20 Rules for Women - How To Attract A High Value Man

[@Standardbredwoman04]

As a woman 64 yrs old. A high value man is that man that will work in the fields or the factory who is a true man. He loves his wife loves his kids. Respects others. He does not need to be a millionaire.

[@BlackCulturalPreservation2023]

Virtuous & responsible is more fitting to this whole high value title.

[@cedrickiiza2310]

The problem is that , the market decided , what a high value man is , they can be good men , but high value is high value , just based on the market

[@Standardbredwoman04]

I was married to a soldier military pay is not that great. A soldier is a soldier 24/7 even on leave. So his life is worth $1.25 an hr. A combat infantry soldier life expectancy is 2.50 seconds. Those are not the specialty trained rangers airborne the like. The more training the less your odds are. Bur married soldiers will volunteer for deployment if they know it will benefit their family. That is a high value man.

[@Standardbredwoman04]

@user-qs8em6kg5i I believe that high value means something different to people as a woman my vew of a high value is not about money. It is about the good man TCB honering his parents and respecting his wife and loving that same wife and children. Men with money do not impress me. Maybe in my youth. Even then as long as I had what I needed / wanted there was nothing else I did not want a rich boyfriend. I just wanted what I could afford. If I could not afford it I did not get it I am not going to say I did not save up for it

[@MrFuchew]

@@Standardbredwoman04 While i agree with you it doesn't matter what you and I think. It' matters what childbearing age women think. They I'm special and I will only date up.

[@yohannabee5916]

A high value man is not one that is rich; it is one who is kind, shares with those in need, treats others right, works hard, and does no harm, and, if married, loves, provides for, and is faithful to his wife, loves his children, provides for them and teaches them right from wrong, unselfishness, and how to get along well in life.

[@lindachallenger1554]

Well said….

[@maryrankin9869]

This kind of man is rich! What are you saying?

[@noname-qw9td]

@@maryrankin9869 their point was not 'rich' in the sense of monetary value but rich with life knowledge and skill.

[@marietgagliardi]

100% agree

[@blessall8856]

Totally 💯 agree!

[@TSAONGAF]

I love that he mentioned the fourth model where a woman is independent and successful but wants to have the male leadership, strength and stability in her life. I'm happily serving the role of a co-pilot and i highly recommend it to any woman. It's absolutely the best and most sustainable dynamic in a relationship

[@fuckucatchme1000rr]

No one cares.

[@mojo4369]

@@fuckucatchme1000rr Sounds like youre intimidated

[@amaraci]

Absolutely. As the CEO of a rather successful business, I’d be thrilled to have by my side a man that leads.

[@lacijohnson400]

@@fuckucatchme1000rr clearly you do lmao

[@maryam_4437]

@@fuckucatchme1000rr stf incel

[@spartanares4345]

“If you see men as the enemy - you won’t find a high value man” - preach that like a prophet!

[@mr.anonymous520]

So true

[@valentinalicheli1928]

@@mr.anonymous520 Why is it that "men" See women as the enemies?? OK, I get it, what is Allowed to men, is Not Allowed to women, yeah, the 5,000 Year Old tradition, isn't it??

[@valentinalicheli1928]

Well, in my Case, I didn't have to See men as the Enemies, they just proved that They ARE the enemies. ha, ha, ha.

[@spartanares4345]

@@valentinalicheli1928 You should have your eyes examined.

[@valentinalicheli1928]

@@spartanares4345; many men See women as their enemy, just the same way many women See men as their enemy; Capeech?

[@kaylinknight4764]

“You’re mine, I’m yours. Let’s roll” this mindset could solve half of all people’s relationship trouble. Spot on!

[@therealkoolaidandkale]

This is terrible advice, but go off!

[@kaylinknight4764]

@@therealkoolaidandkale 😂

[@shuvra-kumar-das]

​@@therealkoolaidandkaleyou know nothing or atleast don't speak for others.

[@kw3113]

I’ve been married to a high value man 38 years and it’s brilliant to build a life together knowing what he needs to be successful and I’m part of this team. I told my newest daughter in law that the Webb men aren’t easy but so worth it! By the way, I taught my boys to cherish their wives like they have seen their father cherish me.

[@SpindarellaMotloung]

I’m personally praying for this ❤️ I used to be an extremely independent and success driven women, who did not prioritise relationships.

[@jaimeerivera8217]

I love this ❤️ thank you for sharing 👏🏻

[@anonymous_5720]

Why’re you watching this video then 🤔

[@Lekikna]

I am so glad that positive stories of families exist❤️❤️❤️Thank you for contributing to this world!

[@clicktoaddtoquack6361]

I want to learn from you

[@caladr9367]

Some traits of a high value guy were left out; intelligent, strong moral compass, self-disciplined, independent, generous, kind, loyal, respectful, and responsible.

[@Palosiam124]

Those values are not a thing for these soulless corporate cretin

[@Butterflieslove2]

Yes yes yes

[@janinemillirons2927]

I met a high value man recently. So refreshing!

[@SanctifiedLady]

He said those…. High value - is intelligent, no only fans - is strong moral compass, he goes to the gym/takes care of his body- that’s self discipline, he’s ambitious at his goals/ not home at 5 every night - independence , he said he takes responsibility and improves- that’s respectful They are all generous, kind, loyal…. 😅😢

[@fearless6947]

@@SanctifiedLady that's what I thought lol

[@matildamaher1505]

My husband is a high value man, he's Godly, a leader, a provider and a protector. He loves his family and reaches out to help others in need.Highly responsible and confident.

[@evelincave-varosanec2399]

Been married 30 yrs to a high value man. I'm a high value woman. You attract what you put out.

[@11nica5]

I’ve been Married to a high-value man for 14yrs. This vid is 💯 correct. It takes a high-value woman to keep up with a man of this caliber. It requires similar core-values, self-awareness, humility, understanding and confidence. A man, who is out negotiating $30M deals on a daily basis needs different support than a man earning $30K a year. Also, men earning this kind of money also experience losses in business equally as big; also requires a woman who can stomach that. That’s not to say it’s a 1-way street, my husband is an amazing partner and father; who has made a commitment to be at home for dinner bc we have two young kids. He’s the CEO outside of our home and I’m the CEO in our home. We respect and VALUE our roles…It’s a give and take, divide and conquer type of mentality. I live a quality life most women can only dream of and it has NOTHING to do with our net-worth.

[@11nica5]

@User Blessing give me your email and I’ll send u a message

[@jacqnpacct1722]

Love this! ❤️ How did you meet?

[@Ashdaesq]

I love this! Two CEOs in and out of the home. My woman has got to be as much of a boss as I am

[@jmorefit1]

@@Ashdaesq Just make sure she is making less than you…9/10 a women will lose respect for a man that she believes is equal to her, she wants to feel like her man is superior to her and won him

[@Jan-kw1qr]

That’s great for you ! Can I ask you if you both built a life together or were one of you already established ?

[@justsomerandomgirl]

My husband is a mechanic, can fix anything in the home etc, plus he studies relentlessly investments. We are retiring early( I’m a teacher). I think he is a wonderful high value man. Love him so much. We are perfect together.

[@rosali401]

Your husband sounds like a great guy. God bless you union🤎

[@valentinalicheli1928]

Just Some Random Girl: I am GLAD you mentioned Your husband. Not All High-Valued Men have to be Top Executives or Wealthy. Just Smart Man.

[@Jason-mr2do]

That's not a high value man. A great guy, sure. High value? Nope.

[@valentinalicheli1928]

@@Jason-mr2do EXCUSE ME; How DARE YOU tell a Woman who has a GEM at Home that is a Solid Rock in her life as her husband that He is not High Value!! He Surpassed HIGH VALUE already; in fact He is Above and Beyond the Stupidity of this world's "value" which has nothing to do with Real Worth and Human Value and more to do with Sick-Egos and shallowness that does nothing for You when you are in a hospital bed, or in pain, or in a car accident, or in serious trouble in life; those "high-value" men that you have in mind; many have committed Suicide when they lose All their money and businesses and they have No Character inside of them Strong Enough to Support his circumstances.

[@valentinalicheli1928]

@@Jason-mr2do Let me See......Robin Williams was Considered a VERY High-VALUE Man, BUT he committed Suicide - All his Wealth, Fame, Fortune, and Fans couldn't take him Out of that Dark Place in his Mind. Charlie Sheen was considered a High-Value Man at one point, but he ruined his life by Sleeping Around and you know what happened. Tom Cruise is and has always been Considered a VERY HIGH VALUED MAN, Attractive, Successful, intelligent, Mega Star, Money-Maker, Enterprising, and how all his relationships end?? Leonardo DiCaprio has girls issues; Sleeping with girls that could be his daughters; Ah; there goes the "value" ha, ha, ha. Michael Jackson, according to You, was considered a High-Valued Man, and look how he ended up!! Bill Clinton was considered a High-Valued Man and look at the Scandals he has created. Magic Johnson was and probably will always be considered a High-Valued Man, and look at what happened to him - his Wife is the REAL HIGH VALUE there.

[@tamaro9641]

I love my hard working man. He's a simple man who loves his family. I don't have to work hard to keep him nor him working to keep me. We flow together and we have peace and comfort. To each their own. To me, mine is high value. To our family he is high value. I'm blessed ❤

[@psb.shakira]

“just because you got him doesn’t mean you got him forever!” soo key & a lot of women in my generation need to understand. that’s where the work AS WOMEN comes in!

[@RealRockdidit]

Absolutely 💯 agree

[@VicToria-sd1dn]

Just because he got her doesn't mean he got her forever. That's where the work starts from.

[@kasiatt873]

I'm sorry but you need 2 to tango. It goes both ways. If both sides won't work on the marriage it'll fall apart. I'm married for over 10 years, we have kids. I know what I'm saying.

[@goldenparachute392]

@@VicToria-sd1dnright! Hence, the majority of divorces are initiated by women because the husbands could not keep them.

[@VicToria-sd1dn]

@@goldenparachute392 Yes the majority of divorces are initiated by the wives because some husbands cheat. Also the issue of male toxicity is rampant. Both parties should want to remain together and should work on it willingly.

[@aishanusoul]

A truly high value man can provide but doesn't have the entirety of his identity wrapped up in performance & material. A high value man values character & has a good heart.

[@RealRockdidit]

How about God loving. God fearing

[@aishanusoul]

@@RealRockdidit amen agreed !

[@jamenne]

Even though i am 67 yrs old I still enjoyed this video very much. Why? Because good old fashioned values still matter. I am so glad to hear this. Basically just learn how to be a classy woman no matter what generation it is.

[@wisdomok99]

Good to hear that, nowdays people are messed up with confused so called "influencers" with no experince in life!

[@miamitten1123]

Pat just gave guys _”20 women to avoid”_ but made it look like _Self help for ladies_ clever 🧐😂

[@OceanFrontVilla3]

@@discernthetruth If you're over 35 it's basically too late for you as a high value man goes for a younger partner. A 50 yr old with good income can still get one and a 45 yr old woman can't compete.

[@queenofsheba7145]

@@OceanFrontVilla3 - It all depends on how you define high value. He is defining "high value " based on a man's looks and wealth. After 40, it's all about integrity, morals, spiritual values. Yes, if they are successful that is great. Real wealth and value comes from within. Also, I have a cousin who is 53, (she looks 33), just remarried last year to a very successful man, and he is 64!. Age is just a number.

[@SheOnEarth]

@@OceanFrontVilla3 Men are not the prize lol some views in this video are outdated! Sure some might go for younger ones (and I know many of them), but there are ones that would go for the older women too because they want the maturity that comes with it. It’s not just about men choosing women, it’s about both people choosing each other.

[@teresacherin6624]

Met my husband at Bible study. Married for 38 years now. 2 wonderful and successful children. My husband was never well-off but we had a decent life. God provides.

[@memadelrey4832]

Good for you Sis❤

[@sadiegirl5312]

Excellent video and so true. Although I am 72 and not looking for anyone , married for 48 years, this is exactly how I found my man of means. If you love yourself and are true to yourself it will shine through that you are a woman who has value to any high value man.

[@detetivedabeleza]

Great!

[@peterwilliams6361]

Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasnt going to let my marriage of 18years crash

[@peterwilliams6361]

@Mark Reeves well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer

[@peterwilliams6361]

@Mark Reeves her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE ,and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster

[@peterwilliams6361]

you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.

[@11nica5]

Bravo, a true leader. Blessings to you and your wife

[@11nica5]

@Mark Reeves wishing you the best for you and your wife. Don’t give up

[@charlescdt6509]

Judge Judy said it best "beauty fades but dumb is forever". Sadly if you look at social media its all about looks and zero substance and the ones with substance dont get the shine. Awesome stuff as always.

[@DeweyJHall1]

One of the best comments I've ever read. So true

[@genxx2724]

Men go after the shiny thing. Some woman are beautiful, smart, and work hard, but they’re not likely to be blinged out with colored hair, fake nails, etc.

[@Castlebahun]

If there is one thing I have learnt over the years it is that the term high value means something completely different for every person. For me being of high value means being of higher consciousness, that is the greatest service a man can give to anyone.

[@justindavis2711]

exactly. High income men who are sociopaths are not high value. But high consciousness more often than not, results in wealth.

[@catzeegr8885]

A mom of 5, married for 11 years. I love that my husband and i have climbed these ladders together!!! I’m a coach, a chauffeur, a cleaner, a cook, an artist (not great but still doing it all), herbalist, a carpenters (my husband) helping hand, and a child of the almighty God. If one chooses to live a life he does not bless, then good luck!!!

[@nuanceatnoon]

W wife, W mom!

[@yourlogicalnightmare1014]

A high value man is a man that can afford many divorces and still not be broke

[@ahanachauhan1210]

W wife w mom , RESPECT

[@bitrudder3792]

@@yourlogicalnightmare1014 - That sounds like a man who has valuable in his own mind, but not good marriage material.

[@fireeye33]

@@yourlogicalnightmare1014 that's high quality man NOT high value. High value man is quality+compassion+integrity, it's not just about the money

[@seekingfinding6204]

I met my high-value man while we were both working security. Now I have a high-value job and he's still in security, but he cooks and cleans and gets my gear ready in the morning and treats me like a queen. I had to go through two previous long-term relationships before I met the perfect guy, because I had a lot of issues that needed to be taken care of before I could really know myself and know what I needed and wanted. Heal your issues and know yourself first, and you'll find the right man with the right level of value who suits you and your preferred lifestyle as well as you suit his.

[@thehonesttruth8808]

No, you ended up with a Beta

[@seekingfinding6204]

He's a retired Alpha. @@thehonesttruth8808

[@PeopleFirstGlobal]

Actually that isn't the definition of a high value man.

[@thraasherhell]

PBD and Valuetainment keeps delivering value. You guys never cease to amaze me.

[@miamitten1123]

Pat just gave guys _”20 women to avoid”_ but made it look like _Self help for ladies_ clever 🧐😂

[@SoulEternalPeaceWarrior77]

100% SEND this video to every coworker, cousin, daughter, sister you have so they can have the knowledge to better thelmselves.

[@mrzekhnini160]

@@miamitten1123 hahahaha

[@taoprosperitycounselingpll5779]

Tao Prosperity Counseling -- "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud."

[@zerotomillions1016]

At 12:30, there's an old wives saying: "If you marry a fisherman, don't be surprised when he goes fishing." Always remember the story about the woman who nursed a dying rattle snake back to health but he bit her. When she asked him why he said: because I'm a snake; we bite. You knew that I was a snake so why are you surprised that I bit you?

[@isabellesemino8413]

That's a good one

[@lilyinthevalley8046]

I think I know what you mean.

[@faithhope4703]

1)He has many options 2)Not desperate 3)increase worth 4) Attract not chase 5) He has life goal 6) He knows the game

[@understandingthetimes4544]

And for me, he needs to be a Christian #1

[@Gloriagal78]

@@understandingthetimes4544 Absolutely!

[@LeadLeftLeon]

Pat is the father and even mother that many women didn’t have. Imagine a fully grown female needing to be told take care of your body. That’s the current state of society

[@CMA418]

A tree is known by its fruit…

[@malibudolphin3109]

Fathers are fathers. Mothers are mothers.

[@alasdairhicks6731]

Girls think taking care of their body is make up and expensive fads. No. Nope. Nothing bad with makeup. But the real care is taken through healthy habits, like eating healthy and exercise. Same for dudes.

[@CMA418]

@@alasdairhicks6731 I agree wholeheartedly. Dudes do not need make up to be hot.

[@CanisoGaming]

Bro u say that to modern women & they'll hit you with a "body positivity" & "fatphobia" cards so fast u never seen them react that fast to anything else 😂😂

[@zedhaych7766]

1) If you see men as the enemy 2) If you do land a high value man the job has just started 3) Body count matters 4) A man will filter very quickly 5) You can only act classy for so long (real class, real value' real principles) 6) Going for a guy with a GF 7) Is he looking for short term or long term 8) Never brag about how great your man is in bed 9) Don't give it up so easily 10) OF eliminates your options 11) Never embarrass your man publicly 12) Bring value to the table different to his 13) Reputation matters 14) Never bash your exs 15) Your social media profile matters 16) Don't compete with your man 17) No man likes it when their girl has male friends 18) How good of a mother will she be 19) High value men won't show off women that have been around 20) Being a virgin matters in certain areas

[@CarlsonARTS]

High value = 1. honest and TRUTHFUL to one's self and to others. 2. Have a spiritual relationship with the Creator, respecting and obeying His Laws above selfish goals and desires. 3. Thirst for learning and adventure. 4. Appreciation of beauty and nature. 5. Able to balance life between the financial world and the practical world of living. 6. Value and respect family and those around him/her. 7. Balance giving to others and providing for one's self and family. 😊❤ And may I add, able to relax and enjoy life and know how to interweave romantic moments and intimacy as continuous thread of joy in daily life! 😄🥰

[@BelieveNUToo]

Wow, now that’s a wonderful man! And he didn’t say one of those things on his little podcast. Oh that’s right I hope you’re in great shape and work out because it sounds like we can’t get a man unless we work out and we’re in shape. Sounded like a bunch of superficial garbage thank you for saying your opinion on what a valuable man is

[@ehitkassa8512]

I'm striving to be a high value woman and very glad I watched this video. Your ideas resonate with me. Thank you Pat.

[@MrFuchew]

A high value woman isn't something you to strive to become it's something you are either born with or you aren't and you either preserve it or ruin it.

[@ehitkassa8512]

@@MrFuchew that's a good point. While some qualities of a high value woman may be innate, many can also be developed through personal growth and self-improvement, such as being well-rounded, a good communicator, and having strong religious values and so on.

[@chadcadsonvii5258]

@@ehitkassa8512 agreed, you are both correct imo.

[@rhondaharris398]

Women were created by Almighty God to be high value. Use it or loose it.

[@ItsKenyangirlAbby]

@@MrFuchew false you’re not born immediately high value. The man I. The video literally said he changed and became a high value man later on in his life. Nobody’s born “high value” maybe in the eyes of your mother yes

[@paceflchick]

" A harmless man. Is not a good man, A good man is a very , very, dangerous man, but he has it under control." I have my Clint Eastwood, Kurt Russell all in one. ❤

[@paceflchick]

I wake before him daily, 3: 30 am, send him off to build bridges,, breakfast, lunch. Yes..

[@scarletlady3727]

I never wanted what is labeled a “high value man”…I much rather prefer an average man who treats me like a high value woman!!!….there is nothing wrong with a average looking man, making a honest living at a normal job…AS LONG as he treats you well

[@tonyebiere551]

thats most people in the world, nothing wrong with it

[@MuseSunflower]

Interesting part on the virgin experiences. I noticed men like knowing you are impressed with something and just seeing you enjoy yourself. Even if you've been there, maintain your curiosity about the experience and be thankful. He's going out of his way to please you then let him see you pleased and delighted

[@BestVersionofMe1]

The issue with labelling people as "high value" is how value is perceived. Not everyone perceives value the same way

[@AJweathersby]

Not true at all. “High value man” is clearly connotated to mean a man with money, power, and influence. But a lot of women don’t like the idea of a group of men who know their worth, so they’ll try to move the goalpost of “high value” to avoid having to acknowledge any particular man as high value that they themselves don’t like. Vladimir Putin is objectively a high value man, but there are plenty of people who would sooner die than admit it.

[@utamu777]

@@AJweathersby but being married to Putin probably sucks, that's the part you're not acknowledging. Personality and character actually matter on a daily basis living with someone… More than money does

[@AJweathersby]

@@utamu777 Being married to Putin if you’re a native born Russian woman, especially if you were raised in the Russian aristocracy, is probably amazing. You’re projecting your American, modern sensibilities across billions of women and cultures. We don’t even have to go outside of America. Donald Trump is liked by half the country, and there are probably millions of women in that half of the country willing to take Melania’s place if the chance arose. Just because you don’t like someone that doesn’t mean the rest of the female population shares your feelings. That’s what being high value means: Not being valuable to everyone, but being valuable to so many people that you don’t have to care who or how many people don’t like you.

[@melamusicworld]

Right, I agree with you. A valuable man to me is someone who is capable of being loyal, has a good sense of humor, respectful and kind to all living things. But the video was good for most women.

[@connieb.6061]

@@AJweathersby Eww, not spiritually enlightening nor Godly.

[@imeqsmd]

That’s what I call High Value information delivered succinctly, and leaving nothing to chance.

[@davisholman8149]

I have 3 precious little girls - I worry about the future, how men will treat them, that there will be men of integrity when they are in their twenties & picking husbands.

[@imeqsmd]

@@davisholman8149 yes brother, I have 2 (not so little anymore) girls and my blood pressure goes up every tine I start thinking about it

[@xpindy]

Good to hear this advice from someone who is in a successful loving marriage. I consider myself blessed to be in the same position and I've always said, "Going on 2,000 dates doesn't make you a dating "expert" any more than having 2,000 at bats with no home runs makes you an "expert" on power hitting."

[@highvalue1195]

Patrick, I’m a 26-year-old female and this is sad to say but I believe you are the father I never had. Thank you for all you do and this video.

[@BobbyM7847]

Lmao sure you are

[@jeremyboivin2720]

@@BobbyM7847 😂😂😂😂

[@breakfree1949]

How to say you’ve got daddy issues without saying it

[@highvalue1195]

@@breakfree1949 Well some of us didn’t grow up w a Dad and weren’t taught things Patrick talks about. Some of us do have daddy issues and want to better ourselves. Have a great day 👍🏼 😎

[@breakfree1949]

@@highvalue1195 you wrote on a previous thread how you sneak out then say your coerced to have sex with someone twice your age? Then all these other shocking behaviors. Don’t blame this on not having a father, take ownership and blame it on you. Your behavior is not your parents fault, it’s yours. While you and many other billions of people had it rough, using that as an excuse means you’re the problem. The fact you’re 26 and just starting to do something about it, probably won’t help because you left it too late. Your profile pic and title is also really odd. But k I’m salute you because I better late than never, read extreme ownership by Jocko Willink Then I’d say you have at least 10 years of therapy. I dated a girl with similar upbringing than you, she didn’t do anything about it except blame her parents . A psychopath would be an understatement. As a last resort I said I will attend therapy with you, but it’s not for me. First day of therapy she lost it because she wanted to control what I said to therapist. It was over right there and then. She can’t be helped.

[@drsashina]

Nailed it! There was nothing offensive in this video at all. And if anyone took anything as a personal hit, that's a good sign that that area of your life or thinking needs some work. Thank you Patrick. As always - great video and insight!

[@langstonrichardson3828]

Very accurate on a lot of things. Personality, image, and personal growth matters more for high value men.

[@JulzMuya]

Maintaining an on this level is a lot harder than I thought. It really takes a special woman to keep him for the long haul. It takes an extremely strong, loyal, persistent, whole, healed, woman who has a strong support system.

[@toplobster1040]

12:06 "Work on having real CLASS, real VALUES, real PRINCIPLES-- because there's no need to act. It's real." This!!! Training your character is so important. I just don't know where to start. How do I become that if I didn't grow up like that? Won't it always be fake?

[@fareeshahasmatally2169]

Felt like a Chat with a dad, caring uncle, cousin or big brother . heart felt facts.

[@MaverickSteffen]

Tip for men: find a woman whose dad was a biz owner. She gets the game because she lived it, and the hours are no threat to her loyalty. If she’s a 10, young, less than 10 sexual partners, isn’t insecure about women chasing you, takes care of herself and MODEST, ensure you and her dad are similar and you have a partner for life. After 10 years, it still feels like we just met.

[@kimberlymasseur1615]

If you’re offended by something, you’re unwilling to learn, I appreciate this content because I myself I’m willing to learn. Thank you for the insight. God bless.

[@janhavishirke4616]

I've been waiting for this video for so long. I've watched the 20 rules for men video and was waiting for 20 rules for women one. I'm 18 and I guess this is the best time for me to watch this video.

[@spenser6353]

Are you a woman?

[@CONEHEADDK]

Always better to learn the easy way, than the hard ones.. Now "just" implement your knowledge..! Good "luck".

[@mcuembedded]

These are all accurate, I think most well put together men want all of this. And if they don't care about many of these points, you probably need to avoid them because they will mistreat you in some way down the line.

[@lmundishop8047]

I found, the second time around got a high valued man. We have been married 51 YEARS. We met in our place of worship. Not days, or months Years. It is worth the effort to find a man that truly loves his family. He worked hard for us. He built up a simple furniture repair and refinishing business to be the best it could be. We had people in Quito Ecuador send us their high end pianos. We even had refinished matching Yamaha Grand Pialos for Frank and Barbra (yes Sinatra)

[@OlubukolaAnikeAjiga]

For the most part I watch your podcast, you speak intellectually and reasonably even while co-presenting on topical contemporary issues. Kudos

[@cynthiamarquez3370]

My man is blue collar. He works hard and I'm a housewife. We aren't rich but we live within our means and i like our arrangement.

[@vegaschick4eva375]

Number one has to love the LORD ! If we don’t put HIM first nothing works out . Besides FATHER owns everything good!!

[@DerDudelino]

Lots of really good points. Men are strategic thinkers, we think about what we do. Most women just do, especially just talk. It's the reason why men talk less than women, because our status is very important to us and we tend to not let things slip - I totally agree with Patrick here, that the biggest mistake I've seen women making is that I take them with me to a red carpet event or a fancy business affair but they treat those business relationships like a private party and tell people things about me, that are strictly private. That's a big red flag, especially early on in a relationship. I understand it's sometimes a tough balance when you want to befriend people, but it takes ages to build a reputation and only one party to ruin it.

[@EaglesNotChickens999]

Yes you need to be able to trust someone...I would never trust a man who breaks a confidence...You should not trust a lady who does either...

[@joliejolie6201]

I married a high value man. We have the same goals, we are both professionals and make good money. We are living the dream. 😊

[@paulapeacock1595]

Faith, wisdom, character,

[@ModernDayMuse4You]

Accurate advice❤ I was raised by a man-hating mother & as a result made a lot of mistakes in dating that I have since learned from. Though I am a high achiever, I see great value in my partner being an alpha male & I tend to thrive as a submissive wife when I have a husband who LEADS us & can handle business. ❤

[@rohanremi]

Points 17 and 20 are underrated because most men don't have the guts to say it. Videos like this are so valuable in today's age.

[@DIRTYWORKER1000]

Dads with daughters, appreciate this 👍 Pat the Goat 🐐

[@chicanorock-rapfusion6411]

Patrick David should run for President! Smart, knows America’s problems, realistic, always has solutions…

[@lavisionhomme9809]

Pat, I love you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I told my friends, online dating relationship last: 3 months, 6 months, 9 months and if they are lucky 2 years. Period !!!! Online dating is all about physical attraction not personality and moral attraction. Kings work on yourself and the right woman will definitely come along, she will feel your energy.

[@carlel121]

Not true, I met my husband online 15 years together, and I met many couples like this. It depends on what are you looking for, and how serious your are.

[@time2eat850]

" How GOOD OF A MOTHER, She will be? " " Body count MATTERS " This 2 is "ON POINT". I do 💯 Agree with this LIST/Philosophies !!! Thanks for sharing!!! #💯FACTS❤

[@baggladyjayy]

Love the honesty & bluntness I’m definitely the independent female compared to other FEMALES but when I’m business meetings with very successful man it’s a whole different ball game and I admire and want to learn from and them it’s definitely a different type of energy ‼️💯

[@hopefulforhumanity5625]

A high value man is a man who loves, provides, cares, and protects wife and children. And has fun with them. I have a high value man as a father and I also married one. I see a lot of happiness in families in my circle. Middle class, working class, and CHRISTIAN.

[@matildamaher1505]

Teue

[@mr.anonymous520]

Patrick is real one ... Speak on uncomfortable topic most avoid ❤️

[@ageefashioninstitute6217]

Absolutely outstanding presentation of facts from a mans point of view. The examples brought it home. There is a clear and OBVIOUS difference from how a younger man vs a mature man online delivers this type of message to women. Strong but not harsh is very effective! A mans tone will help any woman receive a message and leave her “thinking”.

[@BerserkNBA]

This video should be provided to young adults as a guide, literally listed most of what i've learn from just living.

[@valentinalicheli1928]

Not everybody lives by the Same Rules in life, Nor Care About the Same things. Some people are happy and content and die happily married to a person who, by World Standards, is Not Considered a "High-Value-Person". Don't pretend that everyone is happy with the same things.

[@danitadyess1407]

Excellent video. I know that men and women think differently so I pay attention to men who discuss the man's point of view. I loved how Pat was brutally honest and said, "Hey, I may date her for fun, but it will not go any further." 💯 The simple advice that even if a woman has traveled the world and been to this restaurant or that spa before, she should still say thank you. And on and on I could go. This video was packed with real-world advice that can make or break a relationship. Subscribed immediately. Thank you.

[@darbyohara]

“Not a marriage counselor, not a psychologist, not a therapist” oh so someone who knows what he’s talking about then!

[@cl5193]

Just a happily married man. They are a lot more credible.

[@elliesquires2753]

Great! My laugh for the day🤣

[@riverthelibra607]

Exactly like everyone feels they’re experts and can just provide commentary on topics like it’s no big deal. Pat should just stick to investing /economics commentary and spare us.😂

[@pupplylove3003]

This entire video portrays that the high value man is the prize to win. No high value woman is going to be the pursuer. That only attracts feminine men that don’t want to provide. Like you said a high value man has choices but he will also have the decrement to pick a high value woman and he will do what it takes to keep her not the other way around

[@arseneremy]

Faith, family, fun. Qualities most high value man value. Great video Pat.

[@catalhuyuk7]

I agree with every point but 17, but then I’m not a man. These are the truths I embrace. 1. To enrage a healthy person, lie to them. To enrage a narcissist, tell them the truth. 2. You get what you settle for.

[@Doug5614]

Excellent points made here. Excellent! "One male friend is one too many." "You're mine, I'm yours. Let's roll." 👊🏽

[@emmaphilo4049]

Except the get side piece nd you don't get to do same... It can be hard to accept that part of the contract

[@Doug5614]

@@emmaphilo4049 Only a cuck would tolerate or go for that arrangement. That's not me. They're wired differently. For me, she's either the main gf or a sidepiece.

[@cindyandrews6136]

Whether you guys agree with me or not. It depends on how he treat his Mom with Respect is how he can treat his future wife. That is what a REAL Value MAN is like. A REAL Value Man who knows how to value himself can value others. But it depends on a Man who IS willing to CHANGE. You will see it in his ACTION!!!

[@remyjenney7103]

As a woman, I 💯 agree with you. Be wise as serpents, but innocent as doves.👍🏼

[@marietgagliardi]

I'm married to what I consider is a high value man. He puts me first, is faithful, and kind. What you are talking about is a rich man. Its not the same.

[@carlel121]

Exactly

[@annemarie9980]

Love this no nonsense approach Pat thank you !

[@sylviaowega3839]

Great video. I also know that high value men do not humiliate women in public. Also believe it, or not women do not want a man that has a high body count.

[@osnappoetwoods]

These are the exact same things I taught my daughters!!! 💪🏾💯🔥👑 The proof is in the pudding time will tell how well they've learned. 💯 Thx PBD

[@SurvivorC]

@valuetainment I agree with what you said, but I'd love to see you interview Dr. Ramani as a conversation. I married someone who seemed like a high value man. I set boundaries as a high value woman. But there are those who appear this way who aren't. You're so open to discussing topics I hope you will have her on with this topic.

[@remyjenney7103]

I'm going through a divorce after 26 years of marriage. We have very different values since 2020. Looking ahead to dating, an alpha male is non negotiable for me. That's what I need and want. My husband was also an alpha.

[@Chrissygirl67]

Spot on!!! Unfortunately I figured these things out way later in life. Great advice. ❤

[@jimcrowley1709]

Good show and spot on! It gives men something to shoot for. Most men will never be a high value man but certainly we can work on the things we can change and be better than the average.

[@ch4osaeternum74]

The issue right now is that the modern woman is delusional about her own value.

[@Shevchenko2099]

Might not end being a high value men, but the road of trying will get them close, which is an improvement from where they actually are; I believe I'm not an Alpha but if work myself to be one probably will still not be one but I will be way better than I used to be.

[@jimcrowley1709]

@@Shevchenko2099 people think, and I understand why, that being an alpha man means that a man has to be an a-hole. Actually those guys are weak men. A man can still be loving, supportive and sensitive but baby there's one line you will not cross and I'm not backing down.

[@Shevchenko2099]

@@jimcrowley1709 correct

[@OceanFrontVilla3]

@@ch4osaeternum74 The issue is assuming everyone is the same. We are not. I married my "high value man" who's father died when he was 15 and who put himself through university, (where I met him, as I was doing the same.) We both came from extremely modest backgrounds and I knew from early on he was the one for me. He's talented, extremely intelligent and kind. I recognized immediately he'd make a great father and husband and he has done both in spades. We're not rich, we're comfortable. Our adult children have told us they feel really lucky to have grown up with caring and involved parents who gave them every opportunity and encouragement and constant love and guidance. And that's high value to me. Not fancy cars and expensive watches but someone who's always been there when I needed him most.

[@ellewinters5975]

Such wonderful advice! Thank u 🩷🙏🏻

[@BelieveNUToo]

Lol exactly😂

[@jesuslayalar]

This video is on point. Gentleman pay attention and ladies take notes!

[@InBeautyWayLLC]

You needed to add a whole NUMBER for the one: HE doesn't play games. Because that is a BIG ONE that draws the distinction between a high value man and a lower value one. And add very importantly: HE IS SPIRITUALLY INCLINED AND ATTUNED WITH HIMSELF. HE IS SEEKING A WOMAN WHO IS ONE IN A MILLION OR ONE IN A BILLION.

[@Wolfenstein69924]

I can definitely attest to the rules 11 and 14. Number 11 didn't happen to me but I observed it with my cousin who dated a very obnoxious, loud woman on and off for years. They came to my housewarming party together. A few hours in, she started drunkenly ranting to the other women about how Carribbean men are not good in bed and the ones she's been with are small down there. He ended it again less than a month later, for good.

[@SheOnEarth]

Must have been very embarrassing for your cousin! I’ve met people who think talking about those things are fine, I’ve made a conscious decision not to be around those people anymore

[@LyndaCOLBY]

Agree and I've been married 59yrs....to my man since I was 18 and he was 23!

[@MariaPereira-wk3li]

All your advice is very very accurate and wise, however am an 76 years old, and if the impossible happens I would know all of what you advocate, as I have learned by experience, but I do hope younger women take it all on board

[@bobbieschroder6231]

A *_real_* man does NOT feel insecure when his lady/wife has honest-to-goodness male friends. *_If he can't trust her, then he shouldn't be with her._* He's just letting his immature emotions overrule his logic. Here are some of the reasons why I've always had more male friends than female: * I enjoy the intellectual and logical-thinking connection with smart men. I can't think of one female friend I've ever had who fits this description. * Men normally don't play head games, and they don't expect you to read their minds. They generally say what they mean, and mean what they say. * And, they don't complain simply for the sake of "venting". They're open to finding solutions to the problem that's bugging them. * They usually don't get nit-picking radical about safety. * Male friends are not inclined to compete with me, to be secretly jealous of me, or gossip about me behind my back. * When they go shopping, they don't spend half the day looking at every single thing in the stores. At the current time, I only have one female friend who doesn't normally have these types of issues. The other two that I have, do.

[@bhairavichaudhary6274]

Finally, someone talked about it, especially the 4th category. And yeah, gold is the actual currency, I feel it will be needed. I am from India and all 20 were like common sense to me cz I feel more than 10-15 points are applicable to men as well. But seriously it's tough to find high-value men. So, I have decided to just focus on my work and I hope at the right time things will happen.

[@anti-emo4721]

Things will not happen! You are not getting younger...

[@bhairavichaudhary6274]

@@anti-emo4721 I understand, but what else can I do? At times it's about timing as well. Being at the right place at the right time. I do attract men who genuinely appreciate me for the clarity and qualities I have but I don't find them responsible enough that "Oh! this guy can be a good father or man of the house or a good teammate for life". Now, what can I do?

[@larkohiya]

@@bhairavichaudhary6274 if your looking for a perfect husband and father then just pay for it with your money. If your looking for love and connection relationship with someone...then do that and stop worrying if someone is a "perfect husband". Unless that other person is wanting the same thing it won't matter. Whole ideology around these ideals are questionable.

[@bhairavichaudhary6274]

someone has never been a husband before then how can I expect him to be the perfect husband? The point is we look for certain qualities that can tell that person is mature to a certain degree and understands life. And no it's not merely about love and connection, the institution of marriage is about so many other things as well, and love and connection are two of those things. At times people tell that they want the same thing but they don't really mean it when it comes to practice. And how can anyone pay for a perfect husband? What nonsense?

[@bhairavichaudhary6274]

@@larkohiyaand the perfect husband doesn't need to be a millionaire or billionaire today, the person should be competent and driven, we can work together like a team, and work and efforts compound over time. I understand all this. I think you need to reflect more on your understanding of the perfect partner or father. Mindset plays a huge role in it.

[@trinistar1930]

Woman also have the right to also date multiple men at the same time and not necessarily sleep with any of them. We need to also vet men out to not waste our time. 🎉

[@andreahannah574]

Thank you, Pat!! That was great and everyone needs these reminders.

[@drithije8598]

I am a high value woman , and haven’t need for the rules , I never ever have done something to attract a man, no need , all the best from ALBANIA 🇦🇱 🦅

[@EuakarnKhattiya]

My ex sent me this when we were still together. He kept trying to be a valuable man but always make many options by chatting with other girls, using the dating app, talking shit to me/my friends and family or even can’t control his anger. So funny that I think how can you be a valuable man when you can’t even be an average?

[@elizabethcote9070]

Enjoyed your video. I married a HVM. Has always provided for our family. I call him a doctor of cars! Internal mechanic, engine repairs! My son went to votech school for auto body. Good combo! He restores cars under 1980! Love what they do!

[@racquelmarshall2928]

💥👏😃SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO GOOOOOODDDDD!!!! 22 minutes of my life I won't trade for anything🤩😝....THIS WAS GOLD...Well done and well produced...great job Pat and Team🤩💯

[@CosaDolce]

A man that leads😍😍😍... a good leader even. Makes it so easy to submit

[@rei12figures4]

Great video Pat🔥 I see your “Red Pill” mindset has really been coming out in full stride lately. It’s good to see that we have men like you, honorable men, fighting along side of us. You’re a giant amongst men my brotha 💪🏾

[@ikechicoreralation]

Haha

[@tubeyou101x]

@@younglegend8000some so called red pill guys are wounded narcissists undercover seriously needing help

[@r.p.8906]

Very interesting how you describe yourself as a high value man from the start of the video. I have met high value men and they are respectful, humble and super generous with all people around them.

[@pearlgirl5643]

Good stuff! I like your nonjudgmental vibe and honest advice

[@m.s9146]

Really?? I have a very high value man and he chased me, we are engaged. Of course I gave him a little encouragement. My high value man is a billionaire who loves me desperately. So just can’t agree with you about most of what you’ve said. He had not been through many relationships but married to the same woman for 30 years. A gentleman, well educated, son of an ambassador. Excellent character and manners. I listened to see if your advice lined up with my experience. We own gold mines and that’s our gold investment. Guess there is high value and higher value. I do however AGREE COMPLETELY with your advice to young women. Young Ladies listen up, if you want a great man. THIS IS GREAT ADVICE!!!

[@LanceNRusso]

Everything reminds me of my ex wife, i love her so much, i wish there was a way i can bring her back.

[@wonhur885]

i felt the same way a year ago, my wife left me two years ago and i was so down because she was and is the love of my life, and i couldn't just let her go, so i did all i could to bring her back.

[@LanceNRusso]

@@wonhur885 i wont say i'm glad that you understand how i feel, it is really sad, how did you get her back?

[@wonhur885]

@@LanceNRusso i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me get her back, her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE, you can look her up you will find all you need to know about her online.

[@LanceNRusso]

thank you so much, this is really helpful.

[@SarahR2D2]

Pray tp Jesus for her and do the self work.

[@danaadelo1597]

Patrick and his wife Jennifer Bet- David are pure examples of healthy preservation of the roles in a relationship. Thank you for sharing your views with us. This information is very well presented, and all his materials reflect his class, balanced mindset, asertiveness, and emotional health. I am working on becoming a better version of me, and this content helps a lot.