Stop Your Husband From Leaving You - 3 Do's And Don'ts

When your husband wants to leave you, it's extremely painful because
You still love him. You were thinking you'd be together for a lifetime.
You've been counting on it.
You've shared your life up to this point.
Maybe you have children together and you can't imagine why on the world doesn't he want to be with me anymore? Why have I done something wrong? Can I not compete? Compare?
I mean, what's going on here?
Well, in this short video, I certainly can't tell you all the things that your husband may be thinking, but I can tell you that there's hope even if he's adamant that he wants to leave you.
I'm Dr. Joe beam with Marriage Helper international. I've been working with marriages for more than a quarter of a century. And the vast majority of those marriages have been marriages in crisis and major trouble.
We've had a pretty good success rate, but it's not 100%. I can't tell you I'll give you the magic words or the magic formula. And if you just do what I say, everything's going to be hunky Dory from now on, because I won't lie to you.
But I can give you some suggestions that if you do these things, you dramatically increase the likelihood of saving a marriage, putting it back together, making it good again, as we've been able to help thousands to do.
Now, again, I can't explain it all in a very few minutes right here, but let me give you 3 very important things to not do. And 3 very important things that you should do if indeed, you still love your husband and you want to try to put this marriage back together, okay? Here's the first thing not to do
You don't panic. Even
He looks at you and says, I don't want to be with you anymore. I'm not in love with you anymore. I want to be with somebody else. I want to be someplace else and says those things. And I know they hurt tremendously to hear,
Try to think of it this way. Well, that's the way he feels today.
Not necessarily the way he's going to feel next month, next quarter, next year. In other words, the fact that he feels that now and is saying that to you now is what he believes to be his reality, but he's not thinking beyond right now. Now he may think he is. He may be thinking he's planning his whole future ahead, and it's not going to involve you. But trust me if he's telling you this is in all likelihood because of what he feels at the moment. And one thing about life is always true and that's this
Emotions change.
So please don't panic. He fell into love. Do once he can fall in love with you again, even if he thinks that's impossible. And even if you think that
Possible, so don't panic, calm down. There's a way out of this, not again
Guaranteed way, but a pretty sure way. And we'll help you follow that path. We call it the love path and we'll show you how to help him develop a love for you. Again, as you strengthen your love for him, again, I'm not guaranteeing him 100% because people make their own decisions you do as does your husband. But I'm telling you, this system has been very powerful and work for so many thousands over the years. Now here's the second thing not to do. Don't focus on saving the relationship. I know that sounds contradictory. Doesn't it? What, what don't focus on setting the relationship. That's why I actually turned this video on. I want to know how to do that, but you see
Desperate thoughts, often lead to desperate actions. And when you're focused, I'm trying to save the marriage. You'll wind up making some unwise decisions. You're going to do some things because the emotions are pushing you that are not smart things to do. You're going to leave off doing some things you should do because your emotions are going in the other direction.
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[@incognitoriaanonymousita]

23 years...2 children...he says he is leaving me...he won't talk about it and he doesn't want to work on it

[@Regirl75]

I’m going to revisit my comment if my marriage is restored… 28 years together and a loss of our oldest child in 2020. What you’re saying in the beginning is how he’s feeling. I’m focusing on myself right now as he figures it out. I’m leaving my worries on the Lords shoulders to help me through this.

[@cynthiatullo6455]

Best advices I ever heared..

[@ConsecratedToGod3383]

My husband left in June came back in August left again this October i asked him why did he come back he said he's now realizing he doesn't know what he wants. But he feels he doesn't like being married. Needless to say I simply just let go I love him but I can't take him back even if he wanted opens my abandonment wounds everytime.

[@nazneensultana2899]

Great advice

[@sb486]

If i was patient, calm and not naive i wouldn't push him to divorce me 😭

[@user-fs8wx7ex4h]

Thank you😭😭😭

[@therealone8628]

so I should totally water down myself ? he changed his phone password, said he needs to leave, not accountable for his movements and just literally wants out. can't give his family nor mine meaningful reasons. he's getting worse with the freedom he has. I don't know what to do.

[@jamilahzahirahhadid]

I’m right here with you…. Has anything gotten better?

[@steph6337]

Same. Was he saying someone else? Seems that's where I'm at.

[@janeclermon83]

My ex asked me to get out there the same way I did when I met him I told him that I prayed and patiently waited kind of like what I am doing today

[@Originalman360]

ALL FACTS…in my moments of clarity I’ve avoided buying all these programs and seminars etc…plus please be mindful that miserable people give miserable advice…bitter people give bitter advice….

[@babalolaolatunjiamen996]

Yes is true because I don't know anything about the one I love any more

[@heistlernoiyer2055]

Hi friend, do you really need help to recover your relationship and get your love back to yourself??????

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[@amberalbrecht2292]

What do you do now if you’ve done all the donts?

[@dianal3542]

What if he behaves horribly? Its 2-way street, and if one party is closed to the relationship, how can it be done by one person?

[@CrimeVictimsProtection]

My fiancé does this to me, almost every week, and he leaves me as if I’m worthless.

[@MarriageHelper]

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[@kekesepheka4877]

Expect worse after marriage. He's already showing how you who he is

[@charlottekafuicodjoe5673]

Thank you

[@heistlernoiyer2055]

Hi friend, do you really need help to recover your relationship and get your spouse back to you??????

[@heistlernoiyer2055]

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[@MissEddieBlueKawaiiKrafts]

Searching for how to MAKE my husband leave.. now that is a video we could do with on KZbin 😬🙈🙈🙈

[@eileenfuentes6975]

Simple. Leave him!

[@howardwilson5961]

Please 🙏 help me with my marriage

[@urskinessentialz]

I need help plz help

[@mightyforce4398]

Have you ever heard of a husband leaving his wife to marry the other woman and then returning back to the wife does that ever happen

[@jojoflowerbird7642]

@@miaesther9892 you should never go back to a cheat if my mum got back with my dad I would leave this family for good

[@kekesepheka4877]

Yah but they only come back if things didn't work out with the other woman and he knows the wife will always take him back.... he will return then leave again. He stopped loving you when he married the other woman. They just come back for convenience

[@user-hn2xt7wi8o]

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