Maybe Feminism is affecting how men relate to their children | Dingaan Khumalo

[@makaumasetla4576]

The fact that this guy has been solving problems of fellow South Africans while he is also having these problems is just something else. Hope his issues gets resolved as well.

[@SandisoGonise]

I agree bro ,i like him and understand his side but i think in this case he could have tried more to engage with her child.

[@bulihlongwane4893]

Mr Mokebe is a real gentleman 🎉

[@thembabambani4555]

Still remember that episode at SPEAK OUT.... WHERE ARE THE POTS😂😂😂😂😂

[@senzizwane8635]

I made the pots to be made or something like that 😂

[@thembabambani4555]

Remember it like yesterday

[@trosh5783]

The Pots😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@thatbyochic90]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@thembabambani4555]

😂 😂 😂 😂 "i don't know where are the pots"

[@bellatalkssa405]

One of the best interviews....thanks King David and crew. Dingaan is so authentic, I love men like his step dad, I have a friend who also met her strpdad when she was 3, she's 35 today, she sings only praises for that man. I remember the other time 3 yrs ago pur manager gave her a very hard time, she took her phone went outside and called her dad(stepdad) crying, and after that call she took her things and left because her dad said we didn't chase you from home. You'd swear in that moment she'd have called her mother, but no, and the dad didn't disappoint her. She has respect for 1000 lifetimes for her dad....she says this man met me and fell in love with me when I was 3 till today. And oh she knew her biological father was in Soweto, she went to meet him but guy was still not accepting so she said anyway I was not lacking father's love so keep your cold heart. So men like Dingaan's stepdad actually do exist and I wish God can make morr of them. Thx David

[@zanelemofikoe4800]

This just made me cry, some humans are truely special yazi!!!

[@moremogolomoremogolo5328]

Wow. What a great interview. Story of Dingaan resonates with me. I like how Dingaan speaks so well of his stepdad.

[@manny8042]

There's so much I've learned in this interview. Big respect to Dingaan man, very real and authentic african man.

[@shakesmudau167]

King David is truly a King on meaningful conversations. Thank you DSK for sharing your story with pride. I resonate a lot with it.

[@hlonni_chelsea6711]

One of the grootmans who will talk to you like you are their neighbour. This grootman is humble, i feel like i am watching Ntate Mashabela interviewing himself. Thanks Ntate Mashabela for this interview.

[@mmerekomoshomo5412]

Mr Mashabela , well done on the jacket , from K-Way to Mashabela , good branding ....

[@NoloMamps]

To speak so highly of your dad ❤ love this

[@sandilekhenisa9689]

Being a father is hard. My brother keep pushing for that relationship to your child. Your kid will one day find you. Big up to being a stand up guy and not speaking bad to the mother ❤ keep pushing my guy

[@sollynkgalabimankga6012]

When it comes to marriage I agree with Mr Dingaan 200%

[@goitseoneseleka5162]

@solly my grootman can we please meet

[@OfentseMMM]

i can identify with so much in this interview, i am at the for of the road of my life and this kind of got me teary and got my heart heavy and it reaffirmed one stement i always say: "if you have not walked a mile in my shoes and looked at life through my windowpain you never understand why i am the way i am today"

[@beautifulblessed5445]

I swear the caliber of guest you bring us is 10/10 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🤞🤞🤞Weather I'd be artists /politicians/entrepreneurs/religion etc. One always take something from that podcast. Keep it up.

[@NomceboMkhwanazizinhle]

…calibre …whether …it be …takes/learns

[@pulengbrigitte7646]

DSK very intelligent and i must say, i am proud of you for saying that you acknowledge the fact that you might have had an impact in the break up and the situation with the mother of your daughter. It takes maturity and a whole lot but it takes nothing away from you

[@Mr.ExtrodinThinks]

This is the interview I didn’t know I needed but I know it’s the one I deserve. ❤🎉 Dankie bra David le bra Dingaan.

[@sejomonoane9226]

I can actually relate to this, its so painful.😞

[@KaraboMasemola6408]

I can empathize with Dingaan's perspective, however, it seems that his past traumas have influenced his outlook on the future, much like the belief that marriage is a sacred institution created by God and should be followed according to His guidelines. Personally, I have been married for 5 years and while it certainly has its difficulties, the rewards and joys are remarkable. It is important for individuals to enter into marriage for genuine and heartfelt reasons.

[@SenzoHD]

Long live Dingaan, long live Mntungwa. What a gentleman.

[@maitemogelocorporatesoluti3093]

King Dave o bogale bathong. This podcast concept is making sense.

[@kingdavidstudio1]

Thank you very much

[@takalaniteddymanyuha9039]

I grew up in mavimbela section the same section Dingaan's home is situated. I used to see him walking whilst he was an extra on generations and most of the time I will pass him washing his golf, he was an inspiration and a guide on how to handle success. And his young brother Hloni used to visit my home so often without boasting that his brother appears on TV. Wow I'm still glad that nothing has changed and success keeps on rooting it's way❤

[@diamondroof87]

My brother I can relate your story 95% exactly like mine, I almost cried,growing in different places, hustling at young age, caddy, gardening, selling apples, been treated bad by aunties, raised by stepfather, bartending and many more, we sometimes go through similar incidents, salute bro and God bless you big time

[@zinhlenkosi5202]

Beautiful story about growing from having to everything that you are and have today. Incredible how you help South Africans solve their problems while you got your own going on. You sure depict "DO NOT LOOK LIKE YOUR PROBLEMS" very well. I hope someday your issues will be solved someday...

[@WandileAmos]

What grootman Dingaan is explaining about marriage and relationships, its maturity only, he is absolutely correct to a larger extent.👌 ❤

[@sibongisenisakhele3114]

So painful to hear how willing fathers are unable to raise their children. The system and our culture needs to adjust.

[@mercy903]

Dingaan you truly have a deep sense of gratitude. Not all people do what you do. You don't even choose sides? I'm really surprised. No wonder why you are this successful. God bless you more and more. 😅

[@Ziqelekaziiii]

Every interview is profound.. Loved it!! Thanks to Dingaan for bring vulnerable, hope God restores his relationship with his daughter!

[@thulindhlovu4672]

i think the secret is with King David himself, this guy is the greatest host. love it for him. his guests get so comfortable

[@innocentglenn8627]

Mr. David, we really appreciate the content. Can I say, today alone I listened to 2 episodes; Dingaan Khumalo and Jerry Mofokeng. Yesterday I listened to Bonang Mohale. I really enjoy the content. Thank you.

[@kingdavidstudio1]

Wow, thank you very much

[@tembisamkunqwana7497]

Powerful Dingaan! Your stepfather is one of a kind. Be blessed abundantly for acknowledging him. We need to hear more stories like that of your step-dad. 🙏 🙏 🙏

[@LethoHali]

Love that you are vocal about your daughter. She needs to know she’s loved and wanted. I hope she get to see this and hear how much you want to be in her life. Blessings and all the best! ❤🙏🏾😢

[@ntokozolizwimkhize8340]

He Mr Khumalo was the only reason i started watching Muvhango. My parents made sure of that

[@zakesnyambose]

What a great conversation, thanx grootman David ❤

[@ziyandaduka8798]

Seeing a different side of Dingaan & I'm happy that he's addressing the Tsholo issue. I was so shocked and saddened when the Kaya FM thing happened on Mapaseka's show! 😢

[@manyamamashakodavid4104]

It's a pity to hear that even the mediator (Mme Lilian I guess) could not succeed in reconciling Dingaan and the mother of his daughter. Overall, I enjoyed the interview and I am inspired by Dingaan.

[@mercy903]

The problem with baby mama's is they walk away and regret afterwards. Then they develop a lot of anger, wanting you back when it is no longer possible. She still wants you back, and lives with regrets, disadvantaging the baby in the process.

[@jabulilenkosi-v3v]

Let us not pretend like men don't do anything wrong in these scenarios. Men act bad and expect good results. Guys, don't be an asshole and expect roses.

[@Mr.ExtrodinThinks]

I think bra Dingaan forgot the storyline. Masebobe gave Sonny the lotto numbers and money but Sunny forgot to purchase the ticket. Dingaan saw the numbers and wrote them down then went to purchase the ticket and won. I remember the beach scene clearly. Dingaan said “ah, if only my fans could see me now”. 😂😂😂 Also there was a classic scene where Dingaan accidentally dropped a tomato sauce bottle and some sauce was spilled on his face. Sonny thought Dingaan was seriously injured. Lol it was a funny scene. They both played it well. I think the reason I remember these moments so well is because my sister and my cousin loved the character so much. To this day whenever the topic of what I would do with the Lotto earnings comes up I always think about Dingaan especially when he spent it quietly because he knew if he told his family they would suck him dry.

[@siyabulelanoyo3338]

😂😂

[@abtshoni]

These are the type of conversations that need to be had because for the longest of time, black men are always portrayed as failed fathers especially in the media space, so shedding light on those who want to do better even when the odds are seemingly stacked against them brings about another dynamic which is positive.

[@andiledladlaad]

He is from Limpopo because of Muvhango 😅

[@deedelicacy6674]

Wow what a marvellous talk, Bra Dave you are in your own level, or in your own lane! Uhamba wedwa👌🏾🤟🏾🙌🏾

[@kingdavidstudio1]

Wow, thank you

[@tiisetsomalunga2457]

I love his honesty.

[@drivewithmat]

Enjoyable and on-the-line interview. I missed some parts of it as I was busy doing some stuff. The marriage part till the end, hit home. I hope nobody comes for this man's truth. Bra Dave should've asked more about the amapiano song Dingaan has😅😂to dilute the mood even more. Bra Dave is a natural.

[@phumlanindlovu5653]

1:42:15 the contradictory of how we raise children 🤞🏾😭💯

[@valentine_b_ndlovu]

Amazing conversation with Dingaan 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽chilled guy and brutal honest 😂love love him 👌🏼

[@ReshoketsweMthombeni]

Dingaan! What a gem of a human being! My long term crush❤️ thank you David for this interview.

[@luckymajova6528]

I have a friend who is going through this child situation and looking from outside youll think he is the problem and he doesnt care, but because he is close to me ive been there when we walked to the babby mamas house for him to see his son and they didnt welcome us very nicely, i was there when he delivered a birth day toy and it was damaged the very next day. i was there when he got a protection order openned against him because he wanted to see his kid so bad that he went to the house unannounced. These are very tough situations.

[@msimemelochristofferoloba9366]

Such stories break my heart. Anyway I hope your friend has been been transferring money and keep proof of payments or slips. The money reference must be specific. Reference: Son Maintenance. School fees, Christmas deposit, son Laybay dip. He must never Eva give the month in cash. This is to have proof of his contribution to his child. Communication must be done via WhatsApp texts and voice notes. He must just do that for 12 months bra. Then approach the court for a formal legal arrangements.

[@WandileAmos]

With regards to the issue of grootman Dingaan and not being able to reach his child, I would advice that the matter should be taken to Social Workers, they will resolve it in line with section 21 of the Childrens Act 38 of 2005 or an application to the high court in terms of section 23 and 24.. (Childrens court)

[@matlou-ka]

An episode i didnt know i needed😊 love the relationship convo nkare Malome James o hurtilwe mo bophelong😂

[@Lightrifumo]

He has to come back for another one, this was amazing

[@maswanamagagane1702]

Bafowethu, these relationships needs more than love, but bana ba tla gola and they always do.

[@realtalkwithamu]

David was enjoying this interview, he was so relaxed in this interview, beautiful interview this was though.

[@Mbalings]

I need the jacket 🥹 the exact one on King Mashabela 😍 I enjoyed every minute of this episode! Wishing Mr Dingaan all the best with his daughter. 🙏

[@MightyMike55]

Love DSK. He is a voice of reason and has contributed a lot to the media industry

[@mandisabitterhout7584]

This is beautiful conversation. Thanks Digaan for opening up. Please reach out to your daughter. Die trying. She will always wonder why me, what if. Thanks King David I am also listening to Radio 200 12h00 to 15h00. My King. In my mind I am ur number 1 supporter

[@luciatsotetsi3026]

He shared so much of himself ❤

[@truthteller1984]

Bra Dave you brought one one of the brightest and intelligent stars of Mzansi. This man is grateful, its a breath of fresh air to listen and watch a man who is this positive about his parents!

[@leratomatlala9716]

This one was a conversation between friends, thanks for being vulnerable Siyabonga..

[@kgothatsomothata3443]

The power of believing in yourself by Dingaan Khumalo calculating his moves for being in front of the cameras

[@isaaczulu3761]

Brilliant interview King David, DSK is crying for help here, Tsholo please reconsider what ever issues you had for the sake of your daughter. Life is too short.

[@matlou-ka]

May i also add that i like how the interviews dont feel like they are interviews ❤love the bromance between the two gentlemen ❤

[@SIMPLYKESA]

I love Dingaan weitse..a humble man❤

[@Frontporchsanusi]

i love this, King David you're giving us beautiful content grootman

[@Makumz_]

I feel sorry for Dingaan maan , no man should be denied access to their offspring. I hope Tsholo get over whatever it is she has against Dingaan resolve it and let Dingaan have a relationship with his daughter. P.S David whenever you ready for marriage I'm here boo ❤

[@wilf_moyo]

I like the honest about Mam'kete. There's nothing good to say about her 🤞🏿

[@thabo5015]

David, this is beautiful, if people look forward to be called as Dingaan puts it, wow

[@gomotsegangkhunou2062]

"And i wanna say this to you now" King David's fav line

[@Mr.ExtrodinThinks]

Wow time went by so quickly. We need a part 2

[@mphosikhakhane1668]

hmmm. This interview made me realise something about this life. Sadly Siyabonga, some hurts are beyond an apology. If in a moment of anger and "wanting nothing to do with the other" some things are said or done that can never be taken back, no apology can erase the aftermath. A betrayal of trust where things are thrown in ones face that make people re-live childhood traumas or difficulties that they had no control over and tried all their lives to sort and work through leaves the other knowing for a fact that they want nothing to do with you. Just sharing, maybe a littel bit from a personal experience. It is even beyond wanting access to your child. I wonder how many things were said one to the other. Some words leave wounds that no amount of apologising can heal. I wiped away tears hearing you share about your difficulties with this lady. I wish you well and more than that I wish your daughter well.

[@edmundsishange3608]

Tswanas say "lefoko ga le bowe" which is basically what you're saying, words are indeed very hurtful and one may never totally heal from what was said, I know it all too well.

[@jabulanibaloyi9402]

The question technique the style and the respect in which u ask its brilliant thank you bra D

[@nathitshabalala5414]

That "Pause" on the marriage question. Marriage is not for people who don't know what they are doing.

[@SamDaZain9843]

Wow,Dingaan so inspirational...His gave great advices.... Thanks for the wonderful interview. And to KingDavid,u held this interview like a king as always..like i felt how you got skills of being a psychologist,social worker and a real mediator..danko

[@modiredipelekekae6034]

When two elephants fight the grass suffers🙉🙉🙉🙉🙉🐘🐘🐘🐘🐘🐘

[@Mank_Mindset]

Sensational🔥❤️... Yeses! I resonated so much with this interview. A true life is him Bra Khumalo thanks so very much. #KINGDAVIDstudioprodcast

[@nonhlanhlamonama6011]

Trully loved this interview, the honesty from Dingane. We all can relate.How the boy child is pushed to the side in SA is a heartbreaking reality. Hope he gets to see his child soon❤.

[@drlovelife9096]

What an amazing interview.

[@elizabethmahlodinchabeleng4750]

I respect 🎉🎉🎉 you Dingaan your such an amazing person ❤️ 💛 💖 what a humble beginning praying you meet with ur daughter ❤️ ♥️ 🙏🏼

[@campingwithtshidiso]

Eish my brothers... decided to finish the show, Bra D, we have the same dilemma... Same same, 3 years past 5 years ago and its not easy. Everyday Im in the area I know that Im around. How many of us are living the same... Bra D's thank you...! By the way I was dumped because I was broke and they were taken away... Too much gents, too much!

[@nqobilencube4511]

Eish bra Dave my brother is going through this ya this is a painful story and somehow comforting that he is not alone even though the journey is rough I commeserate 😢

[@pietmaphoto566]

17 __25 . minutes. he's telling my exact story how I grow up ..😥😥😥 grow up under survival not love ...I hated that women...she use to abuse me ...

[@sechabadiphoko6465]

Askies for ur situation my brother.

[@Khomotjo-g2h]

Great interview King David and Bro Dingaan, so much respect for you MaGrootman❤❤👍👍👍

[@LcMaqekoane]

Great Interview Mntungwa took out a few pointers from this interview to apply it to my life ....

[@Lebzlee]

Throughly enjoyed this episode, great guy 👌🏽 Ke kopa Florence Masebe if she accepts the invite . I always enjoy it when you have artists ,the story telling of their lives and the experience is just unique 👌🏽

[@zuzilezungu5899]

My heart goes out to you, Dingaan. Kuzolunga mfowethu 🙏🏿

[@lesedinkili]

Big up to the Camera man, And the quality... damn it's out of this world, let alone content. Damn🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@kingdavidstudio1]

Thank you so much

[@connymontsho]

Can we stop for 5 min and appreciate Dingaan's hottness at his age hle. I hope you reconcil with your daughter❤

[@campingwithtshidiso]

Bra D and Bra D... great talk gents, my brothers...

[@asielsereme2501]

M with King David on ths one.....i cnt wait for Ditedu to be out of fashion lenna😂🤣😂😂

[@jeisonkunene6376]

I am waiting for a sit down with Proverb it would be great

[@MisterSiba]

This was a great interview 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@ThandazaMK]

Dlamini ungifanela nosbari ingabe ughane uNaKhuzwayo?😅

[@mzikayisentuli4449]

Great interview .When you talked about the guy offering you to steal from his work, i am remaindered of the same incident where they offered me to pay through back door at far cheaper price .When i came back 2 month later to buy again , the business was closed .This thing of stealing from your employer is backwardness as the business losses money, and the employer will start to cut work hours ,retrench or close the business.

[@Makhuthani_Digital_Marketing]

Just realised I taped "Like" before watching

[@rejoicemtshweni6997]

Never thought that this man had such serious issues yoh, ai mara 💔. I like him . Can Tsholo open her heart please 🙏. I pray they solve their issues

[@Mastavee_2920]

I'm in a same situation you in via your daughter, but all i can say is nature has it own ways to restore its self nakanjan. Uzozi buyela i Ndlovukazi yakho MBULAZI.....

[@nozipholuthuli2318]

King David youre such a pleasant interviewer! really you ask all the relavant question and just you can remain steady, really trying to understand the PERSON.....and and and. thank you so much

[@MrCharlesMega]

What a mic drop closing. 🔥🔥🔥 thank you Groot man DSK! That Andrew story. RiP

[@nombekomagaswana2020]

KingDavid thank you so much for this platform.

[@teboho_mjglekhoaba1687]

Growing up in senekal, I have never believed your senekal story until now,

[@ntuthuzelontantiso5394]

One thing I'd say is that, that woman (Dingaan's girlfriend) messed up messed up his father, family, daughter and all of us as men on how we view certain women around us.

[@phutikgafela]

Authi yaka osenganga i just love that phase 🎉

[@ike-jmolema]

The part where Dingaan talks about his daughter really hit home, I truly know how he feels and it truly isn't an easy thing to deal with or solve. It's really a sad reality for a lot of single parents. 😔😔

[@zongezileyabo472]

He was telling my store about the daughter😢😢😢😢