Sobriety, Grief, and Hearing Loss (with K.Flay)

[@MadeItOutPodcast]

Getting Unstuck Pema Chodron www.audible.com/pd/B002V8OFNC?source_code=ASSORAP0511160006&share_location=pdp

[@dios.fanni1]

"can you tell me more about that" is the best way to make someone feel that you actually care and wanna hear what they have to say. every time Mal asks it I smile a little. and bro, being able to make all these people feel so safe in front of a camera talking about sometimes pretty heavy topics is incredible. so glad I'm here

[@Valca.Design]

"I don't know what happens after I die, I'm pretty sure maybe nothing, you know? So...god, I'd like to be here." Tear inducing. Such a great interview.

[@MissGhostface]

I'm 35 and I've been a K.Flay listener for more years than I can count! Her music was the first female musician I enjoyed and opened the door for so many amazing female musicians for me. She was the first one to say the things I needed to hear from another woman! Zion I has been part of my musical life most of my life, their track Coastin' is LIFE CHANGING and I freaked when she was on it!! I hope everyone goes and listens, it's one of the most beautiful songs in the world. 💜

[@anneplemons]

I love Mal’s accountability! It’s awesome to see such a healthy response.

[@laurynpawl6839]

Great episode as always. Mal's interviewing skills really shine. Asking tell me more is such a great way to keep a conversation going. As a blind women i related so much to the hearing loss aspect and about learning to accept it. As there will still be days the loss vison in my case is still felt now. Ive been legally blind since birth. Also the judgment of others behavior while drinking is such an interesting topic. I still struggle with today. Great episode I always look forward to this podcast. ❤

[@karenlarsen8176]

Excellent conversation. First I have to second her recommendation about Pema Chodron. I stopped drinking 37 years ago and her thoughts about it resonate with me. K is a very impressive woman. Thanks for having her on. Congratulations on a great show.

[@ambersjourneysinlife]

I smoke weed, but when I get anxious or depressed I force myself not to because my goal is never to use it as a cooping mechanism. Being present in difficult situations helps so much in developing who you are. I have a weird relationship with alcohol, too, so I only ever have it in the house when there's a party. There's too much addiction in my family to risk it. ❤

[@apocalypse_jenn]

What a GREAT interview. I loved the chemistry and the way the interviewer asked questions and listened. Fantastic stuff.

[@ROCKONplaceboforever]

Amazing episode as someone who has struggled with alcohol and addiction this conversation is so important loved it thank you ❤

[@jomarie47]

Holy shit. I love everything that this conversation was. I said “wow…” more times than I can count

[@adelle468]

It is so great to experience all your guests exceptional intelligence and self awareness

[@ohmylauren]

Agreed, completely ❤

[@shefru60]

Thank you for introducing me to K Flay. She’s so grounded and emotionally intelligent. Her music reflects her enlightenment. Love it.

[@JuneShiver]

Wonderful interview with an intelligent, self-aware, well-spoken, funny, delightful woman. Thanks.

[@liamclarke64]

And yet another incredibly beautiful person, the world really is full of them.

[@kileybatchelor]

Wow I never thought I would see representation for myself before. I'm gay, was born deaf in my left ear (I wear a hearing aid in my right which I'm extremely self conscious of) and I struggle with alcohol as a coping mechanism. I'm so grateful for this podcast you have no idea. Thank you so much Mal and Mathilde!

[@RiverWolf9]

Absolutely love this episode

[@jamilaanderson7505]

I loved this episode!! Quite intellectual. Had so much depth.

[@angellombness4371]

"Performative Hollow Behavior" i really appreciate this phase... can we all practice checking ourselves. [comment engagement 💜]

[@nath9773]

There is something about this podcast!!! Top of the top! Excellence and perfection! And all the ingredients to become addictive !🤍👌👏

[@mathildegoncalvespereira2422]

I LOVE K.FLAY!!!!!!!!!!

[@barnaliadhikary9421]

I always keep waiting for Tuesday, for your podcast...I am from india😊😊😊😊🌈👭🙌🏻👏🏻🌹

[@OmphileRamasehla]

Same, I'm in South Africa.

[@ltrillium1000]

This guest reminds me of Casey Tanner, Shannons sister, SJ, ER Fighmaster and Zoya. I think of each of them as incredibly centered, articulate and giving of self women. You are very lucky to be connected to these women. Please don't hate on me, I haven't listened to everyone, these few stand out to me. I could listen to them all day.

[@t3l3f0Nt]

{ * and non-binary person }

[@fionasedgwick7424]

I love the wisdom of your guest.

[@aaronriseman1397]

an important and fantastic interview, start to finish. Thank you both for sharing.

[@dios.fanni1]

haha, I was born deaf to my left ear, and not knowing where sounds come from is pretty scary. especially as a woman, I hate late night walks home. I laughed a little at Mal's reaction about not having that sense of space.

[@Scarly373]

Growing up "straight edge" because my religion (Mormon) required it, I'm glad I was older when I did start drinking. It's hard finding friends/gf's who don't drink too much. Not to mention, they feel judged if I'm choosing to not drink or only have a couple...so, I often end up having more so they don't feel uncomfortable. I wish they would analyze why they feel guilty, and I wish I wouldn't compromise my limits to appease them (I'm not always bad, and I sometimes buy fake beer to help).

[@moovieday]

Sound of metal is an incredible movie !!!

[@MissGhostface]

WAIT!! I post to my Instagram stories almost everyday, but everyone knows I have a hard and fast rule that I won't watch anyone's Instagram stories that I know personally! Only artists that I follow or shops I love and that's it! That's so funny that she said it's psychotic, I love it! 😂😂

[@the_game]

so sorry about your hearing loss Kristine, sometimes life's a real b*tch period!

[@adelle468]

I like this girl...mature, intelligent and makes so much sense 👌🏼👍🏻

[@vickyvind]

Thats Stanford for ya

[@sophienone]

I love this episode

[@Raddiebaddie]

Would love to see Hayley Kiyoko up in here :)

[@johannaleinmueller7525]

A clear mind is the best mind. Generally. Most of the time. :)

[@kristiemars7747]

Thank you.

[@angellombness4371]

Healing ooooooowned. [comment engagement 💜] *aaaand it takes intention practice to celebrate holidays healthy; it's possible through gratitude.

[@MissGhostface]

24:20 HOLY SHIT!! THE CUTE GIRL AT TRADER JOE'S SAID THIS TO ME NOT EVEN 3 HOURS AGO!!! 🤯🤯 She said she has a 5-year limit on all relationships! Because literally nobody does the work on themselves, so at the 5-year mark if they're not improving themselves, it's done. So crazy to hear that message repeated back almost instantly. Okay universe. I'm listening! 🤣🤣🤦🏼‍♀️

[@Doors-and-Crosscheck]

Sound of metal was heartbreaking!

[@adelle468]

I have the feeling your inplant is gonna be a wonderful success....

[@vickyvind]

Shes so cool

[@WhySoSeriouz]

Sorry about your dogs, that sucks.

[@adelle468]

" and I still have the fucking thing " 😅.... not thinking having the fucking thing is funny, rather think you expression of the frustration it is causing you is real, relatable and therefore funny

[@jesserentas7425]

Glad I work over nights 😅

[@WhoWhatamI]

Invite King Princess

[@jazz1597]

Name the books please!

[@nemomac3]

Can you link the books 📚🫶🏼

[@mommyissuesmusic]

Shout out to Jeremy Bentham! LOL

[@adelle468]

Respect

[@m_dawg03]

New guest request. Jen beattie she’s a footballer aka soccer very openly gay and just a great person who has experience a lot of

[@adelle468]

Your guess have beatiful hands

[@laurenenyangluo4225]

can we Anna shumate on the next episode?

[@shirinininini]

Omg 110$ is a good price for your cellphone plan? In Germany 12€ is a good price lol

[@Raddiebaddie]

Germans seem to have a much affordable life 🥲

[@ltrillium1000]

I think his death affected your mom.

[@bastetowl3258]

i’d much rather hear a podcast of a lesbian and a straight woman together. it can highlight the differences in their perspectives on life as well as their commonalities, since they’re both women at the end of the day. it can bridge the divide between us since there are too many straight women that think of us as “not real women”. if you have a podcast with a straight man, you’re just going to spend most of the time teaching him that women are human beings, too. boring. also not a “testicles having person” lmao. i guess it’s not only women that experience that ridiculous dehumanizing language 😂

[@t3l3f0Nt]

hi, can you explain what makes you feel like 'person with testicles' is dehumanizing?

[@Doors-and-Crosscheck]

Manscaped? Really?

[@WhySoSeriouz]

Can we not? Jesus.

[@Raddiebaddie]

You can sit through a 20sec ad of company who financially compensates the work they are doing. Unless you want EVERYTHING behind a pay wall. Bc they work hard and deserve to make a living.

[@achaudhari101]

This feels like gynocentric behavior.