What To Do When Your Affair Partner Leaves You

You felt like you finally found the person that made your life complete, and would be with them at any cost- so you decided to leave your marriage...your family...your children...to go be with your lover. Sound familiar? Dr. Joe Beam experienced the same feelings, and made the same decisions. It didn’t happen overnight, but as he developed a relationship things intensified- so far to the point that his marriage ended in divorce (but they are happily remarried today!)
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After having gone through this, Dr. Beam earned a PhD studying what he went through, and discovered there is a process and path to these types of relationships.
In this video, you’ll hear Dr. Beam ask you to consider a couple of suggestions. First, consider what you going to do. You gave up everything for this person, and now this person has left. What happens next? Dr. Beam explains that acceptance plays a key role in moving forward.
Second, consider thinking about a future- that was better than it was before- by putting your marriage back together. Yes, even developing a better marriage than you had before. We can teach you how you can develop things in your marriage you didn’t discover the first time, or that somehow you misplaced or forgot.
Finally, if you think you don’t deserve your family back, or your spouse back...if you think you cannot be forgiven for what you’ve done know this: THAT IS A LIE.
Dr. Joe Beam reconciled his marriage, so here at Marriage Helper, we know what it takes. We have a wonderful team of people who will help you put your marriage and your family back together. We’ll help you enter a process to develop peace, healing, happiness, and life-long love.
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[@Kelebogiletemane]

My hubie left and I am the most happiest person. I'm glowing, I'm financial stable. I'm happy

[@davidnix5220]

My wife left me years ago and there is actually NO way I would ever go back with her. I feel sorry for her but that is it.

[@Iworkwithnitwits]

Relationships built on deceit do not last.

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[@BManStan1991]

100%

[@lilytoh3580]

Life has a way of returning to u the extreme pain u once inflicted on your spouse. Life decides that u must understand the same pain u inflicted to your spouse.

[@LoveNLIL]

Sure hope so 😢

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[@trinaproby01]

It's almost like saying you've poured out your soul to the sidechick/lover but because it's over now go back to the ex wife as if she's just the leftover or convince. That same passion and energy should've been in the marriage. Nope not a chance. Because if the affair relationship would've worked, he would'nt think about getting back with his wife.. heck no

[@tones1983]

Exactly they think this is a game

[@elaineschatz6333]

Honestly I would love for my husband to feel that kind of pain that he inflicted on me, to be inflicted on him by his new love interest.

[@hennesseyme9112]

Stop worrying about him and love yourself.

[@northofyou33]

@@hennesseyme9112 Exactly.

[@griselleisara3799]

Life is like a restaurant. No one leaves without paying their bill. 😂😂😂😂

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[@joewalsh4685]

The grass is not always greener. Cheating is not cool and catches up on you.

[@mn9978]

You are showing absolutely no remorse, ,unbelievably

[@kkrr3513]

it’s called karma. honestly,people who leave their spouses for a “lover” deserves all whats coming..

[@tonymickcomerforddaunou8935]

Yes but there children don't.

[@EmilyGloeggler7984]

@Smurfette Did It amen!

[@johnwilkerson6887]

Hell yeah.

[@springsun5049]

@@tonymickcomerforddaunou8935 obviously they don’t care about their kids😑

[@deborahrouse5644]

​​@@tonymickcomerforddaunou8935 In some cases the children are grown. This doesn't only happen to younger couples.

[@leasah1197]

Sometimes marriages end and that is okay. However, don’t start another relationship ship without ending the current one.

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[@deborahrouse5644]

Actual, it ISN'T "okay"!

[@martelw1308]

Thank you for this video! I wish my soon to be ex-wife would watch it because she says she's feeling everything you're describing. She's throwing away 10 years together (married 6) and two wonderful boys for this. She's such a different person and it sickens me because our boys won't understand. As much as I want her to snap out of it I've decided to move on with the boys and I. I'm working on being the best Dad, person, friend that I can be. SMART contact is hard because of all the pain she's caused our family but at this point I've got to protect myself and my boys. One day I'm confident she will look back and regret all of this. Keep up the great work!

[@lvncsr6166]

I was hoping my husband would stop seeing the OW and stop being so abusive to me. They were seeing each other during our separation all the while he was telling me he loved me and wanted to save our 25 year marriage. He married her 5 months after our divorce. That was 3 years ago and they are still living in the home we built from the ground up. So, sometimes they do stay with the other person. I have accepted it and have forgiven both of them. I am still single and free.

[@martelw1308]

@Dillards Shopper I tried one time talking to her about the workshop but it went in one ear and out the other. I'm just going to keep working on me and let her live in her fantasy land.

[@ryanhart9510]

Same boat man, sorry to hear ! Keep strong and keep the focus on yourself and the children. Wishing you all the best and whichever way this goes I hope it will work out for you in the best possible way !

[@martelw1308]

@@ryanhart9510 Thank you, Ryan! I wish you and yours the best as well. One thing I've learned is that everything in life happens for a reason. Even though the reason isn't clear now God has a plan for each and every one of us!

[@elyracristina4046]

@@martelw1308 u did a good ..ur very positive now and I feel that ur hurt started lesser now..I wish all the people that hurted same as u.. can move on easily..For me still struggle for all the pain and what if..I dont know if need to continue or to stop bcoz I almost exhausted for all the hard time and suffering from emotionally abused..I keep praying that God heal those people who victims by heart broken and lead us to do the right way..i hope that u and ur boys found true happines and start for a new life..we deserve to be happy and have a peace of mind..

[@PC-dc1kv]

Thank you for this perspective. I’ve wondered what goes on in the mind of the person who leaves their faithful spouse ever since my ex-husband left me. It’s painful to hear that he really loved the other woman. They’re still together after 15 months, but I keep hearing that he’s not as happy now as he expected to be. It would mean a lot to me if he would tell me he’s sorry but I don’t expect I’ll ever hear that from him.

[@trey-frey3963]

Please try to find your own validation. I know this isn't easy. The goal is to find happiness on your own. Married or not you must stand on your own. Good luck.

[@lilytoh3580]

Pride stops them from admitting it - after all he broke his own marriage for her and found that the grass is not greener on the other side.

[@Barbara-zo6pq]

The opposite of love is not hate. It is self centerdness.

[@kriptonis]

You can know if he is sorry. You spent a life time with him, you know.

[@manda-panda]

2years now for me after 13yrs married. She's half my age, & it was/is extremely painful. They even had a baby, I was unable to conceive. Yet he refuses to sign the divorce papers. He left me w absolutely nothing & I want absolutely nothing, just his signature. But he says he loves me & refuses. Won't leave her, says he's unhappy, loves me, but won't leave her or sign my divorce. Obviously he's lying & is in love w her do I don't get it. Idk what to do

[@The_Stubborn_Christian]

This is marriage helper. To help US wanting to repair our marriages. Why are some of you on here so negative and telling us to move on. Is that your goal to discourage us? This is our choice and none of your business what WE do with OUR marriages. We want to repair our marriages, that’s our choice, not yours..so move on. Just because you’re bitter, that’s your problem, not ours.

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[@lindac4527]

It’s called infatuation and addiction not love

[@The_Stubborn_Christian]

Running Wolf are you a therapist, or a psychologist? Infatuation is in fact a TYPE of love.

[@lindac4527]

Tammy Almanza I am. I would never categorize infatuation as any form of love. It is a feeling based on something that is fabricated thinking and a hormonal response.

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[@kristinjames3862]

To the guy in the video...your wife should not have taken you back. When you speak of your connection with your ex lover, it seems like your still in love and would go back in a heartbeat and leave your wife all over again. Sounds like you had more of a connection with your lover than with your wife.

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These are imaginary "connections" just like when they say of their affair partner that he or she is their "soul mate". Never mind that there's no such thing as a "soul mate", but why did the male propose to his wife in the first place? Why did the wife say "yes" to the proposal? Why does each think the other is so very special in the beginning, like maybe even a "soul mate" type feeling? It's because one or the other becomes selfish. It takes both wife and husband to nurture a marriage and for each to mature with the years. Too many would rather act like high school kids as they were during the teenage years of crushes and dating!

[@queenofwater8783]

If we lived in Limerence forever, we’d never get anything done!

[@shebitoon3877]

So if the lover didn’t leave him, they would have been still together. He went back to his wife because his lover left him. What kind of advise is that ? It would have been a good story if he left her first to reconnect with the wife.

[@isacha1]

Im sure eventually either situation will happen. It started as an affair which usually doesn’t end well.

[@fairyliciousa275]

Either way it would of most likely ended. These types of relationships aren’t life fulfilling or made to last. It’s more about using each other to fill a void and the vision they create together. They just jump right in without any healing. They run from any real life responsibilities to create this fantasy of everything being perfect,always happy,and successful. Usually whoever goes into limerance quickest ,ends it first.

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[@voiceandnurture]

Lover ? This is all the works of the flesh. Ask Jesus to free you from the bondage of sin. He and only HE can reconcile marriage, not MAN.

[@kanderson8421]

Amen praise God because this is truth

[@kanderson8421]

Amen your flesh is weak god should be the head of your marriage Satan loves rebellion it is as witchcraft as the word speaks on amen please ppl read Matthew 19 chapter

[@kgpink5041]

wow a christian saying. i think that it was about temptation for married people why they give up everything just for a temporary lover and it is a sin. good lesson for singles too to have an idea how its like to be married hehe

[@deborahrouse5644]

​@@kgpink5041 Marriage is wonderful but needs nurtured by both husband and wife. Put aside selfishness and each think of the other!

[@BManStan1991]

I know someone who went through this who was a Christian. They turned their back on God during this period in thier life to reconcile the cognitive dissonance their actions caused them.

[@cgillaspie36]

So after your lover dumped you, now you want to try to work things out with your spouse? Why didnt you do that before you went out and ripped her heart apart and vilified her? Karma is a bitch and if I were your wife, I would never have taken you back! You've caused all this destruction and now you want peace to clear your conscience.

[@jamesgerboc]

Narcissistic love. It was never real...to them. They get bored after a couple years and walk away...suddenly. Ghosted. It's a soul-crushing experience. Changes you forever.

[@PumpkinBear923]

It’s ridiculous… the abandonment and the betrayal - like you meant nothing to them…

[@thewrongshoes]

After I watched this again I can’t help but wonder if it’s better to stay single

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[@thewrongshoes]

@@muktarumar9866 who said I wanted my ex back? I like having my peace ✌️ more than I want him for sure

[@JJ33438]

Who wants a used up cheater? the fact that a partner cheats is proof they have a severe character defect! Who would want that back? Actually when he/or she goes with the outside lover....its like dodging a bullet. who would want them back. OMG only a guy would say stuff like this that a partner should take them back and the marriage would be stronger and more fulfillingW Wow only a guy would think like this.

[@5700Guppy]

@@couchtater4621 Sam's wife has left him now.. guess she couldn't keep believing his B.S.

[@manda-panda]

Not dodging a bullet, you still get hit. The cheater has good aim. But you can heal from the wound & move on, altho youll always have the scar to remind you..

[@rickybobby9797]

It’s called “attraction”, my friend. “Love” has nothing to do with it. The simple truth is, if you left your spouse to pursue your “happiness” I would say pursued your own will rather than God’s….You can justify it any way you like but your own selfishness deceived you into breaking God’s covenant. That’s right, my friend. You didn’t just violate your oath to your wife, you violated it with God. Reasons aside, psychologically or sexually, people who do this to their spouses deserve to suffer for what they’ve done.

[@ladyvirgo9514]

Exactly. Him trying to justify it is disgusting

[@elyracristina4046]

This is so sad..why a partner let this happened to their marriage...sometimes life is not fair..u gave ur whole heart and life..u tried ur best to become good partner but to those partner wasnt satisfied enough...what kind of heart those cheaters to keep hurting those partner that loves them...so really unfair..

[@dwdw9325]

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[@greedyunicorn8299]

Tell u what im still hurt my wife left me for another didnt want to make our marriage work because she wanted to be with someone else now im in this journey to to find my self and better myself its harder than it looks but i have hope

[@elyracristina4046]

@@greedyunicorn8299 sometimes it's so hard to understand our partner..they have looking for someone to replace us or flirting with others obviously but when u confront them they denieing..sounds like they want both and lots..more good to hear from ur wife that she had some one than what my husband did that he wants and need me still after he made lots of mess and even I have evidence still deny it..I wish he admit it so atleast I dont need to feel guilty to do the right decision I really want to make..I'm so devastating for all the lies and the hurt that again and again..he said he loves me and happy but he keep cheating by his benefits frnds..so damn hurt sometimes I wanna disappear...

[@greedyunicorn8299]

Time will heal us

[@elyracristina4046]

@@greedyunicorn8299 may I know how u manage the pain being a man..coz from me I really dont know how to protect my self and and my pain..I need someone to help me to tell me what I need to do bcoz my husband never admit anything even it's TRUE.. how can I separate to him if he didnt tell the truth and keep denying..I wanna talk someone exactly what I feel pls..

[@The_Stubborn_Christian]

My h told my best friend that he found the woman of his dreams. She’s what he has been searching for..if anyone understands him it’s her. Talk about total limerence.. he has turned his back on all our friends and family because he can’t vilify me to them..Now I think they are at the end. He’s not happy, he wants to be alone. He wants to quit his job, drop out of sight from everyone... he’s miserable

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[@nunyabizness32]

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[@lotusmccary9365]

Good for the lover. Never get involved with a married person. You will be treated like an option and backup plan and replaceable. You deserve so much more.

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Maybe it’s just me but why should I fight to keep someone doesn’t want to stay?

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Thank you for a wonderful video.

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No cheater is worth fighting for. Move on and be your best person

[@miriamescovar9786]

It’s impressive that you are willing to be honest and vulnerable about your experience, despite of risking backlash. Keep doing what you are doing. I was curious about your advise for people who have been acted on an affair and left their family.

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I'm 31 and currently going thru this... didn't see the red flags in beginning and now have a child. Long to be happy but I'll sacrifice what I can for my son

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31 years of marriage, 3 children (Now adults) 3 grandchildren and my husband left us for another woman. Said he just didn't love me anymore, he wasn't happy. I don't believe I would ever be able to take him back. Too much pain has been caused to me and my family. He had always been selfish, self centered and only cared about what I could do to make him happy. It could only be through God restoring our marriage that it could ever happen but right now, my husband has chosen to live a life apart from us. Right now...He thinks he could be happy without us. I pray for him and pray for my own healing and the healing of my family. That's all I could do. If it is in God's will, only He could restore our family. Maybe God allowed him to leave because God loves me so much and wants so much more for me. He knew my ex didn't know how to be the husband I needed and deserved. I'm looking forward to the Godly man God brings into my life in the future. I'm looking forward to knowing what real love is suppose to feel like. I won't settle for anything less.

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If you have someone else. Then you don’t love me. Bye then.

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[@buffuniballer]

Yep, 20 years ago, I thought I wanted my unfaithful ex-wife to come back. Today, I'm so much better off for that not happening.

[@melissa5844]

its called karma. you don't know what you have till its gone. you can't put back what already broken. I love my parents but I know their never going to be back together.

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I took back a woman that left me. Love knows no boundaries unfortunately.

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I thought I was the only person who felt this way! I can't believe you described my life perfectly!

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So does that make the AP the one that got away? Do people always long for their AP the rest of their lives even if they go back to their spouse? They should let their spouse move in if that’s the case. The spouse should be the love of their life. The spouse should be the person they’ve never experienced such a deep love with. Their spouse should be their true love if they stay together.

[@deborahrouse5644]

Exactly! I reiterate: These are imaginary "connections" just like when they say of their affair partner that he or she is their "soul mate". Never mind that there's no such thing as a "soul mate", but why did the male propose to his wife in the first place? Why did the wife say "yes" to the proposal? Why does each think the other is so very special in the beginning, like maybe even a "soul mate" type feeling? It's because one or the other becomes selfish. It takes both wife and husband to nurture a marriage and for each to mature with the years. Too many would rather act like high school kids as they were during the teenage years of crushes and dating!

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what was the mistake of the faithful spouse, who had to suffer betrayal after such a firm long term commitment ? i think it all starts only if the unfaithful spouse allows these feelings to develop or allows someone to be close enough to develop those feelings. After that maybe its out of control, but i think the starting is always deliberate. @dr.joe, kindly opine regarding this.

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My husband fell in love with another woman. She left him so he stayed with me. This was 2 years ago and I still think he's in love with her. I need to contact Marriage Helper. Because I'm so confused about being in this "relationship"

[@dwdw9325]

Leticia Cobarrubias: get out

[@trey-frey3963]

You have got to go. Some people are rotten at the core. Help yourself.

[@Jc-ei7hz]

How does it feel to be a consolation prize. I feel the same way it sucks.

[@DejiJoshua]

You’re a good woman. Insist he does the counselling. God reward your loyalty to him and your husband

[@paolomarano4457]

The bbn only consolation you have now is your in the driver's seat. Sad but true at least you have a choice now.

[@efthimios]

Good hope all cheaters that destroy their marriage and families and up in a broken relationship with their affair partner...scumbags cheat period

[@xxgil2]

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[@basketballfan5763]

It goes bac2almost3mins in2the vid. The description of the emotionsl HI u both got off each other! Love is a drug they say!!! This is what hapnd btween me and this guy i fell4 i really believe!! Wow this has helped me as i still fear succumbing2sleeping with this guy and wrecking his marriage. I am desperately trying to do what's right and best! Honestly i still don't know what i doing!! Thank u so much 4 this vid!!! Love n lite2u and ur wife joe!!🙏💖☘🤗

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Definitely don’t feel sorry for the other person leaving you . You left your marriage for another what you thought would happen lol 😂

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[@EmilyGloeggler7984]

When I was a single woman, I left the single guy who was willing to let go of the woman who is the mother of his child for me. Never will I go back to that ex.

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[@elizabethfunes3029]

And you chose to comment this to get a pat on the back - oh you’re such a great person, you are amazing, stunning, and brave

[@donnaking3344]

We both wanted out. It wasn’t him leaving me, we left each other. We didn’t really want each other, mutual feeling.

[@yeahOnCemOreE]

That's just your the excuse to leaving him. He said those things because he was angry and he was testing your faith and loyalty in the relationship

[@2012PAMS]

Same here

[@sophiayang8515]

This is so helpful. I wish my husband would hear this and call you to help him to get back to work on the marriage.

[@manda-panda]

How are you doing now?

[@elizabethfunes3029]

Ya how are you, did it work?

[@maryholton162]

This other woman sounds like a narcissist. Narcissists are very seductive and a relationship with one follows a pattern: idealization, devalue and then discard.

[@The_Stubborn_Christian]

Mary Holton I think you need to watch the marriage helper about narcissism. Unless they have been diagnosed by a professional, then to call them a narcissist is wrong..

[@nembree622]

Spirit of Jezebel is controlling her

[@sunflowers2469]

@@The_Stubborn_Christian a narcissist is one who gets “supply” out of hurting others and has no empathy. I could care less if they are diagnosed 🙄the label is there to help hard headed codependents see the writing on the f***ing wall.

[@40fit38]

Described my life to a T until 12:45. ZERO chance I'd go back to my ex. ZERO. I'd rather die single than go back. ZERO CHANCE. ZERO. I still loved this video and it was 100% accurate and on point. thank you!!

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[@missking1]

It’s good that Joe is trying to help people now. But it’s unacceptable that he left his wife, and then had the audacity to come back to her, just cos he got dumped.

[@rozannmoake8146]

He didn’t go back right away after he was dumped. She wasn’t his second choice or rebound relationship. He finally woke up and realized that he had screwed up big time and his wife, after seeing the positive changes in him, graciously gave him another chance.

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[@elizabethbetsy1]

I agree. This guy does not deserve his wife. I hope she leaves him.

[@cruzcastro1252]

I wonder if there was an age difference between you and your lover. Thanks!

[@jandeiification]

God bless you sir.

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[@sarahgrubbs5109]

My husband of 18 years left me in November for another married woman. We talked and figured out where we went wrong and he decided to come home to me and our 2 boys. He’s been home 6 weeks and now says he knows he is making a mistake, but he thinks he is going back to her 😢

[@julianchristie891]

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[@emiliogarza5227]

This is exactly what I'm going through, my exwife found her lover through Instagram and they cheated behind my back, and when I called him out he cussed out my exwife, she is putting me through divorce now in Hope's that he will come back and it does hurt a lot

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[@johnwilkerson6887]

Why would anyone want to them back.

[@jecarlin]

If you left your spouse for someone else and the someone else leaves you, I don't feel any sympathy for you.

[@dylanmcmahon4313]

This guy is like the Lotzo of Toy Story 3 of marriages

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[@paulwilliams7700]

Why on earth would a spouse wait for a cheating FORMER spouse. The pain you describe has been sufferd by them 10 fold. Kids will know and as you descibe in detail, the spouse will never measure up to the experiences with the new lover. You dont deserve to come back.

[@jtoddp69]

Couldn't this be the same for the spouse? They can't get over their lover wouldn't the spouse just be a fallback plan?

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[@RB-bb2tw]

How about saying a person left a spouse for an affair partner because one POS found another POS

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[@PInk77W1]

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[@tamekaallen7023]

Do you help people that aren’t married but had been living together for over five years?

[@RB-bb2tw]

I find the speakers pain to be funny I really love justice

[@user-ex3mx7hk4l]

He may deserve it but I don’t think it’s ’funny.’ Infidelity hurts EVERYONE. It’s SO destructive. 💔

[@RB-bb2tw]

@@user-ex3mx7hk4l i agree it hurts everyone

[@EmilyGloeggler7984]

Why are people listening to a cheater?

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[@queenofwater8783]

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[@christinaalexaaa]

I’m actually not the person in limerence. I’m actually the person waiting. Just wanted to hear the other’s perspective

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[@eventhere2788]

I think what disturbs me about the many videos you've put forth on this channel is the way you describe your AP in contrast to your wife. And you still protect the AP over and above what and how you describe your wife. Makes me question why or if you actually know what love is. Whether you truly know how to love and cherish your wife. Because you sure don't protect her in these videos. My sympathies are with your wife and kids. They paid a high price for your infidelity and still do. And yet you continue to protect that AP when she truly doesn't deserve that courtesy at the expense of your wife. But you've done it over and over again.

[@georgew.5639]

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[@jdee4956]

What if your spouse doesn't want you back - what if he/she has moved on? Sometimes a marriage needs to end and second marriages can work out long term. The most important thing is to love yourself - and to do as little harm as possible to those who love you. Everything else is a work in progress.

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[@angelhampton4365]

Exactly it's the lies in it

[@brandiago]

They deserve all they get, and more.

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[@vwiggins1847]

What if your spouse is neglectful and doesn't even recognize the part they play with hurting you even abusive?

[@vwiggins1847]

...what if there's nothing but pain and not stability to go back to?

[@badgaldidi3352]

Then leave him but don’t cheat.

[@MaRiAm936]

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[@raycat2647]

The 6th commandment is not a suggestion.

[@jocelyndee1906]

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[@cbilimited]

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[@theresachiorazzi4571]

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[@jimbono11]

I hope and pray my wife stumbles across this video.

[@gamwsas]

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[@nsap1536]

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[@perezperez1912]

Hopefully you work on understanding those behaviours and seeing why they have deviated away from the marriage instead of using specialized concepts to justify your bitterness that is obvious by your intial comment.

[@robertneeson1]

Does all this apply if you were not married to your partner but had been in a long term relationship?

[@Wilkinsonj50]

Yes, of course.

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[@brendadean9291]

The only reason you went back to your wife is because your affair partner left you. If I was your lovely wife I would refuse to take you back.Would you have taken her back under the circumstances.

[@jerryramos82]

No one would want a cheater back.

[@mrindiha4325]

Still I love my wife too much i will take her back if she wants

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[@MrFrost009]

Lol no self respect

[@qualityrecyclesystems8972]

What happened to Sally Sue? Did she marry again? She misses you?

[@fantasyfamous6422]

She shouldn't, the person who destroy others marriage should be lonely forever

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[@NIYA-7]

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[@Jo_Cruz]

What do yo do? Thank God. VERy MuCh. Adultery is idolatry, so God freed you from an idol.

[@bobbob9364]

Anything for an easy life/if it causes so much problemo just don’t bother lol yes this is like getting advice from an alcholic how to give up alchol

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[@basketballfan5763]

I thank u4this. I met a married guy. I fell4him. Believe honestly he felt same. We never had sex. It was so close. I sorta walked away. I believe u cracked it. We both live in an emotional lane. Both of us had addictive personalities. Now honestly i still think we r soulmates but now i spent past2yrs crying about this guy since i met him as i didn't want2ruin his life, his kids+wifes lives and my own. I already got hassle telling people of this and keep in mind i found out(this is key4me- i did not initially know) and i started pulling away crying. It never resulted in what he and i both wanted as he didn't push me and i just could not do it. Anyway i digress!! U hit the nail on the head with the adrenaline hi u mentioned! He rides motorbikes takes risks is open emotional free spirit bored easy tries new things takes chances. I was an escape, an addiction, an obsession for him. This is all maybe but i trust u. U have the research done so look the PROBABILITY is that it would have ended if it started as an obsessive passion. It did seem soul mate but look i really felt an insight in2my guys motivation4choosing me or 'fixating' on me i am now thinking as i type in what u said 5r7mins in2video!! Thank u dearly Joe!!

[@sweet16chick35]

Are u still with that married guy?

[@basketballfan5763]

@@sweet16chick35 no sweet soul I am over a year with a good good guy that the1st question I asked was 'Are u married?' . I only recently stopped ALL contact(Last yr he got an Xmas card2his house in open honesty letting his wife know he was texting me still) . Look when i dreamt of him for years I wasted my own time. I will say he was a friend that helped me thru a tough time in my life. I will let it at that. I won't go2a place where he almost used me as i was vulnerable as i still think he is a good person. I still feel guilty tho nothing sexual happened. Really I wasted so much of my time. There was another guy after him that I never got together with mostly because of this married guy. I wasn't over him! I am with a guy that almost I even feel guilty that I don't deserve him. I told him all about the married guy and he forgave me. I don't forgive me tho! I still think of the married guy very rarely2b honest ! I hope this helps u! It was a time in my life I was lo. I still think he's a good guy! I do not know if he would have denied me, used me, left me but I thank my Catholic upbringing and my inner compass that I could not do it! For me the initial lie was1i NEVER ever forgot! He never wore a ring, never mentioned his wife and literally no one in a work environment knew he was married?? Why? There's privacy and there's?? Kids were mentioned and also he was playing the field. I think it was all laughed off as funny. People on my side hated him as by the time I fell for him seriously only a detective would know he was married. He openly hid it and there was a convo where he lied with his pal said he was separated and I believed this. My gut was always suspicious. I hope this info helps u. He can b good. U can love him. But wrong is always wrong ! I wish u well. No judgement from me for anyone ever that can meet their1true love if they are married but why can't he leave her1st? Life is tough. My advice is if it happens when you are in a very lo place in your life walk away4a while try and get clarity on it! Nothing could have stopped me tho! I had even left the job to leave him but I went back. It was an addictive time. Life is very very tough. I have a huge faith in God and I truly believe it helped me🙏🏿🙏💖

[@deborahrouse5644]

These are imaginary "connections" just like when they say of their affair partner that he or she is their "soul mate". Never mind that there's no such thing as a "soul mate", but why did the male propose to his wife in the first place? Why did the wife say "yes" to the proposal? Why does each think the other is so very special in the beginning, like maybe even a "soul mate" type feeling? It's because one or the other becomes selfish. It takes both wife and husband to nurture a marriage and for each to mature with the years. Too many would rather act like high school kids as they were during the teenage years of crushes and dating!

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[@vegacool1]

Sounds like chemical romance. Or even idolatry. Or an edification of selfishness.

[@reginapolo3357]

History toguether my behind!😮 Drinking that coolaid is what kept me in missery for 16 years. So you got dumpt by your lover and you go back, to your family. not because you think you messed up but because you knew it was the only fools that should take you so you wont be alone. They were drinking the family koolaid too.

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