My Husband Is Falling For His Friend With Benefits So I'm Going To Sabotage Them r/Relationships

[@rinpaisys]

Man idk how just, like, communicating is seemingly the last thing that comes to so many people’s minds.

[@locusxe1411]

Yeah it really makes no sense to me. It’s literally the easiest and simple thing to do.

[@krisCrashTV]

it's also their first relationship so they haven't had any chance to learn how to do that

[@dr_nuh-uh]

​@@krisCrashTVidk man, having good communication is something you need in every relationship; platonic, romantic or with family.

[@videofan1010]

People are really afraid of talking to one another...

[@zashgekido5616]

​@@locusxe1411On paper, yes. But communication's a skill. Sadly one a lot of people both lack and fear

[@poetryqn]

Story 1: Um...if they're married and sex has been introduced into the equation (let alone parenthood) NOT having the conversation about marital monogamy strikes me as NUTS.

[@jessicastiles7586]

ESPECIALLY when she felt comfortable and secure enough to talk about not having sex and setting up this whole arrangement in the first place!? I don't have the right words for why this is so.... annoying? To me.

[@lina9535]

Imo, they really should have talked about him stopping seeing other people when they started having sex. At least to me, it feels like a recipe for disaster to not close that down. On another note, I'm wondering if OP is (I think this is the one, but correct me if I'm wrong) pan, and not on the ace spectrum

[@FailedIntCheck]

My thought was demi

[@MatildeVallespinCasas]

The way things were arranged would have explained in the beginning and their youth and inexperienced but later on ......well, not really

[@troubleinthevalley5884]

For real

[@AnnMegFair]

That story 2 has so many worrying details. The dental job, the partying, the pushyness, the irritation when the money is late, the aggressive response when she was told she would not get the money anymore, the hysterical crying, the mum taking care of the baby 24/7... I know OP does not see clear evidence for drug abuse, and in isolation it doesn't look like it, but taken all together, this is very, very suspicious and worrying.

[@satansecretary665]

thats what im thinking, 700 a week is going straight up her nose.

[@BruinPhD2009]

@@satansecretary665 Yup. $700 a week would cover my rent and utilities…IN LOS ANGELES. She’s living rent-free so that money is going elsewhere.

[@Poopiepies]

@@BruinPhD2009shit my rent and utilities are only $850 a month in PA. Wtf is she doing with all that money???

[@carolsimpson4422]

@@Poopiepies even if she lived independently in an expensive place, where her bills would be double what you're paying, she would still be doing fine. Her spending is insane.

[@thomasjoseph5876]

Things are getting worse out there with drugs and social media. I am friends with several Sheriff's Deputies and we were all at a BBQ a couple of weeks ago and they were talking about a drug dealer in our area who LITERALLY CALLED THEM to report a woman who was willing to "sell him" her 9-year-old's virginity for drugs. He told them he doesn't see a problem with drugs because those are a personal "life" decision, but what that woman was offering was horrible and gross. They did like an 'informant truce thing" with him and set him up with a wire and ended up arresting her. He told the cops he gets propositioned quite often by both men and women willing to trade their bodies for drugs but not usually their kid's bodies. The Deputies said this is the 3rd instance this year they have heard about something like this with a parent "trading" a kid for drugs but they also heard from cop friends in larger cities that this is something that has actually become commonplace in homeless camps.

[@abvhrulz]

$700 a week!? That is absurd! Edit: the husband has an 8 year old and was still behind on rent?! That is terrible.

[@troubleinthevalley5884]

Sounds about right. I make $20 an hour at my main job and work 40 hours a week. I don't get taxes taken out of my check so I usually bring home about $1600-$1700 every 2 weeks

[@denises3630]

OMG!! She gets $700 a week from Dad?! No wonder she doesnt work, he sends her all the money for bills + more! She lives with her mom too! This story has me wanting to shake OP's husband and make him realize he NEEDS to stop

[@ComaLies225]

I mean, the update to story 1 was really cute. But yea, talk to your partners!

[@TheKingOfRuckus]

The guy in story 1 had enough maturity for the both of them. OP got lucky with him, because she's kind of dumb😂.

[@kristacotney3607]

She isn't dumb. She's just naive and hasn't had proper education on communicating her feelings. A lot of parents, especially those in other countries where arranged marriages are the norm, are very neglectful when it comes to education in mental health or teaching how to communicate properly.

[@marshawargo7238]

Even if you can't communicate directly due to high emotions, there are options! Try writing q & a on paper or write what you want, then turn the paper for the partner to write answers or options. Maybe text when at the same table? Lots Of Options!!! No problem writing to Reddit, so something will work out for you!

[@TheCointreaux]

I've got Eddie Murphy's song, "Party All the Time" going through my mind right now.

[@SK98765]

Story 2: sounds like OP's step daughter is spoiled and was using her parents.

[@littlegreycat]

Veneers?? She's spoiled and conceited. Living in luxury while putting her Dad out on the street.

[@wildfyah]

IG lifestyle addiction

[@Tecorsuh]

Fun fact, a $20/hr, 40 hr/week job would pay about $700 per week after taxes.

[@Sunari]

I get the feeling in the first story that OP has some growing to do still when it comes to relationships though it doesn’t sound/feel like they’ve had a lot. Hopefully they see the light and can get more practice in communication rather than relying on more childish methods. Meanwhile kudos to their partner for wanting to help/protect them from the harm they could have gone under. Don’t know where they are but definitely some scariness in cultures that simply demand that women bend to every whim or suffer for it

[@starbird3939]

Story 2 I definitely think the daughter is going on a shopping spree or a drug binge, especially if she is snappy about the money. Definitely check on the kid

[@uncle0eric]

When you enter into any kind of relationship under one set of terms, you don't get to unilaterally change those terms by resorting to deceptive or devious means. OP in story 1 got lucky - that doesn't make her actions right.

[@ashassassin]

Story 2. Nta, at all. You need to support yourselves first. Where is the baby daddy? Why doesn't his daughter get child support from him instead? 700 a week is more than i make working fulltime. 700 a month when you have no bills would be plenty. What is she doing with her life?!

[@wildfyah]

IG. I feel like she's been using her dad to keep up with trends etc

[@HodajuciParadoks]

700 in a week...not a month....

[@ronamayday]

20:00 of she’s on drugs and doesn’t want help you can’t force her to get clean. When I was a teen I was given a lecture by one of my mentors. He told us how he’s a recovering addict because he was on hard drugs. Almost dying didn’t stop him. He told us the only reason he changes was the fact his pregnant wife was leaving and she meant more to him. People tried helping him but he didn’t want it till the one person he needed was giving up on him. His whole lecture was you have to recognize the problem and want to fix it and people can’t do the hard work for you.

[@ComaLies225]

Story 2: NTA. I don’t think Op is the ahole, especially after finding out they’re behind on their rent. I get parents are always going to have ties to their kids and i think if parents can afford to help their adult children out, cool. However, it should never be at a point where it’s hurting their own finances.

[@andreaparham79]

Story One: I get why OP was so nervous about communicating. He had what some would consider a good deal and I’m sure some men would refuse to give that up. It could have gone very badly but her husband is clearly a good guy. Glad it all worked out for them. Story Two: Crazy how he said she’s being unreasonable while basically turning his daughter into a monster. I know it wasn’t what he was trying to do, but seriously, she lives with her mom. How did he not think to check up on her with how much he was paying? He’s not a good dad. This is not good dad behavior.

[@Hazey4420]

Omg the hats. Not all heros wear capes!!!

[@KE-hr4sb]

S2: If he won't stop, tell husband to leave. Your savings pays your rent, and you're applying for remote positions because "you can sit up and type now"? WTF. He needs to be taking care of you, not his physically capable adult daughter! Get him out before he drowns you with him.

[@mbyerly9680]

Demisexual means someone who only wants sex with someone they love. How could anyone in a strict society look down on that? The most scary thing about story 2 is OP and her husband have a very small child, and he's willing to let that child be homeless to support his adult daughter. Like what?

[@kentario1610]

Agreed, I'm always confused about religious nuts who are livid about the asexual spectrum. Like.... Isn't that what they want?

[@SilverDomainShrine7]

Markee swapping hats is giving me whiplash 😭 it’s funny thoooo

[@summersands8105]

Being honest with someone is always better than playing childish games. You are married and you should just talk to him about being a true married couple and ending the external affairs.

[@brandi5126]

S2: NTA. I was genuinely shocked when you said she was 27. Yeah, she needs to figure out how to support herself and kid on her own. Helping so much is hurting her and she needs to be forced to grow up at this point.

[@babytone54]

Story 1. Communication saves the day. Glad she enjoys her new sexuality 😊

[@CC-bn2ws]

Wow. People around the world need to have their hands held through life. I can't imagine people born the last 20-30 years being 80 still trying to live life like they are teenagers under daddy's roof.

[@EluneAnzu]

Story 2: I don't know, I could see it going either way, her partaking in drugs is the obvious way she'd be going through all that money but it could just be that she's bad with money, it's actually super easy to SPEND money, especially if you're spoiled and living off someone else. Could be drugs, could be gambling, could just be wasting it on stupid shit.

[@audreynothepburn7663]

Markee and his crazy hats episode 😂 keep it up!

[@colleens1107]

Story one: OP is DAMN lucky to have such an understanding and forgiving spouse. And once more, most problems can be solved by ACTUALLY TALKING

[@nondisclosure3920]

How selfish is this daughter, I thought she was terrible for taking that amount of money BEFORE I realised she knows they have an 8 year old as well. The father is an absolute moron!

[@bonniea8189]

AND his wife is recently disabled, having lost her leg in a car accident. THAT boggles my mind - how can he think he has money to spare in that situation? Even if they live in a country with excellent healthcare, she's still going to have needs that probably aren't covered by their healthcare system. And OBVIOUSLY she's going to be unable to work while she's recovering and adjusting to life with a new disability. Also, who is caring for the eight year old if OP is still in physical therapy and was just recently able to sit up at a desk? Is the husband doing that?

[@kanelovec4315]

S2. He is putting him and op (his wife) in financial ruin and endangering their stability. They could loss their house, car, food, and god forbid if one get hurt their health payments.

[@wildblue0]

Story 2: I'm wondering how the divorce went, and I'd want to see the bills. But this feels like blackmail to me. Or she never liked OP and thinks she's leeching off him. Or mom's out of work and he's paying for two households. Can't wait to see the update. Update: I hope they paid the school directly. I'd ask the mom if she graduated.

[@maurer3d]

Story 1: ESH. the second you and he decided to make this a real marriage, the "Stop F-ing Around" conversation should have happened, heck the second you two decided to have children it should have been had.. Story 1 (update): Good that you two talked and fixed things.

[@jazzie-sanbelle99]

At some point adult kids need to grow up. She's 27 not 17.op she talk about putting her foot down and and maybe thinking about divorce at this point thst much money is insanity 😳

[@carlrood4457]

She's partying and if she's also doing drugs, don't be surprised when a couple more babies come along.

[@hoper1294]

Hi Markee and everyone watching! ❤

[@bridgetdebourgh5698]

Hey 👋

[@MMChoza]

He!👋 Servus from Austria

[@HodajuciParadoks]

700 in a week, is she is on drugs? No one need that much in 7 days.

[@theseeker9442]

Story 1: yeah YTA in this situation. Extremely immature person who couldn't communicate. Im very much happy she lucked out with someone who is understanding and patience but she needs to figure out how to communicate properly with her husband

[@laurameier7069]

Story 2: One dollar says the daughter has a severe drug problem.

[@Akemi.24-45]

おやすみ〜、Markee! Sleep well. ♥️🤗😴

[@LittleImpaler]

First Story. She's immature. First off she agreed to this arrangement. Instead of acting immature. Talk to him.

[@immapotato1]

having grown up in an arranged marriage culture it's cause the topics of even having a bf/gf is treated like taboo let alone sex. these people are emotionally immature and basically thrown into marriage expected to figure it out and pop them out grandchildren.

[@Grace_x68]

She is shy and her culture is different. Please be a little more forgiving

[@thomasjoseph5876]

She appears immature but keep in mind, regardless of what SHE THINKS, she has a form of mental illness. ANYONE who labels their reasons for not wanting "Loving" in a relationship or marriage using one of those made-up terms or as some form of gender confusion, do, in fact, have a mental illness problem. She had an incorrect preconceived notion of "Loving" in a relationship/marriage based on these made-up terms, but once she "did the deed", she decided she really liked it. She even admitted she was probably on the Spectrum which tells us she never actually saw a Medical Professional and instead, did what many people with undiagnosed mental illnesses do today, Self-Diagnosed. And surprise, surprise, she was wrong lol.

[@Center-For-I.E.D.Mismanagement]

@@Grace_x68 There is no excuse for choosing lies and deliberate interpersonal sabotage over honest communication. OP's "culture" can drown in a dumpster fire if these are the values it asserts. Don't conflate shyness with blatant cowardice. It's called thinking for yourself.

[@thomasjoseph5876]

@@Grace_x68 She, like most people who label their lives with made-up terms have undiagnosed and treated mental health issues. She even admitted she THINKS she is on the Spectrum which means she has never bothered to see a mental health professional. That's most of her problems right there.

[@wildwikedwanderer1208]

Markee you know that title is hard to ignore of course I’m gonna click the video Ok so it was funny and wholesome. “I think I’m falling in love with my husband” situation

[@ccsorn]

Story 2. I honestly thought that they husband was just moving money out so he could leave the wife. It made more sense to me than him just being an idiot.

[@Floratic]

Story 2: I hope the daughter didn't go to a veneer tech scammer . 👀

[@andrediamond4374]

Story 1: Soooo the reason they made the agreement went away and...she didn't close his side of the marraige? That seems like step 1! And not talking about it and sabotaging his dates is stupid middle schooler behaviour. Update: This was so cute, see OP that wasn't so hard now was it?

[@colleens1107]

Story 2: stepdaughter is most likely an addict

[@jewlzcraig-leaves597]

What’s with the hats dude? 😅Need a good old Aussie Akubra maaayte 😂

[@maurer3d]

Story 2: NTA, she is an adult, living free at home with her mother, and your husband is giving her $35k a year (just based on the $700 a week) at this point. Story 2 (update): "She parties all the time", with no rent...Yup you were paying for her to "party" and shop.

[@thomasjoseph5876]

Markee, how do you not feel "trapped" and claustrophobic in that tiny little room??? That room would be too small for even your little dogs lol. Where are those little dogs by the way??? Did they charge you too much for their appearance fees???

[@lina9535]

Some people feel very comfortable, and even safe in small spaces. I'm one of them. When I was younger (like 10 and under), I'd freak out my mom because she "couldn't find me" some mornings 😅 It wasn't unusual for me to actually fall asleep in a moving box (or a box of similar size), and two times I was sleeping in the bottom drawer of a dresser with all of my socks 😂

[@Markee]

Dog* now 🥲 I get Trousers every Monday for a few hours haha but yeah the booth is fine. I go in and out of it a lot while recording anyway

[@thomasjoseph5876]

@@lina9535 When I was younger, I didn't mind small spaces until I got assigned to Sub Duty. I am 6'7" 265 lbs and American Naval Subs are NOT built for someone of my size lol. I still have permanent bumps on my head from hitting things lol. I could not lay on my back or stomach in my bunk as my chest is 59" coupled with 24" biceps so I could only sleep on my side lol. After a 6 month "Tour" out to sea, I ended up with claustrophobia lol.

[@thomasjoseph5876]

@@Markee Sorry to hear it is only one dog now and you only get to see Trousers (he was born to be a doggy-star), once a week for a couple of hours. I have a 160 lb Malamute/Husky you can borrow who thinks he is a lap dog and would love to squeeze into your little room with you. He even talks ALL THE TIME. He won't shut up lol.

[@KoreaWithKids]

​@@Markee I have to ask-- was Trousers named for Rex the Runt?

[@ManyMonstersMedia]

The little markie outfits ❤❤❤

[@smileyghostkat3068]

Good morning from Canada!

[@hoper1294]

Good morning from a fellow Canadian!

[@hellencristini7889]

The first story is a plot of many webcomics kkkkkkk

[@wildfyah]

He was funding her IG lifestyle

[@nyxspiritsong5557]

They should REALLY include healthy communication classes in schools..... everywhere. For everybody......I swear it would fix so many issues in life as opposed to crt or gender studies. Communication benefits EVERYBODY not just certain people. Eta....2nd story. I hope somebody told op that SHOPPING can become an addiction just as easily as drugs.... that seems to fit more with what's been described

[@boneymeroney2674]

Story 2. $700 a week 😮 .WTF.

[@Tammohawk1]

It's all well and good that you help out your adult children. I do that all the time. But, not to the detriment of your own life. You have to take care of your bills first. Anything left over is disposable income. If you don't have the disposable income, you can't help out. OP loses a leg and is looking for work. Step-daughter is able bodied and can't work because she can't leave her child at daycare? I'd be furious. Just furious over this situation. He's about to make them all homeless due to his deadbeat loser daughter.

[@yingyang8130]

the pirate hat lol!

[@axepagode4321]

In the past, children were taught how push past their insecurities and fears. If you had a problem speaking in groups, then you were assigned more speaking roles. You were encouraged to join school plays. The more book reports you read in front of the class the better you get at presenting. Oddly enough this also impacts other areas if your life. If your coach doesn't let you quit and make it to the top of the wall, your brain chemistry changes as you realize you can do it. Dealing with anxiety about openly communicating is much the same. It looks like students are being taught to embrace the insecurities as opposed to fighting and overcoming them. This is a problem.

[@bricksloth6920]

Nice hats my dude

[@Fluffy-Rose1993]

Top hat Markee lol

[@TheScaletIbisNW]

Is she sure that money is going to his daughter?

[@BloodSunBlast]

Story 1: after sex was put on the table he should have stopped any flings he had. Esh cause she didn't communicate it but faked illness instead

[@BloodSunBlast]

@@RisetoStrength dude as soon as she started agreeing with sex it became cheating since she only agreed to let him cheat cause she didn't want sex. They're still married at the end of the day.

[@BloodSunBlast]

@@RisetoStrength i don't care. This won't change my mind. The whole reason why the relationship was open on his side was strictly for sex because she didn't want sex. She placed the sex on the table later on. He should have stopped his flings right here and then. Because the only reason she even allowed him to seek sex elsewhere was because she didn't want it. Now she does He's a good guy for understanding and not pushing her to it. But if she's now willingly wanting sex, why seek it elsewhere?

[@BloodSunBlast]

@@RisetoStrength it wasn't established poly relationship??? Poly means she too agrees with the partner and may even date/sleep with them. This was never a poly relationship. I'm all for poly. If two people agree to date the person that comes into the relationship. Otherwise it's just an open relationship. Plus it was never mentioned that he was serious with those other people. Just sex toys to him basically

[@BloodSunBlast]

@@RisetoStrength that wasn't a poly relationship. Nothing in that story had the words "poly relationship" It was just open for his side on her okay. She can ask for him to close it because they're still legally married. If he doesn't close it it'll be classified as cheating then. Same if the roles were reversed. If she was allowed to fk around because he didn't want sex at first. I'd still agree that she should close any affairs once he asked/started having sex with her.

[@BloodSunBlast]

@@RisetoStrength I'm not doing this. It wasn't

[@eri-chan1943]

Wow you look dashing today sir Markee

[@gladygalvan8069]

Story 2: and you have an 8 year old 😮🤦‍♀️

[@Makewell_catto]

i love the new silly hat trend

[@Aetriex]

Title sounds extra healthy

[@tfrtrouble]

I agree with the comments and outcome for story 2 BUT "He pays for rent and utilities and I pay for groceries" is not what most people would understand by "splitting the bills"; rent and utilities are waaay more expensive than groceries. I would rather call that "I contribute to household expenses". It's totally understandable that she's contributing less given that she is currently unable to work, however, saying just "we split the bills" in a situation where one person is paying all the essential housing costs and probably paying more than 10x more is misleading.

[@Mr.andMrs.Smith_0420]

First story- Gee whatta ya know, she likes sex! Lol, I feel like people who say they dont like sex have either never tried before or the only time they did, it was a bad experience. Second story- She's for sure on drugs, she wouldn't have broke down crying like that if she didn't have some kind of addiction.

[@bridgetdebourgh5698]

Hey Markee 👋👍 Hey everyone 👋

[@errantwinds-up8uu]

For the first story I think people need to remember that not everywhere is Western-centric. It's not really cool to call people out for things that might be obvious if you're from a place like America, when there are different biases and concerns. I'm not saying that people are wrong as such, just that not everyone automatically has "a shiny spine" or feels comfortable "just talking to them already!" Idk, I think we could all just be more generous to people's struggles. ETA: it's something I'm working on too.

[@lynsthoughts3576]

Husband is paying ex wife's expenses

[@monteverdi1567]

“Clean??” STI free does not equate to “clean.” OP has so many communication problems. Hard to feel much sympathy.

[@kurotsuki7427]

Clean meaning not going to spread something, not like a moral thing. I do think we need to change how our wording is, but the point wasn't moral.

[@muppetbrows]

If she's partying all the time, that means she's at least an alcoholic, right? People don't generally call it "partying" when there's not alcohol and/or drugs involved. Alcohol is addictive too, if that's the only thing she's using. And it's one of the most harmful to your health. Its definitely more expensive to buy drinks at a club all night than to do several of the other drugs she could be using. Also maybe she needed veneers because she doofed it while shitfaced lol. Source: Me, an alcoholic

[@kp2223]

S2 is definitely drugs

[@maheenahmed6653]

While it’s not impossible that story 1 is true (arranged marriages are a thing in many cultures and while not always, it’s a natural thing that two people cohabitating with the opposite sex and are straight and a fake marriag? And then actually, she falls for him and he loves her all along and the fact he’s a childhood friend

[@maheenahmed6653]

Like it sounds like fanfiction or even a Bollywood movie. Even k drama.

[@maheenahmed6653]

If it is real, then I’m glad it’s working out. Also yeah, communication is key. But, if in her culture it’s not normal or even taboo to date and you just go straight to marriage and cohabitation communication can be difficult to grasp 😊

[@terylsmile3642]

Um sounds almost like while the daughter may not be on substance abuse her drug is shopping and partying and getting cosmetic surgery done. Apparently statistically ppl who get something done are usually repeat shoppers. So expensive treatments along with addict shopping perhaps all due to Instagram influence and addiction to that. Sounds to me like she is addicted to overlapping or connecting things. We've seen this in the brides who nuke themselves bc they want an "aesthetic" wedding and they wind up being left almost as soon as they got married or having the wedding called off. I can blv that this girl is trying to live her best IG life bc a LOT of the ppl on IG are really IG addicts who happened to record their addiction for the world to see. All under the guise of Influencer.

[@carlrood4457]

Like things aren't already weird in their relationship?

[@sophdog2564]

Markee at this point you need to rename yourself the mad hatter because the hats/disguises are getting out of hand

[@xAshtarax]

Cute tophat, Markee

[@orchidoxs126]

Why not just talk to him? You know the thing he did with you. I can getthat sex can be taboo subject even for this culture. But they had to communicate about the issue before, and then again when he asked if sex was on the table for them now. So i don't fully get why it so hard now, maybe because feelings are involved now, but sabotaging is just kinda manipulative.

[@greendiamondglow]

The whole situation in story 1 seems...unnecessary.

[@kanelovec4315]

She was demisexual or was afraid of sex/sexual relationships. She has to talk to him. To him nothing has changed other than he also having sex with op. Op has to talk and see where it goes. Either it goes with them being exclusive, they keep being "poly" but both now, or a divorce

[@Sydney_With_A_Why]

It wasn't forced ONLY because you didn't say no, goofy.

[@carlrood4457]

I think the point is that after the initial setup by they're family, they were free to say no if they didn't like each other.

[@beccaf262]

I can’t help but think the “why don’t people communicate” comments come from healthy people lol. Lots of people have generational trauma attached to not being able to communicate effectively so it’s a skill being learned in adulthood. I think we should give people grace, just like OPs husband. He understood her enough to know she needed to vocalise it herself and he let her come to that realisation herself.

[@theScytheofGod]

Yes. YTA.

[@driversuz44]

"...a *little bit* of ah AH move...???" Really, Markee? It's just a little bit childish to unilaterally change the fundamental terms of a marriage?

[@nondisclosure3920]

Wtf, why is marriage still open if they are sleeping together, I thought it was open coa OP thought they were asexual, this woman is just daft

[@MeTeaOakRStNR]

63 💚

[@Rael0505]

Wtf is the first story lol

[@soulreaper1981]

Story 1: the commenter about abuse in the past was talking bulshit. It was not as Commen as they think. Most people had a hard live

[@SillyTeaSeal]

U could wear fedora as hat in some video👀

[@johnlong572]

Just talk People on Reddit Naaaah Does literally manipulative and cuntish things they can think of It goes horrible wrong Blame's literally everyone but themselves

[@troubleinthevalley5884]

When you told him he could sleep with other women it doesn't sound like you thought far ahead enough to wonder what would happen if he ended up falling in love with one of these other women. Especially because you didn't have romantic feelings for him until you had sex with him then all of a sudden that completely changed the relationship so what made you think he was just going to be able to go have casual sex with all these different women and not end up falling for one of them? Stop being childish and talk to him. You're going to have to at some point whether it ends up being awkward or not. Also why can't you escape him you're a grown up, you are allowed to get a divorce. I mean that's obviously going to happen eventually if he finds somebody that he's more compatible with and wants to actually have a relationship with. I mean were you just going to make him be your husband for the rest of his life and never let him have a fulfilling life?

[@kali3731]

fiiirst 🎉greetings from austria ✨

[@SillyTeaSeal]

Hi!

[@brandonshelp4682]

I really enjoyed the person pretending abuse isn't seen as a joke anymore. Female on male abuse is absolutely seen as a joke.

[@TriFekt]

People always say "I don't understand why no talky" but it's actually a very straightforward thing, people don't like their fantasies finalized. If you have a romantic fantasy of being with someone and what the relationship would look like. You've constructed a fantasy that is desirable in your head, communicating that to the other person could challenge that, ruin it's possibility, or change it's dynamic completely. That is why people tend not to.

[@stuffedninja1337]

Why is your avatar so tiny lol

[@sharyebethancourt3660]

S1: maybe OP is Demisexual

[@eileenvalenzuela9725]

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