Manipulating Love: Love Is Blind Season 4 Micah Paul & Kwame

[@44nk96]

“Both Irina and Shelby are Micah’s shadows. Micah, deep down, harbours the same mean streak that these girls have-except that, Micah, deep down, doesn’t dare wear that loud and proud, like her friends do.” Spot. On.

[@OffbeatsMusic]

Therefore, ironically, being way less authentic than they. And a coward.

[@Kardinaal29]

Micah does a great job of fooling people. She’s good at hiding the sort of sinister nature she has by befriending those who exhibit that nature overtly. Then when they get caught she sort of runs from the situation or shrinks so she’s not the one people are focusing on. She loves people pinning after her and can’t stand for anyone else to have the attention, particularly as it pertains to male attention, from what we’ve seen. She couldn’t stand Amber winning over her so she took Paul from her. Then upon seeing Kwame she wanted to show Chelsea that she could still have all his attention during the pool party. She’s a dangerous one you really have to pay close attention to her words and actions to see who she truly is.

[@DrCherieTypes]

Very observant

[@Nivieee]

The way she flipped the conversation when Kwame was mad about her "failed proposal" comment was so manipulative. She completely dodged the subject. I think she's very aware of what she is doing.

[@eokhonko]

My personal opinion is she is either psychopathic or a malignant narcissist

[@nevswain478]

I'm glad im not the only person who spotted this. She chose Paul the same way Irina chose Zack. It was to win a competition. And to get the harder to get person.

[@annekenney6914]

Chelsea was very astute earlier in the living quarters not letting Micah know how she feels about Kwame. She said to a friend who was talking about her connection with Kwame, "Shhh, I don't trust this one," referring to Micah.

[@melissaj1310]

Shelby comes across as unhealthily obsessed with Micah. It’s borderline weird. “I need more.” Girl…you’re not the one getting married. Your needs don’t matter. That whole interaction was WEIRD.

[@DrCherieTypes]

I have to agree. Shelby is not letting Micah make her own choices and have her own feelings. In an odd way, she does not respect Micah.

[@anaruiz6036]

Yes ! I get wanting what’s best for u bff but at the end of the day it’s their life, there was a gentler way or a more supportive way to let her kno she didn’t agree with an engagement so fast but still supports her and will b there

[@venda1008]

Exactly shelby is obsessed with micah in a very unhealthy way

[@KyriaLovesApologetics]

I was getting jealous ex vibes from Shelby, but maybe it's just me

[@Franzifii]

I totally agree. It's extreme to a point that made me think she is secretly in love with Micah. Shelby is one of the most off-putting characters I ever saw on reality shows.

[@vanyadolly]

I'm just glad Kwame dodged the mean girl bullet. He got the better girl even if he didn't immediately realize it.

[@paulerick6001]

Yeah, on first take I thought being shadows would make for compatibility but Micahs dark side would eventually come out and blow up the relationship. I used to think that good bottled up evil; but it is bad character that corrupts good.

[@wandasantillo1220]

Paul got with Micah out of competition with Kwame--not because he loved her.

[@BFNLEO]

My INFP personality is obsessed with your content because I’m getting intellectual stimulation combined with my guilty pleasure of reality shows 😂❤.

[@kelsynicole9135]

ENFP here that also loves this content!! ❤

[@Yourmom_dotcom]

@@SEOshogunI second that! Psychology in Seattle has been a daily watch for me since the beginning of the Panini in 2020! Infp too 🤓

[@SEOshogun]

@@Yourmom_dotcom yesss! ENFP here 🥰

[@namasteawake]

Ha! Fellow INFP here!

[@rebxthom]

Another fellow INFP😄

[@katec9893]

Great analysis! I thought Irina was a sociopath initially and Micah was just weak and impressionable, but watching it back and hearing your analysis, it's clear Micah is as equally a dark character as Irina, if not worse. There is often a faint smirk on her face when she is fooling or manipulating people (dupers delight). She's probably more dangerous than Irina because she's good at playing the victim, and convincing people she's a sweet and harmless girl deep down. I could tell she only wanted Paul to steal him from Amber, and was utterly gleeful when Paul dumped Amber. She was also brutal to Kwame, pretending she was going to choose him so that he'd dump Chelsea, before suddenly and coldly dumping him. I was relieved to see karma seemed to catch up with both Micah and Irina when the men all wised up to their games. They really are bad characters, I'm glad they failed to sabotage others relationships despite trying hard to do so.

[@larrys-story-time]

Micah has dark shadows for real. She uses her shadows as tools and they probably don't even realised it. She is manipulative and sneaky!

[@mariatangled]

I need someone to analyze my life like this

[@amn09257]

You should book her to do your reading! She’s incredible, highly recommend!!

[@DrCherieTypes]

Thank you Amen ❤️

[@EasyA15]

Micah and her friends relationship to me doesn't seem healthy. It's almost as if she's a scorned lover who got too attached and now won't let go. The whole time I was like...then who does she deserve, does she deserve you?

[@DrCherieTypes]

Shelby identifies as Micah’s best friend, and she also says Micah deserves “spectacular everything”, so therefore Shelby must be “spectacular everything” 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@KyriaLovesApologetics]

Good to know I was not the only one that got jealous ex/scorned lover vibes from Shelby

[@Potato_Disco]

Shelby truly was like my ex best friend who controlled me like she owned me. When I dated someone she would be so “ protective” and somehow try to ruin my relationship with them bc they “weren’t good enough”. My relationship with her damaged me more than she will ever know and seeing Shelby brought back so many memories of her. Now recognizing it after years of therapy and meeting actual good friends I realize it was always a one sided friendship where I did everything she wanted.

[@harrylederman1679]

You are the first person to mention that gesture of putting on the ring to micah..... And I have heard quite a bit of discussion on this show from various sources and they've missed it completely ,as did I..... So that's a very good pick up so congratulations on filling the blanks for us viewers

[@therealcinnimo]

Crazy that really proofs the Version they kept telling in the Reunion is so fake

[@HS-lv3is]

Wow you caught something I didn't even notice, kwame gesturing putting a wedding ring on micah, I thought they were just being idly touchy

[@gabrielabacilla293]

something about this couple that got me thinking is how similar to their parents they are. Micah is very similar to Paul’s mom, they compare themselves often. Paul has the same name as Micah’s dad, who got along very well with the guy. I kinda thought they’re pretty similar in looks as well.

[@DrCherieTypes]

Very true - Micah and Paul’s mum are defo similar personality vibes. So are Paul and Micah’s dad.

[@anaruiz6036]

It was weird how much she looks like his mom talk about oedipus complex

[@YaksHearNoises]

​@@anaruiz6036To be fair, he didn't see her before the proposal. lol

[@MeganSin]

I think emotionally, she lacks a lot of maturity. I think it’s still laughable that she said she was an empath but then laughed and giggled and was mad that Paul’s break up with amber took so long and that amber was upset about it

[@jewlzn7130]

This is so interesting to watch after the reunion and knowing that Paul did not choose her. Such an interesting analysis

[@katiem82850]

I see Dr. Cherie, I click! I am so happy whenever I see that you've posted.

[@DrCherieTypes]

Aww thank you Katie 🥰

[@amandamcintyre9038]

pls do why Marshall chose Jackie next!

[@missc2u1]

Yes! I would love a break down on them!

[@nicolettebell5646]

Not a breakdown, but Marshall told Jackie straight up she was a project, and he thought he could fix her... 🤷🏾

[@elisabethochoa1125]

I think an analysis would still be interesting because he said that out of spite and pettiness

[@DrCherieTypes]

Jackie and Marshall kzbin.info/www/bejne/fl6UoJKAqtV8mbM

[@anjel5521]

Omggg, so I accidentally stumbled across your channel not even realizing it was MBTI related, and then when I saw you start bringing up functions I was just like "damn girl, yes! you know your stuff!" hahaha. I love the example about Paul and his tragic venting to Kwame about the very situation he put him in, I was cringing so hard at my tv but it makes so much sense when you factor in the low Fe thing. LOVE THIS. Binging all your LIB videos now

[@dianaalvarado1451]

This is so incredibly interesting. I just recently learned about your channel (new subscriber) and have been learning so much about relationships from your videos! I 100% agree that the reason Kwame really wanted Micah and that Micah really wanted Paul was the same: they were both a little emotionally unavailable to them, so they’d have to put in more work and try harder. Winning them over would be the ultimate prize

[@LAMEESALOWAMI]

been binge watching your content, you make it so easy to understand mbti types and why and how people are so compatible, keep it up.

[@DrCherieTypes]

Thank you for your support 🥰

[@LizNeptune]

Yessss

[@lavinder11]

Seems like Ms. Shelby didn't like that Paul could live without her two cents.

[@sincerelyalex28]

This is all conjecture BUT there was a part of me that suspects that once Kwame told Micah how he wanted to propose early, that she got scared by the thought of what it meant to be in an interracial relationship. The likelihood that Paul was white was greater than the likelihood that Kwame was white. Of course her rationale of choosing the “slow burn” romance could be true as well, but I still feel like Paul was the “safer”/more “socially acceptable” choice for her. To me it felt like she boxed Paul in and gave him an ultimatum to break things off with his other connection as a way to exert influence over him. She wouldn’t likely have the same upper hand with Kwame despite how smitten he is with her

[@sincerelyalex28]

I also have seen some discourse on other platforms regarding Paul and Zack present signs of potential neurodivergence. I could see that being the case with his conversation with Kwame and missing those social cues on what’s appropriate to confess to him and what’s not. I saw it a bit too in the scene where Paul meets Micah’s friends. They ask him how he knew Micah was the one, and half way through his response, Micah cuts him off and attributes “the way he talks” to him being a scientist. As if his “big word” usage was weird or something

[@komahianor]

I agree with you that Micah believed Paul to be the safer, more socially acceptable choice for the type of lifestyle she wants to lead. I don't believe she wanted to have an interracial relationship and all that comes with that (biracial children, fitting in with family, looks from strangers etc.). But I also believe that she would have exerted even more influence over Kwame than over Paul because of the racial dynamic and of Kwame being so ready to compromise to have his trophy wife.

[@medtle1]

From my experience, most white women tend to prefer white men and only date MOC until they can get the dream white guy they want. Micah has no trouble attracting white guys and the type of lifestyle she wants is something Kwame can never give her (no matter how much money he makes or how smitten he is with her). To Micah, Kwame isn't as attractive as paul, both physically and financially. [And based on how Kwame treated Chelsea, who is also white but older and not considered as attractive as Micah in men's eyes, maybe Micah dodged a bullet when choosing Paul over kwame.]

[@peaceandquiet62]

Micah was never going to marry a Black man.

[@medtle1]

@ImAKangwithnokingdom based on the show contestants alone, all of the male contestants (especially the white male contestants) see Micah as more attractive than Chelsea. Makes no sense since Chelsea seems to have a lot more going for her ... if you ignore how much of a romantic she can be.

[@bydivadream]

My INFJ self LOVES your approach to these videos with sociology and MBTI! So excited to watch more ❤🙌

[@Leomoon101]

Same here. I love watching people analyzing a show that I normally wouldn't watch because I consider it trash.

[@NadiraJamal]

Paul was being shockingly insensitive with Kwame. I can understand that considering other people’s feelings may come more easily to some personality types than others, but that doesn’t make that behavior okay. Our personality types are great tools for understanding our strengths, weaknesses, and tendencies, but they don’t excuse us from treating other people with a minimum level of respect and consideration.

[@DrCherieTypes]

Paul will be shocked too when he sees himself on TV. We don’t know what we are capable of until we get feedback. This is why self testing your personality type might not lead to your actual type.

[@recoveryinreel]

I get so excited for your vids! Especially the longer ones, If love for you to breakdown your own MBTI. Plus I'd love to see why Irina was more attracted to Paul, and why he had almost an adverse reaction to her even whilst having the same personality as her proposer. Also I like Chelsea in general, I'd like a breakdown with Kwame in the middle of their types. Thanks so much!

[@helloterra34]

I keep waiting for an INTJ (my type) to show up on one of these shows but, if other INTJs are like me then we'll never see one on a dating show 😅

[@DrCherieTypes]

I’ll keep looking! 😂

[@carlabeaton3637]

I'm an INTJ!! But would never go on a show hahaahaha

[@caitlinharper1633]

Me too!! Lol

[@librateen632]

Feel the same way as INFJ lolz

[@cass_sorrel]

@@librateen632 some people think Cameron from Season 1 is either an INTJ or INFJ. I'm wondering what Dr. Cherie thinks :)

[@bowserjr.7220]

you look pretty today Dr Cherie :) love your insight

[@DrCherieTypes]

Aww thank you ☺️

[@ktz5047]

Dr.Cherie, I am a new subscriber. Thank you so much for these in-depth explanations. This is extremely helpful in understanding people’s actions. I would love to see a video on Chelsea. Her character is so interesting. Some people on the show describe her as “too much” but I don’t see that. Also, Kwayme was interested in both Micah and Chealsea. I feel like they are both so different.

[@missyanndavenport3745]

Hi Dr Cherie, your channel is wonderful!

[@DrCherieTypes]

Thank you so much!

[@bachopinbee5991]

Please Dr. Cherie, make us a Barnett and Amber video next. This could be an interesting one.

[@AmbrogioColetti]

Dr Cherie is back, and she is better than ever!

[@DrCherieTypes]

Grazie Ambro!

[@1amissingno]

you are so insightful and I'm learning a lot about myself and people around me

[@44nk96]

YASSSSS YOU’RE BACK 🙌🙌🙌

[@paulerick6001]

I just stumbled on your channel today and am blown away! Your analysis is so profound and accurate. It's like someone giving articulate voice to my innermost intuitions that I could never quite understand or express! Wow! And you look fabulous in red!

[@DrCherieTypes]

Thank you 🥰

[@franceparis5714]

As a psychology student I am obsessed with your content.

[@gabbie921]

I’m loving your videos 👏🏽 you made so many points in this video that have helped me personally, but one specifically stands out. I once had an ISTP in my life who I truly considered a good friend; at times it even seemed like our relationship would become more than friendship. Anyway, he eventually did something very hurtful & I was deeply shocked at why he would treat me in this way. It doubly hurt me because I felt that I had always sought to be sensitive to his feelings. Your explanation has helped me to see this in a new light. Perhaps he was simply insensitive - just as Paul was in this scene - and not malicious after all! Thanks so much for the content! ❤️

[@rhythmandblues_alibi]

Thank you for your professional insights. I really feel like it takes a woman to be able to "get" Micah. She seems like an enigma to men, it's why she's so good at fooling them.

[@michellegrantvaughn1561]

I love this analysis. Now I’m thinking about important people in my life and wondering what their personality types are. I must book you again, you have such a gift with this stuff.

[@oksanaml9279]

Fascinating insights - much appreciated 🎉

[@bisibisbi]

Brilliant, Dr. Types!

[@mariaa.7327]

Dr Cherie, your videos are among my top favourites in youtube. Your presentation, calm voice and intelligence are just awesome 👏👏👏

[@-NiamhWitch-]

I was totally digging Paul for the entire season lol. Turns out I just love myself (ISTP) 🤣 But seriously, that date they had where they MADE their own wedding bands?! Best.Date.Ever. (for me, haha)

[@7beauties161]

I just want to say that YOU ARE AMAZING!

[@gemstar7447]

So very interesting, love theses analyses

[@reflectsonlife]

Dr C, you've given us Bliss thru Kwame (Bliss Zack Irina Paul Micah Kwame) but we're missing the endcap of this love chain, Chelsea. What is Chelsea's MBTI type? * thank you for all of your analytical informational insightful content!

[@Missklei]

You are so good at this. I binge-watched your videos. Thank you for sharing

[@emolly93]

KEEP ‘EM COMING DR. CHERIE 🍒😍🔥🔥🔥🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@hashtagmate]

I'm kind of sick of these Se/Si forward types 😂 i loooove your insight and would love to hear insight on someone who is an intuitive type like me (I'm ENTP)

[@claudiakirkley3687]

I think Micah was afraid of an interracial relationship, simple as that

[@Deniseeee84]

Exactly!!! She knew Kwame was black and Paul was white !

[@judyjones4959]

Agree, even though the name is a give away if one is aware of other cultural groups. Some HR recruiters throw resumes out with ethnic sounding names.

[@trinaP23]

Love your analysis 👌🏽.

[@julianocean1734]

Your face when you talked about Irina around 10 min mark 😂❤

[@evertt7326]

Another great and insightful video Dr Cherie 😊 I even shared your last video with my sister and she loved it (she's very sceptical of mbti)😅 Also, a massive thanks for exploring Fe. As a female INTP I didn't understand why I find it so hard to connect with my feelings quickly, but the working backwards makes sense now.

[@DrCherieTypes]

I’m glad it’s helped you understand yourself - that’s the first step towards self acceptance 🙂 I do feel that our Western culture talks only about Fi/Te and not Fe/Ti

[@claritywithkj2509]

You’re brilliant!

[@paquiliztli]

I’m a huge fan of you and your analyses. I’m constantly checking to hear your thoughts and perspective. Keep up the good work 🔥 I’m in awe of your thoughts 👍🏽 #esfp

[@japhya0378]

I enjoyed seeing Paul say NO at the alter...

[@Julia-um4rv]

You do such a great job with these videos. I can't wait to watch this.

[@zoesmith9682]

Wow so interesting and accurate!

[@Joohee4]

You are like a Myer's Briggs (I know there's another name for this, but I don't know what it is?) personality types and it's very intriguing, and a little confusing, but super helpful! Thank yoU!

[@Sukuna1983]

I love your vids. I just subscribed. Your channel has a lot of potential you could definitely get as big as Dr. Grande! Keep up the great work.

[@ericaflak6525]

I am obsessed with your videos! Thank you so much! What is your type (if you don’t mind sharing)?

[@lilyxo6914]

Amazing breakdown!

[@diymama8657]

Great insight! Just wondering where you found their personality types..😊

[@DrCherieTypes]

I figured them out all by myself 😎

[@themoonbleu627]

Love this !

[@Jenny-vm3yu]

It’s very interesting to compare the Fe dominant types and Ne/Ni being in different places in the stack. Micah as an ESFJ is still keeping that door open with Kwame, even in very recent episodes. She could possibly do this up until the wedding, which would be the final decision she can’t come back from. Whereas, an ENFJ has Ni as the secondary function and would be more locked into a decision. We often struggle to make decisions, especially personal ones because of the finality that comes with a decision. Choosing someone in the pods would be final, as opposed to the wedding. However, Ni allows me to see the best possible outcome, or how various paths would likely turn out. I feel a strong pull to one option. Usually have to talk things through with someone else first. 99% of the time. But once an ENFJ makes a choice, we get pretty locked onto it. We don’t tend to keep options open (Ne) but we do have massive anxiety over having made the right choice. I’ve had many sleepless nights, even if the results from my choice are positive. Even if my gut tells me the other path wouldn’t have been beneficial, there’s a voice saying what if. Of course this is way worse if I feel my intuition failed me and the result was negative. Decision paralysis can be so strong. It appears ESFJs are able to avoid a lot of this by engaging Ne. But for an ENFJ, having all those options still on the table would be debilitating. It’s kind of like mental torture lol. One of the most stressful times in my life was making a decision in a similar situation to Micah in the pods. But once it was done, it was absolutely final.

[@DrCherieTypes]

Thanks for sharing - really appreciate how you articulate the feeling of Ni. We all have different strategies to life. Having the N function in a pessimist position ie. 2nd or 4th would always mean that your intuition is more cautious and for risk management, hence your anxiety over whether you’ve made the right choice, even if it seems clear. Pessimistic N functions can lead to decision paralysis, but I would argue the opposite is not necessarily good either. ESFJs have a different form of decision paralysis by choosing everything 😅

[@user-js4mt1nr2y]

I feel decision paralysis is actually more something that esfj's have. They just can't make a decision because of all the options they see. Where Ni naturally funnels to the best option naturally. Only when there is conflicting information or not enough we go to Ti and overhink. But esfj's have Ti as last option aswell. Then Si has more difficulty with things going different than they are used to and want things to stay the same. So if that's an option tje decision is easily made. But if not than Ni and Se has it adventage to adjust to the new present and forsee the best solution.

[@Anonassassin]

Exactly I think Paul would have married her if her friends were not so toxic. Paul is cold and calculative and as A guy Micah would have emasculated him and totally wrecked him after marriage. She is a wolf in sheeps clothing.

[@CaraTesty-ch7ob]

‘Quame was telling Paul how much he loved her’ …..

[@jaxsonc4762]

Kwame!!!

[@almaanides9127]

Hi Dr Cherie, I have a Q about the sessions you provide. Do you figure out your client's personality type BEFORE the session (for ex, sending over a test for them to take beforehand), or do you figure out their personality type during the session? Love your content!

[@DrCherieTypes]

I analyze your personality type during the session. I’ll ask you open non- personal questions. How you answer them will reveal your type. I’ll explain why you are that type. If time allows we can explore the health of your relationships.

[@maggiedk]

I really don't think Kwame was miming putting a wedding ring on Micah, it looked like he was touching/drawing attention to the engagement ring she was already wearing. It was still inappropriate and too close, but honestly I think Kwame was much more in the wrong in that scene. Especially given how drunk Micah clearly was.

[@DrCherieTypes]

Interesting read on the sitch, I agree that you can see it from that point of view too. Although Kwame with Fi is unlikely to do anything that makes himself feel bad, like drawing attention to Paul’s engagement ring for her. What he might be trying to do is to change the way she values or relates to the ring, now that he’s touched it

[@nevswain478]

Wait, you think KWAME was more in the wrong? lmfao. And your excuse is that Micah seemed ''drunk'' really? lmfao.. Micah manipulated the WHOLE situation. Kwame just fell for it.

[@maggiedk]

@@nevswain478 lol have you watched the scene closely? I watched it twice bc I was watching with my partner the second time, and we both agreed that Kwame was being more OPENLY flirtatious/inappropriate throughout the whole pool scene. It was very obvious that as Micah got more drunk (not sure why you put that in quotes, she was clearly drunk by the end and was shown taking shots), she became more openly inappropriate, but in the beginning she was being more reserved/less obviously flirtatious. I actually do agree that Micah seemed very manipulative at many points in the show, so I don't know why you're acting like I'm trying to defend her as a person. But to say that she manipulated the "WHOLE thing" as if Kwame isn't an adult who chose to start flirting with her right after he got engaged to someone else is ridiculous. He had power over his own actions in that situation and the way he treated Chelsea by talking to/looking at/touching Micah like that wasn't okay. The way Micah treated him and Paul wasn't okay either, but *in that one scene,* YES I think Kwame was the one being more OPENLY inappropriate. She was at least smart enough in the beginning to realize that she was being filmed and not be as obvious as he was.

[@gabrielabacilla293]

yay! another video :)

[@Julia-um4rv]

I can't stand watching these pod conversations. They obviously edited the conversations but they seem so shallow. "I believe in energy manifestation." "Me too like oh Mt God energy is everything." "Wow we're like so in sync. We're like... the same."

[@sisternum9022]

Very helpful

[@carlabeaton3637]

How do you know that these are their types- what are you basing it on?

[@DrCherieTypes]

It’s my observation and interpretation of their behaviour, as well as identifying cognitive functions by analysing natural speech, esp how they respond to questions

[@carlabeaton3637]

@@DrCherieTypes Super interesting! Love your analyses

[@jfaustin1742]

Can you please do one with INTJ or NI being the hero function?

[@sidh6250]

I always thought Micah & Irina were one in the same. Both mean girls, nasty hearts. I think the difference is, Micah "got a way with it" (sort of) because of the way she looks vs Irina.. Micah is I guess European standard "attractive" And just being blunt, Irina has certain features that makes you feel like "oh she's mean & miserable because she looks a certain way".. subconsciously So when side by side, they tried to paint Irina as the leader of the mean girls, and Micah her puppet. Both of them are one in the SAME Even Shelby. She may be insecure with herself as well. So it's easy to go paint Micah as the lesser evil. BUT SHE IS

[@MMMMMM-iz2if]

I saw other analysts typing both micah and kwami as enfjs

[@AiResearcherPhD]

What similarities does Micah and Kwam have to infer that they have the same personality? And what new insight does typing them both as ENFJ give us in their relationship? I suspect the other analysts type them as ENFJ because they “give in” to their partners. But this type generally does so with joy. Did Kwami seem happy to move with Chelsea?

[@reflectsonlife]

Another question - from your analysis of all seasons, there are many ISFPs and ISTPs, whereas far fewer of the other types. I wonder if you have thoughts on why these two types are drawn to reality TV, the format of LIB in particular, and either reaching the wedding altar or at least playing a significant part of the storyline?

[@DrCherieTypes]

Interesting question 🤔 The commonality between ISFP and ISTP is that they share Ni in the 3rd position, Ni Child. Ni Child is very driven once its committed to a goal or a vision, to the point that they no longer see any alternative possibilities. They’ll keep going even if they hit a brick wall. So perhaps if their vision is marriage, the format of LIB enables them to achieve that goal singleminded-ly, which draws them in to participate. Because they get so stubborn just to achieve the goal, they tend to make some rash decisions under the pressure of reality TV, which makes it more likely they’ll be a significant part of the storyline because producers want drama. Furthermore, ISTPs value efficiency so if their goal is marriage, they’ll appreciate a method that expedites the process ie. LIB. Whereas ISFPs are expressive, possess strong values, and have a huge desire to be heard and understood, so that might be their draw towards reality TV. This is all hypothetical of course 😅

[@phoeberainier]

Shelby definitely serves the friendship as Micahs designated hype girl it seems expected of her when Micah says Shelby always does this.

[@SagAqua8]

I didnt know Kwame is ISFP as me. I feeel his uncomfort thro screen haha.

[@MyLadyMo]

I'm new to this channel..very interesting. Now im curious to find out what my personality type is. How can I find out please?

[@DrCherieTypes]

You can book a session with me for personality type analysis: calendly.com/drcherietypes

[@sacredheart4442]

@DrCherietypes I'm curious about your analysis of Micah and Irina?

[@DrCherieTypes]

It’s covered within this video

[@ACC-yl8pc]

Micah is so fake, she loves Paul but still gives hope to Kwame just so that he doesn't love Chelsea as he would

[@sisternum9022]

Thanks

[@colorsmith5569]

Finally!

[@mistyfiello5262]

Do you think the expression of these traits are real? Do you think the filming crew orchestrated scenarios and manipulated footage in order for it to seem like there was more drama than there actually was?

[@kayondurrah-davis8262]

It’s funny how micha allowed her friends to try to intimidate and be rude to her soon to be husband but when he said he don’t care she immediately tried to shut it down and tell him his attitude sucks but im reality her friends have the sucky attitude and they don’t like to be called out about it

[@thisDreamOfFlesh999]

Hi Cherie, just a quick question: I live in Italy, do you book sessions for people in Europe too? Not sure where you're based, so just asking out of interest. Cheers!

[@DrCherieTypes]

Yes I have clients all over the world. Calendly, the booking system, calculates our respective time zone.

[@thisDreamOfFlesh999]

@@DrCherieTypes that's amazing! I'll be booking a session soon then :)

[@papayabyoure2948]

where can I get an assessment of my my personality type?

[@DrCherieTypes]

I can assess your personality type in a 1:1 session. You can book through this calendly.com/drcherietypes

[@unicornL]

Shelby is a blonde Irina- and I don't see what's wrong w Paul for Micah? If anything, judging from the company she keeps, he would be the only normal person in her life. That said- what's the deal w Paul basically choosing a younger version of his mom to marry? Let's talk about that! Lol

[@tnthompson217]

Can you do one on Marshall?

[@recoveryinreel]

Also Unrelated I'd love to know what you think about sub-types within the main types. Like Dominant, Creative, etc. I watched some vids on Personality Hacker, after I took their type test. So fascinating

[@DrCherieTypes]

Sub types are generally used to explain discrepancies among people with the same personality type. “Really? That person is the same type as me?” I think our type comes from nature and subtype comes from nurture. Our functions are tools, how we use it depends on the challenges life throws at us. Personality Hacker was one of my early study resources. Their car model explains the function stack well. I’ve developed and tested my own theories that is focused on building healthier relationships with oneself, our inner circle, and colleagues.

[@recoveryinreel]

@@DrCherieTypes Very in depth, I appreciate your lust for knowledge! To Thank hou

[@recoveryinreel]

​@@DrCherieTypesI still think you're an INFJ 😊

[@recoveryinreel]

Actually in retrospect I think you're an INTJ

[@barbarabuttler7647]

I guess you are the company you keep!😮

[@ktsterlin9304]

07:15 I don’t watch the show but that trait would be annoying . Then, seeing the other clips 😮

[@aprilspark3570]

I see Paul as more intp instead of ISTP, what makes you see more Se over Ne?

[@momoshun]

same

[@Thepaulpeden]

Some of these were accurate

[@quorraquar2677]

Yay‼️💜‼️

[@louislott2702]

He put fake ring on her. Didn’t see that on TV

[@dreamchaser7603]

So, she‘ a typical Esfj mean girl. ISTP and Isfp guys are her perfect matches according to mbti but people act like it’s such a Mystery - the dynamic between this trio 😂 As a mean Esfj she needs an ego boost by opting for a more challenging option, it seems more desirable.. Mean people see kindness and emotional vulnerability as weakness, especially if they see you’re all over them. I love MBTI, it makes everything so obvious

[@lsmith9316]

Hmm I don't think Paul is a Sensor, I'd say he's more INTJ or INTP

[@themoonbleu627]

Love this !! I would say ESFP for Micah anyway this is so cute I’m an Estp and my husband is an ISTJ my ex husband of 14 years ESFJ they are very loyal and gossipy I wouldn’t say Micah is the loyal type but I don’t know usually ESFJ marry young or stay with a high school sweetheart for ages