IS YOUR PARTNER A REFLECTION OF WHO YOU ARE?

[@Sweet_Girlie]

'A woman's heart should be so hidden in Christ that a man find Christ to locate her' ❤️💯Love that

[@SejaRapakgadi]

I love this episode... unrehearsed, undiluted, pure and holy spirit led..that is the true definition of purpose and pursuing yourselves, your ministry etc..

[@moremiracle4279]

Thank you Lerato and Phetola. You are having a big impact and transformation in my marriage, one instalment at a time.

[@MariaShikolele]

To us that like before watching 👏🏽👏🏽

[@leratoranamane9529]

Yess Ma'am 😊❤

[@lebohangntjabane693]

😂😂yess

[@TheMakhs]

❤❤❤❤

[@MissNomps]

"Work on yourself so that you create an environment around you where things have to grow and align" ❤

[@synthiamasimthande5513]

Wooooooow

[@HomeWithTheMurilas]

"I wanna give everything to a woman that can do anything for herself" I felt that!

[@LethoHali]

It’s how Pheto says “I feel like” for me 🤩. Always look forward to it 😍.

[@mbalikayisembele]

DoTheWork♥️ "Your partner is not a reflection of who you are but may be a reflection of where you are".😢I had to pause after that gem💎 and I believe that's the main intent of salvation, God revealing that where we are is not consistent with who we are and therefore through Christ there's a redirection to navigate to who we truly are in Christ-our Destination.

[@nandiphanophale826]

Your partner is partially a reflection of who you are. People are obviously different but there are certain characteristics that you have that your partner should have like morals and values, goals, drive, work ethic. Also you can play a role in some of the decisions your partner makes hence they would then be a reflection of you. So they are a reflection in that sense. However, they are not a reflection of you in terms of their behaviour. If my man acts a damn fool in public that says a lot about him and not about their partner. But one can also just argue that everyone is responsible for their behaviour and what they do overall reflects on who they are.

[@TheMakhs]

So well Said❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@sanelemjoli4877]

This is beautiful. Serve your partner as if you are serving God. Even when you are out there remember you are representing God by being faithful to your partner (in the absentia). The Great I AM loves you

[@marvelousmbali8002]

Yep Who you are never changes but you grow to be a better version of yourself

[@Sweet_Girlie]

'When you're a child you're who you are ,when you start growing you forget who you are and spend the rest of your life trying to figure out who you are' bathong TheMakhs!! Have you guys considered opening a church because wow🤣❤️

[@motheowalerato701]

Right 😅

[@remimautjana5622]

As a man I stand firm with you Mr Makhs, Knowing who you are let's people in the room know how to come to you, am a witness of that, even when you too sweet people come to you through the advantages of being the sweet guy.👏🏽

[@Glorious263]

"Pursue yourself" deep. Yesterday I was listening to Mpoomy's podcast on self-love. God speaks

[@pashukeni_]

I came back for this episode for the 2nd time because that's how good it is. Great intellect. Geez! I love it here 😊

[@kearabetswefaith6934]

Y'all didn't have much confidence in this instalment and it is so eye-opening! 🥺 The Holy Spirit took control and gave us what we needed rather than what we want and are used to, through this instalment. Keep the instalments coming, we're here for it! #DoTheWork 😌🔥

[@gcinilemhlanga3226]

The Makhs, serving us another riveting episode. Mr Makhs brought the fireworks and sis Pheto did not disappoint too. I loooved it #in sis Pheto’s accent🤩🤩🤩

[@rachealkihunde6677]

The only way I can like this more than once is by sharing it. Thank you so much guys❤️

[@LethoHali]

You guys this is so very profound! The who you are vs where you are! So life changing for me! I had a lightbulb moment💡!

[@Siya_Nathi]

""Do the work." You guys are my inspiration man, i like the fact that you pray about these sit-downs. Sis Phetola beautiful as always. Thank you for the upload.

[@tshegomwale5856]

Do the work. Love you guys❤️❤️ Lerato thinks and behaves exactly like my husband, it shocks me all the time. I normally send my husband your videos, but I doubt he watches them. When he’s home I make him watch with me😁 I also see myself in Phetola but also there’s a lot I can learn from her. I always feel lighter after watching your videos 💕

[@moremiracle4279]

I learned that from my own marriage that I should not feel entitled to my husband’s success and blessings, even though I put in the hard work with him, sacrificed almost everything… As soon as I learned that, I was at so much peace. This then begs the question, what if I used that energy towards building myself, where would I be? It’s a bit of a selfish question but what if?? Please don’t get me wrong, I was not sacrificing it all to get something in return but I was doing it from the spirit of “us” “building a legacy” 😊

[@mamellomphahlele6965]

Mr Makhetha really dropping some gems💎 💎 💎 Great conversation, great couple 👑👑

[@KamoMagabane]

Mr and Mrs Makhs we need audience talk shows now aowa. This needs a discussion

[@nokuthulacedile6878]

Shuuu...... I had to replay the intro. What a wow 👋👋👋👋👋👋👋

[@neo_mohapi]

Pursue yourself! Yoh, this episode was something else. Thank you!

[@EvidenceofChange7]

Do the work I love this notion of "Do the work for yourself, not for anyone or anything" because I think once you do the work for yourself everything else will align with who you are.

[@pamelakesebonye7114]

#dothework! Thanks guys. Ke le rata gore! Thank you for allowing God to use you!

[@sarahletsoalo9668]

In some seasons true, the partner I have is a reflection of where I am. Who you are never changes, true. And as you grow you forget who you are shuuu😮 Then life becomes the journey and rediscovery of who you are _ Mr Makhs Thanks family for the conversation

[@Scarlet_Cord]

I’m pursuing myself from now on, listening to this thrice❤

[@bongiwemazibuko325]

Wow I truly enjoyed this session with you guys, you have opened my eyes, that who I am is not a reflection of who my partner is. As we turn to blame ourselves for our partner doings. You so right kids reflect who they are once they grow they filter and adato what they see and they choose by what they saw

[@paulinendlovumsonzah856]

I'm looking for a button to double like this episode. Thank you fam for this master class. 😍

[@LETSOALO_LIFE]

Great conversations. ❤ in my mother tongue bare "ya šika le ye garang le yona e tlo gara" . I think to some extent, subconsciously we are a reflection of our partners. You live with this person, they complete your sentences, you have inside jokes, you give each other feedbacks and eventually you start to share your thinking patterns. The 2 shall become 1. Remember a reflection is a mirror...a bounce back of what is portrayed Infront of you. Either good or bad, partners rub off their energies, characters and past experiences on each other. It is however fortunate or unfortunate what will transpire from what you are unconsciously taking in as you spend time with this person. Some of the characteristics are learned by just observing...❤ let me pause here. Where is Calvin the sign lingo interpreter guys?

[@mathapelomonnakgotla7395]

Ur consistency jeeeeerrrr,it's like winter is ur favorite season guys!!!❤❤❤❤

[@marvelousmbali8002]

Yes it happens then you wanna leave immediately yet you don’t wanna be rude you sometimes go there goes of a friend others go there for the bag 💰

[@PraiseSpaceOfficial]

My takeaway on the journey of self-actualisation,PURSUE YOURSELF ! That really hit home. Thanks

[@lindubuhlemathenjwa1453]

Thanks❤️ Do the work

[@bahumimatebesi8000]

Absolutely! Our past experiences do determine our future choices and you put it so well Phetola…

[@NdumisoShabangu]

Here’s a follower from KwaDukuza. Love you guys

[@happymuller841]

#DoTheWork! Peace & Blessings❤

[@preciousnompumelelomtshali4668]

"We Lelato"😂😂... Beautiful instalment guys. Thank you and keep up the God work. We love you❤

[@LethoHali]

😂😂😂 laughed so hard!

[@saneliswamagagula9781]

Lelato took me out😂😂😂

[@Bernitta_sheneinei]

Do the work..thank you family ❤

[@leratoranamane9529]

#Dothework ❤️ How can you not love the Makhs? You guys are blessed and you are a blessing 💯🙌🏾 There is so much wisdom in every episode ✨

[@rollykgware]

I enjoyed this”Do the work” 👊🏽

[@mathtutor876]

I appreciate you both. You are the lighthouse on the hill for me where Godly, healthy marriage and relationships are concerned.❤

[@lauryn343]

29:09 Pursue yourself ‼️ loved this!! My follow-up question to this is...what does pursuing yourself involve and look like? Thank you guys...amazing podcast👏🏾

[@lerekomolefe4323]

Do the work......thank you so much for this installment it was eye opening and has sparked a lot of self introspection that needs to be done

[@marvelousmbali8002]

We haven’t said “y’all know what it is” in a long time 😂 peace out ✌🏾♥️

[@WisdomQuest_SA]

Thank you this, I am not keen on outlining where I am right now but thanks for this.

[@mbalisadikge3660]

Do the work 💯, This was soo informative, Thanks The Makhs

[@prettypeyalimon6097]

Do the Work❤❤❤😊 You have my gratitude 🙏🏽 here’s to yet nother amazing podcast 🥂 God bless you

[@NatashaShapolaMwamba-ny9vy]

#Do the work🎉🎉🎉 This was sooo good as always I was blessed ❤

[@franscinasemakalengmedupe2890]

#DoTheWork... This conversation was profound. Pursue yourself.😍 Thank you guys for such an enlightening convo. We are grateful to God for your lives. ♥️

[@accoucher0]

“Do the work”🌺❤️💜

[@nomkhosimchunu4744]

Who I am knows this is not my space🔥 this is fire. Holy Spirit leading indeed. I 100% agree with this.

[@whatinthevillage]

Also doing "the right work" within yourself. This was so powerful ❤

[@charisdonga9841]

I understand the concept and idea of intentionally pursuing you. My question though is, how does that practically look like. What does working on yourself look like? We talk about eating healthy, keeping your spiritual and physical self in the right state, but mentally, which i think is also very important, what does 'doing the work' look like? 😊🙏

[@zamokuhlembuyane1337]

Awesome , Awesome conversation - Truly Holy spirit led.I am empowered

[@Priscillianqueen]

Definitely led by the holy spirit!! (DO THE WORK!!!!)....we love you guys. 🥰

[@ziziphomagula8183]

TYHO! The part of who you are ignited by people/events/situation and who you with freely by Mr Makhs powerful nugget!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@dorothymotsepe]

"Do the work" Amen

[@litebohoadonis4364]

This had me on the edge of my seat🔥 fire

[@mrsspringbok]

Girl children are like that ! my daughter’s favourite parent is her dad😊😊 I’m just there..nje

[@mabusanhlapo87]

pursue yourself. Spoke so loudly 🔊📢 for me❤❤❤❤❤

[@nokulungamasango4926]

I am within love you guys #dreamteam.❤

[@mphosehlatsana7311]

Do the work❤ ,The Makhs I love you guys🇱🇸

[@PZJBimha]

Loved this episode. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us, always. The major take away for me is the importance of being self-aware and reflecting on whether your choices cater to who you are.... Constant reminder - "where you are can determine who you think you are"...

[@lungilembambo6473]

Do the work, thank you dream team

[@wewemhlaba7593]

Pursue yourself🙏❤Love that.

[@shemillionheir]

Absolutely loved this episode guys!! Spoke to me…wow!! Thank you ❤

[@sinothandosirunu]

Absolutely loved this conversation. “Do the work” ❤

[@KaraboM]

❤❤❤ Eish. Have no words for this one... Holy spirit lead and really speaks to us through the both of you❤

[@kuhlemndabe]

new subby and I thank God i stumbled upon your channel. your conversations are enlightening keep up the great work that God has trusted you guys with.youre such a beautiful couple ☺

[@galaletsangmonyebodi9547]

Great conversation!keep up the good content! I’d like to hear y’all discuss the dynamics and challenges faced as a couple before having kids and those faced after having kids.

[@keepyourfaith39]

Wow thank you about topic it like you confirm what the Holy Spirit told me to find my self ,cause I almost lost myself cause of trying to please people and fitting in . And I was not aware . and the change it for me, the purpose of God not the next person as Mrs Makhs said I loved that . ✝️ 🙏😇🤦♥️

[@tshepisodipholo-tlhareseng5317]

We are definitely going to do the work 😊

[@rachealkihunde6677]

Of course I watched till the end, Do the work!

[@wethembekilendebele7922]

#DOTHEWORK!! I enjoyed this video, work on yourself, know your purpose and persue it, become the best version of yourself. I always look forward to your installments, love you guys❤

[@matshidisomzinyathi357]

Let's keep on doing the work for better life.

[@accoucher0]

Your vlogs are always refreshing☺️❤️so therapeutic to watch you guys always Love you 😊

[@lindomhlungu8158]

'Do the work"

[@zakithimhlongo3085]

Do the work, love the interesting conversations

[@remimautjana5622]

Dira Tiro - Do the Work - Yenza Umsebenzi 😂

[@adeyemijumoke6]

Enjoyed the conversation ✔️ Pursue yourself 🔥🔥🔥 Every installment makes me think and reflect. Thank you Lerato and Phetola for doing this. God bless you

[@lebohangntjabane693]

Do the work❤

[@tsebedaphney2678]

#dothework This was so profound❤️❤️

[@cherylkaindjee347]

Do the work ❤you guys keep blessing us with wisdom God bless

[@bongimaziya8136]

Do the work😊. So insightful. Thank you so much. God bless you🙌

[@Ms.Busisiwe]

Your conversations are always filled with wisdom❤‍🔥

[@snethembasne8109]

Do the work🥰thank you so much

[@palesamatabane3138]

"Do the work." 👌🏽👊🏽

[@thatom4109]

Do the work❤...you guys are spectacular 😮😊.

[@VEE592]

Do the work ❤❤❤.. This was a wholesome one.. Thank you family

[@Asoh_]

😂 Ulundi is in the house!!!

[@lizwimasango6991]

Mkhaya😂

[@Asoh_]

@@lizwimasango6991 😂🫶🏼🫶🏼

[@Fortunate30]

This conversation is great💯💯I am going through the same thing at the moment, being in a relationship where I cannot locate my worth, where I feel invalidated. So the question is how do I step into my true essence and live authentically so and be able to step out of a toxic relationship

[@phathutshedzoprettymatumba7422]

#Do the work ❤️

[@bupebwanga66]

Do the work🤗❤️📍

[@sinegugungema5203]

Do the work💯

[@hlabiwamaponya6590]

Do the WORK!!!

[@mbuedzedzondou9259]

This is so refreshing. Thank you for such an insightful honest conversation