6 STEPS TO REFINE YOUR PERSONAL STYLE | Find Your Unique Style

[@deborahmichele]

What's so interesting to me is the difference between the words I would use to describe your outfits and the words you use. It really showed me how individual and personal style is. I also really appreciated your explanation of all the steps you went through and your incorporation of silhouette and color - and how that interacted with your three words. Great video.

[@_inflection3209]

One thing I've been enjoying lately is going to my closet after I've showered and all that Jazz and asking myself how I'd like to feel. Classy and sassy? Casual and cozy?. Whatever defining words come to mind , I pick pieces that correlate and put them together. It's easier than picking three words, and my personal style is all over the place, words to define me seems like a way to box myself in.

[@happytofu5]

My style is over the place as well. Maybe I don't even have one. What helps me currently is creating outfits with a wardrobe app, taking whole body photos of said outfits and then deciding if I like what I see or not. That way I can condense some favorite outfits that I can match with the weather, my mood and planned activities. Some items overlap so that I can create mini capsules for certain situations (e.g. visiting my family during fall).

[@_inflection3209]

@@happytofu5 I take daily photos too. Sometimes my outfits work out. Sometimes they don't. Lol

[@FranMinney]

This is so interesting! Also I find these videos so lovely and calming. Thank you for this!

[@KA-kl2cf]

I love your style and the fact that you use quality garments instead of fast fashion. Your evening dress is amazing! If I wore it I would need a more angular necklace, maybe a pendant style, or I would be missing an element to give the outfit some tension. Years ago I made myself a dress in that colour and the fabric I chose was like a raw silk with a subtle dark thread in the material. No one else at the event was wearing that colour and I felt amazing and original without standing out. Thank you for your beautiful, inspiring channel!

[@yasminasaad7746]

Hi, Lumiere. Mine are: abaya, soft and minimal. I stay in Moscow at the moment, but spent 9 years of my life in Emirates andi really bring that abaya style into my looks. It is about wearing dresses without being aluring. It is about dignity of being a woman. I like to wear loose dresses with no heels and no make up. I like my hair and face look polished and taken care of. These looks look too elevated to many people, yet for me they are just right.

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

I think you’ve achieved the most important aspect of personal style, knowing what you love to wear, in detail. You’ve really pinned down, not just the overall mood, but the shapes/silhouettes, colors and fabrics that you love, this will stand you in good stead all your life. I think you were incorrectly color typed, though, you are a cool, soft and medium-deep, not dark. Like you, I love plaids, especially in muted colors.

[@mmclennon]

Continuously impressed by the growth, creativity and clear takeaways I see on your channel. I’ve been a fan for a few years now and honestly it amazes me how different and rich/layered your looks are - even though I’ve seen the pieces before you make things look so fresh. Big fan and excited to stay along your journey!

[@annab9791]

Classic, Romantic & Quirky I wear a lot of classic pieces -- tailored trousers, straight-cut jeans, button-down shirts. But I love to have a romantic element, like ruffles or puff sleeves or flowy fabrics. And quirky usually comes through in a bold color or a fun print, but it could also be in how I put pieces together, like wearing sneakers with a nice dress. I find it interesting that our words are quite similar, yet how we interpret them into our wardrobes is unique to each of us.

[@ninasundell6925]

Love your videos. My three words are …soft, luxe and classic. I’ve also found when I buy clothes I always consider the colour first, otherwise it’s not right even if it ticks all my other boxes.

[@stupor_mundi]

I looked at the word chart and saw so many words that resonated I was reminded of Jane Austen's Emma saying "there will be a difficulty, only 3 at once" 🤣🤣 you're absolutely right, going through the process really helps to define and narrow down our true style. This is something that may take a little bit of time but the pay out is totally worth it.

[@ryeofoatmeal]

omg yes. I like to look the same from morning to night 😆 no matter where I go, what the occasion is, my outfit stays the same. most people I know they look completely different when they are on work, and look freaking glam when they go out. I just like wearing the same piece so that my wardrobe looks cohesive

[@2PuppyProductions]

My 3 words at the moment are natural (ie authentic, relaxed, effortless and incorporating natural fabrics), current (a nod to a trend or a modern silhouette), and classic. Thanks for the reminder to consider my words if an outfit feels off. That will be so helpful!

[@DevinaHeriyanto]

I knew you were warm and delicate! So happy that you get your color analyzed by Merriam ❤️ My three words are simple, feminine, and preppy.

[@bastelkiste2242]

Wow, the red dress looked so lovely on you!

[@l.e.5141]

I enjoy your videos. After thinking about what my words are, I had a hard time narrowing them down to just 3 because I very much dress based on my mood. I came up with classic, relaxed, and quirky which is so fitting because I've always loved a timeless piece contrasted with something unexpected whether that's fabrics, colors, silhouettes, styles etc. I love wearing a casual outfit with dressy gold sandals or a dressier outfit with my converse high tops. I chose relaxed because no matter what I choose, I like my outfits to feel effortless and easy.

[@blake1001x]

Super love the red silk dress 😊

[@happy_vlog]

I realized that I like a playful style too. It makes dressing up more intresting. I started to include pops of color to a neutral aestetic. My favorite way to do that are leather goods like a belt, bag or shoes. Ruffels, puff sleeves, intersting cuts on more neutral peices and playig with texture. I really like the tips you gave to find 3 resonanting words for your personal style. I think it helps a lot with visualization. Thank you for motivating me to work on my personal style. :)

[@watercolourartincapetown2919]

Reading through everyone’s theee words, I can tell that you and your audience have a similar perspective on what they like, it’s jjst that we each take our own unique approach I love how our expression of personal style is so individual yet can still all be grouped as feminine

[@sarahmiley6569]

Loved this one. Thanks for posting the list of style words! That really helped me get more specific with my style words. I feel like I really dialed it in. I picked Sensual- (but not in a sexy way, in a more lace, velvet, jewel tones, silk, leather, soft flowy kinda way) Tough- (as a vibe) and Elegant- graceful and stylish :) Hope this helps me!! Thx!

[@happytofu5]

I struggled to find words, but I think yours fit me quite well as well. I noticed that I like my outfits best if I have a "sandwich" of sensual at the head / face, then a more relaxed and / or tough top and at the bottom something sensual again. I might play around with this sandwich format and try if I only like this combination, or others as well.

[@bellaluna9572]

My style has evolved into classic, playful, academic. I love clean lines and simple but dramatic silhouettes with some dark academia thrown in there. Love some good puff sleeve button downs, sweater vest/vest layering, patterns in minimal colors, contrasting colors, and jumpsuits!

[@christinat8248]

I’ve been giving my three words some through for a while now and feminine always makes my list. My second word is probably effortless and lastly either playful or ironic…I find that I like some irony in my outfit. Like a denim skirt, sweatshirt but then a dressier pair of shoes. I haven’t fully settled on my words but feminine is defiantly one of them.

[@jasminetyxo]

That satin dress is divine on you ❤ this was such a helpful video! I would describe mine as feminine, classic and elegant

[@sophielog1876]

I’ve always been very inspired by your videos but your latest ones have been extra helpful! I don’t know what my 3 words are yet but I’m eager to find out :)

[@imfabia]

Same!! It’s not easy to find 3 words at first ! It’s just takes time!

[@watercolourartincapetown2919]

Yes!! My first word is also playful because I love adding elements of colour, I also love feminine but my third word is elegant. So quite similar to your word polished. no wonder why I’m so drawn to your videos!

[@DailyHelenJ]

Thank you, and I love knowing we share similar words :)

[@Lau-057]

Hi love, I loved the video as per usual! You look STUNNING in that copper dress!! 🤩 However could you do a video on how you pick out your shoes and how you match shoes to outfits because I'm always puzzled about which shoes to wear and I feel it sometimes breaks an otherwise great outfit! love Laura xxx

[@watercolourartincapetown2919]

Yes! That dress was perfection against her skin tone! I’d never have thought to purchase a colour like that. I’m definitely keep to look out for similar tones

[@DailyHelenJ]

Oh yes! :) This is on my list of videos to make. It's always a little bit of a trial and error process but I'll be sharing some go-to ways I like to wear different shoes!

[@The.Violet.1]

My 3 words are : feminine, vivid & classic with an ethereal, artistic & cozy vibes ✨️!!!! In my wardrobe currently I own fun bright colors / prints & silhouettes that I can wear for anything including workwear pieces! Yet I don't have "basics" in neutral colors or classic silhouettes! Not all of them ! I have trousers: deep green & bright yellow & pumpkin orange (my kind of neutrals 😊 ) I just started adding them ( leaning more on the chocolatey browns & I keep wanting Grey!! )

[@watercolourartincapetown2919]

Oooo I love ethereal!

[@DailyHelenJ]

Your style and wardrobe sounds so lovely!! I esp love the ethereal, artistic and cozy vibes

[@The.Violet.1]

@@DailyHelenJ thank you 😊

[@The.Violet.1]

@@watercolourartincapetown2919 thank you 😊

[@solenebouysse5322]

My three words are : creative, practical/utilitarian, feminine Creative means mostly combining colours and interisting details in my outfits, quite similar of your playful, but I usually dress quite formally so creative feels more accurate for me. I think the others words are quite self explanitory. I love a bit of utilitarian elements, my outfits needs to be practical for my activities. Feminine is as you described it. Love your channel ! 😊

[@anavargas]

This is so helpful. ❤❤❤

[@emmanuelleh7218]

Ever since you mentioned your 3 words in a previous video I've been trying to figure out mine unsuccessfully... Thank you for the prompt/list ! With the seasons changing in Europe, it's definitely time to start tackling this seriously !

[@KristinaDMoore]

Intention, flair, comfort

[@DailyHelenJ]

Thanks for sharing with me Kristina :)

[@obscurity7]

I've had a really hard time with my 3 words, but the closest I can settle on is: Easy, Eclectic, Practical. I don't do fussy, but I also have a real mix of styles and vibes. Easy and Practical are different in that one is relaxed, somewhere between effortless and undone, and the other speaks to the fact that I cannot abide things that are uncomfortable, or too fanciful/whimsical. But then across all of that, I have everything from a comic book villain trench coat in green/black to a loudly printed boho maxi dress.

[@mii-chin143]

My 3 words now are probably: comfortable/functional, feminine, chic 😊 though they've changed quite a bit over time but I've realized that comfort and function really is my go-to since I don't need to be as careful with my clothes and thus can move freelt without worrying too much. But chic fashion has also made it ro the list, mainly after watching all your videos 💕 and I've always loved feminine clothes like skirts and frills but now I try to balance it more, which I really enjoy~

[@DailyHelenJ]

Thanks for sharing! Comfort and functionality is so important, I really feel like you can just tell when someone is wearing comfy clothes and feels at ease. It actually looks a lot more chic to me :)

[@watercolourartincapetown2919]

I was thinking the exact same thing!! Chic is a result of comfort and function

[@teresareviewsitall3613]

I overall loved this video, instead of the playful though i would say relaxed to describe the general silhouettes you go for. Playful to me would be more like valeria lip’s style, more turnt up.

[@jumplc]

I think my 3 words are simple, causal and effortless :)

[@tuehanhhan5271]

Oh very French style lol 😊

[@DailyHelenJ]

Love that! :) I always admire a more effortless looking style

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

Classic, feminine and elegant are mine.

[@marionannmacredie]

❤ super video!!!

[@despinastrongilos3977]

Hi! I always enjoy your videos! I have a bit of a technical question.. how do you tuck some of those oversized shirts that avoid the bunching up around the waist.. or cropping up sweaters or cardigans to compliment our outfit. I would love to see a hack video from you !

[@livelovelaugh336]

Kinda random but I love the mirror you have! Where did you get it? And what do you use to secure it to the wall?

[@malo5]

So nice ❤😊

[@louisenaughton5560]

the dress is amazing on you

[@sanetzwiegers564]

Great video with great ideas..thank you...my words:minimal/flowy/elegant...effortless😊

[@malpert1]

My words rn might be preppy, laid-back, classic with a twist

[@user-xm1od9nb1m]

The words I can come up with at the top of my head are: androgynous and soft. I’m not sure about my third one yet 🤔 I’m cool toned and I think that’s why ai’ve naturally never been drawn to bold color blocking, but I do like to sprinkle in some color with patterned clothes, but I prefer pattern with more muted colors like pale yellow, blue or green, olive green etc mixed together or with gray or black for example. Wearing other colours that I don’t think is as flattering I like to wear on pants or skirts, like you said it’s easier to ”get away” with if it’s not right by your face

[@wandaolinyk195]

I like the "Personal Style Words" document you shared in the video. I was looking for a link to it so that I can print it out. I wasn't having much luck. I can create my own, but maybe you have the link to the one in the video? Thanks!

[@frederikavanhout4609]

Simple, classic, oversized, comfort

[@celianewcomb5588]

Have you ever heard of Dressing Your Truth? It is a colour system but so much more. It takes into account your facial features and personality and is a lot easier to work out than the undertone, skin colour systems. It also gives advice on texture, patterns and design lines that work for each type. I have found it amazingly helpful and makes shopping so much easier. I think you were probably mistyped.

[@Anna_Argentuma]

I wish i could wear such pretty wide trousers of light colors in Moscow! However, 3 words that define my style from September till May, every year, are: mud, mud and MUD in the streets. So no space for long trousers/skirts or pretty shoes...

[@khushilunkad5544]

Hi, the 'shop my outfits' link in your description is broken. Could you please update it?

[@ivaneteroark710]

Where is that backless rust dress from?

[@likewise6867]

you look so feminine and chic in this red silk dress ❤ (even if chic out of your words) (and lipstick matching perfectly👍) i don't know my words yet...

[@imfabia]

Yes love her lipstick

[@eviozyra6300]

What lipstick are you wearing here? I love it!

[@mansoor3159]

Hey! Lumiere you're looking too too pretty and I love your vlogs so so much you inspired me so so much and I wish you reach 70K Subscribers very very soon?💞✨☺️

[@DailyHelenJ]

Thank you :)

[@joyceadegboyega8524]

Does personal style mean that everyone does me ?

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

I disagree with your color analysis, you are definitely cool-toned, no question.

[@ande100]

Some 35+ times "like"... like I don't know yet....like ehm my like the fabric.... Geez! I might sound nagging and such, but reading and adding vocabulary will make You and hence advice will make your vid sound and look more professional and believable. ' Like not what It sounds "right" right now, like in front of a plain background and with the info of alterations etc .. like I said earlier! Ease understand this as biting sarcasm yet also a teaching moment to drop words and at the same time find a Thesaurus to eagerly enhance your passive and active vocabulary! Soft hug!

[@NSquee9]

Geez, learn to type coherent sentences before criticizing someone else's English.