7 Signs He's Ready For a Serious Relationship | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

[@matboggs]

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[@beckyharper6263]

His interaction with others, the way he handles conflict, views on faith, family and how he loves himself.

[@maribelpalacios4331]

Consistent. Futuristic. Curious. Excited. Prioritizes you. Invests. Pays attention to detail.

[@ameraagao3232]

Emotionally matured and a man who can accept a broken woman..

[@Lilith_Asmodeus94]

100% agree with you on this

[@Laura-Yu]

Don’t think it’s healthy for either partner to be “broken.”

[@HellenofTroy897]

A broken woman should heal first?

[@happyhappyjoyjoy3275]

We are all broken in some way, shape or form. It’s TWO emotionally mature individuals who honor evolution, individuality and open communication of needs that make any relationship work.

[@keepsmiling185]

1-He is secure with both connection and independence 2-He knows both how to give and receive 3-He can accept the good with the bad 4-He knows how to wait and delay gratification 5-He knows how to say No 6-He knows how to work through conflict 7-He's willing to say he's sorry. Thank you so much Matt❤️🌹

[@katebutton3170]

Integrity- Its at the top of my list and something I look for right away. Does he follow through, and follow up with what he says he will do..call when he says he will call and honor his word. Not only in the relationship but in all his interactions as I feel that is a sign of authenticity and congruence within himself.

[@jomax6619]

Thank GOD...I finally found my Boaz...I never imagined at this point in my life, this Devine & Majestic Love would ever happen again. He literally, 'melted all my walls', & it was effortless. #TrueLovefinallyfound #TwinFlame #T&J❤🙌🙏👍🏻

[@drummerlovesbookworm9738]

* He’s a active lifelong learner. * Sense of humor. * Critical thinker. * Social skills. Makes other people feel comfortable. * Has a good enough memory that he can remember your birthday and anniversary and mammogram appointment AND where that spot is that you’ve showed him a fair number of times.

[@delphinebenaim5972]

Thank you so much Matt ,you are I credible

[@RubiscoTalks]

Wish I knew this..I will surely note this while seeing someone now for marriage

[@sharonte9863]

A guy who is honest about his life and being vulnerable towards me

[@djtoia2012]

His walk with God 🙌💙

[@gailbowman1690]

Excellent!

[@zinakhan311]

He libra and i am libra are we complatableor not tell me

[@ZadeMeadowsLittleMouse]

Yes!!! I am a godly, feminine, alpha, and independent woman and I would love a godly, masculine, alpha, independent, kind hearted man!!

[@kingaderzsi7535]

He has all 7 signs !!! He has a very open, honest, clear communication. Had some trouble at first to match his words with his actions, but only because we were at distance. I am sure he will follow up. Talking about the future together, joking about marriage is a good sign also. Another sign is when he let you influence him. He listen to your advice and asking for advice. Another funny sign that he wants long term commitment is that he express worries about his freedom, and cheating. I know, it,'s weird but my last man expressed his fears before commitment. We were together for 17 years. That doesn't mean that he really cheated but this way he is expressing his fears of leaving his "old" life and feeling very uncomfortable, yet knowing that he will take the risk 😊 My new man also expressed his fears about single life, other woman, freedom, yet he is making project to come and live with me, even if this means reorganize his whole life, work, changing country... the first time I was a little afraid. Now I am just smiling because I know he is serious 😍

[@LeadingTheCheer]

Kinga Derzsi 👍🏾

[@Laura-Yu]

So… how did it end up?

[@DarlitaStephens]

I agree that these are traits that are needed in a healthy long-term relationship but I'd like to add compatibility, having similar values, and being true friends as well as lovers as being important to the sustainability of a relationship..

[@karenfuggles2483]

Someone who is openly affectionate and demonstrates his feelings to you

[@beckyharper6263]

Yes, working through conflict is huge and yes will last the test of time. I have been divorced twice and advised him I want to not make the same mistakes, but want a great, healthy relationship. We all of have flaws, but to have a great relationship with a man. I value maturity, loyalty, God centered, but also know we all have flaws. I like to know a man's love language, so I know how to love him best.

[@elaiine024]

Honesty and an action that speaks louder than his voice.

[@claudeenweber908]

I would like for me and my guy to be brave enough to trust each other when we are the most vulnerable, knowing that we both have the power in our own tongues to speak life or not...that we choose to allow for trust to be cultivated enough when we are vulnerable.

[@maryangela3779]

Why not woman

[@millielenore3415]

Thanks for that Matt! Always appreciate your videos. I am currently talking to a guy who I met through an app. At first he was persistent and we have hung out a few times since then. I have been trying to listen more to what his words and actions are telling me lately so I can get a gauge on what he wants with us, if anything. Thing is, I have a feeling he is "bread-crumbing" me. One minute we will be talking consistently and the next there's radio silence. I want to get to know him better but keep getting mixed signals. Last week for example, he said he would like to see me and hear from me more often (over text or call). Then when he asks me to call at a certain time, he flakes out. The thing that I feel is necessary for me to know he is ready for a relationship with me, is probably an honest conversation with him to gain some clarity on what we want. I would like to have that openness with him, but am a bit confused as to the meaning of his actions right now. He tells me he likes me, flirts alot, but then puts the breaks on 🤷

[@mariannebickerton6944]

Not a good sign. You deserve better. During his mysterious absences, he's checking out his other options. Ditch this d-bag and find someone who will truly commit!

[@LaTrav08]

Always take mixed signals as a NO!!!

[@annita_dance]

I am 25, after some inmature relationship. (of course also from my side. I wrote a list on my own before watching this video about the important qualities I am intereses in. I mentioned 4 of your elements 😍 I have the feeling that i lernt a lot from my past experiencies and now there is a video explaining my thoughy even better

[@Clarabellyha]

I am 24, will be 25 in January. From my past relationships I had felt that maybe I held the bar too high, but then one day I sat down and told myself what all I look for in a man and said ‘that’s not too much to ask for!’ So I kept being patient and now I’m in a relationship that has all the qualities I was looking for. And honestly I surprised myself, bc sometimes I had doubts, but I felt I just needed to keep being patient and have a little faith. I’m sure this one will last 🥰

[@ivonnereischuck7830]

i appreciate everything about him he is always so sweet to me always gives me such sweet compliments and he has everything i have ever wanted in a man

[@ng_rainbow]

I love this song that comes after the speech in the end. It gives happiness

[@crystallam7335]

This is super good and very informative video. Thank you!!

[@Vibesandlives]

I love this channel!!!! He has inspired me to create a channel with relationship advice from my life’s experience as well. So glad that I found this.

[@klaudiaramos6331]

I did find such a man but I wasn't the one ready and my depression ruined it. One year later we started to talk again and we've both grown a lot. I still really love him and I am ready to try again but we're too far and the Coronavirus isn't helping...

[@elizabethr3107]

A BIG THANK YOU Mathew This was video was Gold ....im keeping this video in my trasure box 😄😄

[@vivianmunene4867]

What I love about my boyfriend is the fact that he's so much apologetic when he knows he has scrued up and he's willing to improve himself. I just thank God for him 🙏🙏. ...

[@mirnapurugganan4509]

I value my BF when everytime i had a toxic day in my work and i got mad for nothing and i don't want to smile w/ him, he's already annoying me and saying what's my fault and he's the one asking Forgiveness and Sorry that he did'nt do anything.. So i value his sincereness and loyalty on me..

[@wilsomcalegare5562]

I'm MGTOW and I didn't even know, excellent video.

[@tovahstafford]

Love this!!! Perfect divine timing! Thanks

[@mmww9293]

I was the menopause baby. My mom was 44 when I was born. My mom was the traditional housewife. My oldest sister was 23 years old when I was born. I had my mom who gave me life. My sister who helped raise me. My sister was ahead of her time. Single woman, who made a career for herself working for the department of defense for years. I was raised by two strong women. I was confused growing up, seeing my sister as a career woman successful although unhappy for not ever being married and living on her own. My mom unhappy staying at home as the traditional housewife.

[@sweelinlimwg01]

Regardless of what “identities” were imprinted by your sister and mom, as an adult now, you can choose what you want as your own identify and healthy relationships that work for you. A big hug for you on your journey!

[@CorporateQueen]

Chemistry and Compatibility.... But you're right. He didn't have the ability. He was missing the last C... Committment. And the final C? COMPLETE waste of time.

[@ivywang416]

haha. yeah

[@CorporateQueen]

@@UnexpectedWonder 100%

[@ib2028]

This video came in the right moment hahaha

[@manalsalah708]

The man that I feel secured with

[@gloria2619]

I also want a man that can advise me, when asked to help, without trying to solve any life or business challenges I'm facing.

[@mariaaugustavieira6721]

What a wonderful tips to direct you to a Good relationship with your lover! 👌

[@jasonbryan9056]

How are you doing 😊👋👋😊

[@nicolalblushi9830]

Thanks Matt for the video...

[@sharonhedman7874]

Life changing!

[@wonderlandfamily6041]

Damn shelf upgrade!

[@sheenaxoxo5787]

Well watching this I wrote things down and started ones I need to work on myself and I stared them!

[@tamarawoods2677]

A man who does not lie!!

[@modernlovepotion]

"You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams."

[@fgsoftwarequalityassurance8264]

I love my independence

[@nataliecortez439]

Someone who is helpful, for example he helps you with your job by getting the bag of food ready to hand out to the customer!

[@Sohnikudiaish]

Thanks matt ❤️

[@missdimple3745]

I'm just 23 and my first boyfriend is 43 long distance relationship,I'm here now in saudi,when I go in Philippines he will go to marry me,I already introduce him to my family, he also introduce me,but sometimes he's worried because of our age gap😪😪 give some advice thank you

[@mariannebickerton6944]

Don't do it! You will be trapped in a foreign country with an older man who will have little in common with you.

[@missdimple3745]

@@mariannebickerton6944 he will go in Philippines to meet my family, he's very kind and gentleman, he make me laugh always very funny, he's personality captured my heart

[@jimparfitt2330]

My girlfriend is 40 years younger than me! I don't think 20 years difference is such a big deal. Just try to be very honest with yourself (as I try to be). I think that him being funny and making you laugh, if it is kind and from the heart, is a very good sign. Also try asking others, if you trust them, how the 2 of you look together. ..some thoughts.

[@missdimple3745]

@@jimparfitt2330 he's age is not a problem for me I always tell him what inside my heart, I want a serious relationship, I want a lifetime partner I don't care what other people say,as long as he loves me and I love him.

[@LeadingTheCheer]

Spend a lot of time in Person. Skype and phone calls and visit for a couple of days is not enough to get to know some body. Maybe live together for a year before you get married if that is possible (or in the same city). So then the risk is smaller and you know exactly what you are getting yourself into. You have a good feeling with him but youre still unsure and thats normal. Mary him when youre 1000% certain. All the best

[@katcuzzi]

Wow, my ex was not ready.

[@kaitlynnortwein7942]

I hear a lot of people keep on talking about Episoketren System. But Im uncertain if it is good. Have you ever tried using this popular training course?

[@K_in_Qatar]

Yiep. He ticks off all seven. Thing is, he also said “not everyone has to be in a couple” . So eh. 🤷‍♀️

[@loreta9894]

Hey Math I love your videos and I must admit it helps me to really understand better my dating partner. We been dating now for almost 2 months ( we meet on Facebook date website) and recently I have such unpleasant experience and I’m questioning myself if I reacted to harshly? We recently was passing the place we meet for a first time. When I pointed to this place and made comment to him: “ hey you remember the first date we meet here and buy the way you come to our first date with no flowers.... He’s respond was: Well I dint know if I like you so I dint bring any flowers. I told him: well if you felted this way then perhaps you should save receipt and return if you get disappointed. Since then I just felt deeply insulted and told him I need to take time to think about our relationship. Do you think I did the right thing? Please leave me comment.. Loreta

[@rachellindsey8660]

Yes A little harsh. Guys will only invest if they think its worth it. Obviously he thought the investment was worth it as he continued to see you.

[@charlieh1419]

I look for honesty and laughter as well.🌷😜

[@AvadaKedavra11]

Hi Matt, My boyfriend wants to keep our relationship personal and private. We've been together for over 2.5 years, plus over 2 years as colleagues, but staying away most of the time (see each other a few times a year) as I'm working abroad. We just had this conversation recently, his relationship at university had a big effect on him. That relationship was more public and it ended in a way that just meant people would be talking to him about it over and over and over. Also, there is a part that is related to us being separated and what our plan is for the long term. I understand that he might think this won't last and want to wait till it gets solid. I would like to here your opinions, is it okay to keep a relationship personal in the long term? Have you ever experienced it before? Many thanks

[@maryangela3779]

Sure I love that

[@dionnecarter3383]

I have this guy who give and take I value him I'm looking for a long term relationship with him he is willing to help me with our project in building a new house help with the businesses and putting our kids through college who understands the fight I had to go through all my life meet my standards 💯 percent who should me how to love myself and others been there sense day one he is my backbone he got my heart his mother passed away and I'm the lady of his life and we let the past be the past 😍👍

[@andregomez5714]

Do you need help

[@siwardhawadi9561]

I really have a serious question for everyone watching these videos. Do these actually help you ?

[@LeadingTheCheer]

Siwi Dhawadi, MD yes very good advice here!! I like adrienne everheart as well

[@RubiscoTalks]

Yes

[@runningbike7060]

Yes! Matt does research. He is not some guy who likes to hear himself talk. There are reasons why he finds it important to share certain information

[@robinjessop6607]

I think when a man will shows his vulnerability is wonderful. It shows trust and real heart and courage.

[@nehashetty2803]

Absolutely 😊

[@dashiajames1882]

I agree...You could kinda tell they trust you...!!

[@Jennifer-di4nl]

My ex had dyslexia and was VERY why about it. When we were at the self check out line and he was trying to spell cucumber and couldn't, I reached over and helped him without saying a word. I could feel his relief and embarrassment....I fell in love with him on the spot.

[@ElizabethMcQMusic]

Honestly...the guy I really like tends to show his vulnerable side at times. Even when he was drunk & such the other night, he was upset & he was telling me some things about how it's been with things & I did my best to try to help him feel better too 🙂 But I love it when he's vulnerable with me 🙂

[@crystaleyezed4285]

I value a man the most when i see he values and respects his mother. Even if she may be a horrible woman, the man that doesn't speak ill of his mother won't speak ill of you. He will continue to be a good man and do what needs to be done in life

[@penneydepas7580]

I thought my fiance did that...until we got married and it changed. =( This is an excellent point.

[@binkyandgunther]

agree! a man who respects his mother knows how to respect women.

[@brunabutterflyful]

Yes maam the way he treats his mom is a preview of how he treats other women.

[@EmmainthePNW]

I wish this was true. But I know so many players that love their mother but the woman he's having sex with is a totally different relationship than that with the woman that birthed him. I've found that momma's boys tend to be the biggest players. I've even seen Moms that love the fact that their sons are heartbreakers and are rather cruel to the girls that fell for them. Weird, but I've seen it.

[@lisawentworth6831]

...to a degree! I have one that mum still cooks and folds his underpants! The first time I met her, she was peering through the kitchen window the morning after! What she wants, she will always get over me...

[@chemnrd4404]

In addition to saying sorry, he adds changed behavior to support being sorry.

[@juchebo100]

I value a man that listens to me and doesn’t try to belittle what I’m telling him. I have dated guys who did that to me and it was so hurtful and annoying but I’m so so grateful that the guy in my life now is the total opposite; he listens to what I have to say and when he wants my opinion on something, he will ask me about it to find out what I think and it’s an awesome feeling I have always wanted in relationships but never got it until now 😀

[@lucialu2x]

I’m a girl and I just checked all of those signs in me while watching the video. There’re things we need to work on ourselves first, ladies.

[@sheenaxoxo5787]

I agree I could work on some of these myself too!

[@gabriellarossetti2050]

Same here

[@Top5_Pilipinas]

True. Before finding the right man, we really have to ask first if we are the right woman. Once we are honest with ourselves and loving what we developed into and we are falling in love in what we have become, there is no way the right guy will not realize this. If he doesnt see it then he is not the right guy yet (he has to go back and work on himself like what other mature adults did).

[@silviamonclairstavland9284]

1. He is faithful. 2. He is patient. 3. He is thoughtful. 4. He look on the Bright Side of life, and have a good sense of humor.

[@joshiklaire5119]

A guy who actually wants to be in a relationship, to invest in it and the person. That makes a huge difference.

[@denisethetravelingteacher64]

Spending quality time together OUTSIDE of the bedroom and house

[@karamarieco]

I would add that... "He cultivates a safe space for honesty" Where you aren't scared to talk to him honestly about whats bothering you. Where you feel safe to confess any truths you are afraid to share with anyone else; and vice versa. That he is confident in expressing his honesty and truth as well. This not only creates that safe and sacred space; but also builds an important foundation of mutual trust and respect in the relationship.

[@cucar8363]

yes!

[@norcell1001]

Yeah honesty is one of the most important aspect in a healthy relationship..

[@prjdghyt]

So right. I would rather be talking about the ugly truths rather than pretend we're perfect humans. 😂

[@selmag3284]

I'm single. I just really like watching your videos. You're an amazing speaker 😍

[@Pilvi8]

I appreciate man who respects my ' NO' without begging all the time... 🙏🏻❤️ I get anxious about begging...(sex). At least at the beginning of relationship - when I am just getting to know him better.

[@charlitavisado4103]

If the relationship (love) has chemistry and compatibility. The next thing should have are the ff 1) Words of Affirmation 2) Giving gifts 3) Quality time 4) Little act of kindness 5) Physical touch Simple and effective. 😊

[@kashifaarahams3787]

Love languages

[@zoeyH2O]

Can’t say this enough, you are the #1 relationship expert on KZbin. 🎯

[@poisonivy1985]

Matt I just wanted to say, I love how you just get straight into your videos. Can’t stand when someone just rambles on and on to begin with.

[@bryanjason4783]

How are you doing hope you're safe over there?

[@dopelyric83]

I've been dating my guy for the past 4 months thanks to your wisdom Mat. I still come to visit your videos as check-ins to make sure everything is aligning with what I am feeling. He is everything that you described. Thank you for giving us hope. Bless you and your family.

[@salmachaquiq9938]

Heeyy how are things going right now i hope you guys are still together and doing great ❤️

[@jennifervieira99]

Your comments is very helpful and encouraging. I haven't tried to date anyone because of guy's so I decided to take a break for 7 and half years. It has been great getting to know myself and be patient with myself. I hope you and your guy are doing well, if not im very sorry and I hope you find the right person for you.

[@Laura-Yu]

Are you still with that dude?

[@justinealbertson4665]

I value kindness. Not just for me, but for the world around him.

[@jasonbryan9056]

Hello how are you doing today 😊😊😊

[@kashenka23]

Hi Mathew, I've one question conserning a single moms. How the man look at us? Sometimes I feel it is complete waste of time, I don't want to introduce to my son plenty of differente spicies but I don't want to stay alone for ever. What are the signs we-single moms- should be aware of to help us find a good team player, male model and love partner? Thank you!! 🙏🙏🙏

[@barbarabeck2764]

@kashenka23 I don’t know how old you are or how old your kiddos are, but here is my experience...I rarely dated until my last kiddo graduated high school. Looking back now, that time went so fast! I am at peace with the fact that they all went to college and now live in other cities. But, I know I was a mom to them and I was there for all the important times in their childhood. I have been dating for 4 years now, and I may have found a “keeper.” Hope that helps you...

[@katerinamartincova423]

@@barbarabeck2764 Thank you Barbara for your answer! I am 34 yo, my youngster is 5 and a half so I see I have time untill high school. But to be fair, I don´t have even time for dating now. Changing my career, I don´t even think about relationsships as I as fully in my new world. Hope you are all good, thank you! :)

[@teeteeree3540]

Yes, that would be a good one. There's a lot of single moms out there

[@marymartin7360]

Someone not speaking about all his x girlfriends and wives

[@Patricias22]

Loyalty + love ❤️ + respect = fundamental values for commitment and trust! 🙏🏼🙌🏼

[@CristinaDavalos1127]

Us ladies also need to have those same qualities and I'm almost there!

[@vinnavuong20]

Good video. What l look for in a mature man is honesty and loyalty. You need someone you can trust and knows he will not cheat on you.

[@TheTropics4]

Finding a man that matches all seven points is like finding a needle in a haystack. Especially at my age of 56!!

[@AKenny882]

Lillian Loves the Beach! Never give up I found my man at that age. He is out there believe

[@planetwalker798]

I was thinking regardless of age - how many people have had healthy models?

[@Clarabellyha]

It is like finding a needle in a haystack! But I think I’ve finally found mine. My ex is 31 years old and is still such a child. My current boyfriend is 30 and acts like a man. He knows how to communicate, the chemistry and compatibility is all there, he’s patient, he reads my body language well and we are very open communicators! He never speaks ill of his mother. He knows what he wants, he’s very helpful, he knows a relationship is 50/50, he has a stable job and is financially secure, he has his own place, he takes care of himself - he has a great smile! He’s direct, but assertive. He doesn’t shame you. We spend quality time together. Eye contact is very important in communication, it’s so easy to talk to him! His eyes are soft, but make a bold statement 🥰 I love his masculinity!

[@0dancers]

When you pay he acts normally, not surprised, not icky - like i could pay, but he's indifferent about it. For him its normal that you earn and pay. Very imp for me.

[@ecruz3866]

What I value the most in a man is his determination or courage to win me, to overcome any obstacles in order to be my love. I hate when a guy shows interest in me, he claims to be a traditional guy and then stands still, waiting for me to start chasing him and conquer him. I'm tired of that type!!! 😏

[@ajewel-behindtheattitude]

Well said.

[@ecruz3866]

@@ajewel-behindtheattitude Thanks!🙋‍♀️

[@ajewel-behindtheattitude]

@@ecruz3866 It's my pleasure to read good feed back. I would welcome your comments on my videos. Thanks in advance.

[@ecruz3866]

@@ajewel-behindtheattitude Cool! Thank you.🤗

[@georginabrigs1891]

What if, if he is your soulmate. Like you've met him unexpectedly from a far away place. Then you've met twice and then this 2nd time was so romantic, intimate, and the emotional connection was there. Then after being far away from each other again, the connection is still there, more intense, there's progression, etc. I think this happens also to others like you suddenly met that person unexpextedly and seems like you've found ypur soulmate. No games, no hesitations, etc. You just really liked eacht other and fell in love qith each other.

[@nicky_bee]

I'm turning these around and striving for them myself: Be secure with both connection and independence. Know both how to give and receive. Accept the good with the bad. Know how to wait and delay gratification. Know how to say no. Know how to work through conflict. Be willing to say you're sorry.

[@wonderlandfamily6041]

Attitude towards my feelings and views on touchy subjects

[@bztoni]

so powerful - LOVE your principles - So balanced, well explained, and fair. Relationships are 2-sided, and we need to 'work' to make ANY relationship successful!!! Great tips in romance, but also, principles of friendship and committed platonic relationships! Thank you muchly!!!

[@lavayuki]

This is really useful, I'm in a relationship and find this helpful

[@vintage464]

I think one thing I look for is if he has a good relationship with his mother, father and or siblings. It says a lot to me about loyalty and if he holds any grudges or resentments. Not to mention any other red flags because he doesn’t have good role models to emulate! Having a mother who has taught him to be honest and have integrity has been important to me in the past as well!

[@borednow]

for me saying sorry AND changing the specific behavior... just saying sorry and then doing it again later is useless. another important thing for me is someone who acts dismissive if they dont agree with me on something

[@rimikasuchiang9397]

For me the most important is to respect the family both side without any complains whether rich or poor. Thanks

[@josephinesanjuan5925]

how may i know if my boyfriend from afar is really the kind of man you are talking about in this video?

[@saniyachoudhury8161]

i want to find someone like mat boggs...just watching him is soo soothing and feels soo good...❤️

[@stephaniachadwick7968]

You are right!!Love listening to you Matthew.

[@privatequeen9972]

Well how long should you wait until we get into serious relationship? Because it’s possible that we’re not ready so soon, but I don’t want to waste time either

[@nosolar2023]

I'm in a relationship for 7 years now..hes not compatible with me and I'm very unhappy...hard to get out of once your in that long!

[@Thevibeofalifetime444]

Trisha Kroner leave girl

[@anadigon5000]

Do it, girl! 7 years, ok. Want it to be more?? Or just settle with being unhappy... U choose

[@prjdghyt]

I've been in a relationship before that is as long as yours. I was unhappy too and it didn't end well. We ended up hurting each other terribly. Does he know you're unhappy? Mine does, I told him the same things for years and he didn't care. 😅 So my advice for you, while it is still early, just leave. I didn't leave during that time because I thought just being "unhappy" is not a vaild reason. But happiness is important. Especially if the reason of your unhappiness is your partner and you did your part.

[@mers6420]

Wonderful advice. And you an amazing guy who knows a lot and all true. You are my fav! And you explain it so easy and so calm. Easy to understand

[@Jdiodkdndggs]

Thank you so much for this enlightening talk. Finally found someone who matches all of these.

[@alina.luna_]

I'm watching it and taking notes for myself how to not make the same mistakes in my relationship

[@sharonmorgan5389]

Thoughtful and patient, genuine independent knows what he wants in life and in his relationship ,

[@jasonbryan9056]

How are you doing 😊😊👋

[@lisawentworth6831]

Not pulling away! Mine has the 7 signs, but pulls away as an avoidant. It drives me crazy and makes me anxious, although generally I am quite secure

[@danettebert9502]

Yes !! I am not one to write comments but with this one Matt. You Nailed it to be my personal favorite! I think as I listen to this again and again I will learn more each time. I can’t thank you enough 😊❤️

[@jenugotmail]

When we have both come to a healthy stop with our own identities and ready to intertwine TWO separate internal individual experiences and ONE ..(i do not really know yet)

[@ngwingsangclementine4537]

Thanks so much for the teaching my worry is what should one do keep a strong relationships which can let to married?

[@Carvegirl]

I've met Milan and Kay (Christian councellors) They have marriage workshops in SoCal where I used to live. Milan works with New Life Live with an impeccable team on the radio show. They've also wrote "How we love our kids". The attachment styles are crucial to understand the dynamic of the relationship/marriage.

[@0Flow0]

As a very sexual woman I call bullshit on this thought that guys want to be the first to have sex

[@jasonbryan9056]

How are you doing 😊👋👋😊

[@danielageorgeff5586]

Agreed on all these but when he is stressing he is always trying to push me away and I say to him I know he is stressing and I give him his space ..... he does not apologize we just let it go and ignore his actions as I do not take it personal 🤷‍♀️

[@cucar8363]

Honesty no matter how critical the situation is!!

[@rabiakhan4345]

I value truth and honesty because a blunt refusal is better than a fake promise

[@rosiemcfarlane8240]

Paying attention to his partner in a balanced way. Ensuring her needs are met as well as his own.

[@alisongallagher695]

.Respectful .Honest .Courteous .Insightful .Kind .Patient .Compassionate .Calm (not so quick to anger) I could go on but realistically there's no "perfect" man, he's going to have his moments but as long as he's aware, and has the drive to put effort into maintaining the relationship then you have won a good man! 😊

[@jasonbryan9056]

How are you doing 😊😊😊👋