Dr. Joe Beam Shares All Successful Marriages Have This One Thing

[@rja9784]

Your KZbin videos have single-handedly turned my marriage around. I didn’t spend a dime. Thank you SO much!!!

[@nataliebrook5930]

Amen 🙏🏻 commitment is key and having JESUS in the center of all that we do individually with integrity. Thankyou

[@Bronx_Bombers]

Amen..🙏

[@jerrykudos9445]

There should be a reply here where is it. Why can't I read. My is the 2nd where is the first?

[@Mary-gg9mj]

This makes so much sense. My daddy was raised during the Great Depression. He wore the same shoes for 30 years or more. He bought quality. . He took care of them and sent them away to be resoled. That’s just one example. There was a stark difference between his generation and my own. We live in a throw away society. Interesting.

[@deborahrouse5644]

Too many go into marriage nowadays with the thought already in their minds that if something goes wrong, I'll just get a divorce. They begin the marriage selfishly with a me, me, me, I, I, I, attitude so when the first disagreement has them thinking they're "incompatible", they run for the door. There was never any commitment to their marriages which is why so many fail! ALL marriages require nurturing. How sad that there is a need for a "marriage industry" .

[@ebenezerlukamba8119]

Very true ❤

[@AS-dl6ku]

Mh & God saved my marriage and my marriage you can change! Reach out to them!

[@amandasturgeon90]

What to do if you're married to a Narcissist who gaslights you and never takes responsibility but makes everything your fault?

[@stevybr]

Run they will never change. But if you are prepared to put up with it , and can take it then you can commit to it.

[@user-re9fq3wb6s]

It's me I fix whatever the problem is and if it cannot fix you clean the mess up

[@caligirllala1267]

This was beautiful…thank you. I feel like I’m talking to My dear dad with you.🥰

[@Bronx_Bombers]

My parents have been married over 67 years. And it is true. I watched them make commitment the most important thing in their marriage. You cannot use your feelings and emotions to create and maintain a marriage. When your feelings and emotions change so will your relationship.

[@elizabethpietrak5118]

So thank-full for MH! Dr Joe, it will be a dream come true to come to one of your workshops!! God bless you all for your life work saving marriages-you & God have helped mine.

[@simplemomtv08]

Yes very true! I know a couple they more have communication but their commitment I don’t think so..

[@johnryan3374]

Commitment and loyalty are the key!

[@trainman2860]

Great clip. You can not fix a modern appliance unless you are a computer teck.

[@boomer1049]

You need a mind set of divorce is NEVER an option!

[@UrsaBella]

Unfortunately, after feeling unloved I decided to move on. There is no attraction anymore. We don’t have children. I have been in this marriage for 15 years. I am tired and don’t want to sacrifice my life anymore in this loveless marriage. Both of us are good people. We are different emotionally.

[@StevoSparta-tt5vu]

Honestly I am sure you're both good people, but not committed. What will happen is you will go into your next relationship; experience he honeymoon phase, and then realize the new partner has their issues and go through the entire thing again until you are willing to adopt a growing mindset and adapt to their flaws.

[@UrsaBella]

@@StevoSparta-tt5vu I never had a honeymoon phase. We were never in love.

[@christys.3912]

Just because one complains about certain aspects of their marriage, doesnt mean they are not happy. My husband loves his job, but sometimes complains about certain aspects. Complaints do not change your commitment unless you let it.

[@Superflyradioguy]

Some people are so selfish nothing you can do will make a difference. Believing the fantasy someone new will Fix everything is foolish.

[@user-qk4iz9lg7x]

🤔Attraction 👁 leads to Reaction👍🏆

[@simplemomtv08]

MH is pro marriage…

[@jerrykudos9445]

What he doesn't understand is that times change. They are making washing machines that are programmed to fail and be difficult to repair. They are programed to fail and you can't fix it because there is no parts. Because the new model was designed to be different enough so its parts won't work on the old one. Same with marriage. It is incentivised to fail. Programmed to fail. How? Because times have changed.

[@deborahrouse5644]

Rubbish

[@christys.3912]

Yea, but you can always choose to stay committed. If I hadn't had the principle that divorce is not an option, I would have been divorced long ago.

[@flaco5581]

My wife left me last month. Moved to puerto Rico and won't communicate with me.

[@deborahrouse5644]

That's awful!

[@stevybr]

Let her go, move on with your life, if she comes back its up to her.

[@Bronx_Bombers]

Maybe she wasn’t really committed to your marriage. Maybe 🤔

[@1988Allnatural]

Sorry to hear that! I wish you all the best in the future, take the time to focus on your journey forward!

[@richardcohen9103]

Consider yourself lucky

[@mikestoneking4992]

the bugs have got her

[@georgesontag2192]

I never met a happy couple married. Most women just complain about the husband.

[@deborahrouse5644]

I didn't think you "came to your senses" Sir. I thought your Limerant Object left you!

[@wolfsden]

Both.

[@joebeamphd7250]

She left. Two years after she left me (three years after I'd left Alice) I came to my senses, stopped living a very bad lifestyle, and asked Alice, my former wife, if she would take me back. By the grace of God, she did. It's interesting to me that you used the exclamation mark in your sentence. I assume (and I know how dangerous that can be) that you're implying that if she hadn't left me, I would not have "come to my senses." In other words, it appears to be a slur toward my finally getting back with Alice, that perhaps she was my second choice or something that I fell back on. If that's the way you feel, I understand. Yet, it's not how it happened. My wife, daughters, and so many others - including me - are happy that I did come to my senses. I believe I would have at some point done so even if my LO had stayed with me. But why argue over speculation? I'm so very happy that I did come to my senses. I'm so very happy that I am with my wife and family. I'm so very happy that our organization has helped so many people. I wish what we offer others would 100% of the time lead to wonderful success in saving marriages. I really do. However, I accept the fact that people make their own decisions, no matter how much others try to help. I made mine, and three years later was blessed to make a much better decision. As mentioned, my lovely wife Alice was forgiving enough and gracious enough to marry me again. Thank the Good Lord she did.

[@wolfsden]

@@joebeamphd7250 I am truly grateful you did, as well. Now, if I can get Sarah to do the same with me, preferably in a much shorter time-frame, hehe, I will be a truly blessed man, indeed. I know God's work has to be done in HIS WILL and in HIS TIME, so as long as He continues to strengthen me to stand, I will. I love Sarah with all my heart and I continue to pray that she will come to a true knowledge of what the Word of God says about divorce, instead of what her unGodly counselors have told her, and it will open her eyes to the rest of the truth. I'm a good man, because of a good good God, and I deserve to have a good Wife, and she's the one He designed for me to be with from before He created the Heaven's and the Earth, I believe that 100%, and I believe, because of that, she and I will be restored, soon. As the Spirit says it, "soon, as we understand soon", hehe. I am a member of MH, already, but the Lord is allowing me to come into a tough time, so it may be a while before I can continue my sub.

[@deborahrouse5644]

@@joebeamphd7250 Thank you for your reply. Your way back was multi faceted indeed.

[@mikestoneking4992]

with god i wasted all of these yrs

[@deborahrouse5644]

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