r/AmITheA**hole Married Woman Lied On Dating Site, Now She's Pregnant

[@barbarastorball2117]

Story 1- The ex is just upset that she has ruined her own life. She can't blame op for her choice to cheat on her husband and get pregnant by another man besides her husband.

[@brianjeffrey1913]

I think this will work out best for the baby but if I was in OP situation I would have made sure to lawyer up pronto. But I'm glad he's happy to be a dad.

[@AngryReptileKeeper]

@@brianjeffrey1913 And hopefully he makes better choices in partners the next time he feels the urge to get his d*ck wet. Like not sleeping with people he doesn't know. Don't do hookups, kids. Otherwise, you'll end up like OP.

[@Davtwan]

“She’s begging me to do this or it’ll completely break her family.” Boy, it’s already completely broken. Even if the husband stayed, he’ll be suspicious of every action she does outside the house (and rightfully so).

[@umbrellabeans4203]

I just feel sorry for the kids though

[@thebestscientificmethod9304]

No one is talking about how she said she had no point in having him now meaning she just wanted the baby to keep him around? That's fucked up

[@zparkplug2788]

fr. at least the baby will have a good man as his father instead of living w such a sh*t mother

[@Gumbier_Than]

Yes, still some women do only have the baby to keep/please the man. 😣

[@PrincessQ-fj9ly]

@@Gumbier_Than That's one of the worst reasons to have a baby. Just accept that it's over and move on. And if it's your fault, take responsibility and do better with your next relationship.

[@AngryReptileKeeper]

It's not uncommon for people to crank out a baby precisely for that purpose. And it never works.

[@MsUnamusedNerd]

Story one: she has no right to be bitter, it was HER fault she got pregnant with another man’s baby and got a divorce. If she wasn’t cheating she would still have her husband. All of this is her fault if she really didn’t want to see her family torn apart and her children being hurt, she should not have cheated to begin with. Also there’s no guarantee the husband is going to be a good father to Op’s baby. He’ll probably treat the affair child lesser than his biological children and will probably end up abusing the kid. At least with OP there’s a guarantee that baby will have a good father. I am pretty positive the mother is not going to be a good mother and will allow the child to be treated less than or even abuse OP’s child herself because the child is a living embodiment of her mistake. So there’s going to end up being resentment.

[@pippo17173]

Cheating always has bad karma attached to it. They can complain about it all they want, it's just life.

[@thebestscientificmethod9304]

@Purplekitty81 ingram how would a women use a condom?

[@firerosenight6937]

@Purplekitty81 ingram wai- I'm a girl, and there are girl condoms? I'm searching this. Edit: oh shit, there are. WHY WASNT I TAUGHT THIS?! Edit 2: okay, not one of any of the girls I know even know about these either. Jeez

[@firerosenight6937]

@Purplekitty81 ingram you weren't mean at all. I'm just both surprised and slightly pissed I've never heard of these. I mean, my own mother didn't even know these existed. Never heard of these in sex.ed but then again, my school just sucks in general. So thanks for the information. And I agree, if its a relationship or just a hookup- use protection. Because there's a reason its called protection.

[@Early666]

@@firerosenight6937 There's no standardized curriculum for sex education. My high school was pretty thorough (even touched upon feminine hygiene products). But one of my ex's from another school was only taught abstenance (and that AIDs could be transmitted through trees...). There's a John Oliver piece about the disparities within sexual education, the CDC and Planned Parenthood can fill in the gaps you have regarding your options for safe sex.

[@thesmilingboiYT]

Story 4: Daughter is 100% no doubt being weaponized by the ex. Adamant about the wedding being at OP’s house? Ex wants access. Claiming OP loves stepdaughter more? Lies put in her head by ex. The signs are all there. I actually feel bad for the daughter. One day she may look back and realized she was being used and cut her father out from walking her down the aisle because of it.

[@gorkemaykut5230]

damned if you do damned if you don't

[@starwarriorterra8373]

Broke my delicate heart to read, and you speak the very likely truth. I don't envy that poor daughter and certainly there are no AHoles here aside from the awful, awful ex and her family. A restraining order is usually a last resort as far as I know; the fact that it got to that extent at all leaves me maddeningly suspicious that it's all the ex's doing.

[@Grace_x68]

Agree. Daughter's bio mom's goal was to hurt her dad by not walking her down the Isle and not being at wedding. Mission accomplished, daughter big idiot!

[@judelbugsrutter6727]

Yeah I'm pretty sure biomom has an end game to cause drama or something more. Disgusting. Nice of her grandparents to step up... I wonder why they trust her, or maybe they just did it for the granddaughter.

[@Jay_S4519]

God that last story is heartbreaking. The father is NTA. It takes a lot for a person (especially guys) to get restraining orders for their ex so the OP was in a no win situation.

[@wrestlingfan3117]

Yeah. Though, I bet the daughter will be crawling back to him for help. Anyway, the mother is a total bitch. It’s obvious she manipulated her daughter against her own father, and oh boy will the daughter resent her for manipulating her.

[@Indi_Waffle_Girl]

Right?! It broke my heart. :( And that's an interesting point about the restraining order, I never even thought about it being harder for guys. It's like, I wonder if his issues are not taken seriously because he's a dude? I'm really proud of him for standing up for himself and his needs, because it would be sooo easy to cave to your kid and not even consider what you want/need. He was even willing to let the mom come!!! And just use porta potty trailers! What a legend.

[@katarzynajuszczyk7892]

Last story. We don't know how their relationship looked like before. I kinda thought it would end up like that. You can't treat your stepdaughter better than your child and assume it would be ok. His parents agree which should tell people something. Divorce can get messy but I assume it is not the first time he chose his new family over the old one. It is just my opinion.

[@ribbonsbows1358]

@@katarzynajuszczyk7892 I was thinking the same. Something seems off.

[@lovevamp5446]

Last story. Poor guy, NTA. Comming from a similar family situation, definitely manipulation is in order here. Though I can't get my head around that the daughter can't bring the understanding for her father. He had an approved restrainingorder for her mother. With all the manipulation she should question her mother and understand that her father doesn't want to see her mother ever again.

[@cv8167]

Story 3: Prank? Sounds more like she was trying to baby trap her boyfriend without the baby...

[@janda1258]

Last story, do OPs family know what a restraining order is? And if they do, do they know why OP has it against his ex’s family? Do they imedietly go ”forgive and forgett” without thinking about how OP feels?

[@TNTMAN360]

No joke Mark this morning I said much love to my mother when she gave me a hug you have cursed me and I love it much love

[@MarkNarrations]

The curse of much love haha, you legend

[@TNTMAN360]

@@MarkNarrations I have a feeling you're going to make this into a thing on your channel if it spreads much love

[@katiesmith2031]

Lol I now do it to

[@TNTMAN360]

@@katiesmith2031 much love

[@katiesmith2031]

@@TNTMAN360 much love back

[@indianspartan76]

Story 4: I wanna know more backstory, why is the daughter acting like such a prick?

[@Treveyon2010]

@@UsulPrincess the fact there was a restraining order makes me believe that even more.

[@OmniscientlyMe]

Well, let's be honest, a lot of brides are in entitlement mode when it comes to their weddings to begin with.

[@t.matthies3049]

My impression is that OP's ex has a history of verbally and emotionally abusing him, and the daughter doesn't have a sense of how damaging or wrong her mother's actions were. Sometimes people who grow up with that think it's normal, so the daughter may not be able to recognize that OP is completely justified at not wanting abusive people in his home. Plus there's still a lot of stigma/lack of recognition of men being abused, which doesn't help either.

[@AndreNDP]

@@t.matthies3049 I'd guess not just the ex, but the daughter too. You could see him starting to fold like cheap linoleum on the original post-I'm guessing the daughter has some serious entitlement issues. Like mother, like daughter.

[@PurpleHeartsOnFire]

Honestly I don’t really think she’s acting like a prick, she seems really hurt. I bet her mother is whispering in her ear about how the step daughter is the favorite. And the post just kinda seems like she is the favorite. The dad extended something out to one daughter that he was unwilling to give to another. If I couldn’t do it for both, I wouldn’t do it for one. Also even if the venue was held at their house why wouldn’t the step mother & daughter not go? Like how does that change if it’s held somewhere else?

[@ComaLies225]

Story 1: I don’t get the ex continuing to pressure OP to not be around despite her husband not wanting to be involved anymore. What was the point? Dangling a baby wasn’t gonna bring him back

[@jeremyweekes2126]

First story: I don't blame the husband for leaving. She's not even sorry for what she did. A part of being sorry and showing contrition is to take ownership and accountability for your actions. But instead of doing that she just keeps blame shifting and blaming OP for the destruction of her family, when it was her who done that. Even after she was caught out she didn't take ownership of what she done, and instead just continue to lie to and manipulate everyone else involved.

[@PrincessQ-fj9ly]

Selfish cheaters, entitled people and narcissists don't want to have to take responsibility for their actions. That means admitting they were in the wrong which they are. They would much rather blame someone else and play the woe is me card. It's kinda pathetic if you ask me.

[@mezzokitty247]

The first story: That woman has no right to be mad at OP for wanting to use his legal rights to see his child. She made her bed, now she has to lie in it. Edit: So glad the kid is with OP full time, it normally takes a miracle for the father to gain full custody no matter the circumstances (OP’s cheating ex would’ve most likely ended up with full custody had she not decided herself that she didn’t want to have her son with her and her other kids). That kid definitely deserves to be with the better parent.

[@brothersgt.grauwolff6716]

there's a saying I believe is relevant to the story " never $#!t were you sleep" 😊

[@t.matthies3049]

Exactly. And OP wanting to be in his child's best is probably in the child's best interest. Even had he given up custody, and the husband hadn't rescinded the conditions, there was no guarantee the ex's marriage would work out, or that the ex's husband would have treated the child as his own. For all OP knew, the husband could have played favourites or abused the child. He definitely made the right choice.

[@JBond-hw5nj]

story 4 the daughter being extremely overdramatic and completely not understanding anything

[@danilapetrova1178]

As a deadbeat dad's kid it's so Wholesome to see this man fighting for his kid! Mad respect.

[@Iflie]

Yeah so great the kid ended up with his father, you could never have counted on the mother or the ex-husband to make sure that kid was loved unconditionally. Goes to show you should always wrap it up carefully with people you are not planning on having babies with, they only dated a few months and he hadn't even been to her house yet.

[@myriampro4973]

"always wrap it up carefully", LMFAO.

[@Iflie]

@@myriampro4973 Haha, yeah, I think a lot of those "oh the condom broke" things are actually user error, nails, teeth, being in a hurry. But a lot of these stories don't say "I used protection" so I think mostly they just didn't use any.

[@AngelaMerici12]

The last story sounds messed up. The guy needs therapy because he has no self respect. He thinks it was a wrong decision 🤔. You had a restraining order my friend!!! 😐

[@tiryaclearsong421]

He's going to miss his daughter's wedding. I understand why he's heartbroken and feels like he made a mistake somewhere along the way. There's no guarantee the daughter will ever understand that her mother is just using her to hurt the father and now he sees a future where his daughter and his parents are against him. Potentially forever. Even if he did the right thing it will never feel like the right thing.

[@pippo17173]

@@tiryaclearsong421 well if this mean anything, she will be a future bridezilla/Karen that will probably turn abusive and I think the father got the better end of the deal from getting cut off.

[@myriampro4973]

@@pippo17173 she always would be her daughter, and clearly he's heartbroken, bridezilla or not she might be.

[@crazy4cheddar]

In regards to the last story, I am working on planning my own wedding for about a year from now, and that 15k generous offer would low key get me my dream venue and then we would still have our remaining budget. Something else could be going on in their relationship that we don’t know, but it came across that she wanted to cut op out of of her life.

[@tiryaclearsong421]

It sounds to me like somebody (probably the mother) poisoned her against her father. Even if she started off being interested in the idea of having a wedding at that house, someone is helping feed her jealousy of the stepsister. It's not normal to be completely unwilling to compromise with a parent while insisting your wedding be identical to a stepsibling. It's not normal to insist that if it can't be identical then it's only because of favoritism.

[@kaileyspagnola4838]

I took my meds! I remembered two days in a row to take my ADHD medicine so I can focus...my ADHD made me forget to take my meds..

[@Studybyaims]

Good for you! :D

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

Yay im so happy for you, good job 💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗

[@CathySW]

Well done you. Is it possible to set an alarm to help you remember, or would that not work?

[@kaileyspagnola4838]

@@CathySW yes I have alarm but I somehow get distracted from it by school

[@kaileyspagnola4838]

@@broken_queer_but_fighting8589 💗💗💗

[@peachberry9774]

Story 1: That guy is amazing and I hope he has the most beautiful relationship with his son! He sounds like a caring father, and a great human being, much unlike that horrible woman

[@ezra2701]

I had to discontinue memberships with a few channels (Financial reasons). I worked around it and so I could stay a member of Mark. He deserves it and I love being a member. I wish I could buy everyone a membership

[@MarkNarrations]

Oh Ezra, thank you so much. Please don't put yourself out for me though. You being here is more than enough

[@ezra2701]

@@MarkNarrations it's not putting me out of pocket😊 I made sure because I truly love the member videos and supporting the channel. You're an amazing creator😊❤️

[@nightcorelucario2218]

Story 1: NTA. She got herself into this mess and is not considering your view on this. This is your biological child, you have a right to want to have a part in this kids life. It's good to hear you get to keep your child in the end and you might want to watch your back around the mother. Keep her at arms length. She's definitely angry about what's happened but she did that to herself with her infidelity Story 2: NTA. Work from home means you're supposed to be working not looking after a child while working. I hope you find a nanny before this argument starts having long term negative effects on your child because this idiot can't follow simple instructions Story 3: NTA. Who the actual fuck steals another persons pregnancy? And for a "prank" to make someone worry they're a father. That's just fucked up and your co-worker is not right in the head at all. I'd go to HR to it and see what you can do there Story 4: NTA. You had a restraining order against 2 members of her mother's family. Just because it expired doesn't mean things have changed between the 2 parties. Renew the order and don't be heartbroken that you missed out on an event for awful people. If your parents want to side with the people you have a *restraining order* against, then they're just bad people as well and you don't need those types of people in your life

[@maggpiprime954]

Story 4: NTA. This story broke my heart. My parents divorced when I was young, but they did everything they knew how to keep their ugliness from us kids. It didn't always work, but they successfully refused to weaponise us. Now, we all have close, healthy relationships with each other; there is no reopening of scars.

[@wolftamerwolfcorp7465]

My parents never married and split by the time I was 5, they tried weaponizing me against one another, I don’t care much for either of them.

[@maggpiprime954]

@@wolftamerwolfcorp7465 I'm sorry to hear that, that really sucks. You deserve better. Hugs from an internet stranger (if you want them).

[@hydrokineticpowerhouse]

Story 4 reminds me of a different Reddit story where OP’s twin sister was manipulated into having her stepfather be the one to walk her down the aisle. Her dad never forgave her, never saw her again, refused to have her at his side while he was dying or even talk about her, then after he died he had words for everyone but her. The regret was eating her alive and she had a mental breakdown. And honestly she got exactly what she deserved. I hope this OP’s daughter comes to her senses.

[@babybluehashyo]

Story one, better they resent OP than the baby. If she really wants to make it work with her husband SHE can terminate HER rights.

[@Tammohawk1]

1st Story: NTA Men, one of the number one lies that women tell, "I'm on birth control." Don't believe it unless you see it. Otherwise, protect yourself. This is a terrible story. She wrecked her life and doesn't want to take responsibility for it. 2nd Story: NTA What is this, "My mother wouldn't like it."? Is she the care provider for the child? If not, then she gets no say in the matter whatsoever. If you are working, you are working. 3rd Story: NTA That's fraud, plain and simple. I would definitely be going to HR over this. 4th Story: NTA What is the matter with that daughter? She knows that Dad had to get a restraining order against her mother, and yet still wants her wedding at her dad's place? Hell no! And there is no possible way in this life that I would back down. Sounds to me like the daughter is acting like a spoiled little brat. This was a no win situation if you ask me.

[@myriampro4973]

Even on birth control, it may fail. Condoms too, but the two... A friend's sister told her this "You must take the pill, and he should wear a condom. If after all you get pregnant, let get him born because he is Superman"

[@cutieetae3351]

Stories with updates are so so so much more satisfying .I hate the wonder I have about how things pan out 🤣🤣

[@gaysatan4565]

Story 1: she already broke their family. NTA, hope he goes to the courts. If OP can prove he is responsible, he should be able to get some custody or rights to your kid.

[@OZARKMOON1960]

Last story - OP was put in an untenable position by a daughter who was obviously manipulated by her mom. If things got to a point that judge said, 'this shit is bad' and issued a restraining order, then there is no way he can allow those people on his property at all. Telling his new family to vacate the house during the wedding? Only then would he be TA. Was daughter not aware of the RO and all the threats, violence and family drama? Surely she must know at least some of the things that went down -- and she is unreasonable to make these demands of her poor dad!

[@pauldavisjr.3284]

The third OP should report her coworker to HR for her actions. I bet that coworkers ex-boyfriend is greatly relieved that he dodged that bullet.

[@brothersgt.grauwolff6716]

Story #4 that was a Kobiashi Maru scenario right there 😕

[@Skyfire_The_Goth]

Too bad he couldn't reprogram the scenario.

[@SkiesOfYellow]

Story 1: Umm, question. Why on earth did this woman even contact him about the baby in the first place? She could have just... not told him? Then they wouldn't have had to deal with this whole situation. The dude is NTA, but seriously. Story 4: That poor father. His daughter is a vile monster. After knowing the history between her father and mother, trying to pressure her father into welcoming his harassers into his home is absolutely awful. OP is NTA, but his daughter certainly is.

[@wolftamerwolfcorp7465]

I’d say the daughter seems to more likely be a tool to a manipulative mother and as much a victim as he is but regardless he’s NTA and the mother is.

[@epicXtrollface]

Imagine your coworker sending you a picture of their unborn baby and you post it on social media, claiming it at your own. That would be enough reason for me to get angry... not to mention the entire "prank".

[@TheTiggerpoo1]

Wait!!!! She's bitter at YOU about it???? She needs to look in a mirror.

[@songohan3321]

Story 3 belongs in r/iamatotalpieceofshit. No Refuring to OP but the so and so that used some else's sonogram to fool her boyfriend.

[@JSainte17]

I only just heard the title and was like 😳. Tf!?

[@MrMrSockhead]

Day: 86 of telling Mark that he is wonderful and deserves the world

[@lovewiener]

yes

[@kittenswithbows]

My twins have just gone down for a nap, im making some toast and I think "Ooo, I hope Mark's uploaded". Yaaassss.

[@songohan3321]

Damn. I read the story and thought, "Man. And I thought I had problems. "

[@wickedbird1538]

Never post a pic on the net if you are unwilling to lose control of who uses it.

[@saulcanogil4527]

A life build by lies is like a piramid of cards, just blow it with the truth and is going to fall.

[@mpmansell]

Sonogram: NTA. Go to HR first and report that she copied private material, posted it illegally on line as her own, and is using it to torment an ex. This is a massive invasion of privacy. I would also contact the social media platform and demand a take-down under the DMCA also tell them that she is using it for fraudulent purposes and bullying. It is possible that laws against posting pics of minor might apply, depending on how badly written laws were. This might also be an avenue of attack.

[@froggy8195]

Story 1: she shouldnt have told him if this was the way she wanted and also what happens when 18 years from now your kid does a dna test and you find out this guy abused your kid cause you werent there. Tell the wife you will take the kid and they can stay together.

[@lILunaticaIl]

(blows a lil kiss) for mark your narrations keep me company/keep me sane while rendering massive paintings n commissions, bless u king

[@kixi8033]

1: NTA. Her problems with her husband and fam isn't the op's problem. That is HIS child and he has a right to the child. I'm glad he was able to get his child, that woman sounds like a terrible person for trying to force him to term his parental rights and lying to him about everything.

[@atinyevil1383]

Story 1: that is an A+ dad. I hope he keeps being an A+ dad.

[@Misspellednumbers]

Story 1: I by no means trust the ex. That entire story was ALL about her: She disregarded her husband and cheated. She was told she was going to lose her husband and children, so now she's disregarding OP. She only cares about what she wants and what she's going to lose. I wouldn't trust her not to cheat again, and by then, her husband might not try to reconcile and abandon her w/ OP's kid. In which, she'll probably try to get OP involved again. OP needs to think about what he wants, 'cause she's by no means trustable.

[@babyfarkmcgee-zax3785]

When I had my oldest I told my parents that if they can't be civil to each other, then whichever one of them couldn't put their issues aside for the birth of their grandchild would be persona non grata. They both played nice because they are mature and I wasn't going to tolerate an asshole causing trouble when I gave birth. The daughter needs to grow up and tell her mother that since she had to be the squeaky wheel she won't be invited. Instead, she has vilified her dad, the kind and caring parent who had to get a restraining order.

[@joshuaortega1852]

So glad OP's son ended up with the parent that wanted him.

[@bonniebaldridge1248]

Story #1: NTA, but I've no advice. Childcare Story: NTA. Your husband is, IMO. "His mother wouldn't like it"?! GAD. Sonogram Story: NTA. That was a bastard thing to do.

[@ScooterBond1970]

LAST STORY: [rant] Why are so many people commenting on the idea that OP should not have let his stepdaughter hold her wedding in his house if he wasn't willing to do the same for his daughter? Let me run down some points as best as I can remember: 1- Stepdaughter's wedding, as far as I can tell, was from the beginning planned to be at OP's house. 2- Daughter's wedding, which came/comes later, was from the beginning planned to be held at an outside venue. 3- Some time into the planning stage (I think), Daughter's wedding venue closed unexpectedly due to the pandemic. Key word: UNEXPECTED In other words, OP wasn't favoring his stepdaughter with an at-home wedding whilst denying same for his daughter; he WASN'T EXPECTING to have to hold an at-home wedding for his daughter in the first place. The fact of the venue's closing only came later, and no matter how much people may try to argue differently, you simply cannot project hindsight knowledge into the past and act upon it in the past. OP didn't have any reason to deny his stepdaughter an at-home ceremony because he had no reason to expect that he'd be forced to deny his daughter the same. And yes, given the restraining order and all (even if it is expired), OP has every right to deny his ex access to his home; in between the daughter's ranting, try telling her to ask her mother why there was a restraining order against her side of the family in the first place. This is not a matter of equity. It's a demonstration that life is sometimes unfair. [/rant] fhew!

[@nancyjay790]

All the best to you and your family. Whatever happens, the love you have with your father will always be with you.

[@rubystone9074]

Story 1: GOOD! She got EVERYTHING she deserved. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. I’m so glad these men decided to not bend for this woman, and actually look out for themselves. Ive read to many stories where the man stays because “I love her” or “It’s not exactly her fault” (for some reason) and the wife/girlfriend never faces the consequences of her actions, at least not in the way she should at the time. Lesson: don’t let your spouse have their cake and eat it to. They WILL betray you again, only because you let them get away with it the first time.

[@OminousSoul]

I kinda wanna know what the Friends of OP from Story one are saying after that update considering they were pretty much "Just walk away" the entire time

[@yams3843]

hello everyone hope your day is going wonderfully, eat and drink some water! don’t ever forget you matter

[@se4307]

Story 1 wow she lost all her kids for a s**g. SMH!

[@marukouga135]

Here's hoping we'll get our waffle plushies soon! (No rush and may everyone have a splendid day! 😁)

[@nathan8219]

DUDE! This is the best idea!

[@isiaadiel3468]

That last story's daughter was being a complete brat. If her mom poisoned her, it's too far gone now. Just be glad you're safe.

[@sgtjarhead99]

Story 1 - Cheating spouses deserve no favors. If OP wants to be part of his son's life, he deserves the right regardless of what she says.

[@susanlosey9511]

OP should also be very careful. She might try to get him to try and marry her!

[@didyasaysomethin2me]

Story 1: Who does this woman think she is to demand that OP gives up his rights and walks away? If she wants to move on with her life like none of this happened then she can sign surrender her parental rights and leave OP to raise his child. What happens after that is between her and her husband.

[@Mewse1203]

Story 3: if she doesn't pull it off social media, do a copyright claim. OP owns the pic, not the coworker.

[@W0lfscythe]

Story 1- NTA. I would've divorced the stb Ex-wife in heartbeat. Nothing justifies cheating on your SO. I'd prefer getting dumped or divorced than get cheated on.

[@ShatoraDragondore]

Story 2: Everyone sucks. That poor child isn't something you pencil into your agenda for the day. You made a life together and your passing the kids around like it's the class pet and fighting about whos weekend it is to take it home. Why can't OP set up daycare or a nanny why is it on her husband just because the day was her husbands "day" to watch the child it's all on him?

[@leegraves8878]

Change the sexes and they would be screaming for her head. There are so many stories of my man won't take care of the kid and the commenters are out for blood.

[@reggiebrown4911]

@@leegraves8878 that part ✔️... " Just hire a sitter" if a man said these words about his own child.

[@CarinaCoffee]

Story 1: I blame the patriarchy and misogyny for everyone not seeing the most obvious solution of OP keeping the child. I thought that was so obvious. Glad reddit brought it up.

[@teacheschem]

Last story- Dad should have a party on the day of her wedding at his house and post the pictures! His daughter is obnoxious!

[@Cassandra765]

Story 1: NTA. OP isn't destroying this woman's life. She did that when decided to lie and cheat. If OP is a good guy and a responsible guy, he has the right to be involved in his child's life. The rest of it is all a her problem. Edit: So happy for OP getting full custody.

[@JBond-hw5nj]

story 1 that woman doesn't deserve to be involved in the child's life

[@kingarchreapagon4403]

Last story if I was OP I would just cut contact either everyone that disagree with me and renew restrain order again and add new members to it. Very toxic

[@z0mb1egutzz]

Story 1: NTA. Happy for you OP! Story 2: NTA you gave him options and he ignored you. He also doesnt know what normal work is like Story 3: NTA??? what the fuck is wrong with her? Story 4: NTA.

[@justinjones-smith5168]

Story 3: NTA. That's not hormones. That's a sick "prank".

[@barbarastorball2117]

That coworker has some issues. Not only was the coworker cruel in letting her ex boyfriend think she was pregnant but the coworker also included op play that they did not consent to being a part of .

[@songohan3321]

@@barbarastorball2117 To me, saying she has issues is being extremely generous.

[@EuphemineYuki]

I hope you're doing ok too! Sending hugs!

[@Twilight24682]

Kid in the last story is clearly being told a lot of BS by family about her dad NTA OP do not let them anywhere near your house and get another restraining order on them

[@RandomTrinidadian]

I have heard that first story before. Happy OP is in a much better place now, but i would hope he gets full custody of his son and keep him away from that piece of work. Something tells she she will just continue the drama

[@helookalikaman79]

Ah when the grandmother called to tell him, she will host the wedding and he is not invited... JUST to get a pikachu face, ask the grandmother "Who said I would attend?" She would either scream or hang up... Then He should change ALL of his contact info, social media, phone numbers etc.

[@MissJessyeNorman]

Story 1: It's also possible, if not probable, that the husband will always RESENT OP's son. OP has a duty of care to HIS SON!!! _He_ did not put them in this position. She did! He's not put the happy home of their children in peril, SHE HAS!!! He needs to keep reframing it for her, not allowing her to say that _he_ is putting his child's siblings in this position. SHE ALONE did that. He will never know how her husband would treat his son. He has a right to not want his son growing up, feeling alienated, unloved, and increasingly self-hating, because his "father" (the only one about which he would be aware) doesn't love him, as he loves his other children. Even if, which I think unlikely, the husband manages to treat his son just as he treats his other children, that doesn't make it right. His son has the right to know HIS OWN father, HIS OWN family. SHE has made this a living hell, with her sin. Yes, I know, old-fashioned, out of favor word - but that's what it is. It's an immoral, selfish, harmful act. And she victimized herself deeply as well, which is ALWAYS the case with sin. Sin often seems alluring, but you end up harming yourself terribly, oftentimes, worst of all. In this case however, I see others as the greatest victims. OP, and the children most of all.

[@laurabaumgartner3085]

I hope you are doing well, Mark. Take care, be safe and stay healthy. Also much love from one who has been subscribed since way back and you were still Daddy Cringe. The poor OP of the last story, there was no way that was going to have a good ending. It was a case of "damned if you do and damned if you don't". If he did let his daughter have the wedding there and everyone was able to go into his house I can almost guarantee you that things would have gone missing, been trashed or had some evil prank played that would have ended up costing him a fortune in repairs. And then when the smelly brown stuff in the air circulation device the daughter would still side with mom and things would be no different than they are now.

[@demyagant9251]

The last story nta; i would get another restraining order out and wouldn't give her a dime. after what she pull, what in the hell is wrong with that girl she acts just like her mother. Going on fb for sympathy votes and had her whole side pf the family harass him and his wife again tells a lot.

[@sebastianjoseph9628]

Hello mark, I’ve got a 4 day weekend now so I can watch your videos earlier now! Much love and have a good day

[@jaquelinerobinson6143]

Story4: He should have gotten event insurance for the cost of rebuilding the home plus 200,000 to cover furniture and the like. Tell the daughter she is responsible to pay the premium for the policy. Just in case the would like to burn something.

[@rilo7891]

S1: She's only crying, because her ATM is going to divorce her. Probably only reason she married the guy. S3: That is fraud (United States), she is lucky she came clean. S4: Mother is behind this.

[@sandeegarding7582]

Dude you definitely make my day better

[@sylva3256]

1st story had the best ending possible.

[@Nikki_81]

Story #3: It is not a joke to use another woman's ultrasound picture as a way to trap an ex! That can ruin a life, and at that point, it is not a joke at all! No way no how! That is disgusting!!!

[@marlica7]

Last story he needs new patents they should have told their granddaughter to piss off aswell

[@Alisha21210]

Story 1: husband says he's going to adopt OPs baby... There are plenty of stories with a parent hating a little kid because they look like their bio dad... It's not worth trapping that poor baby with a resentful man. And even bio mom might hate that little boy too by putting her relationship failure on him and not herself. I hope no one gets manipulated into complying with the bad people.

[@elizahamilton5599]

OP has the Baby full time now, the husband never wanted the child she lied to him about that to get OP to sign away his rights

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

Whoever is reading this i send hugs and great vibes. Drink water, eat food, nap, take a break, take care of yourself gosh darn it. And if you don't I swear I will find you and keep you in a cottage and take care of you. 🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜

[@TNTMAN360]

Hey nice to see your comments again same goes to you

[@veronicajacobson6594]

Thank you love I needed this please take care of yourself as well 🤗

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

@@veronicajacobson6594 thanks and I hope you have a magical rest of the day 💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

@@TNTMAN360 thanks so much 💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗

[@whiskey_phillips]

Thanks man! I'm going to order myself some food right now :)

[@sheilaclintonladygrim666]

I'm going to be honest I just love listening to these stories mostly because of your accent.

[@booboobooboo5524]

That dad in story 1 is going to be a great dad.

[@Acidfunkish]

OP in story #1 better be DAMN sure he's ready to take on all of the responsibility and hell that will be becoming a part of this disaster of a family. If he says no, and decides he wants to be a dad, he doesn't get to bow out because it's "too hard." Either he signs away his rights, now, or he's "STUCK" with this kid, for life. Because that kid's life is going to be disastrous, if everyone knows the truth. There will be resentments, regardless. He better be the world's best father to that poor kid. So he's either in, forever, or he's out, now. No in between. Personally, I don't think I could do it, knowing what chaos and drama I'd be signing myself up for. What a mess.

[@tabytha7636]

Story 1. Actual question why doesn't the women give up her rights to the child and he just be a single father. NTA. It's his kid can we have so many stories of fathers being so s***** It's nice seeing one actually wanting to take care of their child. The mother shouldn't have any rights to that child and should have it taken away from her or at least he gets full custody or majority because I don't feel like she wants it and is going to mistreat it because it's in the way of having a perfect family with the other two children that she actually wants.

[@badkitty4922]

I got this idea from TNTMAN360, and of COURSE Mark: Much love Mark, and all Waffle Gang!💖💖💖😘😘😘🙏🙏🙏

[@corruptpolitician4533]

Excited to hear what mark read us the shenanigans on r/aita

[@jacegallagher8589]

Story 2: ESH. Both of you are competing for your careers and putting yourselves above the other spouse. You are doing the same thing you are accusing him of and he is doing the same he is accusing you of. Communication and compromise are the 2 biggest components of a marriage and BOTH OF YOU are failing miserably at this. Another thing is that YOUR DAUGHTER COMES FIRST BEFORE BOTH OF YOUR OTHER PRIORITIES. BOTH OF you need to make some sacrifice for your family. BOTH OF YOU need to figure out a plan for childcare. BOTH OF YOU need to listen to your spouse and not just YOUR individual needs. BOTH OF YOU need to back off and compromise.

[@katiesmith2031]

Hi Mark thanks for the video how are you doing today? 😀

[@MarkNarrations]

Pretty good and you

[@katiesmith2031]

@@MarkNarrations ok long day already your video made me smile 😊

[@JBond-hw5nj]

story 3 op's coworker should be locked in a nice place with padded walls.

[@jenkzkh]

First story go for full custody of the child

[@melissareid640]

1st story so happy for you and your son.

[@conline5489]

Been here since you were "daddy cringe" so proud of you

[@maemae527]

This is the earliest I’ve been!