"My Non Binary Manhood Is VALID!!"

[@janielane2118]

Hearing a woman talk about how she thought she couldn’t be a man because masculinity is evil, but now sees herself as a masculine nonbinary person is the funniest thing I’ve seen today 😅

[@vrijevoeten]

It's the most crazy thing I heard this week.

[@laurag.8558]

I cracked up after she made her voice darker on purpose XD

[@janielane2118]

@@vrijevoeten This would be the most insane thing I’ve heard this week, but prior to seeing this vid, I watched a half dozen videos of people insisting that women have a prostate and should receive annual screenings after the age of 45. The mental gymnastics that these folks went through to validate this ridiculous claim actually frightened me, because most of these people claiming that women have a prostate have children, and others of them had fairly large followings, spreading their insane misinformation to their children and their thousands of followers. One of these people was a DOCTOR( females have Skenes glands, which some medical professionals refer to as the “female prostate”, only to make it easier to explain to patients with no medical knowledge; really nothing more than a nickname. I also heard a woman say that men have vulvas, which somehow acquired 724,000 likes. The amount of crazy I hear daily is terrifying, and the saddest part is that most of this “info” is coming from biological women who either don’t recognize that they’re legitimately trying to take part in the erasure of women, or what we as a species have known for thousands of years have observed and defined a woman to be. It’s heartbreaking and such a shame that biological women are taking part in redefining “woman”, with the only qualifications to be a woman is to say that you’re a woman. Ten years from now, we’re all going to look back on all this nonsense and either laugh or cry

[@janielane2118]

@@laurag.8558 but being masculine has nothing to do with having a low voice, or dressing in men’s clothes, or having short hair 🤔, so it’s interesting how these non-conforming-gender fluid -As long as you say you’re a man,you’re a man and vice-versa people take on the most stereotypical gender roles and appearances of whatever gender they’re trying to present themselves as. If you would have told me 10 years ago that there would be men complaining of menstrual cramps and women believing that they have prostates, I would’ve laughed in your face, but here we are! 🤷‍♀️

[@janielane2118]

@@vrijevoeten I agree and say this is the craziest thing I’ve heard all week, but I just watched dozens of videos of biological women, insisting that they have prostate glands. The mental gymnastics made to come to such a silly, misinformational statement would be hysterical if it wasn’t so frightening. Apparently some doctors use the jargon female prostate to describe a similar organ, and the psychos have run hog wild with it, and are now claiming that women have prostates and can produce semen. I am a woman and I just learned after 39 years of being alive on this planet that I can produce semen. So far I haven’t been able to produce any but will update as soon as I do which I am sure will be any moment now because hold on of course women have prostates, because if we don’t, we are transphobic, hateful, bigots.

[@wild62meg47]

"Non-binary man"??? An oxymoron, like "thundering silence." No, it doesn't make sense.

[@grilledsleaze]

Or a “woke intellect” 😉

[@cradica]

Or a 17 year old adult (I remember someone thinking 17 was an adult)

[@kcal.couture]

Or like the smartest idots

[@TheIrreverentUncleAl]

Well, you got Rebecca Sugar, the creator of Steven Universe who refers to herself as a "Non binary woman". Go figure.

[@gilgameshofuruk4060]

Drop the "oxy" and you've got the answer.

[@VanEuclid]

always the nose ring

[@suitcase6698]

It’s a thick one!

[@glizzard1894]

She doesn't look male unless she has the horns. I'm just saying

[@xfile1966]

They look like the sheep they are with the nose rings.

[@aneketoni7460]

With the colored hair

[@DragonsOfSnow]

As someone who generally likes tattoos & piercings, I've always loathed the septum bull rings. They were starting to die down in popularity in the mid 2000's, but looks like they made a full force comeback! Just makes them look more like the brainless cattle that they are honestly.

[@realgtasacramentodashcam7292]

Lack of personality, craving attention, sense of community, who knows what's driving people to make these claims.

[@annebos4634]

In one word: puberty or, in some cases, delayed puberty

[@davidcattin7006]

I like "lack of personality". I think that sums it up. They aren't interesting enough as themselves, so have to create this other narrative for who they are. It's exhausting.

[@dblr4931]

​@@davidcattin7006I wholeheartedly agree. They are boring and don't know how to deal with it in today's society. We have always had painfully boring, uninteresting people in the world. Our boring folks were ok just being.

[@donnastokes-manning6175]

@@annebos4634 Most good doctors know puberty send humans into a tailspin and too many are using it to undermine normal society and make millions through unnecessary medical procedures and many of the teens are being used as lab rats to further try to perfect a procedure that makes doctors play God. You don’t have to believe in God to want to be one. Seems the AMA has forgotten the oath of do no harm. But pharmaceutical company CEO’s never took that oath did they…. I know there are people who truly believe they were born in the wrong body. But teenagers are too impressionable to be starting life altering procedures on them. A well meaning physician will want them to go through puberty first because it happens to us for a reason.

[@RachaelLink]

Say what now? Non binary manhood? It just got more confusing.

[@ghenulo]

Don't knock hexadecimal manhood until you try it.

[@bobbiejojackson9448]

I really think that's their goal. I've seen far too many TikToks where the person is "euphoric" because they're confusing everyone about which gender they are. So, it's hard to conclude anything other than a desire to upset the apple cart, so to speak. That, in turn, brings them loads of attention (generally not the good kind), which is what I think most of them are desperately looking for. It's a shame that no one has ever told them that this ideology is a very negative and disingenuous way to garner that attention.

[@Tread1775]

@@bobbiejojackson9448 Besides, in my opinion, showing signs of psychological distress, they appear to lack any mental maturity or ability to think to themselves intelligently. The lack of critical thinking skills is apparent to me. I don’t think schools teach this anymore. The dumbing down of our education system is manifesting in the zoomer’s and many of the later millennials. ✌️

[@RachaelLink]

@@ghenulo I didn't knock it. I said it got more confusing.

[@dblr4931]

Although I agree-ish, I would say, it just got more stupid.

[@rebeccalove9169]

In 20 years all these people are going to be regretting making these horrible decisions that they can't undo!

[@kellysouter4381]

I don't think it will take that long. This fashion is already on its way out.

[@taki7546]

@@kellysouter4381Hopefully. Can we get emos and tomboys back please😬

[@be-ugh5782]

They will probably be dead. Do you honestly think theese weak minded individuals, will be able to go on after realising their major fuck up?

[@elettramia6380]

Far less than in 20 years. It’s happening now.

[@misakistalker]

as long they don't breed, it's fine to me

[@HikaruRain]

It just astounds me that it takes me years of poking my fingers, taking insulin, and tons of appointments and blood tests to get a CGM to monitor my glucose constantly to help with my Diabetes; because I have to prove it. But these kids can just pop in and say I am confused and think I want a beard I need testoterone. And a doctor is like yeah seems liegit.

[@vrijevoeten]

Last days of the Bathomet.

[@misakistalker]

I'm a T1D, these ppl are signing up to be future diabetics thanks to the steroids they take.

[@i05af]

It's sad, because the person at 3:20 passed *insanely* well. Why go to all that effort just to say you're not a transman 😭

[@Pinkuru]

I thought you said he passed away lol.

[@1tommyday]

It just shows how brainwashed and super confused they are

[@brianyoung8999]

the answer to all the questions is "attention"

[@SJRD18]

That's a lot of her for her to just basically say she's a woman.

[@spikemurphy5054]

Are you talking about the first person?

[@MargieM10]

My goodness. This reminds me of my generation dressing in all black to be different and counter culture... ALL of us, at the same time 😂

[@sandybrown7621]

😂

[@tonyalee953]

Trans is the new goth

[@aliecarey]

There were many generations to wear all black- the beatniks did it too.

[@MargieM10]

@@uniquely_special_edward Nope, a little too old for that one but I think my kids did.

[@waynemclaughlin96]

This reminds me of one of my nieces when she was younger and was into the goth look. She wore black nail polish and black lipstick and had a white powdery face. Today, that same niece had converted to Islam and is now a Muslim mother of 7 kids with a Muslim husband from Turkey 🇹🇷

[@Zarreth]

These people all want to be different...in the same way....

[@bflower1562]

I been telling people they were all born in the same lab & no one believes me 😳😆😆😆

[@mayamartich9866]

So true

[@annebos4634]

@Zarreth you hit the nail

[@sharolet_dolly4630]

I’m 22 and I’ll be hearing new stuff every day like a lot of that shit is so weird.

[@sandybrown7621]

Glad you don’t buy into it ! Phew. Some normal young adults are still out there

[@Sunshine_Hime]

I agree. I'm also 22 and learned English 10 years ago (Spanish is my native language) and it's impossible to keep up with all these new terms, but I don't plan to. Those creeps make languages unnecessarily complicated to their advantage, and ruin them.

[@SFUPodcast]

All generations look at the younger generation like “wtf are they doing?” but this shit is bonkers on a new level 😂

[@tassiodrigues]

@@SFUPodcast The good side of the older generations is that they weren't poisoned by the tiktok pandemic and all of these trendy weirdness and nonsense, where they promote chemical "experiments" and obsession for surgeries 😬

[@lorrainegrattan8528]

All I had to worry about in the 80s , was making sure I used that much hair lacquer that it never moved in a 10 force gale. 😁

[@Burnt.Ice.Cream.]

When you're so woke that transitioning from female to male is problematic as male is "evil" so you need extra labels to make it less "problematic" for your cult's ideology 😂 We're witnessing the birth of a new religion, the most confusing one so far but hey at least we're having fun watching the updates in the never ending labeling nonsense. I admire people like Marcus who actually speak up and draw a clear line between gender dysphoria which is a real condition and the madness of this cult. You're a voice of reason dude ❤

[@sidneybuckaloo]

The spaghetti god is more believable than this.

[@dubs3432]

In the movie "ameircan beauty" there is a part where one of the characters says there is nothing worse than being ordinary and I think that quote is the basis for the way people are behaving.

[@30wrdy]

Pierced septums are the jnco jeans of today. Change my mind

[@nanskidds4214]

😅😅 I love the brave individuality of colored hair and septum piercings 😅😅

[@toshiamiyumi2604]

They do lol @@cordoesart

[@melissamurray8307]

Hey, Jnco jeans were cool back in the day, I am 40 now btw.

[@mamamichellegist]

nooo don’t do jnco jeans like that!!!

[@Mistmantle88]

Jnco jeans never made me want to clip a lead onto anybody to lead them back to their paddock.

[@Maggiefidell]

It’s trendy to be in the alphabet group now

[@serion9325]

I'm not one to armchair diagnose people, but there are a lot of times when I wonder if the desire to not be a woman is rooted in SA or BPD. I also loathe the idea that women have to be 100% woman all the time, and men have to be 100% man all the time, and people in between are nonbinary. What does that even mean? I miss the days of being able to read about male ballerinas and female engineers as ways to show that both men and women can pursue their individual interests, and it wasn't a sign of being "less than" your gender or a third category altogether. I'm gender non-conforming, and none of that takes away from the fact that I was born female. And yes, I have had people tell me that I'm nonbinary and should use he/they pronouns because I'm not stereotypically feminine. It's insane.

[@theresas740]

I hear you, Sister! Butch all my life. Mistaken for a man, correct the civilians, no harm no foul. These ultra-evolved that assign me "enby" and call me they? That's misgendering. I've gone through a lot to be this kind of woman for 55 years, thank you very much, and I will have my G-ddamn dignity I am a woman!

[@serion9325]

@bradleybrown8428 Gender non conforming is any behavior or trait that deviates from the societal gender norm. A female auto mechanic and a man who likes cosmetics are gender non conforming. These norms do change between cultures and over time. For example, a girl wearing a tie might be very normal in a UK boarding school, but seen as very masculine in an American high school. But, as you can already see by your own interests, just doing things outside of the expected doesn't make you a third category. It just means you're a normal person like the rest of us with a wide range of interests and behaviors.

[@sashabenoit1518]

The reason why these people are struggling to figure out who or what they are is because they're being told that they have to pick an identity tor themselves, instead of just naturally coming into their own without any outside influence or pressure. I find it extremely troubling that we are putting this ridiculous expectation of having to "choose" what gender they want to be, in the same way we push kids to decide where they want to go to College and what career field they want to be in. They're making it seem like it's just a natural part of growing up and figuring out who you are, something to experiment with and try out to see how it "feels". Which is exactly why so many people are confused and are caught up in this gender craze because the vast majority of people aren't trans and shouldn't have to question their gender. Being trans is a biological anomaly of the brain, a medical condition and a very rare one at that. It's not a life decision that everyone has to make or figure out.

[@1tommyday]

BEST REPLY EVER

[@MelonSoda-i7q]

I used to be non-binary. I saw myself as a tomboy until I read what non-binary was on the internet. I was a teen at that time and I hated anything associated with femininity. Now, I'm just a woman who's embraced being a female. And to be honest, I don't understand why people are so obsessed with their identity these days. I always knew who I was until I read about their "gender ideology". At some point, I wanted to transition to a boy, but I never had a problem being perceived as female. I thank my teenage self for not bringing it up to my psychiatrist when I had depression. Lol.

[@brit7280]

I'm so happy for you. 🎉 I hope you are being the best you, you can be. And it's great you didn't let society tell you who you should be

[@genzi78514]

How did you stop saying you were a non binary?

[@MelonSoda-i7q]

@@genzi78514 It didn't happen fast, it was a gradual thing. When I was still non-binary, I cut my hair really short and presented myself masculine. It made me happy when people used "he/him" or "they/them" pronouns when referring to me. I came to the point where I wanted to transition to a guy, but then when I did my research on gender transitions, I was hit with the realization that it was not for me. I pondered over my identity for a long while, wondering, "If I don't want to transition to a man, what is the point of me being non-binary?" or " why do I idenity as a man if I'm not trans?". It hit me that all these things I've been doing was just me hating on myself and being a female, especially with so many restrictions given to me by my parents, especially my own mother, because of my gender. I didn't feel in control of my life and being non-binary made me feel in control (but I wasn't, to be honest). The gender euphoria that I felt whenever people referred to me as a man was just me feeling joy over the fact that people are giving me validation when I was wanting to be someone else I'm not. This is just my experience, however, so this does not apply to everyone. Edit: Grammar

[@MelonSoda-i7q]

@@brit7280 Thank you.💖

[@Zaners82123]

The issue I see when females feel this way as a younger person is it is a dysphoria but they aren't getting the help to see what type of dysphoria. I have body dysphoria. Had it been this way when I was growing up I can see myself sliding into this trap as well. I'm really glad you climbed out of that trap. If you find yourself still fixating on things please explore that more. For.me it never does away but I'm not full blown anorexic anymore. I had to learn that i can actually control things in my life after a traumatic childhood and don't need to fixate on controlling something that will kill me.

[@slava.ukraiini]

Thanks for demonstrating that this entire movement is both misogynistic AND misandrist, because masculinity is evil, and femininity is something that everyone should appropriate and make into a caricature.

[@cibees4373]

these people need a dictionary handed to them to use words with real definitions

[@ArdenBijou]

Unfortunately some dictionaries have been changing the meaning of words to fit this group’s narrative. 😑

[@dustinmartin2369]

Honestly their language is probably the biggest problem in all of this. Gender and Identity easily have multiple meanings but are all being lumped together like something out of 1984's effort to reduce the dictionary.

[@petrinastiller3040]

They probably wouldn't read it, but I agree

[@paulahillier1390]

The bull ring is so gross. Looks like silver snot. 🤢

[@alieganhouse2442]

Yes, the distasteful “door-knocker” piercing! Such an unflattering thing to flaunt. NO ONE looks good with it. And yes, the knocker that that door belongs/overall leading to is the absolute doorway to HELL!

[@nazzalie1375]

Omg I'm so glad you talked about intersex being binary. It drives me mad when people use intersex as some sort of basis for an argument when they ARE ether male or female! They just had some deformities. It doesn't make them a 3rd gender x

[@robinpowell4398]

“I experience non-binary manhood.” Me, a woman “me too, sis”.

[@emilyhughes4297]

Them saying stuff like “I’m a man but I want to wear feminine things so I’m non binary” just reinforces the fact that they think clothes=gender. There’s nothing wrong with being a feminine man or a masculine women even if you are trans.

[@Pumpkin_Lavender]

*I My Me Mine* It's always about themselves. Classic Narcissist

[@MelittaFilter-c4g]

I know a transwoman and the suffering she had to go through before she now can live her life as a woman. She isn't a person who likes to run around with full make-up and sexy outfits, she just wants to present as a female and everyone around her respects her. Gender disphoria is a completely different thing from playing around with gender stereotypes.

[@IZaubermausI]

That‘s what I also thought before seeing these TikTok reaction videos…. 😂 My best friend is a mtf and she only wants to pass at a woman without any trouble. Not more!

[@Lancelotlobstertail]

Exactly, I’m a ftm transsexual and like these people on TikTok trying to make themselves look as like crazy as possible is just ridiculous to me. Real trans people don’t wanna be perceived as trans, they wanna fit into society and be perceived as the gender they’re trying to be.

[@jworth7203]

Your facial expression in the thumbnail had me cracking up before I even clicked the video! These people are reaching SO hard to make themselves different and “special.” As far as how drs give hormones when these people don’t know who they are, my child went to Planned Parenthood and was prescribed cross x hormones with NO questions asked. This was after a SA. They hated who they were but never got any kind of therapy for that experience. It’s insane.

[@1tommyday]

They are all so unique and " different " they wind up exactly the same.

[@kaelyn4063]

It's his eye for me😂

[@NanamiJitsukawa]

I'm working at a hospital where they offer ftm surgery and sometimes there are patients who're only sixteen years old coming in for a consultation regarding mastectomy and whatnot. And they get the consultation, no questions asked (provided they come with a parent). Of course, the doctors rely on psychiatrists and psychologists doing their jobs properly when writing down their recommendations for those patients, but in my opinion they should be way stricter and meticulous when seeing (especially minor) patients

[@lonestardove]

I just can't get over the bdsm gear in the background of the first vid you reacted to TTwTT

[@xiaonline]

Marcus, thank you, seriously you're SO necessary. saying everything, exactly on point, I absolutely love it 😭🙏🏻

[@farqueue001]

Gender is a spectrum. Yeah so is my autism. That doesn’t make me be able to choose my level of autism depending on how autistic I feel. See how the argument seems silly now? 😂

[@jayterra2060]

Good point!

[@ChildOfYahuahElohim]

99.9% of them self diagnose themselves with autism so yeah, it likely is on a "spectrum" to them lol

[@bobthompson9890]

Even if you try to understand where some of these people are coming from, they make it impossible

[@cole5669]

I understand where some of them are coming from, but from a societal standpoint and kind of a logical standpoint, it doesn't make sense.

[@lial2713]

How about super awesome BUTCH lesbians? Will there be no more?

[@sluttymctits4496]

Man, my sister-in-law married a super-butch lesbian, and she's f*cking awesome. Hands-down the most fun person you could ever chill at a bar with. Love that girl!

[@CommenjouerFr-gplus]

They still are but they're either non-binary or men pretending to be women. The sad reality.

[@J-cy8hq]

I’m so tired of these people. They want to be different/the victim so bad.

[@APatel8]

I genuinely have ACTUALLY met the person in the first video. I'm serious. They are completely insufferable...

[@perivayne]

Why do these folks always have the nose rings?...almost like the "Karen-wants to talk to the manager" haircut.

[@lightgiver7311]

I miss actual masculinity, I miss strong men - this is what we are left with. God, help us.

[@cole5669]

Ever been down the south? Strong men still exist.

[@SFUPodcast]

We’re all in small towns and cities. These types exist mostly in big leftist cities.

[@ghenulo]

@@cole5669 I live in West Virginia. Is that south enough? Though, I do have problems lifting that 50 pounds necessary to have a job.

[@Ilive_420]

I think it's subjective, I always saw "English gentlemen" as the epitome of masculinity, rather than some lumberjack lol, I love it and find strong when a man is educated and sure of himself when he talks, mentally charming and very classy. I see more women in suits nowadays than men, seems like men ditched it completely along with the gentlemen charm. I only ever saw that in posh Englishmen

[@ls-l1518]

Yes. I couldn't get turned on by any of these wimps. There are still men though, Thank God.

[@iloveminiapplepies]

All they want is attention

[@meneedmorebrain]

They were so individual, they wore the uniform of individuality.

[@McBernes]

It is amazing how a person can suppress, excuse, rationalize, justify, twist thoughts and words into a pretzel to convince themselves of the strangest things. I think most every human does it to some extent, your spouse is cheating but you make excuses for it, you know you should quit whatever bad habit you have but you bargain with yourself to continue "a few more times". But these folks have taken that ability to the extreme, at least the ones who believe what they are saying and not attention whoring.

[@kellymallory9852]

Right on Marcus! I dont know if you do speaking engagements. You should! Parents, with confused teenagers really need to here you! Also, all of us need to speak up! Children's rights are being taken away!

[@tiaramarie7271]

I just want to say, You’re a beautiful human being. Your energy is calming to me 🤍

[@kyuutatsu]

Why is it always the nose piercings? Am I the only one who has always found alternative piercings weird? I’m talking anywhere that isn’t the ear…

[@Bandikit]

I like nose studs. My sis in law and a few of my friends have a little stud. I think it's cute

[@DessiLyn430]

Those people made my head hurt. Marcus, THANK YOU for having a firm grasp of reality. I appreciate you ❤

[@rileyknight358]

I am a trans medical scientist and let me tell you something- I've yet to come across a "non binary" chromosome.

[@LiaBakugou]

Real

[@Rat_Queen86]

My niece insisted that she was a man. So, she started testosterone and got top surgery. Afterwards, she spiralled into a deep depression and tried to take her life. Now, she is sure she is non binary. So….to me, that means she regrets what she did and is trying to go back on it but can’t. It’s all so confusing and sad.

[@SzakunX]

Thumbs up would not be an appriopiate response because this is sad experience, hope someone will help her understand that she is still a girl and a valid person to be loved, despite the damage from top surgery.

[@Rat_Queen86]

@@SzakunXit’s all such a mess and thank you for your comment. She had such a bright future ahead of her- she was going to study physics. Now, she sits in her room staring at Tik Tok and having panic attacks over her neighbour mowing their lawn at 2 in the afternoon. The doctors just went along with it all. She won’t get help and refuses to see any mental health professional.

[@SzakunX]

@@Rat_Queen86 It will pass, the mind has to process all stages of grief and anger, before reaching a conclusion that help is needed.

[@martincampbell2470]

Everyone needs to discover you. You're so informative. You dont beat around the bush. You could save a lot of people!

[@Inanna1477]

I swear, during the rona they had too much time and they totally lost their minds.

[@rileyknight358]

WHY do these people want to claim ALL labels, when they contradict each other?! "Non binary" BUT AND also "manhood"? How TF are you going to identify as not subscribing to gender binaries like male/female/masculine/feminine yet in the same breath you want to claim "manhood" and "trans". I swear to GAWD it's because these people with an off the wall sense of entitlement and narcissism want included in *every* space they can claim and appropriate where it's safe and comfortable to do so and to take advantage of whatever gender privilege they can get in that space. They'll be female where it benefits them and they get attention and sympathy. They'll be male where it gets them attention, sympathy, and perks. They'll be "non binary" where they get their affirmation and ego stroked by other non binary narcissists or as an act of rebellion for attention, because attention is their drug of choice.

[@susannegardner3148]

Well said. They’re takers, occupiers, totalitarians. They want every identity, every label, every space, and total control over other people’s speech, thoughts and feelings about them.

[@amberinthebox4462]

Shes trying to make her voice sound deeper in the beginning amd then dropped it cus she couldnt do it

[@Corfaisus]

Yes! Back when I was attempting to be fully onboard with the LGBT ally thing, the words you're using now are 100% what I was taught and what made sense to me. It wasn't until afterward when all this extra crap came about and the rubber really hit the road that I gave up. They're doing more harm to people who legit need a support system than they realize by just wanting to be special. If you're boring, be boring, but don't harm those who need help. I've heard the horror stories of people being thrown out, disowned and driven to self-termination - my cishet family can totally relate. These things need to stop, but I know that if someone's struggling with mental health to the point of contemplating self-termination, that's a chemical thing, not a societal ass pat thing. If you want to off yourself, please do whatever you can to make it a little bit more out of that hole. Get on antidepressants and anti-psychotics - whatever it takes. Even if you don't see the value in it now because you're trapped in that downward spiral, give it a chance. I guarantee this narrative of being pushed back against "we just want to exist" is totally wrong. The care of another LIVING being is slightly above the disregard of whatever your private life is. I don't think most people are good people, but I think most people are affected by the overt suffering of others.

[@Riley-kt5wr]

Hello Marcus! Another great, informative video 😊 I hope you continue to grow and reach more and more audiences. Much love from Puerto Rico. I also wanted to add something. Although I understand that my experience is NOT the same for everyone else, I am someone that suffers from bizarre delusions. From believing and feeling that characters from shows and books can see and hear me, to not being able to use the bathroom at day-time. However, I also understand that this is my responsibility. For example, there was a time where Harry Potter was a huge trigger for me, and just hearing a name from there sent me into a panic. Still, I did not lash out at my friends or people when they talked about it or mentioned it in passing. I understood that it was my issue, and that I should pick and choose carefully the places I went to or the communities I involved myself in, as to avoid being triggered. I didn't yell at strangers things like "You should be mindful of other people! Some of us don't like Harry Potter!" if they happened to be wearing Harry Potter merch or something. That would have been silly. Anyway, I'm doing much better now though :) Exposure therapy helps.

[@carrieann1640]

Checking in here as a very old person: not being sure of who/what you were on so many levels was a basic part of growing up in those far off times when existentialists still roamed the earth.

[@lotusg8545]

I really liked the way Marcus affirmed that some viewers may be just a female going through some other stuff mentally, rather than being trans or non binary. So many people who are struggling with mental health seem to adhere to the trans ideology because it makes them feel "not mentally ill" and belong to a group of sorts. I have a mental illness, there's nothing wrong with that, but I totally understand how one might want to feel validated and included without admiting to the fact that they aren't well. I hope these people find their alternative/true reasons why they are not happy in their own bodies and find peace.

[@jewisley]

That’s an oxymoron. Mainly, this is a “look at me” person.

[@kermetthehog1237]

Looking REAL HANDSOME today Marcus, idk if it’s this warm lighting or what but goddamn 😂❤

[@Boobalopbop]

I love how she’s trying to make her voice sound deep 🤣🤣🤣

[@carolynmorris1341]

Thank you for being you, really appreciate a more sane POV in these modern times. Keep it up! 😊

[@jackierobinson81]

That doctors don't even question someone with mental health issues, is scary, I don't know if I would trust a doctor, either kind with my child's well being, they seem to see them as cash cow's

[@scottbelyea9720]

How sad that people are willing to trash their dignity for a few moments of forgettable recognition. What you beleve you think you are is none of the publics business.

[@machobeauty]

I think you explained everything in the first minute and a half ‼️

[@XxAzrael]

It's always those scary eyes that I see with these individuals 💀

[@eli-kave]

Who would’ve thought eugenics got made trendy….

[@CrayolaCoffeeBean]

They treat themselves like a “build your own” Pokémon card.

[@sugakookie7985]

The nonbinary septum piercing is mandatory

[@barbaraheinbeck4778]

Can anyone explain why all these creeps have nose rings? Seems to be one of the common things. Is it so they can easily be led around?

[@LiaBakugou]

They made morph non-binary😭 MY BABY MORPH FROM X MEN!!!(he was always called a man, he/him. Never they them. HE was always perceived as a MAN😭)

[@misssunshine6200]

I’m having this revelation. Like, I used to go tagging (graffiti), I used to go smoke pot and try to come home looking totally normal with my eyes unavailable, I used to break the rules at home. I used to do these things to push the bounds and always felt like going against the grain and pushing back against society and government. I felt like being a rebel in different ways. This trend (it truly is a trend) feels just like that. Except it’s irreversible and destroys your body and things you can not undo. It’s so much more permanent. There are other ways to go against the grain, there are safe ways to be a rebel. I hope that made sense to at least one person 😂

[@annamossity8879]

You’re making a lot of sense!

[@SanchiraVanity]

I had this theory before all this became mainstream, that the girls obsessed with Yaoi and guys with yuri would one day take it to far and go beyond pretending to be guys on places like IMVU and second life, and there RP would blurr into reality they would start to believe they are men, and vise versa for men playing woman, and pretending to be woman well here we are now and all I can say is I told Them so

[@mephistofleece]

Her fake voice cracks me up

[@3brenm]

Why do they think they need to redefine masculinity?. Masculinity is already nuanced. Do people think I'm running around in camo gear all the time and not interested in music and art? All we need to do is realize what's already there.

[@_Eisley]

Im really happy that im not a teenager, child or even a young adult today. Im not traditionally feminine, ive been told i act like a guy sometimes. Ive suffered from various mental illnesses, addiction an eating disorder. And people with a mental illness and body dysphoria are the ones being targeted for gender affirmation care. They're confused. I made a lot of mistakes as a kid and young adult. And what a surprise my teeth are f*cked from bulimia and drugs and i aged like crazy. But at least i never went on testosterone or puberty blockers, im still a woman. I cant help but feel bad for these people

[@ThatOneJayBean]

It’s the arrogance in their voice every time when they’re “explaining” things that gets me

[@Beacon.of.Strength]

Nostril piercing=opinion discarded

[@RubieKanary]

Idk why but I feel like a lot of trans trenders nowadays have like "internalized femboy-phobia" or something.

[@meowforgoodcontent]

Am I legitimately the only normal person with a septum piercing

[@divab63]

God I love your videos. You are so clear and concise. So hard to watch so many people trying to be something they are not because society currently says they should. Just explore being yourself.

[@Skylerjones624]

Someone i used to know literally turned around and said "Well i dont dont believe in gender" Despite looking and is a guy and claims that almost everything gives them dysphoria and wears skirts (I ditched him after he started wearing skirts in public) Even left an LGBT+ youth club because of these types of people (Best decision tbh couldnt stand them going on and on about this sort of stuff)

[@elizabethruby-cunningham6028]

I like how explain all of this making it understandable. Thank you.

[@Elsa-sb6bz]

For me it is a common thing seeing women rather wanting to live a life as a man, and I guess it is because as a society we still kind of view men as more confident and "cool". I myself struggled with that (that doesn't make me trans at all, don't get me wrong) but I think we should just learn to accept that just because we are one gender that shouldn't define someone in any way because personality goes far beyond that.

[@gingeralice3858]

Men don't get pestered by society the same way women do. Most men will never experience sexual harassment unless they find themselves behind bars. It's normal when a man doesn't want to settle down at 30 but weird for an 18 year old woman to not want multiple kids and a husband in the next couple years. When a guy acts feminine, people think he's gay. When a girl acts masculine, she must be transgender, or "in denial of her womanhood." A man can have multiple dates before deciding who he wants to spend his time with, a woman who does the same is demonized by both sexes over it. The pressure is so intense for young women I can see why so many look for a way out. Sadly we can't opt out of reality no matter how hard we try.

[@Szaruta_Rawr]

It seems there’s a confusion between actual gender and gender ‘style’. For example: A girl likes the style of and feels more comfortable in boy’s clothing, but thanks to social media they believe they’re trans, because all trans men dress like men and used to be women, so she must be trans. There seems to be a lack of understanding of what it means to be a man or woman, and basing it on stereotypes (hair, makeup, beards, clothing etc), rather than a psychological need to physically change the body (actually transitioning).

[@turdferguson9356]

when you read about the sterilization programs of the past and realize what we're doing to confused kids here in the west is eerily similar

[@hgbugalou]

People are toxic. EXACTLY. It has nothing to do with your gender. If you are a jerk, you can be a man jerk or a woman jerk.

[@neomehollow1391]

Oml... I quite litterly just had a child. 3, 5, 7, 9 years ago even i was confused about ny gender. I hated the gender i was. The only thing that kept me from seeking a transition was the cost. The nore people (family) told ne the gender i was the mire i wanred ro fight it. It's a scary thought to think i could have gotten sterilized (when really my hatred was for my mother) and missed the opportunity to have a little of my own... I... I dont know how i would have lived eith ntself if i mase such a blunder. I didn't need to be the opposite sex. I just couldnt let myself turn out like my mother...

[@janesmith8050]

Thank you Marcus for another great video. I’m wondering if you are seeing the connection between not only the social contagion of identifying as non-binary, but also the influence of things like internet pornography, testosterone increasing the sex drive, and the desire for “bottom growth” as factors in the explosion of women calling themselves “non-binary”?

[@nickname2935]

I think it's rather the other way round. Women identifying out of womanhood to escape the unwanted sexual attention. Marcus had a video a while ago, where he said it made sense for SA-survivers with serious trauma to present as undesirable as possible.

[@donnastokes-manning6175]

I wouldn’t want to go through life trying to wonder what strangers think of my outward appearance as being male, female, or neither. Life is short enough and much more important things matter. Like making sure I treat other people I don’t know with the respect I would like them to treat me with. If they do not, then it can be reciprocal. But I am not laying awake at night wondering if the person who winked at me at Walmart thought I was a certain gender or not. I need my sleep.

[@naomiberrios138]

Love that people can decide to take these drastic measures to transition when not mentally okay at such a young age but, I, someone who is sane & 21 years of age can’t get my ovaries removed until age 25 & even then it would still be complicated due to “child bearing age” -_- … I want to get them removed as I already have 1 child and definitely don’t want more but also the fact that I HAVE to be on birth control to control PCOS.. I don’t want to be on birth control but THEY WON’T TAKE MY OVARIES !!!!!!

[@MrPAULONEAL]

There's Klinefelter's Syndrome.

[@pickledpixel]

You know how to diagnose these confused people far better than any of these so-called Doctors. It's genuinely sad but I'm really thankful to of found your channel. You have taught me so much about true transgenderism and what goes through the process of it.

[@IZaubermausI]

I‘m 51 and obviously too old to understand this…. how can you be non-binary and in „manhood“ at the same time??? 🤔

[@roviejohnfuenteslim5059]

Big salute to you, to Blaire and Buck! You guys are the real deal anchoring the reality from the truth! Lovelots

[@CaraHTheRealCie]

I believe I'm a non-organic tree. I used to believe being non-organic was toxic, but now I embrace my artificial tree-ness. This statement makes about as much sense as what Person With Giant Nose Ring was saying.

[@olsenn85]

If I was a teenager now I would be definitely going through transition right now. I am glad I worked on my co fusion without presence of TikTok in my life.

[@cherrycotapie]

4:05 I GOT JUMPSCARED WHEN U SAID خلاص 😭😭😭😭😭

[@celiohelder1]

Why does it mean?

[@cherrycotapie]

@@celiohelder1 it means enough in arabic.

[@annamossity8879]

I’ve heard him say it several times. Thanks for the translation.

[@thetwelfth9987]

“I believe in expansive bovinity, I always felt like I could never be a real cow but I always knew I had 4 stomachs instead of 1, now thanks to my moo-affirming septum I can show the cattlephobes I too can chew grass and produce a gallon of milk per day.”

[@mmacarty701]

Doctors should be being sued by detransitioners thats the way to stop this mess.

[@Joker-zl9ng]

I know I’m late… but I’m enamored with that nose ring can anyone say “Mooo”

[@willbrashear]

I love watching Marcus's videos. He is always telling reality to transgender crowd. Need to look up that study that just came out with like 47% are Narcissists (I would say more).

[@annamossity8879]

Can you tell us what study so we can look it up?

[@paulineb66]

This “identity” doesn’t even make sense logically.