3 Things NOT To Do If You Want To Save Your Marriage - The Dr. Joe Show

[@MrRPBishop]

1.) Don't let your emotions rule your decision. 2.) Be careful when listen to friends, and 3.) Don't find a counselor that puts you ahead of the marriage. Get the correct help.

[@davegensler7126]

You Nailed it !!!!

[@dr.inglishmorgan6952]

Very helpful

[@donna62016]

Soo true!

[@amybostic1439]

Joes story about the friend who had a change of heart once he knew the person Joe was speaking of was him. I wish everyone in our life would stand up and tell my husband what he’s doing is wrong. People are too afraid to upset their loved one/friend. He needs to hear honesty

[@mace2gorc872]

In my marriage, my wife refuses to see and accept her flaws and mother in law just just refuses to see and accept it in your daughter. It's a lose lose for me. Furthermore, my wife feels that she has everything figured out for herself about herself and doesn't want to hear stuff from any relative or friend as she feels they are only taking my side. . 😢😢😢 It's really sad.

[@OlgaSmirnova1]

@@mace2gorc872then leave her,take her to take a walk!

[@donna62016]

Saving your marriage is really the utmost importance. God created and established it on the 6th days and uses it throughout the Bible to reflect Christ's love and relationship to His chosen. It's the most important relationship next to the one you have with Christ. Marriage is a covenant, and covenants are not broken.

[@gregcoleman9677]

Amen 🙏🏻

[@OlgaSmirnova1]

Indeed sister

[@shirinsaremi2732]

Amen🙏

[@ChoppingtonOtter]

I think the "advice" other people give your spouse can cause real difficulties for the same reasons if *you* are trying to save the marriage but friends or even a counsellor of thiers is telling them to take the (apparently to them) easy route and walk out of the marriage.

[@donna62016]

I am soo thankful you and Alice re-married.

[@lilytoh3580]

Relatives, especially on the unfaithful spouse's side, never really give the right advice - they tell u to divorce instead of trying to work it out first. They seem not to care to speak to the erring spouse to stop the infidelity, they gave no advice at reconciliation, but went straight to telling u to separate, to divorce; very unhelpful and care not to help save your marriage.

[@JasminePeteetArocha-ug5bm]

Trying to save my marriage! Am glad find this!

[@OlgaSmirnova1]

Don’t give up dear!

[@JasminePeteetArocha-ug5bm]

I know! We are separated and my husband start the agure and the fights…

[@OlgaSmirnova1]

@@JasminePeteetArocha-ug5bm you have to look at yourself too, usually we are not blameless. Check if there is something in your approach you need to change/adjust. Men feel our love through respect.

[@hopmcintosh9745]

After watching and listening to youtube for guidance in saving and understanding my marriage. This is the first time I've left a comment. Maybe it's a God thing. But this was the best video I've listened to. Great Advice. We don't know what decision we'll make right now. We are both strong, resilient, people both both of us are half glass people. We are going to do what we decide is the right thing for both of us. If we do decide on divorce then I pray we can at least come out of this as soulmates who are best friends. We know each other so well, we would be priceless to each other as best friends and who knows what the future holds. I trust in Christ. In Love

[@erkbzr]

I hope u work to stay married.

[@hollyalgeo7791]

If you could be best friends then why couldn’t you be husband and wife? That doesn’t make sense to me.

[@daryllejackson1209]

@@hollyalgeo7791 I agree... Your friends but she's intimate with someone else. Shouldn't she be friends with him or her.

[@typingleton3734]

My wife puts family first and runs to them always when we have an issue then she becomes distant with me. I am tired of competing with her kids and her family for her attention. She uses her family to keep her busy and distracted but when she finds herself alone she reaches out to me for time and attention then disappears after and until she needs me again. She keeps conversation light and doesn’t discuss our issues and reminisces about the good in our past but insists she has nothing left to give and is tired of trying to make things work between us. Oh did I mention her 31 year old son passed a year ago? Unemotionally available and driving me nuts. I don’t think she’s seeing another man only because I know her and don’t think she is willing to risk losing me completely by starting up with another man. She works as a nurse 4-5 nights a week most weekends and during her time off she’s with her married daughter and her husband doing things together without me since I’ve moved out. I’m going out of mind and hate all of this.

[@rja9784]

Mine does the same thing. She loves her family more than our marriage and her parents give her the worst advice

[@shelley8270]

This video should be titled "Two counselors talk about counselors "

[@asamusicdude]

Really enjoyed the talk brothers

[@RU-ll9lk]

You took the bull by the horn on this one ☝️ great info thank you 😊 for the positive talk.

[@bodarville7860]

This guy has has a voice like a 70s R&B artist smooth.

[@comfortjacobs1629]

My husband Walk out of the home, one yrs now and with his girlfriend, I'm really hurt and confess, everyday our kids will ask me when Daddy is coming back and don't even know what to tell them anymore, he can't call, or text, what should I do now because I don't want to lose my marriage

[@davegensler7126]

Good One ! Great GOD centric Advice !!!

[@kirstenjill8323]

The three things weren’t clear in this audio

[@MarriageHelper]

Thank you for your feedback. Here is a quick recap of the main points Dr. Beam discussed: -Don't let your emotions rule you -Don't listen to everybody -Choose a counselor wisely (There are certain ways we describe how to choose a counselor- start listening at 32:10)

[@droycraft]

I have been trying for two years as he is still with another woman and they shared vocal marriage vows between them, so I am sharing my husband with another woman, he says he is also married to. Believes God doesn't state anywhere in scripture bigamy. He is NOT legally married to her. Only to me, yet expects me to share him as He prayed and sought God's will. SO....hang in there and still be a Christian wife. I cannot save our marriage, and have let God have my husband. Husband chooses to have and love two women and sees nothing wrong. WHAT DO I DO.....he will not abandon her as she only has him, no other family and no friends. ?:?

[@rosepedal3140]

What do you do when your spouse doesn't want the marriage anymore or doesn't even want to go to counseling... how can you still try to save your marriage?

[@MarriageHelper]

Hi, Cherida. Here are a few resources which may provide some insight: www.marriagehelper.com/7-ways-to-save-your-marriage www.marriagehelper.com/how_to_win_back_your_husband_or_wife.php www.marriagehelper.com/can_one_spouse_save_a_marriage.php www.spreaker.com/user/marriagehelper/3-steps-to-getting-a-distant-spouse-to-t

[@staceywalker7300]

Watch the video on SMART contact and the podcast focusing on PIES it's as much for your mental health whilst simultaneously helping your relationship... Good luck with everything xx

[@susan9188]

You can't as you can't make anyone stay with you if they don't really want to.

[@jeanettekniebusch9812]

They never thought of that you could be as evil as they are.They deserve to find out you are foing exactly what thdy are and feel the intense pain of knoeing your e f someone rlse for years and making memoties sharing moments thst onky your spouce should receive.vicious betray claiming you love them? Hiw do you do tgat to SOMEONE YOU CLAIM to LOVE??? Why do these ASSHOLES betray their wife. Thats REALLY CRUEL NOT LOVING HER AT ALL! IT WILL AFFECT YOUR WIFE FOREVER CHANGED HER. EVERY SONG, MOVIE, TALK SHOW ADD REMINDS THEM OF YOU F SOMEONE ELSE.JUST GROUCE HUMAN BRING WOULD THINK ITS OKAY TO TAKE OUT YOUR BITS AND PUT THEM IN ANOTHER WOMAN! SUCH A VIOLATION! VICIOUS BETRAYAL OF WIFES TRUST.YOUR MOM WILL BE PROUD.RAISED A "REAL" WONDERFUL HUMAN BEING. A RECORDER WOULD LET YOU KNOW WHATS BEING SAID.

[@booneboone8857]

What if we still have contact and he tells me he loves me? He moved out 2 weeks ago but still says he is not in love with me.

[@davidbarden6751]

I love all your advice and am really struggling to show my wife that we can have a future together. As far as I know her relationship ended , but she is still not showing any signs of reconciling. She has just been diagnosed with Bi Polar and is suffering from severe depression, how does this change your advice ?

[@erkbzr]

My wife suffers from the same thing. Somedays are better than others. I'm just starting on this journey. I hope to become a better man after all this. Its so tough to go through this when your spouse's temper all ways changes. Not to mention manic episodes.

[@gregcoleman9677]

Mental illness isn’t real.

[@gregkeeyako]

@@erkbzr wait! Temper???

[@jei1265]

When a spouse is cheetig and steeling from you to the othrr woman to make you angry or to hurt you so what will you do.

[@marleneazevedo1101]

Is it wise to date while trying to fight for your marriage? My ex-husband is dating so I figured it will be safe to date as well.

[@Twiddledup]

I wanna know too! My husband said he was done!

[@asamusicdude]

Is that "wall" the stonewall? Like in stonewalling?

[@Jcom3030]

What are the 3 things? 1. Don’t listen to friends advise.... ??

[@georgettecross4149]

I have been doing anything I feel that he has been trying to get back with me he would have me back already if he 1.Did not listen to his friends .2.Would had listened to me a whole lot about his Deceiteful friends.3.Would not be messing around wemon that Do Deceite .