Loved or Admired: How do You Want to be Remembered?

Patrick Bet-David describes the difference between being loved, respected, and admired. Which of the three matters most to you? In this video, you will find out what you should be striving for.
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[@richhands5269]

My three favorite channels: Valuetainment, Stock Brotha, & How Money Works. Make my week complete. 🔥 🔥 🔥

[@IKEMENOsakaman]

As Kafka said it, “I’ve realized life is a masquerade party and I’ve been showing up as myself”

[@tim3tRav3l3RR60]

Mmmmm...truth

[@torstenbeck640]

Yea but his myself was already a masquerade...

[@TonyMoze]

Wow

[@jeffstumpf9129]

Franz was a party animal?

[@alextapia5537]

Beautiful 😮 mind blown

[@YankeeStacking]

I want to be ADMIRED primarily for my LOVE of others (John 13:35). I’ve learned this over 57 years of life.

[@anthonyimbasciani]

This video truly hits home a year and a half ago, I wish I had this wisdom. I navigated through Hell, emerged stronger, and became a more aware man. After 9 years of marriage and 4 kids, I almost lost it all. It took pulling myself out of the fog and fighting for my life and marriage. Men, it’s time to execute your aspirations - your wife believes in you. Your kids want to see you lead and do great things. Thanks, Pat, for your impactful work. Wishing you, your family, and team a blessed New Year!

[@brandongaribaldo798]

Thank you Anthony !!!

[@thetruthwithproof8802]

( Isaiah 5:20 ) ➜ Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter! ( Proverbs 17:15 ) ➜ He who justifies the wicked and he who condemns the righteous are both alike an abomination to the Lord ( Exodus 22:2 ) ➜ If a thief is found breaking in and is struck so that he dies, there shall be no bloodguilt for him ( Psalm 11:5 ) ➜ The Lord tests the righteous, but his soul hates the wicked and the one who loves violence.

[@bperez8656]

❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@JustineEllushon]

I do admire my son. After all these years.... He smarter than me, he's better than me. And he always will be.

[@brock5946]

You raised him well. Give credit to yourself for how he is and what he accomplishes

[@nrchector]

These are the subjects everyone avoids but needs to hear. Best of luck in 2024!

[@JustineEllushon]

I admire my mother!!!! It took a long time. But she's one of my main heros.

[@valeriecooper1100]

Dearest Patrick, of all your many talents, skills, accomplishments, and abilities, the thing I respect and admire about you the most is, the love and reverence you have for your family. The wisdom and sensitivity you acted upon in realizing the deep value of having the youngest member of your family, spend as much time as possible with the oldest member of your family, literally bought me, to tears. That for me is a demonstration of what a great son, husband father, and fellow human being should aspire to immulate. ❤❤😊

[@Themindisall41]

Patrick is a con artist what are you talking about he’s stealing money from 40,000 agents right now as we speak add people helping people he’s MLM scam what the fuck y’all are joke go do your homework that guy is a thief

[@bryantdarris]

❤

[@maribethcondrillon1079]

You know it's different to love when a man makes a man, but if I'm the only one to love, I don't have to do the most inspired love is the man who has a stand and I don't want a man who needs to invest before I can be loved? This is not what suits my heart if love is solid, the relationship does not include money matter and I don't want to insult myself and I am not in a hurry.

[@genemcintyre5352]

Thank you Patrick, I needed your message today. Been using my past glories and feeling sorry for myself because of my age and health, I admire my kids because despite their challenges they work very hard. Time for me to step up. All the best to you and your family, you are really showing your leadership and it does matter.

[@FAHRENHEIT-gj4ng]

Imagination and being imaginative are admirable qualities in children. I wish I could still have that magic my wonderful child has.

[@onucheogboyi2912]

Thanks for the consistency of dishing out quality content. Happy new year.

[@Rhonda22]

Thank you, Pat - I have been watching you for years, and I respect and admire you, brother…don’t doubt those of us who do are out here.

[@dorisfday4065]

Every day is a blessing from births to death. I have 2 sons, 20 and 23, and I love and respect them as they do us! Married 31 years gone thru hell and back and still love and honor each. Out life is not driven by money but love and respect. My parents were married 62 yrs when mom died, now dad (89) is living in a small home on back property. He worked his ass off and raised 5 good children. We're blessed to have each other.

[@amybarlow3045]

Great discussions, great thoughts, leadership. 🙌

[@lukeallen6444]

Thanks, Pat! You could've been anywhere else doing anything else. I admire you today.

[@vicg2260]

OMG at my age at almost 80 years young I admire and pay close attention to what the young have to say and do. On a human level I admire Mr. Patrick Bet-David. A lot of wisdom coming from this man and the wisdom is deep with love in opinion. I am now in this life at this time as an older person just an observer but still keen to lear. Like most of us the young are learning during this time of their life like most of us do. For me they are growing up in a time that I did not and therefore their thoughts and their desires will be different than mine. If I can share anything in my world and what I have learnt as an older person it is to be the observer of all people and to never stop learning and use that learning in life to make the world a better place. Is it not true if we judge another than we judge ourselves. In my opinion to stop learning and not having an open mind is to die. I plan to be around for a very long time.

[@Naraku415]

As a 28 year old guy, this is exactly what I needed to hear.

[@riccoleman1130]

Sometimes even we as leaders need a coach. A great coach keeps pushing you hard, and even further when you think you have nothing left. Thank you for this message helping to helping to realign focus.

[@aaquablaze]

This is just what I needed to hear to start my year. I want to make 2024 my year!! Wishing everyone else the same luck in the comments. Thanks PBD.

[@JustineEllushon]

Make sure you seek the most high. This world is temporary. What is unseen is ETERNAL

[@kevinogden4363]

I loved and admired my dad, he commanded respect, hard worker, worked till he was 82 and went blind. I lost him, it'll be a year the 30th of this month. Years ago I had a counselor say something that stuck with me. He said do you wanna be that sob when you die they say good riddance to and can't wait to put you in the grave, or do you wanna be the person that they're clinging on to the casket and don't wanna let you go.

[@heywella]

Sorry for your loss. Lost my Dad 4 years ago and the first year was the roughest.

[@kevinogden4363]

@@heywella he was ready to go, I'm a Christian and for the first time in my life, I experienced joy in my sorrow, I was able to see the blessings around me after that happened. Still there are what I call the constant reminders, like when I go to the grocery store and see the things he used to have me get. I was blessed though, I got to be with him everyday till the end.

[@thebamf100]

THANK YOU so much! I know this wasn't LIVE but it's great to have you back...you keep pushing me to be better.

[@kennyx6796]

Agree with your hard “truth”. In summary, admiration = “what have you done for me lately”. Appreciate you PBD

[@paulcanfield4157]

Good stuff to start the year on. 2024 will be a year of direction an discipline. Time to reap rewards. Thank you VT and PBD for all the goodness and value you add to the world.

[@johnjojames9371]

i like this guys voice so much, Im surrounded by people who just arent motivated to do shit in life and hearing this man speak is such a breath of fresh all the time

[@user-wm7bv9ev3d]

Honestly, I don't care how I'll be remembered once I am gone. King David in the book of Acts, it is said of him, he fulfilled his calling for his generation. That's what I am aiming at, fulfilling what my calling is for this generation. 'Leaving this earth somewhat better than I found it' and enjoying the ride while it lasts. 😅.

[@skullmanji1825]

I'm on it sir. Needed this message today. 1.1.2024.

[@Amar7605]

I needed to hear this. I’ve been trying to get a promotion at work for years, had multiple interviews, and have another one in 2 days. I keep talking about my past accomplishments - which I’ve received many kudos from upper management- but it’s not parlaying into a promotion. So I’m going to work on my mindset and think about the value I can bring the table today as opposed to what I have done these past 4 years.

[@RitaBaroody]

Your comment really stood out to me as I am a Career Success Coach and Talent Strategist. If the company values you, then this could work really well: “I have been approached by other companies regarding a higher leadership level opportunity, yet I remain committed to my team and continuing to add value for years to come.” Then state: “As a kind refresher, here are my major accomplishments that have positively impacted the team in the past few years AND This is my plan for the next 1-3 years if I continue to grow here… Then ask - receiving a promotion and continuing to grow is super important to me, when can I expect a promotion?” If there’s push back or hesitation on their end…then it could be time to move on and add value elsewhere where you are also more valued as an individual.

[@dogstick12]

Admiration is like a heartbeat If you want their admiration, you must keep your heart beating today live from the heart

[@Thane36425]

He passed over an important part at the beginning. For all too many people, they won't respect you if they don't fear you. Be a good person, be honorable and never cheat anyone, all that, but for a larger percentage of people out there than most want to admit, if they don't fear that you'll be able to do something to them, they won't respect you and will take advantage.

[@Shamoon.77]

the world today is in great need of a leader amongst leaders

[@pathologicalphilosophy1959]

You’re only as good as your last shift That’s a story of endless struggle Gotta love life 👌

[@Ootgreet1]

Yes, never build equity. It's always "what did you do for me today?" An endless treadmill until death.

[@daves2822]

Personally, I could care less what the world thinks of me when my work is done, and I am welcomed by Jesus. I only want my family to remember me and all I do for them.

[@mandyflory8026]

I literally do admire my kids. I raised the kids others respect. My 19 year old. Star football/ basketball player in our small town. When he started football we had no tv stations. He had never seen a football game and didn’t own a football. He lettered all 4 years of high school. And while that is cool and everything what I RESPECT is my son reached his hand out for EVERY underdog along the way. Not just his hand but he has stopped fights to protect. MORE than all of that, my kids financially carry themselves. He dabbled in day trading at 15 with money he earned working. He built that to pay for his first car, 1 year car insurance AND bought a friend (who I didn’t even KNOw) a car because his parents couldn’t help him at 16. My son took him food from our house for YEARS! At 19 that boy lives w us and my kids EXPECT him to be treated as an equal to them even knowing that lowers what they get. This is the 2nd chosen son in our family. My ex husband and I raised an extra who is literally listed in my will as an equal per my biological children’s permission and expectations! I am waiting the day they ask the 2nd to be added. My 16 year old daughter out moms me daily 😂 while working 20 hours a week and school. I just got back from a weekend trip to her having bought a new bathroom rug set and 4 towels for the bathroom she uses?? What 16 year old does that?? She has had an IRA since she was 14. And she speared organizing a collection at work to bless a co worker (teen) whose only parent is dying of cancer. She is treasurer of two clubs and class president. It may not seem like a big deal to you but I didn’t have a single friend in school. So how she did this 🤷🏼‍♀️ My youngest (14)looks up to his brother and he will argue the defense of every kid that has brokenness in their life. He protects. In 2020 he found out 1 of his friends for years, who is a foster kid since 6 had never had a birthday party. My son put on the biggest 13th party for him our little town could do in a world shutdown situation. Further he is pissed at me because I don’t plan to take the newest chosen child on a boat floating over to the Bahamas MOSTLY because we are at and perhaps already over max capacity. He says “how do you think that will make him feel to me?!?!” 😂 I am ready to give up my seat to keep the respect of my 14 year old who adamantly defends his big brothers buddy. And yes my oldest did surprise the newest chosen son w a flight along w him to FL this past summer. We met him there via car to check him into the hotel. Though we didn’t stay. The boy had never flown and had used my dress bag as a suitcase 😅 God bless him. He had never seen a hotel on the beach in his life. At this point I am hustling to stay ahead of the good my kids do. And Patrick my oldest (and I) has been watching you for years. We often converse about your topics. Thank you for helping me raise them. ❤ There are so many who don’t have access to the mindset you bring to the table. What you do matters!!

[@mikeepp70]

I continue to learn things from Mr Patrick Bet David. I appreciate the insight and sharing of the knowledge.

[@josiefarrell2101]

Wow, I absolutely loved this message. Thank you Patrick. Amazing, amazing, amazing!

[@shahintabibzadeh1525]

Thank you agah Patrick. Happy New Year to you and your family.

[@RZA550i]

Just stared your new book: Know Your Enemies and absolutely love it! Thank you

[@dennismiller1602]

Thanks Pat!! Happy, successful New Year!

[@vdubmhana6214]

Pat hit it out of the park with this one. Im 30 years old.. I reached out to my Father to have a relationship after 10 years of not speaking to Him. I love my father, But I do not admire him at all.

[@niks966]

Love your podcast and admire your journalistic professionalism, it is an inspiration to us all. Happy New Year full of hapoinesses, good health...and prosperity.

[@lrlforfun]

I lead my life on spiritual lines. It just happens and people respond accordingly. I have few expectations and because I'm on a spiritual path I usually abandon self will and let God's will drive the car. Happy New Year Pat, I enjoy your broadcasts.

[@Stockafella]

Have a blessed year EVERYONE 🎉

[@selinajuankids]

Happy New Year and thank you for this empowering message! ❤️🎁🎇🎆🙏

[@RamonG.]

Great message Patrick 🙌 Happy New Years to the Valuetainment family ✊💙

[@mumindzaferi9736]

Thank you Patrick, youre right . In our language we used to say , we ask you how are you ? And Not how was you Yesterday or in the Past. The Future Looks bright . I Salute you

[@PabloHernandez-ku1sy]

I hope this year i keep watching you and videos likes this. Thanks pat

[@dirtymike4894]

Why is this not on Rumble yet? I had to sit through 5 mins of ads to watch this.

[@li0nHeart87]

Patrick, thank you. I almost didn't write this message. But you know what i needed to hear this.

[@BlueTigerReal]

May Jesus grant you eternal life 🙏✝️

[@cherylvargas8861]

I'm in love with God more today than I could before. I admire myself to where I got for the hard work I put in. I admire my husband for our teamwork today.. Commitment. I admire my kids for their successful choices for their future. I wish the best for my mom. She battles with health issues. I appreciate and admire this channel and all others for the information that you and everyone gives for people like me. Motivation and Hope for the future.

[@knownoboundaries___]

Love or admired? With all due respect, it doesn't matter what others think. We shouldn't care. We should care ONLY what the good God thinks of us. If people truly care about how others perceive you, you are focused on the wrong thing. Give love to all, as Christ did for all of humanity, and don't care about this world. Peace be with you, David. ✝️

[@tomtensecretlanguage9273]

Well said!

[@Lu-es4rm]

The only thing I can say is thank you!

[@Amarok-7]

Thank you very much for that message, it's as hard as life can be. But it's needed to succeed.

[@lcruz2783]

Great video to kick off the new year. I will work hard to one day meet you and your team. God bless and keep doing what you are doing for our country!

[@Jefchang1]

PATRICK YOU SOUND LIKE A CHRISTIAN/BUDDHIST, AND THAT'S JUST GREAT, THANK YOU.

[@MrRumBacardi]

Love by my family and friends, admired for my work and what I left behind

[@oliverkortenkamp1188]

I don’t want fear, admiration, love, all I want in my leader is to do the job. Competency is the #1 aspect for a leader

[@user-wo1mv1mb7y]

I love this guy. I would love to meet you Patrick. My name is Patrick aswell. I.have spent my whole life being a victim. And I would love to learn from you. Thank you for the hard truth. I admire that

[@abdobrightblack]

If I ever travel back in time and go back to school, I will present my PowerPoint presentations this way. He sounds like he got not only a 10 out of 10, but also extra marks in the final exams!

[@bryanmeyer2151]

Pat...Thank you for all you do. I have been watching you for some time and am not perfect in my growth journey but you have consistently put out challenging content and that has made a big difference in my life. I look forward to this new year of growth and work. Cheers!

[@ronniep8132]

Thank you! I love the challenge and the message

[@manuelaorchid7129]

thank you for putting this question out ❤ people forget and don' t think about it really

[@Xeroplus]

Thanks for the massage PBD the world need this

[@xyz_was_here]

Admired

[@GonzoEcuador]

I ADMIRE YOU PATRICK , thank you for your amazing videos , God bless you and your beautiful family .

[@Jefchang1]

PATRICK, THANK YOU FOR YOUR RECOMMENDATION OF THE YOUR "AMAZING GRACE" VIDEO, I LOVE IT.

[@user-yl1ko7sg6t]

PBD,,, Your drive is inspirational and motivating ! Incredible

[@bryantdarris]

Wow, solid msg PBD. 🤯The good Lord was speaking some of your points to me a few days ago. Intentionality and action. Blessings

[@meandonangov]

Great message, but most importantly a message that is so needed in this point in time and frequently forgotten by even many of those who want to be admired! In last couple of videos I watched, it feels to me that PBD has shifted gears again and now the sky's the limit. Grateful to have this access to your way of life (from family relations through business, to life's philosophy) and be inspired on all levels of life!

[@chiaraboccelli4189]

Thank you Patrick 💕 if I write a list of all my accomplishments in life. I wouldn’t have enough room here to keep writing. As a mom, I feel totally in peace with God and family because I did a lot of good on them and people who are not in my family circle. I feel deeply blessed and grateful because I know my Lord Jesus loves me. Everything is not about cash only. Have a Happy New Year 🙏🏼

[@vinceyoung5912]

You know what’s better than being a mom? Being a wife

[@ChrisDavidLo]

Really interesting take on "love" vs. "admiration." Getting added to my classroom videos!

[@rahimamohamed6667]

Timely clip, as I was making notes from your latest book. Well needed message to fuel us into 2024. I hope we become amongst those who acted accordingly.

[@TheSilverwanderer]

I admire Joseph Bet David.

[@antonioperez4091]

I love and admire my parents

[@Savage_D_508]

The Value,Entertainment, Political information, & the guest on both sides you bring to find what we all have in common is next to none in this podcast game.

[@kingo1524]

Best video of 2024 so far! Gonna be hard to beat 🔥🔥🔥

[@JohnnyColeMurdockMusic]

Hard truths for many, but it is what you do today that matters

[@thacoolbean]

Patrick Bet David tha 🐐 no 🧢

[@Adhikpost]

Challenging and interesting way to put it, David!

[@judylaparne9761]

Respected

[@alansanchez2753]

Needed this pat, thank you! God bless!

[@Randall2023]

Love ❤️ General Patrick Bet-David Happy New Year 🥳 20/24

[@Anand2024]

1:14 Totally agree Fear and respect is what creates a leader

[@delmiamaris]

Leading amongst leaders that’s powerful. ✅

[@shawnbrigance3993]

I needed this in setting New Year's goals, thanks 👍

[@biskit7]

Happy New Years Pat!!

[@freddy4634]

Love it. Always instilling power in others. You are definitely doing gods work. Blessings pat. And continue to do what u do.. Because what u do is more powerful than what govermental oficials.. presidents. And religious leaders do for our world and future. A man.

[@HarveyPham-zb3yj]

Thank you Pat for such great insights! 2024 is ours for the taking now!

[@HappyRetiredandhealthy-qk2lg]

This was such an excellent show, you are so brilliant, Happy New Year,

[@leann4925]

Very interesting. Thanks and have a great 2024.

[@sharonballeu8311]

Admired...period in a good way.

[@matthewwilliams3880]

Excellent PBD ! Happy New Year from Jamaica !

[@Anand2024]

Happy New Year

[@leannegabriel]

Incredible message.... this is yet another example of why I admire and respect you!

[@timwhiting6721]

Loved , but feared because of passion and love.

[@SalveMaria777]

Love transcends admiration

[@FernandoDeJesusPonce]

Love this topic!! Its honestly very hard but always worth it

[@elhamhaxhiu2953]

Thank you for saying what Jesus try to teach be better than yesterday improving is the key of growing

[@DanAkaPharaoh]

That was a great message on the first day of the new year! Thank You! Not sure I can live up to it, but it did resonate well here. I will go watch a cat video now.