where I've been...get out of this funk with me!

[@nikolazvrskovcova1865]

Madeleine, I normally don´t comment, but I have to say this. I absolutely love your longer content. It´s like having netflix series with Gilmore girls vibe. That calming, homey and cozy atmosphere. Also, every time I am watching your videos, I always think how much I relate to you so much that I would wish to have you as a friend in real life. Haha

[@MadeleineOlivia]

Thank you so much! This is how I feel about the other content creators I watch who make longer form content. So that’s why I like to make it too! I know it isn’t for everyone but it means so much when people like you love it! I feel very close to my audience because I know you’re all here because you’re similar to me and you just get me! So thank you and I’m sure we would be friends if we knew each other in real life!

[@nikolazvrskovcova1865]

You are so sweet! Enjoy your week without Alex! I find myself doing a lot of different things when my husband is gone, which I enjoy and sometimes wish to keep them in my routine but it is not always possible @@@MadeleineOlivia

[@jonamore2102]

You've been on YT for many years and it's not easy to produce content all the time - but a quick reminder that you don't have to "improve" all the time. You've got your house. You've settled down. It's enough to show us daily life, nothing fancy or anything.

[@viivi4196]

I'm so sorry about Frankie! Roxy and Zeus getting along and hanging out in the same bed was super adorable, I hope you can continue to find joy in those little moments!

[@annam1604]

Thanks for being vulnerable and showing the reality of your day and emotions. It's really helpful to see how you handle it and that you just acknowledge it so that people can relate. Much appreciated! I have also given myself much more room to have swings depending on my cycle and that's largely thanks to you :)

[@sandiecavendish9722]

I'm so sorry about Frankie, it's always so hard to say goodbye, our pets are family. Best wishes to you both.

[@zacconemanagement2141]

Everyone needs a break now and then. So sorry about Frankie😢❤️🐱

[@MadeleineOlivia]

Thank you so much xxx

[@beamac]

Maddie I cannot tell you how much I love your vlogs! I find them so calming to watch, and what you talk about really resonates with me. You keep being so relatable to me, I cannot thank you enough for your words ❤

[@michellehooper661]

Lovely to see you, missed your vlogs. Totally relate to what you spoke about with regards being in a funk. When I’m like that I tend to go back to basics and strip things back as well. I love your honesty it’s so refreshing in the world of social media. Hope you are feeling a bit better now ❤

[@MadeleineOlivia]

Thank you so much! Stripping things back is vital!

[@davidabache9432]

Absolutely

[@allisonmae3445]

Thank you so much for your honesty, Maddie. It is always so appreciated and so helpful. There are small things in daily life that I almost always overreact to. I notice it more and more, and it's something I need to work on and change. Also, I'm sorry for your guys' loss. I've been watching your videos for years, and I remember Frankie being around forever.

[@kellybush9834]

I also live in an old house and I could.not.relate.more when you spoke about the string and the unraveling! I too am learning to live with temporary fixes sometimes so as not to run mad with renovations. You are so spot on.

[@roxannehernandez3131]

im so sorry for the difficult things that are going on but i hope things are getting better with you. sending you love and hugs and will hope for good things coming your way. i understand your mental health struggles and feel in this way too, but i am very happy you have some tools that you can use to help you get back into the swing of things. they are very importanta nd can be life saving when you think about it. especially if you are of the opinion of " do one thing at a time." that little phrase helps me a lot and before i know it i have accomplished more than i expect. whether its actual tasks or things that help me to get my mood into a different headspace and doing things i really enjoy.

[@sarieshakti1448]

I went and picked up some of the hair products you mentioned. Thanks for the recommendation!

[@dierdremarsh7088]

It’s so lovely to see you! Great connection, and your back yard looks fantastic ❤ Robbi is a beautiful soul, and a trooper. So sorry for your lose🫂

[@itsmewende]

You guys have my deepest sympathy, I know how hard it is. I forgot how beautiful that wallpaper is, all the papers you've used has made me look into some for my place. The food mis-delivery, I would have been annoyed too.

[@MadeleineOlivia]

Thank you so much ❤

[@trudiegordon6327]

Your sitting room is lovely and the back garden is being transformed. You make progress fast and alot of it is you. A pat on the back and love yourself. Big green egg would look great on your extended terrace at the back.

[@senoraespinosa6176]

Thanks so much ❤️ thank you for showing us ur vulnerability. I’m new to this and caring for my fiancé as he is battling right now. Helping to pick up the pieces & support and show up for him when he can’t rn. I am so grateful u talk about this & not feeling like his broken. Thank u thank u 🙏🏽

[@trudiegordon6327]

The DIY car washes are cheap and so much fun to do - hot wash and speedy rinse for me and hoover there too at one of my local petrol stations. Fun to do. I choose a quiet garage and then no queue.

[@etudda7547]

Good to see you back. Loved the beautiful bedroom opening. Sooo cozy great lighting also. Patio looks fabulous love the stone. It was nice spending almost an hour with you. Like seeing an old friend. Till next time ❤️

[@MadeleineOlivia]

Thank you 🙏🏻

[@trudiegordon6327]

So lovely to see you turn everything around and your kitchen is divine and you have so much to be grateful for. Those 2 in the basket melted my heart - how gorgeous and I find pets the best company - better than humans. You are talented in the kitchen and make all sorts happen. Be proud of who you are and what you do. You are a good person and as such should not worry what people think - they probably are not good people.

[@gardencreated]

So sorry to hear about your lovely Frankie. I had a similar situation a couple of months before with my cat - so can relate entirely. A member of your family not being there anymore takes a while to get used to. It leaves a gap. Looks like the fluffy critters dynamics are changing ❤ Big hugs and well done talking openly about it all. Believe it or not it helps to see others experience of feeling blue so thank you for sharing x

[@lynseypeters]

It's great having you back and with a wonderful long video too. So sorry about Frankie, he was adorable. Lovely to see Roxy and Zeus getting closer now 🤎

[@meeralakshmanan7190]

Missed your videos ❤!! Can you possibly do more videos like that talking about your struggles because sometimes it can feel like influencers lead these perfect lives where nothing goes wrong so making a video on that would be amazing ☺️!!

[@MadeleineOlivia]

I will do! My life is far from perfect and I struggle with mental health and life’s obstacles a lot, so I know how it is ❤️❤️❤️

[@dottiebaker6623]

When I need distraction, I will always find it, whether it's with people or tasks I prefer to do rather than the one I've told myself I should be doing.... The trick is to dig deeper and find out why I need distraction. Usually the answer is that the emotions tied to the dreaded task are ones I don't want to even recognize, much less deal with. Regular journaling really helps me stay somewhat on top of these. Also, I recognize you are much like me - something of a perfectionist (although I now identify as a recovering perfectionist, lol!). But here's a thought that was given to me recently by my acupuncturist, a self identified perfectionist, in a helpful way - What would happen if you didn't strain constantly? And what he meant was, what would happen if you did what you need to do without stressing about whether you did it perfectly, quickly or even completely? I'm working on that shift in attitude these days, and, when I can manage it, it makes a world of difference.... Hope the sun shines for you soon!

[@MadeleineOlivia]

What a wonderful piece of advice. Something I really needed to hear so thank you ❤

[@Jayy_Pea]

This is perfect timing for me. Trauma therapy is kicking my butt and I literally just wrote "back to basics" on a post-it note before opening YT. I'm so sorry to hear about Frankie

[@amybennett1530]

Hello from Indiana. First of all I love your videos!!! So sorry for your loss 🙏. Your bedroom looks gorgeous. Very chateau like. I agree with making your bed first thing, it definitely helps me. I get down a lot and I understand. 💜

[@davidabache9432]

Totally understand, I get the same way, this is where I'm learning self soothing and self love, take care dear Maddie x You are loved here.

[@jvgl2024]

Thank you for sharing, I find it difficult too when my plans change. I try and remain calm and then I’ll change it to a reward. Ok foods shop didn’t arrive, I’ll go to the farm shop and have a cup of tea at the cafe. (Go and get a breakfast) And constantly remind myself everything is ok and to breathe.

[@Alaskaventureswithbrodie]

I needed to hear all these things!!

[@SarahsOctoberHome]

So happy to see a video!🫶🏻🤍☕️

[@MadeleineOlivia]

So happy you’re happy to see my video!!

[@Marie.A.Mcleod]

I'm so sorry about Frankie, it is awful, I really get you, sending healing hugs❤

[@MadeleineOlivia]

Thank you so much xxx

[@Marie.A.Mcleod]

@@MadeleineOlivia ❤️❤️❤️

[@jennybushnell9995]

Your wallpaper looks gorgeous! !

[@carolem6354]

Hi Madeleine, your vlogs are so genuine and heartfelt. I have seen several before and I had to subscribe. So sad to learn of the passing of Frankie, you are so good with your pet family members. Also you looked so pretty with your hair pulled half back in the clip.

[@suzettebristol3683]

Love your just daily videos. I am so sorry for your loss. It is devastating losing a loved pet.

[@sophsunflowers]

Also I work a four day work week in the UK and love it!

[@MadeleineOlivia]

It’s the end goal! Especially ahead of having babies 👶🏻

[@Infinitepossibilitiesat56plus]

Yes , magnesium is a great sleep supplement! It really helps me

[@Courtney6]

Loved this video. I’m in a funk too and I’m trying to get out of it. As a creative person who has a mind always running, I find that eating the same thing every day takes a load off. It’s not for everyone and I do have variety in it. Lunch is either soup or smoothies so I can make different versions. I also wear the same thing every day lol (jeans and a t-shirt). The more I don’t have to think about the better.

[@leenie6629]

I’m so sorry to hear about Frankie ❤ losing a fur baby is so horrific. Much love to you xx

[@laurajane1900]

I’m the same when things don’t go to plan, I definitely freak out and get really anxious - a result of anxiety I think, no one understands!

[@mansoor3159]

Welcome Back Madeleine!!and I really missed your vlogs so so much you are my inspiration and I wish you have a amazing day ✨🙂💞

[@MadeleineOlivia]

Thank you so much xxx

[@shopcookeatwi]

Happy to see you again. I've taken magnesium for sleep, muscle cramps, and anxiety for years. I'm not a doctor, but I did go to a nutritionist who recommended magnesium taurate for my anxiety. I take magnesium glycine for sleep. I'm sorry about Frankie. I know you must miss him so much. Hugs. Thanks for the lovely video.

[@stefaniegalea6810]

I take magnesium on the run up to my period because I was having migraines when I was due on. I swear I haven’t had one migraine since taking it. ❤

[@NinskuuB]

I would have just given up and ordered takeout or something. I hate it when my plans are ruined and my brain just goes into error-mode :D.

[@decanuses]

Patio is looking so good! With the amount of rain in the UK it always amazes me that they introduce hose pipe bans. I'm from the UK however I live in Cataluña with hardly any rain yet no hose pipe bans, apart from this year.

[@lenelarsen8610]

Nice outdoor space you have. You could put a board on top of the woodwork around the terrace, to make a small bence. On this y0u could sit or place a plant. And it would prevent water down the posts, so they will last longer

[@inspireyouxox]

Living for the longer videos💚

[@IIrisIsland]

Madeleine, I appreciate your vulnerability so much. The internet can be a mean place. Your content is always refreshing❤ been watching for years. Remain true to yourself, I love it ❤

[@sisu7625]

soooo happy you are back with a loooong video. Just love it. Sitting on my Coach with first coffee and feeling Fall vibes in Germany. So cozy with your Vlog ❤thank you!!

[@casswilson3964]

Great video Mads. Just the calm I needed to start my Friday ❤ Can relate to all the reno stuff. It's just infinities init.

[@cathylynnpietranton]

Maddie we are so sorry to hear about Frankie. Love your longer videos because it makes me feel we are hanging out with you. Thank you for all you do. Much love ❤️

[@davidthescottishvegan]

Great to see Madeleine back on KZbin. No need to apologise for going through a funk, it happens and no one i know in real life leads a perfect life so I expect the same with those who I view on KZbin and social media. Sorry that Frankie passed away and Madeleine & Alex needed time to deal with it. Love 🥰 the vlog and love 💞Madeleine.

[@lindagent9831]

Hi maddie I’m so sorry about frankie I feel for you as our pets are part of the family, so sad. Also maddie I had a meltdown today as I had planned the day it was successful until my hubby had lost accounts I had spent ages on, all he had to do was email them. I had to start again. I suffer from anxiety and stress so I know how it feels. Tip bury the banana skins in your veg patch also good for roses, lots of potassium. Peace 🧚🏻‍♀️

[@jennybushnell9995]

Sorry for your loss dear

[@MadeleineOlivia]

Thank you so much

[@LaFarmhouse]

welcome back🩷

[@MadeleineOlivia]

Good to be back ❤

[@mandymullett1615]

Have really missed you and your vlogs xx

[@MadeleineOlivia]

I’ve missed it too ❤

[@jennybushnell9995]

Yay was just wondering about u!! ; )

[@lynndixonsilva9961]

Once I had my son, I learned to go from Plan A, to Plan B, and/or maybe Plan C. Things can change in a jiffy, and I learned to adapt. So sorry about Frankie ~ I lost my best friend kitty about 3 months ago and still not over it! Always enjoy your videos :)

[@stephanie-zp9ep]

I love your videos and your outlooks on life and and how honest you are Maddy ❤ It honestly sucks that people are always trying to stir up controversies about such well meaning and relaxing videos as yours. So so sorry about your cat 💔 sending you love from a long time US watcher who is just buying her first house and finding a lot of insirpration from you!! Roxie and Zeus were so cute in the bed, haha Roxie looked like she was as far away as possible e

[@pearlofthesea2098]

1000% can relate. Sometimes I don’t even realise I’ve made a plan for a day until something falls short and I turn into a toddler having a full on tantrum…then I feel embarrassed for the way I acted afterwards. It’s a vicious cycle 😫 Depending on how far I’ve spiralled, I like to imagine I’m in a fantasy novel and am on a quest and it’s a bump in the road I need to overcome, like an enemy I need to defeat. Sounds dumb but sometimes it works 😂

[@trudiegordon6327]

I have a small amount of magnesium in the morning and I love it and think it works and it is good for other things as well as anxiety. It is good for beating osteoporosis, prevents Type 2 diabetes, heart disease, reduced blood pressure and helps energy, nerve and muscle production. I just don''t take too big a dose.

[@Sarah-mv8nt]

I love the sun maddy I miss it love your vlogs nice surprise when I sat down and your video was on brill

[@MadeleineOlivia]

This makes me smile so much Sarah!

[@jennybushnell9995]

If you ever want to save on body products u can use coconut oil for skim hair even deodorant, ,I saw it on yt and it really works

[@wellhello1603]

Looking at your bedroom, have you guys thought of wallpapering your hallway instead of painting? Maybe blue/cream stripes, so you don’t have to choose between the two, then it will be “fun color” you also through about, and it will be more uplifting in the darker end. I think wallpaper will look absolutely beautiful there

[@MadeleineOlivia]

Absolutely not that would be waaaaay too much work haha

[@wellhello1603]

@@MadeleineOliviaoh okay, understandable with amount of other stuff going on 😄 well, exited to see what you end up doing in there ❤

[@samjones9465]

Oh Maddie, so sorry about Frankie and well done for keeping your "stuff" together x

[@alisondoughty2194]

Your bedroom looks beautiful and cosy too which is quite difficult to achieve..Your looking very well.Looks like we had summer in Apri /May time. all over UK.😊🎉

[@tracybownes7612]

I love your mac that you wore when gardening in this video, what make is it please

[@enelr5504]

I hate it when things do not go to plan. My husband knows this too well, so if there is a change in plan he tells me in one breath and then runs away 😂. It has gotten better since we got kids...because little kids and plans...just don't work. Sorry about Frankie ❤.

[@MadeleineOlivia]

Me and Alex both are like this so it’s a real struggle 😅 thank you so much xxx

[@riomcgonigle]

❤ loved this vlog ❤

[@Sarah-mv8nt]

i tried these chrisps today brought a big bag loved them not many left now off to sainsburys to get more tomoz 😂

[@tammymead318]

hey Madeleine i'm 55 and going through menopause the hot flashes are horrible so i went and talk to my pharmacist to guide me on what supplements to by i always ask first because i take thyriod meds and have problems with my liver a lot of supplements can damage your liver so i always ask first any way what she said would help me with the hot flashes i am so shocked but i looked it up and wow iam so surprised i was wondering if you new this she told me to eat tofu like wow so shocked it has so many benefits for women i can't believe who knew and why is it not talked about.

[@homeatnumberninetyfive]

Do you have a link for your planner? I’m trying to get out of a funk from having some quite devastating news, but also want to get prepped for creating my vlogging channel for my moving journey. Need to get out of a sad funk! Wanting to grab a planner too xxxxx

[@trudiegordon6327]

If funk is low then it is natural to feel low so just go with it. A psychologist I worked with said it is not normal or natural to be on a high or even on even ground all the time. Once you accept that it helps.

[@isabelherrera8647]

I never wear headphones when going out, never!!!

[@jangriffiths8013]

Just a note: you do not need to power-wash your patio. They are new slabs and a simple hose-wash will do.

[@MadeleineOlivia]

I wish we could use the hose but hosepipe ban 🥲

[@jangriffiths8013]

Power-washing still requires connection to your hose pipe -- at least here in Canada. Also, power-washing WILL have some effect on the finish of your new slabs/tiles.@@MadeleineOlivia

[@sophsunflowers]

Do you have any content for your hair routine, particularly how you can go so long without washing? Would love to watch if so 💛

[@MadeleineOlivia]

I share a bit of my routine in this video but also in some videos coming up! I have a playlist from years ago when I did “no poo” which is how I trained my hair to go around 5-6 days without washing so may be worth watching!

[@tracybownes7612]

What is that supplement for skin hair and nails please

[@KWilliams22]

Iherb is exceptional...ive used them for about 4 years in various countries (as ive moved about a lot)...id be lost without them...get all my supplements from them too. Is your code UK only Maddie? ❤

[@hannahweltycade]

I’ve hated car washes like that my whole life! It hasn’t gotten better for me 😂 48:54

[@beeheart6529]

I hate getting carwashes too. I’m always worried some part of the car will get destroyed.

[@rudie280]

Love your vlog and you! If we be honest , we all need 'quiet, alone' time , now and again! I joke with gal pals all the time, saying how much is accomplished when hubby goes out! I'd never let my husband know though! Shhhh! Lol

[@MadeleineOlivia]

Omg I get so so so much done!!

[@jennybushnell9995]

U are doing great! !! U r right life changes but if u feel like staying on bed it dosnt have to be a bad thing just allow yourself to do that if u want sometimes! !

[@MadeleineOlivia]

Thank you for this reminder!

[@tracybownes7612]

Do you ever have any trouble with paying extra postage or taxes from your i herb delivery’s ? I am always scared to order from abroad due to extra postage costs !

[@williamhawthorne1375]

Catch the summer when it comes Madaline🤷‍♀️theres been some gorgeous hot sunny wks here,be ready or miss out 😂👙🍷🥵Lizzie x

[@tracybownes7612]

Can you please tell me what brand your leggings are and where i can get them from, thankyou !

[@victoriaadams2171]

Missed you!

[@Sarah-mv8nt]

I've had a very bad mental health day had together out earlier and just walk come home made food and then pjs I think

[@MadeleineOlivia]

Give yourself the love you deserve. Sorry you’re having a bad mental health day. I’ve been having them a lot lately too. We are in this together and you aren’t alone xx

[@sophiawitkowski1082]

I understand what you are going though I have been suffering with my anxiety badly lately carrying on but it’s hard go on walks colouring creative writing doing theses little things keep me going hope your both ok x

[@Sarah-mv8nt]

@@MadeleineOlivia thankyou so much means a lot to me your kindness your right we are not alone we are stronger together supporting each other love to you we need to remember how far we have come and with love and support we wi l all mKe it take care look after your self I just wanted to say your videos help me so much right now I'm in recovery from anarexia and I'm up and down as I know you understand I will be free like you one day thanks for being on here xxx

[@Sarah-mv8nt]

@@sophiawitkowski1082 thankyou your very kind look after your self remember your strong you can overcome just take one day at a time xxx

[@Luluknights]

Missed you ❤

[@MadeleineOlivia]

I am back!

[@briangenny8670]

Thanks Madeline for your vlog I enjoy hanging out with you .

[@mariaapostolopoulou7031]

For Roxy, you may like to add some raw 'soft' vegetables/vegefruits like zucchini or pumpkin, etc. (mashed or however she enjoys them) to her food to aid in her digestion. Take special care, Maria from Cyprus

[@MadeleineOlivia]

Do you cook them? Would love to give this a try

[@amylouise3624]

Garden wise, I know you have raised beds, but you have such a large space for the UK you could be rather self-sufficient with fruit and veg - any plans to go full throttle here? I've found growing my own so beneficial for my mental health, beyond usual gardening.

[@MadeleineOlivia]

Yea this is the plan eventually once a lot of our time is taken up by some of the renovations! We have got over a large jump with renovations now and can focus on the garden! I would love to be very self sufficient with growing our own veg and can totally see this in our future

[@au_clair_de_la_lune]

Which type of magnesium did u get? Is is glycinate/bisglycinate? (Best for ibs-d apparently) - I finally got a magn supp, but my ibs-d was thru the roof and it finally dawned on me 2 wks later that it was prob the magn.🤦‍♀️ It was a mix of 2 types, one of them being a laxative type (oxide), and the other bisglycinate, and the dose was way higher than the recommended amount for a woman. Im having a hard time trying to find one in stores that's safe to take - Im also vegan.

[@larakrof8640]

First , hope that at the end all is well😊

[@Sarah-mv8nt]

can i ask you please to give me some advice on faceing my fears i am in recovery from anarexia and i am letting go stlowly but i nneed some encuregment to keep going every night i think tommorow i will challenge this food or drink but when morning comes i carnt do it i crumble please any advice i appresiate so sorry to ask just want out so much u have come a long way and are in credibly beautiful insideand out would ove to have food freedom ike you thankyou for your time x

[@trudiegordon6327]

I think you panic when Alex goes away and I live alone and love it and I notice alot of women do not cope well when their partner goes. I never thought I would live alone but now I don't want to live with anyone as it brings me so much calm, choice and I get so much done for me. I am okay seeing people for a day but struggle with longer. Make this time for you and what you want to do. I don't have to ask for anyone else's permission and love it and can relax without knowing someone else will spoil my day. Unfortunately that is what used to happen and I can't be open to that again.

[@rudie280]

Remember, there's always Plan B! Don't ruminate on the failure of Plan A, give full attention to Plan B! Plus stirring in some gratitude always works wonders!

[@GrahamandMatthew]

Sorry about Frankie ♥

[@abdullahbaguffah4898]

Have a good day

[@RillaofPlumHill]

House ownership is a literal make-work project. LOL We're almost 12 years in and every year it's "something". Ugh... Thankfully we're FINALLY onto the more cosmetic fun stuff, but GEEZ.

[@irenebaird4456]

Iam on sw and meal plan it saves you Money and time 🐝🐝

[@NonStopParis]

Love iHerb for American cult baby products!

[@MadeleineOlivia]

It’s seriously great

[@carolynhoover9444]

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