Women Really Came All Out To Speak About How Men Are So Hurtful With No Remorse/

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[@coldblooded568]

Once you realize that what YOU want is something they're INCAPABLE OF, you'll let them go.

[@vonnii1013]

This

[@marleyhill34]

Facts. I need a high level of emotional intelligence in my life....otherwise people's actions become extremely distressing to me and I am the one internalizing it.

[@FindYourFree]

exactly..

[@valery5900]

Exactly ‼️

[@Sociedadematriarcal]

I needed to hear this 🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@themissmay]

Some thing I have learned now that I’m 30 years old is that most men do not fundamentally understand what empathy is and how to exercise it regularly.

[@temposhop8739]

in my 30+ years, I've known good and bad men and they are all deficient in empathy. Even the good ones. I know two men who have developed their empathy to such a degree that women are people to them (and they are people to themselves). I think a lot of men objectify themselves, so do the same to women. One of the guys is gay, and the other is neurodivergent. Your "typical" man's man is generally an exploiter.

[@dinkyboss]

This, it all starts at home. Women raise sons to believe they can do no wrong and take out their anger on their daughters.

[@Holmnielsen-]

They take out their insecurities on you

[@LoveK1]

@@Holmnielsen-yep, you’re the “punching bag” for all their shortcomings. You pay for it somehow.

[@eumeliacorona9824]

🎯

[@elsugga3736]

As women we need to stop looking for love amongst men and find it amongst our family, aunts, sisters, homegirls

[@missleo2003]

What if you don't have all that?

[@manifest2203]

@@missleo2003 it will take time. But you should build a group of people who you connect with. And remember every one will fail you at some point, just like how you will fail them. That’s when other people can help.

[@elsugga3736]

@@missleo2003 to me it’s an excuse to center men because there’s everything on the internet these days. There’s tons of content to help young inexperienced people develop social skills

[@blobbertmcblob4888]

As someone (a man) who grew up in a household of women, let me be the first to tell you that your family and friends will be the first to stab you in the back. Women are SO petty.

[@NuancedSkeptic]

I see what your saying. But I don’t think it’s realistic or healthy to think romantic love isn’t needed. And there’s nothing wrong with you for wanting romantic love.

[@shaysmitt7936]

I have NOTHING to give. I’ve always dated the educated, the good guy, the career guy, the shy guy, the 2 parent household guy, etc. No thugs, no baby daddies , no felons…. They were literally NO BETTER than the others . Sorry it’s just tiring with no reward. Being single has been the most peaceful and fulfilling experience of my life.

[@shakathewanderer9198]

Oh shit. 😂

[@marleyhill34]

Yup. I can love me better than any man can.

[@jessitabonita]

💯‼️🔥 Agreed!

[@truvy_5544]

Literally I had to learn, “fboys” doesn’t have a look they’re in every clique group from athletic to gamer boy to nerds. It just feels like I’m playing the lottery

[@knHebrew]

Yep. Sucks cuz I want kids...

[@thebarefootwitch5564]

I have dated men from all walks of life & backgrounds. They are selfish and hurtful. They do NOT care about anyone else but themselves; not even their children. I am opting out.

[@doublebreasted1422]

I saw a meme that said something like men want us to fall in love with them while they decide if they even like us and I felt that! I am so happy that you younger ladies are standing your ground and letting these MF's know come correct or don't come at all!!

[@idkjackman4418]

*You really miss the point of that meme..* You guys really think you know something yet look foolish when the truth comes to you in a plate that you have to now eat. If you understood where that meme came from, you might agree with it. If you dont love a man, you wont do anything for him or follow him much less find little ways to be continuously rebellious of his direction. if he likes you, he usually behaves better because his love is solely out of duty once he commits to that.. When a woman loves, she actually really likes that person.. a mans love and his like of his woman is different. When women discover this.. they also understand that you love your man, but sometimes and at some moments you dont like him.. usually out of your own emotional tantrum or troubles at that time. Wow.. you are right, stay away from them and men should stay away from you if you cant figure this out, giving him all types of problems when you actually find a good dude. They are out there.. i dont believe one minute, these dudes travel and go across the world and can find a woman else where. I do know there are more women then men, so you might be running into the same type of dudes (20-25% of them) as the go through run woman after another, some of you sharing dudes and dont know it or dont care. You can choose to be by yourself, but that is not pretty sight when you begin wanting a mans presences and return to that cycle not knowing how to weed out a good man from the others.

[@ThirrinDiamond]

@@idkjackman4418 you need therapy, if you are already in therapy though then good job /srs

[@gingerandspice1209]

They need to love themselves and stop being so co dependent.

[@e.1766]

​@@idkjackman4418Bro......YOU Missed THE POINT PERIOD. You sound Exactly like what every woman here is describing; Thanks for Proving what all these ladies are saying BY Inappropriately turning the tables, not understanding any of the messages here, & playing the victim. Men are Not Victims, they're Perpetrators. The No#1 Cause of Death for Pregnant Women is MURDER. Fkg explain how Women are causing that by .......telling the Truth? Wanting to be treated like a Human??? Don't want to Fk a Stranger?? Is That Why pregnant women are murdered every day, arnd the World?? Be part of the Solution, get your Own shit situated, Don't put Your Manipulative Shit Anywhere in women's platforms. Bc you Don't Get It & Don't Want To. Until the No#1 cause of death of Men is murder, stfu

[@Childfree334]

​@idkjackman4418 Men are INCAPABLE of actual love, so that dissertation you wrote is meaningless because it's BS. Y'all want to conquer and control. That's it.

[@bMack270]

Also, women over the age of thirty must understand that there are many men out here that are purposely dating you in order to punish you for not getting married sooner. These males are insane.

[@blobbertmcblob4888]

Nobody is doing that lol. Knock that propaganda shit off.

[@coconutwater4531]

Meanwhile they didn’t want marriage in their 20s and still don’t in their 30s or 40s.

[@lhurdle87]

I'm starting to think we live in an apocalyptic world when it comes to them at this point.

[@littleleah310]

Fr

[@ashleywatkins1380]

Wow!

[@lauramorgan27]

Just now crawling out of a 6 month depression after being tricked and used by a man I thought cared about me. I’ve developed serious health problems and I quit my job because I could barely function. I can’t go through this again. I’m going to pursue peace, not men.

[@NiobeNeo]

There is nothing wrong with that. Leave men alone. Donot let them come close to you and donot deal with them unless it is work related or service related. Take your time and love you and you only....❤❤❤ Put you first and for all the time to come. Only your first!!! Enjoy the time you are with you. You will not miss anything about them.

[@oatmilk606]

Same here babe, and I’m on medication. However, now I’m dating myself. ❤

[@sarahs5340]

I really feel for you. I’ve been going through something similar.

[@peacefreedom4930]

❤️❤️Sending you hugs. You aren’t alone. You got this.

[@MaryJaneJones.]

Stay strong.

[@BoujeeGrapes]

That's why I'm not nice. Im not rude, but Im not overly nice to men. 9 times out of 10 they just want to waste your time. When they approach me and I tell them " Im not dating, I don't want to date, and I don't want your number....they take it as a challenge. Take sex off the table and they don't have anything to offer. Stay safe ladies, winter is here. Don't get finessed out your beautiful comfortable home, because these fn's need somewhere to stay.

[@quietstorm46]

Please be careful in how you turn down men. There is a chance of violence due to ego, and if you don't want to get into an unnecessary situation, you can easily avoid it. Make sure you are exercising 2nd Amendment rights.

[@aena5995]

​@@quietstorm46it's mostly peer pressure watching everyone be a couple when we r young 20yo

[@idkjackman4418]

@@aena5995 Nah.. if you want to follow doctors to get pregnant later in life.. that is where the pressure comes from. Which means... a lot women dont know how to be a wife early in their lives to a man, and these men today are heavily influenced by other men and their single mother life atmosphere or this modern reality today. Where's the loyalty? Things have change and yes.. stay to yourself, but if you dont know God early, you will find the wrong dude before its too late and The Lord Thy God has to fix it if you truly are seek after him. Like a lot of you are not watching women your age or younger are doing and then complaining about the dudes they meet? Its really looking like sodom and gomorrah in the streets. I said it years ago we going to start seeing ppl having sex in the streets, openly.. there was this one couple who was doing it for a hot minute before covid.. its about to resurface after all of these hotgirl summers start getting old.

[@idkjackman4418]

*The problem with taking sex off the table is, if you were already given it up then you have to deal with the hypocritical phase. Once you can truly deal with that.. then while doing that, seek married couples or well off marriages to help curve your prospective. Pick the advice of women in other countries who are looking to be married, or the ones who are and see how they treat their spouses. Have that mentality and protect it from the vultures of men in the states who want nothing to take that innocents from you. Those are evil forces guided them at times or influencing the wrong dudes who you need to stay away from. Even me just speaking, i know there would be women trying to shut this down.. because just like the forces guiding those men, there are forces guiding you to keep you from the truth. So in the end its up to you to break free or stay in that cycle. And don't do what you think.. do what is necessary, follow the ways of The Lord thy God, don't follow meant to rebel from your man/husband, and you have to fight the spirit within you guys ok? Its in that good book. The heart of man is very wicked.. if we all could see our hearts, we will never be with each other. Understand that.. and i can see why. Only in The spirit of God, can we heal and overlooked our wicked hearts when those hearts are walking in the flesh.*

[@aliatianna7809]

Lmao 🤣

[@cubajohnson6645]

Women realizing men are meh. I love that for us

[@kennyav25]

Having a man is no longer a flex 🤷🏿‍♀️

[@CocoGoddess014]

​@@kennyav25say that louder for the peopllleeeeeeee innnnnnn thhhheeeeeeeeee backkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk

[@oeu3669]

Im so glad. I wish the DeCentring process was faster. Especially for the younger generation. To the point where we don’t even respond to the stupidness anymore. Because I think subconsciously they know they’re being decentred - which is why they create these podcasts and say all these outrageous things to prod and get female attention

[@gingerandspice1209]

​@@kennyav25it never was.

[@elethumatu]

Praise God 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@celaenasardothien703]

That's why korean women created a whole movement about not dating men. They are tired of them😢

[@77kc_77]

I'm tired of them

[@ninamarielavu]

@@77kc_77 me too

[@boop79]

The narcissism and lack of empathy in men is disgusting and mind blowing. Having experienced a narcissist myself, I will NEVER let my guard down.

[@user-of9bx1uk3u]

This!

[@LouLouLion]

And they are demonic

[@littleleah310]

REALL

[@Xwaterwicca]

Never again!

[@idkjackman4418]

@@LouLouLion And women are not? Chile... be careful are you will attract them all day long. I am sure many of you wont care but talking about the ppl you dont listen to is wild And Narcissistic in of itself.

[@cciv6100]

They don’t treat you lower than dirt “for no reason”, it’s usually simply reasons that have NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU. Self-loathing, unhealed trauma, mommy/daddy issues, attachment injuries, not over their exes…it could be anything. So. Don’t internalize it. Try to be grateful when evil people leave your lives. You’re safer being free of them. I know it might hurt, but see the good in it be because it IS good for you.

[@heneverforesakesme4038]

I agree completely and totally, this is separating season...the good Shepard is separating the sheep from the wolves. There will come a day when men leave the "natural affections" of a woman to pursue each other. THINK ON THAT LADIES. It's a big deal, we are already seeing that with the contempt and hatred towards us. God is blessing and taking care of us and stomping on them like a Mississippi mud hole. Tell me I'm lying? They ain't prospering or thriving. He is even cutting off their "legacies." do you really think the Creator of the Heavens and Earth want us to bring MORE demon spawn into the world? for reals? NO, he doesn't. If they can't take care of themselves or respect a woman, how are they father material?

[@woke_af]

Testosterone and Androgen is powerful

[@BellaVidaMercy]

@@heneverforesakesme4038 your comment just hit me like a ton of bricks 🧱!! Thank you Queen! 👑💎

[@eumeliacorona9824]

🎯

[@Christianmorgan12]

Well then it means lot of men need 2 heal.

[@themaine2289]

Not HAVING to be married and bare children for survival is a PRIVILEGE that many women before us sacrificed for. Thankfully both are now an option and i am taking advantage of the OPPORTUNITY 🎉

[@mscherbeare]

Very well said ❤

[@dw9524]

I remember I went to a bar with my friend and two guys came up to us. one of then wanted to sleep with us, but I clearly wasn't into it. His friend proceeded to turn around and insult me to High heaven. Calling me all kinds of foul language and saying that I came from a rear end. Men's egos are so fragile it's saddddd

[@humbleheart2650]

He just wanted 🍑 and you were just viewed as getting his release off.

[@blobbertmcblob4888]

Teehee so this one time I was at a bar and this girl came up to me doing the exact same thing, barely had any clothes on and asked me if I wanted to "go out back" and when I said no, she looks at me and says "what? are you gay or something? Actually you're not that attractive anyway" It's not just men ;)

[@kenasssss]

@@blobbertmcblob4888 We know that, but unfortunately some men are going crazy and killing women for a simple rejection. This is a women's spaces, obviously. If you're going to get combative or feel the need to make a point that women are also this and that, please don't come to women spaces. I know for a fact that a majority of men's spaces talking about women are not for me to go to, whether they're valid or not, because they might say something I don't agree with it or that is self victimizing, but it's pointless for me to interfere because it's their space after all, so I won't waste my time. Get out of here if you can't handle women speaking about men. Go to men's spaces. And yes, women need accountability too, everyone does, but again, it's a women space, what are you expecting.

[@Childfree334]

​@@blobbertmcblob4888When women start physically attacking and unaliving men for rejecting them, then talk to me. Otherwise, you can keep your "women do it too" nonsense to yourself.

[@acemanifester1401]

I’ve never seen a more mentally fragile person than a man who hears the truth.

[@guinealove3744]

I know three women that prided themselves on saving themselves for their wedding night. Two of the three were love bombed. These men were so focused on the poom- poom they actually met the family and attended church. Once the woman felt comfortable with promise of engagement, did the men drop off the face of the earth, after the conquest. It was beyond cruel. Both nearly lost their minds trying to figure out why any human would do this to another. The other turned down all types of men to finally get married to a man who decided he wanted to focus on hiking, biking, and skiing instead of working. Since she had a great job, she could carry them both. She gave him their condo and a lump sum for him to agree to a divorce. Although she doesn't regret the wait, she was traumatized by her honeymoon night. Geeze! Ladies, even vetting doesn't save you from beasts that will play the long game. Just keep your heads about you (if this happens) Always keep your squad close.

[@LifeisaBeautifulting]

Yikes. That's truly demon behavior.

[@browndiamond457]

I kindly disagree, discernment someone's energy is key as well as paying attention to even the smallest of red flags.

[@jaemelancholy1684]

All these guys scream about wanting a pure virgin housewife yet these por church women STILL get treated horribly by "Christian" men. Women deserve respect

[@exoticallovergirl]

They invested themselves emotionally before engagement. That has turned out to be very risky. The woman who ended up carrying her husband should have left him the moment he said that all he wanted to do was ski.

[@anonymousa-uy1hk]

There are some truly delusional people in the comments section. Keep dreaming! And because I’m such a nice person, you can have my share of the menz too 🤣😂🤣

[@anonymousa-uy1hk]

And to the people telling us to “just have better boundaries”, why would I want to be in a relationship with someone who requires me to have ninja boundaries just to be around them? No thanks, I’ll pass!

[@IamSunRae]

😂😂 can't even relax, lol.

[@misskeah8893]

Boundaries are necessary for ANY healthy successful relationship, not just for romantic relationships...you just gotta know what YOU are willing to tolerate and at what point will you remove yourself from a situation that's either toxic or disrespectful. Boundaries are for you, it's not complicated. know your worth.

[@objectiveintuition77133]

💯

[@anonymousa-uy1hk]

@@misskeah8893 Sorry, respectfully disagree with your take on this. There are boundaries and then there are BOUNDARIES. If I need to don a bulletproof vest and hide behind steel walls in an armoured vehicle just so can be around a man, that requires too much effort. I’d rather be alone.

[@1westprincess]

@@anonymousa-uy1hk you are taking boundaries to the farrrrrr left smh healthy boundaries are necessary but if you’re too lazy to establish them then just say that 🙄

[@NorthMountainFairy]

I identify so hard with her video. I don’t want to hate men, but I cannot have faith in them any more. I’m in my 40s and I’ve survived abusers, and the unprocessed rage of “nice guys”. No man has done anything for me but erode my finances, my mental health and my physical health. Every. Single. One. I just can’t anymore. I just can’t. I won’t roll those dice again.

[@Shinukuro]

Same girl. I feel for you. I wasted 10 years of my life on someone who lied and cheated and stole from me. And while he stole my money, the worst thing is he stole my time.

[@NorthMountainFairy]

@@Shinukuro on one of these videos someone said that men aren’t competing with other men for us, they are competing with the peace we have without them. Now we’re healthier, wealthier, happier and wiser.

[@WellBeing999]

@@NorthMountainFairyit does appear that way 🤔

[@sagittariansage_2271]

YUPPP this exactly!! 💯💯💯

[@SuperGlue4321]

@@NorthMountainFairy Damn. That is too freakin real. It’s so true it’s scary.

[@SylisDaGoldenPeach]

I definitely expierenced this with my first boyfriend, I played hard to get , made him earn my trust and respect , he seemed super friendly and sweet , I felt he had a genuine appreciation for black women but soon after losing my V to him he became distant and cold , saying I needed a makeover and he hates how I wear colorful braids and makeup , telling me I need to grow up and stop tryna act all hyper around certain people, I eventually ghosted him and blocked him on all platforms because he became overbearing and I don’t want to change how I am , I’m glad I did cuz I’m only 24 I shouldn’t have to change my fun style yet

[@TheNumbatwelve]

If he wants you to change he never liked you to begin with

[@iamkd7212]

You did the right thing 👍

[@ajoyner614]

There's some science behind post nut clarity. There's literally a hormone released in men that prevents them from bonding with women through sex. It's why men truly can sleep with any and everybody and not feel A THING. They are not truly capable of love.

[@somebodycomelistentothispo7217]

Don’t follow Shera. She will get y’all hurt. Follow The High Powered Podcast. Princella will make you love yourself more than you love the idea of a “good man”. It doesn’t exist. I guarantee u she will CHANGE the WORLD with her message. U will not agree with her on EVERYTHING but if u are truly TIRED of men you will binge her videos

[@jollydajawbreaker]

​@@somebodycomelistentothispo7217I approve your comment and I love it ❤✨️🤗🌹

[@DianaPrince247]

Women aren’t lying about how men are. This is why women are opting out of relationships period. Being single brings peace and brings happiness. Life is too short to remain on the struggle relationship bus to no where.

[@charityjohnson2834]

Big Facts!!!

[@jenbodhi1133]

It’s literally pointless being with them- there’s zero benefit

[@Jaetheeintrovert]

We are not our grandparents idk why It’s not clicking for men 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@Jac527]

One of my co-worker said “Men are Stress”. That statement answered all my questions and doubts. After 2 years of dealing with men, I’m tired and exhausted of them all, idc if it’s a good nice guy or creepy dude, you can have him. My peace is my priority.

[@temposhop8739]

After a lifetime of dealing with men and watching women suffer even with good men, I'm out, too. I love my women friends and the only two men I've met who actually care for women the same way they care for men. One is gay and the other is neurodivergent.

[@Remember-Death]

Well if a co-worker said it, then it *MUST* be true.

[@temposhop8739]

@@Remember-Death aww look, witto one sooo smart. Precious 😂😂

[@idkjackman4418]

You guys cannot not endure or your priorities and choices are all skewed. And whats worst is.. you act like you guys perfect, like all is well.. The dudes say the same thing about you women.. like make that make sense!? Men usually willing to put up with it... but something is riding in Denmark with women not knowing the difference or have the ability to care about the right things and leave the others alone. Its causing you stress by thinking about it. i am about to really do my therapy channel for women. All whole knew channel.. none of my other channels will be connected.. and just shed light on many things. They may not like it but if i got time.. its going to pop and i know it. Only for those seeking men or fix their issues.. because you have to be willing to be good woman for a man you may like, just because of him and his personality.. and later can deal with the rest of the concerns later or move on to another one. *Everything takes work, and you can't be holding his balls to do it..*

[@temposhop8739]

@@idkjackman4418 @idkjackman4418 NOOOO, we don't have to do anything, much less "put up" like passive aggressive men do, for a man's personality. This is laughable, and the point of most comments here is that we absolutely do not have to do anything for men, or be told we're defective for not wanting to put up with a man who talks to us exactly like you do here. You're missing the point and making a condescending ass of yourself.

[@coconutwater4531]

It’s all on women to do the inner work. So we work on ourselves for years or even decades. But there are very few men who have done the work on themselves on the other side. We’re incompatible.

[@shakathewanderer9198]

Amennnnnn❤

[@LoveK1]

On a molecular level.

[@LoveAndSnapple]

You can say that again. Women do so much inner work, we’re like Buddhist monks compared to these guys.

[@Joshua-eo5hr]

Inner work so you mean sitting around and doing nothing 😂 women ☕

[@khrisi9410]

​@@Joshua-eo5hryou just proved their point 😂

[@heneverforesakesme4038]

Not only the boyfriends, but their mothers...OMG...I don't understand as a woman, how you can back up your son's negative and destructive behaviors towards women when they wouldn't even put up with that. Some do, but some don't. The mother will even hide and stand beside a grapist or unaliver, even if they are ON camera. Make it make sense.

[@dinkyboss]

I don’t see how women can know all this and STILL peruse these creatures. Attraction to men needs to be considered a mental illness atp 😂

[@KhadiB]

@@dinkyboss😂😂😂😂

[@YourGuiltyConscience]

True about the grapists. One mom kept saying her son was the best man she's ever known even after being told for Years by multiple of his gfs that he date-graped them. He's also a 42 y/o waiter who still lives with her. Bad mothers create Losers.

[@hoodadventuretv1890]

Don't forget sisters, aunties and cousins

[@zoilalulu3798]

Those women are the worst

[@Aniexo_]

I’m 27. Had I know how evil men were I would have never dealt with any of them. I don’t want any of them.

[@jenbodhi1133]

Same

[@BlackRaven000]

Same!

[@MindinMyBizBeinNosey]

I'm jealous...... I wish I realized this at 27. You saved a couple of decades of learning. Good job! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@77kc_77]

Same

[@rubinfeuerherz3799]

facts.

[@GodLovesYouAllTheTime]

Listen, I was raised by my dad. Only child to a single parent. When I tell you, I learned very early that men think about themselves and what’s best for them…believe that!! I act the same exact way and it’s funny hearing men tell me “you act like a nigga”. Well…it’s not that I’m “acting” like a man, but I literally understand their brain mechanisms. Best thing to do is not let it get to you and be careful. Even in relationships. Never ever ever let your emotions run rampant and definitely keep yourself composed and in check when dealing with men. You have to deal with them how they deal with you. Never give your ALL to him. We always let us emotions get the best of us. We have to get out of that mentality.

[@GodLovesYouAllTheTime]

Also, y’all know men aren’t emotionally mature like we are. So all in all we really have the upper hand. God gave us more power and that’s why we are made the way we are. The thing is we have to know when to hold ‘em and when to fold em. Off rip, we have to stop being so dang emotionally attached to every single man that likes us. Let the man chase us, not like a conquest to conquer, but men move when they feel like it. The more we rush them, pressure them, the more we will keep having these situations. The best love I’ve gotten from men were the ones I continued to give a hard time too.

[@dinkyboss]

This! Everything you said is true especially the feelings. I constantly see women, especially black women, trying to argue with men about how they think instead of just listening and moving on.

[@winning3329]

The problem is men will entertain women that they don't even like just to try to get s3x. They will play the game of being madly in love and once they get s3x or impregnate you then game over and he's off to the next sucker.

[@GodLovesYouAllTheTime]

@@winning3329 and that’s why I’ve NEVER ever let a man nut inside of me. I’m 41 and I don’t have kids. Don’t want any and I really will be great if I never got married. If I EVER get married…IF…strong if…me and him will have separate houses. I need my space. Lol. But I don’t even be giving them sex. Those are the ones who be trying ssooooo hard!! The savage in me genuinely don’t care what they think or how they feel. You have to be shut down when dealing with men. You can’t be giving them the best version of yourself. They only benefit from that when they think they have the upper hand.

[@LoveK1]

@@dinkybossI’ve heard way too many women say, “He said or did this but he really means this.” Noooooo, he meant what he said. Accept it even if it hurts! Move on!

[@DeBellanadi]

I will never forget someone online said “men aren’t real people” … and that made it all make sense

[@piscespisces6]

I love it lol

[@porchiajohnson1441]

Biologically speaking men aren't real people. They are just mutated females.

[@ARS-fn6px]

They are demons, robots , aliens and AI's. I am sure of it.

[@aurora8749]

I sometimes wonder if the "God of men" isn't the devil himself and the true God is the God of women and men

[@idkjackman4418]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 *And then what does that make you. for his seed produced you?* You need him to procreate.. Gotta watch what spirits you are inviting when accepting these terms and memes about ppl general. You dont even know the evil forces that are influencing you are leading you.. look at what Eve did, yet the man still needs to keep you while listening to you and believing you mean well? Really think.. understand and pray for men, let alone the ones that hurt you for men know they need you but not the ones from this country if it keeps up.

[@Annonymight]

I didn't date for 7 years. The peace. The development. The growth. I tried dating again this year....NOPE. Dating in 2023 isn't for the faint of heart. Going back to minding my business. I'm not here to play games with anyone's son and the people I've come across seem to be chief game designers or just lost.

[@BlackCatholicGirl]

Same

[@TheSomethingnew1]

I’m on year 4. Looking forward to year 5 😊. I’ll dive back in some day 😂

[@idkjackman4418]

That stats are true.. self genocide is real.. wow I pray you guys claim to be the woman real men are seeking because if not, it doesn't matter.. you will see a good man and reject him or run through him and divorce him anyway. Seek The Lord thy God in all your ways.. or stay in your current state.

[@jenbodhi1133]

I’ve been single and celibate too, last week I decided to go out with a guy- we only dated one week and it was so incredibly stressful it’s unbelievable- the games, the hot and cold, etc etc. I ended it and have closed up shop again, I just can’t deal

[@ladyzinada5341]

😂😂😂. sounds like me.... Tried dating a few times in the last few years and it was not healthy at the beginning PHASE I'm 😮 💬 Damn they still moving weird, infatuated like, a crushing on you to disappoint you. I'm not missing nothing after years of singleness.😢. Pitiful. They're worse

[@fernieyo]

Celibacy is one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. I’m getting my bag up, my skin is glowing, I went back to school, I’m just happier you guys. Unfortunately my cheating narcissistic ex doesn’t like this, he’s been stalking me for TWO years, I’ve been ignoring it because he hasn’t been violent but 2 weeks ago he decided to bust my window out my car. Then he had the nerve to draw a heart with our initials in it next to the broken window. I haven’t even reached 30 yet and I’m already done with men. I just can’t. 🤦🏿‍♀️

[@candyKane117i]

You should consider a protection order, that sounds scary

[@wearynottired]

Get a restraining order! I don’t want to see you on KZbin News channels.

[@wearynottired]

P.S. Congratulations on going back to school!

[@1newwoman07]

You have to get a restraining order asap! This is how women get hurt

[@priscillabaileymusic]

Please involve the police.

[@LouLouLion]

I should make a video. Every man in my life has been an absolute terror and a menace to women. Zero remorse.

[@marleyhill34]

This is why I have been single for nearly 10 years. I'm tired.

[@victoriousspirit8955]

Please make a video if you feel comfortable because this is my experience as well. Every single man has been a terror!

[@anonymousa-uy1hk]

If you care to share, we’re all ears.

[@toscadonna]

Only my paternal grandfather was a good man. He worked from sun up to sun down and was kind. But every other man in my family and that I’ve dated have been monsters. I always looked for someone like my grandfather, but I kinda became him instead. Hard working, military officer, engineer. I saw his traits and what he was like and basically became like him. It would be nice to meet a man who has some kindness and empathy, but the last guy that I saw with those qualities was my grandfather, and he died in 1987.

[@Joshua-eo5hr]

Emotional damage 😂

[@MirageAtPlay]

Man... took my partner of 11 years to marriage counseling, yes i dragged him and he looked at the therapist in face and said, i dont know why she brought me here. For all the crying, begging screaming i have done, he hasnt HEARD a single word of it apparently.

[@denfolo5224]

YOU need that therapy.

[@marleyhill34]

Lady just leave you are wasting your time and energy.

[@BlkOnyx0508]

Oh he heard you. He didn’t want to hear you

[@EvonneLindiwe]

Hope you parted ways.. protect your sanity and peace… no amount of dragging, crying and frustration will make the person do things you deserve. You will grow old with this stress.. 🙏🏿🥺

[@food4thought692]

Men only hear your actions.

[@amphoteric]

i agree. i have found peace in eliminating men from my life. outside of my immediate family and coworkers (bc i'm required to interact w them), i do not seek out men for deep friendships or romantic relations. if i do interact with men, it's always in a co-ed group maybe a few times a year (ex. holiday parties, bday parties, events, etc). instead i surround myself with positive women who uplift one another and have been focusing on my health, hobbies, career, etc. i do not have to go thru the mental/emotional labor that is required when interacting with men and i am much happier now!

[@marleyhill34]

Yup men are way too much mental labour and I never had the capacity from childhood. I loved hard and lost. I do not want to go through that again because it almost killed me. The stakes are too high.

[@amphoteric]

exactly! women gotta protect their peace. it is unfortunate we gotta take these measures but it's the nasty world we live in since men will not be the ones to change even tho we've been begging them to. they don't wanna change, so i'll change and do what's best for me@@marleyhill34

[@blobbertmcblob4888]

@@marleyhill34 Yeah, we wouldn't want you ladies to put in work, would we?

[@marleyhill34]

@@blobbertmcblob4888 there's work and there's slavery.....Being involved with a man is like working for a concentration camp. Y'all mean to work us to death and then blame us for dying. Keep trying to convince us that working with a man will set us free. Free after death for sure.

[@MindinMyBizBeinNosey]

EVERYTHING, I MEAN EVERYTHING YOU SAID 🎯💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@ndiekwere6027]

Seems like men collectively are trying to humble women. They’ve made it their pass time fun

[@DaDonZanni-pd1tp]

Women need to be humbled winter is here

[@BlackRaven000]

Lol look at them trying to find niche channels to spread 💩 on

[@slimebeast5499]

@@DaDonZanni-pd1tpwhere have the men gone lol

[@Hlorrh40]

@@DaDonZanni-pd1tp you first. Bow and humble yourself.

[@yourinternettia2503]

They just suck the life out of us and leave us looking like cadavers! My aunt has two boys and just divorced her unemployed ex husband and looks like shes a senior. My mother had only me and divorced when i was 3 and looks 10 years younger than her younger sister 😂

[@flowerpower7065]

I get it. But i dont think thats funny for your aunt. Youre acting just like a man would, devaluing a woman for not choosing better. Glad your mom turned out fine. Your aunt coulda had it worse.. some women end up in jail. Others dead. Happy your aunt walked away safely. Beauty is the least of the worries. Shes safe.

[@yourinternettia2503]

My aunt is a narcissist that has internalized mysoginy and treats the men in the family like kings. I don't like her that's why I speak of her in that way 🙄

[@avi486]

As a black woman, I've noticed that many of my aunts act nicer to the men in our family. They are more likely to excuse/downplay their bad behavior. Whereas if a girl makes a mistake, they are super harsh and catty toward them. For example, cleaning the house is forced on the girls but "boys will be boys" and they can get away with having a filthy space.

[@brunoqnzbk7891]

I think male children also suck more hormones or something from the mom. Makes sense she looks weathered. Even sons are no good. 😂

[@pynklady11]

I COMPLETELY understand I'm with her I'm over it. Whats funny i noticed now that I'm detached especially at work they flirt more. Unlike alot of women i dead ass dgaf about male attention or validation 😒

[@fantym1633]

You have become a challenge. To be conquered.

[@EvonneLindiwe]

@@fantym1633exactly.. the harder you rebuff they harder they try… then after the win.. it’s downhill from there.

[@blobbertmcblob4888]

Ain't nobody flirting with you lmao. Especially at work. Do not mistake politeness for "flirting"

[@Estherawe444]

@@blobbertmcblob4888 ppl def flirt at work lmao. One of my ex coworkers ( mind u he has a whole wife and kids) would waggle his eyebrows at me and called me his girlfriend in Spanish. And another coworker would talk to me excessively and ended up trying to fck me at a party

[@Holmnielsen-]

Honestly, I get my romantic fulfillment from period films and daydreaming about handsome English actors. I don’t need things to happen in real life in order to enjoy romance.

[@LoveK1]

That part! Let’s be friends. I have shows and books. I love me some Phillipa Gregory. I’m good.

[@Holmnielsen-]

@@LoveK1 I'll check out Phillipa Gregory! Personally I love Poldark.

[@neoloanderson6676]

Oh my gosh this is me, fantasies never disappoint and you can’t get hurt 😂.

[@paballothabethe5899]

Delulu land is the best solulu x

[@porchiajohnson1441]

Omg! Are you me? Because I do this especially with handsome English actors.

[@HandofHolmes]

I totally empathize with all of this. I actually don’t want to date anymore and I no longer want to entertain fantasies of motherhood and marriage… it’s too hurtful to know that the happy family life is a myth. I want to raise a family in partnership and the reality of 98% of these marriages put all the labour emotional and physical on women. I know that would break me and I wouldn’t be able to raise my kin being my genuine loving self, I’d be so overwhelmed and bogged down that I’d likely become bitter and hurtful like my mother. I cannot repeat that cycle.

[@Miawest01]

I’m a widow in my early thirties. And I don’t want to do it again! All I got out of my marriage was a life lesson (he was living a double life/pathological liar), my daughter and a life insurance settlement. He was deceiving me FOR YEARS.

[@azureavocado5195]

Knowing the amount of suffering I’ve endured in this life, I would never curse an innocent child with the same. That is CRUEL AND PERVERSE to me.

[@Datb2]

This is exactly how I feel you can’t run from the truth it’s unfortunate I have to likely accept I won’t get that outcome and it’s okay

[@ksweetist]

How was your mom hurtful?

[@magnarcreed3801]

Same sis. I just build community with other women and help by watching their kiddos.

[@JMeyer1112]

Im not a lesbian either but shout out to Princella she is truly putting women on game on so many levels. I absolutely adore and respect her as a woman. I appreciate all these women coming forward with their perspectives. Its really important for women to communicate on this level.

[@kia.203]

Absolutely. After listening to her for awhile, none of this ish shocks me anymore because she trying to tell women that men are incapable of love. These videos are PROVING HER EXACT POINT

[@JMeyer1112]

@@kia.203 You are 💯 on point my thoughts exactly.

[@magnarcreed3801]

Seriously. I’m bi but won’t ever date men again. So much more peace and genuine love from other women. It’s not a transaction with them.

[@Ourown311]

Yes Princella ans Cyn G said the same thing. It's time that women start listening

[@beepbopboop7727]

Yep

[@belinlife]

As a mature woman, I follow Princella the Queen Maker, she is right about what she says about males. Some men are even worse, they envy you and intentionally want to hurt you.

[@Childfree334]

I have YET to meet a man who is not jealous of me.

[@belinlife]

@Childfree334 I met one in my teens early 20's they are rare but even that relationship failed, he was/is as Princella talks about in her book, a Hobosexual.

[@thebarefootwitch5564]

She is amazing! She’s helped me so much. I’m so much happier since I opted out of dating men

[@MindinMyBizBeinNosey]

Intentionally! They are spiritually depleted and morally bankrupt! You're practically sleeping with the enemy. No other way to put it. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@elethumatu]

Yes they are nothing but demons

[@marilynmalcolm9920]

I wonder why women so frequently feel as though they have to make it clear they love men SO much before making criticisms of their experiences with men. Have you ever heard a man preface some rant about “females” with rhapsodies about his deep love for women?

[@sagittariansage_2271]

Goddess.. I can't stand this ish lol. LIKE WHY??! Women are always like "I know it's not all men, I don't hate men but..." Males are absolutely NOT doing that EVER, whether they're in public or private, talking to themselves or homeboys. They're NOT saying "I know it's not all women, I don't hate women but..." NOOO. They're always automatically "bitches this and hoes that and thots this etc" They DONT even refer to y'all as WOMEN. Like why TF do y'all keep trying to be "nice" when you speak about them, fuck their egos. Seriously. They don't give a fuck about y'all LIVES. Just speak the raw truth and stop catering to males egos lol. Sorry I had to rant because no other women seem to understand this simple reasoning lol

[@Childfree334]

This is very true, much in the same vein as childfree people saying how much they love kids before explaining why they don't want any. Give me a break.

[@akmilan8260]

Yall are both crazy. You can love kids and not want them for one and for 2 you can love men and not wanna deal with them. You never know who someone is until they start showing their true colors. It's not like they come out and say from the start they ain't 💩 maybe tell women about the real you.

[@Childfree334]

@akmilan8260 Whatever chick. I'm not going to preface or try to soften any message before I start to speak. Me liking kids does not matter because my message is about being childfree. These people are just trying to make a positive sandwich so they won't be attacked. I will never do that. YOU are the crazy one.

[@marilynmalcolm9920]

That's not related to what I'm saying at all. My point is that women have to be apologetic and wheedling when they make criticisms of men as a protective measure, or else they'll be dismissed as bitter and hateful. This isn't something that men do, if they want to criticize women, they'll just do it, no context needed. This is also how I interpreted the first response that I got that was agreeing with me. That is to say, childfree women often preface their explanation of their choices with overtures about their love of children, because they know people will start calling them selfish or broken if they don't do that. Not so long ago, childfree women would say "Oh, I'm too selfish/lazy/vain, etc. to be a mother," or else they wouldn't hear the end of it from people who think all able women should have kids. It's not about women actually liking men or kids, it's about women having to make sure that people don't attack them for being 'man haters,' or 'baby haters' for not wanting marriage or babies. Take a breath before you start calling strangers crazy. @@akmilan8260

[@franhalvorson3004]

It is the rise of the divine feminine. Keep strong all my sistas. We got this.

[@lunam33]

100, the more we grow and exalted the less interested we are in all these pathologies and the more we can see clearly, and bring about the New Earth. We are the last hope of this planet.

[@xxwoman]

The Y chromosome is disappearing 😂 Mother Earth is having a slow purge.

[@edt4080]

​@@xxwoman never men will always make more and rise it's a man's world

[@TamTam9-15]

I’m in therapy I take “happy” pills I meditate I read everyday. I walk. I rarely drink. I have no social media except KZbin. Got into an argument and my husband said you need help. “I know you’re on meds but you need more help” I was floored. What else can I do? A damn lobotomy? Ladies don’t get married. I’m sorry don’t. And he knows my mental health is a sensitive subject I’m insecure about it.(afraid I will pass it to my kids l can’t I’m a SA survivor and my parents were not the greatest tell my brain to rationalize that tho)

[@celenalynn1848]

I know how that feels. Last year I had to think about how everytime I let a man in my life it's a non stop shit show wether they're family or a romantic partner until I boot them back out. Been sans man for going on 7 years and I've been the most productive.

[@marleyhill34]

Um and what exactly is your husband doing to "help" you? yeah, I was in a similar marriage. Eventually, he got frustrated because my therapists had my back and they pointed out his own flaws and he didn't like that. So in the end he physically assaulted me. It was over. If a man isn't reading and improving his emotional intelligence and learning how to care for someone who has mental illness, he has no business being with them. After all my therapy, I see how men are now. Zero to little emotional intelligence. I would tell you to tread carefully and keep your emotions and arguments to yourself, your therapist and your therapy group. It's amazing how men can go from massaging their ego with "helping" a vulnerable woman to viewing her as a burden.

[@SakuraMoonflower]

You should tell him, "I already have to be on drugs just to BE with you, and YOU think that's STILL not enough? Then let's get a divorce so you can find someone who can be with you WITHOUT NEEDING MEDICATION JUST TO DEAL WITH YOU?!" 😊 But, I'm petty and this dude of yours sounds more like a detriment and not at all a prize. He went for an extremely low blow. I would absolutely hit him in places he wasn't expecting it could hurt. 😊 But, again, I'm petty. I'm also single and okay with being single.

[@TamTam9-15]

I played on it. I was like maybe I need to go to an inpatient facility then. He quickly changed his tune once he thought he might have to take on the burden of the house and kids alone. He said it to hurt me. He has his own issues and won’t get help of course. Men project their issues on us all the time. I will never be a fully healed person I had a rough life and he contributed to it and he knows that but I am a happy person and I am trying my best to make a marriage work with a man who only cares about his needs and feelings. It’s hell but not for long.

[@mengume]

@@TamTam9-15 leave, your mental health may improve even more. Don’t let the fear of being alone and start over, stop you from peace and self love

[@yagirlvee9583]

I dated a few guys last year and this year all came back and I told them all no and to lose my number. You only get one ☝🏾 maybe two chances to show me I mean nothing to you I’m out. The guy today wanted to jump straight in the bed no dinner no nothing so no thank you

[@humbleheart2650]

They look at us a pieces of meat not a human being with feelings.

[@HHCF713]

At this point, I’m sick of my male friends and even the ones that are gay. I’m just DONE! My phone about to be like a dust bowl.

[@elsugga3736]

Same, im actually ghosting my male friend because he kept commenting on my appearance making it seem like I’m living for his approval

[@blobbertmcblob4888]

@@elsugga3736 He's lucky. He doesn't need you in his life.

[@ashleymandigo4406]

"Male friends" is wild and some gay men aren't any less hateful of women, if anything, moreso.

[@addictedtochocolateandcoff9582]

@@ashleymandigo4406 yep a lot of them are hateful since women get themost attention from the type of men that they want too, and alot of them have internal homophobia and even to the point of transforming and claiming they are now women too 🤣🤣😆😆WTF

[@xxwoman]

@@ashleymandigo4406right! They are still XYs.

[@gazellehelene5380]

A lot of them think women are too emotional. They have literally been taught that. They will not care because they believe that you are just overreacting and what they did is not so bad. You just blow it out of proportion or you are too "in your feelings'" They literally think of you like annoying children who cry and complain a lot and mostly deal with you because they are h0rny and sometimes lonely/ feel less of a man if they don't have a pretty woman on their arm. If it wasn't for that, they wouldn't really mess with us at all. Only love and respect makes them see us as humans with valid feelings, so if he does not love and respect you, you must leave immediately. If you want to know how you can tell if he loves you, don't sleep with him. Once s3x is off the table, he will be more quick to show his true nature. There is a reason why they pressure us for sex yet balk when we tell them we are pregnant: You are just a means to an end and your humanity is secondary.

[@h8h215]

Women are the gatekeepers for s3x men are the gatekeepers to relationships, if you withhold s3x men will withhold relationships, the problem comes in when the s3xual liberation movement struct because now men can get what they want without offering up commitment first, this is what has created the imbalance between the genders.

[@lovein4k206]

I took sex away from my exe for cheating and we broke up after he locked me out on the 2nd floor balcony. It was a span on a month of no sex. You said no lies. Im celibate, single and happier than ever.

[@h8h215]

@@lovein4k206 so what was the point of taking away sex? Shouldnt you of just left after he cheated?

[@lovein4k206]

@@h8h215 we were “trying to rebuild” so I removed that because he wasnt worthy of it anymore until later. There was no rebuilding, i was seen as a sex object and once that was gone, in his eyes, so was i

[@MariaPaula-uw3ds]

Thanks for understanding me!

[@Icannotlose]

This guy asked me on a date today. I said yes. He told me to get dressed and he’ll pick me up. I got dressed. An hour passed so I called. He said he forgot his money and went back to pick it up. That was two hours ago. He’s blocked now. Why go out your way to get my number and then ask me out on a date just to do this? This was the last straw. I’m done with men. I told God I was going to give it one more try because the others were physically abusive and cheaters. So God must’ve wanted to show me how these men really are and to focus on me. I’m grateful for the warning. It stings a little but I’ll be ok. So the other men in my phone want sex. Everyone is getting blocked because I see now they are ALL disgusting.

[@emjay313]

ALL of them

[@Icannotlose]

@@emjay313 it really is

[@CambieSweets]

Hope you didn’t give him your residential address for the pick up. It’s dangerous out here!

[@Renee_96]

Same here

[@77kc_77]

Wow 😢 I'm so sorry that sadistic behavior btw .. all of them are evil 😈

[@rujeruby]

I remember dating a guy for nearly 2yrs..met few family members like his mom, sister etc but no one told me he was married with children..wife called me one day and informed me she is pregnant with his 3rd child and he steps out around these times soo don't expect anything. I told her we've been dating for a good few years which shocked her..I answered any questions she had..turned out they lived out of London soo he would stay down here for work a few weeks each month. Me thinking he's just travelling for work like she did, he was playing games! At first he acted like he didn't know her and swore on everything it wasn't real, asked to move in together etc..I couldn't trust him anymore.. he started to sound shady and after photo evidence from wife! Relationship is over! The switch up after he heard I believed her instead of him was appalling...he said the most awful things then few days later tried calling to apologise and beg for another chance..I've had other crazy situations but that was the worst! 😢

[@Miawest01]

His sister and mom ain’t $h^t if he introduced you as his girlfriend. Women need to stay on code and protect each other not these low vibing men! And of course your ex ain’t $h^t either.

[@user-of9bx1uk3u]

He’s dangerous!😮 hope you’re okay and keeping well.xx

[@sensimania]

Why the rass is the wife still his wife and still having babies with him??? Instead, she's calling his side pieces to give them the tea?? Ugh... The things some women do to keep a man 🙄

[@tarawalton6778]

Wooooooow!!😮

[@oneandonly1990]

@sensimania Because he's either mentally and emotionally abusing the wife or she literally doesn't care if he cheats as long as he comes home and continues to care for their family. The wife just called to make sure sidechick didn't get any ideas and try to "break up their family" A lot of women know their husbands mess around and will endure it for money.

[@luckylady123100]

I’m honest to god so glad I came across my evil in my 20’s. He showed me how disrespectful men could be. It’s sad and unnecessary to have to endure relationships like this.

[@thedustysocietycrimes]

Please end the disclaimers, Ladies. It's OK to just be done and selfish. The. End. I am living a beautiful life bc I put my wants and needs first and after seeing all these bad relationships/marriages around me, I'm glad I ignored my Mom and always put myself first. If I'm not happy. I'm leaving. Periodt!😌

[@The_paciente]

Yep yep. My friends and fam are like why are you alone? Well I’m not attracted to women and the only other option is men and is that really an option? Nah. I’m good.

[@ianellicuellar16]

Aliens lol

[@copiouscat]

Facts.

[@lelduck6388]

A trans men maybe? He’d know what’s good.

[@tashahall1855]

Honestly, I used to wonder why so many men are no good until observing other women's behaivor including my own. We allow the foolishness. There could be red flags all up and down a man , and a woman will still give him a chance. More women need to stop competing for these losers and have some real standards.

[@harmony3279]

I agree.

[@corimoon3360]

That’s why women are de-centering men lol. But even when women DONT allow it they still don’t get anywhere because men are gonna men at the end of the day. I wonder why they “still give him a chance” it’s probably because Women and girls are raised from birth to put up with men and “give him a chance” we’re not like this for no reason lol. Women are not taking it anymore, but let’s also stop blaming women for “allowing” men to be as awful as they are. We aren’t “allowing” anything. They’re gonna be that way regardless lol.

[@EtherealSolana]

Correlation isn’t causation.

[@sandrasteele976]

Personality disorders are real and most of them infect men. Women are mimicking psychopathic male behavior but lots of men are genuinely personality disordered. This condition removes them from generally accepted "human" status. According to leading psychoanalysts - "the personality disordered are not human" - Sam Vaknin.

[@user-fv4gs2ts3c]

Agreed, they are not wired the same..

[@lunam33]

Some of them may be empty vessels, clones or AI, there is a theory that some humans have no soul, the Cosmic Matrix Podcast spoke on this will have to look for it. And we keep reproducing these soulless creatures genetically.

[@shivanipatel4369]

Love his content! And I agree, they’re calculative, cold and unpredictable. Something which wouldn’t cross our minds and its conditioning , something which is alien to us will usually be their next move.

[@77kc_77]

Facts what are we dealing with here

[@txspacemom765]

19 years of marriage, now getting divorced. He STILL doesn't understand how he broke a good person and has no remorse, feelings, nadda, about it. He is 53 and unhealed and I'm done. And yes, I vetted him, even before the internet. I just found out some things within the past 18 months. The vile intention of men, I can't anymore.

[@ksweetist]

What did you find out?

[@blobbertmcblob4888]

Well, come on! tell the entire story! Bet you're getting divorced because you're "bored".

[@pabloescobarschanclas]

@@blobbertmcblob4888why do you think you’re entitled to “the full story”….?

[@ashleymandigo4406]

@@blobbertmcblob4888you sound mad weird and crazy

[@idkjackman4418]

No one is good but the lord thy God. Now if you dont believe in Christ Jesus then ignore the first part. If you do.. idk how much prayer you have done.. idk who have you sought out to help with the evil forces in your marriage.. because the enemy is hard at work breaking everyone up.. especially those who dont have a good foundation in God. So thats up to you to decide.. 19 years sound like there were thing in your atmosphere consuming the both of you. did you get the divorce? Did you contribute the the statistics? Women vetting men dont work well.. look how it has worked for men, who feel the same way about women and traveling to other countries for their wives and seem happy. A good amount will last, the rest will because of the same issues that is plaguing the states and this world.. marriage must be broken.. return onto the lord thy God or it will be attacked heavily.

[@ericamena333]

Some men put on Oscar wining performances! That's how they blindside you. So its like walking a minefield checking for red flags and other signs.

[@Sociedadematriarcal]

After dating 3 guys who are totally different from each other, deep down they are the same, they have no empathy hurt u without any remorse and only think about themselves, I never want to hear from any man again apart from the ones I have in my family, I will take care of them and love them in life, but after that I don't want anything to do with men ever again

[@azureavocado5195]

I’m really confused. I am honestly confused. Do women not watch the news? Do you not see what these males are doing out here to other women every day? Do you think that you’re somehow special and exempt from the same? Make it make sense because I’m really confused.

[@Sociedadematriarcal]

@@azureavocado5195are u trying to offend me or what? I didnt get it I just used to believe that “good” man exist, i used to be teach that way, like almost woman do 🙄

[@blobbertmcblob4888]

@@azureavocado5195 If men are so bad then why is it almost always women killing their own children to get back at the father?

[@Childfree334]

​@@blobbertmcblob4888Untrue. I looked at statistics on child unaliving from several sources and the numbers for men are slightly higher.

[@Riverlily12]

​@@blobbertmcblob4888Boy stfu, you know that is not true. Men commit the most murder against literally everybody, including themselves and each other. Why are you crying all over a women's channel instead of proving us wrong?

[@jacquellesconiers7961]

I believe too many men absolutely lack EQ. They don't hear our words and cannot connect with our emotions. I believe many a woman has destroyed some material item a man has owned because she wants him to feel emotionally how she feels emotionally and he seems more connected to a material item than a flesh and blood human. That behavior is NOT condoned. As we mature as women and become more self-assured, recognize fear, shame and loneliness are choices, it becomes much more easier to walk away and not blink an eye. Everyone will have to face accountability for choices made in life. Men included. My mother always said "Peace of mind is a beautiful thing." Seek peace. Unfortunately, what disturbs me the most is the ire and aggression women are receiving from some men who have demonstrated they do not value women. Their shock and awe when she walks away, as if she doesn't have the right to set boundaries and standards. As if she doesn't have personhood. So protect yourselves as well. There is truly a spirit of chaos and confusion embarking on individuals these days; and it's being perpetuated by social media. Truth is women have always had to deal with adapting. While men haven't had to due to the patriarchal social norms. When you feel you're at the top, you can resent the belief you may need to adapt as well. Thus a possible reason why the cognitive dissonance is present. God help us all. Meanwhile, work on being a better you for you. In any relationship that person doesn't make you, you should be able to enhance one another.

[@Dangerous_Peace]

The amount of effort that women put into acknowledging that it's not all men really says a lot about how women humanize men. Meanwhile men don't do that for us, I have never been around men who acknowledge it's some good women out here. All of them tell you it's your fault that you got played by A man. Even with knowing the nature of men. Even knowing What they've done personally.... I think if we start treating them as they treat us. That's the only way they're gonna learn. I'm not talking about, Running game and dogging them. I am talking about not caring about them. First and foremost, Stop saying Not all. Because that actually applies to it's a smaller group than we wanna acknowledge. If that wasn't the case we wouldn't be out here dealing with women's rights. Men wouldn't be out here telling us it's their right to lead us. Like they're not listening to us because they don't take us serious. They know that there is always going to be some women fighting to look at men in a different light. Would you want to change if you knew that you were going to get rewarded regardless? If ya'll been following Princella, you will be able to accept this and stop taking it as if it's your burden to carry. You do not need to give a disclaimer for "good men". It's not about Hating men, it's about loving yourself enough to understand and accept them for who they are. There is too much information out here for us to carry on the way that we have, You're fighting to rationalize your attraction to men. It's not abnormal To be attracted to them, what is abnormal is to not accept them for who they are And thinking you're gonna make them into a good person.. If a man is a good man, let that dude prove it to you and stop going into situation talking about "not all men". It aint on you to prove to you that he's a good man. And I feel like that's where a lot of us set ourselves up for failure.

[@Childfree334]

You are so correct. Women are quick to say "Not All Men" but I have YET to read about or hear about men who will say "Not All Women" when men are putting us down.

[@zooweellama]

nicely said. in my honest opinion, women are attracted to men because of the fantasy version of them or its purely sexual. If women on a national scale knew who males were so many of us would opt out leaving the ones only sexually attracted, and even that number is low when you consider how much safer and enjoyable seggs toys are. its the fantasy that keeps women going.

[@ashleymandigo4406]

❤ ❤ ❤

[@lelaperkune1613]

Yes i am so sick of women always saying not other men when men dont do the same. I watch a lot of 90 day fiance videos and the women are always very rational in their comments they will say that a girl is manipualative and that a guy can do do better. But when a man is being manipulative to a woman you will NEVER see a man say oh the girl needs to run shes being manipulated. Men in fact will support the guy that is hurting and manipulating his gf and will Make excuses for him. Men always support men. Women dont 😭.

[@Hlorrh40]

YES YES YES!! A MILLIONS TIMES YES!! WOMEN STOP BEING A DOOR MAT!! They will never change unless you stop being a doormat. All we are is a way for them to relieve themselves of cu.m. They use as a tissue, a rug. STOP! RUN!!!!!

[@manifest2203]

No amount of vetting is going to actually vet these men. Most of them run the long con. One thing I have realised is, once a man feels that he has got her, that is when the mask slips off. Love doesn’t beget loyalty. Leverage begets loyalty. Men will behave if he has no other options or if he thinks she will leave or if he thinks he hasn’t gotten all that he wants from her- like he wants casual s3x only, or he wants a child from her, or he wants lifetime maid and doormat (the wife or a cheaper version is a gf). Once any or these goals are attained, he will drop his mask.

[@LouLouLion]

So true

[@Liz-wz8dh]

That's so sad but that's 100 percent true with a lot of men these days. They're just working a strategy to get what they want. It's really up to women to look at them on a case by case basis and figure out the strategy early enough to get out before it becomes toxic.

[@jenbodhi1133]

This is exactly what I’ve learned too

[@aliatianna7809]

Some people are going to hate me for saying this but it has to be said. What do we as women expect when so many women are willing to go through absolute hell to keep a man ? I’ve seen women deal with infidelity, incest, rape, domestic abuse, violence, disrespect, and even nearly getting killed just to keep a man around. There’s no way to compete with that. Instead of complaining just be glad you dodged a bullet. Because trust me there is a line of women that look just as good as you, ready to take all the crap! Be patient for an honest man please. It might be lonley but it’s worth it.

[@ninagrace-lee8323]

A year ago I would have agreed. But this has nothing to do with us. Look at the birth rate, look at the marriage rate, look at the divorce rate?? Women are definitely making a statement about what they refuse to tolerate. And society is reeling from it - now we are getting laws enacted and civil rights changed to force us to comply. Men aren’t going to change! Women can’t make a man change. Millions try every day and still…they (men) externalize the issue. Women internalize everything as a sign things are wrong with US and how we can do better. Men don’t do that sis. Not at all.

[@fittomakeup9890]

🎯🎯💯💯💝💝💝

[@Trrinx]

Yep! There’s always another lady willing to take him on after you walk away. They’ll continue hurting us.

[@mscherbeare]

I think most of us are saying" I'm good, get somebody else to do it".

[@THErealOGse]

110% this. But if you call other women out for this shit you're accused of victim blaming. Nah. It isn't that. Accountability in other women is huge or should be huge.

[@truvy_5544]

Right they’ll be so hurtful but we gotta watch our tone and words🥴

[@EbonyHoopGyal]

This may sound nerdy / crazy, but I just did the math. Let’s say on average I tried 1-2 days/week, or 3-4 days at my peak, since I WILLFULLY began to date men at the age of 16. After 12 years, that is 1174 days. That is a MINIMUM guesstimate. So yeah after ~1200 days of putting on a full face of makeup, best dresses, and heels, and earning 0.1-2% returns, I am absolutely burnt out from dating. I do not have energy to try to roll those dice one more extra night.

[@jessicanorris3614]

Say you invested around $50 worth of time and energy each of those days. Imagine if you'd invested that extra $50k in your retirement or whatever. "Choose better" should mean "choose a lucrative side hustle over dating men"

[@blobbertmcblob4888]

Put in poor effort, gain poor results. Dating is NOT all about just looking nice and btw, a lot of guys don't like girls who are caked in makeup, makes y'all look fake as hell. No I don't mean a little, I mean those girls who are caked in the stuff. If you waltz up to me in full makeup, a dress and heels, I'd pay less attention to you than if you strolled up with messy hair, a hoodie and sneakers.

[@TLJones]

I’m a math/numbers person and these two comments resonated with me so much….

[@sherose5370]

2 and a half years in a relationship (i was 20yrs) and 23 years later still trying to recover and heal from it. I'm 45 years then after that, EVERY "nice guy" was not so nice at all. I'm single,happy,celibate and stress free. No one can convince me otherwise.

[@truthseeker3967]

What country are you from?

[@sherose5370]

@@truthseeker3967 South Africa

[@truthseeker3967]

@@sherose5370 thank you for responding

[@BrooklynWalka]

Im jealous. this is goals

[@idkjackman4418]

That stat is true then.. you all will be single and the cost of mens seed will sky rocket to have children.. more women may even rape men possibly.. understand nothing works seeking out of your own heart. Seek the lord thy God and he will fix all things thru your heart.

[@mmxw2294]

My issue is being harassed by folks that I’ve never dated and have no plans on dating and they feel that because they have some attraction to me physically or otherwise that I am obligated to them in some kind of way so if that’s not a men tall illness then I don’t know what it is and that’s not even the end because then they’ll go out of their way to slander you or to do little manipulative things to try to affect you and your life in a negative way while all along you haven’t done a thing

[@blobbertmcblob4888]

Nobody is doing this to you lol. If they are then it boils down to you surrounding yourself with the wrong kind of people. No one thinks you're that attractive lmao

[@gabbsdy8741]

​​@@blobbertmcblob4888do you actually know from which country this woman is? or from which cultur or social group? If she has this problem it is not necessarily her cousing it by choosing wrong people. some man in some cultures wont leave woman alone i have lived in 4 countries and treveled in more than 30 in some places woman have it very hard dealing with those animals

[@raecoleman-wf2cp]

This!!!! 💯 this happens to me A LOT. Been happening to me since I was really young. If it's your neighborhood and you're old enough to leave, baby GO. If you're not, you HAVE to tell whoever you're living with. They will become physically abusive, or will get a girl to fight you "just because", it happened to me, and it started when I was just 12 YEARS OLD 😢 if it's at school, ask your parents if you can transfer out. God bless you and PLEASE be safe and stay alert.

[@raecoleman-wf2cp]

​​@@blobbertmcblob4888Dude this could be a young girl stfu and mind your damned business

[@user-fv4gs2ts3c]

Agreed and it happens in the daily.

[@fuckeries]

It’s so interesting this decentring men movement. Without knowing, I’ve checked out for the past 2-3 years. I don’t have energy.

[@edt4080]

We been decentering women

[@HospitalForSouls.X]

@@edt4080you never had us centered. You’re all SELF centered. Bye!!!😂

[@HospitalForSouls.X]

@@edt4080read the room and get out where you ain’t wanted

[@rileahangelaweston]

​@@edt4080and yet you're still here

[@lovelywaters3760]

Single for 5 years and I’m sooo happy. I have more money. House is peaceful children are happy. Vacation when I want buy what I want go where I want. Relationships are overrated.

[@mayajackson5024]

The problem is majority of men aren't being raised to be husbands or to be in touch with their sensitive side. Also, men are not held accountable for their behavior. There are too many women who are willing to exhange their love of self, for the societal aesthetics of being in a relationship. Men know this fact and they exploit it, which is why so many of them don't care about women... they know that they don't have to care because women just accept it... there's no respect for women sadly on both sides.

[@Childfree334]

This is very true. Look how long it takes the average woman to leave a relationship after being cheated on, abused, disrespected, and mistreated IF she ever does. That is why men are so shocked by the rare women who actually hold some standards and boundaries. When I tell men NO, they can't handle it because they are not used to it.

[@mayajackson5024]

@@Childfree334 exactly! To be honest, men have been getting away with a lot of bs because they've done a great job with conditioning women via manipulation of patriarchy and submissiveness. A lot of women are starting to realize and embrace the fact that a man is suppose to be an addition to their happiness and not the sole reason for their happiness. It's funny because a lot men know that the jig is up, so now there's a ton male podcasts where they are trying to manipulate women by telling them that they are going to be lonely with cats if they're not in a relationship with men and I love how women are like...ok 🤷🏾‍♀️ lol. Good men are the minority and a lot of women don't have the capacity to deal with the trauma that majority of men creates. I'm happily married because my husband never made me suffer in order to be loved properly. We unsubscribed to what society dictates what our happiness should be and what to do in order to have a happy/successful relationship.

[@staceywilliams1863]

True!

[@gravityclarity]

"Men do not have the equipment to give me what I need from them." That's so true. It's sad. But true.

[@vonnii1013]

She is me!!!!....I do not have the emotional fortitude to deal with them.....I feel her this shit is stupid..... Cheating and lying I'm over it

[@Jac527]

This dude that I used to see was such a coward to end things face to face. I had to call and ask why was going on and made me decide to end it before NEW YEAR!! 8 months later, he wanted to redo again the situationship. I said in his fucking face that I don’t that foolishness anymore go be someone else’s problem and left. Now I’m enjoying my peace. Priorities yourself ladies because these me do protect their own interests.

[@marleyhill34]

Yup the cowardice took me out too. I cannot. I can't have courage for myself, my children and a grown adult man too?!!

[@Liz-wz8dh]

Just be careful telling guys off. Some of them are pretty violent and have narcissistic wounds around being rejected. It may seem cowardly not to just tell them to their face what's what, but just remember, it's men that kill far more women than the other way around.

[@go-goyubari8776]

They're NEVER GOING TO CHANGE!

[@edt4080]

We're men

[@77kc_77]

Nope save yourself and be happy solo

[@evedelgado2345]

Treat them like the dirt that they are🙂 They respect you more for it. NEVER give them anything financially. They only respect what they INVEST into. LOVE YOURSELF and FK the rest.

[@edt4080]

Baby women treating men like dirty will lead to more disdain trust me and more evilness too

[@Armelleee]

You arent entilted to us. Go hang out with the boys. ​@edt4080

[@knHebrew]

Every single ex I had ended up being a narc. One was a psychopath though

[@sarahs5340]

Yup!

[@blobbertmcblob4888]

That's a YOU problem, you keep picking the same kind of guy xD

[@Redacted24-r2h]

​@@blobbertmcblob4888Are we supposed to pick a guy like you? Lemme guess, you're a "nice guy"?

[@77kc_77]

Yes I can confess and testify

[@N3V3rSettle]

And vetting is so hard. Everyone says to vet but a man can check all the boxes off and still do you wrong. I knew a man and was very close to him for years. He was very educated, kept a job, had his own place, own car, no kids, never married, spiritual man, funny, charming, kind, and we were very good friends. We would talk on the phone for hours about everything and anything, go out on dates and spend time speaking about the future. He actually brought up marriage and children mutiple times. Everyone was telling us that we belonged together and they were anticipating us getting together. Both his friends and family and mine too. But we were never physically intimate because an excluaive relationship had not been established. But we were so close, people thought we were together. Once our connection got deeper, he basically started ignoring me. We have mutual friends and one of them asked him about us. And he told the friend that he really liked me and had a true connection but he didnt want anyone to have expectations of him. Yet he often asked me if I could and would cook for him and commented on physical intimacy acts that he expected in a relationship. 🙄🤔 After a while,I guess once he realized how serious I was about us, he started acting like I was bothering him. I wouldn't hear from him unless I texted or called him. And then he just went silent. I would call amd text but his answers were always vauge or indifferent if he answered at all. I finally realized that I was chasing him. I cut off all contact. He reached out maybe once or twice, probably just to see if he still has access to me. It hurt badly because like I said, I knew this man as a friend for years amd he acted like he wanted a relationship with me and then it was just over...I'm still healing from it. And trying not to hate him so I dont block my blessings. I just cant belive I put so much into that relationship and he could just act like it never happened. At this point, I almost feel like why bother? I can't handle putting in so much effort to maintain a relationship and get my hopes up amd then something like this happens again...

[@MaroonRose3216]

I had the same happen to me. I was in love with the guy. But never gave myself away because he didn’t give the commitment I desired. I have no regrets because I knew what was bound to happen. Usually when they’re distant or different, there’s a new woman.

[@justthatdude1119]

Just my point of view I kno I’m a man so don’t kill me. It seems like y’all was cool close friends, y’all tried dating and getting together but it didn’t work from him. Women like to make up these huge elaborate scenarios when for men most of the time it’s simple he just simply didn’t like you enough to have a relationship. And that’s ok. Because if you didn’t like him as must to make it official he shouldn’t degrade your character because you felt that way.

[@MaroonRose3216]

@@justthatdude1119 this is true. I think sometimes, though, the problem is that you figure out before us that you don’t like us “enough”. But rather than telling us, some men carry on like business as usual, gaining benefits, without disclosing the uncomfortable truth. And then just ghost or blindside. That can make a person feel used betrayed. But you are absolutely correct that sometimes it just doesn’t work out and people have a hard time accepting that, male and female.

[@N3V3rSettle]

​@@justthatdude1119Thanks for your response. I understand where you are coming from. I learned my lesson. Now I know better for the future.

[@RobertaS127]

@@justthatdude1119 Nah, it seems to me like he got what he wanted and then dipped.

[@lucidladyleo]

Married and can comfirm that these men are emotionally unavailable which is a really hurtful realization after having children, especially. You can pour your heart and soul out just to be left with a blank look of confusion 🤣 its not even funny.

[@GHO5tMod3]

Most men treat women better when they’re friends , strippers, etc than their wives girlfriends and children

[@videofan1010]

😂

[@Aanal-v7m]

😂lol

[@Balgees24]

That Why divorce is higher and birth are declined. I'm glad women are leaving and wants to be left alone.

[@edt4080]

Sweetheart men want nothing to do with women is the real issue in the last days men will be lovers of themselves

[@TheHestya]

It's tiring. Every man I've been with has been a bad person and I was too naiive and too kind to see it. I'm almost 30 now, met my current partner years ago and am so lucky to have someone kind and loving, someone who cheers me up, makes me smile and laugh, cheers for me, is proud of me when I achieve things, supports me. It's a whole different world, ladies. Do not settle for lesser than what you deserve. I wish I'd understood how shitty they all were from the get go, but at least now I know what a good man is like. I was ready to give men up when I met him, and thought 'the last time' when I gave him a chance. If something happened now, I'd live the rest of my life content with myself or with other women, thankfully I don't discriminate.

[@musicalldiva]

I’m older than the women in this video. I stopped dealing with these men years ago. I can’t tell you how peaceful my life is. There are to many traumas in life to have to deal with a person who GIVES YOU MORE TRAMA!!! Nah, I’m good.

[@helgapataki4156]

I grieve for the gentle part of Me that desired love at the xs I was being mistreated & kept trying. So now I'm emotionally retired. Ladies we CANNOT carry the entire relationship alone, they have to do the work too.

[@janschild]

They just don’t care. They will choose what they want or need over anybody else’s feelings EVERY.TIME.

[@PossibleBat]

I feel like women all over the world are realizing this at such a fast rate. At least that’s what it seems from social media and the women I know. Sad to realize it will never happen, but hopeful that there’s other stuff in life worth living for. It isn’t you ladies, it really isn’t your fault. Modern society has broken men beyond repair. Move in silence and be happy.

[@mjohnson1741]

As I've gotten older I'm more pessimistic about the idea of love. I'm more impressed with trust and respect.

[@leilaniduffins3013]

I did exactly what this young lady did. I stopped filling cups of people who’s energy that no longer served me and began to replenish my own cup and went celibate. Worked on my shadow side, did some Healing and self care and learned to love myself unconditionally. Had a friend tell me I wasn’t going to find love on my sofa in my hair bonnet. When the universe saw I learned the lesson I needed to learn, the right person came along while I was in my sofa wearing a hair bonnet! Lol I had a connection with someone years ago but we was on two different paths until our paths lead us back together. We are getting married Oct 2024 ❤ Work on you, love on you, until the right one comes along to reciprocate And know your self worth. ❤❤❤

[@rubinfeuerherz3799]

I wish you a happy life girl!!🥰

[@blondebeaker938]

I completely understand all of this video... It's a shame how inconsiderate and hurtful they are

[@waitwhat6056]

Men have been taught that they are Kings, and women are tools to meet and serve their needs...like pieces of property. I lost the desire to marry, will not have kids, and don't want another relationship. I walked away from someone because he systematically sabotaged our connection and killed every ounce of trust and love I had for him. He was a wolf in sheep's clothing with a jekyll and hyde personality. I gave myself back my peace.

[@AramintaRossPistol]

The reason I decentered men from my from life is because there is just no certain demographics of these abusive men. It's executives all the way down to homeless bums and I did not want to find out first hand. I have a friend who was married to high ranking soldier who treated her like a dog. She is very petite, and he forced her to get a tummy tuck and breast implants. Also, when she had her menstrual cycle, he would force her to have a*** segggs.

[@ianellicuellar16]

I'm pretty sure he didnt force her. She wanted it deep down unless he was abusing hern then she could have left right ?

[@AramintaRossPistol]

@ianellicuellar, he himself told us that he forced her to get the surgeries because he was no longer physically attracted to her after she birthed two children. I can't speak on if he physically struck her, but he certainly sexually, mentally and financially abused her.

[@qu33nofhear7s]

@@ianellicuellar16 In case you didn't know, people who are abused can't just leave. It's like they are put in a mental cage in order for the abuse to continue.

[@blobbertmcblob4888]

Soldiers in general, are dickheads. Your sample size is not a very good one.

[@ARS-fn6px]

​@@ianellicuellar16was that an attempt to help you sleep better? 😂 Piece of shxt you are, huh?

[@robynsalaver4069]

I was married to my best friend. He was funny, patient, kind, generous, handsome, and more. He was everything I wanted. When he left, he was incredibly cruel and had a whole speech prepared. He listed all the ways I failed him as a wife and why I deserved a divorce. He said he never loved me and almost hated me. I was completely blindsided because he never voiced any unhappiness during our ten years. I still have his love letters, which confuse me to this day. He quickly married his younger, prettier mistress. Meanwhile, I gave up everything to support his career and was left broke. Once he became successful, I was no longer needed. He never felt remorse.

[@rubinfeuerherz3799]

Dont worry, the woman will leave him once she finds someone better - I am sorry you had to go through that, same thing happend to me.

[@winnie3003]

I feel sorry for these young women. I lost my mate of 18 yrs in 2019. I am an older woman so I expected the men my age would present better. I do have SB and expectations so I will not date below my pay grade. The men who approached me only wanted sex. They did not want a relationship, they didn't want to date, go to dinner, movies, concerts, nothing. I have decided that I will live the rest of my life without a man because I can't and I will not deal with the mentality of these men.

[@Miawest01]

Maintain your peace. 💜

[@ARS-fn6px]

Also know that infections happen more often in the older demographic (since older people use less protection for some reason than younger folk) and older women are more prone/sensitiveto these infections. Its literally bad for women to have seggs with random men unprotected at any age but even worse in women of older age. ❤

[@emjay313]

Exactly. They’re so sex crazed. That has been my same experience. Now many of them are gay, it’s crazy.

[@michellejarvis7878]

In response to men who say "pick better" I say, Do you know any men you would want with your mother or sister? I'm assuming you love your mom and sister.

[@ianellicuellar16]

Don't bring that up lol even that's questionable

[@toscadonna]

My Dad told me 10 years ago that it was easy to find a good guy, so I said, “Then introduce me to one. Just one good man.” He said he had a good male friend he’d introduce me to who was 50 years old, but he didn’t know if he had the money to take me to dinner. So I’m in my 30s at the time, and my own father says I should go out with a 50 year old brokie?😂

[@Nobody-jo5fm]

The ones gaslighting us with the "pick better" remarks are often themselves POS, they also are playing the game.

[@blobbertmcblob4888]

@@Nobody-jo5fm *woman gets with a guy who is an obvious asshole* Woman: Why are you such an asshole!? People don't change. What you see is what you get. There is no "gaslighting".

[@shivanipatel4369]

@@ianellicuellar16😂 talk about enmeshment with mommy and sister

[@mixtapewrecker]

even being friends with benefits with a man is emotionally draining, they don't know how to communicate! at all! I got into an fwb situation so that I could avoid the labour that comes with being in a heterosexual relationship but HELL, I cried more than I ever did in my life by being around him. he made me feel like shit, constantly. it took me so long to recognise it because I thought I was self-aware enough to avoid being hurt by a basic man. he broke my spirit, he really did and now I hate being in the company of men. they're so disrespectful and full of hate for us.

[@AdrianChang-q5f]

He assumed you "disrespected" yourself by being someone's f*ckbuddy. So he thought "why should I respect her either?" I know it is unfair but sexual value is the only value they put on us. In his mind it wasn't 2 consenting adults having an agreement, like it should be. Women, men will never fulfill our sexual needs either because our bodies and minds won't benefit from that kind of detached sex.

[@mixtapewrecker]

@@AdrianChang-q5f you're absolutely right. I was 21 and had escaped an abusive relationship to only land in another toxic situation. I didn't know better, sigh.

[@oOIIIMIIIOo]

Nah, you still have your spirit. Give it time to come out of the cave. 🙂

[@AdrianChang-q5f]

@@mixtapewrecker poor darling, hope you continue to heal! I have been hurt deeply by a man too. They really leave us traumatized.

[@mixtapewrecker]

@@AdrianChang-q5f thank you and I'm sorry about what you went through.

[@23imsoawesome]

They only respect you when Yu treat them like they don't matter.

[@boop79]

Truth

[@Datb2]

Yup

[@vibinwithshunda]

True

[@Renee_96]

Exactly

[@tfkdandsvkc]

Truth!! Give them that cold energy they like to give and they immediately fall in line and respect us!! It's literally insanity

[@TheCarnivoreSoprano]

It doesn't matter how long you wait. The math is not there for you to get a man to yourself. The majority of men are not capable. It is time for many to realize that you can find love and fulfillment within and not with a man.

[@shaylaahava6413]

Christ Y'all... Christ.... there's so much peace with Him in your life... 💯 There's a certain wisdom and discernment that comes to you when you know Him...

[@dclarke1896]

I have to agree! I’m 45 years old and I’ve had men emotionally and psychologically abuse me with no remorse. They have been disloyal, abandoned me, lied to me, ghosted me the list goes on. I have no desire to date. I’ve survived enough abuse just focusing on myself and my son. Even though I’ve never had a good man romantically I know that there are good men out there I just never had one and I’m good finally. I’m loving and protecting my peace. At this point (peace) is all the man I need or want.

[@barkingsheep5224]

Well. Ladies. We have an entire planet to heal. Let’s get to it.

[@Nobody-jo5fm]

Nope. We are forced to heal alone, nobody comes to heal us, so I'll be damned if I waste my energy healing others who wouldn't do the same for me. Why is it always expected that those of us who are routinely targeted as potential prey in a world of predators are somehow obligated to be the sacrificial lambs.

[@SpiritualSojourns]

Men will age you 10 fold…I wouldn’t trade my peace for no man!

[@tyturner7110]

Thank you so much for sharing your story. It frightens me to the point of rage to see comments about “ Don’t let strangers this and you should never let a stranger that” As if we are all children who don’t know better🙄 We very much need a mental shift, one more giant collective push, to piece together that pick-up artistry has been a known hunting tactic since Casanova. That we aren’t talking about strangers, we are talking men we knew, and trusted. Men who crafted elaborate, catered, detailed lies. Then turn around and say “ Aw shucks, you know men are just simple creatures, we can build empires make war strategies, write classic literature, compose music, but we don’t know nothin’ about the women folks”

[@YourGuiltyConscience]

Solution - Us boy-moms need to Really focus on creating a new breed of men or we all going extinct yall😅

[@marleyhill34]

There aren't enough boys moms anymore because people have stopped having kids.

[@misslola007]

My sister is a boy mom and it ain't going so well and the dad is living with them. After a certain age, your boys will not listen to you as a mother. I hope and pray my ex steps up as a good father and be an example. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@azureavocado5195]

Y’all are actually the problem and you are creating the terrors that are ruining women’s lives. Be ACCOUNTABLE.

[@LoveAndSnapple]

@@misslola007 Agreed. If he’s still listening to you the way he was listening to you as he was a little child he’s going to be emotionally stunted and won’t learn to be a man about himself. The call of the patriarchy is stronger than any woman’s words. He’ll go out and do what he needs to/wants to do as a man but when it comes to certain matters, his mother’s word is law. And then there is the girlfriend/wife somewhere on a lower rung.

[@Mira-gu6we]

​@@misslola007 i have also noticed that.

[@truthorlies5282]

I literally keep telling ppl I rarely meet men I actually like, it starts there if you see he's not likeable I mean within his soul, and character why be surprised they dgaf

[@Jenjenn1111]

This so true and it’s so tiring and exhausting and nothing will change because most of them see nothing wrong with their behavior and only blame women for everything. No accountability.

[@stilljocelyn_]

Yep I took myself out the game 3 years ago… been working on myself since and I just can’t do it anymore. I no longer have the emotional capacity to deal with men’s intrinsic hatred and low emotional intelligence.

[@Moszan]

Yes, I know the feeling. I had a father like the men these women described.