When To Divorce - Is It Time To Move On?

It is normal to experience conflict in your marriage that turns from bad to worse. No matter how much you fight with your spouse or believe they don’t respect or understand you, contemplating divorce is a heavy burden, and no one is ever 100% certain divorce is the correct answer.
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You may be wondering how can I be sure I am ready for a divorce? Or, how did we get here? Sometimes changing simple behaviors can make all the difference in a strong and thriving marriage, while other situations are a bit more complex than that. If you are thinking about divorce or wondering when is the right time to divorce your spouse, this video will help you gain insight into the benefits and disadvantages of divorce and if this decision is right for you.
In this video, we discuss:
-The long term consequences of divorces
-Who should make the final decision to divorce
-Our divorce pointers and guidelines
-The 10 rule
-Steps to take if you are involved in a damaging or abusive marriage
-The halo effect, and more
Everyday divorce is the short-term remedy to long-term problems in our relationships. At Marriage Helper, we have worked with literally thousands of couples facing the same issues, grief, and concerns you are feeling at this very moment. We provide advice and resources to help weigh your options and determine if divorce is the answer.
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[@MarriageHelper]

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[@skryvazena6548]

It can not be just only one person who wants or decides to want the marriage to work so that it can work out eventually. My parents have been together for 42 years. I have seen some disagreements and I understand why many marriages do not last long. My parents both decide to be together despite disagreements.

[@halimataliyu3316]

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[@mr.redpill9413]

Once you get the idea of divorce on your mind, it’s game over. After that it will not be a real relation it will be a transactional relation meaning: pay for play!

[@The_Mister]

I don’t think this is true. I think divorce is a last resort. People want happiness in relationships and they look at divorce as an escape hatch if things don’t progress the right way. I’ve wanted out at various times and knew divorce was an option, but I have sought to love and serve my wife instead. It’s not transactional for me.

[@MsElke11]

@@The_Mister do you agree that watching TV or reading a book over making love to your wife is not serving a wife's needs? Even now that I've lost a lot of weight?

[@nataliasolakian6717]

Don't ever stay with a person who puts hands on you. Period.

[@halimataliyu3316]

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[@ladylove34]

Yeah! why was he saying "maybe" and "consider" about abuse?

[@JeffMc2006]

This includes women who feel it’s ok to hit men.

[@billpetersen298]

@@JeffMc2006Not to mention psychological abuse. I was with a woman. Who thought the most fun, was to accuse and torment me. Trying to get me mad enough, to react, to hit her. I didn’t, but man I was frustrated. She wanted to get married, and have three more kids. While mine, could stay in the basement. Having kids, helped me not make a few really bad decisions for a while there.

[@dorothysamson581]

Since I've listening to your program, peace is within me, although me and my husband have separated.

[@danielw.8356]

Why did you separate? Did he leave you?

[@camy3018]

Unfortunately my spouse thinks he's found his soul mate so there's that. Been to the workshop did a few coaching sessions and nothing has changed. I'm honestly thinking about just filing and moving on with my life. It's hard to reason with someone who constantly is being dishonest. Even if he's telling the truth I have a hard time believing it bc of the prior lies. I had some hope after the workshop but those hopes are gone. He hasn't filed but definitely wants out. I'm seriously looking into hiring a lawyer and give him what he wants. If a man wants to leave his family and be with a woman and her kids there is nothing I can do to stop that. How can u explain leaving ur own children to go live or be with someone else's children?

[@mablelinchow]

Who knows? If you find out, let me know. Mine has rediscovered himself and it turns out, he's an anus

[@nataliasolakian6717]

Mine cheated and got another girl pregnant. My heart is so pained. He allowed her to ridicule me and they both flaunted their relationship through hidden clues one of them being he took my necklace that I gave to his mother to his side dish and she took a picture and put it on her facebook profile pic. So sad. What a slap in the face.

[@stevendgrissom1968]

So sorry you are going through this.

[@camy3018]

@@stevendgrissom1968 Thank you. I've honestly tried but one person cannot save a marriage. The other person has to want it also. That's just how I feel on this topic. I'll continue to work on myself and be strong for my kids.

[@moses3804]

I’m so sorry you are going through that. I had infidelity on my part, working my hardest to make things right and save my marriage. She wants a divorce, but hasn’t filed, the pain sucks. I just want you to know that perhaps when you file it might convict his heart? You never know

[@nataliasolakian6717]

When they become abusive and they get in the way of your relationship with your child.

[@Holycow94WoW]

This came in just the right time. Been with my wife for 10 years since highschool. We had broken up a few times before and I feel like the end is around the corner. It makes me sad but I think I’ve been expecting this for a while.

[@sunflowerrayne6026]

Keeping a relationship alive from high school is a lot of hard work. I wish you both well on whatever journey you choose.

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[@mjperfume1523]

Marriage helper Who is this Mr.Ose, have u heard him, or he just out take your money? I have never heard u say this recommend him, i dont think he works for marriage helper!

[@amybostic1439]

There’s my amazing coach Rusty!! Rusty-you have been such a great source of support for me and I appreciate you SO much. Jared, my CR, is also awesome and both guys have been instrumental in me finding my footing and I’ll be forever thankful! Dr. Joe and Mrs. Holmes-this organization has been such a wonderful source of strength and education for me in this tough time of my marriage. I can’t thank all of you enough for EVERYTHING you guys offer and do for us. Praying soon to come to the couples workshop-just waiting for the right time to address it with my spouse. I am extremely grateful to you all. Thank you from the bottom of my heart

[@robinredick8952]

Adultery is a terrible thing. Jesus Himself gave it as grounds for divorce (as in, said God would understand if a person ended a marriage for this reason). That man at the end has more grace then even the Bible calls for.

[@rachelyates6138]

It's a tough choice when it actually happens to you. I've known the Bible verses on it my whole life, yet never dreamed MY husband would actually cheat. And then, to feel badly about it, change his mind, and want me back.....adds even another layer. It's just such a confusing blow when it actually happens.

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[@erwinbrubacker7488]

I would like to know where in the scriptures does it give someone the ok to divorce on the grounds of adultery ? Fornication is not adultery.

[@JC-gx8zs]

Trying to forgive my spouses infidelity is causing me great pain and anxiety, I have to drive past her house on the way to work every day and always have a physical reaction. I’m a nervous wreck. Is it time to divorce and move on?

[@MarriageHelper]

Hey J C, so sorry to hear you are going through this. Because of the complexity of this situation, we would strongly advise you reach out to us directly! You can call us at 1 [phone] and be connected with one of our Client Representatives who will guide you to the best resources we have available for your situation. You can also schedule the call yourself for a time that works best for you by following this link: marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/ We look forward to speaking with you directly if you will allow it!

[@AshtralUnityMovement]

Yes you don’t need that kinda stress. Good luck

[@timbui5556]

The same statements kept repeating so many times. Too much advertising and too little information. This is pure infomercial.

[@mjperfume1523]

U want me to stay calm as he humilates me, stay calm while he is shredding me into pieces, stay calm while cuts me to nothing

[@Jo-AnnSmith-hi1gc]

😢

[@heatherprice3643]

Hmm…how to get your spouse back? After they’re unfaithful I don’t think I’d want them back and I’m not going to try to attract someone who decided to step out on the marriage. When someone cheats it puts you at risk for STDs.

[@rickmckillip7382]

I had a coach and he told me I have to do something or continue to live the way I am.he had no idea what I should do in. My situation

[@MarriageHelper]

Hey Rick Mckillip, so sorry to hear you are going through this. Because of the complexity of this situation, we would strongly advise you reach out to us directly! You can call us at 1 [phone] and be connected with one of our Client Representatives who will guide you to the best resources we have available for your situation. You can also schedule the call yourself for a time that works best for you by following this link: marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/ We look forward to speaking with you directly if you will allow it!

[@rickmckillip7382]

@@MarriageHelper it was was your coach I was talking to that I was connected to back then!

[@alanchajonii9850]

How can I help myself when I’m changing my old bad habits. Being controlling, ignorant, not being an emotional support husband??? I want to save my marriage

[@Universe_Adventure2024]

When he said he was not happy with me and our marriage anniversary was not happy anymore what should I do?

[@urbanart7325]

My wife list trust in me. I mentioned the D workd too often throughout the 32 years of marriage. She oicked up the D card and got a lawyer. She lost trust in me and i can understand her. I asked her to reconsider but she is moving on with the divorce. I might keep the house in case she comes back

[@adriajanni5822]

I wish I could get my daughter and her husband to listen to this.

[@rickmckillip7382]

Coach I had with you told me to do something and maybe end it or continue living the way you are.

[@PrepsteadingWithBelinda]

What if he wont see a marriage helper, he thinks he has all the answers. I don't feel like there is hope at this point, no affection, nothing I do or say is right, I walk on egg shells I'm to old for this crap.

[@antoniojoyner1638]

Sister in Christ ! Pray without ceasing ! Pray for him and his heart. Pray for God to enter the relationship! Pray that your hope and faith will be restored. Trust him and seek him and do not move on anything until he tells you to. Only then will there be peace in your decision. Remember it’s not what you want or what he wants it’s what God wants. Find that first before thinking of leaving and remember we speak life and death out of our tongues ! Speak positive and speak life and watch God turn things around for you ! God bless !

[@Jo-AnnSmith-hi1gc]

😢

[@mjperfume1523]

He just told me to get out if i dont like the way he treating me , he says im the one that always starts the problem, he is no angel and neither am i but i dont think he has to talk to me that way, and he was drinking alot too, hes so immature, he even asked a friend that he knows doesnt drink to come on and have a drink with me, then he asked him if he wanted a joint to smoke, thats the liquor talking i feel

[@LeendaLindaLin]

What do you do if he wants the divorce and I don't? I'm moving out within the month.

[@nj5023]

I’m glad I’m not with my ex husband but I regret having to get a divorce.

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[@TheNemsue]

Fool me once shame on you-- fool me twice shame on me-- fool me three times? I’m out.

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[@rvadataguy4459]

Thank you so very very much for helping me.

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[@davidjmackii4119]

Could you talk about what steps to take if your newly divorced and want to reconcile with your partner

[@AshtralUnityMovement]

This video was not helpful lol it’s basically just one long advertisement

[@sandieochoa8398]

Marriage Helper is such a blessing to my marriage woes :)

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[@margarita1029]

It's been for months of separation 💔 😞 and he doesn't want to save marriage but I do but I don't I can't do it alone we don't have kids.

[@MarriageHelper]

Hey Margarita! It sounds like something that could be very helpful to you would be our SMART Contact Toolkit. This will teach you exactly what to do to start rebuilding healthy communication with your spouse! Highly recommend you consider checking it out here: bit.ly/3BkXVpW We truly hope it helps you.

[@MarriageHelper]

Also, have you talked with anyone on our team before? You can have a free marriage phone call with our client reps who would love to talk to you! 1 866 903 0990! We hope this helps!

[@margarita1029]

@Marriage Helper hi I called the number above and no one answered me =/.

[@rachelyates6138]

But, did that guy at the end steal another man's baby? Did she ever tell her affair partner that she was pregnant? Did they get a paternity test? Yikes!

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[@rozannmoake8146]

Yes, according to Priscilla the affair partner knew about the baby. If I remember that part of her story correctly the affair partner decided to be out of their lives and not involved with the baby.

[@beatsandbibletalk]

That last testimony yall could have kept that

[@janeclermon83]

My ex spouse says that I did nothing wrong that it's others and our relationship gives him bad memories

[@MarriageHelper]

It's actually rather typical for a spouse who's leaving to begin to villainize the history of your relationship. HSo sorry to hear you are going through this. Because of the complexity of this situation, we would strongly advise you reach out to us directly! You can call us at 1 [phone] and be connected with one of our Client Representatives who will guide you to the best resources we have available for your situation. You can also schedule the call yourself for a time that works best for you by following this link: marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/ We look forward to speaking with you directly if you will allow it!

[@StacyLara-cj7cv]

Breaking objects hitting my kids no friends secluded stalked caught him with another woman in my house ect I don't know him

[@teresemariecloonan.c7739]

As soon as you get “married”…

[@lakibender7693]

Lol once I went to a friend's wedding & thought the same thing. Told my friend next to me. I know it's just me projecting my feelings but outloud it was funny.

[@Ryan-ln3st]

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[@kennyplay5982]

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[@betholeary6815]

love when I listen to your show

[@spiritfluid]

It's time

[@lilianetv1482]

Can you cover serious mental health such schizophrenia in a marriage. Thank you

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[@MsElke11]

@@halimataliyu3316 how about bipolar narcissist? Can Dr ose help with that?

[@kimberlybarry8357]

Oh, if they cheat, file right away.

[@mjohnstonflying]

Why not divorce and remarry later

[@jonathanpuchner985]

Would this video be okay to send to the ws

[@jonathanpuchner985]

At least to share it to them

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[@user-mj1ht1tw2w]

Comme vous voulez je suis vraiment un homme libre et honnête loyale

[@cd9125]

This is just an infomercial

[@user-hn2xt7wi8o]

Bonjour Monsieur je vous remercie dis encore une fois moi je ne vais jamais mandiée de l'amour pour que vous croyez à ça aussi stp je vous préviens cela s' il s'agit je peux allez seul avec ma propre conscience avec tous juste l'amour de Dieu qui sera toujours est éternel ok merci

[@Tamarind525]

The male host talks way too much. Back off

[@markpang8847]

24:45 that's a beta move. I feel as if this is true (could be actors), when a woman steps out of the marriage, she will do it again and her respect for the husband who accepted the other man's baby is LOST into all eternity from that day forward. It doesn't matter WHAT the husband did to "push" away their wife. It is not a reconcilable issue PERIOD. There WILL always be a reminder of that. (the baby). What happens to the "Chad" dad who knocked her up? is he still able to be in the childs life? when do the parents tell the child that they are a product of a fence-jumper? how will this affect said child and siblings? Too many variables for a concrete issue that the wife is a cheater. FACT.

[@nickywaggs8672]

Is this a joke?