What Men Need in Order to Commit to You | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

[@matboggs]

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10:59 ;)

[@fahmilaila366]

Thank you for introducing us to your beautiful wife❤

[@ladymary9296]

What she did is called dignity. She has dignity. nothing diplomatic or tricky or games. How silly are we thinking you can hide something from people .

[@thinkforyourselfjohn3163]

Indeed.

[@earthloveskin375]

I love this! And that's so amazing of you to recognise it! ❤

[@AlexisMaria]

If others were honest we would not feel the need to hide Maria! Love your photo! Great selfie :) x

[@GoldChocobo77]

Very true. It would have been so easy to start acting "bitchy" and play games to test how much he really loved her. Very inspiring what she did instead, with much respect and love toward herself and him too.

[@stormstringfellow3928]

Powerful ❤️❤️

[@ptrsrfns]

Honestly, the secret to a successful relationship is saying what you want, and be willing to walk away if you don't get it. Love can't be forced, it needs to be shown in a way that lets the other person be free to come to you. That shows self respect, and respect for the other person as well. I know it's not easy cause we tend to be emotional beings, but patience really helps when dating. Also, be nice when interacting... Noone wants someone who is "salty". I'm 40 and still dating, and by no means perfect, but once I started thinking with this mindset it's definitely improved my dating life.

[@camillamartz8179]

Amen. I have learned slot. Men think very different from women. When women understand that you have a great chance of making it work.

[@insightstory5933]

Your 40 and still not married and giving relationship advice to others . How many relationships have you had!

[@charmainekhadaroo9232]

Well said.

[@callisastapp7160]

I agree about self respect, but just walking away when you're bored or "it's just not working out" just teaches you to rely on the chemical high of falling in love, and lowers your standard of who gets your heart

[@tinaschultz1976]

Awesome

[@sonaves5640]

I tell all my friends, I trust this man amongst all love coaches, specifically because he is happily married, and not stupidly single.

[@larissastreet7732]

Absolutely

[@artsmadz1427]

I would agree 100%.

[@tdlowe1999]

Amen to that @So Naves

[@sonaves5640]

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[@AnaS-jn3wu]

Stupidly single? Haven’t you ever been “stupidly single” ? Were you worthless back then? You didn’t have good opinions and clarity, just because you were “stupidly single”?

[@alyssamarie5483]

So brave of Irene to admit how she was shaking inside...there’s incredible strength in being that vulnerable and being prepared to hear what you possibly don’t want to hear. Happy anniversary 💕

[@How.Dare.You.]

Now after 13 years together? I dont think theres any bravery there

[@alyssamarie5483]

@@How.Dare.You. It's not brave to be that committed and that in love with 13 years?

[@meagiesmuse2334]

I did the same thing after waiting 2 yrs. and it was the second time we'd spent 2 yrs. together, with a 6 yr. break in the middle. I got the other answer, the one you never want to hear. In fact he ran without giving me closure, and I fell apart for a very long time, but at least he never saw it. You have to be ready for it not to end the way you want.

[@GoldChocobo77]

@@How.Dare.You. Alyssa meant it was brave of her to have that hard conversation 10 years ago. Not that it's brave now to admit how she felt at the time....

[@insightstory5933]

Yes , she was shaking inside , thats what a man should realize, even though we put on a brave face , we don't want guys to leave us and it is very insensitive and selfish of a guy to make a woman through this, just coz he is not certain of a commitment after enjoying all the benefits

[@milwaukeemotor5995]

"time doesn't give you clarity", exactly, love is a decision

[@maxscot4236]

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[@besalapi630]

Love is a decision?? Really!???? No, love is a feeling ...

[@maxscot4236]

@@besalapi630 hello do you need help ?I know of someone who can help you on this , he helled me get my ex back

[@sarahv.o7031]

Your videos helped me to get my now husband to commit. We got married in June and are now expecting our first baby.Thank you so much!

[@nancysoukup6545]

Congratulations

[@Kiky812]

Wow! Great testimony, thanks and congratulations 🎊

[@katstyles7001]

Awe congratulations ❤️

[@Donnellatilery]

finally a happily married relationship expert

[@mightyobserver12]

Tony gaskins

[@zoraidacastro5403]

Lol

[@namiebimba8542]

Yes! Along with Tony Gaskins, Jr.; R.C. Blakes; and Bern Mendez to name some of the other top, HAPPILY MARRIED, coaches that I follow/trust

[@Therealinvisiblecloak]

This!

[@alannalc]

They are many unmarried relationship experts that get great results for their clients regardless

[@alexaodgr8]

“Behind every great man is a great woman”. We knew she had to be amazing and finally seeing her has far exceeded our expectations. I know I’m not alone in saying that she embodies the strength, class and dignity we all strive to achieve. Congratulations to you both!

[@marrencebaraquiel]

@@icysnow57cold64 do u even date? Lol

[@marrencebaraquiel]

@@icysnow57cold64 have u heard about yin and yang? They are different but they compliment/ complete each other.

[@marrencebaraquiel]

@@icysnow57cold64 opposite attracts babe

[@tinaschultz1976]

I love your love ❤️

[@Leeohlin89]

@@icysnow57cold64 no disrespect here but it plainly sounds like you’re ‘inexperienced’. Because if you were, these questions wouldn’t be so mysterious to you. You’d fundamentally and instinctively understand how A man and woman bond/interact on all levels therefore helping you differentiate the chemistries between them wether it be platonic or romantic. It’s actually got less to do with science and more with the nature of it all. That naturally explains everything you’re asking. The modus of operandi of relationships between people of all types. Gay, straight,bi ect.. whichever you identify with. Because what you just described here about both men and women isn’t entirely answered for all. So many things you left out, like the psychological issues most people have that can affect them from being intimate or trusting and many other factors that come into play here. Instead you generalize. This is how I can tell you’re inexperienced. And that’s okay, you’re probably a freshman in college maybe a graduate by now. But all I can leave with here is get out into the real world and experience different things especially with what your questions pertain to. 🙏🏼

[@Pipsterz]

This is what an emotionally mature woman looks like; no games, words or tricks uttered recklessly. Just honest & calm truth. Separate any condition that he must be 'the one' and simply state what you want. Well done. I love Irene.

[@natashamelissa__]

Mat, you really need Irene to join you for more videos. I love your videos but this one was even more helpful than the others. It’s great to hear your perspective and her perspective. Get her to guest star again!

[@redi206]

Yeah Good thought I 100!%agree with that.

[@workinprogress6282]

" time doesn't give you clarity. DEPTH gives you the clarity." Happy Anniversary 🎊

[@Dryellee]

She has deep eyes and this calm and very feminine aura around her... It's powerful and inspiring at the same time!

[@rondas7772]

The fact is a man needs to somehow want to stay and fight in the relationship even during times of uncertainty. Girls just be your authentic self, if he's for you, he'll love you and be happy in it!!

[@estrellakc]

Feminine energy to express your boundaries is the way to go.... Good for you guys!

[@kafuidebrah]

Mat your wife is beautiful 😍 I love the duo presentation 👍🏽😃

[@iuliacoanda5073]

I give love and put pressure on my husband very often, almost from the beggining of the relationship and to be honest i'm ready to leave when i say it. I think it's best to take a man that you are not crazy in love with, because big attraction it's gonna cloud your conffidence and you will not be 50% in the relationship. I think Irene is so sweet and let you be confused 2 years hiding her feelings. I wouldn't do that. I could waste 2 years from my life and is not fair. Kisses from Romania😘

[@juliesalter4363]

Love this presentation. Your wife is precious..

[@jenn9729]

I thoroughly enjoy all your videos and this one with your wife was extra helpful for me! I recently had the "talk" with my guy and used your wife's approach to help me articulate what I wanted. We are now in a committed relationship and our intimacy has grown deeper by opening up more with each other. Thanks so much :-)

[@lisacrawford4501]

Not wtgo ..y'all like black men😂🤣😂😂

[@waitingodsgrace]

I guess the most important thing is to be very clear in yourself who you are and what you want...

[@barbaramorrison1363]

She was at peace with herself and she know exactly what she wanted

[@darynadar6707]

100% true!!!

[@shayk.393]

you Go Girl !

[@erinidayu142]

You both just can't get your hands off of each other , which is sweet ❤️

[@fatimagerendasobiols6252]

I did this with a 4years boyfriend, exactly the same, and he decided to walk away. It was hard, but necessary and to be sincere it was the best thing I've ever done! It's a great thing to do! Even if it goes south it's an important thing to clear out

[@vem8256]

How did you get back on track after he left? What is he doing with his life now?

[@hzy9625]

Oh my god, such a lovely wife, god bless you all. Wish you and your lovely family all the best 💐💐💐💐

[@karistarling5482]

You two are adorable! Have your wife on more often! You make a nicely balanced team. Her strength adds value to this platform.

[@rohidassonawane7290]

You also soo positive and looking beautiful

[@carolclover1238]

As many have said...do more...Together videos...it was very helpful to get..both sides...opinions snd insight

[@kristina_9674]

Your story is almost identical to my parents'. they were long distance dating in different countries: my mother was a very serious medical student, quite and reserved good girl, and my dad was this adventurous 15 year her senior bachelor. After 2 years of long distance penpalling and him coming to see her every 3-4 months (always with her parents present), she wrote to him that she thought she should devote more time to her studies and maybe they should break up so each of them could do their goals in life. That prompted my dad to drive 2 days to see her and propose. Now they are 37 years together, 3 kids, I am the oldest 🥰🥰🥰 such a strong couple, very opposite in their character but thats exactly why they match. My mother stuck with my dad even when he lost his business to bankruptcy and she had to be a breadwinner for years until my dad get back on his feet from all debtors and started a new business.

[@carmeltonedbarbie1747]

I hope he didn't loose the business chasing younger women? Sorry, but despite loosing his business, "dealing with debtors..." has no barring on Dad getting some other type of job to maintain his masculinity and provide for his family. A few months of self doubt, sure...we get it, but years?? No sis, he just had too much pride and entitlement and didn't want to work a job where he was no longer the boss. Instead, he'd rather put your mother in the masculine and stressful role. Let's hope her building his business and savings back up, she doesn't discover he was cheating all along AND eventually leave her for a younger woman. 💯

[@NianaMbetshu]

@@carmeltonedbarbie1747 👌🏽💯

[@clairelivefreeordie2551]

What a beautiful story...thank you for sharing!

[@patty8945]

Your wife is beautiful and very grounded. ❤️🥰

[@tracyevans3978]

She knew what she wanted! I know what I want and after 2 years of dating a very good match for me, he decided he doesn't want marriage. It was a really fantastic relationship, few red flags and a little baggage. At 50+ years young, we come with our quirks and triggers. Thank you for the reassurance that standing firm is the way to go.

[@carmeltonedbarbie1747]

You're getting closer to turning 70 not 21. Being young at heart only, doesn't change the biological fact in which 50 isn't young. You also need to maintain a youthful and healthy appearance. At your age, 2 years is too much time.

[@vem8256]

So did he change his mind or did you just move on?

[@vem8256]

@@carmeltonedbarbie1747 what does that have to do with her comment?

[@maddyG7414]

@@carmeltonedbarbie1747 love people who give their unsolicited opinion on other people’s personal lives..

[@carmeltonedbarbie1747]

@@vem8256 comprehension is definitely not your strength.

[@ivylieve3165]

you go girl! It isn't easy to say goodbye to someone you have spent a fair amount of time with, but it is also important to not suffer with someone who doesn't meet the desire of your heart on being your person. Love this video!

[@leopardlily3398]

She knew what she wanted! That’s key. That’s where my work lies... I think the fear and confusion deep inside about what I want trips me up and leads to hurt. When you know, you cast aside what’s not right for you and remain open to what is... you become like a filter. I’ve spend my entire life settling, for less... too much sadness in my heart with dating and relationships. I’m doing deep work surrounding this right now. It’s time to do it differently, the old way just doesn’t work anymore. Happy Anniversary to you both ❤️ your wife seems lovely and strong with in herself and radiates it outward✨✨✨

[@gwortman3515]

Keep working on yourself...your the only one in your own court..be your best!!

[@belindaroulston152]

I am looking for a man who is loyal, caring, funny, honest, respect, and I have found him. I am totally in love with my man. He is amazing.

[@harrymarkson7971]

I got back my ex wife with the help of someone who was able to bring back my ex wife and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems too 💕💕💕💕💕

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Text him on what's app 💕💕💕

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[@はII]

She is soooo pretty ❤️

[@zoraidacastro5403]

I absolutely love her and both of their honesty. She was very influential in his decision!!!!!

[@savannahlibardi5163]

She’s awesome! She needs her own channel I want to hear more from her mind!

[@eboli7146]

Irene is an amazing woman and this message was very powerful. So many of us - myself included - get caught up in these stories of undying love and romance with "the One" which lead to codependency and low self esteem. This woman demonstrated that by committing to yourself FIRST, holding yourself with dignity and honesty is far more important than trying to hold onto anything external. Thank you for sharing

[@tanyat3254]

That was brilliant!!! Before asking what do i want in a man. The question is what do i need to become in order to be a good wife. Then u will attract what u need.

[@thinkforyourselfjohn3163]

✔✔

[@tanyat3254]

Thank u Matt

[@IGFavorites]

I totally see why Mat always says 'my amazing wife' Irene is truly amazing! Thanks for letting us meet her. You are such a sweet couple, you have my best wishes ⚘❤

[@griffinmilks3323]

Hi

[@richardrivas3294]

When you believe that you deserve a good guy, that’s when you will attract him.Your brain will filter out the trash

[@pittapittamim]

I got married because of you both. Thank you so much Matt and Irene.

[@pastoralexiaburgesshuart2020]

This is an age old truth. My mom gave my dad this ultimatum to make a decision many years ago. They celebrated 67 years of marriage, last August. May you enjoy each this long and more!

[@barbarradevlin9111]

This is the most powerful advice I have ever received. I have had horrible commitment issues myself because of fear of not being 100% sure. But what I took away most in this advice is that I need to be 100% sure in myself that I will be okay no matter what, and that I do not need to be 100% in someone else. I need self-validation, not validation from another person. Thank you so much!

[@amywezell8569]

I've had long term relationships that were not what I wanted and never got married. I didn't feel they were ready so. I just usually move on. I want a guy who respects himself and his women, who is not controlling and dosnt have too much baggage. A desire to be with someone for the rest of our lives.

[@laragastao4694]

I love it! I would love to see more videos with Irene, she has an amazing energy!

[@thia4218]

This was so refreshing and gives me hope for my next relationship. I realized that I can't force someone to commit no matter how much I try to prove I am enough for that person. She is so strong but in a feminine way and you are confident. Good video 👍.

[@auliarahmaputri5742]

My tears up with joy when I watch this video, Many wishes for you guys God Bless you.

[@MireyaR78]

I normally don’t comment but I must say it was incredible to see the both of you United but also freely sharing your different experiences and perspectives in this chapter of your journey together. I had a moment like Irene as as well. It did not end in a happily ever after. I got my heart broken but it allowed me to walk away without doubts, heal and move on.

[@truthbetold4350]

@@trellnba176 No you didn’t you liar and scam artist!

[@dracocaelestis6370]

my story is almost identical. i moved out, told him that he i am ok with whatever he decides, that no matter what i’ll appreciate him for who he is and for everything he did for me, but that due to our circumstances we need to decide what we’ll do. did not talk to him at all until he got back to me a day and a half later. we’re married and doing great.

[@kasturinaidoo6634]

Matt I think this was the best video yet!!! So real and vulnerable. Thank you

[@jennaayoub5236]

Depth gives you clarity---so true! Irene is grounded and beautiful...so glad to see her here.

[@LoveGuruGreg]

The best relationship advice is, Love yourself first.

[@lilisetyarini7850]

Yeah I've done it and it makes me single for years, cuz the more I love myself, the more I don't like guys hhh, help :(

[@Ymont0326]

I want him to have clarity in what he wants, I want him to be happy within himself and to be able to communicate and show his love.

[@lankabhumi1114]

What I like the most is her saying "thank you for acknowledging"😊

[@makeoveryoursoul]

I’m looking for someone who is just as committed to themselves/their own growth & to me as I am to myself & to to him. Mutual love, respect, understanding, & passion. Same vision & goal for our life. My perfect compliment.

[@cestrumnocturnum7771]

I need to get to this stage. I thought I could,to make a stand,but I’m jelly. This is what a HEALTHY relationship looks like.

[@laudysantos5391]

I like to tell my man " you're such a blessing in my life". he gets such a huge smile on his face

[@milwaukeemotor5995]

i like how the dating coach shared his personal story

[@theaspiebridge]

First - I completed my first marriage at 22 years- though we still wish each other a Happy Anniversary on the date- we both grew up together and realized our real differences (will give details) Second - I created 5 core values that we each had to live by in order for a relationship to work for BOTH of us.

[@AntheaPeter]

This is profound stuff..can’t believe you’re even sharing it for free! Thank you so much for sharing this. It is incredibly relevant to what I’m going though right now

[@ShlomoJesmerRelationshipCoach]

This was a fun watch. Thank you. I've been happily married for seven years now. I dated my wife for one month before we got engaged. But we dated intending to meet our life partner, so the dates were practical.

[@virginiahpeter9406]

Wow, practical dates resulted to your marriage. Congratulations

[@crownedmelaninqueen]

The dates were intentional!

[@lv8025]

I absolutely love your wife! Thank you to her for being a source of female inspiration ❤️ best wishes for many years to come. Thank you Matt for sharing your journey ❤️❤️❤️

[@Saturnreturn123]

She’s so angelic!

[@Shivaaa1717]

She's so beautiful & also very wise

[@rockthebedroom]

What a treat this was to watch! Such authenticity ... and you two are adorable together. Way to go, Irene, showing us girls what standing up for what you really want looks like. 👍

[@elopez198725]

Listening this I sobbed so much. This is literally what I need to do with the person I love and I've been terrified to do it but I know it will be the thing to finally know if this person is in or out or move on. Thank you for this video!

[@lesleymay6757]

How did it go??????

[@emeralddaughters]

I love her demeanor and energy. They look so sweet together. Couples like these make me reconsider relationships.

[@OkJess0404]

What am I looking for? A man to have the freedom to not commit with me. A man to love me for me just as I am. A man to just be honest with what he wants with me. Above all else, a man of God who will lead us to the Father daily. I chose the wrong man my first marriage and I won’t do it again! Great video you two! Thanks for sharing with us 😃

[@motherandson4402]

This good, so the key is for the woman to know what she wants. Love it. A confident woman is better than an insecure one.

[@noraO2833]

You both compliment each other so well...such a beautiful couple! 💕I’ve watched your KZbin videos for several years and I have always enjoyed hearing Mat reflecting back on your relationship stories 🌸🌸🌸

[@rohidassonawane7290]

You are very positive girl

[@jenx5084]

Known him my whole life. He's a great man, the kind you can always count on in any situation. He's kind, compassionate, tough as steel, he smart, and handsome and good as gold. Been waiting my whole life for the circumstances to finally get right. Praying so hard, He's my best friend 💓

[@anastasiarondonuwu1107]

Amazing!!! So true... my beautiful man after 2.5 yrs has told me that he wants to be with me forever just like you guys... amen 🙏 God bless you guys and your beautiful family 🌟

[@harrymarkson7971]

I got back my ex wife with the help of someone who was able to bring back my ex wife and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems too 💕💕💕💕

[@harrymarkson7971]

Text him on what's app 💕💕💕

[@harrymarkson7971]

+ 2 3 4 8 0 7 7 7 5 1 6 9 5 💕💕💕

[@tillymason-ro9dm]

My man and I had a break for 6 months, he was afraid of commitment, it took him 6 months to think about our relationship, we are now back together stronger than ever . I have been watching your video's and they have really helped me , thank you. Irene you have a great guy --- and Mat , you have a great girl .

[@marianw4280]

Thank you, Mat and Irene. I did this two days ago. I have cried and cried and prayed, waiting for the call he says he wants to have with me about this ultimatum. I did not think I had done the smartest thing by doing this at the time until I saw this video so thank you for sharing.

[@truthbetold4350]

Well, what happened! Did you guys get back together?

[@adela3311]

I watch this everyday to bring me courage to say what i want in my life and Irene helped me to become this confident women and guide me in gaining my feminine energy back..You guys are such a lovely and power dynamic couple.. would love to see her more in your channel.. lots of love from Malaysia 🇲🇾

[@mrsfoss3368]

I loved the quiz! I laughed so so much! I'm in a new marriage, after a 29yr abusive marriage... this thing called doubt. . You know, I've realised that no one is EVERYTHING... you will not get a partner that is ALL you want them to be... but, if you are lucky to find that soul mate (or do we create that? 😉) you'll see that those things they cannot be for you, are not worth worrying about because ALL THAT THEY DO BRING, is heaven on Earth! Don't sweat the small stuff guys! I hope you can all be as happy and blessed as my hubby and I are ❣

[@suecole5543]

I think this is the key .To say . .i love you so much you are the one i want to spend my life with but if you dont' feel the same way about me then we should let go . if its' not you then it will be someone else . i will be okay. Saying this tells' the other person you have my heart but if you dont' want that then im' not going to beg or cry all over you to make you feel bad .you might cry in private but you want someone to love you without seeing tears . i will be okay.❤

[@growinchristiandatingwithc5823]

Thanks for introducing us to your beautiful wife! I love her strength and decision to stand up for what she needed. Also, good job braving your fear and moving forward, Matt! It takes a lot to reveal a vulnerability. :)

[@tundedioszegi7680]

I am going through this right now. I did the same thing, I don't want to go on in ambiguity. After a 3 years relationship, I need clarity. I withdrew and if he doesn't come my way with certainty, then I just need to go on my own way. Yes it is painful, but there is no other way. Your video came at the right time. Thank you!

[@gingerjoy5836]

Aaaaw, your wife is beautiful and so grounded, love that and this Vid!💗So my husband asked me to marry him after 2 weeks of knowing each other😬 I was in love, but definitely had some doubts. Although it was a bit (ok, sometimes waaay more than a bit😆) of a rocky road due to both us, here we are 25+ years later (and 2 grown kids) stronger than we’ve ever been💗

[@silviam.9224]

Wowww!! How you interacted with him and treated him since you 2 met? Which attachment style do you have? 2 weeks that's soo crazily awesome and 25 years of Real Love!! My dream!!!🤩👏👏👏

[@winny1818]

Happy to see sweet couples like you. I have also known this man for about 13 years and got married to him for 9 years but I have just decided to divorce him. This has been a special year for many people including myself to experience turning points in life. You are right that time doesn’t give clarity but depth. So I’m giving him this freedom to not commit to this relationship anymore and I realised he’s happy not to commit to anyone at all. It’s one of the biggest shocks in my life but I‘ve learnt to take courage to let go and move on. It says a successful marraige takes two to acknowledge each other and to fall in love with each other time after time. Thank you for your teachings and for showing to us what a successful marraige is.

[@DiaN-do3jm]

i love this so much, thank you for being open about how vulnerable this topic is for both sides. the energy behind someone's trueness to oneself is so powerful, you tap into your strength and values.

[@liamauer460]

What I’m looking for in a partner is someone who fully loves me and I fully love them. We both also love ourselves and we accept ourselves. We can connect on deep levels-spiritually,mentally, emotionally, physically, sexually, etc. It all flows and we work through challenges together and we grow together. We also work to understand each other’s needs and the communication is great. We both value similar things and we want to create a healing life together full of magical fun and laughter. It’s already here I just have to connect with myself and I will attract what is meant to be.

[@EnlivenWellness]

I love everything about this video. Go Irene for being so strong and go Matt for being so humble 🙏🏻

[@halaali1721]

I love your story. I need a friend who is committed to be my man. A husband who loves, adore, and respect me as much as I resprocat all of that.

[@dr.ayanna]

My wish list: a compatible man who truly connects with and loves me for me.

[@user-sy1yt9nk5c]

CONGRATS TO BOTH OF YOU, WONDERFUL, NICE COUPLE!!! We loved your life story & wish you all the BLESSINGS of the UNIVERSE with U+yr CHILDREN!

[@staceywilliams1624]

I’ve been waiting to meet heeerrrr!! T’was a pleasure! ☺️☺️☺️ And the couples challenge was so cute!! 😆❤️❤️❤️

[@shirleymadiva6886]

Love you two!! Beautiful couple!! I’m divorced after 33yrs!! God bless you both and your family 🙏🏽💕

[@jefflaniajiffy3375]

I love when Irene makes an appearance on your videos. We love Irene!

[@angelicdavis9522]

So sweet you too acting like newlyweds after being married for 9 years that is the kind of love I would love to find

[@richardrivas3294]

When you believe that you deserve a good guy, that’s when you will attract him.Your brain will filter out the trash

[@isabella-fs2rk]

Me and my boyfriend are 18 and 19 years old and we have so many doubts because we are so young and everybody is telling us that its just teenage love. We let other relationships and people put doubts in our relationship. We had a breaking point asking eachother do we really want this, a future together, a life together..maybe we aren’t for eachother. But we came to the point that we love, trust and respect eachother, we have great communication and we stayed together, we feared those qestions but they helped us realise that only we can decide how out future would look. I would like a video from you about doubts, fights and scary question like are we really for eachother or is this a person that will be mine for a short period of time. It would mean a lot to me and young adults who fight with the standarts of this society looking at young relationships as childish and short term.

[@veramariecano289]

One has to be stable to provide steadfastness and surety, for partner when needed, because it will be needed.

[@Roxanaedoavila]

This made me emotional, specially towards the end. Seeing the beautiful relationship you both have was amazing, and it confirmed to me that this is exactly what I want. Thank you for sharing your story, you both have beautiful souls :-)

[@anyasilka2325]

What s beautiful couple inside and out! A really Quality pair! Love your interactions and fun and honesty. Learned a lot! God Bless you and your family!

[@sushisaschi7744]

This was REALLY helpful!

[@nehashetty2803]

Oooh you guys so adorable, I would love to have a relationship like this ♥️ Happy anniversary guys wish you a lifetime of togetherness and ever growing loving relationship 💕

[@HL-yb6jt]

You guys are so adorable🥰See how u guys can’t keep your hands of each other🥰 hold on tight. My husband n I 20y married still going strong..🥰

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[@stephblenheim4283]

I think for a lot of women this wouldn't work out for them as this would push the man away issuing an ultimatum but I'm really glad for your transparency because it shows real vulnerability and this is real not fake. It confronted you with your fears and it's admirable you're both so transparent and don't sugar coat anything. She's a wonderful strong woman and this is really lovely to see you both so happy.

[@ronarovira5491]

I'm looking for a partner who will love me unconditionally and will accept me as I am. Congratulations to both of you! 👌👏

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[@nickijohnson1398]

You two are just amazing, loved this video! Thank you both 💖

[@beloncewanjiru2417]

I am looking for a man who would love me put the same energy as me and atleast try to be real and a loyal man

[@conniesmith8863]

I am looking for a commitment...someone to spend the rest of my life with..who loves me for me and as much as I love them...

[@mgsol3316]

Amazing video! This is just the advice I needed to hear in the situation I’m currently in, which is almost identical to yours. Thank you for sharing your words of wisdom. Irene is absolutely lovely and has so much wisdom. Looking forward to more videos with both of you. God bless your marriage and beautiful family.

[@LucaAnamaria]

Sounds like you both did the work. I think it's vital that a woman ground herself and speak her truth and be ready to walk away BUT if the guy doesn't do his half of the grounding and deep diving, it's not going to work. I like this video and I agree with it 100%. I just don't want women to think it's all on them and if they do everything as described, the guy will come around. It's not all on you, ladies. Do your best and if it doesn't work, it has nothing to do with your worth or not executing this perfectly. Be kind to yourself and move on without regrets if he doesn't reciprocate. And don't allow his reciprocation (or lack thereof) to define your worth. Xo

[@nhiza1991]

Very true!

[@PerfectPicture2012]

She is the wise one, hold to her for your dear life!

[@mc95]

This made me emotional. Thank you for sharing.

[@NofyahShemTov]

Last week I told him I want to spend the new year with people who love me and appreciate me and he needs to decide if he fits in that definition.