Make Him Chase You by Creating Space | Adrienne Everheart

[@msprettykawaii950]

Find a guy with patience and gentleness in his heart and have a healthy attachment that he learned growing up so you dont need to put too much effort for him to pursue you or do all these things

[@dianneciresi6324]

Where are those kind.? Not many.

[@CupCake-sc9eb]

Never met a man like that so far,and i am 33 😂

[@sydneyharrell2720]

Adrienne...it's working! He's coming back and he's excited about us and pursuing me again. I am so excited! Thank you so much

[@AdrienneEverheart]

So excited to hear about your results! Keep up the good work! xoxo!

[@natalywithaY]

@Chlarie Peace it feels worldwide. Are you an alien?

[@faith_9677]

@Chlarie Peace My mother taught me as a little girl that if you cannot say something nice, then correct manners is to say nothing at all.

[@vanessapineda6869]

How long did it take for him to regret/realize!?

[@NoreenAquino]

@@vanessapineda6869 up

[@DiaN-do3jm]

I used to be triggered or uncomfortable with silence/space, so I'd try to fill the void by being the active one. Now I know better what to do.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Diane N thank you for sharing. It’s a powerful tool to have in your toolbox!

[@radhikaraj7394]

Wow I needed to see this today I’m learning this too!

[@nutech1810]

He can have space... when he returns if its too long, I am usually no longer interested. Space just encourages me to move on easier.

[@adhdlivingyourdreams9515]

Yep me too

[@danaphysicaltherapy]

And if you move on to someone else it's likely for the best

[@chardaemoulton1721]

With tears, I am writing to say thank you, I really didn't know how to be a female or feminine, I was always on the go trying to get everything done and doing everything. You taught me so much, I am so grateful to God for your teachings. My back is not breaking anymore , I have learn to let go and lean back and watch him chase me and it feel so good to be adore and cherish for real. Thank you, God bless you and keep up the good work.

[@caseycase9397]

I love your post!🤗 I just began listening to these videos...

[@roselopez1404]

‘’Your job is to receive” ! I love that ❤️ Thank you Adrienne

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Rose Lopez I’m so happy to help you!

[@contentdeleted5428]

Rose Lopez yes!! The egg does not swim to the sperm honay 🙃😂

[@hajarwine5444]

We're all here because we got really hurt in the past

[@acapricornworld]

i need someone to talk to so bad. i feel like im losing my mind

[@hajarwine5444]

@@acapricornworld What is going on dear?

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Hugs to you. please join love academy on FB, links in my videos. xoxo.

[@reese9278]

🌷@@acapricornworld ARE YOU OK? IM IN MY FEMININE ENERGY TODAY. I MIGHT BE A YEAR LATE BY HEA

[@acapricornworld]

@@reese9278 Wow! I remember writing this and being in so much despair and anguish over my twin flame situation. (I’m a DF) I had no one to talk to about it. It’s been a year since and a lot has happened but I feel so much better. After spending time meditating, journaling and understanding my journey, I’m feeling optimistic about the future as well. Thank you so much for caring enough to ask how I’m feeling today. I appreciate it. Blessings, Zim

[@trinityp8575]

Omg this was the most profound part : that a healthy , loving relationship will be boring. And this is so true. Because most of us, who have had unhleathy bad relationships and also unhleathy examples from our parents , we are so used to this unbalanced , up and down, crazy, adrenaline , worrying , emotional roller costers that it seems "normal" to us. And the healthy ones seem "boring". Yet that "boredom" is a true balanced , steady and loving relationship / mature love we seek. Once we realise this, it gets easier to change the pattern. And we can spice it up and excite things in the new healthy relationships in other ways.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

I am so happy this resonated with you. Eventually what may seem 'boring' at first will feel predictable and safe and love will deepen from this warm space!

[@shaunahilton8727]

Oh boy it has taken me 47yrs to learn this! After 2 failed long term relationships, 3rd time lucky. I now am 3 months into next long term crazy in love relationship.

[@trinityp8575]

@@shaunahilton8727 the most importnat part is you became aware and made changes. Happy new love to you! So exciting :)

[@FreedominLove711]

I loved that part as well

[@tinalewis8823]

This all seems to be about behaving in such a way to get a favourable response from a man. I rather be alone than run my life in circles, such a waste of effort. My life is good without a man.

[@MuseSunflower]

I love that your husband chases you everyday! That is so sweet to feel so loved, adored and cherished

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Fiona Monroe thank you. If you knew our story it was not always this way. Feminine energy changes everything. 🥰

[@Clix-_-clalz69]

What if your ex tells you he loves you but he's with another woman but he keeps going back to her

[@capricornqueen4772]

@@Clix-_-clalz69 concentrate on yourself.

[@leanngeer4284]

Just listening to you speak about this puts me in my feminine energy 🥰❤️

[@lakeishajackson3634]

Me too. I’m just smiling when she tell her story.

[@contentdeleted5428]

THIS ADVICE IS SO IMPORTANT FOR 2020 y’all

[@hannahhettwer3030]

Adrienne. You have changed my life. You’ve changed my mindset, and I feel more myself, my inner goddess than I’ve ever been before. I was raised by my father and older brother. I didn’t have feminine presence in my life. I always was in my masculine energy and would attract these men that were too sensitive for me and we could just never balance. I finally feel at home in my body. I feel empowered and like a magnet. I just can’t thank you enough for the work that you do. l feel forever grateful. From the bottom of my heart, Hannah.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

You are so welcome! 💕

[@Courtz_Cosplay]

How do you act soft and warm around a man when you’ve been hurt badly in the past? It’s toughened me up to have this masculine energy now and I’m struggling to let a man get close to me

[@parkcitygab]

Same here

[@sarathephoenix7051]

Hi... I was married to a controlling man and was sad for many years. I was forced to be masculine... I recently met a masculine man, I love that he can make decisions and takes care of himself... Very sexy to me... I am practicing on him... I feel so relaxed in his presence, I don't call him, I text him occasionally... I give him "space" I tell him body feelings ... Never use "like or that" ... Not sure this makes sense.... Let the sexy masculine man be the man, enjoy being relaxed and feminine in his presence... Soo amazing

[@Amandahugginkizz]

Same same same. I was thinking this exact thing in the car today when I finally left and took time for myself. How its such a struggle I have to keep reparenting and remindming myself

[@carieyounginsurance]

IMO you need to work on forgiveness, healing and YOU! meditate...journal affirmations - study feminine divinity and behavior...give to yourself...you are very powerful my dear! I was married to a narc - he tried to destroy me...I came back better than ever and used that experience to grow, learn and develop even more. I TOOK TIME TO FILL MYSELF BACK UP...you will know when you are ready and you do not fear - this could be a while...or it could be quick - do not rush the process

[@crystalngoctu1726]

MissAviatrix! Take thy at space and work on yourself. When you take the time to work on yourself and know what you want. And also that would help you let go of your pass then you would be more happy and have better relationships

[@maryramirez2003]

Omg this makes so much sense to me .. I’m a girly girl.. I love dresses high heels . A little bit of make up .. men’s love that much about me .. but when I’m in the relationship, I’m push them away .. because I’m independent, we fight for the power .. now I total get it .. thank you thank you .. I acted like a man and I want them to treat me like a princes ..now I know why !🤔

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Hugs to you! 💕 I am so happy to help! FEMM Tools would be a great place for you to start. bit.ly/femmtools

[@bellaanthony464]

You know though, I really love what you’re doing. Talking about men in such a beautiful way, it resonates with me so much more than women who talk like, “I would never take sh#t from men, I would never do this for them, I’m a bad ass bi#%h!” Some women are just so rough and tough, and I tried being that woman, thinking it was “strength” and you know!? It really isn’t. This is strength, so I’m blessed to have found you. Thank you for all your hard work. Cute dog!! 🥰 I’m going to apply this to all the men in my life, warm and receiving. Starting with my two little boys!!!

[@AdrienneEverheart]

We are all just humans right? We want love, to feel Important and understood. Hugs to you. bit.ly/500waysbook

[@ClaireA_LeonB]

“I’ve always been your friend, but I don’t want to be just friends.” Brilliant! 💖

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Hugs to you! 💕 I’m so happy to help! My ABC program goes into this so much deeper. bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack

[@inhishandsz]

I agree with your opinion that feminine energy & masculine energy cure the divorce rate. I hope I worded that right. 💕

[@moneyterrace590]

Who else liked before the video even started💁‍♀️😂

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Awh! Thank you. 💋🥰

[@Saxonwomen]

Me 😁

[@besszhang2864]

Omg this is so trueee! Being famine and soft doesn't mean being weak, it's another form of more effective and efficient power which really works!

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Yes! This is so true! 💕 You can be warm and feminine but still be strong in your values and boundaries! Check out FEMM Tools bit.ly/femmtools

[@Dragonfly_magictarot]

Took me a while to learn that 💞🙏🏻

[@Wandering_maggie]

Wow!!!! I just discovered you today and I wish I had sooner. I’m an Aries so a natural born masculine sign and you are so right about society doing everything to make us even more masculine and taking that away from men. I will watch all your videos now. I am feminine but just a little and really want to learn more about using this feminine energy. Thank you for this 🙏

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Maggie - lovely to have you with us! If you want to learn more and see all my books and programs, also please check out my website: bit.ly/everheart Much love!

[@jjjreese]

Me too!! I am Aries ... it’s great!

[@adunniade363]

Maggie Jay I’m an Aries and I feel the same way!

[@christinamason3297]

Aries here too 🙋🏻‍♀️ It’s not even that we are in our masculine energy wanting to be.. Aries women are naturally Outgoing, Decisive, Opinionated and action oriented.. I think we can mix those great qualities with our feminine energy… but I get the struggle..

[@msfuturist1]

I am also a Aries! Being more feminine is helping 🙏

[@katybrooke0724]

Let a txt sit there!!! I need to learn this

[@Muchesia-Sylvia]

Me too.

[@itsBenzie]

Same!

[@faviolafikir2181]

I feel like my divine feminine energy is healing when I listen to your videos 😭

[@AdrienneEverheart]

I’m honored to help you and keep up the good work. bit.ly/500waysbook

[@juliemoore6957]

You know, I feel this is something that our mothers should have taught us. This is all new to me. Thank you for putting this information out there for us. Embracing our feminine is so much more than wearing dresses and lipstick!

[@hasmigmelian1817]

Adrienne you are absolutely amazing. I have watched all of your videos and have used most of your products. You are incredibly wise and have such a calming and feminine voice. I start my day listening to your videos and fall asleep to them. Thank you for your wisdom. You give so much hope!

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Hasmig Melian you’re so welcome. ❤️

[@jayeankh5671]

The only thing I would say about the clothing comment is that DV abusers do this-start with controlling clothing, friendships etc. and they always feel threatened the woman will cheat and accuse her of flirting or dressing provocatively when she isnt. Most men want their partners to dress MORE provocatively. I would be VERY VERY careful in this situation and look for other red flags of controlling behavior (mild at first then it escalates-at first it seems like preferences or charming overconcern for your wellbeing ). Make sure this is a PREFERENCE not a CONTROL ISSUE>

[@juliauren1338]

Live the movement of feminine energy I'm still working on it daily because I've had to be so independent

[@emilliapeachrose5692]

Adrienne, i come back to rewatch this video, and i realize that as much as i watch your videos, i change bit by bit. Like giving space. I do it all the times. Things are good but there are times when i dont have anything to say, and i just keep quiet and enjoying the situation with him. And he always becomes this curious and talk about anything, and grab my hand to get my attention. It feels wonderful! Thank you Adrienne ❤

[@callalilly4743]

This video triggered me the tears and im not sure why. I do feel like things are shifting but the in between limbo stage can be painful.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

ticheri yes and I understand. Tears can be very healing and clearing. Let them flow. You’re growing in new ways. Keep up the good work. ❤️

[@caseycase9397]

Oh I so agree! One video made me start to feel! I teared up and every time I watch a video I instantly get chills throughout and want to cry. I'm actually ALLOWED to feel? To be feminine? I'm overwhelmed. I'm also changing already! After only 2 weeks and about a dozen videos. I can't thank you enough. 🖤

[@danaphysicaltherapy]

Omg. Me too. It's like a relief. A revelation and learning. And it made me cry because I see how I could have ruined a relationship with the man I love based on the horrible ways I feel like we are trained to be.

[@johnmiller-jf3ez]

Do not cook for him,unless youre married.

[@lakeishajackson3634]

I got it 👍🏾👌🏾

[@deepdiver849]

Definitely cook for him before marriage, just don’t forget the poison 😂

[@reese9278]

🌷OH NO JOHN COOKING FOR HIM IS ONE WAY TO CAPTURE HIS HEART

[@pimpcess21]

damn, really?

[@oliveb6318]

I agree. I have been with him 5 years. 2 were distance dating and 3 living together. I let myself go and started making meals and chores for him just to find out that he didn’t even make an effort to join me and eat at the same time. No appreciation whatsoever. I changed the whole thing and started making terrible meals now he knows I don’t cook. He hates to cook too. If he wants food, he gets in the kitchen with me and cook together OR we go out. I want that ring and I won’t play house even after getting the ring.

[@Utoober729]

My guy works hard. I'm retired. I will make the dinner and what I want. I dont run and ask, I just make dinner. I'm at home and he comes home later. He will do things for me to make my life better.

[@stacey2804]

This is what I do! I make dinner for our family almost nightly, whatever I feel like cooking. I don't make what I know he doesn't like, but I don't ever ask what he wants. He is so happy when he walks in that door and gets the surprise of what I wanted. When I don't feel like cooking, he offers to cook for me or orders out no complaints. It's something I do because I like to.

[@Holistretch]

I love your bike story Adrienne. I used to listen to you a couple of years ago and thanks to you I’ve been in a wonderful, calm relationship for two years. I’m ready to be married, so listening to your videos again is such a great refresher!!

[@thecolorfulchristian]

This has been some of the most life changing advice! Being in my feminine energy is the most AMAZINGGGGG thing, on all levels! So much love to you 🙌💖💖💖

[@parkcitygab]

I loved this video. I remember once I was called "a man" by a man I really cared about and wanted him to be a part of my life. I was building a trampoline, it was not easy and I was struggling with the directions, he was trying to help me. Eventually he said he is going to Starbucks and he did. I continued working on building the trampoline because I wanted to surprised my daughter when she came from school. When he came back from Starbucks, he looked at half built trampoline and he called me a man! That hurt. I don't think I will ever get over it and how much it hurt. I love being a woman, I try to be feminine but when I got called a man, it broke me.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

I’m sorry. He was likely threatened and wanted to help you. Next time you sit back and sip the coffee and let him build the trampoline. You sound like a really amazing woman 🥰 Learn more here bit.ly/femmtools

[@lo-fidreamsASMR]

Love the cooking approach! Thank you for the tip. I want to be kind but never to be seen as a surrogate mother.

[@stefaniegodfrey6155]

I always felt that cooking for your man is feminine energy and what makes a house a home by creating a positive routine and he feels taken care of and the woman has a special gift that no other person gives to him. I will always will feel that cooking for your man will be the right thing to do

[@oOhuggatreeOo]

I love listening to you so much. You're so easy on the ears and your point of view is so sincere and sweet and genuine.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Happy to help. Go deeper with “500 Ways,” ebook and 2 day video classes. bit.ly/500waysbook

[@h.a.nicola-heather-anne1426]

I love it when I’ve watched a video several times but I come back to it because I’m now in a situation and it has new RESONANCE. 👍🏾 it keeps on giving

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Welcome back! Go deeper bit.ly/500waysbook

[@victoriousjoy9338]

For me and thousands of other women, this is way bigger than we can imagine!!!!! I am practicing this but it does take daily reminders because I have been so programmed to be a doer! My childhood was so toxic due to parental abuse. This also deeply affects our relationship with God. We think God wants us to serve Him. But indeed, He served us humans by becoming one of us. He continues to serve us by loving us back to life. He honors us by sharing in our daily life while we receive His life and joy. Remembering that it is mine to receive encourages that flow of interaction. You are very wise and I so appreciate that you give examples and pictures of how it works!! Thanks so much!! You're a treasure!!

[@AdrienneEverheart]

I'm happy to help and good words you've shared here. xoxox!

[@lolagonzalez952]

omg it's so true! what you say in min 24:27 that if it wasn't for that one man that broke your heart I wouldn't be doing this research! thank you and yes we need to be thankful even for the bad stuff, 'cause here I am after getting my heartbroken in December '18 and now feeling so greatful for having that same man wanting to be back in my life, now in August '19 but now thanks to you with another beautiful perspective

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Please Support my KZbin Work: goo.gl/znM53X Be sure to join my online Coaching Community: diamondgirl.me/group Listen to my Podcast! open.spotify.com/show/2a8WmOUqfqv1S8agQJDAfv Get "500 Ways to Talk to a Man" + 2-Day Classes: EverheartCoaching.com/talk My Proven "Get Him Back" Program: goo.gl/XLTZkp Manifest Your Man, NMM Program is here: bit.ly/newmanmanifesto Get Seven Classes with Myself & Helena Hart: goo.gl/13eFcT Much love to you always, Adrienne

[@meganmarks9388]

I have the ABC and I want to share with the world how it helped me win back my mans heart and heal him too! He was pushing me away from fear and his work issues but I knew our love was meant for more. Thank you Adrienne, every day I snuggle into my man I send you thank yous.

[@belqesgharama347]

@@meganmarks9388 wow glad that i am hearing this , i am so excited now to get the book

[@nancydegrassi5151]

Adrienne Everheart's Love Academy WOW! It works. I told him how “light” I’m feeling inside after dropping my son off for his first day of school (how I knew I made the right choice) and he asked me to describe that feeling and to tell him more! Your advice is spot on and I want to know and read more.

[@theresasanchez4329]

Hi

[@theresasanchez4329]

If date a guy 6months and he tell you just want friend

[@Irisrayne2000]

Adrienne, I am doing the ABC course, and leaning back, waiting for the chase, and it feels great. I love your videos, they are helping me to work on myself and feel good about myself!♥️

[@AdrienneEverheart]

I am so happy to hear this! 💕

[@sarahwiseman7745]

I get the “explosive” response when you push it down. I always felt it was something wrong with me but it wasn’t! It was me suppressing my feminine energy! I feel so different and see and hear things so differently now!

[@melaniekull5609]

I'm so thankful I found you because I've been doing literally EVERYTHING wrong and our relationship has been going downhill. However, since I started doing the things you've been suggesting and its working!!!

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Keep up the good work, this ebook will help: 💌Get "500 Ways to Talk to a Man" + 2-Day Classes: EverheartCoaching.com/talk

[@andreeanasca89]

you`re such a good example of feminine energy that even I feel attracted to you :)

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Aw... thank you! 🥰 As you start to learn to be more feminine, you might notice that people start responding to you in a similar way. 💕

[@caramelfrappuccino234]

I agree. It's so refreshing. I'm new and what drew me to this channel is that difference. So much advice is basically telling you to be man like. I love this new information!!

[@brendaoreilly5709]

lol, so true

[@mrsboskovic]

Married 2 years… I needed this thank you Adrienne. I’ve been watching your videos through out the week for encouragement ❤much love to you!!

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Happy to help! If you want one on one support consider joining my private membership group. 💞diamondgirl.me/group

[@Celestialempress]

My aunt was a gorgeous model and married her soul mate my uncle. They’ve been happily married for decades and one of the only long lasting couples I’ve met that are genuinely happy together and never talk bad about each other. He wanted her to dress more conservatively (like your first story you shared) and she did to make him happy. If that’s all she had to sacrifice to marry my uncle who gave her the world and treats her like a queen then I would have done the same. Most women are adamant about never changing anything for a man and they are all still single or in an unhappy relationship.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Love it!! What a great model of masculine and feminine energy to have in your life. You capture ANY man’s heart with Feminine Energy when you know how to date/speak using your FEMM TOOLS. I teach you how. diamondgirl.me/femm

[@kimcrofoot8517]

Preach on sister! I have been watching your videos for a bit now and have been applying some of the techniques you are relaying. SURPRISE, IT WORKS! Now some of my attempts were a failure, but I think it was because I fell back into a more masculine energy. It definitely takes a little practice. Working on it! Wish me luck!

[@meghan1914]

Adrienne, you have truly changed my love life! My new relationship is so beautiful and I was really curious what you might say about "boredom". He and I are drama free and though we are both single parents, life together feels easy breezy.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Hugs to you! 💕 That’s wonderful that things feel easy breezy, but I would suggest leaning back from time to time to keep him pursuing you. A man needs to feel like a man. bit.ly/femm2

[@luanntexascitizen4345]

My marriage ended, it was like a boss and employee relationship.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Luann Combs oh honey, I’m sorry it ended. I know true love will find you. Hugs to you. 💋

[@killenmarete2355]

Mine is in the divorce end too and it was same as yours kelly

[@nikkitobin8356]

I wasn't even married to him and we divorced for the same reason

[@rivkaruthgolan]

Who was the boss?

[@undergrace1808]

I'm sorry that you went through this, How long were u married? if u don't mind me asking...

[@christinam777]

I am going through the "thing" right now, and I decided maybe I just needed to take off this weekend. Then you said that! Im like yesss confirmation

[@sandy_gee8010]

Started a new job and there's this lady I met in the ladies she oozed sooo much feminine energy . I saw her once and I can't stop thinking about her . That's the kinda energy level I want to get to. So beautiful and I'm straight hahaha.

[@dr.meehikagaikwad7731]

keep up the good work, if you please share more videos on creating space this is an exciting one😍!! i love all of your videos and your talk is inspiring👑

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Thank you so much! xoxo!

[@sarahboan8756]

I love this. I just started this and the dynamic is shifting. He opened up and wanted to come home when he found out about his illness getting worse. He just wanted to come home to me. I wasn't used to that and I haven't been used to him being the one to say sweet things like I was thinking about how much I love my wife last night. ( I am the wife lol)

[@sademoniq]

At 24:23 you have really defined a way that a man can lead you. Blew my mind! Like YES, I was lead here, not just by my man, but men. I’ve reflected on how I was in the past with men, and they would all tell me similar things that they wanted to see from me.There’s this attitude at times, that, we should not let the man lead or submit to a man... but honestly, where would we be without them paving the way? We grow because men CAN lead us to that point. You’ve changed my attitude, really, to the point where I can say “thank you for leading me here” to my man and my exes! Thank you, Adrienne! I’m your subscriber for life! (And a Libra, hey!!! 👋🏽♎️)

[@rebeccariordan6391]

Lol, cub hunting, too cute! I love how my husband likes to fix things too (I have to refrain from fixing them myself).

[@sharontriana1216]

This is changing my life 💕 I love your advice so much.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Thank you so much Sharon, my very best to you! XO

[@JennyLouRN]

You are amazing!! My ex husband and I would still be married - the father of my children - if I had found you years ago!

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Awww...I'm sorry it's too late for that. But I hope you're out there dating!? If you want to learn more, these are two of my programs that you might like to look into. bit.ly/datingunzipped & bit.ly/newmanmanifesto -- thanks for watching and commenting, I wish you all the best in love and life! XOXOXO

[@takilove3566]

TubnQT i feel the same

[@estantedajoana]

Hi, Adrianne, I have been watching a lot of your videos lately and all I can say is a huge thank you. They have been helping me in so many ways that I have no words to express. However, I'd like to point out something you mentioned on this video that made me feel bad in my heart and it is regarding the example you gave: the man that wants his woman to dress in a certain way. I consider myself a flexible person and have no trouble adapting if it's not a major thing. On the other hand, wanting a woman to dress or behave in a certain way is a huge red flag that the guy can be very controlling. Behaviors like that are very common in male dominant societies (some latin countries, middle eastern etc) and in my experience from a relationship I had long ago, every time I said yes to these minor requests, he would come up with something else and it would go on and on until a point he was controlling everything. Our relationship ended because he ended up hiting me and punching me because at one point I had to say no to his absurd requests. It was very hard at that time but it taught me a lot about boundaries. Even if we really like the guy, at what expense are we wiiling to be with him? Lots of love!!!

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Glad to help. Again IF you want & love a specific man and he needs the short dresses to tone down you either tone it down or resist. Women have ZERO ISSUES in giving guys makeovers and fixer uppers yet get shocked when a man desires a few clothing choice changes of them. Think about it... again always the woman’s choice to do. Either do what will work or wear the short skirts and high heels that turn him off. (IF THAT IS THE ISSUE AS IT WAS IN THE Aforementioned GIRLS SITUATION, THE MAN SAID SHE DRESSED “slutty.”) Again some women take this to extreme and conditions & boundaries are key. Clothes and all or nothing thinking is more nuanced than this. The hurt/trigger you feel is telling you there is more here for you to learn.

[@LisaMarieDeatherage]

You have changed my Approach to how I live my life I ask myself throughout the day now what am I feeling how can I can see what my body is saying and I love how my Anxiety has subsided

[@AdrienneEverheart]

This makes me so happy to hear! 🥰 Keep up the good work!

[@tatianaskhirtladze4584]

Adrienne, you speak from the heart and you really mean well! Thank you for that!🌸🌹🥳🤩

[@pipermonte8780]

It's called you want something I want something .. give and take ... I agree with you

[@AdamVROfficial.]

Oh my!!! You are amazing not because of ur channel but because of your brain,heart and soul. I believe you are on a path of changing the world 🌎.. you give woman a voice when they have been silenced. Your so amazing and never forget that... your a doll face 🙂

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Aw 🥰 thank you for your sweet words!

[@humor-boy]

I think I am getting addicted to your beauty, feminine energy.

[@phoenixfire4640]

I love this idea of creating space and going on a trip!! Your advice is so different from others and I love it so much! I just want to add my opinion that during the Q&A, when the comment was my partner told me the mother of his child said she loves him still, to me that sounds like triangulation, a narcissist tactic. that info wasn’t relevant to share with someone he was newly seeing! And also silent treatments are emotional abuse and so damaging to the spirit, it’s not acceptable behavior

[@AdrienneEverheart]

You're right none of that feels good. I encourage instead of any blame or diagnosis, IF you love/like a person and want to be around them, accept they may say/do stupid selfish things and instead DO what you need to. "Wow, I feel so strange being told this about your ex, is there something you need me to do?" "I understand after a disagreement you need to be left alone, and I will give you all the time and space you need, yet going 5 days without speaking feels awful to me. What can we do to fix this?"

[@s0nyashnyk]

I thought the same.

[@Pur3Socialite]

I tend to have masculine energy but not intentionally. I am a go getter and have always been that way, but it feels good to be in my feminine energy as well. I will take your advice.

[@Pur3Socialite]

Also I dress very feminine. Heels dresses and everything but yes help lol

[@AdrienneEverheart]

How you dress really helps! Yet mindset and vibe is 10x more powerful. Please keep up the good work. xoxo!

[@ceciliapatino3767]

Thank you Adrienne I just broke up with my boyfriend who my therapist said he is a narcissists. I feel guilty about my actions Thank you for your advise

[@dearatika]

we're sister in this, we help each other, we teach our daughter.. omg I'm a fan of yours! and yes I want to learn from this shitfull stressfull situation :')

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Wonderful! xoxo! Go deeper! diamondgirl.me/ebook

[@marykatherinerosson213]

I have NEVER had any love or marital advice that worked as well as this. I’m an 8 on the enneagram and super in my masculine energy all the time naturally. THIS has changed everything for me. I had moved into the guest room in our home without finding your channel first. It took him a week to start pursuing me. I had no clue why. Then I found you and I’ve been amping things up. It’s like we are dating again 🥰

[@AdrienneEverheart]

So happy to hear this. Keep up the good work! 🥰

[@tripandnature9496]

I am born with strongly feminine energy dominant, but my growing up years forced me to be more masculine dominant sides in order to survive the environment I was in. It's so good to find ladies love to be in their true selves.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Love this!

[@ty1480]

I agree with giving him what he wants, as long as it's not too drastic for me, however, I would say, I'm willing to give in to your desires if you are willing to change something about yourself that I don't like. Let's see what he says, surely he can't say no to that. It has to work both ways or he will just nag you until you give in to everything he wants.

[@KKKKAAAARRRRYYYYNN]

If you do a tit-for-tat it's not the same. Address the change you want at another time.

[@stephblenheim4283]

Thank you for your wonderful videos. I really appreciate them. It is difficult un-doing masculine ways you’ve developed over the years because of trying to be successful in your career. I love your energy and your warmth, I’m so grateful to have found you you are helping women so much.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

You are so welcome Lovely Steph. Keep up the good work. xoxox!

[@bethshaferman6712]

Thank you so much for this. My guy who is not yet a boyfriend (🤞🏻) asked for a couple of weeks ago. Everything was so good and fun and flirty and he us so communicative with me. He is also the first one who actually verbalized that he adores and appreciates me. I just feel so uncomfy not hearing from him😢. We met last October and the flirtyness picked up in January. I never thought I'd feel like this again from an ex but the Universe answered my prayers but now it's like it's taking him away. I layed low, not even posting and after about 5 days, I messaged him a quick note and got a nice response. But now nothing again. I notice he doesn't post much either since I'm a little quiet. Maybe it's in my head. This is just hard because I'm so in-like with him and it's not a feeling that comes easily to me. Wish I didn't like him so much. I'm gonna die an old maid lol.

[@cynthiaa508]

Your voice calms me down and it heals

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Happy to be here for you. Check out my podcast too! diamondgirl.me/spotify

[@pipermonte8780]

So agree on being a woman ... We forget at times

[@andreawindish5091]

Im having a very serious problem with my significant other right now. He has left I accept that I had a part in the split. We have been together for 10 years and I do agree we need space right now. I love him so very much and maybe want it to work. So I just want to say thank you so very much Adrienne your videos are helping me so much

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Thanks for watching and sharing Andrea. Sounds like you have a healthy attitude at least, and if you keep learning and practicing, and putting YOU first, it will all work out. Much love! XO

[@QueensCuisine]

You are so feminine and and so intelligent. 💓

[@nveras8175]

Absolutely FANTASTIC content!!!! Thank you for sharing your wisdom! 🌟

[@feliciagreer3787]

I wish I knew you personally. I love your advice but mostly just love your feminine energy.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

You’re so sweet!!!

[@krizz3000]

Thank you Adrienne, for reminding me of my worth.

[@marlenemonroe990]

Love you Adrienne. I'm now more calm with feminine energy. Thank you ❤️

[@SS-qu3tf]

Always so good to listen to you...ur feminine energy is so encouraging and calming 🥰♥️

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Thank you so much for your sweet words! 🥰 I am so happy to help!

[@ElleonayDiazOviol]

Thank you so much Mrs. Adrianne. I really love your approach to life and your delivery.

[@clarissamck]

I’d be happy just to find a man. Don’t know where they all went.

[@jehhan9306]

Hi Adrienne, I seriously love your energy....youre so pretty..please dont cut your hair... Lovelots..😘❤

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Thanks so much for watching. No plans to actually cut my hair! XOXO!

[@justinesimone5343]

Reunited with an ex love by phone three weeks ago. He called me everyday, sometimes twice. It’s winter weather with bad roads and he’s 1 ¼ hours away. I went to a psychic and she said he was mystified by me and felt frightened. Told me to cook a meal for him. I invited him and kaboom! He stopped calling. He’s supposed to come here tomorrow. I didn’t want to invite him, but too late now. Just have to see how tomorrow goes?

[@highvaluemilleniallady3767]

I have watched this multiple times! Thank you for this content ❤️

[@roseannatidiman]

I just love your honest way you explain everything 🙋🏻‍♀️Thanks 🌸🌸🌸

[@AdrienneEverheart]

I'm glad to help you! xoxox!

[@evamiko6825]

Thanks so much for your videos. I am so happy to find you and I really believe that this all works, all your advices are really helpful and I hope all woman will understand this and become finally happy. Happy woman make also the man happy 😊❤️

[@psimpson67]

Aries man left me a month ago-he was so different the last 5 months-he was angry and mean-total opposite of who he was the 1st 2 yrs..totally shocked. He had his space and still left angry. Im taking 1 day at a time

[@NM-gy6tx]

It does usually go hand in hand with insecure, controlling men, but also there's men that want their girlfriend/wife to look a certain way. They most likely love her already, but I think there's sense in what you're saying here. If he was unhappy with your weight or wrecking your self esteem and confidence even nasty about it, I wouldn't put up with that and firmly say "No. This is how I dress. If you don't like it then too bad. I dress like this for me and no one else. If you dont like it I'll find someone else that will" But sometimes it pays to be a little bit more amiable. You might even find he does more things for you. If nothing changes you can always go back to the way you were or leave. I like your advice, it pays to get along sometimes in life. A lot of women dress like men and they usually are single (and a few, I know, prefer it that way) x

[@NM-gy6tx]

*agreeable

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Nicola Mayer good words. Walking away is always an option. Before that move I encourage trying new ways of doing things 🥰

[@ladonnawilson2145]

Your program advise helped with the guy coming back even before I had decided I wanted him back. I continued with what I learned and still using all the information. Thanks

[@apples-girl9210]

Thanks ⭐️Adrienne! Glad to be a girl ⭐️!

[@mimib1583]

So glad I found you and Helena!

[@lindatillman5761]

So excited to be able to leave a comment. Love your way of teaching. Love. Helena tooo I am trying to get the E Book. On . 500 ways to talk to a. Man.. Looking forward to getting that. E book. Thank u sooooo much.hugs from. Northern. California

[@archanaphutane]

O wow I loved this video a lot.. Adrienne please if you can do more videos like this it would be just lovely

[@BeingShweta]

You're a beautiful soul. May God always bless. Thank you for awesome video, enjoyed watching. Love to Touki❣️

[@BeccahJoy]

I feel so good to be in my feminine energy, regularly! My boy has taken over for 10 years. It's finally time I realize I get to be ME. Girly. Sexy. Playful. Shy. Confident! Whatever, I get to be true, soft and strong. 🥰

[@tashamonasha7580]

I love this! ❤️❤️❤️ definitely recommending to my friends

[@claireinperth]

Hi Adrienne, I’ve been in a relationship for 19 months with a man who prior to me has been single for 16 years. Due to his work schedule, he’s a fireman, we mostly only see each other twice a week although lately it’s been reduced to once a week. We do talk on FaceTime every night. It’s mostly on his terms when we see each other, I know this is not the norm though??? This is the first video of yours I’ve watched and find it so informative.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

I’m so happy to help! 💕 learn more about feminine energy here. bit.ly/femmtools

[@claireinperth]

@@nijayjj9221 very difficult as I don’t have any of your details.

[@barbiemckenzie3325]

I have so much to look forward to in my life ♥️