"Trans Women's V*gin*s Are Superior" Trans Guy Reacts To DELUSIONAL LGBTQ TikToks

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[@marcusdib]

Thank you all for your Super Thanks! You have no idea how much I appreciate it

[@demonia2848]

You make so much sense. Thank good you are defendi common sense. I have noticed how TikTok is the major platform supporting these delusional people.

[@dukehorndrake5525]

@@demonia2848 TikTok is a platform that's full of creeps and weird people and stupid content, so it doesn't surprise me. But when some people allegedly from the LGBTQ community are doing that sh*t, it's made to look they're the only ones and that it's way worse. These tiktoks are are bad, dont get me wrong. But sadly, many times someone conservative is trying to justify their intolerance, it's these tiktoks that they show. At least that's what I've experienced. That's just wrong, you can't judge a whole group of people by TikTok videos. ^^

[@alexandercastro9782]

Hey hey, I was born in 84 , raised in the 90s in Dallas TX, and was in a circus family from Colombia, believe me when I say that I've seen this stuff my whole life. And what I remember from the 90s was all the "phobia' talk wasn't around! It's crazy, of course there were "weirdos" and "freaks" ( I was one of them) but there wasn't a push for anything, to normalize it. It isn't normal, in the circus, there wasn't a lot of normal shit going on. Nowadays Its too much trying to force people to accept or not accept a lifestyle, I figure just leave people alone. The 90s were dope, like your content. Take care.

[@amandatucker6334]

Even back in the 90's when I was in middle school and highschool the gay kids were so awesome. They were just relaxed and free. They were kind and not full of labels. They were just normal people. I miss normal gay.....

[@sayjay26]

The labeling is to make them feel inclusive because they are "Transgender" everyone must do a cartwheel for them. Celebrate yourself, you are the only one that matters. But for many everyone else must be labeled😕😕😕, yes, whatever happened to the fun times where a Man could put on s dress or a woman could dress more masculine and it was just him or her having fun. The #TransPoliticalBullies have made it about their agenda, nothing about the true journey of true Transgender Teens/Young Adults and Adults.

[@CyberMachine]

They can't transition out of their misogyny

[@ellie698]

They don't want to, they're very attached to it

[@mrslilD06]

TRUTH

[@medicine2202]

Well put 👏

[@Secretname951]

Women chat shit about each other all the time, it’s a very feminine trait.

[@phillyjawn8559]

That is a BAR!!!!

[@moonprincess_xoxo]

that guy who wanted a princess party actually made me sad. i feel so bad for him. its so clear that theres something totally else wrong. :(

[@vegetashairline3060]

yes, he reminds me of my brother who has autism, the difference is that i look after him and would never let anyone take advantage of him like that. If we are being real the guy is just lonely, and needs someone around him to work through his problems, because he isnt well.

[@wplains]

He’s mentally ill. I just wonder who the hell payed for his surgery?

[@nodiggity8746]

i could give him a princess party no problem. but a surgery, no. i don't understand how he could be operated on

[@bradentripp8141]

It would certainly make sense to at least attempt other forms of treatment before undergoing this procedure. Patients need to have ALL the information about the procedure as well as complications or possible outcomes of this surgery. It's very hard to cure a mental health issue with a physical surgery. Alot of times the dismorphia remains afterwards. I know many people who have had wonderful results and it has made a very signifigant change in their lives. But I know more who did not get the solution they expected. The fact that we have gotten to the point where these surgeries are done with such a minimal evaluation or without attempts at other types of treatment first is insane. These are people's lives that are completely changed sometimes for the better sometimes for the worse.

[@user-ts2ug1il7c]

I'm autistic and he very much seems autistic to me. And this is just a wild guess but he also seems to have experienced trauma in his childhood as well and instead of getting help for said trauma they did this

[@clarephillips8552]

You are right about the 80's. I was a teenager and the 'gender bending' was radical. Men could dress in a way considered feminine, and women in a masculine way. We fought gender stereotypes and homophobia. I fear we have gone backwards, and it has to change. As quite a masculine presenting woman, I actually worry that people will think I'm a trans man, or ask me my pronouns.

[@teresaodle857]

I agree

[@the_once-and-future_king.]

I grew up in the 80s. We didn't care if people were straight, gay, lesbian, or bi. Listening to The Communards or Erasure wasn't frowned upon because the tunes were banging! As long as you weren't a dickhead, you were good. I knew a couple of people who were like 'I'm gay!' And the rest of us were like 'Oh, OK', and they looked shocked that it wasn't a Big Deal. Oh, and everyone could take a joke. Everyone took the Mickey out of everyone else and everyone laughed because we all knew there was no malice.

[@nineteenfortyeight6762]

Dang I miss the 80s

[@mikewade777]

Was a teenager in the 80s, it was gender bender or queer, now I get called a transphobe. ln my local by an obvious transtrender... I never transitioned because of being dominantly hetero and very much enjoy my reel female company, but unlike this trender guy, I can still pull it off. Got a lot of laughs from the locals when he called me a transphobe, this trender had no idea I was there earlier sat at the bar and went home and changed for one of my lady friends who turned up. Called me a transphobe because i said ''no homo''.... I hate being touched by men as a trans female, and strangers(men) when i'm just straight male. Forever pre-op because I can't have my cake and eat it.

[@ophilianecr]

The unnecessary labels to box EVERYTHING wasn't around even in the 2000s in the lgbt community. You could call yourself androgynous and not confirm to gender stereotypes without the need to be nonbinary or transmasc/ transfemme and "trigender"🤦🏻‍♀️. You could just be queer and reserved with sex, without the need to be "demisexual, demiromantic" or "ace- gynoromantic". Neoqueers really are so "concerned" with "fighting against gender norms" that they're making entire sub categories to box themselves into and pretend it's "liberation". 🤦🏻‍♀️ I'm in my mid 30s, and I remember when myself and my queer and trans friends were outraged over the "tumblerqueers" starting to use neopronouns and making a mockery of the binary trans experience. The actual trans community was angry that their need to transition wirhin the gender binary was being insulted by the "nonbinary" as trans!!! It was well known in the late 2000s that those people existed solely on tumbler along with furries and otherkin. They weren't taken seriously in LGBT spaces. But this was also around the time that being marginalized and oppressed became social currency instead of something to actually fix.

[@luluc6867]

“…designer, expensive, bougie coochie” 😂😅 YOU HAVE AN OPEN WOUND THAT NEEDS TO BE DILATED CONSISTENTLY OR IT WILL CLOSE UP, & SOMETIMES CAUSES OTHER COMPLICATIONS And yet somehow that is superior to those that are biological made, smh 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@exintrovert1337]

Those bougie coochies still don’t know what they are missing out on. There is no way that thing feels as good for them as this thing feels for me… 😏🫢 I know I know, unnecessary nastiness. I’m just mirroring them to them. It’s exactly what they sound like and what they invite when talking like that.

[@AyylmaoCrashOut]

*GAG* Ugh excuse me….

[@arima_song]

Some even have hair inside, my goodness

[@villapulla]

I'm 24 and I also feel optimistic that this social climate will pass. It's reaching a tipping point and many regular people are getting fed up with the labeling and language policing

[@zioledeux8217]

Exactly

[@personalgoogleaccount9694]

It'll be after the next global war. Trans dogma is a symptom of decadence. Something that has been afforded to Us by the peace we've been able to maintain. But after the next real war, people will no longer have the luxury entertaining this nonsense. People will only have time and energy to put into rebuilding society, there will be a wide rejection of this along with anything that runs counter to that.

[@nthgth]

One can only hope.

[@zephsmith3499]

I too really hope so. The problem is that this ideology has become institutionalized in many places - there are people in charge today whose power and status (and sometimes finances) would be badly impacted if this craze ends. Both specifically having power around this issue (eg: somebody working in the gender affirmation industry) and people who just more broadly benefit from or are deeply invested in Critical Social Justice (CSJ) ideology and thus must support queer theory and gender ideology as a component of that (eg: a diversity officer). In many companies, non-profits, and professional organizations there is some kind of social justice committee (it could be called that or diversity etc) to which these issues are deferred, and the committee is usually populated with the most ideologically invested people who live and breath the ideology. Anybody not "on board" who tried to join the committee will be hounded out. So something like a professional organization for Chemistry can issue statements deeply infused with CSJ ideology, from such a committee - and people who just want to focus on chemistry don't have much incentive to make it their life's work to counter such a committee, especially since it would probably ruin their career doing what they care about. Basically, I'm saying that the ideology takes on a life of its own inside institutions, via mechanisms which are not subject to democratic control from the members of the organization. They can go against the popular will, and harm anybody who falls out of line. If candidates for the organization's "diversity committee" were elected (and re-elected) by the membership to that position, it would be far easier to oust them. But that's almost never the case. TL;DR: It's hard for sane individuals with a regular life to counter zealots who obsessively seek power and who band together to keep it. Just losing popularity is not enough to remove entrenched interests, it take an active counter-attack, which few ordinary people want to mount.

[@villapulla]

@@zephsmith3499 very good points

[@NamiHeartilly]

My best friend in high school had short hair and wore baggy clothes and she said several times that she wished she'd been born a boy, mostly because she didn't like being seen as feminine. Three years later in college, she became more confident, grew her hair out and started dressing more feminine. She now has two daughters. That was in the early 2000s. If that was today, she probably would have been encouraged to transition and wouldn't have been able to have children.

[@newsing33]

💯👏👏👏

[@YG-ki9wk]

Literally me… so glad I made it out alive

[@theresabashford1726]

This could be my story fortunately I was a tom boy back in the 1960s , I wanted to be a boy, depression, anxiety oldest child and parents who rowed a lot and dragged me in, a mother telling me to lie, grew up with secrets and lies, secrets I still not completely remember. I believed if I was male I could protect my little sister better and could stand up to my mum more. To be a boy back then I would not have to cut my hair, male rock stars had lovely long hair. In my early teens I discovered being female was actually quite nice and I was mostly happy as I was, and quite happy with my shape, especially my long legs. But I am concerned if I was a young person today would have ended up transitioning , which would have been wrong for me. Though back in the 60s and 70s girls could be Tom boys, boys could wear dresses and make up no questions, we all had dressing up boxes. Rubbish mother I might have had but nobody said 'your a girl play with dolls', I played with cars. My sister a girly girl, played with dolls loved babies me the opposite, me hated dolls and babies, yet I'm the one who got married and had children. Look at the music then The Kinks ' Lola', Dave Bowie's ' Rebel, Rebel '. Mick Jagger wore Marianne Faithfuls dress at the Hyde Park corner gig in memory of Brian Jones. Things were loose no one cared, no labels you were not this or that you were you. So in my 60s I am female, but still occasional get my boy days, Though wonder how much is due to my physical disabilities, damaged spinal cord ( rear ended by an idiot in a car ), and osteoarthritis suddenly come on in my knee and hip, plus depression and anxiety, changing who I am is all that stands between me being able to go out the front door. We should all be free to be who we want to be, but children should not be given these drugs to change who they are, as it might not be who they really are. We don't let kids get tattoos until 18, or drink until 18 in the UK ( 21 in USA ) or drive a car, vote be sterilised etc because they are not old enough to comprehend their decisions so how can they be able to fully comprehend what the drugs will do. Let them go through puberty, males could then get sperm frozen or women eggs stored so if they do change gender they could still have biological children through surrogacy . I believe once upon a time to change sex you had to have lots of psycho therapy to be sure that you really were born in the wrong body and did not have some other psychological problem, The medical profession are in many cases not doing their job properly and those would do get labeled anti trans and the backlash against them is really bad. Live and let live and stop putting label's on people, and don't push your beliefs on other people, be kind and support those who ask for help and remember it might not be body dimorphism but other mental health issues that need help.

[@thaismarques7557]

When I was 11, I spent one whole year wearing winter jacket because I wanted to hide my growing boobs (I’m from Brazil…picture this 😅). I also hated dresses and makeup. If I had grown up today, someone would certainly label me as non-binary or trans man.

[@aimzjane3548]

I wanted to chop off my boobs when they came in, I wanted to stay flat chested and stay a tom boy. I'm so over joyed I kept my boobs, they helped feed my 4 babies

[@J174T]

I am from Taiwan, where I am from, many disabled people ( physically/ mentally) don’t want to be treated differently. They all have jobs and don’t use their disabilities as an excuse. I am proud of them.

[@denisesurber8176]

That is so admirable. Strong people.

[@h.dungore839]

It’s same everywhere. It’s just this new gen a generation on tiktok whose using “disabled” as an excuse to be mean, rude, and lazy that’s expecting sympathy from everyone🤷‍♀️ like people on tiktok are pretending to have Tourettes for god sake🤦🏽‍♀️and idiots using tiktok are watching those videos and promoting them by giving them views🤷‍♀️

[@inthelandofmorethansmall7582]

That's how it used to be here in America. 😢

[@user-ld4xq9nh3s]

That's how it should be, and respecting each other, the trans community has now pushed this to the edge . It's sad, and the thing is not all trans are like this they just want to live their lifes like most people do .

[@h.dungore839]

@@user-ld4xq9nh3s I agree!The only “trans” I see being offended in every other conversation you have with them are the one who are tiktok influencers and seeking for attention🤔 like some are even offended when you identify them correctly and use their proper pronouns 🤦🏽‍♀️🤷‍♀️ cuz they want the ability to tell you instead of you guess it correctly 🤣

[@hurtingfeelingsdaily]

42 year old hetero woman with a lesbian daughter. Im so happy i never pushed anything on my daughter. She came out when she was ready and i bought the cake to celebrate. I wish these trans people could be just proud of who they are without waging war against people who dont agree. Love this commentary ❤❤

[@heatblast876]

How your daughter becomes homosexual, can you tell.

[@marie-michelleanderson2851]

​@@heatblast876 What are you saying?

[@lizzymccormic3328]

Could we just not know who they have sex with? 😂 I never told my mom "hey! I fucked a man today!" 😂

[@aabracadavra]

​@@heatblast876 The exact same way people become heterosexual.

[@jimmywall7325]

Wage war against people that don't give a damn about you. People that don't know you and don't want to know you... Is that why you have to look stupid? For attention?

[@LenaClaire91232]

The second guy broke my heart a little tbh. This person is clearly in pain and needs psychiatric help, but instead of working with him and helping him, doctors just gave him surgery and sent him on his way to make a fool of himself. Society is so fucked smh

[@annem9195]

It was so sad, this person just seems broken. No idea what their life has been like, maybe there have been “issues” long term, maybe they’ve been an absolute ratbag to others but to live that life? Who on earth could believe this person is capable of “informed consent”? Some medical people should NOT be working in the field, let alone with vulnerable patients like this one. They sell an unattainable ideal, a pipe dream & leave these mentally & physically damaged people to deal with the aftermath. Then, if for some reason the person decides to detransition, the “community” condemns them! Tragic, the whole debacle.

[@suitdoggy4707]

I find it so heart breaking because if he was requesting any other kind of life altering surgery under different circumstances they would have gave him proper therapy.

[@Keralasha444]

No he’s scary, he’s a real life freak. He definitely needed a castration

[@Missmurder8905]

I agree… they seem “off”… mentally, like there’s other shut going on…. Ugh makes me sick.

[@gispaAPRN]

I saw that. I saw that deeply. I’m a nurse, I worked on a floor where we would occasionally have gender affirming surgeries. One of them was just like this. She/he signed the consent to have m2f surgery, had the surgery, came back to the floor, and then the next morning started screaming in terror. Several of us came running down the hallway and burst through the door, afraid that maybe his sutures burst open. There was blood everywhere, but it was because he had been trying to search for his former penis, which had been removed (obviously). She/he started screaming that we took his manhood and that he was a man, and we explained that he had elected to have the surgery. He replied with, “but I thought it was just going to be tucked in!” The nurse on the shift before me CLEARLY heard the physician explaining the surgery in detail to this patient.

[@DrWondertainment821]

The "doctors" who did this to the Dylan fan should be thrown in prison. It takes 2 seconds to realize they're not mentally sound enough for that decision.

[@nah7656]

Honestly it’s so sad

[@chloedemure]

Agreed, i feel so sad for this person. Breaks my heart. I am scared there is going to be a lot of broken people over the next generation

[@xena6894]

As a doctor (non-american) , I am frightened to see the state by american doctors' ethics. You don't need a medical or psych degree to see that "princess" person is mentally ill and needs help , beyond the 'gender' stuff. I wonder why the NHI would let this happen without more oversight.

[@kathyyore309]

Thank you! It's a crime. Mutilation of a body,and brainwashing to boot

[@mayonnaiseonanescalator7237]

Some doctors only care about money, not the well-being of the patient (which is unfortunate) :(.

[@WHlTESPACE]

As a trans guy i am absolutely disgusted at these “trans” people.

[@lurji]

same. im always so glad to find others like me in this community because i always feel alone

[@AshDenArt]

​@@lurji Same here. Shit is unbearable. Thank God for Marcus being the voice of reason. Hope you guys are doing alright.

[@brokentulip2444]

I knew a man in Las Vegas who had bottom surgery wayyy before it was really popular. He was very depressed because he thought of himself as a man now and said no one wanted him anymore. Very Very sad. I still wonder about him still today. His hurt never left me.

[@ernestinebyrne9912]

Sweetie it was so nice to see your video. I’m a 70 yo lady. I grew up when being a woman was second class. My lot in life was to go to college, get a degree, teach until I got married or even after. I chose a different path. I dropped out of college after two years. I got interested in equal rights, both for people of color and for women. I experienced loads of sexual harassment in the 70s and 80s, even a bit in the 90s. After that I had an issue with some men at work who didn’t feel a woman should supervise men. I fought hard as a woman and I’m glad I did. Things have changed a lot. But now I am seeing such disgusting things that I feel women are being attacked. I see trans women who make a mockery of womanhood with their stereotypical mannerisms. It is mo different than the attitudes men have had forever about women. They are ditsy, shopaholics, liars, cry babies, flaunting their bodies, and so on and so forth. It is disgusting to see people who say they love women so want to be a woman and they portray women this way. THAT IS NOT US! I am thankful I’m old and will die soon if this is how our world is becoming. I fought too hard for womanhood to sit by and see this farce. Obviously these men don’t know what a woman is, only their antiquated ideas.

[@goo_2gle]

"They are ditsy, shopaholics, liars, cry babies, flaunting their bodies" its only ok when ciswomen do it. sucks to be you that you had to fight for everything back in 18th century but if you look at modern culture everything you list is being done by "regular" women and now you are mad that people living today have it light years better than you did. Hurry up and pass away already

[@Ursaminor31]

Dearest, thank you. Huge love and honour to you, and oh btw you will live for a very long time, in fact as long as you choose. ⚡️⚡️⚡️

[@theartistcherrypi6454]

You’re a real woman and I appreciate your post.

[@siouxsielvr]

Thank you for sharing your experience! I’m hopeful this “phase” won’t last too much longer. We actual women are strong and resilient! TikTok has provided a platform/echo chamber for every narcissist out there, and eventually people will see through their bullsh*t. It’s like all these woke ideologues forgot where they came from! So shameful.

[@goo_2gle]

@@siouxsielvr fully delusional women are the opposite of resilient and strong. You are thinking about men who have endured millennia and have had women tag along because they are useless by themselves

[@positivepenny5477]

I'm autistic, which is technically a disability, and I have a job and I've always had one since I was 16. I actually own a house, but my mom comes over once a week to help me put the house back together because I struggle to keep everything clean while always holding a job and taking care of groceries and everything. She's the best. I couldn't imagine how entitled I'd have to be to treat my mom the way that girl does. She's using her disability as an excuse to be a bad person.

[@kodyghost]

My job is a tougher type of job where there's a lot of strenuous work and serious responsibility involved. I have both a physical and a mental disorder, I take 7 pills a day, (lmao,) I work with someone who uses a wheelchair, and a man with a learning disability who has a caregiver that helps him with things while he's at work. No one is rude to us and our job is super accommodating. There's also someone at my work who kinda looks and kinda acts like that blue haired person.

[@priscillaspets]

some people don’t appreciate what they have and always want more

[@rabbadidi7385]

Exactly. I'm disabled physically and autistic and I feel so greatful when my mum visits and just randomly decides to help by doing the dishes or something. A bit of help can go a long way

[@missfoxglove8989]

@Witchy Bitchy Nikki it will be okay, it sounds like you did an excellent job raising them, they did make it to college after all. My son has Phelan Mcdermid syndrome and Autism spectrum disorder. His chances of achieving anything remotely looking like independence is next to 0, unfortunately. He's quite literally missing the part of the chromosome that enables short term memory building so as soon as he learns something, he regresses and loses it. I'm sure your eldest will do quite well with a great mom like yourself. **hugs**

[@missfoxglove8989]

@Witchy Bitchy Nikki I wish he had better odds. But by the looks of the support group for Phelan Mcdermid syndrome I'm in, it is quite bleak as none of their children have achieved independence as adults. I'm doing my best with the hand that was dealt to us. I feel the worst part is that I have to mourn the motherhood I thought I'd have and not get to experience the joy of hearing him say "mommy". I've only ever heard him say mama 2 times since he began babbling. But he has no problem saying "dada", I feel so petty for being envious of my husband and upset with him for taking it for granted. I've still got a lot of work to do on my healing. 😞

[@judesanchez390]

I have schizophrenia and consider myself nonbinary. Not only have I been able to carry jobs, I don't push my lifestyle on others. The state of this society is sad, and hopefully we can get through it. Awesome video.

[@Jimmy94411]

Sex is binary. Get help.

[@KhmerTarotReading]

i hope you are doing well dear ❤😂 Sex or Binary or not Like this person mentioned he or she didn’t push their lifestyle on other people

[@Jimmy94411]

@@KhmerTarotReading just say you’re a dumb twat, we get it, incel

[@wintermoon7003]

As much as I can't stand people calling themselves nonbinary, I will still say that it is your right! I don't care what you want to do to yourself, call yourself, and how you want to live your life as so long as you're not infringing on other people's rights or pushing yourself onto others. And not just you personally but in general. But the biggest reason why it annoys me more than anything is because when you call yourself nonbinary, you're saying that women can't like masculine things or lean in the masculine direction, or for men, be feminine. According to nonbinaries, they feel that way because they think that gendered stereotypes are being pushed on them. For females, little girls playing with dolls, wearing dresses and what not. But that's not the case at all. You can be a female and still like football. Still like army men. Back in my day, these girls were called tomboys. We weren't nonbinary. So why can't you just say that you're a tomboy? Because otherwise, you think very stereotypically because you're basically saying that girls only like girl things and boys only like boy things. So to me, calling oneself nonbinary is utterly ridiculous because there's no law, nothing written in stone, that little girls have to be feminine and little boys have to be masculine. They can be the opposite and still be the sex they were born as. This whole nonbinary thing just really gets under my skin. Again, call yourself what you want, I'm just trying to understand the thought process behind it because to me, it's illogical based on what I have mentioned.

[@1tommyday]

No one is non- binary dear. It isnt a logical label and it doesn't serve a purpose other that being trendy. It's impossible as humans to be " non binary". Anyone can call themselves that of course, but its not true or accurate because it's impossible.

[@jennyrabbit4643]

Marcus! You are Gen X at heart, luv. Hands down. Your sharp sense of humor and your sense of *honor* are all about Gen X. (I'm Gen X, so I mean this as a compliment.)

[@vertibirdfpv]

Finally found someone in the “community” with a brain. I am detrans and I am sick of all of this. I was broken and my fantasy way of healing was transitioning and doctors just went “yup! Take these” and I went on Estrogen like right out of the gate. Four years later I regret everything and all that I put my family through. This culture needs to cool down.

[@janetscrivener7915]

Keep speaking up!! Your voice is important.

[@HackerActivist]

Thats what I thought trans was. An escale from reality. Like a drug. No offense

[@arlettasloan6453]

I'm sorry you went through that.

[@mishab3567]

you are not a trans and will never be! Stop pretending to be one and spoil the life of actual TRANS people!

[@Kathleen-vl5ws]

I hope you're doing better now. I hope you're healing.

[@theriansadventure]

Just the label “cis” really offends me. All my life I’ve been a woman…why do I need cis when trans people already have the trans part? Oh Markus, it will get better but only because you clearly speak truth and facts from a trans perspective. Without your voice, this can’t get better, please don’t stop.

[@kalen2465]

Rebecca save yourself from unneeded stress and ignore those people. If someone that isn't trans is throwing the word cis around. Usually it's to score brownie points with the woke crowd. Just ignore them

[@Trendygal8]

It’s annoying that wanting to be labeled as a woman&feeling uncomfortable w/ cis is “transphobic”when literally EVERY OTHER LABEL is validated&demands respect🤦🏾‍♀️Like how is that fair?! Also I WANT people to assume my pronouns&gender😂I’m clearly a woman so if I’m asked my pronouns I’ll be paranoid, like “wait do I look manly😳know I skipped makeup today but do I really look THAT bad?!”

[@gothica3605]

@@Trendygal8 that was me when I was at the hospital for surgery. They had asked me for my pronouns despite them asking if I had the possibility of being pregnant and discussing my birth control. The fact that I have to mention what my gender was after all that made me internally facepalm.

[@Grimreaper977]

@kalen2465 it is fun to use when mocking the stance of those kinds of people. For example, if someone makes an "incorrect" statement, then I usually reply sarcastically. "That is just because you're a cis-gender X. Thus, your views don't count" XD

[@popvitamin]

It rings heavy for many that were bullied with sissy for years. It's a derogatory label imo.

[@JoJo-fan-right-here]

I’m 13 but when I was younger (6-9 years old) I was a tomboy. I would go play in the mud, have nerf wars, cod, etc. I still do all of those things today (except for the mud) but now I dress way more feminine so I don’t see myself as a tomboy anymore. But if I still dressed how I did even just a couple years ago, people would probably insist that I’m trans and need to go on puberty blockers. I’ve always been “one of the boys” but I like being a girl at the same time. Also, I’m living proof that you could grow out of being a trans kid. I used to hate dresses and skirts and having long hair, but now I love all of these things! I could go from playing black ops 3 (the best cod) to sewing a dress within the same hour and I love that about me. Not that sewing is a strictly feminine thing, but it’s definitely something more feminine than masculine.

[@rachelwalker1135]

You are very smart for a 13 year old. I was/am a tomboy (now in my 50s). I really worry that if I was a child now I would have questioned my own identity simply because it seems that if you don't fit into the traditional woman role then you must, at the very least, be non-binary. This is actually going against what women have been fighting for, for generations. It is giving in to what society expects. We should, instead, be fighting for a change in how society sees what women should feel like, or what a male should feel like. If I feel a certain way, and I am a female, then obviously it must be a genuine female feeling/interest. Of course, this is different to genuine body dysmorphia where someone feels uncomfortable in the body they were born in, like Marcus Dib. That is why his message is SO important. Keep being strong, keep being you!

[@JoJo-fan-right-here]

@@rachelwalker1135 Thank you! And I agree, it’s confusing how we’ve gone backwards into rigid gender roles. If you don’t fit into them, you’re either trans or a pick me and you’re gonna get bullied 😭

[@saaimafit]

I am 24, and I remember being in middle school saying things to my friends and it didn't matter. now you gotta consider EVERYONE'S feelings or you could get cancelled

[@rainbowsnugglefritz]

I'm 40. When i was growing up in the 80s and 90s we were taught that we don't need labels. It was cool to not label yourself. I just can't wrap my head around the labeling obsession.

[@wheatstonebridge]

It makes sense when you think about it. This generation is highly immature and entitled. Immature and entitled people cannot see past themselves.

[@zephsmith3499]

It gets very strange if you (politely, quietly) visit the online spaces where young people go to discuss their identity questions. There are lots of questions like "I thought I was XXX but then I discovered I'm really YYYY, except that I feel ZZZ at times, so maybe I'm really a combination of ZZZZ and AAA, is that right? How can I tell?". I sympathize and I'm glad I didn't grow up in that subculture today. The idea that one might just be a human, of a certain biological sex, and with certain traits which may or may not be typical, just isn't offered to them. Their social context has them trying to define themselves through the intersection of a set of changing group stereotypes, rather than as individuals with individual traits. Rather than being, say, a girl who doesn't want to jump into sex right away, they can identify as a "demi-girl". If you just say you don't went to get into sex until you have an emotional connection, that can be criticized as prudish and unhip. But if it's part of your sacred _identity_, other people in the group are at least *supposed to* honor that. After all, identities are based on (supposedly) naming what you already "are" and thus cannot choose or be criticized for, rather than being a choice (like about when you have interest in sex). It's a way of reframing things which TBH feels very disempowering, even tho it's sold as the opposite. But if you are young and going through all the difficulties, and that's what everybody else is doing....

[@cuteohsocold]

It was still like that when I was a teenager in the mid to late aughts. It was actually looked down upon to label yourself, which was also somewhat annoying but still way more freeing than this obsession with labels.

[@melissamurray8307]

Same here.

[@jacquelinekelly5261]

I'm older than you, and even when I was young there was no need for labels people just thought you do you. And nobody really cared, Why everyone has to have a label now is just beyond me

[@psugal6477]

As a disabled woman, I never use the "disability" excuse. There is a transabled movement (people identifying as disabled that are not disabled) and it is incredibly offensive to actual disabled people. They claim they are not doing this to be a burden, but we are not burdens and they are actually being burdens because they do not need accommodations or wheelchairs since they can walk.

[@natesportyboy4939]

There's an actual subset of that movement called the "transautistic" movement. Basically, they think you can "become" autistic, you know, just like the anti-vaxxers used to say. I would never change my being autistic for the world, but I am NOT going to let imposters make me look bad.

[@allisonmccune9556]

I totally agree! I could only imagine the outrage you feel towards these imbeciles that claim this shit. For example: a perfectly able bodied person chopping off a leg to become an amputee, because “that’s who they actually are”. Meanwhile, a disabled veteran, who is DOUBLE amputee, due to an explosion during combat is wheelchair bound for life. Hmmmm… Seriously, people that are playing that card need to get real. They need to actually go out and see what it’s like to have actual problems and hardships.

[@RavenNicole89]

That’s gotta be some mental health issue stemming from childhood neglect maybe? Such a bizarre phenomenon. Wanting to force others to take care of you. Weeeird! Trans everything apparently…

[@gimygaming8655]

Exactly! I know there will be limitations in what I can physically do since I'm also disabled, but that isn't an excuse to do nothing. Also weird that perfectly normal people are identifying as disabled. Maybe they have a view that "disabled people can't do it and I wanna have a reason to not do it" like that's the only thing I can come up with

[@Twiggymaster666]

The only time I have used my disability as an excuse is to make a disabled joke

[@katherineauber]

I’m so glad I found your page. I’ve been so hurt for months from seeing these kinds of videos. I’m going to be honest here. All I’ve ever wanted was for people to be their authentic selves and be accepted for who they are. In the last 3 months the amount of upsetting things being said about biological women has broken me. It’s affected my self esteem. It was a rabbit hole I wish I never fell down into. Another thing that’s upsetting and I’m sorry to piss anyone off but I saw where a girl asked someone in the comments to stop referring to her as Cis and that she just wanted to be called a woman and that trans person got so offended. Why is it that what she wants to be called isn’t respected ? Trans women want all the respect of proper terminology but not give that respect back? They want to be thought of as a real woman but then go and out themselves by trashing biological women. I’m just lost and I hate that the some of the very people who claim they want unity and acceptance are the very people putting others down.

[@zoep.2891]

Perfectly put!

[@ivandillardmusic2042]

As a trans man I agree with you. There is so much entitlement and not enough basic respect.

[@beckylemm3smash44]

I’m a hairdresser. I used to do this middle aged blokes hair every month he was a really lovely guy I did his wife’s hair a few times and sometimes he would bring his two younger kids too whole family was lovely! anyway after I cut his hair one day and was about to check him out he took out his phone and asks me “do you wanna see something?” With this big excited smile on his face I was like yeah! Of course!! This man shows me photos of him dressed to the NINES wig, glam makeup, stunning dress arm in arm with his wife at a club in our city he told me it’s his hobby and sometimes he and his wife go out together and he dresses up and I was so proud and stoked for him! Best dad ever by day and stunning fashion sense by night! And that’s all it was. There is legit NOTHING wrong with having some fun like you said! But he was still a bloke who lived a normal life he just had a really fun hobby!

[@dudeonyoutube]

Men like him have been stock characters in British comedies since the early 1960s for good reason. Little Britain, Monty Python, Benny Hill, The Carry On movies, etc all have them. It must be traumatic for the poor kids to see their father like that.

[@kathyyore309]

Ours isn't an open wound that keeps trying to heal🤣

[@dreidynn]

Facts

[@silunax]

and we didn’t need surgery to get it!

[@strangespice2996]

Ours doesn’t grow hair inside.

[@ericarmstrong8001]

Like the song says " ain't nothing like the real thing baby." And the movie " the scent of a woman."

[@doeeyes2]

Ours was created by God himself. Not stitched together by some Frankensteinn doctor.

[@Layla109]

Two decades ago (maybe more), people hated being labeled and put 'in a box' but now people are obsessed with labels and constantly seeking validation for said lables... Man, am I glad I was born pre-2000s

[@xxSydneyFox]

Same!

[@FocusedFighter777]

''some people'' SOME

[@bumbygrl]

I know...." Don't label me" was the slogan....they didn't have to explicitly explain why they like what they like or how much like one gender or the other they felt like that day....

[@hastetothepyre]

It's so interesting how "special" and "unique" they want to be, but then putting themselves into boxes they think they belong, so taking away that uniqueness.

[@inesdamonteines3985]

Transwomen are not women, transmen are not men, there are she/ he / it in singular and only they when it's more than one person. Whoever is " it" will be used as any it has been used and tossed away for millenniums when no longer needed , humanity rules do not apply to " it". Trans/ it/ them/ whatever can keep their pronouns all for themselves we will not use them, they don't belong to us. A woman ♀️ or adult Female and a man ♂️ or adult Male don't have to do anything to be what they are, it's just a matter of TIME 🕐. If you do need to do anything to reassemble a woman/ man/ it/ they... then you are not one. So much struggle to get the fake spot!!

[@sarahm.1632]

You have an old soul. This is my first time seeing your content and you articulate your words well , you seem highly intelligent & you’re a breath of fresh air to not hear cis this or cis that too. Thank you for your respectful dialogue.

[@XxDIRTYDANxX31]

Bruh you summed all this perfectly, I don’t have a problem with the people but I do have a problem with the LABLES and them trying to force me to use labels that don’t make any sense. I’m going to call you by your name, I’m going to treat you with respect, but I will not call you something that goes against basic knowledge.

[@Oasis1999]

The princess guy almost made me cry. The system failed him

[@Missmurder8905]

I’m wondering if there’s some kind of age regression, personality disorder or even some kind of autism.

[@lovelife2186]

It did

[@nthgth]

Yeah, I feel for him. Dude need a hug and a real therapist.

[@jessymfwilson]

@@nthgth Needs a psychiatrist and a weeks stay at a facility. Truly heartbreaking.

[@marissashantez6051]

Yeah. Likely he won't even be around long.

[@tonyamell23]

That blue haired girl knows exactly what she is doing, she is not disabled.

[@Trendygal8]

Literally! plus SO many physically& mentally disabled people have jobs! Like no one’s asking you to do manual labor hun u can’t apply for an office job or somewhere else that allow sitting?🙄she’s whining like a baby! Expecting an ADULT to get a job isn’t unreasonable

[@mskaymart]

And has all those piercings 😂

[@elenawilliams32]

Watch the entire Aba and Preach video on it. They're spot on.... And funny.

[@13zaphikel]

@Kandace Finney I have lots of piercings too. I've taken a lot of them out and only have a couple of my favorites in still... BUT I also have had a job the entire time I've been getting my piercings done. That shouldn't have anything to do with being lazy and unemployed.

[@jennifers1040]

Exactly! She/they are obnoxious. Her parent was clearly calling out her bully and toxic behavior. She whined and posted it. I feel bad for her parents smh.

[@jeanettebrazell1269]

I remember fighting against labels. However, people not only have labels but micro labels. People have started segregating everything by labels. I am 54 and I learned by my family all people were equal no matter what.

[@perspgold8945]

The little girl man needs some deep therapy, not a social media platform. This is troubling for him, for kids who will come across him online, and for those in his life who have to financiallu support him.

[@spiritsmemory5515]

I'm actually offended by the little "schizophrenia" girl. I'm highly diabeled. I have several mental illnesses, a service dog, and my parents are legally forced to care for me financially. And I've been working my A$$ off, in order to make money, and taking EVERY possible step in order to learn ANY job so i can somehow provide for myself. That behaviour is just sickening.

[@gay_satan666]

As someone who knew the "schizophrenic" girl. I will reassure (I'm sure it's 100% obvious but thought id still share.) She don't got shit wrong with her. She took anything and everything she could off her friends formally diagnosed disabilities when they confided in her. And she took it and ran to tiktok with it claiming it was hers. So uh yeah. She's not stable clearly. Even stole the "cane look" from my narcolepsy and my use of a cane for leg stability 😅

[@bford5899]

Legally forced to care for you financially? Yikes

[@gay_satan666]

@@bford5899 I mean. It is what it is broski, There are plenty of people who are bound by their families due to physical or mental ailments. It's not something to be ashamed of as you can't control what you can't control. But yes, yikes is right. It's never fun for either party at the end of the day. Hope the original commenter hangs in there 🙏 and anyone else who sees this. Don't feel ashamed of your formal diagnoses due to these stupid ass pick me tik tokers, understand yourself. And support yourself. Love yall

[@underedenxx]

​@Gay_Satan in Canada you can legally relinquish rights for young children. I'm not sure how you could be LEGALLY responsible for an adult.

[@gay_satan666]

@underedenxx Well it'd be their choice to take on the legal responsibility. You can't literally be bound to responsibility like that unless you are choosing to do so. Sorry, I'm a bit high, but I'm not disagreeing with you lol

[@ellie698]

I lived through the 80's You could just be androgynous and NO ONE CARED, some people might comment, but so what, you weren't labelled, it wasn't a fixed identity. You could just be yourself. God I miss those days

[@vonnii1013]

80s kid here and I feel ya..no one said a thing about boy, Anni, grace, david/ rocket man, etc smh I don't get this shit

[@Ripley1994]

Gen X kid who went to HS in the 80s. I think our motto was and its "I don't care." .not in a mean way but its was you do you, I'll do me. Really! Many blessings to you all❤️❤️

[@weswolever7477]

Can we go back, it was a saner time and the music was cool

[@jscho8674]

I'm an 80s kid too, and man, do I ever wish we could go back.

[@vanessaday7349]

The 80’s were the best. David Bowie androgynous, Boy George camp as fuck, men wearing make up, women dressing as men. Labels weren’t accepted, people were. This madness has to stop, so too the hate.

[@chamberpaint]

I’m in my 70s & it’s a joy to listen to an intelligent, warm person like you defending reality. These surgeons need to refer many to a psychiatrist! It’s MONEY instead. TRAs hate Women & the more this goes on the more angry,ugly &competitive they get. “Bonus Hole” for “Woman?”They can’t have our word & we do NOT accept their nasty alternatives. Thanks so much for yr wise videos. I miss the old days more than ever. You’d have loved the open feeling of no rules, no boxes, great laughter, respect & fun we had together. Acceptance & Androgyny was everywhere.

[@bluehammy1]

God bless you, Marcus. You are a welcome voice of sanity on these issues.

[@sofetchxx]

“Narcissism alert.” That little sound plus hand motions were adorable. 😂

[@tessaelto1472]

for real haha

[@yahia9481]

Why most trans r beautiful? R u one ?

[@priscillaspets]

@@yahia9481 😀

[@yahia9481]

@@priscillaspets chill i was talking about faces

[@megangambill2018]

" If you want to help someone, tell them the truth. If you want to help yourself, tell them what they want to hear." -Thomas Sowell

[@megangambill2018]

So I realized that the actual quote is: 'When you want to help people, you tell them the truth. When you want to help yourself, you tell them what they want to hear." -Thomas Sowell I know that what I wrote the first time ( from memory) is basically the same message but a quote shoud be word for word ya know.

[@kennie1814]

5:53 i have loads of mental health issues, and honestly, they can make me an asshole. my BPD makes me clingy and dramatic, my OCD makes me bother people with my compulsions sometimes, my depression makes me a messy downer and my autism makes me insensitive and mean. you know what i don’t do tho? make it other people’s problem. asking people to “understand where you’re coming from” is nice and all, but i actually put in the effort to make my mental health better so that people don’t hate being around me. this person just expects people to blindly endure their BS and that’s not how it should be.

[@esthelaheredia9664]

Please don't EVER stop making content! I absolutely love your videos and you speak truth

[@MathildaFlow]

I remember reading girls’ magazines in the ‘90s and them interviewing plastic surgeons who talked about not operating on people who has mental health issues, like someone who’s obsessed over what they perceive is wrong about their appearance. Because that’s not a good candidate for plastic surgery! That patient has a higher probability of being unhappy with their results. I would say that Dylan’s fan is a person who is much more disturbed than someone who’s just obsessed with the thought of having a smaller nose or bigger breasts yet someone operated on this person. It should be a crime!

[@RudesMom]

And yet at the same time, women of sound mind can't get their uterus removed because someday they might want to have children. We live in clown world.

[@whatever3145]

You really think plastic surgeons say no to people? Honey, how do you survive being this stupid and wrong???

[@TheAdarkerglow]

That person looked traumatized. Like they're trying to be happy, they're going through all the motions that they'd be told they were supposed to, clinging to a stuffed animal and talking about some princess party, while looking physically and mentally distressed. And that is just... so terrible. So tragic. And I really hope someone helps them. However they can be helped.

[@RaccCity55]

A literal child in a mutilated male body.

[@sarahhunter8597]

Omg this poor person needs proper help not just affirmation or unhelpful bullying, my heart goes out to them 😭😭

[@internetperson9121]

I have platonically fallen in love with you since finding this channel just this week. Thank you for your clarity, honesty, and empathy. Words can’t express how impressed I am with your message and tact.

[@petermach8635]

I'm a man that enjoys dressing up, I'm not particulary bloke shaped but I love the cut, the colours and the textures that women's clothes allow me. I don't bother doing at home, it's a social thing and as I make an effort to blend in folk in my area mostly aren't bothered, some even get a bit tetchy if I go to the pub as my regular scruff-bag self ..... but I wonder how long that will continue to be the case, the activists are creating tensions that will surely rebound on others, me included as I'm so public, whilst they move on to the next big cause.

[@redmoondesignbeth9119]

I think that this person got ripped off to pay $35k for something that needs constant repair and has no sensation.

[@veebliss1266]

Hollow hole 😂 from dead penis remains

[@-bella_amy8400]

that was pathetic lol theyll never have real vaginas and pretending theyre better

[@dudeorduuude5211]

Yes. This isn't talked about nearly enough.

[@Britt4770]

No sensation? Wow. Sorry to sound ignorant, I don't know a lot about this topic.

[@redmoondesignbeth9119]

@@Britt4770 Aside from what people have said, it only makes sense. The nerve endings are so delicate and sensitive that if you start cutting down there....nerves are going to be cut.

[@jaylinae8151]

DONT AFFIRM DELUSIONS... the best quote ever!

[@sugaredviolets2085]

I really respect your opinions on this, and how rare it is to see. While I may not agree with you in every sense, the label thing is SO ridiculous now, considering when I was a kid, no one wanted to be labelled. Now it’s mandatory to be accepted into a particular community. Very good video! ❤

[@nikkimurphy1737]

I love your empathy here and you're so right!!! The doctors doing this shit should not be allowed to practice!!

[@JBSRCS]

I am a straight woman in my 50’s but I have two gay sons. I applaud you for your sensibility and intelligence. You are wise beyond your years.

[@heatblast876]

How they become homosexual, can you tell.

[@grenade8572]

@@heatblast876 You don't "become" homosexual, you're just born like this. The same way no one "becomes" straight.

[@annagalas102]

I'm a straight women and find your channel by accident. You a gem, so inteligent. A lot a respect for you.

[@terrycole2407]

Marcus, I have such great respect for you. Yours is a welcome voice of sanity that keeps me informed.

[@WSara77]

I've only been watching your content for a few days now but I must say how impressed I am. As a conservative Christian I was attracted first to your name and decided to watch wondering what I would hear. I also knew you were probably trans from your name but still thought, "Wow, what a handsome young man." I want to say thank you for taking the time to explain the difference in some of the terms like "transexual" and "transgender" and what they really mean. Not these obscure umbrella terms I hear so often. I also want to say thank you for explaining what it really means to be trans and your thoughts on transitioning children, the new "woke" religious community, and how you understand your condition and what that means in reality, for you, and the rest of society. You are very well spoken and not afraid to call out those that have taken your condition and identity on as a new trend. You have said what so many of us conservatives feel. You honestly make more sense than most of these other social justice warriors and trans activists and I am able to respect you so much for that. Keep the videos coming.

[@1974ADHDer]

I'm a 49 year old straight man. And I for one respect the hell out of you for standing up, and telling it like it is, facts and all.

[@Draco19970125]

Another thing what Marcus should stand up to : respect what the word man means. It means an adult human male. Is Marcus one or can be, ever? No. So what is she? A female, a woman.

[@LittleLulubee]

@@Draco19970125 Marcus has already stated, more than once, that he is and will always be, a biological female. He doesn’t deny that.

[@Draco19970125]

@@LittleLulubee Then why does she want to be called as a man? Why did she cut off healthy body parts to appear as the opposite sex? Such self acceptance!

[@doroteapavlovic4949]

@@Draco19970125 So you, a person that supports the gender binary, refuted the gender binary by saying a person who appears as a man, is a woman, that should be called she? If you saw Marcus in the street would you think he was a woman?

[@needtoknowbasis3499]

You're sitting here watching videos and have never met these people. You have no idea if it's even real or not but you're relieved OP is standing up and speaking truth. Turn off your phone amd go about your business. There are 7 billion people roaming around. Why involve yourself?

[@redpanda9367]

I’m a 34 year old straight white guy, my Dad is gay and my sister in law is trans and the state of things breaks my heart for them…my Dad fought for 30 years just to be accepted and left alone but the public representation generally makes a mockery of their very real struggles. It’s honestly demeaning to the cause that these hypocrites claim to be advocates for. Sunshine is the best disinfectant…keep speaking your truths and bringing the BS to light!!

[@Draco19970125]

Another BS is the idea that you can just switch from being man into being a woman, like your brother in law seem to think. Being a woman, a female is literally embedded in our DNA. A male can never be one. I hope your brother in law can learn to accept what he is.

[@NourKLI]

I was 14 and had a transgender in my class it wasn’t an issue😅. Nobody cared and just was chill about it. We didn’t “freak” out. Nowadays it’s a whole circus. It’s sad. They ruin it for the people who truly want to be themselves and just live there lives.

[@apebass2215]

​@@NourKLIwhy is a 14 year old pretending to be the opposite sex? That's concerning.

[@otisjenkinsjr.3556]

Your dad didn't fight for anything. Literally every advancement of the LGBTQ was due to the deaths of black men and women who largely didnt support y'all. Your dad hid in a closet and played pretend(you're alive) while using blacks as a shield. Your dad is a COWARD

[@needtoknowbasis3499]

This is the very thing that was said about your dad. You sit in comfort everyday but somehow slip a tac up your butt because people you don't know are shouting to the world. Let it take it's course and go about your business. Turn off Fox news, because that's how you sound.

[@maggiefollett636]

Carry on with this, dear Marcus! Respect from South Africa.

[@ArisEmriis]

I agree that it's gonna get better too. There are some big cosmic shifts happening and more people are seeking a spiritual life and wanting to heal the world. A big contributor to things getting better, I think, is people like you who are speaking the truth, in love. Thank you for being so genuine, be blessed ❤

[@BHazelton]

I am asexual.I never really developed any kind of sexual attraction. Once I realized that it really made me feel happy. I had always felt unable to fully relate to my peers. I didn't want to even kiss people. I hate that asexual attraction is linked with the whole LGBTQIA alphabet. I am just a person who doesn't experience sexual attraction. I see pride events full of sexual references, innuendo, inappropriate attire and I want nothing to do with it. I think if I were to grow up today with my aversion to anything sexual, there is a good chance that people would try to label me transgender. I didn't want periods, I hated the idea of getting breasts, but it wasn't because I thought I was a boy. It's possible for someone going through puberty to be uncomfortable with their body. It doesn't mean everyone who feels that way is transgender. Now that I am in my mid 30's, I am comfortable with myself. I like dresses and I don't feel the pressure to try and fit in with my peers. I realize that I am not attracted to people in the way most are and that doesn't bother me. Seeing what ideas are being pushed unto kid's these days grieves my heart.

[@chantalwright2582]

Intersting to read your story. So pleased that over time you've understood yourself. Your journey is just that. Enjoy!

[@tulip5210]

Same I just am this way I if anything just want to be associated with the ace umbrella not included in the lgbtqia label. Would honestly prefer to be separated from that, we don’t all have to be one. We are unique in our own way

[@eggboi5338]

Asexuality is very common on females. I am asexual too and i also don't think we are lgbt

[@mysticladytarot7777]

I know how you feel, they're trying to lump autism in now and I am not here for it.

[@BHazelton]

@@mysticladytarot7777 I hadn't heard that. The world is getting stranger by the day

[@cakesmaya1775]

I'm 19 and I'm getting into crossdressing (I'm a chick lmao) - I pack, I bind, my hair is short and I'm trying to see if I can train a voice for when I'm essentially in drag. My best friend is a gay man who's into dresses and fashion. I have to open every conversation I have about my hobby as "I'm not trans or NB" and it's getting tiresome. I've always thought having a different sense of self-expression doesn't make you anything other than what you are and it sucks. I worry that the "femboys are transphobic" crowd are gonna come for my best friend eventually. and all I can really do is keep being me, which is frustrating. I'd like for things to change but I'm just one person.

[@amaranusa]

Tomboys are better than having delusions... And from what i know tomboy is a girls fashion statement back then...

[@babybum6118]

most of these "transgenders" nowadays are just like you but dont realize they're just into cross dressing so they get their genitalia cut off and regret it down the line. Keep being you

[@nthgth]

I'm sure it's distinct from just being a tomboy - which is its own awesome - but the best you can do is probably just stay at your friend's side if he starts getting harassed. He will need people he loves/trusts if that happens. You're right, it *doesn't* make you anything other than what you are. What if you didn't do the "I'm not trans" thing? Just assume they aren't assuming you are, until they say something that means they are assuming it, and then you can be like "..um, what? No, I'm very much a woman...?" To point out blatantly that crossdressing is *not* gender dysphoria.

[@Esperandoonoivo]

Well, I can tell you: when all these things you fear become more important to your friend than your friendship, it is time to find a new path. Your mental health is more important than anyone. Sometimes the world is not how we want, but we can not take decisions for other people, Just for ourselves.

[@exintrovert1337]

The fact that just doing those things means you have to battle being crammed in a box you didn’t put yourself in means something is wrong with society. Sorry you have to deal with that, and your friend too. It would be awesome if stereotypes could just fall away and we could just be people without labels and categories.

[@easyluckyfree1895]

Believing that things are going to get better and that we’re just in a phase is a very 23 year old way of thinking! Great video!

[@cocoabeane789]

Thanks for your kind words at the end about it being a phase. I just had a baby and ive been so worried that others would try to label my child and cause confusion. I just want my baby to be able to live in a world where labels dont matter

[@exintrovert1337]

I have an 8 year old boy who loves pink and rainbows. Everything else about him is very male, and he does not seem to be bothered that he is a boy. The best thing we as parents can do for our children is give them a strong sense of self, and affirm that they are exactly as they were meant to be and that they are awesome. My son picked out a pink coat and sparkly pink backpack for 2nd grade. I told him that a lot of people think those are girl things but it is okay to like what he likes, and no matter what someone likes there will be someone else who has something bad to say about it. He decided to get them and be true to himself. I asked him at a later time how it was going with them and he said that sometimes people say something but he doesn’t care. And now his classmates just accept him as the boy who likes pink. I am fully prepared to have to remind him that his liking pink doesn’t mean that there was some mistake, and he is exactly how he was meant to be. If someone tries to use that as a reason to suggest he might have been supposed to be a girl, I will knock their teeth out. Give your children a strong sense of self and acceptance. It is the best weapon we have, and the most important gift we can give our children.

[@wheatstonebridge]

I'm a woman. I don't get offended by these people. I seriously hope they get the help they clearly need.

[@tadmira127dreamuvtadmir2]

Same, they make me laugh

[@quest4coexistence326]

Fuck labels. I'm a cisgender bisexual bipolar addict alcoholic woman. When I was in my addiction, I was hyperfocused on these, they were my identity, and I wanted kill myself. Now that I'm sober and have made great strides with my mental health, I know that sure these things are a part of my story but they have little to nothing to do with who I actually am. Now, I can honestly say I am happy and excited for the future, but hey that's just me. 🤷‍♀️🤣

[@aleciarebello2913]

"Your disability is not your fault, but it is your responsibility."

[@inelegantlady8633]

You seem quite kind & I just want to thank you for having a kind nature even when it comes to what may be difficult topics. Again, thank you so much for being considerate👍🏼🙂.

[@minnathesinna]

Mary Costner is the reason I feel like some form of psych care should be required before anyone transitions. Those doctors should be sued for malpractice.

[@blackthornsloe8049]

I'm a 53 year old mom and housewife . My best friend of twenty years was a gay man who was twenty years my senior . He has passed and I miss him so badly . The thing I loved about our time together was the laughter . We laughed at ourselves , each other, drag queens ,straight men , straight women . No one was safe . There were no sacred cow pronouns . He took me to the gay pride parade in Toronto once and I could just weep for the crazy , insane beauty of it . The younger kids are a real tight a** drag now . No one's having any fun . Everyone's all aunt Lydia with their cattle prod and their pronouns .

[@EveEremine-tn3jq]

love this comment! this is the true heart of humanity and true connection ! bridging the gaps with levity & warmth & laughter. i am a 27 year old woman who has had a host of gay male friends & roommates. we always connect with humor, nothing is off the table because its always just love and enjoying playfulness and a sense of mischief with each other. nothing but hostility it seems in the current gender conversation...its so enduringly self referential and serious and oh so individually important. what happened to the virtue of being comfortable enough to let your ego fall to the wayside!

[@dw3403]

You two had a great connection as friends. That's wonderful. I have known many gay men that though we could talk etc it didnt really become a friendship. We are not supposed to collect people to prove anything. We are supposed to like them for who they are internally.

[@sharonanderson5794]

You are a very mature, insightful, intelligent young man … you will go far in life. Good on you ❤

[@indelibledotink]

You're a great representation of a young person with your head on straight and who can stand tall. I hope your future is filled with joy and success.

[@skyliner114]

as recent as 2013 the motto was "don't label me, i'm not a soup can." i was in my high school's gay-straight alliance club and the vibes were different back then.

[@kaitlyndismuke9966]

You may only be 23, but you have more wisdom and maturity than most older people nowadays (especially those in these PC/activism communities).

[@taligordin-kaviani1569]

Things are going to get better because of you and people like you who are speaking up and stating the truth. You may be "just" 23, but you're wiser, more mature, and far more courageous than many people who are much older than you. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@angelamccabe6447]

As someone who grew up in the 80s and knew a trans woman pre transition go through the 80s as a teenager I know that the community was not there for them. Thankfully they have transitioned and is living a quite happy life within a wonderful community. But I remember them as a teen and, knowing what I know now, I know they must have struggled so much. The language was not there for them or for us as teenagers. You videos are very informative and I appreciate your honesty

[@happyjoy338]

Seriously the argument for tampon machines in the boys bathroom is ridiculous, people who use them carry them around in their purse it's so stupid, duh!

[@abbye3813]

Ikr plus most women's restrooms in the US don't even have tampon machines and they want them in the men's now🤣

[@LadyBelladonna5]

Plus the products in those machines are just absolutely awful!!!

[@dudeorduuude5211]

Well sometimes you need one and forgot to top up your purse stash. But every woman knows about toilet paper. It is toilet paper that is the emergency period saver, and buys you time so you can slip out at lunch or something do go pick some stuff up.

[@Hexighost]

if you're bleeding out your weiner hole, you need a doctor, not a tampon, urg

[@cadenadelreino1442]

True…I would not take tampons out of these things like….☠️☠️☠️☠️

[@dahela]

It hurts that us past generations fought for a society with no labels and now everyone gets offended if you do not arrive with your 'presentation card' in hand that says 'she/her cis femme lesbian' and claim that is 'liberating' to label yourself, why don't they see that is the opposite?

[@ziam6210]

Marcus thank you for your wisdom. And I’m with your older friends as a gen exer we all hung out in peace and now this movement hijacked everything and creates more division. I really really hope you’re right about it getting better. Thanks for your advocacy.

[@tammsiee]

I appreciate your perspective. I'm a big watcher of other trans youtube channels, I think because I have a friend close to me that I really want to understand better. It really is good to hear as much as you can from other people is what I am learning.

[@navarian4579]

I am 52, I raised my two sons to believe they could be whom ever they wished. My youngest has Auspergers and when he was working through his identity issues people kept telling him he needed to define his gender and he felt really pushed to have a label. Because he felt fluid they kept pushing him to believe he was transgender and so he came out as trans to me, to his grandparents and his biological father as well as his step father. I never judge my children and gave him a few months before sitting down with him and talking to him about identity and what it means, then asked him to explain to me how he came to 'the choice', he explained the journey and I asked him, when you wake up in the morning how do you feel.. he told me, sometimes he feels more masculine, other days more feminine, so I asked him, so you feel like "his name", he said yes, but dont I have to choose a label for that, I told him no, he is who he is, why does there need to be a label for that, if you want to dress feminine one day and masculine the next, does that need to have a label? he told me no, I then asked him, does he feel like he is female all the time, he told me no, and that he really felt cornered about making the choice to be trans because he felt so fluid and people pressured him to make a choice. I told him to tell them to fuck off, just be who he is, what ever that is on that day, Identity is his choice and doesnt need a label, its not about being a gender, its about who he is as a person. He did, he now calls himself his name and realised it was about accepting himself for who he was as a person, not as some sexual identity or label, but if he wants to wear a dress on a day or pants, he does so, its not about changing his body or anything else about who he is, its just about self acceptance of himself as a person. Loving who he is and telling people that their opinions are theirs. He no longer has that weight on his shoulders and is finally secure as a bisexual biological man who dresses how he pleases on any given day, and sometimes he is more masculine, and some days he is more feminine, and he is doing great.

[@mkyriacopolous]

Great to hear!

[@pensacolian211]

I think a lot of it comes down to insecurity. People just not liking who they are and failing to realize their own self worth. I wish I could communicate to the world how liberating and fulfiling it is to accept and love oneself. Once a person achieves that their confidence soars. At least mine did. It's not complicated. It's simply choosing to embrace who you really are, rather than try to be something you're not.

[@BG-nm5xt]

Aspergers diagnosis is now part of the Autism Spectrum Disorder.

[@Rhyz-1]

I myself am bisexual too but wholly female. Even when I was a tombola in the past. People need to stop defining someone as male or female because they like male or female things. I like dresses and heels and formula 1 and cars. If I didnt like dresses and heels that wouldnt make me less of a woman. Just like a boy can enjoy ballet and dressing hair. Doesnt make him a girl. Funny thing is while I am bisexual I am not into transpersons. They always act like they are owed something.

[@Draco19970125]

Exactly. People need to understand that your PERSONALITY can be more feminie/masculine, it can change over time. But the fact that you are male/female will never change.

[@art3misarrow863]

I'm 37, when I was in high-school I help found my schools LGBTQ alliance. there were a LOT of bi, bi curious and gays and lesbians. We didn't really have any TQ at that time in the burbs where I lived. At least that I know of. But when we'd all get together outside of school we'd trade clothes or try on each other's wardrobes and it was just good fun. There wasn't really lables. We used to figure out our identity by trial and error and while we did most of us called ourselves bi or bi curious. Many of those kids are straight as adults, some of us are not. I still think I could have easily wound up with a woman but was always more drawn to men. Now I would be labeled as a turf or anti trans or whatever for my belief that children shouldn't undergo medical transitioning until their bodies and minds had finished developing. Yesterday I spoke to a woman who works at the local children's hospitals. She said that women's bodies stop maturing in their mid teens while boys sometimes into their mid twenties. She also agreed that haulting that biological progress with medications might have harmful effects that we just don't know the scope of yet. She herself has a niece who is 12 who believes she might be a lesbian and a friends niece who might be trans. The family has agreed to not make a big deal of it and allow the girls to just be who they're meant to be naturally without putting labels on it. In some states in the US and in Canada this family would be punished legally for not encouraging their daughters to transition. I dont hold any of my beliefs in being cautious over trans women in women's spaces and children transitioning lightly. And the bottom line is I 100% support any adults life journey, but I draw the line at kids because the medical reprocessing are unknown and the mental health data just does not back up that transitioning actually helps many of these kids and teens to feel better about who they are. I would love to bend your ear sometime about the history of identity politics in Germany and how what is happening right now could be used against people in the future of our crazy world much the same way it was in your local history. It is my greatest fear that social media and identity politics will be used someday to harm people who publicly and readily announce their identities to the world on large platforms. Anyway... wow that was a lot. I so appreciate your videos and perspective and just know that I love and support you in every way.

[@natesportyboy4939]

There seems to be a link between people who have been in the game before it was cool and not buying into gender ideology.

[@3monsters014]

There are children actually dying from those drugs.

[@OMFGZmissy]

thank you for your channel, thank you for you, and thank you for voicing your opinion in a reasonable and respectful way, im so happy i came across your channel, im so proud of you! and look forward to anything you post!

[@Josh_Livi]

I have autism and I struggled in school and I have a job, I never complained that life isn’t fair. I instead figured out how to overcome the obstacles, not being like that one girl that claims to be disabled

[@christinamcdaniel5071]

The recovery patient needs a lot of psychological help. It's heartbreaking that doctors would allow the surgery to happen. The doctors need to lose their licenses for doing this😢😢😢

[@lisashorter1950]

They’re all in it for the money. They don’t care that they’re harming these people

[@jesussaves8549]

I think he’s attracted to little boys it’s gross 🤮

[@YourMajesty143]

That trans holding a bear is a grifter. Yes they're actually trans, but everything else is performative. Look at their older tiktoks, they act completely normal. They first tried making cat videos, that didn't bring much views. Then they tried claiming to be vegan and making cooking videos, but they often used regular cheese or non-vegan foods, so that didn't work. Then they started talking about bottom surgery and that got people's attention. To ride that momentum, they tried claiming to be a "revert" Muslim, yet as a former Muslim myself I can tell they're full of it. Now they're claiming to be autistic with an anxiety-induced speech impediment. They never spoke like this before, the grift is so obvious. They are completely normal in the head, but just like anyone tryna get online famous, they're trying to use sensationalist content to build a following. My point here is that the medical establishment authorized a HEALTHY person to get bottom surgery, so let's stop criticizing Drs who DO know better - mind you, this is IF in fact this person really ever got bottom surgery. I highly doubtbit. Most likely just another lie among many.

[@YourMajesty143]

​@@lisashorter1950- No, transfolk need to go through extensive psych evals before getting surgery approved. It's not the surgeon that approves it, since this would create a conflict of interest. It's an insurance-approved psychiatrist or independent psychiatrist.

[@jesussaves8549]

@@YourMajesty143 they should make it more difficult for people to get trans surgeries like it was when it was first developed with age restrictions of course. Now it’s more for profit than for health

[@anerm285]

I feel really sorry for the princess party person, however I would be utterly concerned of letting him anywhere near children.

[@user-mi8xf8tq1z]

This

[@Keralasha444]

Seriously idk why people feel sorry for him

[@anerm285]

@@Keralasha444 I think maybe he would not be so troubled, when the media and the general society would not encourage him in his delusions.

[@bluespectrum1348]

X2

[@bbyjscx]

Same.

[@darlyndar13]

I’m a Full Time Mother, raising two sons, and married to a blue collar, hardworking husband who is a true provider. I’m also first generation Filipina born in this beautiful country. This is how my parents were. This is what they wanted for me and what I wish for my boys. It breaks my heart there are people that think our way of living should be dismantled. We don’t care who you bed in the privacy of your own home. Don’t force your ideas on us. That’s where I draw the line and will speak up.

[@lindacallahan6330]

Your posts are so compassionate and wise...keep up the work..

[@cloudambient]

I can't believe you're only 23! You act and speak SO MUCH more mature and intelligently than most 23 year olds I've ever met.

[@alexhenty76]

You made me realise something profound! I came of age in 93 and we didn’t have social media. We didn’t NEED labels because we only dealt with people IN REAL LIFE! You met the person before the pronoun. If it was a guy in a skirt it didn’t matter as either your friend knew him or he had a huge personality and so didn’t need an introduction or to justify himself. These vocal trans activists are the insecure teens of yesterday but with keyboard warrior skills. It’s all posturing for clout but what they don’t realise is their social standing is directly inverse to the dead bodies under them. It’s not a victimless status as they are doing actual harm to kids who are going through the usual teenage anxiety and depression that is a rite of passage and completely normal

[@innnn663]

thank you so much... this needs more likes!!!

[@exintrovert1337]

100%

[@marty8535]

You are a voice of sanity and reason that is sadly lacking in the modern world.

[@LornaW-AngelW]

Keep up the good work. A voice of reason in the chaos.

[@manguyi8094]

Heyyy! 14 year old Gen Zer here! When I was in the 4th and 5th grade was when I began seeing all this ideology all over my internet and media. I was super duper close to being manipulated by the agenda that’s been created. Even thinking I was ‘non-binary’ at some point. I rlly DONT have any hope for the future, just stay safe my lovely’s

[@turqussy]

your making the lgbtq community sound like the matrix lmao

[@manguyi8094]

@@turqussy Low key kinda is, kinda like a cult

[@viciousv9671]

@@manguyi8094 so now a sexuality is a cult ? You spelled religion wrong

[@RedxRiot]

@@viciousv9671 the alphabet cult is probably the only group in first world countries where it has LAWS against saying something “offensive” towards it, you can’t say anything like that in Canada about the lgbt+++ but you can be as blasphemous about religion as you want and you’ll be celebrated. Don’t be naive

[@viciousv9671]

@@RedxRiot that’s a good thing we all unite to end abrahamic cults aka religions, canada 👏👏

[@marciasyme4586]

When I was a kid my dad was in an amateur dramatics society and one time he dressed as Amanda Lear. He had my mom's swimsuit on, my P.E. skirt a wig, hat and stilettos. I thought it was hilarious. Nobody questioned his masculinity they just commented that he looked great in fish nets with heels🤣

[@ameliatieman1006]

Oh my I would have laughed so hard.

[@marciasyme4586]

@@ameliatieman1006he took our teasing very well. lol

[@jacquelinekelly5261]

As a child my son had a part in spoof Christmas play of Cinderella, he played fairy Nuff, leotard, tutu, wig and great big workman's boots. Everyone thought it was hilarious and had a great time laughing at his and the two other fairy's antics, played by two other boys. Couldn't do it today as to many people would take offence, seems the day's of innocent p taking are long gone.

[@JadeEyes1]

@@jacquelinekelly5261 Honestly, I'm surprised the religious conservatives didn't throw a fit. 😆

[@tuxitalk1World]

​@@JadeEyes1Nah. I'm not overly religious, but conservative. I love Boy George and loved David Bowie and Pete Burns. Gay people don't bother me. It's the labeling and the almost forceful push by the trans people that you must support their choices that bothers me. The trans bottom surgery sounds more like torture, especially the male-to-female surgery, and because that vagina is basically an open wound, the lengths that the person has to go through to keep that viable sounds more like torture than something that should be recommended medically. Surgical procedures to remove healthy tissue and organs is just dangerous and a huge infection risk.

[@taryncornelius548]

So sorry for so many of these people who have been pushed into these awful surgeries - and he’s holding s doll and asking for a Princess party ! So sad !

[@laurahome1588]

I really appreciate your common sense and videos. ❤

[@litebrite8993]

At 3 min's in, that guy you said is mentally unstable, you are so right. My heart was breaking the whole time watching him. I just wanted to hug him and find out what was wrong and find a way to really help him. So heartbreaking, tysm for SEEING him. You are such a wonderful human being

[@arlettasloan6453]

Gosh. That reminds me of this time my boyfriend insisted on taking me to a gay bar to prove something- not sure what. We were sitting there and this broken brown eyed beautiful man looks me in the eye with such sadness I just wanted to cry and he says "Do you know what you want? " And, I did. I wanted to grab him by the hand and run until we had gotten clear away from whatever made him look that way. Yet, I could not. It's been about 24 years, I guess, and the look in his eye still breaks my heart.

[@janchain3228]

A lot of people will get defensive over the term mentally unstable like it's an insult. It's just a fact and that person needs help, not medication to mutilate himself.

[@Jimmy94411]

That man is a CHILD PREDATOR. Feel sorry for his victims!

[@francescadulash3511]

As a 12yo seeing Boy George & Marilyn was minblowing. 40 years later & everyone carrying on as if its a new thing. As we did in the 80s lets just call them gender benders to separate them from the trans community.

[@personalcheeses8073]

I think you need to go back a few thousand years not just the 1980s 😂😂🤪

[@racheltaylor73]

Boy george says that ‘people want to be offended.’ And that ‘choosing they as a pronoun is attention seeking’

[@francescadulash3511]

@@personalcheeses8073 My apologies. I have no memory of anything before 1976.

[@scratchd0g]

You, Honey, are a bright light to we old Queens who nobody wants to hear from anymore! Thanks!

[@user-vz6lj6os7k]

I am so glad I found this KZbinr

[@ferndoggiedogg181]

I feel that some trans people act out as caricatures of the sex they are trying present as because they feel that’s what being a man or woman is rather than all the new ones that goes with it

[@dudeorduuude5211]

This is why I think some Trans folks should be questioned. If they are born in the wrong body, they should resonate and embody the other sex's mannerisms, no? I suppose some of it is the awkward phase of living differently. But some Trans folks just exude the gender they are trying to be, where others it comes across as the dollar store version or a mockery or fetish.

[@colleenf114]

Love you Marcus ❤ Thank you for being so reality oriented and still so kind. You’re a gem.

[@zxyatiywariii8]

I agree, Marcus is awesome!

[@write2judie]

"Don't affirm delusions..." That's brilliant.