Love Languages

[@DanielFernandez-jv7jx]

Thank you gentlemen for setting such a heartfelt and genuine example of vulnerability, sharing, insight and listening. Please continue to be the role models our community so badly needs❣

[@enzomthethwa5861]

@1:01:01 "Ohh... I'm so glad you came. Here... And everywhere else!" - Calan 2023 🤣

[@randallkreun64]

This does explain some things about my relationship now. Thanks. This is remarkable. I haven't experience men talking like this.

[@ascott2168]

This was sooo great guys ! Touch, quality time and acts of service are my love languages 💘💘 …yall are so attractive btw 🤩🤩

[@enzomthethwa5861]

@37:00 OMG Michael. Same. Same! SAME!!! I have gone through the same journey as a gay man, and I rebel too when I find myself falling into that people-pleasing tendency! My favorite people are those who let me be my authentic self, and I cannot do that in my hometown.

[@Scar-jg4bn]

Physical touch and quality time hands down. 😊

[@singst1]

Quality time guy, here - even just a phone call!

[@darrenj-xo1zu]

Just found these guys, love their chat and energy and listening to their advice, it's like having a big hug everytime I tune in. Big hug guys keep up the good work. Darren J London England 🇬🇧

[@GayMenGoingDeeper]

Thanks Darren, that’s really sweet 🥰🙏

[@gw6482]

So, for me, first is quality time, then words of affirmation, physical touch, acts of service, and very far behind gifts. I’m surprised because both times that I took the test I got similar results and I thought that physical touch was more important to me, and it is, but maybe not as much. I love giving quality time, I’m also very pleasing physically, and acts of service and words are important for me to offer but they may not be as special to me, they are more routine. Thanks for a fantastic episode and for sharing, I love getting to know you all. X

[@GayMenGoingDeeper]

Thanks for sharing with us Gabe 🙏❤️

[@10-OSwords]

Mariah always knows: Touch My Body.

[@MarkusDoerr]

Another great episode! I always love the conversation. I love the idea of an episode about dating with integrity, it's something I try my best to practice - I would also love some real talk about when and how to use that block button, because not everyone is respectful or sensitive to boundaries when they are communicated. It can be especially complicated when a guy exists in multiple social circles & on various apps!

[@GayMenGoingDeeper]

Thank you. And noted ✅

[@sanskritinahata]

I love being chosen too Matt, and Micheal when you said the part about being a people pleaser and wanting quality time I felt so heard (quality time is my love language too); and I feel like how we recieve love can be influenced by our unmet needs in childhood and how we give love can be how we learnt to give love from our parents or our experience with loving them; and the sixth love language being a huge, juicy brain really hit home (my way of giving love is words of affirmations too so I have to comment:)

[@sanskritinahata]

*michael

[@sanskritinahata]

I really enjoyed this episode

[@GayMenGoingDeeper]

Thanks for sharing your experience of the episode. We’re glad it resonated 🤩❤️

[@kso808]

Great discussion! I personally like giving and receiving physical touch. I also like giving words of affirmation, especially to those I’ve only met online. Being a Piscean, I like to think of myself as a peacekeeper as well. This can manifest itself as wanting to pleasure someone and also elevating them to break down barriers.

[@GayMenGoingDeeper]

Thanks for tuning in and also sharing our perspective with us 🙏❤️

[@meropale]

I've never been in a meaningful relationship so maybe I'm taking the test wrong but acts or service came up as my top love language. This makes sense to me since I have always seen love as being more of an action than a feeling. Love and lust get confused a lot.

[@jdfsl8079]

Thank You

[@enzomthethwa5861]

Interesting how you guys keep specifying that quality time means "away from your phone". For me, it doesn't matter. My partner and I could be in separate rooms or in bed together while on our phones, and it would feel just as comforting to me as being present with each other. Just knowing that they are there and available is enough for me.

[@enzomthethwa5861]

My Top Love Languages Giving 1. Physical Touch 2. Words of Affirmation Receiving 1. Physical Touch 2. Quality Time I think the reason why gifts and acts of service were always low on my priority was because I grew up believing that I didn't have anything valuable to offer, i.e. money and skills. Therefore, I would rely on forms of love that were simple and cost me nothing. As an adult, I am slowly learning that I _am_ capable of doing valuable services for people, I don't need that much money to buy something nice for someone, and I am worthy, period. As a result, I've noticed that I've started to give gifts a lot more and do acts of service that I enjoy for my partner. They're still not #1, but they're much higher on the list now than they used to be. At the end of the day, I'm a simple guy. Just feed me and fuck me then I'm happy. 🥰

[@GayMenGoingDeeper]

Thanks for such a thorough and thoughtful share Enzo 🙏❤️

[@David-in6cw]

Calan, disfruto saber de ti. Me encanta el cabello pelirrojo debido al hecho de que la familia de mi madre era irlandesa y tenía dieciocho parientes. Mi favorito era el tío Joe, mis tías y tíos estaban esparcidos por todo Ca.

[@winnied87]

I see Matt, I click. 😂

[@GayMenGoingDeeper]

That’s cute ☺️

[@hoaiphongto609]

😍😍😍

[@enzomthethwa5861]

Mmm... Being seen and heard as a child. Oof... 😣

[@sanskritinahata]

Oh and the romanticization of a partner to music @mattlandsiedel