Bring Up Your Kid with Positive Discipline | Parenting Tips Malayalam | Dr. Mary Matilda

[@balkiisyasiin4524]

ചെറുപ്പക്കാരായ മാതാപിതാക്കൾക്ക് വളരെ ഉപകരിക്കും.. രണ്ടാൾക്കും 👏👏👏🙏

[@MaryMatilda]

Thank you. ❤❤🙏

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you🙂

[@omanaroy8412]

അമ്മ യും മകളും കൂടി നല്ല നല്ല കാര്യങ്ങൾ പറഞ്ഞു. കുഞ്ഞു മക്കൾ ഉള്ള മാതാപിതാക്കൾ എല്ലാ വരും ഇത് കേട്ടിരുന്നെക്കിൽ...!!!!

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you🙂

[@MaryMatilda]

We also wish so❤❤

[@neetanair4225]

Positive discipline is truly effective. I did it 20 yrs back. The circumstances were not fully conducive. What all I did was effective in long run .In short, it's proved in my life . The presentation was superb.

[@MaryMatilda]

❤❤

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you for the lovely feedback and the reassuring comment🙂

[@happylifeofsafu4877]

Angane nalloru channel kandethi...thanks Amma and chechi..iniyum orupad ithpolthe vdios idanam..orupad arivukal njnglilek pakarnn tharanam..aarogyavum aayusum undavatee

[@drgeenageorge3914]

Maam, i remember attending ur classes when I was in 8th -9th std part of PBU program. Recently i was thinking about that and surprisingly this channel came in my suggestions out of nowhere. Thank u maam for the beautiful videos

[@MaryMatilda]

Hai Geena great to hear from you. Thank you❤❤🙏

[@hannahmk3200]

I watched the video and loved the concept of firm but gentle..... and I used to be so when I was having my first child alone..I very much cared while behaving and talking to her...now I'm a mom of three(5y,2.5, and 3months).... no way I can handle the situation in gentle manner....I would like you do video about dealing with more than one child with less age difference.....

[@ashamathew8981]

Hi Hannah. Thank you for watching and commenting. I can imagine how tough it must be for you. It's quite natural to get angry and stressed but learning and practising ways to manage it may help. Also getting support from others in whatever ways possible can bring some relief. Since I don't have experience parenting siblings, I have little to share.

[@shameenashihab7321]

Super asha...

[@ashamathew8981]

@@shameenashihab7321 Thank you🙂

[@SUDHANYAJIJO]

വളരെ നന്നായിട്ട് പറഞ്ഞു തന്നു thanku dearzz ❤

[@passiontotravelbykarthika9441]

Thanks again,loved both u r daughter's session.As a mother of 3year old I understand what I have to change..very useful 👍and a fact is still many people think that parenting is only mother's responsibility

[@MaryMatilda]

Definitely we have to change the system slowly and steadily.❤❤

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you🙂

[@mereenjoe6525]

The most waited video... Expecting more related topics😄😄😄

[@MaryMatilda]

Mereen thanks a lot❤❤❤

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you dear!

[@anilsirscommerceclass6844]

Yes Mam, tone is very important while talking with all humans

[@MaryMatilda]

Anil❤❤❤

[@ashamathew8981]

Yes, indeed.

[@WithLuvRia]

Mam, valare nalla channel.. I came across your channel only yesterday and I am loving every video.. been binge watching.. being a millennial parent, we wish and try to change many traditional parenting methods.. it is so relieving to see our moms support and acknowledge the new ideas.. One thing I have heard that helped my attitude towards our child is, 'treat your child like you would treat your guest'.. like you mentioned, less commands more explanation and patience.. Thanks alot for sharing..

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you so much🙂

[@MaryMatilda]

Thank you❤❤🙏

[@krishnanmg1234]

Beautiful presentation and informative. It will very helpful for all parents 💖🌹🙏🙏🙏

[@MaryMatilda]

Thank you very much Sir❤❤🙏

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you so much 🙂

[@beegumhashimuddin4187]

👏👏 so impressive as it is practical and hence subscribed

[@lakshmikuttan2076]

I think this is the best parenting video or advice that I have seen ever in mu life. Very true, meaniful and practical things to try in our life.. Thanks a lot👏👍

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you so much for such encouraging words.❤

[@piusdane]

Matilda Teacher , Asha and Niya 3 Angels 😇 God Bless you ☺️

[@sanvi1997]

ഇതിൽ വീട്ടിലുള്ളവരുടെ സപ്പോർട്ടും ആവശ്യമാണ്‌. അടിച്ചു വളർത്തണം എന്നു പറയുന്നവരാണ് ഇപ്പൊഴും കൂടുതൽ ...

[@pachusvlog675]

Kuttikal enthenkilum cheythal ammamarkk valarthan ariyilla enne parayu. Nammal enth cheythalum avar kuttam mathre parayu. Nammal cheyyunnath onnum avar kaanilla. Ath nalla oru sensil edukkukayum illa. Ingane okke aavumbol aanu ammamarkk sangadam varunnath

[@sanvi1997]

@@pachusvlog675 സത്യം. ഹസ്ബൻഡ് പോലും ഇങ്ങനെയാണ്

[@ashamathew8981]

Yes, it can be a challenge.

[@MaryMatilda]

അവർക്കു ഈ വീഡിയോ ഒന്ന് share ചെയ്തു നോക്കാമോ?

[@sanvi1997]

@@MaryMatilda ഗ്രാൻഡ് പേരെന്റ്സിന്റ കാര്യമാണ് mam പറഞ്ഞത്. അവർക്ക് അടിച്ചു വളർത്തുകയും പേടിച്ചു വളരുകയും ചെയ്താലേ കുട്ടികൾ നന്നാവൂ എന്നുള്ളത് മനസ്സിൽ ഉറച്ചുപോയി

[@graceammapappachan2608]

Thanks a lot. Good experience and good explanations. Value it more.

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you🙂

[@MaryMatilda]

Thank you❤❤🙏

[@sanvisayusvlog6737]

Very informative .Thank u for ur valuable advice

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you

[@catharinecheriyan2536]

Very informative and useful

[@saranyaaneesh7274]

Ente kuttik 4 vayasayi,..e video nerathe kanandatharunu.. ethil paranja palathum njan follow cheyarund.. but commanding tune anu enikum.. short tempered anu njn. Prayam polum marannu kunjine palapozhum adikarund.. adich kazhinj orkum vendarunu enu.. but desyam control cheyan palapolum sadhikarila.. eniyum sradhikum. Thanku dears..

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you for watching and commenting🙂

[@mohaep7391]

Good മെസ്സേജ് 👍👍👍👍

[@nishaneelakantan7874]

I am so proud that I know you Asha ❤️I can’t express how happy I am to see you and mom talk such sensible points to deal with kids. I am someone who follows gentle parenting a lot and you have put everything in a nutshell in your 10 points 👍👍👍

[@ashamathew8981]

This is such a sweet surprise Nisha! So glad to hear such lovely feedback from fellow mommies. Thanks much for the support🙂

[@anilsirscommerceclass6844]

Proactive handling. It's useful in many circumstances, even in official life

[@MaryMatilda]

Dear Anil thank you. ❤❤🙏

[@sureshbabu3794]

Very informative and very true in life. Excellently presented. 🙏🏽

[@MaryMatilda]

Thank you ❤❤🙏

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you so much uncle.

[@sudhaanaghs9517]

Very much interested wounderful explanation l

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you🙂

[@padmamk4164]

Thank you Asha. Your ideas are really helpful in looking after my Granddaughter. Padmam ❤

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you so much aunty❤ Glad to know that.

[@MaryMatilda]

Padmam so happy to hear from you. ❤🙏

[@Elizabeth-xr3re]

മുത്തശ്ശി യുടെ പലഹാരകഥ കേട്ട് 😄.. Thank you vry much for this episode.. God bless you both of you...

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you😊

[@MaryMatilda]

Thank you.

[@kavyajayakumar111]

mam pls do more videos on gentle parenting, dealing tantrums ,

[@sudhinvijayan9474]

Gentle but firm. ഞാൻ ഒരു parent അല്ല. പക്ഷെ പഠിക്കാനുണ്ടായിരുന്നു ഇതിൽ. Parenting ഒരു കടമ എന്നതിലുപരി passion ആയി enjoy ചെയ്യുന്ന ഒരു വ്യക്തിയെയാണ് ആശയിൽ കാണുന്നത്. ഒരേ സമയം കുഞ്ഞിനോടുള്ള സ്നേഹത്തോടൊപ്പം പേരെന്റ്റിംഗിന്നായി ഇടുന്ന effort inte റിസൾട്ടിൽ സന്തോഷിക്കുന്നുമുണ്ട്. Keep up the good work both of you 👏

[@MaryMatilda]

Parent അല്ലെങ്കിലും ഇതൊക്കെ അറിയാനുള്ള താല്പര്യം ഉണ്ടെന്നറിഞ്ഞതിൽ വളരെ സന്തോഷം. ഒരു regular viewer എന്ന നിലയിൽ താങ്കളുടെ ഓരോ വിലയിരുത്തലുകളും വളരെ വിലപ്പെട്ടതാണ്.

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you so much for the constant support.🙂

[@anilsirscommerceclass6844]

Very useful video for parenting

[@MaryMatilda]

Thank you. ❤❤🙏

[@anilsirscommerceclass6844]

Welcome Mam

[@anilar7849]

Thanks 💐👍✌

[@rohinivk5259]

Yes.I understand. What i have to change.Thank you.super Session

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you 🙂

[@MaryMatilda]

I have to change the most powerful words❤❤

[@divineinspiration6426]

Thank you teacher ammaa❤

[@dr.ajmalaboobacker9491]

Amma and Amma very inspiring......

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you so much🙂

[@pmmohanan660]

Daughter is just like mother thanks for the video

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you🙂

[@SS-bt1ro]

I’m a mother of a 7 year old boy. I am practicing positive discipline till now… but recently I noticed that my son is feeling too sad for small corrections or criticism from someone.. how can I make him emotionally strong to bravely face the difficulties of life? Expecting more videos on parenting. Thank you

[@ashamathew8981]

I will try to do a video on it. But I think it's ok to be sensitive. Afterall it's a quality that seems to be lacking in today's world. Only sensitive people can be empathetic towards their fellow beings. As a child, feeling sensitive or feeling any emotions is a part of healthy development. Studies say that having a positive parent or any positive adult for that matter helps the child to cope with such challenges in the long run. So positive parenting acts as a buffer against negative experiences. By listening to their woes empathetically and validating their feelings, they will feel better and will slowly learn to handle such emotions by themselves. At the same time, as parents we can also give opportunities and have conversations to increase their self confidence. We can also share similar stories that we experienced and how we dealt with them. Above all, we can be good role models in how we handle criticism.

[@bindutv4847]

Try to teach him karate practice

[@fasilapppp2708]

I've 6 yr old girl n 8yr oldboy I'm a commanding parent or mother to them. How can I change my attitude towards them.... Pls reply

[@ashamathew8981]

@@fasilapppp2708 Hi Fasila! I think all the points in my video are more or less related to that. Also, if you replace phrases like "DO THIS", "DON'T DO THAT" etc. with "How about doing it this way?" or "Come, let's clean up the toys" in respectful tone, it will be half the job done. Instead of giving orders, we can try asking for their cooperation. While enforcing rules, what has worked for me is validating their feelings and supporting them while they have an emotional outburst, instead of blaming or ignoring or distracting. For example, when my daughter says she wants to watch more TV and cries, I tell her that I understand how bad she feels etc. but TV time is over and that I will comfort her. So she feels better. Also I give her heads up before it's time to switch off the TV. That is, I tell her "We will switch off after 5 min" or "after this song". Also, I give the remote to her to switch off. That's like giving her the power and she feels good about it. These are some everyday examples. Hope it was helpful. Thanks much for watching my video.

[@soumyajinson]

I have attended few parenting sessions here and trying to follow , and your video was more simplified and easy to follow , I also wish to know how I deal with sensitive kids

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you so much for such encouraging words and for the feedback.

[@annajohn1066]

Video assalayirikunnu. Ashakuttikum ammakum abinandanangal. Ee arivukal ini grandchildren il apply cheyam.

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you aunty.

[@yogamalayalamasha]

Good topic 🙏🏻

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you.

[@raheenamk7303]

Thank you

[@ashamathew8981]

🙂

[@syamvidya]

Mother and Daughter - very good

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you🙂

[@sumik7643]

Thankyou😍...

[@alphonsalatheesh9718]

Wht u shared is effective.i practice this as much as i can

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you so much for sharing your feedback🙂

[@annievx9816]

Very helpful video and beautiful presentation for kids lifestyle

[@MaryMatilda]

Thank you very much Annie.

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you🙂

[@sherint.p3108]

Thank you for the valuable information

[@sherint.p3108]

@@ashamathew8981 Thank you for the valuable information.

[@kani6562]

എന്റെ കുഞ്ഞിന് ഒന്നര വയസ്സ് ആയതേ ഉള്ളൂ. നല്ല വാശി ആണ്. Mon എപ്പോഴും പുറത്ത് പോകാൻ വേണ്ടി ആണ് കരച്ചിലും വാശിയും.. ഹുസ്ബൻഡ് ന്റെ വീട്ടിൽ ഉള്ളവർ എപ്പോഴും പുറത്ത് കൊണ്ട് നടന്നു അവനു അത് ഇഷ്ട്ടമാണ്. പക്ഷെ ചില സിറ്റുവേഷൻ le ബുദ്ധിമുട്ട് ആകുന്നുണ്ട്. ഞൻ കൂടെ ഇരുന്നാലും കൊണ്ട് നടന്നാലും എന്റെ അടുത്ത് ഒട്ടും നില്കാതെ ആണ്. ചിലപ്പോ വിഷമം തോന്നും.

[@nebinthomas5011]

Very useful message..God bless you

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you so much 🙂

[@jomyjose9400]

Thank you…..

[@ashamathew8981]

🙂

[@indurajesh1269]

Ma'am, teenagers ine kurichu parents sradhikanda karyangal detail aayi oru video idaamo... Orupad parents inu helpful aakumaayirunnu

[@ashamathew8981]

Mom has done a video on it. kzbin.info/www/bejne/j6W9pHWYe9OUhM0

[@indurajesh1269]

@@ashamathew8981 thank you dear

[@kkitchen4583]

Valarie upakarapradhamaya video aayirunnu 👌👍👍👍

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you 🙂

[@haridas6666]

Right roles!

[@MaryMatilda]

Thank you ❤❤

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you.

[@nalinakumari3]

Very good presentation.

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you.

[@bincysuresh4188]

Hi ma'am good topic 2perum adipoli auntto eniyum nalla videos ayi varanam ketto.god bless you dears.

[@MaryMatilda]

Hai Bincy thanks for being so encouraging. ❤❤🙏

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you so much🙂

[@remyakmkm9260]

Thank you ❤️🩷💜

[@anniejoseph8336]

Very helpful message 👍

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you🙂

[@yesodharank7510]

More thanks.....Teacher

[@muthulakshmir6625]

Super presentation Asha

[@MaryMatilda]

Thank you dear friend.❤❤🙏

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you so much aunty 🙂

[@priya3542]

Waiting for more parenting videos

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you🙂 Will definitely come up with more.

[@sujasara6900]

Very informative thank you both of you

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you 🙂

[@muhammednas3574]

Thanks for this video its very useful 🥰🥰🥰

[@MaryMatilda]

Muhammed Nas❤❤

[@ashamathew8981]

Glad to know that🙂

[@nithyasnuances2100]

Wonderful work my dear teacher ❤❤❤ stay blessed and charming as always.

[@MaryMatilda]

Hai Nithya❤❤❤

[@anilsirscommerceclass6844]

Thank you sweet dear Mam ❤❤❤

[@ancyjohn3510]

Maam 👌 Expecting for teenagers

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you 🙂

[@giftycv5280]

Very very useful video 😊👍👍👍👌👌👌

[@ashamathew8981]

Glad to know that. Thank you 🙂

[@sophiasusanpaul3756]

Very useful

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you🙂

[@devinaanna1283]

god bless u mam very very truth speaking

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you 🙂

[@geethasasidharan601]

Wonderful presentation 👏👌👍, than you teacher for introducing your daughter once again. It's true that nurturing should be according to the temperament of child

[@MaryMatilda]

Thanks dear Geetha.

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you so much🙂

[@johnsonauso5507]

Super

[@MaryMatilda]

Thank you Johnson❤❤🙏

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you.

[@shineyk5304]

Very informative

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you!

[@milsdevvibes9983]

Thanks mary teacher and asha... Teacher can you suggest techniques applicable to teens?

[@ashamathew8981]

Thanks for watching and commenting. kzbin.info/www/bejne/j6W9pHWYe9OUhM0 I hope this helps.

[@bindutv4847]

I'm your follower, Mm

[@priyaravi9791]

Very interesting mam. Informative. Asha doing great work..👏👏

[@MaryMatilda]

Dear Priya thank you. ❤❤🙏

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you so much 🙂

[@ponnusvlog3876]

Mam grandparents nu matramay oru vedio cheyyuo, nammal parayumbo avark eshtapedunnilla kuttikalkk ella vashiyum sathichu kodukkum ammamar jolik poyal avaranu makkale nokkunne, so kuttikalkk vashi kudi kudi varunnu avar ellam sadichu kodukkumbo

[@ashamathew8981]

Thanks much for watching and commenting. We will try to do a video. Pakshe grandparents ine correct cheyan paadayirikum. Especially kuttiye nokaan avare depend cheyendi varumbo avarodu inganeye cheyavunnu parayunnathu avarku vishamamavum. Mathramalla, kunju vashi pidichu karayumbo enganeyum karachil nirthane avar nokku. Athu avarude nature aanu. Nammude part nammal cheyuka, avarude part avar cheyate🙂 ithu oru challenging situation aanu, I agree.

[@ponnusvlog3876]

@@ashamathew8981 k mam

[@Ayisha6639]

ഞാൻ ആറും മൂന്നും വയസ്സുള്ള രണ്ട് കുട്ടികളുടെ അമ്മയാണ്,കല്യാണത്തിന് മുൻപ് ഞാൻ വളരെ active ആയ ചുറുചുറുക്കുള്ള ഒരാൾ ആയിരുന്നു, എന്തു സിറ്റുവേഷൻസിലും matured ആയി പെരുമാറാൻ എനിക്ക് കഴിയുമായിരുന്നു, എന്നാൽ ആദ്യത്തെ മോൾ ജനിച്ച ശേഷം എനിക്ക് post patrum deppression, thyroid problems, pcod എല്ലാം വന്നു, അതുകൊണ്ടാണോ എന്നറിയില്ല ഞാൻ ആൾ ആകെ മാറി, മോളെ വളർത്തുമ്പോൾ എനിക്ക് ഒരുപാട് താ ളപ്പിഴകൾ പറ്റി,ഞാൻ ഒരിക്കലും എന്റെ മോൾക് നല്ല ഒരു അമ്മയായിരുന്നില്ല. ചേച്ചി മുൻപൊരു വിഡിയോയിൽ പറഞ്ഞത് പോലെ അവളെക്കുറിച്ച് എനിക്ക് ഒരുപാട് expectation ആയിരുന്നു, but അവൾ അതിനു വിപരീതമായി പെരുമാറുമ്പോൾ എനിക്ക് ദേഷ്യവും സങ്കടവും ഒന്നും control ചെയ്യാൻ പറ്റാതായി, തോന്നിയപോലെ മോളോട് പെരുമാറി. അന്ന് എന്റെ parents എന്നെ ഒരുപാട് കാര്യങ്ങളിൽ തിരുത്താൻ ശ്രമിച്ചെങ്കിലും എനിക്ക് അതൊന്നും ഉൾകൊള്ളാൻ ആയില്ല, പിന്നീട് രണ്ടാമത്തെ കുഞ്ഞുണ്ടായപ്പോഴേക്കും എനിക്ക് എന്റെ mistakes മനസ്സിലാവാൻ തുടങ്ങി പക്ഷെ അപ്പോഴേക്കും എന്റെ മൂത്ത മോൾ ആകെ മോശമായിപ്പോയിരുന്നു, ഏതു കാര്യവും അടി കിട്ടിയാൽ മാത്രമേ ചെയ്യൂ എന്ന അവസ്ഥയിലാണവൾ ഇപ്പോൾ.ഒരുപാട് കുറ്റബോധം തോന്നുന്നു, പക്ഷെ എങ്ങനെ ഇതിൽ നിന്നും പുറത്ത് കടക്കുമെന്ന് അറിയില്ല, ഇനി ഒരു അമ്മയ്ക്കും ഇതുപോലെ ഒരു അവസ്ഥ വരാതിരിക്കാനാണ് ഞാൻ ഈ എക്സ്പീരിയൻസ് share ചെയ്യുന്നത്. ചേച്ചിക്ക് എന്നെ ഒന്ന് help ചെയ്യാമോ.... Reply please

[@ashamathew8981]

Hi Izza! Thank you for sharing this. Please do not blame yourself. This realization and the willingness to change itself makes you a parent no less than anyone else. It's never too late. Establishing a strong connection is the foundation and we can do it at any age, just that the earlier the better and the easier. Since kids are naturally inclined to be attached to parents, we can regain the connection even after it's lost. I'll soon do a video on it. I hope it will help you.

[@Ayisha6639]

@@ashamathew8981 Thank you for your valuable words, it means a lot to me, waiting.... 🤞🏻

[@sarithapm2097]

എന്റെ അനുഭവം ഇത് തന്നെയാണ്.. ഞാൻ ഇപ്പോൾ മകളോട് കൂടുതൽ സ്നേഹം കാണിക്കാറുണ്ട്. അവളെ ഒരു കൂട്ടുകാരിയായി കാണുന്നു.

[@Ayisha6639]

@@sarithapm2097 മോൾക് എത്ര വയസ്സുണ്ട്

[@sarithapm2097]

@@Ayisha6639 8 year

[@gireeshgireesh4232]

👍👍👍👍👍👍ഗുഡ്

[@geethu891]

Mam kuttikalude deshyam control cheyan tips paranju tharamo..

[@ashamathew8981]

I can share what I do. I try to make sure that my daughter gets enough time for free play and physical activity. I also try to reduce the number of times I say no to her. I try to say yes and let her do things according to her wish whenever possible. Also, when she is angry or upset, I show empathy and validate her feelings. I tell her I know how it feels for her etc. That makes her feel better. Then I hug her and console her. Sometimes when she is very angry she doesn't like me hugging her. So I sit with her and wait until she is ready for a hug. If the child is trying to hurt herself or someone else, she has to be immediately removed from the situation before trying the above things.

[@sarithachacko252]

Very true

[@ashamathew8981]

🙂

[@sri6591]

യ്യോ, ഞാൻ full wrong ആയിരുന്നോ. പാവം എന്റെ കുഞ്ഞു. ഇന്ന് മുതൽ തിരുത്താൻ ശ്രെമിക്കാം ❤

[@ashamathew8981]

Thanks much for watching and commenting🙂

[@englishclasses7451]

💞

[@saranyaaneesh7274]

Me too😭

[@girijav2496]

Asha njan Aryayude Amma.Asha parayunnathe valare correct aane.

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you so much aunty. Ithu valiya surprise ayi. Video kandathilum comment cheythathilum orupadu santhosham❤

[@APSArts]

Nicepresentation❤️🙏🏻

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you!

[@anishavineesh584]

Tq mamm

[@ashamathew8981]

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[@kmlaly1]

Shariyanu asha. 👍👍👍

[@MaryMatilda]

Laly❤❤🙏

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you so much🙂

[@dr.pvjoseph-lifeskilltrain720]

👍All the tips are relavent, effective because from own experience

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you sir🙂

[@MaryMatilda]

Thank you❤🙏

[@sruthikv3371]

Mam... Ente 6 years ulla mon nalla freedom koduthanu valarthiyath.. So he is very smart.. But very weak in studies..so I am tensioned... Enik avante padithathil lock down time l school l pokathond serikk nokkan pattilaa.. Because I am also a student.. Njn ente padithathil kooduthal sredhichu.. Mon ipol padikkan theere interest illa mam.. Athilek thirich konduvaran enthanu njn cheyyandath?? Padikkunna time verenthello karyamgalil aanu sredha so enik deshyam varum adichu pokuem cheyyunnu.. Ipo avan vilichal padikkan varillaa escape aavan sremikkum

[@jayalakshmigk386]

Lucky daughter

[@ashamathew8981]

🙂

[@sahadvmd3531]

super

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you🙂

[@sharonmaria2744]

Hi mam. Lovely video. Is your daughter Montessori trained ? I am trying so hard but sometimes I lose my cool so often because I feel they don’t listen at all.

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you Sharon. My daughter is my trainer and parenting experience is my training 🙂 It's quite normal to get angry. But thinking from the kid's perspective may help to remain calm. When I realised that it's not easy for them either, having to always seek permission, to hear 'no' many times, to live each day as decided by someone else, I was able to change my ways.

[@momsgaudium1157]

Super👍👍👍❤️

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you🙂

[@shymaashuaib1136]

Oru ADHD Childne engane deal cheyynm ennathin kurich oru video idumo plss

[@ashamathew8981]

I'm sorry Shymaa. I'm not equipped for it.

[@sreelathadevi3015]

മാഡത്തിന്റെ കുറച്ചൂടെ enejeti ആണ്

[@DaughterofRainNishamadhushree]

Wellsaid👏👏👏👏

[@MaryMatilda]

Thank you Nisha❤❤🙏

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you chechi🙂

[@sreelathadevi3015]

വളരെ നല്ല വീഡിയോ ❤❤. ഒരു കാര്യം പറയട്ടെ. നഖ്‌ള്ളക് ക്ലാസ്സ്‌ തന്നെ. But മാഡത്തിന്റെ അത്ര ഭംഗിആയില്ല എന്ന് സംശയം. ഒന്നും തോന്നരുതേ...... ആദ്യം കേൾക്കുന്നത്കൊണ്ടാവാം

[@rincyrichard6044]

It's really a useful video for all the mothers. Thank you so much for all the points.❤

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you so much for watching and commenting🙂

[@misriyamisri6211]

F jk ko

[@sreelathadevi3015]

ഒരു 40 വർഷം മുൻപേ കേ ട്ടി രുന്നവങ്കിൽ എന്ന് ആശിച്ചു പോകുന്നു

[@nalinakumari3]

TV കാണിച്ച കുഞ്ഞുങ്ങൾ ടീവി ഉണ്ടെങ്കിലേ ഉണ്ണുള്ളൂ ഉറങ്ങുള്ളൂ. മറ്ജ്രമല്ല ഈ കോവിഡ് കാലത്ത് സംസാരംപോലും ഇല്ലാത്തവരായി തീരുന്നു. ഇതിനെന്തു പ്രതിവിധി?

[@ashamathew8981]

Oru fixed time il mathram TV kanan anuvadikua. Njan evening 1 hour aanu TV kanikaru. 1 hour avumbo off cheyum. Off cheyunnathinu 5 or 10 minutes munbu kuttiyodu parayum off cheyarayennu. Avar athinu prepared avan vendi. Ennitu paranjathu pole thanne off cheyum. Karanjalum pinne kanan sammathikilla. Pakshe karayumbo njan kshamayode koode irunnu avale ashwasipikum. Chila divasam aval ravile thanne TV kananamennu parayum. Apo njan ravile TV kanichitu evening kanikilla. Oru divasam 1 hour il kooduthal kanan sammathikilla ethra vashi pidichalum. Pakshe vazhakkum parayilla. Pinne food kazhikumbo oru karanavashalum TV vaykarilla. Allathe food kazhikillennu paranjal "saramilla, ipo vishappu illayirikum, pinne food kazhicha mathi" ennu parayum. Ennitu kurachu kazhinju food kodukum. Mikavarum vishappu undenkil apo food kazhikum. Pinne kunjine vere karyangalil engaged aakkan nokum. Purathu nadakan kondu povum, koode kalikum, books vayikum, drawing cheyum, stories parayum, paattu paadum etc..

[@funnyworld205]

വളരെ ശരിയാണ്. പത്ത് വയസ് വരെ കുട്ടികളേ അടിക്കുകയോ ചീത്ത പറയുകയോ ചെയ്യരുത് എന്നാണ് പ്രവാചകൻ മുഹമ്മദ് നബി (സ) പറഞ്ഞിരിക്കുന്നത്.

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you for watching and commenting🙂

[@meenanandan6359]

👌👌👌

[@ashamathew8981]

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[@noreply_youtube]

❤❤

[@ashamathew8981]

🙂

[@padmajapk4678]

👌👌👌👌

[@sreejaanandram6446]

👍👍👍

[@sonyjames561]

Ethu parayam mutual anu positive discipline start cheyyendathu? Plz replay Nte kunju 1.5 yr akunnathe ullu

[@ashamathew8981]

Ethu prayathilum thudangam. The earlier the better.

[@aswaniakhilan1050]

Epozhum gentle handlingnu purame chilapo oke kunju kunju cheethakalum nallathalle allekil aarekilum onnu cheruthayi deshyapettal polum vallathe feel cheyunna tharathil aayi poyalo

[@ashamathew8981]

As a child, feeling sensitive or feeling any emotions is a part of healthy development. They will definitely face a lot of challenges and setbacks from the real world. So I don't see the need for parents to throw such challenges to them. Studies say that having a positive parent or any positive adult for that matter helps the child to cope with such challenges in the long run. So positive parenting acts as a buffer against negative experiences. By listening to their woes empathetically and validating their feelings, they will feel better and will slowly learn to handle such emotions by themselves. At the same time, as parents we can also give opportunities and have conversations to increase their self confidence. We can also share similar stories that we experienced and how we dealt with them. Above all, we can be good role models in how we handle setbacks.

[@aswaniakhilan1050]

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