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[@throwaway3286]

See I’m just not meant for the dating world. This shit is exhausting! Why can’t ppl just be straightforward and stop wasting each other’s time?

[@natalieblades2083]

🙏🏼

[@jamaicanscorpio9522]

Amen to that!

[@sherrymshephard-massat5929]

It IS exhausting. The back n' forth of it all. There's some outright cruelty out there what with 'ghosting' and all. I mean, can't you just see eachother as human beings with flaws and not this "I will treat you with respect and care as long as you have something I want" attitude?

[@Dalitso_Mule]

I’m done too 😒

[@Dalitso_Mule]

I’m done too 😒

[@genieyess1720]

If a woman stops chasing, she is done. It’s not a game!

[@shayaeido8405]

That’s the difference

[@aieshab3469]

On point

[@tamaraeleano7920]

Yup it's the hard truth. Just done.

[@hazeltreeretreat9035]

Exactly

[@Unicorn-sg1ls]

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@ladicamille5932]

3 rules... 1. Read the room 2. Dont match energy 3. Never chase always replace If they Ghost you...respect the dead and let them RIP (Regret ignoring your presence.)

[@hairscience1016]

POWERFUL STATEMENT WOWWW!!🎉

[@latessatkinson236]

💪🏽💪🏽 ✨SHARING ✨💪🏽💪🏽

[@7spiritprayerwarrior-sf9he]

Lol ,I like that

[@BabyGrand77]

Please step to the front of the room!!! You spoke a word here!!! 🎯🎯🎯

[@ReneeHarris96]

👏🏼👏🏼💯💯🗣️

[@AlexandraZack-pc9le]

If you find yourself questioning whether or not they like you, they don't. Move accordingly, and only reciprocate the energy you receive. Simple.

[@Sun_Goddess89]

❤

[@xheartiiz]

THIS!

[@bridgettesweeney9809]

💯 percent correct!

[@Mel-ee1qe]

Not true. A lot of ppl think I don't like them when I actually care deeply.

[@Sydonie-po8iq]

Yess❤❤

[@saradf]

I let them believe I’ll be there no matter what, take me for granted, i play dumb 😇 then suddenly poof ! ghost and block. They always come back but too late boy bye.

[@teciahenderson8176]

😂😂😂💪🏽💯

[@dodo-e4x]

"They always come back"... Frr 😂*always*

[@tlotlo7971]

Same

[@danijasthestylist1991]

Same

[@notjustaprettyface]

Period!!!

[@melbaT2770]

I never chase men. Waste of time.

[@yasminogbu8929]

Total waste.. if they want you they will be there

[@gloriabitutu8776]

I agree

[@VARSHASAKETI]

Total waste of time 😂😂😂😂

[@vanallenk5651]

@@melbaT2770 I agree because if you give them too much, they don’t appreciate it anyways so why chase.

[@juliewambui2618]

A total waste of time and energy

[@lotus1716]

The problem with "matching energy" is that, when a woman has been thoroughly rejected while chasing the man... and stops, then he starts to chase her with the entitlement that she should just immediately pick back up and be receptive... he's not acknowledging how he ignored her for his need for "space". So when she takes hers and decides to match the old energy that he gave her, there is a double standard and the guy doesn't like a taste of his own medicine. I have a strong sense of justice and don't allow men to go unpunished for neglecting women's emotions. Men are even more fragile than women if they're willing to give up after a single rejection. Imo that's being controlling. Expecting women to be receptive all the time, but a man is okay walking in and out at will. What's good for the goose, must be good for the gander

[@patriot-hj5vx]

Could not have put it better myself. Mirroring disengagement makes these guys SO MAD. They get used to you carrying everything and see that as a right. When you stop, they get mad AT YOU instead of reflecting on their behavior that led to the rupture.

[@khemilife1187]

Perfectly stated 💣💥

[@sherrymshephard-massat5929]

@@patriot-hj5vx Exactly. I can't believe it when I experience it. It's hard for me to grasp how a dude can do something really mean and unnecessary but when YOU give them a taste of their own medicine, YOU become the bad guy. It's like, "okay, I did that BUT YOU DID THAT" with no regard for the fact that if he hadn't done what he did in the first place, none of it would've occurred. You wouldn't have felt like you had to defend yourself and stand up for your human dignity.

[@momoVerse-z5h]

“I have a strong sense of Justice and don’t allow men to go unpunished for neglecting women’s emotions.” That right there sums up how I am when I’ve encountered such situations.

[@jaethezoe]

💯💯

[@anandanabila8439]

When it doesn’t seems right just dispear and keep enjoying life to the fullest

[@goldenbeauty3032]

Simple as that 💯

[@beckysouthlondon]

Absolutely

[@nickbannigan]

The problem is, this has been planted into modern dating, it's baked into the way people think they should feel.... therefore it's happening too much, under false circumstances... in return the dating world has become a complete mess of Narcissism

[@sasipriya3449]

Very true brother we don't believe that we are self worth we look for outside validation that makes aman to play with girls lives thank you for the 💯/ clarity 👍👍

[@anandanabila8439]

@@sasipriya3449 Thanks 😊 I am a sister 🥰❤️💕

[@EileenPurdy-q6z]

I don’t chase men. If they are not interested, I am gone.

[@girlygirl402]

What I’ve noticed in my dating life is they love bomb so hard in the beginning that it’s almost a turn off and then when I start falling for them is when they switch up and want space it’s a draining game that just leads to fights and animosity.

[@jeremyreese9663]

This shit is exhausting, almost like you have to pretend to not be interested, I’m the type if I like you I like you if I don’t I don’t period. It’s like it’s okay to be interested but pretend to be emotionally unavailable for them to chase. Shit dating has become more like a job interview if you ask me.

[@serenitygilles7064]

I just cut i t off with a couple guys I really liked...I had to crash out for 2 hours with my kitten...your right.

[@sherrygoldman8938]

Too exhausting, all this cat and mouse shit these unhealthy, broken and scarred people are playing who shouldn't be dating at all. You can't even be real and truthful with these sicko's. A person shouldn't have to wonder why you stop chasing, just tell people whatever is going on. Dating toxic people will make you sick.

[@MonicaPerry-cn4qd]

Yes it does.....Worn Out

[@StanleyHill-y3i]

Facts

[@Marta-b9m]

By walking away, we don't chase quick impressions, do not wait for cheap validation creating stronge self-worth

[@iamcohengrey]

Tbh This only works if the person actually cared. Otherwise they just gonn move on with they life’s and forget u exist. Especially if they have multiple options. A man who don’t care, never cared , ain’t gon suddenly care. The person gotta actually gaf about u in some way.

[@1crafter408]

Unless there’s sex involved… then some players will try to come back just for the physical stuff

[@PrettyToez07]

True

[@PrettyToez07]

Yes

[@khattak7077]

😢

[@sweetthang7573]

They all care, just depends on how they value you.

[@starrchild1972]

Lately, I have been listening to so many males say, " Never Chase a women" but then get upset when they are called "sassy"? This is what women mean when labeling men that aren't in touch with their masculinity. Chasing a woman should come naturally, But never in a way that seems forced or strange. It is in a woman's genetic make up to be hunted while the masculine is instinctively the hunter. The reward in the end is the prize...a loving caring feminine that will always represent her masculine in a good light.

[@DontDooTooMuch]

I feel like a man will chase who he really wants. If he doesn't, that means he's not that into you.

[@Erik7prc]

​@@DontDooTooMuch women get approached in person and online so much that when a man of good intention and quality approaches theres this indifference present. For me if i get that vibe i wont take it as "try harder," i will let her be. Even though i can see myself being with her. Social media is training men and women to be more manipulative than humans already are naturally. Thats already a bad start if someone is doing something or not doing something to get you to chase. Its like, ok, what other manipulative games does this person know. Pretty women are ever where. But a pretty one with good intentions and that is grounded are not.

[@starrchild1972]

@@DontDooTooMuch yes some cases that’s true, but there are also men that are fearful of rejection others that are intimidated by independent women and the list goes on and on and on it’s not always that he’s not into you because he doesn’t chase.

[@starrchild1972]

@@Erik7prc true, but also the quality of the approach rather than quantity is most important. We do get approach a lot mainly online. It gets a bit overwhelming. I tend to go for the most aggressive man because they are the most memorable. Those that do not “go harder” in their approach are typically forgotten. When you are aggressive, but respectful, you stand out above the rest.A lot of these dudes today don’t know how to talk to women. They’re very disrespectful in their approach and they treat all women like that one that may have been nasty in her rejection. The dating pool today is contaminated and the “pretty” woman speak may have a lot of inner work to do in most cases.

[@Erik7prc]

@@starrchild1972 I'm in my mid 40s and I have female friends show me the messages and tell me all kinds of stories. It's very much different from today. I personally do do cold approaches for years now. I found that the best relationships formed organically. Like you genuinely saw an interest in the person. Simply from standing in line somewhere and a conversation sparked "organically." It seems "to me" that if it doesn't happen that way you are really asking for it. Especially online. People have so many personality and attachment issues but steadily trying to get up under someone else. Rarely you find a person using their introspection skills and putting a solution to work. I think that is what's missing. So much is put in to being outter focused that many don't address past trauma and neglects. Which ultimately show up in approach, relationships, and marriages!

[@catwoman7102]

You should make them WAIT. Don’t be too available. Make them EARN YOUR TIME & ATTENTION. If they are patient enough then they truly care about you and are not just looking for validation.

[@GodHelpMe369]

Giving the same energy that you're getting is key and if you don't like that energy then move on. It can be hard but that's when you need to choose yourself over the damn illusion/fantasy. A man who loves a woman will not ignore her, ever, period. So... If he ignores me I will step back and he will lose me. Simple. Simple. Non-dramatic and uncomplicated. I don’t, under any circumstance: play these childish-abusive-controlling mind games. I will only be with a man who values and appreciates me, and treats me as the Queen, I AM. (Daughter of the Most Hight; King of kings!) Because I am a beautiful and kind and divine and sexy and wise and intelligent and magical woman: who knows my worth. Period.

[@queenjee8570]

❤that part!

[@kiki-yf4qr]

And there it is👏👏👏👏

[@christinekohler8866]

You said it 💯perfect. Put that shit in a book. I’m with you 💯

[@ShyBabyxoxo]

Love it! And exactly what you said, it’s an abusive, childish, controlling mind game not to mention manipulative.

[@teddyBear-tp3tu]

Yasss daughter of the most high🎉

[@divinelyguidedwithmaxx5481]

You should never have to have control over the person you are with 1st red flag. That's not love it's immaturity & ego.

[@siaitsme6800]

Exactly!!

[@kgaskins01]

Chasing is a Masculine energy.

[@DivestedConfessions]

Yes ma’am👏🏾

[@ShaniOnSinai]

You gotta be hot and cold. Available and then suddenly busy. They lose their minds, and then you comfort them. ❤

[@virginiahoward1660]

That's dark 😭

[@vasiliki8]

No man..that is evil

[@u-r-blasphemous]

Who hurt you?

[@blumondayz4837]

I love it when narcissist feel comfortable enough to openly share the trauma bonding techniques that they use on their victims. All you have to do is sit back and quietly listen to people. They always reveal which side they are on through “innocent” remarks. She is actually coming out and telling you what she plans to do to you before you even meet her.

[@kendraphic]

Nobody got time for games

[@CeciledeLuire]

your thesis is good. unhealed people/ people with self worth issues miss the "lovers" when they're gone. because there's nothing left then to suppress/ cover their own fears.

[@TheModernAlchemix]

This!!!!! People are avoiding dealing with the shit that would actually make them good partners by constantly dating 😢

[@encryption15]

This isn’t true for everyone. Ghosting someone won’t automatically make them chase you, they might just match energy because they don’t want to look stupid

[@oliwiasurymt1123]

Facts💯speaking from experience

[@comfortzone5618]

Yeah! Experience. Some people’s ego are big AF they won’t chase or self reflect.

[@Tnaphan]

Do men really think us women will “always be there”

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

Yup. Object permanence. Everyone does it

[@jl5814]

I reply same second or never. I never felt so grateful for not having object permanence thanks to severe trauma. I just try to erase the “difficult“ parts of it and keep the object impermanence lol. out of sight out of mind (or the other way around) is real for me and I treat others as if they also have it. but yes, I know other people have object permanence lol.

[@raniyuna2930]

Yes. That's why they are so surprised if you suddenly vanish. But it's best tool to show them bye - enough is enough.😏

[@Dreamsareareality]

Yes. I told this guy i was dating nearly 20 years ago stop playing with me, I will be gone. He said yeah ok you talk tough. This was 19 years ago we broke up i moved on to my longtime partner. He just called recently. He is so 20 years ago. No way never again.

[@BahatiCalliope]

Yes. Weird how they think. It breaks em when they see you can move around

[@km1526]

This is facts😅…So on point. & when a woman is no longer interested she is done & gone forever. Someone eles has her attention or she is out busy focusing on herself. It’s not a game.

[@CeciledeLuire]

i've never felt the will to control someone. i've always felt like running when someone loved me and i couldn't reciprocate. no wonder it took me a while to understand that many people are such power control freaks.

[@PrincessofGod-pog]

Me too! But as I get older and have experienced life, friends and family... I get it and now want control (with good intent for them too) so I can protect and control myself and my reality.. i sort of feel late to the party of how society operates.

[@georginaporter946]

You need your look up dismissive avoidance as your description of running from love is that of a DA.

[@CeciledeLuire]

@@georginaporter946 wrong. Leaving when you know you can't love them is not avoidant-it's just fair and the right thing to do hun.

[@diasporalounge-UNCHAINED]

💯 Exactly! That's what healthy self aware people do.

[@bebedulce9986]

​@@PrincessofGod-pogHi, I'm autistic and that's how autism presents itself "feeling behind in things in life and society, not reading between the lines especially in sarcasm"

[@pooh4025]

Ignore them,don't show intrest those are the ones who persue you.

[@michellek2083]

What?

[@Elvinevelyia]

I'm like Chameleon, the moment i smell that u're playing games with me then i change it for you by ignoring you more😂😂😂

[@crystalbee9706]

Only if u had sex with them. They usually dgaf.

[@Tatianarain]

5:45 “When it dawns on people, it really hurts”. I have never felt greater pleasure in life than hearing those words confirmed to my ears 😊muahahahaha Thank You Alex !

[@catylover6720]

hhhhhhh🤍🤍

[@India423.]

😂😂😂yep❤

[@someonespecial3149]

The way we allow social media to govern everything we do and think is crazy … I wish we could get bk to dating without social media influences..

[@BlessedViolet]

❤

[@reemsaif3105]

Never chase anyone. Queens are Queens ❤

[@JayH1931]

I LOVE when you said “I’m a guy, I’ll chase a girl.” Love that. But after awhile you stop because you know if she doesn’t want you or if she’s just mad.

[@coffee_pigglet]

This is actually really true It’s a psychological thing Whether the person really liked you or not The moment you stop putting sm energy into a person especially when it’s not being reciprocated The other person starts to pull towards you I do it and it always happens that way

[@joeymuriungi8237]

Been crying for 2 months straight...I'm learning not to. But Lord...you funny I've laughed 😂 heartbreak is the woorrrrrst 😥

[@pruittnaomi3156]

It'll get better beautiful ❤️

[@salsawaldah345]

All will be well with time and you will laugh at how you cried

[@tanyarodriguez157]

I’m with you hun you are not alone! Letting go of someone you THOUGHT you had a future with is hard.

[@JJohnson-pz7mp]

❤❤❤

[@sunflowerroark5170]

The game is exhausting. I dated a guy a few times. I thought everything went well, until he ghosted me. I ask his cousin what happened. He was using me to see what level of pretty he could get. I was a stepping stone for his ego. Later, I found out he was having frequent booty calls with his step sister. He did me a favor, but it was a puzzle for awhile.

[@Adelina24244]

His step sister? YUCKKK 🤮

[@TheModernAlchemix]

Wow…. I haven’t considered just being seen is enough to ghost. Man, people’s egos are so fragile 😢

[@talibahdivine]

Taking the space is like a reset.. I never want to take space, I'm the smotherer 🤦🏾‍♀️ .. but when we do take the space it's like my head is clearer and I get a full reset to get that original feeling like we first met.. so I'm learning to take space and time for myself

[@samxsara]

It’s a good feeling

[@jae.m.a]

I have just been ghosted for the second time (and I seldom like people so my ego was dying) and this video was very helpful. Still hurts, but it makes more sense and closes the gap for me coming to terms with.

[@SteffanyAtkinson93]

ive been seeing this guy for 4 years on and off and things were finally going well then all of the sudden he pulled away 😢 so im trying to pull back my energy hopefully things get better thanks your videos are so awesome❤

[@OllieKish]

How are you doing currently?

[@shanesem5313]

I agree it helps to pull back. Especially when they are manipulative. It helps the energy for both parties

[@AFLive]

That ENDING was PERFECT. I needed to hear that , thank you

[@4truth1111]

Definitely better than therapy. Hard facts 💯

[@JM-ls8du]

The blinking part is so funny 😂😂😂

[@Lisatheecreator]

He called me out with the blinking 😂😂😂😂

[@Hiphopbaby_0177]

As hell 😂

[@CarolyneWahito]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@gigiarmany]

these silly games are the reason I'm blissfully single..after two divorces .. I'll stick to enjoying my career, friends, kids, grandkids & hobbies..I dont envy the young generation who have to go through these mind games..no thx😒

[@LOVETHYSELFDAILY]

There are younger men out there looking for a sugar mama. Beware!

[@seagreentangerine2065]

I decided to desire financial independence and dump men. Now I am in control, at peace. I doubt very much doubt I'll ever align with another man, I'll enjoy sex, but that's it. I don't think they're are very many emotionally mature men in this world lol

[@mermaidtales4009]

I stopped chasing.. started other way round & I gave & gave.. Gemini was lazy .. He knows he fumbled his Pisces blessing. Thanks, luv to share a blunt with you.. dig yr vibe 😂 Love from Australia 🇦🇺 ❤️

[@RisingPhoenix81]

When he said "MF I'm blinking" 😂 I was out...lmao❤ I wasn't ready 🤣 😂 😭

[@Jasmynshawntel]

My ex an I broke up.... currently no contact. I really appreciate videos like these because it can be hard at times.

[@jojostayloyal]

How did it go?

[@Zphora]

Love your growth of the years Alex. I used to watch your channel years ago. Love the evolution. Your powerful and you worked hard ❤

[@jessicanowherefound4188]

I don't chase once the feeling is mutual. You don't answer text until the next day, nope!? I give chances but if it's all the time nope! A person is not that busy. You have others that entertain. not begging either 🤷🏻‍♀️😎♌🦁😀.

[@softlife45]

Alex i just watched one of your old videos. You were hell on wheels😂😂😂

[@listeningtoyou]

You never run out of stuff to say and I love listening to your knowledge

[@silviamihailova6042]

True love and true friend shouldnt be chased

[@princessleah6826]

“Things that don’t matter, like that Taxi that robbed you one time in Mexico City”😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ronjaraubertochter971]

ohmygod😮 i just have the feeling that every word u speak to me was just what i needed to hear and i really mean every single word. ❤❤❤

[@evarodriguezalequin5705]

Very interesting! Some men tend to take things for granted. When women are not chasing men, then it’s the guys who’s chasing women. But then again some girls will open their eyes 👀 and say Noooo. You didn’t know how to cherish and consider me.

[@wizardkitty92]

Thank you for these videos. They are helping me mentally right now so much.

[@LaLaTheMoonGoddessOne]

What I don’t get is when I say I’m done, show I’m done…they get dumb. Here goes the restraining order.

[@jack-gx]

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.

[@kanereall]

I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let her go. So i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.

[@jack-gx]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach one?

[@kanereall]

Her name is Maurice Gleti, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@jack-gx]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

[@CameronHarris-f1c]

It takes a minute to get over. I’ve been there and doesn’t feel good. It makes you question your self worth. External validation can be addicting but you’re more important right now. Learn to love yourself, which is what I had to do. Then you’ll start attracting people with self worth, non broken type. Almost like a mirroring effect.

[@noxoloradebe3751]

This has been so helpful omg, starting to realize a few things i did wrong, and gonna work on them and myself aswell.❤

[@vanallenk5651]

Desperate people are like bill collectors

[@talibahdivine]

Damn that's a good way to put it lol

[@VivSees]

Father Alex, some volcanos do erupt and violently so. Others let their magma pour out slowly.

[@VistorinaShipanga]

Not you bringing a whole science lesson 😂😂

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

nerd

[@Sa-od9ke]

Why can t men just trust & love 😢why predict....calculate & make it a game. 😊❤

[@deedontcare584]

It’s women who play the games that’s why lol

[@SK-no2pp]

I love your channel! Thank you! It has really helped me. It’s better than my weekly therapy lol 😂

[@melissaoviedo1021]

Lmfao “shut up Melissa” is my sign to get the course

[@MelsemK]

My name is Melisa too I wonder what time stamp he says this 🤣

[@ddu020]

How is that even possible, when you like somebody , you like them, when you do it you do not.. How can someone feel that way?!?!

[@Iamconjurequeen]

Love the music with the gems 💎 you droppin 🔥

[@castaway2680]

Relinquish power to the person you trust and love....that's a power move people are helpless to your surrender. Right Alex?

[@monaasmr2936]

Once u experience love being single hurts

[@TseringNorbu-y1l]

God is love 💕

[@SilkChocolateKisses]

Looovvvved your energy and light hearted temperament Alex! ❤

[@Dualshockbarbie]

I had to stop the video at 5:30 😂😂😂😂 QUINTEESHA?!! I am weak

[@lt4203]

This is so true! Can’t wait to watch what else comes to the surface… perfect analogy 💯

[@marjoriesmith2578]

I'm tainted by relationships.. your videos are intriguing

[@yokonono2171]

Your content is gold Alex. I appreciate your wisdom. You seem to post at the right times

[@marthatowler3057]

“Quintisha” 😭

[@spiritfiyuh11]

Yeah right 😂😂😂 i was just making Coffee when i heard it 😂🤣🙏 💎

[@Rebelle07]

Relax, Martha.

[@godstallchild7964]

@@Rebelle07its a joke…not that hard to tell 😂

[@malerosenyashamailos700]

Thank you 💕❤ that is exactly what's happening now

[@lolygallegos3422]

This won’t work on an avoidant. They’ll just detach more.

[@samxsara]

Yes and no. First they’ll chase back because it hasn’t yet sunk in that they’ve lost you

[@renee55]

They reel you back in to discard you. After blaming you for everything and calling you crazy.

[@JANEYZANEY]

@@renee55that’s narcissistic behaviour

[@ANB44]

This is ABSOLUTELY GOLDEN!

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

🌋 Look at this volcano emoji! Its exploding like i always thought. lol 🌋🌋🌋🌋

[@catylover6720]

Hhhhhh🤍🤍

[@pyaaratfirstspice]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@sandradesouza9940]

But they do explode!! I don't care what anyone says, they do 🤣🤣

[@patrizia8494]

1st of all thank you for the REAL TALK!!! Your personality is so cool it goes just right with what and how you're trying to get across again just thank you cutie peace.

[@alice-hp7dh]

If he has other women, no problem if we vanish.

[@ceeceeme1]

He’s going to have other women most men do lol! He still goes for the one that is mysterious and hard to get. The other women are just convenient, available and desperate.

[@alice-hp7dh]

@@ceeceeme1 if you still are mysterious after months, you have multiple relationships or you are a CIA agent.

[@ceeceeme1]

@@alice-hp7dh Perhaps

[@sbeth82sc]

I love your Authenticity!

[@Sunsoula]

Look like Bruno Mars 😍❤️‍🔥

[@andreacdoyle]

this is so trill & explained the best than others XO

[@APARAJITA-26]

It's actually so sad I wish people were more self secure and self loving so that they don't have to play these nasty games

[@lalea9311]

This is why being on your own is great. No games of the mind. 👌🏼 This generation is different. Don’t be too interested basically. 2025 is almost here. We all deserve better. 🤷‍♀️ if people play games of the mind, then it’s time to move on.

[@CremeDeLaCreme085]

Father Alex you look so Handsome 🥰

[@TheJuanitaperez025]

Thank you for existing ❤❤❤ very much needed :)

[@EriPages]

This guy is looking like he could play a role in that Brazilian movie "City of God"

[@nancylakot8139]

😂😂

[@CarolPerdum]

Okay you’ve convinced me! I am going to have strength and stop chasing (commenting) on (my celebrity Love’s) posts and videos, which I have been doing for a couple of months without any response, ha ha and although, he pins ALL of my comments which is about 100 and something at this point but never personally responds. I send messages to his private photos (“Time-sensitive) messages/photos and he does not respond. He likes some of my comments, so I’m going to stop commenting for a while, as he sends out post or videos almost every day, which he has started doing more videos and posts since I’ve started commenting, (usually it’s been maybe One video or picture per every two weeks. Now he sends out none, 1, sometimes three a day), so I will stop and see what happens, for real, now, at least for one week to see what happens 😂. Thanks!

[@kiranmal4057]

How do you literally get away with wearing pearls 🤯

[@DontDooTooMuch]

Because he's different 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@babybug7300]

Check the tan beads underneath the pearls as well, it’s in the details bbygrl

[@nancylakot8139]

😂😂😂

[@nancylakot8139]

U killed me with just that line of comment 🤣🤣🤣

[@seolajun3653]

I feel you talk the realest out there

[@basshunter9018]

they dont always chase me when i stop chasing them thou

[@19katsandcounting]

Best to never start chasing.

[@Wewereneveryoung]

gotta move on

[@Zeerokool]

Just making room for someone better or for you to get to know you better ❤

[@softlife45]

Because they don't like you

[@lalaheart76]

Because they get someone else's attention

[@AM-qr4ys]

thank you thank you thank you. you have helped me SO much. i appreciate you and these videos ❤

[@anandanabila8439]

I swear man and women are not made for eachother 😂😂😂😂😂 I decide to be single and enjoy my life ❤

[@irinakushnir8338]

Because in life we have to change the road to get different results 😊

[@Asthesunshine]

“If they feel relief …. You gotta take a look at yourself” 😂😂😂

[@mg5570]

Thank you for your videos. Your smile makes me smile.

[@scc8728]

I rhought they exploded like that too....everyone is screaming and running for their life 🏃‍♀️

[@dcaramelone]

You explained this so well. 4 stars🎉

[@theveryplumdarcey]

"Quintesha" 😂😂😂

[@sarahsmith3016]

“Why are you blinking like that” I f*cking DIED

[@mostgraciousone]

4:37 ~ I got to blink!😅😂🌷

[@Beela2020]

Hhhhhh😂😂😅

[@Foxie635]

I stopped chasing and it’s been four weeks.

[@fluffythebluepersian4888]

Has he come back?

[@Foxie635]

@@fluffythebluepersian4888 No

[@areebahshakeel2409]

Can you please tell if weed complicates these feelings in men?

[@SK-no2pp]

It numbs them

[@dianacazadora360]

Hell yes! Weed makes people act very strange, paranoid , anxious and aggressive.

[@samxsara]

It dissociates them