Making Mommy Mad

[@Queenofbeautiful]

If it wasn’t for her girlfriend.. she wouldn’t be suing her mother. At the end she’s going off of her girlfriend’s energy & literally looking at her response. She’s making me seem like a bad person?? Nothing the mom said gave that. But who knows what goes on outside of court. That’s just my take.

[@darricksmith403]

I was saying the same thing it’s because of the girlfriend

[@thedopemom7697]

I literally just said the same thing. If it wasn’t for the girlfriend she shouldn’t have sued her mom.

[@blacknerdygirlsrock]

Same thing I said. The “girlfriend” seems to be the driving force here. When that girlfriend get tired of her, she gonna want her adoptive mother to save her. This is why people don’t do these types of deeds. The plaintiff thinks she is owed something.

[@jaxxgirl76]

I agree with that too. The girlfriend has possessive energy!

[@dianedobson1104]

That girlfriend doesn’t care if the adopted gal is left without a mom or not.

[@catblackman5874]

The girlfriend seems like the instigator.

[@antoinettetapper2785]

She is the one who instigated this. She talks over the girlfriend a lot. A real manipulator

[@huniebee2999]

I agree, though I also get the vibes she probably see's through a lot of the moms bs.

[@rockobill7637]

@@huniebee2999 I'd say she also puts out plenty of her own BS

[@ElizabethaSara]

Agree!!

[@Samirah313]

Absolutely!!!

[@lisa916panther5]

People sue their blood parents all the time and no one makes a big deal out of it. So why is everyone making a big deal because she is her adopted parent?🤷🏾‍♀️

[@wezzman1]

Ungrateful much.....but to answer your question. Biological parents had fun making and made a decision to have a child. This girl was given a great life instead of being knocked about in foster care. Plus these 2 girls are adults. And this is why I ain't help no one apart from family, ppl are bloody ungrateful

[@tierralark8418]

Because they pick and chose who to stand by based on emotions.

[@Kiddooski]

@@wezzman1 must not have paid attention MUCH.... the children were put in her FOSTER care then she moved to adopt. How do you know if it was a great life? My adopted parent put me through just as much mental abuse as my biological parents had physical. I would have MUCH RATHER stayed in my group home versus be treated like a damn dog at a pound. Ungrateful.....yeah ok..

[@astronomical5405]

I see biological parents and children get scolded on these court shows all the time. If judge doesn’t do it, I know Doug or Harvey will express it lol

[@YayaElkhatib]

@@wezzman1not all parents have fun making children. Some get forced into doing so.

[@pheonyxjohnson5966]

I hate when the Judge shows bias/ favoritism. This isn’t about her being her Foster Mom, it’s business and she’s a Landlord so the case should be dealt with that way.

[@JayseGreene]

In nearly all episodes the judge takes a moment to make it all about her.

[@LeeoGoneWild]

@@JayseGreenebecause this is a TV SHOW??? We watch for her opinion.

[@JayseGreene]

@@LeeoGoneWild Duhhh! I was on the PPC years ago when well not this diva was judge. :P

[@LeeoGoneWild]

@@JayseGreene low standards. Low class. Congrats?

[@JayseGreene]

@@LeeoGoneWild I suspect those muscles you have are affecting your brain, so this conversation is at an end. Enjoy being... you.

[@roscoeswetsuit1218]

If she's letting her daughter live in an extreme mold, imagine her childhood. We don't know what happened but lots of foster care (and bio) parents abuse their children. Blood means nothing.

[@fzklan7535]

grown woman that wouldnt live somewhere else.

[@trekgirl65]

To this kind of woman, they care not for their family or property.

[@Tabby112]

@@fzklan7535landlord who let her tenants stay in a mold infested building when it’s her job to provide a livable space. Their relation to each other shouldn’t matter for that not to be fucked up and against the law. They weren’t living for free they had a lease and the landlord broke it.

[@yolandgibson1233]

Not true, she told them 2 move out

[@billyjobobb]

I’m 53 and the only thing I regret is not having broken ties with my family earlier. What kind of mother doesn’t fix an issue like this when their child has to live in this kind of a situation. Had this not been the daughter, the landlord would have gotten slammed for this behavior

[@trekgirl65]

This is a way to see your parent's true colors of how they get things taken care of.

[@jdobe9461]

At the age of 22 they are not children they should have moved out and take care of themselves, not rely on mommy! Wonder how many people changed their mind about adoption after seeing this.

[@fitnessfocused]

@@jdobe9461 They do not have to rely in their parents. They do, however, as people who pay rent, rely on their landlord to provide a habitable living space.

[@Tabby112]

@@jdobe9461no this particular issue is for the landlord to fix. What’s the point of paying rent if you aren’t guaranteed a healthy environment to live in?

[@S.K.Smith-Green]

She admitted not telling her mother about the mold. What exactly was the mother supposed to do?

[@tjl1983]

Just because you’re adopted doesn’t mean you have to live your life indebted to your adoptive parents. “Saving her” I don’t like those words.

[@mysinusesrkillingme3975]

Thank you! As if that's the life an adopted child would have chosen for themselves. They are the ONLY innocent victims in a world of irresponsible adults

[@lukerinderknecht2982]

Sometimes JM pushes a little too hard on the whole suing your own family thing. It really should have no bearing on the case.

[@amandadonaldson8748]

And I do suspect the daughter's relationship caused some tension with her mother. The mother doesn't necessarily seem like a bad person, but adoptive parents aren't perfect and aren't above reproach. We don't know the other things going on in that family.

[@LivingforJesusaGodisGood74]

​@@amandadonaldson8748Doesn't "Necessarily"?. She isn't a bad person at all. Took you and your brother in as a child, raised you. The girl was living rent free upon till she moved her gf in who obviously wasn't wanted there and refused to leave, mother said okay then and moved them downstairs and made them start paying rent. How she is a bad person here?. And let's not forget she tried helping with the mole.

[@yung1717]

@@LivingforJesusaGodisGood74you don’t know these people.

[@LivingforJesusaGodisGood74]

@@yung1717 But i'm able to detect the issue by paying close attention from what was presented in the case.

[@Luluzinah0777]

She made that clear .. but she well knows her audience and YES MORE THAN YOUR 98 likes THOUSANDS OF US INQUIRING MINDS WANT TO KNOW!! So suck up Luke 🙄

[@teacupmagick7030]

I'm so sick of the mindset of "family is family, look at what they've done for you, you're just ungrateful/selfish, etc." NO. Family doesn't always mean blood relatives. Being biologically related to someone or being related through adoption or marriage DOES NOT make someone family. How people treats you is what counts, not just what they did for you but how they treated you overall. You can do a lot for someone and still be toxic and still create trauma or pain towards others. Just doing something for someone else doesn't excuse a person's actions, people still have to be held accountable for their actions. Setting boundaries and telling someone what is acceptable vs unacceptable to you doesn't make a person selfish or entitled. You don't throw what you've done for others back into their face if you were truly trying to give them a gift or help them out- that's called a guilt trip, and it's toxic AF.

[@magicvibesmusic]

Amen., that logic is outdated

[@therealleximack9273]

And let’s not forget mom got money from the state….

[@kaceyrae8946]

Wish I could like this more than 1 time.

[@svtskys62]

family is family, but toxic is toxic

[@VettGirl66]

👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾

[@marcusyoung2081]

So, is she suppose to be forever indebted to her and not hold her accountable for any actions that she may do or not do just because she adopted her when she was a child? 🤔

[@JamJamxo]

Exactly! Then if she did let it slide and let this money situation play out for months and then finally goes to court to sue her, judge would have been like “why didn’t u go to court sooner” 🙄

[@teacupmagick7030]

EXACTLY. Say it louder for the people in the back. Some people have never had the difficulty of dealing with toxicity from a parent or relative, and it shows in the other comments.

[@marcusyoung2081]

@teacupmagick7030 Some people do not seem to understand that oftentimes "family" will be the first ones to take advantage of you and if you give it a pass or overlook it then it can and usually will become a reoccurring event.

[@LivingforJesusaGodisGood74]

​@@marcusyoung2081The foster parent didn't take advantage of her. Plaintiff acted like a spoilt brat by moving in her unwanted gf and refused to let her leave. Before then she was living in her own room upstairs, rent free. The mother was kind enough to rent them downstairs.

[@marcusyoung2081]

@LivingforJesusaGodisGood74 All of that may be true, but the problem is that people tend not to be able to compartmentalize their family matters separately from business matters.

[@JozzyJah111]

You can tell who the mastermind is behind this lawsuit...shame

[@JamJamxo]

I do not like how judge handled this case, family sue family all the damn time because this is about financial issues and that’s it! If the mom told her to “take me to court” instead of doing what’s right especially when it has to do with her daughter’s health then the mother is to blame, the daughter stood up for herself and went thru the legal route like any other adult would do but she’s in the wrong because she’s suing her adoptive mother??? That makes NO SENSE

[@briasworld8]

Exactly.

[@brandongardner5951]

I would never sue a person who raised me. Especially over 3k wtf is 3k? It will be gone tomorrow. I hope her girlfriend Neva leave her.

[@mercedesbardales2933]

Thank you

[@lomt7203]

It's not family by blood 🤦she shouldn't be suing, very ungrateful

[@b.dailey3180]

JM hoped family could work it out. This was a loss for the future. I'm glad I'm getting older and forget, in no time, transgressions. I never heard any mention of how much rent they paid either, mom probably didn't charge any. And what she said at the end proves she's been brainwashed by gf because mom did not disparage either of them at any time. Sad not mad.

[@clovermccombs8597]

As a mother I dont understand how you could make your child, adult or not, live in a place like that and not get it taken care of ASAP.

[@PositivitySpeaks101]

For one she is not at child she is an adult!!

[@Catloudan]

Why should the mother have to clean for her grown child? GTFOH

[@crazybillie2498]

​@@PositivitySpeaks101this!!!!!!

[@mrsberryblessed]

She's an adult! The mother told them to leave and they refused.

[@valariehunter5389]

​@@PositivitySpeaks101Adult Age doesn't mean adult mentality or experience.

[@mrsberryblessed]

The daughter is behaving that way because of her trifling girlfriend.

[@eileenleech]

Does this mean that because someone adopted you, you just close your eyes to anything if they go wrong ? Forget adoption, landlord has an obligation to make living conditions livable.

[@vivianpatton5692]

I don't think the daughter would have ever taken her mom to court IF it wasn't for the GF . She did Not help matters at all . Someday she may really regret her actions from this .

[@TopherGrant]

Ahh. So the daughter shouldn't stand up to her awful landlord? She should just take it because mommy said so? Maybe standing up to mother is what needs to happen.

[@QS0924]

Why is she meddling in their personal life? This is BUSINESS, nothing personal.

[@riggamorrischan]

It’s so easy to make assumptions about the plaintiff and her relationship with her adoptive mother. Saying she’s ungrateful for suing her, but we don’t know their entire story. She had her living in a severe moldy apartment and didn’t do all that much to rectify it.

[@sadaeya868]

Exactly.

[@NoFear67]

The judge is rude

[@anisiakinder9648]

Being an adoptive parent does NOT mean that you are a perfect parent.

[@jaynehogue2459]

No but it means you are caring and loving enough to choose the child and open your home, heart and life to that child. In this case saved them from foster care system. Judge is right it is horrifying to sue. Very ungrateful and narcissistic to see the mother as anything but

[@briasworld8]

THANK YOU! 🙄

[@BREEZYM6015]

We adopted our son as a newborn in 2004. It's hard to believe he's now 19 years old. Time goes by so fast.

[@jamiegarcia1550]

There is no such thing as a perfect parent, biological or adoptive, but there are good loving parents and there are bad parents

[@lomt7203]

​@@jaynehogue2459exactly! This girl should be ashamed of herself

[@kjt1872]

The judge is annoying 🙄 always asking a question and never letting them answer. She runs her mouth non stop then has the nerve to ask them if they have an off button. 🤦🏾‍♀️ She must talk a hole in her husband's head. 😂

[@Maninyoursleep]

This!!!! I can't stand when she does that!!! Or when she asks a question and says, "no question is pending!" What??? LoL

[@lollydb2267]

She was asking the adoption daughter questions and her girlfriend kept answering for her,that’s why she told her if she had an off button. at first I thought the daughter was the one doing all the talking

[@bellefemmekenisha]

Yes she irritates me too… like how you going to tell me I use something for 3 months depreciates … uh ma’am no.. then it’s the approach some of what she saying make sense but she is arrogant… why I don’t really watch this …

[@destined4greatness18]

FR FR!!!

[@VeryKinkyCurl]

💯

[@ValerieCampbell-fz7zo]

Judge Milian, you see it every day children come in and see their parents parents come in and see their children. This is nothing different. I don’t know why she seems so surprised.

[@Elle-td1do]

“ why sue your mom “ umm judge why would the mom put her child in a dangerous situation like that? Sometimes the judge don’t know what she’s talking about.

[@LivingforJesusaGodisGood74]

​​@marcusyoung2081 Here's why, ​​plaintiff acted like a spoilt brat by moving in her unwanted gf and refused to let her leave. Before then she was living in her own room upstairs, rent free. The mother was kind enough to rent them downstairs. She's an adult, mom owed her Nada.

[@traceyaz125]

No good deed goes unpunished. She never wanted the freeloading girlfriend there in the first place and for her hospitality she gets sued. They were looking for a pay day. Granted there was mold that needed to be remediated but the two of them shouldn’t have been there in the first place.

[@J.Anita24]

And she was trying to fix the problem but became unemployed. Smh

[@Sophie-mm7ow]

The defendant was aware of the mold long before the planttiff started living in the apartment. Every time she painted over it, she was doing nothing to remediate it. She was covering it up. She knew damn well that there was not only mold but TOXIC MOLD in the house, and still let the planttiff live there. She'll be lucky if they don't suffer any long-term effects from it. You don't have to live in a toxic mold environment for very long to do permanent damage to the body that may take years to show up. The last person that lived there could already be very sick, painting it does not stop the mold, it actually makes it worse. It spreads the mold around, and the spores are already in the house. The entire house has to be inspected, and the mold removed by a specialist that is trained in toxic mold removal. This defendant was extremely negligent by letting the first person stay in the house, knowing that it's an unsafe habitat, and then letting the planttiff live there afterward without so much as telling her about it. I can't believe that no one told the planttiff not to remove the mattress and box spring from the house. Mold spores are air borne and the bed is undoubtedly filled with spores that will continue to grow and cause damage, nothing porous should have been removed from the house and everything else should have been professionally cleaned prior to moving. She knew exactly what she was doing and didn't care. It was all about the money to her. Now she (the show) gets to pay out money for her negligence and she can live with the fact that she could have made the people "she loves" deathly ill, only time will tell, I hope she's proud of what she's done.

[@robbbietheim2096]

"Do You Have An Off Button" love when Judge Milian goes there 😂😂❤

[@zuritribe4844]

I LOVED IT LOL

[@sendmedoge8939]

Has the Judge never known a parent that is a horrible parent, but wasn't "abusive"? Not every parent is worthy of idolation. Most are worthy of basic respect.

[@ashley4598]

The mother was wrong....but the "girls" rubbed me the wrong way.

[@nicolasmercalo]

I don’t like how people use “relative titles” as a reason to drop boundaries. The same way that they would feel uncomfortable for suing her, she should’ve felt uncomfortable for leaving her daughter in that living situation instead of attempting to resolve it in a quick manner like she was supposed to. Coming from somebody who had a narcissistic parent, I could tell that that mother was talking BS in her responses. As if she was not aware of what was going on and why she was even in the courtroom.

[@BurntMike26]

The mother is an absolute slumlord for doing nothing about the mold for so long, and she only wasn't sued sooner/reported to a housing authority because of her relationship with the plaintiff. The mother absolutely abused her position and deserved much worse than losing a court case.

[@njokuvalentine1426]

Yeah they are putting all the blame on her for the relationship. The mother should take accountability in the entire thing. The relationship didnt matter her either

[@teacupmagick7030]

EXACTLY. 💯

[@LivingforJesusaGodisGood74]

​@@njokuvalentine1426​ Plaintiff acted like a spoilt brat by moving in her unwanted gf and refused to let her leave. Before then she was living in her own room upstairs, rent free. The mother was kind enough to rent them downstairs. She's the one who messed up their relationship 💯.

[@JamesPerk-h3n]

The old adage, "no good deed goes unpunished" applies here. The defendant adopted the plaintiff at eight years old. She wasn't family or anything. The defendant did it out of the goodness of her heart. The plaintiff, along with her girlfriend (who wouldn't leave) were adults and capable of moving anywhere they wanted. At the first sign of a problem they could have moved. Bleach, a little elbow grease and a sealer, along with ventilation, could have solved the ptoblem. Ungrateful doesn't even begin to define the plaintiff.

[@Catloudan]

exactly

[@SavedbyGrace182]

👍

[@eyeamtheweirdo]

Right?! Like are they expecting a maid service from the landlord? How do you not try to clean the toilet mold or even get a new lid. Zero self agency. Lazy and ungrateful.

[@marilynwillett804]

So true and I'm sick and tired of their generation trying to be kids forever. I moved out at 19 and have been independent from my parents for decades.

[@cassibedford]

i mean if this was just her landlord and not her mom, everyone would agree she should be compensated. if it was my mom though, i know she'd help me replace my stuff

[@S.K.Smith-Green]

I could only dream of looking that good at 56. You go, girl!

[@cici864_4]

Mom or not, court cases are made to resolve financial issues when they can’t be resolved outside of court. Her Mom should’ve made things right before it got that far. She had her living in a moldy house and didn’t want to do what’s right and the judge decides to scold the daughter? That’s a joke. Judge blows me sometimes

[@riggamorrischan]

And the fact the defendant brought up renters insurance 😭 like wtf there’s something cold and dismissive about her like idk maybe clear out the mold in your apartment ma’am

[@Catloudan]

I think it is based on she didn't have to foster her AND adopt her. Plus it is just reprehensible to take family to court.

[@jaynehogue2459]

The daughter is extremely ungrateful and narcissistic. Discusting

[@michaelc3977]

You were obviously raised without a father

[@Neek1992]

Cut the crap Judge. They may already be struggling. Adoptive mom or not, pay them

[@tarashanice_]

The girlfriend was talking a lil too much for me, like she was too involved and is influencing the adoptive daughter .

[@fanoffive9401]

If the daughter and girlfriend were paying the mom rent, her being adopted should not be a factor. She's a tenant and deserves to have an appropriate, habitable apartment.

[@RockJustLiving]

Foster parents get a monthly check.. reason why a lot of people do it. The judge put too much bearing on the whole foster mother thing. She was responsible for the mold issues. Stick to the facts of the case and the law.

[@looniebinn]

Mother or not, she was still the landlord. The landlord has a legal responsibility to take care of mold and other health hazards in the place. She should have put her daughter and her g/f somewhere while the problem was being solved. You can't just say "move" and not give them assistance. Even if it was a month to month, she's still a tenant and has certain legal rights in place that mom seemed to just ignore. Telling your child "if you want any $$ for your ruined stuff you'll have to take me to court" just goes to show that the mother still takes no accountability in the whole thing. None of it would have happened if they took care of the mold when the last tenant complained. Instead she just had it painted over and then put her child in there. Imagine intentionally putting your child into a place that you KNOW has mold already. It's sad that it took the health dept being called to get anything done in that place.

[@PrincessZaire100]

@@margaretakins6829the mold was there with the previous tenants

[@ElizabethaSara]

They are grown women and this mother put a roof over this girls head after her parents died. This young lady has no respect

[@PrincessZaire100]

@@ElizabethaSara I’m sorry did you not see that mold?! That mold was ridiculous and made the house unlivable, which is the responsibility of the landlord to make it livable. And that mold was from the previous tenant so the mother KNEW there mold BEFORE THEY HAD EVEN MOVES IN. You’re talking about without her mother she would’ve died, like mold doesn’t kill people. Her child could’ve died or had other health issues as the result of the mothers negligence. If she would do her daughter like that, I can’t imagine how she does a regular tenant. She’s a slumlord period

[@sharellmathis419]

This young lady is 22 years old following behind her girlfriend that lady saved you yes as a landlord she has to provide a safe home with no mold but technically the mom is right get renters insurance and if the gf knew that the mold was painted over why didn’t say anything then she wasn’t even supposed to be there sad case hopefully the young lady can mend her relationship with her mom

[@chansophonlong]

One thing ill say is that she moved her girlfriend in when her mom said no then forced her mom to let her stay the girlfriend is the one who manipulated her

[@LivingforJesusaGodisGood74]

Exactly.

[@jeanm9521]

I've lived in places that had mold issues. There are products in the stores that kill and remove mold. Ventilation is essential to slow or stop mold growth. That black mold on the toilet seat tells me they never cleaned that toilet-that doesn't happen overnight.

[@TheMilanW]

Why are they acting like the mother doesn't owe her daughter just because she's adopted.

[@Foxx229]

Thank you. The mom should of definitely hopped on the situation better!

[@Nevaeh1]

it's not like she asked to be adopted either

[@James-134]

@@Nevaeh1 The amount of privilege you have being able to say this not even KNOWING the horrors of the foster system in America is crazy

[@marilynwillett804]

she desnt owe a grown woman jack shit

[@gailrodney3948]

True

[@maryoaks3228]

The plaintiff needs to take a brake from both her foster mom and gf. Seems like her relationship with one lead her to the other.

[@ShanMarie513]

I normally love Judge Milan. But this take on adoption is not ok. An adoptee does not owe their adoptive parent a single thing.

[@layal3018]

really?

[@sheilae.9670]

Yes, the adoptee owes the adoptive parents' appreciation. If she and her brother were not adopted by her, they both would have ended up in foster care or with a parent that abused them. As you can see, the plaintiff never accused her adoptive mother of bad treatment or abuse.

[@ShanMarie513]

@@sheilae.9670 no. Children, in general, do not owe parents anything. They didn’t ask to be born. And adoptees did not ask to need adoption. Children are children. When a parent does something nice for you, it’s ok to thank them and be appreciative. But housing, feeding and loving the children you chose to have, or in this case, adopt, is the absolute bare minimum. I never want my son to think he owes me something simply because he exists and is here because my husband and I chose to bring him here.

[@ShanMarie513]

@@layal3018 yes, really.

[@bbleeprince4177]

The girlfriend will more than likely be gone in the future. So sad she’s chosen her girlfriends side over her parents. I hope she grows up and realizes how despicable it was to take your mother to court over such trivial stuff.

[@yung1717]

She let her kid live in mold. Weird that you have to be “grateful”

[@jessicapearson9479]

I think the girlfriend is the one who pushed for the lawsuit and is clearly trying to get between her and her mother!! She is toxic and I hope the daughter learned that fast!

[@TopherGrant]

Maybe she IS helping her gf get out from under a wicked stepmother 's slumlord thumb? The "mom" is the toxic one

[@deku7522]

Judy Milian does this all the time and it irks me- maybe she came from the perfect family but she always shows disdain when people sue their parents, children, etc.

[@tajavillasenor5923]

I agree! I dislike that she does that 😒

[@zahrasarwari1097]

agree!!

[@Ororeoalpha]

This is the problem with adoption. Everyone feels like the child OWES the parent their whole life when it's the other way around. You have MORE OF A obligation to be a good parent because you KNOW what that child has been through.

[@LivingforJesusaGodisGood74]

In this case, she owes her. Plaintiff acted like a spoilt brat by moving in her unwanted gf and refused to let her leave. Before then she was living in her own room upstairs, rent free. The mother was kind enough to rent them downstairs.

[@PrincessZaire100]

⁠@@LivingforJesusaGodisGood74so how does that justify the mother letting the other tenants live with FUCKING MOLD?! People have literally DIED from mold. Like did you not see those pictures?! There clothes were MOLDED?! What’s wrong with you people

[@heatherdowhaluk2128]

BS. Don’t generalize it’s insulting

[@crystalshaw8744]

You can tell the co- plaintiff didn't want to sue.

[@cierrafreeman8833]

I heard in the beginning the young lady said they've been living there for a year so I would like to know within the year time when did they notice the mold and I honestly think the mother probably would have been more persistent to help the daughter not the girlfriend and daughter. Which I believe she implied that a little bit in the beginning . And the only thing I heard the daughter complain about that was damaged was the bed set but the girlfriend complained about her own clothes. No one should live in mold but I really think we're missing a piece in the story that neither party is talking about.

[@lorivangelov-lk4rn]

Ventilation doesn’t get rid of chronic mold

[@k22897]

The end that's the best advice Harvey has ever given. He normally says these wild biased opinions or rare occasions "legal advice".

[@amandadonaldson8748]

Maybe because in this case, the legal end of it was pretty clear. The family drama was the real meat of the case (and the part that JM focused on).

[@gabbylem]

Idk why the Judge is trying so hard to make her feel guilty. She has a right to her property and fair living conditions

[@MoniquaWilliams]

None of us are judges, none of us know what went on behind closed doors to say if the mother is right or the daughter. She grown, get out is all I have to say 😂😂😂

[@yung1717]

You don’t have to have all the details to know when right is right and wrong is wrong

[@MoniquaWilliams]

My point exactly

[@dbabies82]

Yeah, get out... but also, as a landlord, pay up. It goes both ways. They could have done what they should have done and reported her themselves to the city, and allowed her to rake thousands in fees, while also owing everyone thousands... but they were the ones who remained silent while another tenant reported her. She got off easy with being a slum lord.

[@MoniquaWilliams]

You 22 get out if you don't like it, sure the mom could've done better, but if you know it's like that leave, don't stay afterwards. If you don't have no where else to go, that's your problem. He foster duties stopped when she reached majority.

[@dbabies82]

Exactly... get out... Just like they should have reported her to the city to get her contemned, to get her fined thousands of dollars, sued for being a slum lord, plus more. Her duties as mother ended, so both women should have went all the way in taking her down for being a slum lord who didn't give a dmn about their health and well being. 😂😂 You sound like a joke. She wasn't giving them a home for free. They were her tenants, meaning she owed THEM an obligation to make sure their home was safe. That is what is required when you accept someone as a tenant. And she didn't just make sure those tenants were in bad conditions, her other tenants were in horrible conditions, too. So you're in support of a slum lord. Good to know. Makes me think you're one, too. @@MoniquaWilliams

[@marcdinsmore8690]

The plaintiff will regret this. Period. If there was no mold in Feb and it looked like that by July, the plaintiff should've addressed this by end of March by the look of things. I'm calling BS on the sympathy for the plaintiff.

[@LivingforJesusaGodisGood74]

Right.

[@anthonyperez6906]

This judge is is wild!! First this ain't moral court and second getting place in a foster home u get paid for doing!!! So stop the bs

[@jacquelinecassidy7672]

I use to work in foster care. She’s lucky she was adopted. I had to move children from foster to foster homes. The places the kids lived were awful

[@lauraeliza1997]

Especially sibling groups

[@natashastevens5351]

Sometimes JM gotta understand that you don't have to take a loss just bc someone is family...mom did them wrong

[@heatherdowhaluk2128]

Moms are moms, don’t make any child grateful or ungrateful

[@latauvia6254]

The girlfriend saying she wont have a relationship with mother, I don’t think the mother will mind at all

[@nicklebaby]

Smh 15:38 I'm glad Doug spoke to the daughter first instead of the gf. The gf wanted to speak so badly that theside stepped the daughter to get closer to Doug at the end.

[@tyriastewart]

the judges attitude was very nasty this episode

[@madmaxofspokane1691]

This is insane and disgusting.😤 I grew up in a family with 2 disabled parents & a brother & sister. We moved around a lot & ended up living in the filthiest apartments & duplexes. I understood early on how to discover & deal with black mold with simple bleach water & we never lost anything to mold damage, except a few tomatoes from the garden.😉🍅🍅🍅 The problem here is that these ungrateful, disrespectful children, don't even have the proper skills to live on their own & regularly clean up their own place. The fact they kept any furniture at all & moved it into a new place tells me their mold issues aren't over & if they sued this woman who took them into her life & home & raised them with love, imagine how easy it will be for them to sue their new landlord when the mold eventually takes over their new place. It's time to grow up and take responsibility for your own filth girls.

[@PartyUpGaming92]

I like how the judge asked her a question and then immediately told her to be quiet

[@jeanicelewis510]

Judge was so WRONG for trying to make that Young Lady feel bad for suing her Adopted Mom. I WOULDN'T sue my MOM but the Mom should have had insurance and they would haven paid the Mother for MOLD. So WRong Judge, So Wrong!!

[@Niccm57]

JM needs to stay out her personal feelings and rule fairly. That mold could’ve made both of them sick.

[@trekgirl65]

Foster mom is ridiculous, ventilate molded areas only makes things worse, exspecially if it in winter.

[@alyssahamlett]

Judge needs to know her place! I have a friend who was adopted and his adopted mom traumatized the shit out of him...a title doesn't mean shit, actions do

[@6time686]

Correct. Most times they adopt for the paycheck.

[@g355150]

Yeah, normally I don't mind her morale high ground, but it was a bit much here. If her 'mom' had her living in mold as her landlord, this is business. This is also why family and business don't mix.

[@Catloudan]

Not the case here.

[@alyssahamlett]

@@Catloudan judge doesn't know shit about their family dynamic, mind ya business

[@16MedicRN]

This chick is not traumatized. Without the girlfriend pushing her way into that family, they wouldn't even be here.

[@lisa916panther5]

Am I the only one who would be scared to give the judge my phone to look at pictures and her swipe a Lil to far and look at a pic that's for your eyes only 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@aliciamackie5876]

Judge needs to stop thinking that ppl are supposed to honor ppl

[@BeKind2AllKinds]

Absolutely. Respect is earned.

[@bjohnson1149]

I hate it when people say "basically" to everything. JJ calls that a filler word. I agree with her. It's annoying.

[@LivingforJesusaGodisGood74]

Great advice Harvey.

[@kittyfan]

umm...we just clean mold like that off the edge of the toilet seat. Easily done.

[@mollyhair7330]

The judge is exhausting when she tries to shame the adoptive daughter for wanting compensation for legitimate damages. She want everyone to follow the law yet she always tries to apply her moral code.

[@MsCarolcomments]

I would never ever for any reason sue my mother. And if one of my children was unhappy about something I did, I’d make it right before going to court. I think they’re both pitiful.

[@AbadScratchingHabit]

Now hold on judge….. you may have been 22 before but NOT having buried your parents at 8 yrs old… and furthermore while I do think the girlfriend has some influence ….. that does not mean the adoptive mom doesn’t owe for the stuff that’s molded.

[@joymiles8205]

The gf do too much then they got the mattress and box spring and tried to add that and Ask the dad to help move it ! That daughter gonna need that mom again and she let an outsider break that bond

[@bossballer8508]

I love this judge

[@Nicolemkerr]

“In two years are you going to be happy that you won the money but lost the relationship?” 👏🏼 I hope some people listen to Harvey and possibly save a relationship with their family or friend

[@jessicaflagella31]

Just bc you adopt children does not make you some amazing person.. she was ok with her "daughter" living in unsafe conditions and had no care in the world she lost all her Shit.. Judge Milan has no right to try and tell this girl how she should or shouldn't feel about this lady

[@taiwright8808]

Mom said you can come back home but your gf can't & there is the issue

[@shawns.9832]

I believe the girlfriend had a lot to do with this

[@Julie-sl8ul]

The mom is ignorant regarding the dangers of mold She shouldn't own rental property.

[@SydLeon]

I normally agree with the judge but she’s being so bias with the adoptive mother. Just being you save someone when they needed help l(when they didn’t even ask you to, nor where they old enough to make any decisions for themselves, doesn’t give you the right to let them live in a dangerous situation

[@nicklebaby]

In a few years she won't have that gf and she'll be sorry.

[@parrishsampson5187]

Those girls are silly and immature. She is still talking about a payment plan. She’s not recognizing how taking a person into your home is priceless

[@carolcollins8786]

I think it’s ridiculous that the judge is judging the plaintiff for suing her adopted mother we do not know what type of relationship they had just because she adopted her doesn’t mean that she treated her fairly or truly loved her because if she did, she wouldn’t have had her in that situation

[@LivingforJesusaGodisGood74]

It's clear she was a good mother. The plaintiff didn't once imply otherwise.​​Plaintiff acted like a spoilt brat by moving in her unwanted gf and refused to let her leave. Before then she was living in her own room upstairs, rent free. The mother was kind enough to rent them downstairs.

[@adventuresconjuan]

How un grateful she is to sue her own mother that saved her from a foster home …. Shame of them

[@33bees16]

I feel as though her girlfriend is driving the narrative here.

[@tanishajohnson5602]

Imagine being 22 years old and trying to live an adult life. Then imagine your stuff is infested with mold. You cannot afford to pay for another bedroom set, clothes or anything else that you lost due to the mold infestation. Your landlord doesn't want to make a payment plan with you and basically tells you to move out and figure it out. How do you recover from that? Mother or not? I would give my children the opportunity to move in with me without their partner. Let their partner figure it out with her family. If my children decide that they want to stay with their partner while I try to work on getting them their stuff back then that's their problem. The other tenants in the home complained and went to the building department. The proof is in the pictures. IT WAS INFESTED WITH MOLD. THEY LOST SOME OF THEIR VALUABLES. That's the main issue. Pay the ladies.

[@TheTyrisa]

The judge always takes thing personally because she has daughters. Not everyone grew up like her and webdont know the family dynamic

[@sevinsweets5140]

JM is always making remarks about the relationship between plaintiff and defendant as if that matters when dealing with toxic people and situations

[@onecuet]

Even with a mold issue. These 2 must've never cleaned. They lived so filthy that all the furniture had to be thrown away. It astounds me!

[@therealleximack9273]

Was she charging rent? Why wasn’t that discussed.

[@amandamatheny3675]

She and other judges always do this thing about family or close friends or whatever that you shouldn't sue but the fact is if they did you wrong and they were in the wrong then they are no different from any other normal person. I would sue my mom or my kid or my sister or my best friend if they did me dirty. What the horrible thing is is for those people to actually do you dirty in the first place. not saying the mom is entirely in the wrong in the situation although she did not take appropriate steps to remediate but I think the girls are at least partially responsible, but that's not the point. My point is more directed toward the judges attitude about suing family.

[@Ms.Dee_p31]

They HAD to have seen the mold sooner. You dont just open up your closet or the kitchen cabinet one day and mold has moved in. Especially on the toilet!!!! So they need to take some responsibility for themselves. Maybe they didn't have the money to move out right away but opening up windows and cleaning or something, hello?! I had mold one time: I moved into a home that had a swamp cooler. I didn't know you had to open a window every now and then bc of the moisture. So I'm wondering if that's what the parents meant since the mold was everywhere vs behind a wall where a pipe burst. Unless it has just grown that much but you can smell mold when it's bad. They didn't complain of any sickness or headaches, so I don't know. But you still don't wake up one day and mold has moved in and taken over no matter who you're renting from. I DO know that while the adoptive daughter is young (and must be in her first real relationship since that girl moved in with them and then they moved out), the gf must not have anything to lose. She might not even get along with her own if she didn't ask the daughter to move in with her and her family. So she's probably having her high on "it's me and you against the world stuff." Ugh to be young and dumb again. So the gf prob doesn't care the daughter could lose two moms. Sad.

[@poshpearls23]

I'm so SO tired of people giving a pass simply because they are a parent. Seriously???? Mold is SERIOUS. I nearly died from a mold infestation in my apartment when I was grad school. I had to extend school and everything and literally could not get off of my couch, I was so weak and sick. I had no idea it was mold for too long. For the foster mom to say, they could have just moved, was very flippant. As a landlord she had a duty to provide a habitable place. Period. Come on Milian.... this one was ridiculous. On the flip side......the girlfriend is so annoying and very overbearing. I think that is the real cause of the friction between mother and daughter.

[@nikam4167]

Judge dead wrong for questioning her about suing. She’s also wrong for trying to guilt trip with the whole “don’t you feel bad suing your savior”.

[@monicaporta7759]

I hate that judge Millian is trying to shame the daughter for suing. Just because that is her adopted mother doesn't mean she wasn't wronged.

[@annet1551]

i'm so sad this show is over, i could watch Judge M all day, actually i do watch judge M all day🤣

[@natashascott8489]

I don’t really like her new court show. But I still watch it 😂

[@shellwilliams6306]

Excuses from a parent is the worse, especially when OBVIOUS AND EVIDENT...

[@Smartmother1224]

Mom will always be your mom and your partner could go like the water that drains down the pipe.

[@rafaeltorres2460]

I'm at 11:54...the daughter is ungrateful to her adopted mom cause she "loves" and listens to her girlfriend... ungrateful, ungrateful.