You’re right Adrienne!! I’ve noticed my guy chasing me if I pull away. He loves me so much. I’ve learned and used so much from your channel and used it on him. He responds. He’s soft in his heart, he’s protective, he wants to make sure my daughter and I are always happy even if he’s at work. He wants to know how much fun we are having. He’s become more passionate in the bedroom; I’ve noticed. I feel so fortunate for him and I tell him.
@devikabharadwaj90755 жыл бұрын
To summarize the video.. let him know you can and will walk away if he doesn't change his ways.
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
YES! Also the part about how to do that...
@johnmiller-jf3ez5 жыл бұрын
Yes,but more subtle.
@nobody468205 жыл бұрын
So deliver an ultimatum to manipulate/control him. Got it.
@mizibelle5 жыл бұрын
@@EvenStarLoveAnanda : I'm confused, How is it ''manipulation'' to let it be known in a mature & feminine way that you are not available at the ready for a wishy washy flaky Male who can't see that your time is valuable, why should one tolerate such? Its called having standards, maintaining your value and not being desperate. It should be the same vice versa too. Its actually one of the most important attitudes to have in dating/relationships, the will to be able to walk away if your boundaries are being crossed and needs not met!
@stephanijeopdevelt56005 жыл бұрын
VIXIN I was about to answer the same way. Well spoken! 👏🏼
@amandadasilva6755 жыл бұрын
“The more you are available. The less you are valued .” The point is, be busy. Be very busy all the time . 😊
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Amanda DaSilva 🤣sort of. Only if it’s authentic. You want to simply have your own life and not laser focused on the man.
@amandadasilva6755 жыл бұрын
Adrienne Everheart's Love Academy exactly If your always showing that you are available. There is no cord to chase You’ve already set the cord and chased it before you can even let him .
@LoverofSunflowernBees5 жыл бұрын
I guess fake it if your really not busy huh
@LoverofSunflowernBees5 жыл бұрын
Adrienne Everheart's Love Academy I’m laser focused and now I feel like I can change how I am with him too late for that now, also I have no friends that I do anything with but craft classes and I don’t have family to spend time with my daughter is living a life where she is working and spending time with her man having a life with him. Seems we will never do anything together again and so laser focusing isn’t a bad thing for me he is the only person in my life other then when I’m gone taking these craft classes or I’m out taking my son places or I’m shopping or getting things I need and he is at work then too I’m not working at this time so I don’t see how laser focused could be such a bad thing to be doing in my life ..
@amandadasilva6755 жыл бұрын
Happydaysrcoming you have to make friends. These craft classes can have individuals you can make associates or even friends in a way. Being laser focused on a guy is a bad thing bc it gives the man opportunity to hurt you. You have all this time on your hands , you always want to be around him. It can cause him to grow uninterested & tired of you. Even if he was already thinking of you two being in a mutual relationship he would prolly feel like you would want to be around each other all the time & that would make you clingy . Guys like to have their free time and space . Guys like to chase . Guys like a challenge. So if your always available there’s nothing to really chase if your ALWAYS THERE. Giving him the opportunity to initiate when you see each other is giving him space to show his true self on whether he’s really interested. It will all show in his effort & persistence.
@radlyn72345 жыл бұрын
And they say Woman are complicated ... I think it’s Men who are so complicated , we do so much to make relationship work. Thank you for these advice 💕💕💕
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Rad Lyn you’re so welcome. Interestingly I also encourage doing less, simply receiving and speak from you body. If you watch this video again from that perspective you’ll see it’s actually less doing and more being in touch with lovable wonderful YOU. 🌸
@radlyn72345 жыл бұрын
Adrienne Everheart's Love Academy you are probably right.... before watching your videos I never heard about feminine energy not even our mothers told us about it... it’s life changing for me.
@love7loyalty-MHA4 жыл бұрын
I had to come back on here to let you ladies (Helena Hart) know I've taken your advice by allowing my man a lil time and space. He went away to care for his son who had surgery and he reached out to me while gone all on his own saying he misses me and giving me the update of his son surgery. I didn't reach out at all. You ladies were so right. A lil space and time works EVERYTIME. 💫💫
@brookebenton81924 жыл бұрын
A guy has to be attracted to you in the first place. You can be as unavailable as you want but if a guy is not really into you, no amount of holding back will work.
@stormchylde39994 жыл бұрын
True, but some men will be attracted to you, but just not want a committed relationship, or be ready for one perhaps. Others will be just trying to use you as their back up plan. So they're attracted to you somewhat, just not in the right way. This will help you weed those guys out.
@finna59704 жыл бұрын
Thats really true
@annamarie32884 жыл бұрын
I think this goes without saying 😒
@susanabaci28004 жыл бұрын
What about “we should catch up soon”? That’s not good either is it?
@MsDcyr4 жыл бұрын
Brooke Benton perfect then we don’t waist time and move on, win win for everyone
@TheSandrafabian5 жыл бұрын
I don't do 24 hours. If I don't hear from him by Wednesday, I make plans... Waiting til the day before, is still holding my life for a man. My time is precious!
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
you go girl! XOXO!
@TheSandrafabian5 жыл бұрын
@Laura Croft, Not even. I usually make plans with my family and friends, or find something productive to do. Whatever it is I'm doing, I make sure it's about me and not about men. This guy kept asking me on a date at the last minute and I always declined. He wanted to do things his way and his way only. He was a narcissist, so I didn't bother. I told him not to text again.
@TheSandrafabian5 жыл бұрын
@@BLURRRULB That's exactly how I do it.
@PlatinumPlatz5 жыл бұрын
Yes Wednesday is my last day for any weekend plans too!
@Dxrkzvn-5 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@love7loyalty-MHA4 жыл бұрын
This is true about the car. I just was quiet , looking out the window.. he reached over and grabbed my hand and asked "what's on your mind "
@AdrienneEverheart4 жыл бұрын
Learn more tips like this in, “500 Ways,” ebook and 2 day class bit.ly/500waysbook
@kimt45123 жыл бұрын
Awesome advice. Don't ever wait around for a guy or put him on a pedestal
@AdrienneEverheart3 жыл бұрын
Keep up the awesome work!
@joda14325 жыл бұрын
Be ready to let go of crumps even if he is what you want. Act busy even ifyou are not.
@Zelicious114 жыл бұрын
Even if your not busy, sometimes let the phone ring to voicemail and don’t respond to text so quick. Say sorry I was busy w (insert lie here)! I am so happy to have found this channel! ✨❣️✨
@AdrienneEverheart4 жыл бұрын
Good advice! Xoxo!
@jendemp725 жыл бұрын
That's funny about the car thing. I found that out by accident. I was driving and he was complaining about my driving and I was going to do my normal answer back. Well I was trying to get into my feelings and was staring out my window while doing it at a red light well before I could answer him. He apologized to me. It happened another time and same thing. This explains why!! Finding a way to respond from my feminine and not my masculine and both time before I could respond he responded so sweetly and apologized. It was the best feeling. Now I will be doing this on purpose! Thank you
@liliadowns21585 жыл бұрын
Hi Adrienne I am single woman ,and I am learning so so much from you. Thank you so much ❤❤ Love aal your doing to help us !! Much love Lilia
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Yes! Yes! Yes! When you take you’re time and not knee jerk reaction the masculine man often steps forward. ❤️❤️ Good work honey! Thank you so much for sharing.
@floridadivorce5 жыл бұрын
Finally! Someone said it! Men have it harder than we do because it’s ok if we get emotional but they are expected to keep it all together. It does not excuse them when they are idiots but from childhood they are told “stop crying, boys don’t cry” and they start associating feelings and emotions as a “girl” thing. Thank you!
@diannaantes52625 жыл бұрын
I became too available..Time for a Major Reconstruction of Myself
@SuperLuckao5 жыл бұрын
me too. damnit lol
@LoverofSunflowernBees5 жыл бұрын
Every man is different
@srtajordan35245 жыл бұрын
Both of us!
@jedmont53584 жыл бұрын
it's just that we give too much because most of the time our logic becomes clouded when we like someone so much.
@chattimac24764 жыл бұрын
Time for blood donation so we all are not too available. People are dying out there from covid19, war, and starvation ^^ Speaking of starvation i am so hungry Need to find me some food ^^
@patricewhite1755 жыл бұрын
Lol. Wow. I do this naturally. I don't respond to tantrums or emotional outbursts. Explains why he always comes to find me. Lol
@jesseriddlecameron62614 жыл бұрын
Same haha
@keshakellogg59955 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh, your tip on what to do when he gets in a mood and you're stuck in the car is fantastic!!! Thank you for all of this!
@keshakellogg59955 жыл бұрын
Thank you for recommending that you don't let him continue to berate you for a past mistake. I've stayed in this apologetic state where it feels like he wants me to pay penance for years. Thank you. 🌷
@jacqw4695 Жыл бұрын
You're the best Adrienne! Thank you for the golden bits of magic dust you sprinkle!
@swim6105 жыл бұрын
This is wonderful advice just to express feminine energy and be true to yourself and set boundaries. Thank you.
@charlottaberg50805 жыл бұрын
This is so good and it really makes me think about how my ex husband used to act. It took me years and years to figure out how to handle his everyday small outbreaks; for a long time, I used to get a bit upset and try to find a way to fix things and make him happy again ... It didn't work very well.
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Charlotta Berg I so understand. The drama triangle is a wonderful tool to learn and use.
@mariacapra22715 жыл бұрын
I let him go, bc he never text for days, he's reply was I told you I don't tex, really after several dates. I block him from email and online dating. Lol.
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Maria Capra this is a good method actually. In “500 Ways” I have the script: I’m looking for a regular dating relationship and I feel we just aren’t on the same page.” Good job honey! 🥰 Thank you for sharing.
@nubiansands11625 жыл бұрын
You go gurl!!!
@2hotcoko5 жыл бұрын
That’s all I get are Text’rs these days. There’s this one guy who has been text’g me for almost 3 years. I am looking for more real voice-to-voice conversation, and in person conversation. So, I just stopped text’g too much. I reply. But I refuse to keep the convo going on for too long.
@bree-c4u3 жыл бұрын
can't believe this information is FREE! Thank you lord
@North11thStreet3 жыл бұрын
Right!!
@AdrienneEverheart3 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful! Keep up the good work! Go deeper with bit.ly/500waysbook and PLEASE Subscribe :-) bit.ly/everheartYT
@AdrienneEverheart3 жыл бұрын
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@a.h.26675 жыл бұрын
I love the tip about getting a specific day and time from a guy for a date. He doesn't have to know every detail of your busy schedule. It could include washing your hair or taking your dog to the park. It helps to keep a little mystery.
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
A.S. Holmes you are right on. Less is MORE. Get “500 Ways” and please keep on learning and practicing. This all takes much repetition to get reacquainted with your inner girl. 🥰
@a.h.26675 жыл бұрын
@@AdrienneEverheart I purchased your book a few weeks ago and I really like it.
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy it is helping! XOXO!
@Picklecommentcafe5 жыл бұрын
Another brilliant video thank you Adrienne. I’ve tried the turning away experiment twice whilst sat next to my husband and both times he’s stroked my leg then grabbed my hand to hold,!It’s so sweet holding hands on the couch ❤️ xxx
@MsDripCoffee4 жыл бұрын
There are so many good reasons for not accepting last minute plans. What happens is ppl end up making their friends not priority and who likes to get the invite to be a plan b when a date falls through? No one.. it creates an "accept whatever" vibe that brings other people down as well.
@sylnrg5 жыл бұрын
Adrienne, you are by far the best!! I can already feel the changes in my relationship with everybody. Thank you so much for your help!
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy my videos are helping you! xoxo!
@edensangora68253 жыл бұрын
Thank you for what you’re doing Adrienne! It’s changing my relationship. I’m realizing that even though I can’t change the energies of my guy, controlling my own intentions and energy can change my marriage regardless. It really is amazing and thank YOU!!!
@alaiaadam57675 жыл бұрын
🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟 06:46 on Warmth and Boundary “what day and time u r thinking? “ 11:54 ignore his mood swings, go out, do something else... 12:35 kinda notice it kinda acknowledge it and make and EXCUSE and leave 13:40 Turn ur back towards him slowly
@lynnedavis48195 жыл бұрын
oh so true. And yes they know, that they let you down. Laziness on their part. I have no pateints for men like this
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
You will attract a quality man that you deserve, sounds like you're on the way! If you want more tips and want to go deeper, I recommend this: bit.ly/datingunzipped
@mercedezmorgan91355 жыл бұрын
Beautiful! It took me awhile to finally understand how important this information is. Everything I want to happen for me is under the umbrella of feminine energy. It works! Thanks!
@lynnedavis48195 жыл бұрын
I say if plans are for Friday if he doesnt respond to nail down a time by Wed I am doing my own thing
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Lynna, smart girl, that's the way to do it. Thanks for watching my videos, xoxo!
@femininedivin35 жыл бұрын
This is one of the rules in The Rules book. Wonder if you've read it
@Aileensjournal5 жыл бұрын
I did all of these IT really work well . Good luck ladies.
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Thrilled about your results. Keep on learning here bit.ly/500waysbook
@teshamiller60015 жыл бұрын
I tried asking for hugs. Kept getting pregnant.💁
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
LOL!
@poojabatti37125 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 I’m married with a 2 year old and hoping desperately to get pregnant again.. You’re lucky
@alkalinelifestyle6385 жыл бұрын
Too funny 🤣😂
@osoniye42095 жыл бұрын
Hahaha. 😘
@gladisseollia56145 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@maryann59354 жыл бұрын
One of your last comments comments, about asking him for a hug and dropping your sad emotions into him like "dragging a document into the trash on your computer," is a such a brilliant and helpful analogy!
@AdrienneEverheart4 жыл бұрын
Much love to you! 💕 I am so happy to help and I’m glad you enjoyed that analogy. My ABC program goes into this much deeper. bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack
@simplymarilyn52955 жыл бұрын
It's great being a woman! Thank-you, Adrienne for sharing your knowledge w us💕
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Marilyn, thank you so much for commenting. XO!
@secretshaman1893 жыл бұрын
Good advice, I love your feminine energy. Yes, repetition, repetition, repetition is necessary, and viewing other coaches with a similar message, expressed in a different way are very helpful.
@bodnarova055 жыл бұрын
Is this a joke question ? Hmmm don’t date a man who’s perfectly healthy and capable and isn’t working. Work on yourself . Develop self love . Raise your standards .
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
That all sounds really great. Thank you for commenting. XO
@prettymamita4 жыл бұрын
U have so many fans from all over because your advice is universal 🙏🏼 and for all ages too. All women have to deal with this stuff
@AdrienneEverheart4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. The energies are universal! 🥰
@TheKianaRoe5 жыл бұрын
I swear this really helped in my relationship my god. I’ve .... I swear I need all the ladies advice I can about my relationship omg..
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
So glad to hear that YunniTv, much love! XO
@Teal_Moon5 жыл бұрын
“That’s when I expire and turn into a pumpkin” 🤣 lol! great tips thank you again Adrienne!
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Thank YOU Sammy for watching and commenting, much love! XO
@daniellebeauty935 жыл бұрын
I love Adrienne and her advice cause it really does work.. I was with my man outside leaning against the hood of a van and started shifting away from him every so often I would start heading towards the back of the van and a few minutes after he would come closer each time. I believe I was only able to get to about the passenger side door and he stood up and said “I’m not going to chase you around this van all night get your a** over her ! “ 😂😂😂 In my mind I was like “Thank you Adrienne!” As I of course ran into his OPEN arms. 💛💛
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
AWH! That is so funny!!! Thank you for sharing!
@hjane23095 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your lovely live stream. I watched today, its all very great advice. My boyfriend of a few years is hard to figure out especially with his masculine energy. When they're angry they really need to be given space. And done in a way where you (the gf or wife) have your own peace and go do your own thing. This is very powerful in calming men down. Xox much love 💕
@milenastanojevic70324 жыл бұрын
And how do you act when is time to reconnect after they've been given their space? Who approaches first and what is a good communication strategy to surpass the silence? Thank you🤗♥️
@MoonFoxASMR4 жыл бұрын
Low key disappointed you didn't say the bend and snap for the body language trick.
@AdrienneEverheart4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@am68743 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@basketballfan57635 жыл бұрын
It's basic advice but we just don't do it. Enforcement of boundaries is so important. I often change my plans at last minute for friends even and that just creates that behaviour forever. It really is true you teach people how to treat you! It's tough though when you want to see a guy and miss him!⚘🌸🌼🌻 thanks Adrienne!!!
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
BasketballFan you’re so welcome honey. This is a good reminder a man only treats you as badly as you allow.
@millymarie20055 жыл бұрын
Milly
@FeminineMotherhood4 жыл бұрын
We had a date indoors onMonday, it was lovely, I kept some space between us at a few moments, and noticed that he leaned in EVERY SINGLE TIME to pull me to him.
@AdrienneEverheart4 жыл бұрын
Of course he did 🥰✅ You are learning all the secrets now. Keep up the good work.
@kyrareneeLOA4 жыл бұрын
Adrienne I so appreciate you.🌹 Who here has not been trapped in a car with someone that is moody? 14:12 Many times for me! My ex got Hanger, and would Pick me up moody and hungry and expect me to pick the perfect place now! And If I just tried to think of good places under tremendous pressure. Augh! Just turn away and look out the window and act like nothing is wrong. Let them fit it. Thank you.
@MissyTC-865 жыл бұрын
These tips are good, but I don’t know if they fit the category of make him obsess about you. A lot of your tips are if you’re already with the guy and in a relationship. How about some more tips on how to get into the relationship in the first place? Thank you
@BlessedVivi5 жыл бұрын
Yea that's what I was thinking
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Happy to help! I have many programs for this to help you. It’s a process and not a one and done video unfortunately. I also have many videos about things to say if you desire entering a relationship with a man. bit.ly/femmtools
@ЕлизаветаСачук-ь8х3 жыл бұрын
I'm so grateful for your tips! This is exactly what I've been looking for this evening podcast. Your voice makes things sound simple and easily understandable🙏🏼
@AdrienneEverheart3 жыл бұрын
Awesome. Much love! 💋💋💋
@carrielegg54805 жыл бұрын
This is amazing help! This makes a lot of sense. I am able to feel my feelings and challenged setting the boundaries. I am doing pretty well with it so far. I am super excited learning all this information!
@alfienykabutler59195 жыл бұрын
I was turned away from hubby in church and he immediately put his arm around me.
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Good work, and keep on learning! 💌Get "500 Ways to Talk to a Man" + 2-Day Classes: EverheartCoaching.com/talk
@stephanieburgess745 жыл бұрын
Haaaa “now if you are trapped in a car with a man”. Lol. You’re adorable!
@jinyiduan25462 жыл бұрын
It’s so brilliant and at some point it just gets so hilarious 🤣 can’t stop laughing when you acting on those real life examples. Such a wise and smart lady omg
@AdrienneEverheart2 жыл бұрын
Happy to help!
@francinegray93835 жыл бұрын
OMG . LADIES: I had a long marriage to a man who was naturally intense and sometimes volatile, who had trouble handling his excess tension - usually over work.. My mother was with us for a while to help care for our son, so she unfortunately saw some of this. Her advice, given quietly and away from his earshot, was exactly like yours during those episodes. Did I listen? Of course not! His behavior threw me off balance so much that I couldn't hear anything Mom said. It took years for me to learn this. ( I actually thought we were the only couple dealing with this stuff and I was busy being embarrassed! ) Yes, it works when you detach and it also works when accept his help with issues not concerning him -- usually the guy's relieved that your issue is not about him. Everything in this video is so on point.
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Oh honey. I hear you. So often wise women up in their years share their wisdom with our modern (masculine) minds. Bless her heart and you too! You’re learning all the secrets now 🥰
@francinegray93835 жыл бұрын
@@AdrienneEverheart Thank you. Mom took advice from her usually reserved mother-in-law as a young bride, then her much older sister-in-law! Now I'm the older one and still learning, 'cause ya never know!
@SJH-el2of4 жыл бұрын
I love your videos! You really inspire me to get into my feminine energy. Just hearing you talk helps me slow down my breathing and thinking. Wish I would have found you sooner! Thank you for sharing your knowledge! ♥️
@AdrienneEverheart4 жыл бұрын
Happy to help! xoxo!
@lyndabensaada96854 жыл бұрын
مم
@sydneyharrell27205 жыл бұрын
I hope you see this Adrienne! This is a big problem that many women raised in the Southern Bible belt face unfortunately. Those of us considered "ladies" are told to be absolutely submissive, endlessly giving, sacrifice everything for your man. We are reminded constantly of the "Proverbs 31 woman" and expected to model her, and she helps her husband and provides for her husband and family. We're told that separation is the devil and that we must fight hard for our Godly marriage which essentially means chase him and force him to work it out (in a positive, ladylike way of course 🙄) with lots of "I forgive you!" and "I won't give up on you!" and "Let's work this out together!" and "Tell me what you want and need!" I got my dream man back, everything you said worked wonderfully, and at first he chased me and was doing anything he could to keep me interested. Once we committed, I listened to all of this about how to be a good christian wife and mother and now he is no longer pursuing, is getting angry, is being a lil disrespectful and inconsiderate and I am so devastated! Is this advice all wrong? These leaders say that if we just be submissive, Godly wives that God will honor our relationships and men will think we're more precious than rubies and respect us but I'm worried I've screwed up 😬
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
I don't get into religious advice or commenting on religious upbringing, as you're detailing, and I have many good reasons for that. ;) I do think in some ways this kind of advice has steered many women into being too submissive and losing grip on their individuality, their strength, their talent and their powerful feminine energy. I'm just glad that some of my advice helped you. Go with what you feel in YOUR heart, which may or may not be contrary to some things you've been taught. In your heart, you will know what's right and what works for YOU. XO
@samiyap15 жыл бұрын
Adrienne you are such a blessing. You have such a beautiful spirit and I appreciate your help in my relationship. Continue being great love you. 😍😍
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
SAMIYA PURVIS thank you so much for commenting. Sending you much love! ❤️
@maykelsgamez47065 жыл бұрын
Don’t forget the ice cream when you watching this video lmao 😂
@catalva21874 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🤩 for sharing your wealth of knowledge! I am so glad you showed up in my feed randomly about a week ago.. Now your abundantly showing up cause Ive watched and liked so many of your fabulous videos. My day steadily improves with each video I scroll across. Whether I have the time to watch it or save it to watch later. I will make plans in my head to make sure I have the time later to watch. So thank you for all that you do and I am a fan for life ❤
@AdrienneEverheart4 жыл бұрын
Hugs to you, honey! 💕 I’m so glad you found me! I am honored to be a part of your life!
@lightsparkyl5 жыл бұрын
Your advice is so helpful. I appreciate and admire you sharing such important info to the world. Many blessings back atcha!! ♥️💫♥️
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the kind words. xoxo!
@carmenmich5 жыл бұрын
Great video!!!! No more taking crumbs.
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Yout got it Carmen! Thanks for watching, keep learning and practicing these tools. XO
@ayeshhas56415 жыл бұрын
Hey Adrianne. Firstly thank you for shearing the knowledge you've obtained. I am grateful and so is every woman who listens to it. Also, I'd add that this depth of femininity may nor work on some guys (for example where i am from in east Africa). They are used to femininity where the woman is slightly cold and distant and doesn't show approval and soft emotions forwardly. They desire to unlock your warm charm, softness and feel that he has earned it.So in essence it is seen as higher value for the woman to be garceful in her speech yet not show abundance of warmth abd excitement and softness.
@brenguille5 жыл бұрын
I just love him so much that's why I always look for him 😭 he used to like me very much, and said he loved me but doesn't show it anymore so I look for him, why now I feel like I sabotage everything and somehow it's my fault? That's what make me feel sad
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
I am sensing your energy is now wrapped all over him and you have lost your beautiful self. Find her again and the man will return (if you still want him.)
@jolieo78jonas5 жыл бұрын
@@AdrienneEverheart I 100% agree with you.. I heard this for so long and did not believe it... but then I had no choice but to let the love of my life go, I began taking care of myself, spring clean my space including clutters, clean inside your shower as well. Lol. Then start cooking your own meals, drink lots of water moist your skin do facemasks on a mirror next to you while watching tv or videos like this... sister let me tell you.. doing all of that youd automatically be thinking about yourself and how much better you're feeling and looking.. you moved on with your life basically.. THEN BOOM HE COMES BACK TO YOU... so what are you going to do now!??! 💞
@Sleepybabykidstv5 жыл бұрын
Pointing your energy away from him works like magic. I did this and he responded quickly. It's funny lol
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
So glad to hear this! If you want to see more of my programs, eBooks, classes, etc.: bit.ly/everheart XO!
@shayleenwebb40215 жыл бұрын
I seriously think this was my favorite video so far!!! Thank you so much!!!
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
shayleen webb you are so welcome. Xoxo! 🥰
@kathiecoker37363 жыл бұрын
I’m working my way through your video library. Such gold nuggets here. Thank you♥️
@tatianaskhirtladze95104 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for you wonderfully introspective videos! You are like a sunshine, girl!
@mae88b.165 жыл бұрын
The guy i am dating complains that i dont text and text him only whenever it suits me. I am scared to make a move. He will call me to make plans to hangout together with his friends for the weekend But if there’s no plan for the weekend We don’t talk, i can even go 10 days without talking to him. He doesn’t reach out too.. Is there any video to overcome anxiety on dating. I’m so scared to feel the slightest feeling of rejection. I am cancer ♋️, im worst in dating, i act aloof, cold and hardly open up to someone if i don’t feel secure yet. Btw he’s 25 yrs old and i am 31 our age gap adds up to my anxiety.
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Mae88 B. -- this doesn't sound hopeless at all. I don't think that age gap is wide enough to worry about. It's his actions and behavior that you need to look into. I think you could get a lot out of this program, it covers multiple facets of the dating process: bit.ly/datingunzipped -- Hang in there, you're not the worst at dating, I've heard WAY worse. ;) XOXO!
@rmmb135 жыл бұрын
totally same story for me, i do not do much for contacting as well. and i am cancer and i get very anxious if i really like the guy
@TheDaniMilan5 жыл бұрын
Hey love. Did it help? I am dating a man now we have been friends awhile and we both admitted we’re happy that we finally told one another how we feel. But like i want a date date - you tell me “you’re mine. I don’t want us talking to no one else” but i want to DATE! Take me out damnit. That’s my biggest thing. Let you talking lead to action.
@netania1233 жыл бұрын
I am so glad that I found you. Such great advise. Thanks so much for putting this content out there.
@GoodWill-d2w5 жыл бұрын
In conclusion it's like -Never argue with a man just act like you are scared you are volunerable -Respect yourself have your boundary without blaming him -Walk away if that men didn't act properly And I don't agree when he is yelling at you you still act like' Un-huh, just yell at him like shut up you being too harsh towards your woman and walk away. If you even can't point out he act like a crap when he is rude to you, why do you need to keep this man? You may not need to say he act crippy a hundred times but you can say it once or twice then walk away.
@TheDaniMilan5 жыл бұрын
See this is why i get confused. I feel like it should be genuine and if they are your SOUL Mate (the one God has for you) it should come naturally. You two will know and will both act in fear or go full throttle. I honestly wish I could just be my Passionate Scorpio Self and not have to play these damn games. It just seems like you’re not showing who you truly are which in turn could have you heartbroken because they’ll leave you once they figure out it was all a facade - i get you have to teach one another how to love you but shouldn’t the one for you just be..natural?
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Yes be natural, this work is more about not allowing the monkey brain or impulses to DRIVE you or the relationship. We are all products of experiences and genetics. When you tap into your body, GAME OVER as you are pausing to observe the inner self and are honest, warm (takes human practice) and heart unzipped. Humans as they are can be downright barbaric and cruel, this work requires reflection and yes some work. Natural is not 'reflex' - consider this. Keep on learning...💖My Proven "Get Him Back" Program: goo.gl/XLTZkp
@leesonsitty21124 жыл бұрын
Yes GIRL!❤️ Keep praying to God to bring you the one He will compliment your life! TRUST in GOD! He who is meant for you will find YOU! All these videos are helpful, BUT if that’s not the person from God, it won’t BE!
@JENGA39913 жыл бұрын
Omg I’ve done the car thing soooo many times unknowingly and yes it worked EVERYTIME, unfortunately i just recently found this channel and can attest to have been operating on my masculine side that allll those opportunities went for the most part completely missed because i would say how I actually felt. . Now I can be intentional with these opportunities 🥰🤩
@rubbennicole243 жыл бұрын
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@tropicaoptica5 жыл бұрын
The car thing... my guy would ask me whats wrong in an irritated tone. I'm wasn't allowed to ever be anything but happy with him, and turned away body language would communicate I'm not happy with him and then he will get down on me and get my emotions going while he stay cool as a cucumber and accuse me of being irrational when initially it was him with the mood who knows what it was about but the turning away would have for sure back fired. .
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear about these communication problems. If you want to try going deeper and figure it out using all the tools that I can offer, you might like to look here: bit.ly/500waysbook Good luck and much love! XOXO
@sandrahelmuth51254 жыл бұрын
Thank you for taking you time to help us to become more in touch with our feminine side😁😊😍
@AdrienneEverheart4 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome! 💕
@valauriereed53944 жыл бұрын
Do you tell a man you have plans to go away for the weekend, far in advance? Or just respond on the weekend, that you are out of town. Just dating
@AdrienneEverheart4 жыл бұрын
Hugs to you! 💕 You are just dating, so you owe the man nothing. You need not tell him your plans in advance unless he asks specifically.
@PennyLane-kc1tv4 жыл бұрын
You are a life saver this is what I needed thank you
@meixu61874 жыл бұрын
Adrienne. You really are the best!!! I so wish I had known about you a long time ago. Love ya!!!!
@AdrienneEverheart4 жыл бұрын
Hugs to you! 💕 It’s never too late to start learning feminine energy. FEMM Tools will help you out! bit.ly/femmtools
@meixu61874 жыл бұрын
Adrienne Everheart's Love Academy I will definitely check out. Reading your 500 ways now and totally enjoying it.
@amlin.eshita5 жыл бұрын
hi adrienne, i like your words, but can you do more videos on the topic of how to get a guy who is friend zoning you, but may be he just doesn't realise it yet that he likes you! if that makes sense? that would really help.
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Amlin Eshita that’s a great topic. Yet Do you have a specific question? Ultimately if a man sees you as a friend the best thing you can do is telling him how wonderful it feels to do things together and then ultimately ask him if he’s curious if there’s more for you two?
@amlin.eshita5 жыл бұрын
@@AdrienneEverheart Hi Adrienne Thanks for your reply, what if he said he wants to be friends after i told him how i feel? and he also said that nothing is going to happen now, but he doesn't know if its never gonna happen ever or not.
@NijaSym5 жыл бұрын
These tips are gold! Thank you 💕
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
I am so happy to help and please keep learning with my ebook Guidebook, "500 Ways" bit.ly/500waysbook
@love7loyalty-MHA4 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@BeccahJoy2 жыл бұрын
So grateful for you, Adrianne. 💞 I pray God continues to bless you.
@AdrienneEverheart2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Blessing received!
@eveyantha31425 жыл бұрын
Eve Ontario I watched this video a while ago and you gave me the clues I needed to get that high quality, loving man, I desired.
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Terrific Eve, you are so amazing! Please keep in touch. xoxo
@dr.meehikagaikwad77315 жыл бұрын
youre so amazing with your work, you make situations so light and easy to understand.. im always following you and having amazing results♥️♥️💋ps: you always make me smile and giggle😁 with your energy even at my worst times👑
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Dr.Meehika Gaikwad haha 🤣 I’m so happy it’s working well for you. Thank you for commenting and sending you much love. ❤️
@gratitude57405 жыл бұрын
If what you are saying is the way to communicate with men, then I know why he left , bread crumbed me. I did say I was disappointed, I did say I felt like I’m not his priority, I led conversation ( he said he liked when I talk) but he would slump in a chair which tells me he is overpowered. Keep asking myself why he left . We never argued, well e never said he wasn’t happy with me . I didn’t like certain things that he did or ways he behaved but maybe I caused it unknowingly 🙉? It seems like a lot of mind work to keep guys fragile ego intact.
@Godheals893 жыл бұрын
24 hours rule 🙌🏾 is Golden! Thank you 😊 Peace & Love 💕
@AdrienneEverheart3 жыл бұрын
You’re so welcome! You capture ANY man’s heart with Feminine Energy when you know how to date/speak using your FEMM TOOLS. I teach you how. diamondgirl.me/femm
@anneliz28784 жыл бұрын
Adrienne, I like your outfits. Would you share with us the brands you buy? This white blouse is very pretty too. Thanks a lot.
@mssummerrose14 жыл бұрын
I have a good question: when I sometimes turn my body away from him (which I do from time to time) and he comes right after me trying to pull me in again (which he does every time I do that), should I kind of see that as real interest or rather just as possessiveness... thank you
@AdrienneEverheart4 жыл бұрын
Hugs to you! 💕 That body language is a form of leaning back. This shows that he is pursuing you. Learn more here. bit.ly/femmtools
@JD-dz9lx3 жыл бұрын
@5:45 Adrienne, I screamed. Why was that so funny?! LOLLLLL
@74bluebird745 жыл бұрын
You're the best Adrienne. I learn so much from you. Thank you. :)
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Thank YOU Katherine, much love, XOXO!
@shanasheree55634 жыл бұрын
I just been binge watching your videos lol !!! I just love YOUR advice so soothing and def interesting for me ....love it
@AdrienneEverheart4 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy to help!
@mishkasalazar53463 жыл бұрын
hi ladies. im kind of new here and ive just been watching AE's youtube videos for around a couple of months now. and i guess the concept that the man "doesn't hear logic" is a little shocking to me. ive talked to my man that way whenever problems come up because i always expected him to understand logic since their supposed to be the logical/masculine energy. haha but yes, every single time im left alone, problem unresolved, and just sad. so im having to unlearn this right now. this is all new to me and it feels kind of difficult to process.
@katiej97674 жыл бұрын
When I’m feminine he’s addicted
@AdrienneEverheart4 жыл бұрын
💕💕💕
@kashagoddess98625 жыл бұрын
Thank you for summarizing this...I need it straight.
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
READY to Get Him Back?: bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack Be sure to join my online Coaching Community: diamondgirl.me/group
@lauramjaime5 жыл бұрын
Adrienne Everheart's Love Academy I loved your video! Thank you so much for sharing ❤️ what can a woman do when the man you love is very friendly , and that seems to “open doors “ for other women. His attention is mostly on the people around him socially, and less on his partner by his side . Help! Any insights would be appreciated 🙏❤️
@Diamond_InTheRuff5 жыл бұрын
@@lauramjaime i wanna kno the answer too!?
@Lyndonlynx4 жыл бұрын
I bought the ebook however I never received it
@AdrienneEverheart4 жыл бұрын
Laura Jaime when he does this for others, comment, “you are just too sweet, feels so good.” Be sure you’re being warm and receptive even if it’s not for you. I believe you can turn that ship around.
@AdrienneEverheart4 жыл бұрын
LYNDON LYNX OFFICIAL oh no! Check spam. Also email HELP@ Everheartcoaching.com
@vivigotrich34492 жыл бұрын
Can you talk about how you remain in your feminine frame and help the main to feel like he's still in his masculine if you make more money than him?
@susanhorton94925 жыл бұрын
what if I am financially successful than the man, how can I make it work.I don't want to not fulfill my potential because of his ego feeling threatened?
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Of course you make your millions! He simply needs to provide something(s) and that's for him to figure out.
@jasminedebjamatia48015 жыл бұрын
You are absolutely hands down awesome. I now understand more and men are actually complicated than women. 🙋♀️ From India
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Yasss! 🥰
@jasminedebjamatia48015 жыл бұрын
I always heard about feminine energy but never knew how to use it in a tactful way. Thanks to you. Now I understand. You make it easy to understand. You are great. Lots of love. 💜💜
@shonnathompson64595 жыл бұрын
So glad I came across this video... definitely what I needed... your amazing!!
@lizrivera3895 жыл бұрын
What do you do when a man is feeling down because of something in his life. Mine told me that was happening and he asked me to check on him when he gets like that. I don't want to start creating the energy that I am his caretaker. I want to stay in my feminine energy but also help him feel supported. What should I do or not do?
@AdrienneEverheart5 жыл бұрын
Liz Rivera in “500 Ways“ ebook I share this script: I feel so helpless will you please let me know if there’s anything I can do? You can find that e-book at www.everheartcoaching.com/ebook In it you will find more scripts and also see where I teach you how to speak from your body❤️🥰💋Much love and thank you for commenting.
@leanngeer42845 жыл бұрын
I love your videos! You are so detailed and explain things really well.
@irinen5217 Жыл бұрын
Genius, great advice
@wy59354 жыл бұрын
Hi Adriienne, how does making up excuses about a leg cramp work when we are supposed to be a stating our boundaries? It’s not fix-it mode if we just say that we don’t feel safe around aggressive outbursts like that. I think it would be more beneficial to just communicate our feelings about it. Right?
@AdrienneEverheart4 жыл бұрын
I wish I understood your question better...?
@wy59354 жыл бұрын
Adrienne Everheart's Love Academy You mention when he’s having an anger outburst, to just make up an excuse and leave the room. But you also talk about us setting boundaries and communicating feelings. As such, wouldn’t it be more beneficial in the long-term to communicate to him that his outbursts make you feel scared? Thanks.