Make Them DESIRE YOU! - 5 Easy Ways To Become More ATTRACTIVE TODAY | Lewis Howes

[@TheVillageBeast]

Never stop self improvement guys ! Work harder on yourself than you do at your job

[@JenMarco]

Yes! The rest will come naturally.

[@thairujackline8180]

Jim Rooohn!!..absolutely work harder on yourself

[@jigerkijeet]

Stated by Jim Rohn .

[@haitiancreolewithluciano]

One of the best ways to be desired is to hold off on desiring others too much. When you focus on yourself, others start giving you attention as well

[@travelchannel304]

What..no how does one do "holding off" ?!! It takes 21 days to start a new habit, I've read. IF ONE knows how to BE consistent for 3 weeks!

[@bellakim9404]

True. Prioritize yourself and others will treat you according to how you respect yourself.

[@bodydesignbyrachel]

So true.

[@oksanaparr1396]

If you hold off on desiring other you automatically become less desiring, because you and your body , mind not project attraction.

[@darrellgainer6966]

@@oksanaparr1396 that’s not true

[@karenelliott6309]

Love what Matthew said about not every emotion is a cue to do something. I’ve been caught in that trap before.

[@thesilverladylifts2708]

I love and enjoy my solitude and don’t miss anyone’s company. Now is my time to date the most important person in my life, that person is me! I’m gone through love taking care of others, love others so much more and nurtured them so they can be free on their own. I’m not lonely. I work on me, my fitness, my love for listening to podcasts I’m passionate about. If anyone is interested in getting to me, they would have to come to me organically because I stopped looking a while ago they need to fit in this new life I’ve created for myself.

[@princessjulia5646]

The best advice. I've been trying to get overba broken heart for 6 months ! I've read all the books listened to all tge podcast s !!!!!! But this one has made me get out of bed ! Abd say enough is enough to myself . Love is not enough I must rely on myself to be happy n fully full filled. Thank you

[@cherylannem8841]

It's all about being present with whoever you are with. Whether it's your partner, your Sister, Friend, or Grandchild. Put that Phone away!

[@andrewpipitone1572]

There is an old song called Love the one your with. Lol

[@markrossi5721]

@@andrewpipitone1572 - being a baby boomer, I know that song well. I had that Crosby, Stills, Nash and Young vinyl album called Four Way Street that had that song and many other great songs on it. Those were the days my friend! What the hell has happened to this world since then?

[@alienesse]

This is so wise. Unconditional love is a myth. One person for everything sets oneself up for failure. There is no one, just the one in that part of time... I miss him but it's okay. I had a chapter and it has closed. I set myself free.

[@whiskers11234]

Unconditional love exists only between Mother and Child ... Therefore never grant or make a baby with a woman because she will only give love to that child no longer you the daddy, Husband, Lover, Boyfriend, Etc.... Thats the gift all woman desire to have and its to love and be loved.. That will only exist between her and the child she made... Never a man except if its her son...

[@lucybraun8969]

Our value is found in the fact that we are worth an only begotten son to our heavenly father. Without our flaws, we would not have need of a savior. The best we can do is to strive for being the best possible version of ourselves through obedience, and being able to forgive ourselves for our mistakes.

[@luckyduckydaisyflower2344]

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[@Sarasarah3]

My boyfriend and are super attracted physically to one another, but we respected one another too much to risk ruining something good with sex too soon; so we made a conscious decision to wait 2 months to have sex. Take your time building the emotional connection because it makes everything all the more sweeter

[@WillIam79-c7f]

Who railed you for 2 mo?

[@Annamelese]

Two month? Wow you are waiting long time 🤣🤣🤣

[@patriciapeever5974]

Steve HARVEY says 3 months 1st..get to know each other ...fully, RESPECT, like each OTHER..

[@elain2706]

@@Annamelese 2 months is too long . If less than 3 months I won’t even have sex with my date

[@klopossa2]

We'll be married first..been 9 months. 3 ldr, 6 boots on grnd.

[@lucybraun8969]

I got detached from my feminine energy. It has helped me to start getting it back through baby steps - things like dressing more feminine, and doing girly things, like getting hair & nails done regularly, chatting with girly girls, etc.

[@karenjudd5183]

And flirt like the goddess you are!

[@lucybraun8969]

@@karenjudd5183 My flirting is pretty rusty. It's been eons since I came across anyone I wanted to even bother flirting with. Where are the gentlemen these days?

[@anneliesewright662]

Thank you for being so REAL.

[@joybarton3460]

Just an awakening podcast! The lady has words of utter wisdom!

[@lewishowes]

Thank you for being here!

[@safiramennas9601]

Mathew you are so smart and inspiring, you noticed something in yourself that is actually scientifically proven to make you feel better, that "noticing" the good moments in your day and focusing on them is such a key to get over a heartbreak ! Thanks for sharing this and helping others, you're one of those people who contribute in making this world better. 🙏🏼💙

[@TheVillageBeast]

Love your channel bruv. Love how you literally talks about anything. Let’s level up guys 💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoy the channel! Thanks for being here! 🧡

[@jonkybeats]

I loved when Matthew said “sippin a beach on a cocktail” 2:18

[@ptyh27]

Everyone has expectations. No such a thing unconditional love these days

[@805_tj5]

Facts!

[@savannasmusicandmartialarts]

theres a saying "if you find yourself alone, rejoice!'

[@florebaptiste2792]

Anyone in my life will bring “er” they can only make me happier, calmer etc. they will add to what I’m already creating.

[@DanDanTheFireman]

An amazing video. I love the format of taking different clips and creating some important tips. All of them resonated with me.

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

[@robotcitizen101]

having had rockstar levels of popularity and people of all persuasions offering themselves to me, while being in multiple relationships, with no end of 'booty' on call, after many years of that - endless drama! - I finally achieved happiness and satisfaction with peace and quiet by switching off from them all; am thoroughly enjoying the quiet life with some awesome animal friends. I have time now to actually do so many satisfying things that don't involve other people's life-draining drama. I hope you all get over the awfully sad desperate infantile neediness of wanting to be desired, considered attractive and all that. It's a terrible hamster wheel. Life is so much better when you stop caring about it. I know many of you won't get this until you've been on the hamster wheel and are thoroughly disillusioned by it. But maybe this note will help at least one person get off the hamster wheel years before they might have otherwise. Genuine happiness comes when you don't need someone else's approval, attention or energy to feel OK about yourself.

[@Smokillo]

The hamster wheel doesn’t attract me

[@patriciapeever5974]

Needieness is a sad way to start a relationship.

[@beac8238]

How old were you when you finally got tired of that lifestyle? And did you find a woman to settle down with?

[@spiritualawakeing]

They got subscriber, channels, likes and off one in dozen links I had plan to create my application. Many do not know facts. But 12 years ago they started own vision. Never ever gave me any help. Only taking and taking as Raping me over and over. Hurts knowing I am zero, to All the Ones. Never offering ONE is Trinity. Hated by many loved by most. Either way, I am here commenting still never earn zip. FB block me, I see truth. Sad to know I am extra hated for being equal to you as sinner.

[@spiritualawakeing]

@@Smokillo How does it feel as Karma start world wide.

[@simonecavalcante3607]

WoW! Thank you for bringing so much awareness to the way we look and live our relationships. 💛

[@LeahWasHere23]

This whole video -- GOLD! -- I think I've replayed the part with Esther Perel at least 10 times.

[@lewishowes]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@ericmhowardii8410]

Communication and trust work well in all relationships.

[@thesnehap]

Love your channel, content and podcast! I am thankful to have you found you and your work! Most of these topics need to be shared, discussed far and wide - thank goodness people are seeing through some of the illusions!

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoy the channel! Thanks for being here! 🧡

[@heyu123]

Lewis I really admire u. U went through so much (the little that I know) and you’re helping so many people now ❤❤❤

[@lewishowes]

Appreciate you and your support🧡

[@jennifergersch9126]

Two awesoome people thrown together! Thank you!

[@lewishowes]

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[@ericmhowardii8410]

Relationships needs love, honor, trust , common ground and loyalty that runs both ways inside the family between husband and wife, son , daughter and the list goes on.

[@SoCalBrian]

29:10 omg thank you to this woman for saying the truth!

[@sheilaisrael8922]

Lewis you are a great teacher, and trying to bring awareness to the partnership dance!

[@lewishowes]

Thank you so much for your feedback 🙂

[@theresacourter627]

Thank you for being so real!! I needed to hear that men can feel this way too

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome, thank you for being here 🧡

[@lucybraun8969]

You guys were a big part of my good weather today.

[@fernandaflores9690]

Do you have this amazing podcast in Spanish? Thank you!:)

[@karishma5711]

This is one of the best practical learning. And the Athlete example is best. I need to start from this.

[@mcm6563]

I learned so much deep anderstantding💫 tkank you.

[@carlosjuvencio-ew9xn]

Thanks for this. Learned a lot.

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

[@thewanderbabe]

Thank you. The storm analogy and staying true to your end goal was helpful. If they text, "respect the drug". I needed this today. Many thanks

[@joseroman7553]

Loved this, fun and insightful! Thanks a lot!

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

[@lenkavolnhals7197]

I have finished your podcast today, if I had enough time I would watch it again, but I am very short of time at the moment and the next month. I did love the podcast and wish I were less tired to listen to every little detail. Thank you. I will jump over Huberman and watch your previous podcast, hope someone else come after him.

[@lewishowes]

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[@KirkLeeSweet]

These videos from Lewis are helping me so much. What did we do before KZbin premium?

[@Hiltie1]

This is great majestic wisdom. Thankyou for sharing.

[@lewishowes]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@rebeccagonzalesfinley5751]

You just hit a spot wow thanks

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

[@temprano69]

I saw Mathew years ago in a video it was nice to see him again

[@jenniferwhitehead9153]

Mathew Hussey has 100’s of videos on KZbin. Very good relationship expert.

[@craigosterberg5045]

Thanks for the info

[@lewishowes]

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[@theCollectiveEU]

So great Lewis 🙏

[@lewishowes]

Thank you so much!

[@rebeccagonzalesfinley5751]

I’m very alone and thanks for this message

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

[@xelaklement3367]

Please invite Dr Mike Mew from orthotropics on your podcast. He has crucial and life changing information to share and he's been silenced by the orthodontics community. He really needs our support. Please if you know his work, upvote my comment or suggest him as a guest on other big podcasts 🙏 He is one of the great scientists who has changed my life for the better. Sorry for going off topic, the video was great as always!

[@lewishowes]

I ask that all guest requests go through: lewishowes.com/contact under "press/media/interview."

[@robotcitizen101]

haha the guy who looks like the predator alien? ewww, just creepy.

[@xelaklement3367]

@@lewishowes Thank you so much for replying! Will do 💜

[@tamara8736]

ugh so helpful

[@lewishowes]

Glad this was helpful for you🧡

[@CatherinesChronicles_]

Super content ! Deep and helpful to me!

[@lewishowes]

Thank you so much! 🧡

[@Rachsbliss]

Thank you 🧡

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome, thank you for being here 🧡

[@Rachsbliss]

@@lewishowes your welcome!✨🧡

[@janep165]

Can you do mini videos with salient points? /snap shots please. Really love the content here but video too long

[@lewishowes]

Thanks for your honest Feedback! You can find an audio only shorter version of my podcasts here: lewishowes.com/podcast There is also the clips channel here: kzbin.info/door/vR7QkSlCxuzAITcs99-G6Q

[@janep165]

@@lewishowes thank you Lewis, much appreciated x

[@takalvert]

His so with real details amazing 👏 and all true..

[@lewishowes]

🙌

[@makaylahua1]

Who is the “2nd to last” speaker? He was AMAZING, thank you ❤️

[@lewishowes]

DeVon Franklin 😃

[@thaothelegendary1796]

What does Esther mean when she said 'we give each other a foundation from which we launch into our respective world?" how should we understand this, as opposed to the notion partners should make each other happy?

[@АнаидДжаграева]

What’s the name of the man that was speaking about “Big lesson”? Lewis, thank you for your show, it means so much for me🙏❤️

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

[@АнаидДжаграева]

Oh, I’ve just understood that it’s the author of book “Live Free”- Franklin DeVon🙏😂😍

[@tianiemitchell5692]

I agree it's never wise to rebound quickly even for a man because, it prolongs the healing process or the figure it out process that that person's the 14U person-to-person

[@diana0620]

Matthew ❤ is looking hotter than ever ....Lewis ❤ always

[@SoCalBrian]

29:23 so that’s what love is

[@ligiasommers]

Super helpful 🙏🏻🌹✨

[@lewishowes]

Means a lot!!! Glad this was helpful for you🧡

[@rommystrater6334]

I resonate

[@lotaayson9645]

LOVE and Faith can not be forced NICE hearing from Both of you Remembered 4 years ago; Its coming Christmas; Hello TO YOUR " mOM" Place was spectacular; keep goings-on Inspired people with your welcoming Vibrancy

[@dr.josephm.costello5351]

Who is the woman that begins at 23:00? She is very knowledgeable.

[@lewishowes]

Esther Perel 🧡

[@JG-yf6pt]

who is the sociologist she mentioned @29:33?

[@Victoria-cm1yo]

How do you explain then that the majority of the people are not happy with themselves, and still have someone loving them and they have never ever been alone before. Do they even know what self love is? Do they care about it? No. Did they accept being overweight, ugly, self hate? Or still they have enough ego to tell themselves they deserve someone! And they are claiming it. It’s really a waste of time focusing on self love. You can still be just unlucky and a boring person, therefor you’ll be alone.

[@SoCalBrian]

32:50 unconditional love is not real

[@Scout-nn4vb]

Matthew is hawt. 🔥

[@magalufff]

At my age the only way to be more attractive is facelift😂

[@genbeaudry5063]

Your mind would be the first thing that is ghe attraction...,then the rest follows.😉

[@sabrinasabrina2841]

what is the name of the last speaker?

[@lewishowes]

Robert Greene 🧡

[@barokotextiledelux7949]

What is the name of the second speaker? I would like to order some of her books

[@lewishowes]

Esther Perel 🧡

[@darkangelsuzy999]

Can I find just the interview with Louis and Ester separately from the whole on here ??

[@TheblondJane25]

GOOD ONE

[@lewishowes]

🔥

[@ny3nq]

What are the names of the interviewees?

[@RoopaDudleyPaintings]

Women are so different when it comes to break-up.

[@theCollectiveEU]

How is that? I would like to know.. thanks

[@paulinejeffers3]

❤️

[@missamy3304]

sorry if im wrong , why i see a lot of marijuama smoked

[@adaraluz]

❤

[@lindabyrne5692]

No one addresses what happens when cancer strikes. So, when a woman loses her ability to perform it seems acceptable for the husband to step out of the marriage. But what happens when a man has prostrate cancer and is on meds and his libido goes to zero? Granted, it is understood that this is a life saving step in his treatment. But ... what is the longterm effect of this? Or maybe this is an advanced relationship issue and not an ordinary issue that new relationships have.

[@valentinadagramo9683]

Mr. Hussey: Breakup is heartbreaking.. Howes: HAHAHA!! Mr. Hussey: It’s a devastating experience… Howea: HAHAHA! Howes:😀 🔨 Me🤬 Really disgusting these reactions!!!🤯 laughing about other‘s pain. HORRIBLE! A narcissistic behaviour.

[@seangray7715]

Your advice is so spot on but dose these things you say applie to gay men

[@jayg.a]

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[@susan8437]

Ok g

[@kvs7876]

I met the person, had sexy, still having sex, trying new things sex coming up on 2 months. She says I’m wonderful and beautiful and can’t stop thinking about me. Just wondering at some point will this turn into love?

[@ZOI123-w4o]

What do you like about her outside of sex?

[@yrellim]

Sex is about attraction and pleasure. Love is what happens outside the bed room (the other 23 hours) -connection, respect ect. No sex =getting to know each other and failing in love with the person not the sex. Good luck!

[@מיריתבו]

זזז😊😊😊😊

[@vehtty]

True Virgin Entertainment

[@lotaayson9645]

" BOTH looking 👍 🦸‍♂️ 🦸‍♀️; " " SMILES Bringing confidence to your AUDIENCE

[@800-HOT-MESS]

Thank you!! You guys are helping so many people ❤

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome! 🧡

[@annaalm18]

Highly valuable content, thanks Lewis!!

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

[@MsBuffone]

What is the name of the second speaker?

[@lewishowes]

Esther Perel🧡