My Neighbour Is Gaslighting Me Into Thinking My Husband Is Cheating r/Relationships

[@CompanionCarli]

Bro, the pain in Markee's voice over the story on the daughter walking in on the parents. I think he's gonna need therapy too after reading this.

[@Notoriouscj1]

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[@davidrodriguez9013]

@@Notoriouscj1 1:00:52

[@fiyahquacker2835]

Reminded me of the story where a guy was unknowingly in love with and had sex with his deadbeat but then later learnt who his "boyfriend" was from his mom when they accidentally met each other.

[@Konachn4ever]

@@basura3787 Right that was disgusting that the OP accidentally had Incest with his Deadbeat Father!😓

[@rmclearran1]

I need ear bleach after this story so gross 🤮🤮

[@VidGirl88]

Markee's soul left his whole body reading the daughter walking in on the parents part. I felt bad laughing at his reaction because OHMYGOD that story powdered my spine.

[@sleepyearth]

The update is EVEN WORSE than i thought.

[@immapotato1]

@@sleepyearth OP has several updates afterwards and it gets worse for the poor kid....

[@SerenEirian]

@@immapotato1 WHERE?

[@sailorginsing]

Poor guy took a ton psychic damage

[@Raggmopp-xl7yf]

I laughed too and I have to say that I had a LOT of friends who "walked in" on their parents. They were ALL traumatized and I'm soooo GLAD I wasn't one of them!! Even now that thought is a big NOPE for me!

[@BallinSloth]

It's absolutely hysterical that people were telling the first OP to snoop, not tell the husband/ lie. Now they're all like "oh you guys should work on your communication. "

[@JamesL0717]

??? Snooping when under suspicion is 100% the right move. I'm not sure what the fk you're angry about. If you're the type to always reveal your suspicion right away, then if your spouse really did cheat, he/she would easily hide the evidence and gaslight you into oblivion. Obviously overreacting to a suspicion is also a no go, but snooping and in severe cases, even hiring PI under strong suspicion is 100% the right move.

[@vincentlucario5450]

@@JamesL0717he’s complaining that the commenters are always leaning to one side or the other, no in between

[@cl5470]

​@vincentlucario5450 except Reddit almost always gives men a pass while grilling women for existing. Single and sleeping with people? Slut! Married and too tired from childbirth for sex? Shrew! Wanting partner to do half of the housework when they both work? Nag! Hiring a maid because she's too busy to do it all? Lazy slob! Takes good care of herself or even gets botox or plastic surgery? Vain and shallow! Doesn't wear makeup daily and prefers jeans and sweats? You let yourself go and he deserbes to cheat! She wants kids? Baby trapper! She is childfree? Unnatural and selfish! She works hard and makes money? You're immaculating him! She stays home with the kids? You're a leech! There is no winning at womanhood.

[@legendarybushidobrown560]

It sounds like the neighbor has feelings for the husband and he rejected her.

[@LunaP1]

Ain't that always the way? Some worthless, jealous slutbag wants what she doesn't deserve and is willing to cause problems.

[@Witch_Pudding]

Oofsdsr

[@taylorslade961]

I kinda got the impression that the neighbor had tried it before. She said the other wives in the neighborhood all had experience with "the cheaters" and that's sus to me.

[@eldeano9964]

Check the ages. Neighbour is projecting. Probably got replaced by a 'younger model' once.

[@jakemarie828]

Neighbor is not his type because she's too old for him 🙄

[@rmclearran1]

Mom: hey hun let's spice up our bedroom life with some incestuous role play wearing our child's clothes 🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮

[@Tree-House69]

Yea that's uhhhhh genuinely MEGA disturbing If the father found THAT arousing then, well!!!!! Time for the daughter to get out ASAP.

[@ThatOddChickenHippie]

AND HE AGREED TO IT! Not only did he agree to it, apparently HE LIKED IT! 🤮🤢🤮🤢

[@JanieBgrand]

Truly twisted/sick in the head stuff right there.

[@ZombieSazza]

“She apologised that I walked in on it”, that’s WORSE, she’s not even sorry for fetishising HER OWN DAUGHTER

[@normanmerritt1395]

I can only think the parents were using the dress to make mom feel younger. It is odd. Don't know what to feel about this.

[@anonbleh5024]

@@normanmerritt1395the girl asked who’s idea it was to roleplay as her and the mom said it was hers, it wasn’t to make her feel younger, it was because one or both of them find their daughter attractive in a way no parent should

[@ZombieSazza]

“Made an amazing dinner and screwed his brains out all night” God what an absolute BOSS move, she truly screwed him which was absolutely deserved. Imagine sending pics of your wife to your ex wife, calling her “white whale”, being two faced, he’s a pathological liar and doesn’t deserve her at all. I’m glad she escaped.

[@ChristineKrannich]

Well, at least Markee’s future children (if there are ever any) don’t have to be concerned that they’ll walk in on Dad and Mom roleplaying as them, in their clothes or otherwise. I don’t recall Markee ever being this repelled by a story in the past.

[@Riftdancer527]

I'm not to this story as I just started this video as of writing but if this story is what I think it is, that might just be that video stitched into the compilation as I've heard it before

[@Tynuki_Kabuki]

I remember the “white whale” story (gods that’s awful), and literally, it’s people like that husband that gives me legit trust issues and it’s TERRIFYING how he flawlessly acts like the perfectly loving husband in front of his wife and just becomes absolutely VILE when talking about her to his *EX*-HIS EX of all people-like, what the heck was he even gaining from seemingly validating his *cheating ex wife???* It’s people like this that go the extra mile in their two-faced behavior who are genuinely scary tbh-😰

[@Fingerscrossedout]

I know right? My ex did something similar to me with his ex and I can say he was even more vile in the time after that...

[@44waxwings]

That dude is clearly quite fucked psychologically and my only thought is that he got validation out of his ex coming back to him as well as getting a hefty ego boost by her coming back and saying "oh I never should have left you, the guy I cheated on you with and left you for couldn't live up to you emotionally or sexually" and dude just got off on that so hard. Truly depraved shit

[@animatorstanley]

That one hit hard for me, last year I lost my dad and two pregnancies. I also gained weight and more mental health issues with it. I'm working hard of fixing myself and to think my partner would do something like that is horrifying. I'm certain he wouldn't but OP was certain too. I just hope the best for her.

[@LittleImpaler]

I wonder why the husband did that? Too bad she didn't ask.

[@JMF527]

Dude needs to go back to the ex and be the cuck he is

[@ElleD308]

When the insufferable OP that hid her bf keys after being abusive AF in every sense of the way said that she doesn't contribute monetarily but contributes emotionally, Oh man, I haven't laughed that hard for ages. The denial and entitlement in this soul is beyond 😂

[@socketyellow3]

Since she doesn’t contribute any good emotions, I’m guessing she just supplied sex

[@marionmarshall8438]

If she won't help herself, why should anyone accommodate her?

[@glorywr]

She isn't diagnosed with any disability. She admitted to self diagnosing. She is disabled but not the way she thinks and that's why she's not able to get disability from the government. She needs to be properly diagnosed and seek therapy for her clear abusive/narcissistic tendencies.

[@animatorstanley]

Like she doesn't do anything else? No cleaning or anything? Even if it's limited by her disability I'm sure there's something she can do. Plus emotional abuse isn't contributing in a good way to the relationship.

[@fandomfan2800]

no

[@Gilhelmi]

"DO YOU WANT YOUR DAUGHTER DYING ON A BACKSTREET ABORTIONIST TABLE?" Those are the words of a wise woman.

[@Arkryal]

Wait, where exactly are these "Backstreet abortionists"? I've never seen one. Granted, I haven't been looking, but still, sounds like a bit of hyperbole to me. I don't imagine many teenage girls think "Oh shit, I'm pregnant... I better go see the coat-hanger guy in the panel van behind Del Taco". Sure, there are medical clinics that can help with that. And a lot of them can help with (or even excuse) the cost in those situations, but lets keep it in the realm of reality. I do agree with her point, mind you. She's not wrong in principle, it's just a really weird way of conveying that point, lol.

[@Gilhelmi]

@@Arkryal Honestly, these days there are not many left. It was more of an issue years ago when when abortion was "less legal" (pre Row V. Wade. So early 70s and before). It is why as a pro-lifer, I also believe that there should be some legal abortion services. (Well regulated).

[@user-ooop]

Honestly, it's reasons like these for why I'm pro choice & not pro birth. I never want a kid & couldn't imagine being forced into a drastic option.

[@trashcan2748]

@@Arkryal If the pregnant person is a minor, they may not be able to get help from a proper medical facility if they don’t want to let their parents know about their pregnancy. That leaves them with primarily shady options that are far less safe, albeit most likely in a slightly different setting modern day.

[@justine8387]

@@Arkryal you obviously won't see them if you don't look hard.

[@madihaq2252]

Mother role-playing as daughter story: Poor, poor Markee! Our narrator has been traumatised whilst entertaining us with stories 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 We're sorry, Markee! But your reactions are just too brilliant! 🥰

[@palmspirit1833]

Woah, the story about the girl walking in on her parents is wild. All the while I was thinking it was most likely the parents playing around like "remember when I used to dress like this -> haha -> getting carried away -> sexy time. To think that this was actual role-playing is crazy.

[@lorifiedler13]

Doesn't matter. That girl is scarred for life. After she moves out "to her friends place and after burning the clothes" the parents will be paying for some very expensive therapy.

[@DJCooL4]

My theory is that it was brat play and the mother used the daughter as a reference point without thinking about the weirdness of it.

[@shewolfinubaka]

@@DJCooL4 yea I think mom had a daddy/ brat kink BUT YOU DON’T ROLE PLAY AS YOUR CHILD ALSO the father just went along with it I don’t think any sane person could ever do that like role playing is one thing but getting off at pretending to molest your child/be your child getting molested??? Also this was DEFINITELY happening when OP was still a minor ALSO but your own damn teens clothes to do your kink shit DON’T USE YOUR CHILDS!!!!

[@digitalharmony26]

Disabled OP 1000% needs to live alone. The victim complex is insane. Abusive asf. And delusional too. They posted another AITA because they didn’t get the results they wanted the first time. If your abused partner said you aren’t abusive, that means nothing. He may have said that because he doesn’t want to upset you, is scared of you, or doesn’t realise it yet. Would love to hear your sisters side of things…

[@localkate]

I don't wanna doubt her disability, but I have sensory issues on top of a couple other things and I was able to get benefits fairly easily. Part of me is wondering if she won't go get diagnosed because she doesn't want to face a chance it's all just the world's most gigantic victim complex.

[@digitalharmony26]

@@localkate I’m wondering the same. Also it feels she enjoys having the issue and not doing anything to help herself, using it as an excuse to not do anything. I’m heavily disabled and I do all I can to cope and manage and not be a burden on those I live with. She doesn’t seem to want to do anything to manage slightly easier with her problems.

[@merpasakiejingu]

My question is, does she even have an official diagnosis of disability or did she self-diagnose herself to where she could be an even bigger victim to herself and everyone she abuses/manipulates? I have a friend who thinks everyone should work around his issues instead of learning to cope with the rest of the world and while his issues are actually diagnosed and less severe than OP's seem to be, the entitlement regardless is outstanding, to make someone bend over backwards for you, but you doing absolutely nothing to add back to them, other than to be a leech/burden.

[@Ms777Lena]

She is mentally ill, she is 100% inventing her issues as she goes. She likes attention and somebody tk mooch of. That is the reason she is never diagnosed with any of the issues she was claiming to have. USA is not a jungle where people can't get diagnosed for decades.

[@Ms777Lena]

Oh, and if she ever goes to live alone she'll have issues with neighbors and immediatelly adjust her issues to that circumstances.

[@muhname6052]

schizophrenia: filled me with rage. Pure rage. I hope the SIL loses custody of the kids. I can't imagine how much damage such a vile thing would do to children.

[@Tevikolady]

Because Sue's marriage blew up, she wants to destroy her sister's marriage so that they can be together in their misery, and she'll have a free babysitter for her son. I really wonder what story she spun to her parents to get them that agitated.

[@bddag]

“I’ve got a basket of assholes and everyone of you get inside!” LOL I love this 😂😂😂😂

[@crazypyp5871]

Wtf is wrong with Reddit. Their advice sucks ass a lot of times. The first story being one of them. They also seem to label people with a lot of mental illnesses that if you did a quick google search of symptoms or did any research at all, would know the behaviors don’t match up. It’s wild how many people on there claim to be the end all be all of relationship experts despite not knowing how to properly handle these situations or treat these with adult conversations.

[@AbbyMcKay]

Right, like the one with the husband getting on antidepressants and he's shamed because he doesn't have the motivation to get out of bed in the morning. It's not like he's a dead beat parent. He's depressed it sounds like.

[@SnowyWolborg]

People on r/AITA tend to think they are psychic therapists who have the answers to problems of people they have never met. So quick to call something a mental illness, when 90% of the time, it's just someone being an annoying or invasive jackass.

[@cheesedemon88]

I don’t think Reddit’s advice on the first story was bad, getting proof, before confronting a potential cheater is generally good advise, just this time he wasn’t a cheater. You are right about Reddit being obnoxious about diagnosing mental illness

[@pokekitty1]

@@cheesedemon88 i think they were referring to the people telling her to lie to the husband about the situation once it became clear it was a delusional neighbour issue which is stupid because how is the husband supposed to protect himself from the neighbour if he doesn't know.

[@aikikaname6508]

How is the first one bad advice? To see if there’s any merit in the cheating claims before confronting your partner? Seems pretty reasonable and the problem with confronting the partner right away is that if they were honest or cheating their response would be the same, only the cheater would have the heads up to cover their tracks. So observing them for a while and seeing if there’s any other signs before confronting or proceeding is a better shout. She was better off telling him this time, but in other cases it worked out better by them observing their partner and watching for more signs. With limited info you can never truly tell

[@rebecculousrk]

Markee, I’m seriously addicted to your content. The other narrators either have irritating voices, or they make tons of mistakes that distract me. When you do change the wording, it’s to correct or clarify something, usually typos. I find your voice pleasant, and you’ve chosen good stories, obviously actual comments etc…where some other channels are probably just reading made-up scripted stories. Thanks for uploading frequently! 😊🎉

[@doloresreynolds8145]

Regarding the story about OP having SchizoAffective Disorder: have Sue and her baby live elsewhere for a week or so. If those ‘weird’ voices stop, you will know that it was her. Also be aware that, if she really is messing with you, she could leave electronic bugs that play random recorded sounds. Do not accept that it is just your problem. Consider getting cameras with sound and recording everything.

[@enkiimuto1041]

Hell, if the SIL is homeless, it is her PARENTS problem for making her so. Wth is with them being aggressive to him and trying to take him down.

[@AceAviations2]

That story about the guy with mental health problems, I'd search the house, because I know that there are devices that you can buy which produce noises to drive people crazy that are hard to find. I wouldn't be surprised if they end up finding a few of those. It would explain why they only occurred when the wife wasn't around.

[@draconicfeline6177]

There was a midsomer murder about that, it was super messed up.

[@JewelWildmoon]

That poor sculptor though. Also, I love how the OP on that story says she admits she's the AH (only about hiding the keys), yet acts passive aggressive about the responses she got on her post. She really just said that she's sorry the people with disabilities who claimed she was abusive lost compassion for others when she shows none whatsoever for the boyfriend even after all he's been doing to work around the situation. Then she says "Also I asked my boyfriend if I'm abusive and he said no, so there's that." Well no shit. A victim of abuse isn't going to tell their abuser that they're abusive if asked when they feel as if it's going to make the abuser blow up at them again and *take their keys so they can't work*

[@tlang7616]

That story rubs me the wrong way, she’s toxic but hides behind her disability. She even tries to gaslight everyone, and makes herself the victim. Wtf, get your own place if you hate people so much.

[@enkiimuto1041]

OP is not a nice person but I can understand what she is feeling. It is likely autism but the part that stands up is the sensory issues, and a bit of lack of empathy not because she doesn't have it at all but because it is hard for her to relate. The most sad part, though, is that theraphy is not even mentioned on it, on how to cope with it or how to work with bf or sister. She let's it push until nothing can hold her.

[@socketyellow3]

She probably framed it like, “baby did I make you mad?”

[@dallezzra8063]

Her “am I the AH for want to feel SAFE in my OWN home makes me want to scream. 1. NOT your house 2. The phrasing in that post is SO ridiculous 3. Her idea of “unsafe” is him SILENTLY dancing and paying the bills. She’s a horrible brat.

[@delilahbelle2125]

Prom Story: OP using child support to pay for her new family aside, Dan not seeing Jack's lack of remorse for the prank is a problem, Jack's GF getting engaged to a guy at 19 after he didn't take her to prom so he could prank a girl with ASD and clearly has maturity issues is a problem, and Jack thinking the $800 is the make or brake issue to have his mom in his life is a problem. It's all just gross. No one in the story comes out looking good except maybe Alyssa because she's not really in the story.

[@marahbaker8615]

Jack is a giant peace of crap. The bio dad is just as bad. The son can try and sue but OP could easily help the parents of the autistic girl sue Jack for emotional damage. athe Dad can say all day that he isn't using Jack to get back at the mom, but he absolutely is. I really don't 100% get how reddit isn't more pissed at Jack basically throwing a tantrum over being given a just punishment for doing something so hateful to another person. The bio dad will eventually lose interest in using the son to upset the Mom and he'll be left high and dry and come crawling back to Mom.

[@kbf9644]

“Hi. I cheated with your father, helped destroy his marriage and now I’m going to treat like dog poo and make sure none of his OLD family is in MY family. … How could you destroy a marriage?!?! Why didn’t you just let me steal your father?!?!?! You should have lied to cover up my abuse. God, how can you be so selfish to ruin a family?!?!?!” Bish, please. 😒

[@darktheme2192]

Story 1. We are a mixed couple, we live in SOs country. Our ex neighbors / ex friends tried to break our marriage not because they liked him, they wanted someone else for him, a friend of theirs. They don't have many friends in the neighborhood as they love to stir drama and controversy. I refer to them as relatives of Grima Wormtongue.

[@morganleanderblake678]

It never ceases to amaze me how every other AITA is just: Dear Reddit: Someone was violent/mean/bigoted/cruel to me. Someone else badgered me to tell them why I won't be near that person. Am I the asshole for not creating wealths of lies to protect the person?

[@tifadreamers]

"It meant nothing" If you can betray your relationship for nothing, it only tells your partner/spouse that your relationship to them meant even worse than nothing to you

[@LightSage89]

For the first story, when the neighbor said that most of the women in the neighborhood have had their husband's cheat, she probably meant that she had lied to most of the women in the neighborhood about their husband's cheating. She said at first that she had experienced someone cheating on her. If that is not just a big fat lie from her seeing infidelity everywhere she looks, it might make her miserable to see happy couples and is into destroying other relationships to make her feel better. OP is not the AH, but the neighbor definitely is.

[@GBunnyG]

NOOOOOOOOO NOT THE DRESS STORY AGAIN NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

[@jenih3815]

2:32:30 the way the mom keeps saying she “took advantage of her moment of panic” but conveniently forgets that they were all gonna take advantage of her not knowing to keep her precious son happy Also the sensory issues one bugged me, I have those issues too and I just use noise cancelling headphones and get therapy and meds for the anxiety. Her boyfriend is just enjoying himself and his work, he messes up SOMETIMES and is still learning. ALSO ALSOOO, I work just fine and it’s not suffering, it’s just livin life. If you can’t live with other people without being exhausted and miserable, don’t live with other people.

[@GrumpyOldFart2]

But that was the point that the commenter so eloquently pointed out in response to the last post, the bf’s post. I’m surprised that there wasn’t a comment pointing it out in the first (gf’s) post. I was scratching my head at her post. I thought wait, you say you can’t live alone, but then you say that other people in the house disturb you? And you get upset if the bf has a client in the house, even if you’re NOT THERE at the time. The commenter who came up with the train analogy was brilliant. It was a very clear analogy. And OP’s comment about how her bf said no when she asked him if she was abusive made me cringe. You will literally have partners that have black and blue marks all over their body that will say oh, no, my partner is not abusive.

[@theunknownone5663]

Story one: some people just love drama and will lowkey brake you up just so that can feel something with no consequences. I know someone like this. Toxic af and will never admit to being wrong and will project like a movie theater. Sorry is definitely not in the vocabulary.

[@kbf9644]

Give him a chance to prove his trustworthiness? He had that. It was called getting into the relationship. That was his chance. He blew it.

[@Shangori]

WHY DOES IT GET WORSE WITH EVERY EDIT???!

[@AlyssaAllen.a]

I said these exact words!

[@doityourselfdiva6001]

The neighbor that lied about the affair sounds like one of those women that has issues with men and wants everyone to be alone like she is.

[@1Katakana]

1st story: So if the husband and this mystery woman arrived in his car, who drove and left the second car that was suddenly there for the woman to leave in, since by the sound of it the neighbour made it seem like that woman was the one who drove it? I'm surprised neither OP nor anyone in the comments section wondered about that detail.

[@kibasays]

I had the same thought! Continuity error!

[@jonahhex18]

I took that to mean that husband drove her over, but somebody else picked her up

[@sequoyasierra5671]

NOT WAKING HUBBY My father did this. He worked all day even worked overtime. He would sleep at night and then get up, eat breakfast, lay on the couch and sleep. Now understand this: Most people can't sleep if they aren't tired! Think about that. If you are awake for the morning can you fall back asleep for hours? Not an hour, but hours and noise doesn't disturb you? In my father;s case it was a combination of low thyroid and sleep apnea. He told me later he was really concerned because he couldn't understand why he was sleeping so much. He was concerned he was ill. Get hubby a check up and listen to him when he sleeps to see if he goes a long time between breaths/ snoring.

[@Slithery]

The art room sensory issues story (starts a bit after two hours in) is just OP constantly painting herself as the victim. Yes sensory issues are difficult but she is using them to be controlling. Everything with her is ‘poor me’ she needs help Also the fact that she asked her bf was she abusive and she took his No as truth is laughable. Many abuse victims don’t see themselves as such because the behaviour is normalised and don’t always consider more than physical abuse. OP is horrible

[@bakasso8484]

The pasta one is absolutely ridiculous. Op is like a 8 year old that has just found out that Santa is not real and that it was their father that had been getting the gifts all along. I could understand their anger if it had been some stuff like allergic food or not fit for their diet or not eating something due to religious reasons but they are throwing a tantrum because, oh he didn't make it the way they liked it .

[@44waxwings]

I'm also a very picky eater and that story made me laugh my ass off. I've had many people trick me into eating something I SWORE I hated and they acted in the same smug way when they broke the news after getting me to say I liked it. Every single time it happens I immediately admit what a fool I was being and move on, sometimes I even end up regularly enjoying those foods and thanking the person who tricked me. That OP is clearly pretty childish and gives off major "sore loser" vibes

[@madihaq2252]

"Basket of AHs" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Love the take on basket cases. 🤣

[@BlueFireDrakka]

with the 'essence of tomato' noodles, this is 100% a placebo effect. there was a pshycology test done on a group of children to see if a Brand marketing has any effect on kids perception of flavor, they got a few bags of those frozen shoestring fries and cooked them in a fryer, sprinkled them with a little salt and then put them in two containers, one being a red Mcdonalds chip carton, and the other being one of those white paper chip buckets you get at Fish and chip shops in the first test at least 90% of the kids said the Mcdonalds chips tasted better, even though they were the same batch of chips in the second test they didn't salt the batch of chips that were put in the Mcdonands carton and the majority still said that they tasted better, there were a handful that said the no brand bucket chips tasted better but they were a very small group since they weren't big eaters of Mcdonalds. what your brain can trick you with is fucking insane. so yeah they just like Salt as a flavour, what do you put in your Pasta water? salt, whats really bring out the tomatoness of tomato sauce? Salt just make salted plain noodles and get over it you dumb braod, you have the palet depth of a four year old. grow up you wasteful little shit. I really hope the dad was just putting aside her plate of noodles and not saucing them at all, given they describe him "washing them in the sink with a strainer" could have just been him making a small separate batch of plain noodles he would strain after.

[@jakemarie828]

Expecting your partner's body to never change is in humane. The vows are "in sickness and in health" not "until you get fat."

[@lorifiedler13]

Why can't I up vote this more? THIS X10000000000000000 AD INFINITI

[@gabriellewatson2236]

The sensory issues one really got me. I once had a roommate with misophonia. I obliged in not making certain noises such as whistling. As time went on my roommate began to suffocate me, waiting in the living room for me to come home only to follow me into my room when I said I was gonna lay down (aka I was done with talking). When I tried to set some boundaries and gently asked for more space, they banned me from having people over and wouldn't even make eye contact. I had told them before they moved in (I was already on the lease) that I was a social person and they would have to be okay with that if they chose to move in. I never once had a party, just a friend or two over for a couple hours in the afternoon/evening. They would ask me to be quiet at 5pm while having a normal volume conversation with a friend. Long story short, I had to ask them to move.

[@HeoBaby24]

Nah the first story is where I draw the line with reddit Instead of reddit giving op genuine advice they instead acted like the neighbor and gave op advice that if she acted on would've ruin her marriage Who in they're right mind think that the first thing when seeing another woman at someone's house = cheating And not only that but reddit try to justify the neighbor in a way by saying that she may have no Ill intend and to come up with a plan Like wtf and instead of reddit taking some responsibility they double down and then trash on the neighbor like they wasn't the one's who believe her in the first place

[@WraysCustoms]

Reddit is made up of people who have never been in adult relationships trying to give marriage advice.

[@HeoBaby24]

@@WraysCustoms on god I never been married but I would give advice like Talk to your fucking spouse Instead op became like any spouse who's cheated or things that they're spouse is cheating Like I cannot just let op go Scott free she almost ruin her marriage by not communicating and believing the neighbor And than for reddit to do the same thing and literally don't take any fault for what they djd

[@Lahk1]

I think I lost even more brain cells reading your message referring to reddit as one entity. Like it's one person saying something and then acting hypocritical and not multiple people expressing varying opinions.

[@HeoBaby24]

@@Lahk1 sorry about that but do you at least get what I'm trying to say?

[@SnowyWolborg]

@@WraysCustoms Exactly. Redditors devote so much energy to these stories that they start thinking they actually know these internet strangers and their life situations well enough to say "divorce them" when they don't have the full scope.

[@ZombieSazza]

I’m disabled, it’s up to me to manage my disability, expecting complete control over your partner, hiding keys, being abusive, being manipulative? Those just make YTA, those have nothing to do with being disabled. It took me nearly 24 months to fight the government in my country to get legally recognised as disabled and get disability, in that time I’ve NEVER tried to control others, I’ve never expected the world to bend to my whims and I’ve never worded it as “lacking empathy”. The world does not revolve around you, but she expects everyone to do as she says and it’s so toxic. The only understanding I ask for? No screaming, no Buckfast alcohol (other alcohol is fine, Buckfast the smell specifically sets off my PTSD like nothing else, but because it tastes horrid nobody even wants to have it, and are happy never having it around me. If someone did? I just go somewhere else, I cannot control strangers lmao), don’t scream in my ear (no normal person would) because PTSD, and the only thing I’ll request? “Can I hold your arm whilst we cross the road? Can you help me walk over this ice?” It’s not a demand, just a request because I walk with a cane. You ask people “hey, could you help with X? Thanks” because demanding is rude. As such my friends are happy to not only help, but offer their arm for me to hold before I ask, they understand “Sarah is a cripple and needs a lil help”, they also know I’d never demand “you must help me wherever I walk or you’re ableist”, I just cannot believe OP somehow things “everyone lacks empathy” and “you’re all ableist” because she’s abusing her partner. You can be disabled and toxic, you can be disabled and entitled, but you know what OP can never be? Disabled and understanding, disabled and kind, disabled and loving, because apparently she never learned how to understand others, how to be kind, and how to love. She’s TOXIC and I hope her partner RUNS I HATE that she calls it “boundaries in my house”, IT IS NOT YOUR HOUSE, you’re A GUEST, and I hope he kicks her out,

[@gottathinkupanewone]

Story one: I have an idea why the neighbor would lie to OP: she thinks that if she can undermine OP, maybe even make her feel betrayed enough to leave, she'll have a chance with the husband.

[@MN-zh2vd]

The essence of tomato sauce one- I ugly laughed. Full on cackled. That boyfriend wasn't being malicious. He was teasing her for something that is absolutely teasable. I bet her dad never wasted time and effort rinsing the sauce off either. She should have had a laugh at herself with her boyfriend. The fact that she lacks the capacity to laugh at herself is the biggest red flag. Good god.

[@animatorstanley]

That was such a weird story. I can understand if someone had a legit visceral reaction to certain foods, but sis is just picky. I have no respect for picky eaters like her. Like many others said food waste is awful and so the the people who waste it. Also is she not an adult? Can she not rinse her own damn noodles? But I do blame the dad most of all bc he fed into her dilutions of sauce essence. And then she updates with, but he's not just bad bc of noodles guys, he's a cheater and a lier too! Smh

[@lauriemeyer7030]

The mom wearing her daughters clothes finally made me "drink bleach". I want to scrub my ears and my brain. As for the man with the schizo affective disorder, get a ring camera, in case they show up! You and your wife need to check the house and see if she left one of those speakers attached to Sue's phone. Check the room she was staying in. Have cameras all over!! They will protect you.

[@robinwhite4148]

I hear the electricity in the walls but I'm not losing my shit over it.

[@LadyPatricia362]

Shame on a cheater who says it meant nothing how hurtful to know they threw away your life together for NOTHING. That NOTHING meant everything to Op

[@KeitieKalopsia]

Markee’s baffled commentary was the only thing getting me through that mom-stealing-daughter’s-sundress post

[@staylor3483]

Story 3: NTA. You should never lie to protect your father or step-monster's feelings. He take your mom back to court all he wants but at 17 it would be fruitless..

[@darthaino]

Yep, I'd suggest therapy and going no contact. Also depending on the state they may be able to choose to not spend time with him

[@amyeldredge9638]

We lived down the street from our high school growing up. My parents rule was simple you're responsible for getting to school on time. If you miss school because you slept in then you get a bed time. Worked like a charm.

[@prince_sylex]

1:36:00 Not sure if OP is just trying to make the Ex and her son Jack assholes, but IF it's true... I really hope Karma bites either in the ass. Not that OP is any better with her reliance on the Income, but yeeesh.

[@muhname6052]

"party" house: I asked the person I'm abusive to if I'm abusive and they said I wasn't. You can trust me bro.

[@elevin8858]

My stress is the reason I have an entire bag of noro kureyon yarn and beautiful complex winter accessories. Knitting, crochet, embroidery, yoga, gym memberships, journaling, healthy coping strategies EXIST.

[@19nmiller1]

*THE COUCH STORY!!* a huge piece of Markee lore here

[@staylor3483]

SIL story: record her!! Record everything everytime she is near you!!

[@katewalsh7783]

This was my first time reading/ listening to AITA on KZbin (I have a bad cold sick, just happened to find this). I read AITA sometimes but...WOW! This is wayyyy different. Suddenly my life is full of flowers and sunshine, I am ONE LUCKY PERSON! Not drama- free but damn, some of this is just really horrible stuff! I am so very grateful for my simple life!

[@DemonAngel]

I will always say this: always say your side. Never be the bigger person or what ever bs is thrown out. Honestly. Always post say scream from the rooftops what happened/happening

[@staylor3483]

Hey Markee, I love the video behind your voice. Drifting on icy/snowy parking lot is a great way to learn to drive & loads of fun!!

[@WinterRose4444]

Mental health OP story: How exactly did the in-laws think they were going to have OP committed, even involuntarily? They're not his next of kin/power of attorney. They just can't take the man to the hospital and tell the staff, "Here ya go. Take him." It doesn't work that way. 😂

[@DanniSoRude]

I was so tickled when Mark told the cheating fiance's parents to get in the asshole basket 😂

[@cjandauntieyaya1446]

I forgot about the pickle jar in the fridge one... Please remind me. Or is that the one where OP's roomie was storing strange "pickle jars" in her fridge that may or may not have had pickles and got mad when the power went out?

[@kibasays]

I think it was a husband/wife, and a metal (?) box that supposedly contained olives. The container was opaque, and I believe it locked, so she never saw what was in it, but the story was “olives.” Like, special olives his friend’s family grew or something. That *had* to be refrigerated, bc reasons that didn’t make any sense. He flipped out when she left it out of the fridge for a few hours one day while she was cleaning it. He moved the box elsewhere (work? But Im not sure) bc he couldn’t “trust” her with it after that. She and everyone thought it was weird. I don’t recall how that ended actually, just that we never got to know what was in the box!

[@Keyonne88]

As an autistic person with sensory issues; the lady complaining about her boyfriend dancing needs to get over herself.

[@emilyw.1186]

….even if the bf stopped dancing and doing his thing, OP would still feel like he’s doing it because she apparently can sense it through the walls. My point is, if she can “sense” it without seeing it she’ll never know if he stops and therefore still feels like he does it. She needs therapy, aka get off your fucking ass, get a job, and make money to afford it. I have a lot of anxiety, to the point I nearly puke getting on a phone call but I still force myself to do if. I still work, I put myself in uncomfortable situations that make me feel awful because I have to. And not only because I have to but because I couldn’t stand being a lazy fucking bum that is literally useless to society. There’s a big difference between unable versus not willing to work hard

[@joeyblack45k]

People really need to stop self diagnosing, I don't think they realize how exhausting they are

[@Krisna_K]

My late younger sister had Type 2 Rapid Cycling Bipolar Disorder and took three different medications to manage it! She worked as an accountant at a small company and raised 2 kids and lived perfectly fine until her death from cancer 4 years ago!

[@MsGbergh]

Every adult should take their own responsibility for getting themself up for work.

[@Reality_TV]

Sensory story: I have to point something out. I went to the actual story on Reddit and that girl actually would leave and go to the beach AND shopping, but not work! LMAO! So you can stand people in stores and at the beach, but you can't work or have your boyfriend work in his home! Yeah ok!

[@FanFicnic]

2:00:45 oh my gosh the guy with schizophrenia broke my heart! Here he is working real hard with his wife and doctors to nail down the right meds. And gets put in a horrible situation that he handled with incredible grace despite abject fear. It’s clear he and wifey and devoted to each other. And I hope he understands that he doesn’t need to feel guilty. He’s doing everything right.

[@BUGt95.]

You can take legal action because technically him taking pictures of you in ur underwear while u were asleep and unaware, then sending it 2 someone is a form of assault

[@AprilSunshine]

"I've got a basket of assholes. Every one of you get inside!" Lolol😂

[@ninjastorm540]

Story1: The neighbor was likely really jealous of OP and wanted to break them up maybe even hoping she would end up the OPs Husband. Also Op didnt specify if the neighbor has a man so I'm guessing she doesnt. I'm guessing the neighbor is probably bitter, lonely and desperate being single at 35. And the jealously of having a much younger women with a man around her age that she would want probably drove her to to this. Also the fact that OPs Husband acted a little weird with his annoyance of the neighbor probably means she was trying to hit on him and he denied her

[@theakaneko]

I love your "asshole basket". Awesome!

[@lorifiedler13]

Injured Cheating Fiance. Tell him you went to the doctor to get an STD test.

[@retaburwell2200]

My father-law was going to have me put in to in rehab he told my husband what his plans were so I went right to my doctor and he told me he would have one hell of a time doing it he said he would have one hell of a time doing it because they would have to find another person that knew me plus him(the doctor)and he said he wouldn’t do it. That made me feel so much better. My father-law was an acohalic.

[@Post.nut_Clarity]

32:03 she could start calling him "Ahab" to see if he catches on...

[@trashcan2748]

2:02:22 I have auditory hallucinations that come with stress. 99.99% of the time it’s just my parents, mostly my mom, calling my name angrily. It’s annoying to us all because I kept going up to her and asking why she’s mad at me/what I did wrong, but it’s far from dangerous by any stretch of the imagination. The worst effect is that I’ll ignore her sometimes when she actually calls me because I assume it’s my brain playing tricks on me. I HATE when people assume hallucinations=dangerous or crazy. They absolutely can be, but don’t automatically warrant mistreating people and making awful assumptions about them. That’s just fucked up. When I do have breakdowns and end up being temporarily convinced of some delusional shit, it’s still not dangerous to anyone else. It just involves me being really scared and sad, like thinking that the people I love might not be real and that if I don’t stay in physical contact then they might poof out of existence and leave me all alone with no trace of them left. Mental illness isn’t automatically scary, it’s often just sad, and people should really stop demonizing it. It’s disgusting how people treat others who are mentally unwell like they’re less human. >:(

[@retaburwell2200]

Tell your mom to suck it up I am sure that is what they would say to you don’t let them mess with you and don’t pay them back. That is their problem. I love you OP. Have a wonderful married life you deserve it.

[@Price8903]

Canceling his 18th bday and giving his car away were too much. Grounding him, taking away electronics, and making him give the $800 to the date while issuing her an apology note would’ve sufficed.

[@bahnmi436]

Noodle guy was clearly dating a 3 year old.

[@lordzero2379]

This video was almost a "most fucked up reddit posts on Markee's channel" real🤣

[@arnoldnellis6120]

Oh Yeah, The Pickle Jar. Wonder What Came Of That?

[@sharyebethancourt3660]

I feel so bad for OP who walked in her parents in the gross role playing situation. That is so disturbing.

[@mysteriousnova58]

I love the dig at the music girl at the end XD

[@ArielleLavecchia]

lol Essence of Tomato... 😂😂😂 riiigggght

[@ThatOddChickenHippie]

I'm getting second-hand.... I don't even know! Disgust? Heebeejeebees? Abject horror? WHO EVEN THINKS OF THAT!? WHO AGREES TO IT!? At first I felt a modicum of relief that it was the mom that suggested it, bit then I remembered that HE AGREED TO IT AND APPARENTLY LIKED IT!!!!!🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 I'm gonna be sick about this the rest of the day! I can only imagine how OP is feeling! My skin is CRAWLING!

[@djpanic7294]

When my parents were a couple years into dating my mom got a call from her aunt telling her "i just saw your boyfriend riding around with a blonde in his truck!" Mom laighed and informed her that the blonde was my dad's best friend (a guy) who had permed mullet lol

[@retaburwell2200]

I am glad she covered herself by explaining why she is on the brthcntrl.

[@clockworkmedic1026]

Look, I'm not convinced the neighbour isn't trying to get this girl to run because she sees the red flags in a 34y/o man being married to a 22y/o. Like yeah, it happens and she's an adult but it's /weird/. And the whole "exactly my type" when she would have been barely an adult when they met... ehhhhh. Sketch.

[@charliedelfino2102]

Nah if we're jumping to conclusions I think it's more likely that she was cheated on with someone much younger in the past, so she assumed OP and husband had wrecked a previous marriage/relationship (given the age gap) and was trying to give them karma.

[@JuliaMarieH]

YEP YEP YEP

[@staylor3483]

What Jack did was deplorable & Dan seems to support this cruelty. I'm so so sorry for the girl who was pranked. Everyone else in the story are AHs.

[@draconicfeline6177]

Honestly I thought the punishment was appropriate for the level of cruelty of the prank.

[@draconicfeline6177]

"I hope she's a wonderful daughter because you lost a son for her" ew ew ew well guess he wants jack to grow into a terrible person.

[@drewthistlethwaite8909]

Last one: girl get your gallbladder looked at

[@katetoner3077]

My kids learnt to not miss the school bus. There were 2 of them. One bus to take them to the village and then another to take them into town to school. So I would drive them to the village in my nightie and gumboots and make a point of getting out to say goodbye and hug them in front of everybody on the street.......

[@kbf9644]

“I have sensory issues. I can perceive the slightest vibration or sound. Because of that I can’t live alone.” Er, what? That would be ideal for your sensory issues. I think you mean you can’t AFFORD to live alone. While that sucks, that’s not anybody else’s responsibility. Nor is it a reason to force someone to conform to your extreme demands just so you have a roof over your head. I get that you’re desperate but you’re using people. ETA: Oh, and the “in MY house” at the end. 😳 ETA: Boyfriend posted and confirmed it was financial need of OPs. OP is too much. 🙄 I wanted to cheer him when he gave her that reality check. She’s a professional victim. Exactly why she texted he caused her “trauma”. 🙄 She’s an emotional and financial vampire that has the perfect cloak for her true actions because “disability”. All decent people are going to feel for her with the stories she tells and more than a few will take her in and she uses that. Cut her out. Block her everywhere. Get a doorbell cam, at the least. Change all locks.

[@GrumpyOldFart2]

Yeah. I can’t live alone; I don’t like having other people in the house. Uh, whut? The train analogy in response to the bf’s post was PERFECT. An analogy that clearly illustrated the entire assholery of OP’s post.

[@littlegreycat]

The mom was too heavy handed in her punishment and played right into the fathers hands. You don’t involve a step parent in the punishment if the child has a negative relationship with the step parent. It sounds like half the punishment was for lashing out at the step parent.

[@RedFreaderd]

I hate how what the son did just got completely glossed over that was the hardest "everyone sucks here" post I've ever read Mom sucks because this was clearly a long term problem deeper than just the prank and punishment The dad sucka because he failed to stand in solidarity on the fact the the son actually really screwed up and basically showed him it doesn't matter how bad he screws up he'll not only have his back but also showed him with live and gifts to celebrate his bad behavior The son is an asshole for suing over $800 he earned by being a deplorable piece of shit and not just cutting his loses.

[@HodajuciParadoks]

When cooking, I play this kind of stories XD

[@hilarymurray8741]

Husband not getting up on time story : Absolutely NTA OP. Bought the tee shirt! You are not his mother. You are not responsible for him meeting his obligations. He is a grown man. He can run his own life, can't he?

[@Munthegun]

Bro every once in a while Markee posts some WILD ones! Cbat, mom wearing daughters dress, pickle jar, king Paimon. Just crazy lol

[@WobblesandBean]

I'm aware of all of them but King Paimon. Do I even wanna know?

[@BrotherBarakiel996]

@@WobblesandBean no you do not

[@merpasakiejingu]

Oh I heard King Paimon the other day! I thought Markee went insane but nope, he was reading someone's reddit post....batshit

[@grahamNicholls-u6v]

He should get cameras around the house so you have proof if anything happens. Inside and out.

[@stuffedninja1337]

I want to find a way to work “Basket of Assholes” into my everyday slang.

[@MintyBingus]

2:28:00 so is no-one gonna talk about the fact that a 20 year old and 26 year old started dating 3 years ago. Meaning OP was 17 and he was 23?

[@taylorcansmile]

I was digging for this comment!! That’s kind of disturbing

[@carolscott9330]

bet that guy does not tell him MOM anything again