IS YOUR PARTNER A REFLECTION OF WHO YOU ARE?

[@Sweet_Girlie]

'A woman's heart should be so hidden in Christ that a man find Christ to locate her' ❤️💯Love that

[@SejaRapakgadi]

I love this episode... unrehearsed, undiluted, pure and holy spirit led..that is the true definition of purpose and pursuing yourselves, your ministry etc..

[@MissNomps]

"Work on yourself so that you create an environment around you where things have to grow and align" ❤

[@synthiamasimthande5513]

Wooooooow

[@MariaShikolele]

To us that like before watching 👏🏽👏🏽

[@leratoranamane9529]

Yess Ma'am 😊❤

[@lebohangntjabane693]

😂😂yess

[@TheMakhs]

❤❤❤❤

[@HomeWithTheMurilas]

"I wanna give everything to a woman that can do anything for herself" I felt that!

[@moremiracle4279]

Thank you Lerato and Phetola. You are having a big impact and transformation in my marriage, one instalment at a time.

[@LethoHali]

It’s how Pheto says “I feel like” for me 🤩. Always look forward to it 😍.

[@mbalikayisembele]

DoTheWork♥️ "Your partner is not a reflection of who you are but may be a reflection of where you are".😢I had to pause after that gem💎 and I believe that's the main intent of salvation, God revealing that where we are is not consistent with who we are and therefore through Christ there's a redirection to navigate to who we truly are in Christ-our Destination.

[@nandiphanophale826]

Your partner is partially a reflection of who you are. People are obviously different but there are certain characteristics that you have that your partner should have like morals and values, goals, drive, work ethic. Also you can play a role in some of the decisions your partner makes hence they would then be a reflection of you. So they are a reflection in that sense. However, they are not a reflection of you in terms of their behaviour. If my man acts a damn fool in public that says a lot about him and not about their partner. But one can also just argue that everyone is responsible for their behaviour and what they do overall reflects on who they are.

[@TheMakhs]

So well Said❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@sanelemjoli4877]

This is beautiful. Serve your partner as if you are serving God. Even when you are out there remember you are representing God by being faithful to your partner (in the absentia). The Great I AM loves you

[@Glorious263]

"Pursue yourself" deep. Yesterday I was listening to Mpoomy's podcast on self-love. God speaks

[@marvelousmbali8002]

Yep Who you are never changes but you grow to be a better version of yourself

[@rachealkihunde6677]

The only way I can like this more than once is by sharing it. Thank you so much guys❤️

[@remimautjana5622]

As a man I stand firm with you Mr Makhs, Knowing who you are let's people in the room know how to come to you, am a witness of that, even when you too sweet people come to you through the advantages of being the sweet guy.👏🏽

[@pashukeni_]

I came back for this episode for the 2nd time because that's how good it is. Great intellect. Geez! I love it here 😊

[@kearabetswefaith6934]

Y'all didn't have much confidence in this instalment and it is so eye-opening! 🥺 The Holy Spirit took control and gave us what we needed rather than what we want and are used to, through this instalment. Keep the instalments coming, we're here for it! #DoTheWork 😌🔥

[@LethoHali]

You guys this is so very profound! The who you are vs where you are! So life changing for me! I had a lightbulb moment💡!

[@tshegomwale5856]

Do the work. Love you guys❤️❤️ Lerato thinks and behaves exactly like my husband, it shocks me all the time. I normally send my husband your videos, but I doubt he watches them. When he’s home I make him watch with me😁 I also see myself in Phetola but also there’s a lot I can learn from her. I always feel lighter after watching your videos 💕

[@PraiseSpaceOfficial]

My takeaway on the journey of self-actualisation,PURSUE YOURSELF ! That really hit home. Thanks

[@Sweet_Girlie]

'When you're a child you're who you are ,when you start growing you forget who you are and spend the rest of your life trying to figure out who you are' bathong TheMakhs!! Have you guys considered opening a church because wow🤣❤️

[@motheowalerato701]

Right 😅

[@sarahletsoalo9668]

In some seasons true, the partner I have is a reflection of where I am. Who you are never changes, true. And as you grow you forget who you are shuuu😮 Then life becomes the journey and rediscovery of who you are _ Mr Makhs Thanks family for the conversation

[@Siya_Nathi]

""Do the work." You guys are my inspiration man, i like the fact that you pray about these sit-downs. Sis Phetola beautiful as always. Thank you for the upload.

[@mamellomphahlele6965]

Mr Makhetha really dropping some gems💎 💎 💎 Great conversation, great couple 👑👑

[@EvidenceofChange7]

Do the work I love this notion of "Do the work for yourself, not for anyone or anything" because I think once you do the work for yourself everything else will align with who you are.

[@Priscillianqueen]

Definitely led by the holy spirit!! (DO THE WORK!!!!)....we love you guys. 🥰

[@KamoMagabane]

Mr and Mrs Makhs we need audience talk shows now aowa. This needs a discussion

[@paulinendlovumsonzah856]

I'm looking for a button to double like this episode. Thank you fam for this master class. 😍

[@neo_mohapi]

Pursue yourself! Yoh, this episode was something else. Thank you!

[@pamelakesebonye7114]

#dothework! Thanks guys. Ke le rata gore! Thank you for allowing God to use you!

[@accoucher0]

“Do the work”🌺❤️💜

[@bahumimatebesi8000]

Absolutely! Our past experiences do determine our future choices and you put it so well Phetola…

[@leratoranamane9529]

#Dothework ❤️ How can you not love the Makhs? You guys are blessed and you are a blessing 💯🙌🏾 There is so much wisdom in every episode ✨

[@Bernitta_sheneinei]

Do the work..thank you family ❤

[@nokuthulacedile6878]

Shuuu...... I had to replay the intro. What a wow 👋👋👋👋👋👋👋

[@zamokuhlembuyane1337]

Awesome , Awesome conversation - Truly Holy spirit led.I am empowered

[@happymuller841]

#DoTheWork! Peace & Blessings❤

[@nomkhosimchunu4744]

Who I am knows this is not my space🔥 this is fire. Holy Spirit leading indeed. I 100% agree with this.

[@rollykgware]

I enjoyed this”Do the work” 👊🏽

[@whatinthevillage]

Also doing "the right work" within yourself. This was so powerful ❤

[@bongiwemazibuko325]

Wow I truly enjoyed this session with you guys, you have opened my eyes, that who I am is not a reflection of who my partner is. As we turn to blame ourselves for our partner doings. You so right kids reflect who they are once they grow they filter and adato what they see and they choose by what they saw

[@mathtutor876]

I appreciate you both. You are the lighthouse on the hill for me where Godly, healthy marriage and relationships are concerned.❤

[@dorothymotsepe]

"Do the work" Amen

[@gcinilemhlanga3226]

The Makhs, serving us another riveting episode. Mr Makhs brought the fireworks and sis Pheto did not disappoint too. I loooved it #in sis Pheto’s accent🤩🤩🤩

[@ziziphomagula8183]

TYHO! The part of who you are ignited by people/events/situation and who you with freely by Mr Makhs powerful nugget!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@franscinasemakalengmedupe2890]

#DoTheWork... This conversation was profound. Pursue yourself.😍 Thank you guys for such an enlightening convo. We are grateful to God for your lives. ♥️

[@prettypeyalimon6097]

Do the Work❤❤❤😊 You have my gratitude 🙏🏽 here’s to yet nother amazing podcast 🥂 God bless you

[@Scarlet_Cord]

I’m pursuing myself from now on, listening to this thrice❤

[@marvelousmbali8002]

Yes it happens then you wanna leave immediately yet you don’t wanna be rude you sometimes go there goes of a friend others go there for the bag 💰

[@mathapelomonnakgotla7395]

Ur consistency jeeeeerrrr,it's like winter is ur favorite season guys!!!❤❤❤❤

[@lerekomolefe4323]

Do the work......thank you so much for this installment it was eye opening and has sparked a lot of self introspection that needs to be done

[@moremiracle4279]

I learned that from my own marriage that I should not feel entitled to my husband’s success and blessings, even though I put in the hard work with him, sacrificed almost everything… As soon as I learned that, I was at so much peace. This then begs the question, what if I used that energy towards building myself, where would I be? It’s a bit of a selfish question but what if?? Please don’t get me wrong, I was not sacrificing it all to get something in return but I was doing it from the spirit of “us” “building a legacy” 😊

[@wewemhlaba7593]

Pursue yourself🙏❤Love that.

[@kgaboselepe689]

Do The Work

[@lungilembambo6473]

Do the work, thank you dream team

[@sinothandosirunu]

Absolutely loved this conversation. “Do the work” ❤

[@litebohoadonis4364]

This had me on the edge of my seat🔥 fire

[@NatashaShapolaMwamba-ny9vy]

#Do the work🎉🎉🎉 This was sooo good as always I was blessed ❤

[@matshidisomzinyathi357]

Let's keep on doing the work for better life.

[@preciousnompumelelomtshali4668]

"We Lelato"😂😂... Beautiful instalment guys. Thank you and keep up the God work. We love you❤

[@LethoHali]

😂😂😂 laughed so hard!

[@saneliswamagagula9781]

Lelato took me out😂😂😂

[@mabusanhlapo87]

pursue yourself. Spoke so loudly 🔊📢 for me❤❤❤❤❤

[@lindomhlungu8158]

'Do the work"

[@lebohangntjabane693]

Do the work❤

[@lauryn343]

29:09 Pursue yourself ‼️ loved this!! My follow-up question to this is...what does pursuing yourself involve and look like? Thank you guys...amazing podcast👏🏾

[@WisdomQuest_SA]

Thank you this, I am not keen on outlining where I am right now but thanks for this.

[@mbalisadikge3660]

Do the work 💯, This was soo informative, Thanks The Makhs

[@LETSOALO_LIFE]

Great conversations. ❤ in my mother tongue bare "ya šika le ye garang le yona e tlo gara" . I think to some extent, subconsciously we are a reflection of our partners. You live with this person, they complete your sentences, you have inside jokes, you give each other feedbacks and eventually you start to share your thinking patterns. The 2 shall become 1. Remember a reflection is a mirror...a bounce back of what is portrayed Infront of you. Either good or bad, partners rub off their energies, characters and past experiences on each other. It is however fortunate or unfortunate what will transpire from what you are unconsciously taking in as you spend time with this person. Some of the characteristics are learned by just observing...❤ let me pause here. Where is Calvin the sign lingo interpreter guys?

[@NdumisoShabangu]

Here’s a follower from KwaDukuza. Love you guys

[@phathutshedzoprettymatumba7422]

#Do the work ❤️

[@palesamatabane3138]

"Do the work." 👌🏽👊🏽

[@hlabiwamaponya6590]

Do the WORK!!!

[@shemillionheir]

Absolutely loved this episode guys!! Spoke to me…wow!! Thank you ❤

[@mphosehlatsana7311]

Do the work❤ ,The Makhs I love you guys🇱🇸

[@adeyemijumoke6]

Enjoyed the conversation ✔️ Pursue yourself 🔥🔥🔥 Every installment makes me think and reflect. Thank you Lerato and Phetola for doing this. God bless you

[@marvelousmbali8002]

We haven’t said “y’all know what it is” in a long time 😂 peace out ✌🏾♥️

[@zakithimhlongo3085]

Do the work, love the interesting conversations

[@accoucher0]

Your vlogs are always refreshing☺️❤️so therapeutic to watch you guys always Love you 😊

[@tsebedaphney2678]

#dothework This was so profound❤️❤️

[@TerryMashiloane]

DO THE WORK!

[@Ms.Busisiwe]

Your conversations are always filled with wisdom❤‍🔥

[@tshepisodipholo-tlhareseng5317]

We are definitely going to do the work 😊

[@galaletsangmonyebodi9547]

Great conversation!keep up the good content! I’d like to hear y’all discuss the dynamics and challenges faced as a couple before having kids and those faced after having kids.

[@snecele913]

Do the work!!!

[@tshenoloagnes881]

Do the work🎉

[@Ms.Busisiwe]

Do the work!💯

[@palesamlaba994]

Do the work! ❤

[@bupebwanga66]

Do the work🤗❤️📍

[@sibongilemali152]

Do the work👏🏾

[@rachealkihunde6677]

Of course I watched till the end, Do the work!

[@sinegugungema5203]

Do the work💯

[@nokulungamasango4926]

I am within love you guys #dreamteam.❤

[@cherylkaindjee347]

Do the work ❤you guys keep blessing us with wisdom God bless

[@thatom4109]

Do the work❤...you guys are spectacular 😮😊.

[@wethembekilendebele7922]

#DOTHEWORK!! I enjoyed this video, work on yourself, know your purpose and persue it, become the best version of yourself. I always look forward to your installments, love you guys❤

[@tebogoramalaba240]

Do the work 💯

[@VEE592]

Do the work ❤❤❤.. This was a wholesome one.. Thank you family

[@teemtshali9411]

Do the work♥️

[@bongimaziya8136]

Do the work😊. So insightful. Thank you so much. God bless you🙌

[@mbuedzedzondou9259]

This is so refreshing. Thank you for such an insightful honest conversation

[@vuyimasa]

Do the work❤️

[@KaraboM]

❤❤❤ Eish. Have no words for this one... Holy spirit lead and really speaks to us through the both of you❤