Many Men Use Choosing Signals as a Cop Out

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[@Chancellor255]

My bait is: Body game, fresh haircut, and cologne.

[@angelato3278]

OG you’re too entertaining 😂💪🏽🔥

[@tjb7974]

That taking initiative video you made gave me motivation to ask this girl who been checking me out for a while for her number. I got it and asked her out. It didn't really end up going anywhere, she's not as responsive or as cooperative as I would like her to be but that's not the point. The point is over came my anxiety and did it. So I take it as a win. I'm a little quirky and awkward when it comes to conversation so that's definitely something I gotta work on.

[@ellisjackson3355]

Great story bro. I call it a plus. And you can fine tune that quirkiness to work for you, add in a little bit more of charisma, make it work!

[@jonjones8819]

Never be afraid to approach, The worst thing she can tell you is no and women outnumber us 3:1 so there’s plenty of fish in the sea

[@banderas2000]

that's good. feel the fear and do it anyway. i had a period in my life were i was a bit nervous to talk in social situations. but i would practice. and i got better and now i am myself more. just takes practice.

[@Infamous1892]

I feel looking for Choosing signals will get you in your head to talk yourself out of approaching women. You Wondering if she likes you or not, and you didn't even speak to her. If she is physically attracted to you, and your verbal game is strong, a woman will give it up to you, regardless of bank account or any superficial attributes. That money and fancy stuff is for your life, women will come and go.

[@rkv3731]

My verbal game is bad… even tho women look at me because of my body then i screw things up

[@twinrivers6200]

​@@rkv3731it's like practicing a sport broseph....why do they do it,to get better and improve.

[@rellconnects4695]

The best advice about the Game is going outside to live life. Learn from personal experiences. Earn quality results

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@aaro9n236]

Unc no lie. When i was in 7th grade I had gotten my first tailored suit (got it for a wedding at the time) and loved it. I loved it so much i begged and pleaded with my mom to let me where it to school. And I remember she finally let me do it and I pulled up to school looking like the freshest young mf in there, but I remember vividly that day I got so much attention not just from the school girls i had crushes on, but my teachers, principal, friends, girls in other grades were all talking and giving me attention because they never seen someone that young pull up to school with a suit. That day I learned the importance of style on a man and how it can change alot. Evidently other dudes started wearing suits to school shortly after 😂😂🤷🏽‍♂️

[@ericmoore4031]

OG Rom with the great knowledge as usual. Thank you sir!!

[@ellisjackson3355]

Thanks for this essential break down. For "game" recalibration

[@jalena.4173]

Unc spitting that heat again 🙏🏾💪🏾

[@tymiller6087]

I always preferred being the one to make the first move anyways. The main problem I came across with women who came up to me and made the first move were the personality types that tended to not mind doing it. Generally leaned more on the side of masculine and controlling type of women I have noticed during my time. I used to cold approach a lot since my pops was an old school player and pushed me to do it growing up. Learned I get choosing signals wherever I go, so I chilled on doing that unless she really moved my body like that. I feel men should start off cold approaching to get it out of the system and also helps them take advantage of the opportunity whenever a women they find attractive sends out a choosing signal. One thing I did notice was women got way less bold when I got rid of the gut and put on muscle because they assume I am a player off rip now. They get less tense and relax once we do talk though. My bait: Handsome face, style, muscular, mouth piece, fun vibes, and women have said I have a confident walk and demeanor about me

[@banderas2000]

sounds about right. my bait is pretty much the same. the mouth piece with me depends on who im talkin to and if we click it. one woman can think it's coo the other like "eh". been workin on my body language skills and that helps alot to. if you know she feeling you it's easier to be even more confident and sure of yourself. and they will fall 🙂 i feel you on the they are tense at first because you are "alpha" " select" ect. but once u smile , talk they get more receptive.

[@Fresh360Waves]

Women in your social circle is always the key IMO.

[@banderas2000]

it helps big time

[@therealdevo7894]

My bait is my handsome face and my muscles. That’s it. I found that for me that I can get away with being a little bit sloppy with my appearance at times just due to those two above. I’ll say this to though. A lot of the division with choosing signals or cold approaching comes down to these two ideologies: money or the honey. Because on an intuitive level, men understand that in order to excel in those two factions, you have to prioritize one or the other to truly be the best. There is also a matter of personality types and what a man wants out of his life which can place in one of those two options. Make no mistake, it’s a spectrum so a man can fall in the middle or lean towards one or the other. For me, I’m very laid back so I prefer just women just choosing and coming to me for the most part. Now with that being said, this method is not gonna get you a ton of ass, just keeping it real cause you do want to approach a woman you want at times cause women will look at you just to get your attention or for other reasons that may not be sexual in nature. However, I prefer it this way cause I’m a lone wolf. So, I usually just prefer my own peace and sanity over just spending the time and energy just to get a woman. When I was younger and did not have much going on, it was easier for me to just cold approach a bunch of women and seeing who was into me. However, cold approaching that way is just a number games at that point and can consume much of your time and energy. Not to mention, even if you do get play, you still have to deal with the woman at hand and her potential nonsense. Also have to deal with women, who just want to waste your time as well. Rejection and dealing with bs is a normal part of the game but you have to evaluate how much you want women that bad for a lot of the bs that comes with it at times. I found that for me, I can cold-switch my aggression and just pick the women I found to be sexy or just feel like talking to. For choosing signals, all I need to do is just be out and about and just put myself in a social situation, where a woman is more likely to choose and talk to me or just take initiative and strike up a convo. It’s really about understanding who you are as a man and what you want out of your life. Regardless of what method you choose, you still have to put in the work to stand out to a woman. Why should she want you vs all of your other competitors? Answer that question and you’ll be golden.

[@therenaissance7158]

Choosing signals can get boring and old when you aren't doing it JUST to get women...... Some will do the most to GET your attention to only do some 'wonk wonk' typa stuff/ superficial/ frivolous typa when they get your attention

[@FrzC5]

Rom I do be getting the choosing signals but unfortunately it's on the job by the customers. I dunno if it's wise to pursue something at work

[@maravilloso002]

Nope. Avoid women you work w/ or around like the plague. It’s not worth your job or freedom.

[@twinrivers6200]

Don't get your honey's where you make your money bossman...be it co workers or customers. Bad biz

[@stocks4bt]

Hell NO. Do you want sexual harassment? Or stress on the job? Only talk to those women away from your job

[@jonnyaesthetic]

I will only take advice from a brotha that's in shape... this is why I respect your channel so much.

[@bossplayermfs5972]

This is on point, a man must definitely have bait to catch a woman’s attention cause if they just going around waiting for a woman to choose them is going to be wait until the 🐄s come home str8 🆙.

[@masterme550]

Sho right, i remember this bad lil mamma, was going crazy for me, i had no idea and honestly thought ibhad no chance until her friend told me, then i put the mack down, you really never know, make her say no

[@kingbizzle1357]

I already meet the height requirement (6’4). I just got to get over being insecure about my speech impediment as well as getting my money and wardrobe back up. I lost my job and I had to give away most of my clothes because I lost over 60 pounds.

[@denzel9455]

It's fear from guys they are directly stuck in their head and a lot of these women just look for attention most times i start to speak out of myself but not from a cold position i always read the body language FIRST that always helped me. - Self reflection is important too and you need feedback from people to learn how people might view you many men and women told me i look angry arrogant or like somebody who doesn't want to be bothered. - Older women have no issues with guys who "look" like one of the three it's the younger ones who will keep it on "choosing signals" just like men are stuck in their head women can be stuck in their head too when they see certain types of men. -

[@jordon1911]

Hey bro I’ve been told the same on looking angry/ intimidating and it has made people fearful to engage me. But one thing I’ve been trying to do is just be the one to engage people in a more fun and light vibe to get them to open up to me

[@rickyking1790]

@@jordon1911 that's why Rambo was single

[@ricardomitchell6091]

@@rickyking1790 hahaha 🤣😭😂😂😂 😲😲 I never thought of that way lol

[@BC-pl3df]

It’s about hope and needing this and that before you can get in the game pushes guys out the game. They don’t have to accept their fate like that. They’d be surprised if they just do the work and try that they can get what they want. Most people don’t do the work so if you do, you’re in that top 20% automatically, now there’s some hope for you. Seen it myself.

[@jlpatrick73]

When I would get choosing signals and approach. I get complimented on smelling good. An old player told me at 15 that you can catch a woman's attention by smelling good and work on your mouthpiece.

[@sibusiso2841]

I was bolder when I looked more dusty

[@nathanlamont9920]

To be honest, for the most part of my adult life I used choosing signals as an excuse. I started straiting up about last summer when I started watching Kevin Samules addressing the guys. Unfortunately, I started watching his stuff after he died. Better late than never I suppose.

[@LeekTheGeneral]

Facts rom I would say I’m a masked man with hang ups at 18 mostly due to porn addiction which I’m currently on day 3 on tryn get rid of I get choosin signals like a mf like I still don’t approach why because I’m nervous to the point I shake around women js because of social anxiety due to my addiction so that affects how I interact because I use to never be shy I was always outgoing cold approaching I never knew ab choosin signals but now I use that as a way to not approach I can say once I get over this addiction and my true authentic “natural mack” as my grandma tells me I am WATCH OUT 💯

[@modenasolone]

I feel you. Too many dudes these days are trying to find a way to success without effort... Then complain about it not turning out how they expect it. Truth be told, they have picked up many hueax characteristics in regards to complaining and have expectations without effort.

[@ScrewFace416]

Having dreads/locs is a great bait no liee

[@banderas2000]

hair is actually big with women

[@princeqadash7316]

Real Talk Man, Choosing Signals Is Basic Level. As A Man You Gotta Apply Yoself And Have Some Sort’ve Conversation Bout Ya Self when you step down. Hell ima be honest really sitting back in the cut is some women ass shit because 9/10 times a woman is not saying nothing to you especially if you highly attractive. So you have to say something first. But One Thing I Know Forsure Is. ( “A CLOSED MOUTH NEVER GOT NO ASS”)

[@RomWills]

💯💯💯

[@BugattiLo_]

16:25 😂😂😂

[@lorellbrown9171]

You have to be a go getter, even more than now men use simpin as a excuse as well for them not to make any effort. They don’t want to talk about that!

[@banderas2000]

nothing is certain. even if she is "choosin" she could say no. still gota pull that trigger. but chances are if you are taking care of yourself and she is doing things other woman aren't . your more than likely to score. most women just walk past men all day everyday. with ur bait. you'll notice the women who's energy is more than indifferent energy. body is the best bait. besides everything else. it opens more doors.

[@TheRealBlackula]

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[@RomWills]

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