men & like “ you must have felt this way” & then I came to watch this interview and the interviewer is so fake I couldn’t keep watching

[@briannabouchard2884]

Cole talked so much about just life and being human and learning and growing with such a comfy vibe. She literally just talks about herself and how “high up” she is. She is such an uncomfy person.

[@Selene_777]

no wonder she can't find anyone to marry. once they get to know her people run away.

[@JS-wi9mw]

@@Selene_777 narcissist -- full blown :(

[@REHTAEHH3ATH3R]

I'm glad Cole didn't get stuck in a marriage with her. He deserves better!!! I don't think I am gonna listen to this interviewer again He reminds me of Vanessa interviewing Jackie and Josh 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@phlexcrew]

It’s called being a narcissist

[@hanaurbanova1348]

Yes!

[@janestorm9813]

I just rewatched the show from episode 1. It's SCARY how often she told him she loved him, he was the only guy for her etc but then CRUSHED him . She is calculating and malicious.

[@gostavoadolfos2023]

Nope she just was holding so much and all the things she couldn't communicate with him exploded in grudge and chose to be vindictive and in our arabic culture is perfectly positive. I ve been in a passionate relationship ship with a white girl with the same vibes as Cole and I paid her way worse than Zainab did to Cole.

[@chisuwochabu250]

Cole really dodged a bullet with this one

[@cadavher]

Definitely ankle breaker move lol. I'm so glad he can move onto better!

[@escapingsociety8139]

So true! She's more than a handful.

[@libertad438]

BIG ONE BIPOLAR CRAZY BULLET

[@cadavher]

@@libertad438 man, I've known a few bipolar people and she is 10000000000x worse. She's more borderline than bipolar, complete wackadoodle.

[@avarmauk]

Dodged a nuclear bomb

[@HeyTiki]

I feel like the personality of the interviewer completely changed for this interview. The interview with Cole felt real (filmed after this one) while this felt completely fake starting from the surface-level questions to the tone of the voice, the way he’s looking at her, and body posture.

[@katiehe7422]

Spot on

[@michaeldeal3786]

I thought the same.. he seems uncomfortable and the questions were just generic.

[@user-fw2md6ru6n]

I’ve been emotionally (and physically but that’s a different story) abused and it pisses me off to no end for her to act like she’s advocating for women experiencing verbal abuse or something. In that relationship dynamic his comments could come across as micro aggressions but it was very clear that Cole was super oblivious and had never had someone explain to him the sensitivity around food for people with body insecurities. It’s not his fault she’s traumatized from bullying or whatever it is that makes her hyper sensitive to that subject. It’s not his fault she didn’t communicate a damn thing and went to sleep next to him every night like it was fine. This interviewer is a social chameleon and I won’t be tuning in again, super cringey to watch him agree with this narcissist and pet her ego after agreeing with Cole the entire time.

[@brittrosado5230]

Exactly!! She’s dramatic af!

[@agapiicollective]

I 100% agree with you, I have also been through abusive relationships, and am disgusted by how she has appointed her self as some hero, speaking on behalf of women. It is very hard for women who have actually encountered abuse, to see a woman like Z manipulating the narrative. What's even more disturbing is the interviewer supporting her toxic patterns, lies, manipulation and behavior. So upsetting.

[@KayossPlays]

This is exactly the way to put it- that she's advocating for victims when she is victimizing herself. She needs to fess up because she's being fake af her being 'proud of herself' please.

[@gostavoadolfos2023]

This is just a cultural issue, don't read much to it. As an Arab like her I get her point and VENGEANCE doesn't have a negative connotation like in American culture. She chose vengeance and her dignity over some unrealistic idea about love as painted by the media and unhappy marriage. All my arab friends are on her side and all white friends were against her. Surprisingly my female black friends were against her but the males were with her.

[@Ruk15]

As a person , who actually experienced a very abusive partner , it makes me furious to watch Zaneb lie about what happened to her, she is toxic and set out to hurt Cole in the most brutalising way and no Zaneb women don’t connect with you and if you inspired women around the world , that is a frightening statement god help us

[@karladacosta]

This feels like he signed a contract beforehand for no harsh questions to get her on the interview. This is just a huge “lets feed the narcissist’s ego” interview

[@natashaadee]

Zenab and amber heard would make great friends

[@zzanelle12]

Funny enough they’re both ARIES

[@thebestofnations]

@@zzanelle12 On behalf of the Nation of Aries, we unequivocally disown, disinherit and outright reject the aforementioned creatures.

[@DD-zp1xs]

@@zzanelle12 oh!! I'm Aries and I see right through both of these women....but then again, I'm not histrionic....which they clearly are. Zodiac signs mean nada.

[@zzanelle12]

@@thebestofnations 😂

[@veronicarios567]

😂😂😂

[@Jenzzx3]

I can’t imagine anyone wanting to marry her … looks aren’t all that matter. How you treat others and having some sense of humor is beautiful.

[@eh1126]

She said in the earlier episodes that no man ever approaches her. Now the whole world knows why 😅

[@silviaraquel827]

5:46 in and I'm out. Cole's interview was actually really interesting and made me respect him even more for how positively he approaches the entire situation and has used it to propel further growth. Even though he was asked tough questions and realizes she has issues and lied, he was never unkind in how he spoke of her which says so much. Even with these superficial questions I just have a hard time believing what she says and frankly don't care to waste 25 more minutes listening.

[@anamariaanayacovarrubias8722]

Me too. I'm out of it. Minute 1:40

[@faithhouses6725]

Zanab is a brutal future husband beater!!! By the way she tore into Cole at the wedding and the reunion episodes of Love is Blind.... this man hater has no place in America's heart. She is blinded to the fact she is heartless because this woman plays victim ever chance she gets. She can turn a perfectly happy day into a dreary miserable toxic day.

[@escapingsociety8139]

You are spot on. We all know people like her.

[@plantsforlife1120]

Kissing up to the guest, 101!!!! Nothing challenging for growth and positive self reflection. He seems totally oblivious to Zanab’s negative energy towards her relationship with Cole.

[@BeliiSpii]

I feel bad for whoever ends up with her. That person better know how to navigate around eggshells and keep a camera on her at all times. This narcissist/gaslighter is the type to put an innocent person in jail if you piss her off cause we know she’s more than willing to lie.

[@chismewithmel9850]

Came here straight after Cole interview & I’m disappointed! I was hoping he would hold her accountable

[@alicetoyou448]

I’m five minutes in, and I hope he asks her a real question. Just compliments so far.

[@saiprasannabaskaran9038]

10 mins in, still nothing

[@mphmrevemoernbwo2733]

SERIOUSLY. He's literally just riding her 20 minutes in and acting like she does no wrong. This interview is lame.

[@Jenzzx3]

Yea the fact he said he’s team zae … bye

[@jeans0130]

I think zanab publicist gave them the talking points and the interviewer can only asks certain questions.

[@alicetoyou448]

@@jeans0130 true but he acted like a total sycophant, which wouldn’t be required. I mean, she’s a beautiful woman (physically), and he was pretty much drooling.

[@Alumnia91]

I came here after the Cole interview, and I feel... suffocated. Like everything has to be fluffy and light and nice, just the way Zanab wishes to be seen. In the Cole interview you asked the hard hitting questions while in this one I feel like you were told is that all you can do is have a superficial small talk with a superficial person who is afraid to not be seen as someone 100% perfect in whatever scenario she puts herself in. I am 21 minutes in from 31 and this feeling of tension, "must keep it light and easy" feels like this interview is just a PR piece to try to make Zanab look more relaxed and cheerful and trying to support this with the upbeat easy listening pop music almost being louder than the people talking.

[@cuteshaybay]

I can't even hear the interview, the music is so loud

[@tarynriver]

@@cuteshaybayit’s so distracting

[@jcffam]

Facts!!

[@kaylalee3577]

THIS!! My literal exact thoughts. Cole is so real and Zanab is fake and delusional. I don’t think she actually even knows she’s fake.

[@yesenia318]

Yesss I agree!! I feel he was more honest with Cole & seemed to side with Cole then all of a sudden he’s team “zay” like how??

[@angiem1704]

I think both made mistakes. The only difference is that Cole has accountability and insight. Zainab doesn't take any responsability.

[@Talkr.Media.]

Thanks for watching, would you like for us to interview Cole next? if so, please take a post from our IG and tag us along with Cole so that we can get it done!

[@GG-ug9hd]

@@Talkr.Media. the interviewer is fake and bias .. so we don’t want to see him interview anyone anymore because we can’t take him serious

[@kaylalee3577]

How are you Team Zay? I just watched your Cole interview and it really seems you’re Team Cole (as you should)…

[@GG-ug9hd]

Interviewer is a joke and fake AF

[@halasayasneh5043]

It is a very bad idea to play music during the interview. super annoying

[@Talkr.Media.]

Thank you for the tip! We will take it out or turn it down! 🙏🏻

[@tee462]

@@Talkr.Media. please take it out.

[@zunyldajones]

All the other interviews don't have music playing through the whole interview....they did this to make it bareble to watch because it's cringe 😬 with this narcissistic lady

[@escapingsociety8139]

@@Talkr.Media. I understand the need for music, it takes the focus off her basic superficial word salad. She's cringe and needs help to be likable.

[@jennifergravitt7872]

I definitely agree. I felt like I was on hold with customer service. No hate, @Talk'R, just some honest feedback.

[@TPLeatherworks]

This is a masterclass in how to simp for a gaslighter

[@angellasabaoth4435]

My Theory : Zanabs manager told the interviewer not to ask any questions whatsoever about Cole and to make Zanab look good in the interview because 1) He NEVER asks about cole directly or in depth 2) He purposely goes out of his way to paint Zanab in the most positive light Managers money is affected by the reputation of their clients i.e brand deals etc

[@brianandkiran5045]

This was hard to watch. Came here after watching the Cole interview, and see that the interviewer flip flops his stance completely. He was quite negative about Zanab when talking to Cole, but this interview was all fluffy questions and he was so "understanding" of everything she did on the show all of a sudden. I couldn't care less if he is Team Zae or Team Cole, but it immediately takes away all credibility when he changes his take on the situation so drastically depending on which one of the two is in front of him. It felt similar to Brennan being a completely different person when on the reunion show.

[@HealthEri]

The interviewer was scared of Zenab that she is going accuse him degrading her if he asks her hard questions….lol. He was so soft on her.

[@wobley75]

She’s crazy. Miserable and toxic. I don’t like her at all. 🙄😤 I loved Cole. #teamcole

[@no_regerts5176]

You’re crazy. Zay is hot.

[@juliaalonzo5998]

Guys run away as far as you can from this woman.

[@madinahnabasirye2617]

🤣🤣

[@otraxo]

This lady has real issues with her emotions - she planned the whole wedding BS with her friends with all the clapping/cheering. She could have easily told them to not be disrespectful but she didn't. Interviewer really should have called out the negative cra she pulled and asked why she felt it necessary to rip a person apart at a "wedding ceremony". Guess this channel is desperate to get interviews but with fluff and niceties...

[@judithwithlov3]

I didn't even bother to watch tbh. The way I felt watching her on " Love Is Blind" is still the same trigger even by a picture....plain frustrating. I did watch Coles episode. That man as been through a lot by her and yes, he definitely admits there is some things he could have worded better etc...Cole takes accountability. After what this woman did to him, Cole still chooses to speak highly and positively of her even with her faults. Cause oh man we all see it and she doesn't. Cole brought an entire new meaning to how to forgive and let go with love. IT CAN BE DONE WITHOUT BASHING THE OTHER PERSON. HUMANITY AT IT'S FINEST. May God bless her and purify her and make new on Jesus name.

[@briannabouchard2884]

“I don’t think you’re a bad guy and that I did love him” yet she literally has said he’s a terrible person 😂

[@s.melonita4454]

It's the lack of real accountability for me. Also: When you have a baby you can sometimes turn into a Zanab, temporarily, because it's such a tough job, especially in the beginning... but her hidden hostility is already on such a level, I can't imagine what sleep-deprived, delirious, mountains of laundry and diapers-Zanab will turn into. She'll have her reality check just like any human, ever.

[@melty17]

Omg so true! Speaking as a mom of 2 under 2, that is honestly so scary to think about for her

[@s.melonita4454]

@@melty17 I have twins, so I feel you 💀🤣

[@safas6718]

Wow, this woman has zero accountability. You're not a villain but if eleven thousand people see something wrong, it's time to self reflect mam..

[@Rosyrose101]

You need to stfu and go show support in a Cole video. This man was toxic, rude, immature and he faked cried ONCE and you're acting like Zanab didn't have a reason for the way she was feeling gtfoh with that b.s

[@safas6718]

@@Rosyrose101 oh no you have single handedly shattered my self confidence with that comment. 💀 Girl bye

[@safas6718]

@@Rosyrose101 also you're completely missing the point. No one thinks that cole is innocent and even his supporters think he was an immature manchild with a nasty toilet. They were BOTH toxic and flawed. HOWEVER he has self-reflected, admitted his many mistakes apologized AND taken accountability for his actions, all things this woman is apparently allergic to.

[@Rosyrose101]

@@safas6718 he legit asked her if she's mental with a smirk on his face. Is he a psychologist who diagnosed her for months? No. He was far worst than her, he's a low vibration moron who faked cried once and you're falling for it. In his ig he's laughing, dancing and being the most because this experiment was not traumatizing for him at all. He got away with alot. I'm tired of the excuses for him and the sudden amnesia some women are getting. This guy is not even a real man or a decent human being for all this 🙄

[@nickeeanderson630]

For real.

[@dharmajunkie1990]

Has anyone checked in on this guy to make sure he was okay after this interview? Did he pass out?? It's just that he's so far up her ass and I can't imagine there's very much oxygen in there....😂 But to be real, this was a terrible 'interview'... The questions he asks seem like they were collected from a note passed around class by 5th graders (ie: "Do you like older men? - check yes or no") - I really don't think anyone was curious if Zainab would be willing to date someone who works at 'Jack in the box' (or the dozen other dating preference questions he felt it was necessary to ask her). There are ways be respectful, while still asking real questions that are relevant to her behavior and what we saw on the show. I really don't know what this was, but it was just outright weird and difficult to watch.

[@escapingsociety8139]

I loved every aspect about your comment. 🤣🤣🤣🤣☺️

[@AshwinRamdin]

The guy is a simp.

[@quentinbrown3373]

L interview he was afraid to ask the real questions smh and telling her she's perfect is what keeps her from taking accountability

[@anda.91]

This feels like I’m watching THEM on a blind date.

[@Pryjole]

Zanab: “You destroyed my self esteem but I don’t regret you. You’re a disgusting piece of shit but I love you. You’re a HORRIBLE person, I can’t stand you but I would do this all over again. It’s ok Cole, I forgive you. You’re not a bad person. You ruined me." She's still narcissistic and has continued to post jabs at Cole on her IG like a child. Ew.

[@alikhan5813]

Yes, she should have behaved like a pick me obedient girl who should have said yes at the altar despite his family saying she was not the type of girl (meaning: not white) they saw cole being with and also refused to be at the wedding.

[@Pryjole]

@@alikhan5813 No one is saying that, so that is a pretty dumb comment.

[@57andstillkicking]

@@alikhan5813 They didn’t mean non-white.

[@Talkr.Media.]

Would you like for us to interview Cole next? Take a post from our IG and tag us along with Cole so that we can get it done!

[@pearlosibu]

@@alikhan5813 no one said that don’t be silly.

[@pearlosibu]

Her joy when she was reporting how her exes parents asked what she was doing with him. That must’ve really made her happy. Has zero self-awareness.

[@nickeeanderson630]

Ya pretty gross. That’s not a flex.

[@supremercommonder]

His family was racist they didn’t even want to meet her he even said I go for lilys not zaynabs

[@escapingsociety8139]

@@supremercommonder how does not meeting her equate to them being racists? He specifically stated that the family did not approve of the experiment of love is blind and the quick process of it all to get married. You clearly have a victim mentality similar to Zanab.

[@supremercommonder]

@@escapingsociety8139 They didn’t want to meet the fiancé because she was not what they wanted. They followed her on social media and never engaged. If they didn’t give her a chance it clearly did to race. Like chole said I normally go for lilys and not zaynabs meaning he goes for white girls not middle easten/south Asian girls. It kinda adds up with the way he was being aswell.

[@pearlosibu]

@@supremercommonder I don’t know how to respond. You have everything wrong. Good luck.

[@nataliefrancis5520]

Ahhhh common man! I thought you would keep it real with her - there’s a way you can stay true to your beliefs without disrespecting your guest

[@ilainnava4601]

I think she just wants to be more popular, no matter what hated or loved! But honestly she is annoying, she does not represent women who speak up to defend herself, she offended, abused and assumed things that were not true just to blame another for her distorted idea of ​​reality….yes team Cole!!! He looks more real to me and really hurt …😢 Thanks to this easy busy girl

[@Talkr.Media.]

Thanks for watching, would you like for us to interview Cole next? if so, please take a post from our IG and tag us along with Cole so that we can get it done!

[@sujatabose7983]

LOL - she thinks she was gracious and kind. She needs a lot of help. Shows sign of borderline personality. Also, why is she running around giving interviews while Cole stays out of the public eye, which just looks much classier.

[@Maria-gd6fz]

Is because that's what narcissist do, they go around doing whatever to take everybody's attention to fill up their emptiness

[@sujatabose7983]

@@Maria-gd6fz And to your point - she's already done another Tiktok interview today...ridiculous. Hopefully this narc fades into oblivion soon and people stop giving her a platform

[@Maria-gd6fz]

@@sujatabose7983 woww she has no shame 🤦‍♀️

[@alikhan5813]

Lmao Zanab is not a narcissist. Cole has been very active on his social media as well and has given interviews that are just not published on youtube yet.

[@sujatabose7983]

@@alikhan5813 Sure if you want to call her borderline vs. narc, I'd be fine with that. She definitely sees reality through a different filter. As for Cole's social media, seems to me like he is living his life while she is still wallowing in her victimhood. As a fellow South Asian, I really wanted to root for her. But after what I saw, I just couldn't. I really hope she gets the therapy she needs. As for these unpublished interviews, where's your evidence? One of the people who interviewed Zanab and others says he reached out to Cole for an interview but he never responded. I think he's wisely just getting on with his life.

[@LaShawnDenise]

Lol Z is an absolute gorgeous girl but she has zero self awareness and accountability.

[@childoftime9964]

I'd prefer an interview with Cole. I loved him

[@Talkr.Media.]

Take a post from our IG and tag us along with Cole so that we can get it done!

[@Rosyrose101]

Then go watch him 🙄

[@childoftime9964]

@@Rosyrose101 I will once they interview him

[@janett8052]

janet t 0 seconds ago She clearly cannot take criticism but wants to play like she’s so confident. Girly we all saw you on the show. The slightest comment shakes you to your core 😅

[@Talkr.Media.]

Thanks for watching, would you like for us to interview Cole next? if so, please take a post from our IG and tag us along with Cole so that we can get it done!

[@destinymayotte1950]

She screams insecure. You cannot rely on other people for your own happiness. She's unhappy with herself that's why she's looking for someone to love her for her.

[@veronicaguaman8206]

93 likes out of 13k views! That says it all! Zanab is just Amber Heard's sequel.

[@cisi3447]

Just came from the Cole interview, I’m a minute and 30 seconds into this one and I’m not even gonna finish it . The comments told me all I needed to 👎🏽

[@vanessaflores9703]

I just saw the Cole interview before this and can’t get through more than 5min. So cringy how the interviewer seems fake, switching sides. As an interviewer it’s best to stay objective and neutral if you can’t project your opinions in a respectful manner.

[@dwise2165]

I hope she gets help. She seriously needs therapy.

[@Apachita]

A strange choice of where to speak out. Is this a family member she is talking to? The music in the background has no purpose and is annoying as F.

[@Talkr.Media.]

Thank you for the tips!

[@Beriabi]

A literal definition of a narcissist. The interviewer is a pro in how to handle one. A narcissist can’t take criticism .

[@mpro9446]

She’s not a narcissist yall be using that term wayyy too loosely 😂

[@alikhan5813]

cole is the narcissist if any one has to be called one

[@Rosyrose101]

@@alikhan5813 thank you!

[@Evie534]

@@mpro9446I can’t stand how people throw around the word “narcissist.” Everyone is a narcissist these days, when truthfully only a very small percentage of the population are narcissists.

[@misspiggy903]

Narcissist

[@missld6856]

Zanab if you decide to date someone in their 30’s as well they might have kids too lol. People don’t only have kids if they’re in their 40’s.

[@bexxgenx3165]

She's turned out to be the toxic weirdo in the in. Like meeting with Cole's ex wife...like WTF??

[@escapingsociety8139]

She did that to get dirt on him to build herself up. The fact they both met up is cringe and says everything we need to know about them.

[@Lubbylove89]

"I value my private life." Yet, went on one of the most watched dating shows ever lmao. I will never understand this girl.

[@GG-ug9hd]

She’s so damn fake and beyond mentally ill

[@escapingsociety8139]

She wants people on her side, she's the ultimate victim

[@CourtJesterJorge]

Yikes. Watching this after the watching the interview with Cole. My friend, pick a lane…. Otherwise you’re just kissing ass to whoever you interview and taking journalistic integrity with it. I don’t mean any disrespect, but there seemed to be a lot of contradictions between what you said in your interviews.

[@Evie534]

YUP

[@bottyjoseph2664]

Him: I'm definitely team zay Her: we hope so, im on your couch

[@alishamccoy4213]

Why didn’t you mention any of this interview when you interviewed Cole? So strange.

[@Evie534]

I find the interviewer so odd - just watched Cole’s interview and not once does he mention this interview.

[@Maria-gd6fz]

This girl is so unbelievable and the interviewer is just filling up her big ego, the good and great was the real point that made her to get out all her narcissistic behavior because sex is a big arm that narcissist use to control their victim, the Colleen thing was only an excuse that she took on her advantage to make people feel sorry for her

[@Talkr.Media.]

Should we interview Cole?! Please take a post from our IG and tag us along with Cole!

[@Maria-gd6fz]

@@Talkr.Media. was this even an interview? Out of the moment when you said you are married the whole time seems like you are trying to hit on her🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️

[@Joshow313]

All talk. Her ex should come forward. I bet he has stories for days.

[@berlizgonzalez6736]

One thing I took from this interview: Interviewer: You're a 10! Zanab: Thank you! That's all I've ever wanted!! Zanab: Parents love me!! She was obviously offended when Cole said she was a 9. And honestly not everyone is a 10 and that's ok! But she truly believes she's the hottest and baddest and needs you to know that. She's not humble at all. She's beautiful but her attitude comes off as arrogant. She said parents love her but the relationship between two people is very different than one of parents. Intimitae relationships are very challenging. I hope she does good work in therapy

[@kunalshah3949]

She’s the worst no doubt…but no women would be cool with being called a “9” and her friends being called “10”s. That’s not arrogance, that’s just basic sense lol.

[@childoftime9964]

She's definitely not a 10, even 9 is too generous. I'd say 7.5-8

[@berlizgonzalez6736]

@@kunalshah3949 she wasn't talking about her other friends when the interviewer said she was a 10. He wasn't comparing her to anyone. She just wanted someone to acknowledge that she was indeed a 10...to me that's arrogance

[@kunalshah3949]

@@berlizgonzalez6736 no it wasn’t like that…at the end of the day anyone in general wants their partner to feel they are a 10 in their eyes. It’s an extremely stupid thing she did asking cole to rate her in the first place. The interviewer was calling her a 10 in a holistic sense…and everyone wants their partner that they will marry to see them that way…does that make sense? You wouldn’t want the dude you’re going to marry to say you’re a 9 but your friend is a 10. that’s all there is to it for this particular thing. She is no doubt arrogant and egotistical in general…but for this particular point it’s not toxic.

[@mpro9446]

@@kunalshah3949 yes this 👏

[@JimDoveMO]

I assume you needed to refrain from asking Zanab the tough questions in order to get her to come on your pod cast but I feel like you sold yourself. Your interview with Cole was all about the show but you barely asked anything about her and Cole. I want to know what she thought after actually watching herself in the cuties scene? Team Zae, 10 out of 10, really? What a kiss ass. You're not going to build your follower base by playing it safe or playing both sides of the fence.

[@marieingadassamy9220]

Thé interviewer is So Bad … he asked no deep question… smh

[@itsdaej]

I came here for hard hitting questions and got none. I wanted to know how she’s changed and got none of that 😔

[@kunalshah3949]

This dude is pretty annoying. He talks about love and how people just want to be negative, like as if people are against this girl for no reason, when he is literally sitting across from negativity incarnate. Like sure give yourself props and celebrate your strengths, but not acknowledging or taking any responsibility for your own part played is pathetic. Was not team cole the entire time until the reunion. This interviewer says all of this stuff, but he would be instantly regretful. No one was toxic towards her. Coke was the wrong guy for her, she should’ve bowed out and left instead of keeping it going and building her insecurities and resentment 🙄

[@kunalshah3949]

I can’t stand his voice and everything he says to appease her. He is the worst. But I do appreciate him getting her to talk about why she waited so long.

[@lexcpop]

I also just watched the Cole episode he just did and it seems he just flatters whoever sits in the seat. No authenticity.

[@ann_dreaaa]

The music in the back is so annoying 😭🤣 I can’t finish the video cause it feels like it’s a intro that never ends

[@mikaelaskalberg3640]

Team Zanab…must say you sounded more Team Cole just now when I watched that interview….😏

[@my-therapist]

Zay need two things: 1. Ongoing Intense therapy. 2. The perfect “AI-man” - when she says jumóp, it literally does it before it knows how high.

[@ZionsDaughta]

Nope. Watched the Cole interview first and I can't believe how you switched up on Cole in this interview 😪

[@ilainnava4601]

And the way of treating someone whom she supposedly loves are facts of her real way of being, not how she wants to show herself now

[@thewishjar2241]

Team Cole!

[@alikhan5813]

Team Zanab

[@Talkr.Media.]

Thanks for watching, would you like for us to interview Cole next? if so, please take a post from our IG and tag us along with Cole so that we can get it done!

[@thewishjar2241]

@@Talkr.Media. I am sure Cole is more mature than that.

[@michealrosen]

She's a horrible person, controlling, manipulative, cold, the shit she pulled was tragic

[@Magicmattattack]

This is a weird interview,,,im so dissapointed in the interviewer

[@suzettevalenzuela3804]

He didnt even ask the questions we’ve been needing the answer to. And when she said “tried to be very nice up there” (at the alter) oh please 🙄

[@kokofinest1]

Narcissists, people feed off negative energy.

[@plantsforlife1120]

Brother wants a date!

[@pineappleice100]

Background music for an interview? Why?

[@pearlosibu]

I swear I do not know.

[@lancebollens3244]

The damage of the show is more interesting than the show itself

[@SIAHTHAGOD]

just read the comments, no one believes you zaniab.....

[@sharvezdowe4299]

She was wrong. He was not right for her, but did nothing wrong

[@horrormoviescreamqueen13]

She was my least favorite woman on this season.... I didn't like her vibes. Plus I enjoyed the cole interview more

[@macie8571]

Honey you are 31. Look within. Dating is not that hard when you have your head screwed on straight.

[@bobococo89]

Yes!!!!!

[@Aiiverene]

I think he hosted both parties very respectfully, and I think that the guest should always be comfortable no matter what the host personal opinion is.

[@橋田マリアベリア]

I just say that it’s scary to be with her in a relationship, maybe there’s something about her past or in her childhood , you know when you’re still a kid if you were hurt it will remained a deep scar in kids heart till she or he grow up and that’s affect her behavior towards other people especially in relationship, good for Cole that he doesn’t end up with her , he doesn’t deserve to be with her , that’s my opinion , we all have different kinds of views bout this drama

[@helenleong9081]

How can you be Team Zae when you can see how badly she treated Cole. I couldn't finish watching this interview. Sick!

[@pearlosibu]

You’re not that private or you wouldn’t go on the show.

[@juste1454]

That background music is way too loud and distracting

[@MissRubiness]

All I want to say is... It is important to create deep connections with your partner and giving out negative comments every 10 minutes isn't going to be good. In a lasting relationship, it is important to provide positive comments and compliments more than negative ones. Good thing she is single now. She needs time for herself and figure out what she is really looking for. And Cole was just too immature for her, too. He needs someone who can also just joke around with. And if she finds herself dating again, she needs to find a mature man.

[@niktenavarro1641]

So if someone works in McDonalds they can’t have a family and provide for them? 😂😂🙄🙄

[@Alumnia91]

Yeah quite classist.

[@jordans2177]

Dudes tryna score points 😅

[@user-ro4xk7nt8m]

No. When you said "I'm team Zay, 10 out of 10"... I stopped watching. Your interview with Cole was so much better but you told him you were on his side. So who's side are you really on?!

[@user-nc2fk1jy8l]

What’s up with this notion of ‘meet me at my level or up’??? I don’t get it when people say this. It’s so weird for so many reasons: 1. Why should that person be the ‘up’ person? Why can’t you be that person? If everyone said this, no one would meet anyone 2. What do you mean- just financial? Is financial top priority? Maybe they are better than you at being kind or thoughtful or calm- maybe that’s their up? I’m so sorry but she sounds a bit confused. And I think this unfortunately is a result of not having a framework. There’s no framework so people are just doing their own thing with their own ideas. And because everyone is doing this, people are struggling! Because who is to say what is right or wrong! It’s just confusing and, I’m sorry if this sounds patronising, but I feel sorry for western women. I say this as a British Pakistani Muslim woman living in the UK. I am so proud of my religion and how it sets, for us, a framework. We know the role of men and women in a marriage. The woman does not have to give half of her income. She needs to give nothing of her income! Nothing at all and he can never ask her for it. She can give it if she wants but it’s entirely her choice. But then we accept that our husband is the man and leader in the relationship. It seems western woman want a ‘man’ but then want total equality too- how hard that is to achieve for a man. It seems controlling and expecting too much. Btw unfortunately, now this modern 50,50 culture is affecting a lot of Muslims too in the west. The men like to adopt it- and this by itself, shows that this modern feminist 50,50 stuff actually works in favour of the men, not the women!

[@DivinityinLove]

To be fair if you want to follow a framework where the man is automatically the leader just because he has a penis and then you will probably judge him if he doesn't match up to your expectations of a male and this all makes you happy, that is fine. However feeling sorry for western women and their 50/50 ethos, you have to consider that people also feel sorry for eastern women who believe they need a man to lead them and cannot lead themselves or be independent and then get trapped in toxic relationships with men and their huge egoes fed by their traditional religious ideas created by MEN BTW. I find it quite sickening but each to their own. Having a framework is a good idea, sure, but this framework is to be worked out by each individual for themselves and not by other people for them. Nobody knows what someone else needs in a relationship. So to me it sounds like you're also pretty confused. Many of us are very happy with our self defined roles in our equal partnerships where we are guided by our own minds and hearts and don't put men on a pedestal based on nothing evidential, only history books edited by men. It's a very silly ideology you present your judgment with. Doesn't provide any wisdom against the confusion you're challenging amongst westerners. Most importantly, at least western women are free unlike eastern and Muslim girls and women around the world abused based on this ideology of yours around men and their "leadership" and unearned superiority. First judge the problems of your own eastern philosophies and how they imprison women and destroy their lives before trying to present it as a better alternative to the west's dysfunction. In no way does it compare lol. We have charities trying to HELP trapped enslaved women from the east, not the other way around.

[@user-nc2fk1jy8l]

@@DivinityinLove Hi, a few points: 1. Of course you can feel sorry for us. We can all have our own opinion. 2. Do western women really get 50,50? I I know many western women that pay 50 per cent but still do most of the household chores, like the cooking, cleaning and taking care of the kids. The 50,50 idea sounds great, but in reality, does that really happen? in reality, can it work? 3. Even if your husband/partner does do 50 per cent of the chores and pays 50%, can he ever get pregnant, can he ever go through the hardships of pregnancy and labour? Can he take 50% of that? How does that work? How do western women with this 50,50 notion of life make their partner share 50% of that? 4. We don't respect our husbands or allow him to lead because of his anatomy. In fact, if for whatever reason, he lost that part of his anatomy, we would still give him that role. And we do this because we believe in our creator, who created men and women and gives us instruction on the best way to live. I think He knows better that you and I. And just because you have has grouped all religions as one, i.e. man-made, doesn't mean it is true. Our religion, Islam and our book, the Quran, is from Allah, God. I would advise you to read it. I think you will realise how it is not the same as the other religions you might be aware of. I think you will be surprised by the rights our religion gives us. I understand that you many think our religion oppresses us because some of our men pick and choose and abuse the women. But that isn't because they follow our religion- but in contrast, it's because they don't. We had rights to inheritance and our money 1400 years before the West ever decided to give these rights.

[@misscrystalnicole6897]

@@DivinityinLovejust wow! Literally in love with everything you said . You said it so perfectly ! Thank you , I admire you.

[@marcelacastillo3259]

Wtf I saw the interview with cole and you literally were on his side and talking down about Zanab. And here you’re saying you’re team zanab and that she’s a perfect 10. Wtf be authentic. No one likes fake

[@dzenanabarrett8638]

Regardless if you are team Zay or Cole this episode is very important. It gives us insight that both people are HUMAN. We all saw a small glimpse of their relationship. The interview is right “people feed off of negative energy”. Remember that there is no perfection. There will always be negative comments. Let’s all just try to be kind! Great episode 🙌🏻

[@Talkr.Media.]

Should we get Cole on for an interview??

[@purplefiggs]

@@Talkr.Media. yes 100% !

[@Delt4_Cr4wfish]

@@Talkr.Media. ya zay is human trash, she the reason men dont want a relationship. She gaslit him the entire time. He deserves to talk.

[@baristabarbie362]

Bro this is the opposite of what you said with Cole. I’m so confused.

[@saritaalles9396]

This interviewer is so fishy. Not authentic, meeming to have either Cole's or Zanab's back depending on who is sitting opposite of him. I'd rather have him stay neutral and not pick a side at all or otherwise ask challenging questions to both of them, not just Cole.

[@TheTruth-rc4mj]

Cole is a genuine guy and was twisted out of shape not just by Zanab but by Netflix itself. Cole, fun-loving, wears his heart on his sleeve, walked into a perfect storm of manipulative Netflix producers exploiting deep emotional insecurity issues Zanab put on full display the moment they faced each other physically. I hope she gets a huge does of self-awareness - and she owes him a massive public apology for lying about him on multiple occasions - a typical 'me too' approach where someone is publicly accused without non-public trial (like Cliff Richard). Despicable. Cole's self-awareness that he was a bit immature and unwise in some of the things he said is fully realised and he's learned (just watch his other interviews on YT) but I cannot say the same for Zanab. As for Netflix, deceitful editing ... disgusting.

[@MyAlterEgoAngel]

Bruh so fakeeee...his interview with Cole is so contradictory

[@alicetoyou448]

I want someone to ask her why she’s never lived with a boyfriend in her 32 years (which she said at the reunion). It’s not a celibacy thing, so…that’s pretty bizarre.

[@dazedconfuseds]

It's not odd. Some people would rather marry than playhouse. Some like to find out who their other half is by living with them before marry. Each to their own

[@dzenanabarrett8638]

A lot of people don’t want to live together until they get married.

[@alicetoyou448]

@@dazedconfuseds it would have done her some good - she’s cruel and controlling to live with

[@mpro9446]

Don’t know if this applies to zanab but in some cultures it’s taboo to live together before marriage regardless of age 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@alicetoyou448]

@@mpro9446 I saw that part of the reunion again (prob on Dr. Honda’s channel) and she specifically said she has just never been serious enough with someone to live with them. Her longest relationship in life was two years, which to me seems short as someone in her age range. It’s a significant relationship, but for that to be the longest…I don’t know that’s kinda weird. Less than two years means you haven’t gone through significant, serious stuff most likely, haven’t talked engagement or marriage, haven’t lived together (as she said), and are often still in a honeymoon phase. It seems like guys run from her pretty quick. It’s definitely enough time to fall in love, but I don’t know if it’s enough time to really go through all the ups and downs, times you feel so close and times you have to work out problems. I might be biased because my serious relationships were eight years and now six years, and I’m around her age.

[@jessicaj2017]

She’s a crazy person

[@rajaeitis2760]

Background music is so annoying

[@Talkr.Media.]

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