Maybe You Can… But Will You?

[@jaimhaas5170]

I remember dealing with a stroke victim (my mom) and she was completely incapable of moving. Nursing homes nearly always abuse people in her situation...I had proof they had been treating her poorly and took her home to my house. It was such a hard thing to do yet one of the proudest moments in my life. My sister and nephews refused to help take care of her...but I managed. I stepped up. Good women are protected by good men.

[@DesertRat.45]

That is a huge step. My wife died of a combination of cancer and serious doctor screw ups. Mostly, the medical system killed her. Her family never stepped up and when she died they told everyone I knew I left her, didnt know she was dead, etc etc. That was 16 years ago. That ontop of left and right wing antagonists, its been hell and going to get worse. Im ready for it. Other than killing me, no one can hurt me anymore.b

[@HalfWarrior]

I appreciate you myself; I can speak to that on experience; I am hemiplegic from a stroke. Left side is paralyzed; right side works normally; fortunately my family had done research on places I could end up in; but the best option was my own home.👍🏻 I’ll bet your mom appreciates you more than you know.

[@adriantindall2629]

Kudos to you. Well done. Proud of you bud. Not everyone could of done that.

[@jaimhaas5170]

@@DesertRat.45 I am 60 now and lost most of my respect for the healthcare and legal systems we have over the past 20 yrs. I've seen too much. Much of it up close and personal.

[@adriantindall2629]

​@@DesertRat.45Hope everything gets better for you bud🙏. Sorry for loss😔

[@MezzMcGillicuddy1]

In a world of virtue-signalling liars and constant cultural gaslighting, it’s a real joy just to hear good people speaking honestly. The human heart is starved for truth today.

[@timelessadventurer]

Yeah, that’s such a good way to state it: “the human heart is starved for truth today”..

[@chasekloth3896]

Amen to that. I've longed for someone like this for many years

[@PoppyHerbert-t5r]

Sure is 😊

[@logantauson789]

Not afraid of the law, Afraid of not measuring up to who you know you are, man that’s awesome. So much respect

[@cbella616]

❤🙏❤️

[@BlazerLz]

The sort of person that created the need for the word "respect."

[@psychodelic1457]

Who's that ?

[@AyshRowland]

@@BlazerLz Why thank you!

[@AyshRowland]

@@psychodelic1457 Dewayne and myself

[@Aya-hj2bp]

I lost my grandpa in October of 2023 and I've lived with him for quite a long time. I just wanted to say thank you for talking to the camera as if you are talking directly to a person. It brings me back to sitting in my little town restaurant with my grandpa while he told me about his life. ❤ Lots of love, and thank you.

[@Ace02828]

I lost my grandfather in march of 2021. I feel for you. I really do. It takes time but you can get through it.

[@stankittrell7384]

Retired LEO here. Been there. I've walked up the steps before. Turned around and backed off too when no lives were at stake. You find out what kind of man you really are when nobody is looking. It's a lot easier to show courage when you have an audience and a lot tougher when it's just you and God. Respect to you.

[@deeberry650]

Thank you for your selfless service Sir ! We need more of Men like you and Dewayne !

[@darthdonkulous1810]

I admire men and women like you and Dewayne, Sir. All police officers are judged by the actions of the rotten few in todays world. The way police are treated by a large section of society (from one side of the political aisle in the vast, VAST majority of cases) makes me extremely... angry isn't the right word I think, but certainly makes me despair a little bit for the future. We can see exactly what happens when the government and those in power are on the side of the criminals rather than the law abiding citizens. All you need to do is look at Chicago and New York to see how much that, frankly speaking, fucks everyone else over. To all members of Law Enforcement, I think you are some of the bravest people in the world and (the vast majority of you) have my total respect and gratitude. Take care of yourself!

[@ВиталийСлонов-ч4ъ]

Re: character I've read somewhere that your character is what you do when you know nobody's looking. Or words to that effect.

[@retrovcr777]

That’s exactly what the video game silent hill is about. How far, and deep are you willing to go for the ones, or one you truly love, and that matter to you the most. What are you willing to do, and face regardless of the outcome? Are you willing to go through the darkness, and fight demons alone in a foreign location uncharted by man? Are you willing to face the ugly truth about the false realities that the matrix has created, and step foot in the rabbit hole not knowing what it leads to, or if you’ll even make it out alive knowing you could in fact be alone, and lost forever? What do you do if you’re in that situation already? You have no choice, but to keep going, and fighting through hell to destroy the darkness that is trying to engulf you. You don’t care who, what, when, how, or why you’re being attacked because at this point the only thing that matters is staying alive, and you will continue to fight until you keep winning because God is in control, and always gets the glory no matter what we do, or don’t do. We don’t need, or get the credit we deserve for anything because we THINK we deserve it, but we really don’t, and we don’t need it to begin with. God has already infinitely seen, and done everything which includes transcending all of time, space, and matter, every possible direction, and outcome of every single situation, idea, thought, or process including existence itself, we could ever possibly phantom. We don’t need to think, or understand, but we need to KNOW the truth of who He really is, and see Him face to face by His grace, mercy, all His sacrifice, and entire blood He has shed for every single sin committed since the beginning to the end of time that anyone including myself has ever committed on this earth. We can only get to His kingdom by trusting in Jesus Christ the son of God that He is our LORD, and savior that we may follow Him, and seek first His kingdom as He tells us to do, and all other things shall be added unto us. Anyone who took the time to read this I hope it made sense, and all those who have not read this, this far, or may not fully understand, or understand what I’m saying at all God bless you anyways, and Jesus loves you.

[@tzurtex6336]

Everytime I tell myself, “I’m just trying to live”, fighting the intrusive urges to quit, these videos bless my KZbin feed.

[@donmikan]

Yesterday i cried my soul out, thinking of the loved ones that died too soon, pondering all the cruelty and loneliness i am dealing with. After i cried, i realised that crying like that even a thousand times again, it wouldnt make me get over my lifes problems. I dont have a god or a meaning in life, but i chose to continue living. Please dont ever quit. If it offers a help, remember that a complete stranger was once deeply moved by the posibillity of you not getting to see the next day. We will never quit.

[@meiscatastrophe]

love exists because you exist. i am so glad you are here.

[@rnupnorthbrrrsm6123]

@@donmikanoh but you do have a God, you just haven’t met him yet. Believe me when I tell you, he knows you, he cares about you, he wants you to know him, he is waiting !!! Call out to God and receive his love, comfort and peace but most of all his free gift of salvation ❤ He sent his only son to die on a cross to pay the price for our sins, Jesus bridged the gap and we can spend eternity living in heaven if we just accept his gift ! It’s heaven or hell, please seek the Lord so you may live in heaven and not suffer any more ! God Bless you 🙏🏻

[@FrostmourneFK]

Quitters never win, and winners never quit. Theres a whole lot unsaid in there, but yes, you are allowed to struggle. You just aren't allowed to give up.

[@angelboogers]

I'm so thankful I stopped and watched. it's January 2nd 2024 and I'm already having a little. Just a tiny little hope 2024 will be turn out to be okay For now.

[@Vi420TTV]

"that child deserves more than what you are," - for any mothers out there.... i needed to hear this today Dewayne. "Its a dangerous world out there. Meet danger with danger." "I would die for you is small potatoes" "Its in the heart, not in the biceps" I truly hope you and your family is well. I love your videos, I am a married woman who takes all advice like this to heart.

[@sk1zzy337]

What does he mean when saying I would die for you is small potatoes when he thinks that a man should die for his family (which I agree with)

[@DryCreekWranglerSchool]

@sk1zzy337 any one can die. Everyone will die. To give your life for someone is one thing, but taking a life to protect them is a much bigger thing.

[@sk1zzy337]

@@DryCreekWranglerSchool thank you

[@DriveByShouting]

“You are what you do when nobody is looking”

[@billb3454]

“If I had access to a squad of marines, let’s go boys!”😂😂 Another classic line. Great video.

[@landomerando6362]

Loved it 😂

[@sjdarlak]

I had no father to tell me this. One day I was attacked by a dog, panicked and hid behind my little sister. Dog was not even dangerous, I was 6 years old and remember this like it was yesterday. Shame that never gone away.. All fathers should listen and teach their young boys what school don't. God bless you, Dwayne, for this video 🙏

[@KEPSAGAMER]

School taught me just what I needed to know... whenever there's a problem 99% won't even make a move. they will freeze, falter, and fall.... They lack the ability to critically think. they lack the Will to ACT. I'll sooner take a wrong step, or even many wrong steps just to know what direction i'm heading.... but once you've got your bearings, how much more could you head in the wrong direction.

[@j.l.salayao8055]

I heard from a wise man saying, "If you're not willing to lay your life for your family(meaning to protect your wife and children knowing it will harm or kill you by doing so), you do not deserve any." Courage=Doing it anyway inspite of the danger that lays ahead.

[@jeffrey6618]

Theres a saying i think by abraham lincoln people who trade freedom for security deserve neither

[@j.l.salayao8055]

I concur 150% If I may.@@jeffrey6618

[@yuki3034]

@@jeffrey6618 If you wanted more context, it was spoken by Ben Franklin. The exact quote is, "Those who would give up essential Liberty, to purchase a little temporary Safety, deserve neither Liberty nor Safety.". It is mean literally, not figuratively. The quote is far from being a pro-privacy, if anything, it's a pro-taxation and pro-defense spending quotation. It is a quotation that defends the authority of a legislature to govern in the interests of collective security.

[@Cosmo_noBones]

​@@yuki3034 It is meant literally, but No, it does not defend legislative bodies. Saying that sacrificing freedom for temporary security is a direct challenge to legislative bodies and governments. The fundamental idea behind The Constitution is freedom, the individual taking security into their own hands.

[@jlennox54]

November 1979 I was hauling a pneumatic tanker loaded with sand from Rock Springs Wyoming to Lander in a cab over International. Going down the pass the gearbox popped out of gear and then I lost my brakes. I was losing control of the truck on the curves and had to make the decision to steer off the road or wipe out a vehicle coming from the opposite direction. It took all I had to steer off the road up a treeless knoll but I did. At the top of the hill was a 1/2 mile drop into a ravine on the other side. The cab broke off the chassis as the truck flipped several times after I jackknifed it. It took 2 days to recover the rest of the rig from the bottom. A trooper told me the last time 2 other drivers tried to ditch a truck there they were both killed. I’m hearing you loud and clear. I’ll be 69 next month but I can still do what needs to be done.

[@redcapote4760]

My father, a former Special Operations guy who now rests in peace, showed me once or twice that any harm by an outsider to his loved ones would be met with unapologetically savage consequences. I was witness to that and know how it strengthens the trust, bond, and commitment to one another within a family. I have zero doubt about what my obligations are to my family, both alive and in their afterlife. That's all I need to say about that on the internet.

[@lukemayer8608]

Thank you Dewayne, as a 21 year old man I'm really focused on becoming and growing into a strong, intelligent, dependable man. You're a light for us young men in a feminized world. I appreciate it.

[@virginiacreager4331]

As a woman grateful for men like you willing to do this. I believe it’s about balance. Being equal does not mean being all the same.

[@hiddenleafshinobi2608]

Been having a real hard time lately. I appreciate your videos.

[@UrethralSludge]

Me to bro it’s ok just keep pushing

[@kristycook6041]

Just keep swimmin'

[@UrethralSludge]

@@kristycook6041 just keep swimming what do we do? Ohohohhooooo hooo just keep swimming swimming WHEEEENNNN YOU WANNNAAA SWIMMMM

[@ElephantWhisperer222]

We’re gonna make it to a better place mate, patience will secure our victory.

[@7331warrior]

Life is worth it, it may not look like it right now. You must have faith, enjoy nature, talk to new folks, and do your best to travel. Good luck Brotha.

[@ThaTurdBurglar]

One time when i was in my mid 20s, i was staying overnight with my girlfriend in a house with 1 other roomate girl. I couldnt sleep and was downstairs at 2 am while my gf was asleep. Out of nowhere the other girl came downstairs crying in her underwear saying that she had just been raped. My protector instincts took hold, and even though i barely knew her, i was ready to defend her against whatever monster came down those stairs in the next moment, which he did. There was a standoff. I assessed the situation as best i could and decided to protect her and tell him to leave now and never come back. He did. That wasnt the last time i had to deal with a situation like that.. but each time i became more familiar with that well you speak of.. and you are absolutely right.. im not afraid of any law, or any person, or any consequences other than living with myself and god knowing if i did or did not do the right thing. Its an awakening, and these moments show who you really are. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and eloquently putting it into words. There is nothing i wouldnt do to protect my loved ones.

[@Marcusdwayne639]

Since I was eight I’ve been in multiple fights which forced me to learn how to defend myself some altercations were with weapons as well. Still carry the scars with assurance that no one that I love will come to harm. I payed for everything I did and now at the ripe age of twenty three I’ve learned not every man was born to be a warrior. I know men like this who have never fought, one question I’ve always asked them if something did happen and you put my life and your life in danger by not defending yourself I will come for you. They all agreed I was right. I thank you for your wisdom sir. I have always wished I had a father like you. My father failed me but I will not fail my son.

[@nohalfwayjourney]

Hallelujah and Amen to "Perpetrators make a choice and ask for the consequences". Solid truth. Much respect for "Do not be afraid of the law, be afraid of not measuring up to who you know you are!" Love the depth of thoughts and wisdom. May God bless you and Mama!

[@Parahelion]

I want to thank you for making these videos. After my breakup I was feeling very low, I hated myself and I felt hopeless. But after watching your videos, over time, I learned to be comfortable with myself. I learned that my flaws are apart of who I was/am and I can work on those things. I can become a better person, friend, family member, and partner. The idea of knowing that I am so comfortable with myself that I can say "I don't need you, but I want you" is so profound. I'm also learning about my interests and how to communicate properly to other people. It gives me the confidence I need to believe in myself, especially since I didn't in the past.

[@digglejiggley1762]

I can totally relate to that situation. There is always someone out there sharing the same experience. Keep on improving

[@mandable]

you're awesome and i love you and you're great and please share your greatness with the world because it would be such a gift. toodles!

[@oldiron1269]

Just because something is legal doesn’t mean it’s always right. And sometimes the right thing isn’t legal. Important point and very well made!

[@urdadshusband781]

Malum prohibitum Malum in se

[@theianmce]

I totally agree. Doing things out of fear just leads to a life of fear for you and yours. Doing things for honor, respect, and because you believe they are right leads to a life of honor & respect.

[@psychodelic1457]

Fear doesn't just come out from no where you know

[@KimLaCroix-s1w]

Dewayne, as a strong independent woman, there is no other man I would want as my partner than the one you are speaking of. Also, I would whole heartedly give my life to protect my child no questions asked because that is what a mother does. Great message today. Much love to you and Mama ❤

[@marbs4379]

Damn. This was so gripping that the video felt like it was only a minute or two. Powerful. Best YT channel, hands-down.

[@lindayanez9519]

I enjoy watching your videos while I have my morning coffee. It's like a conversation with you. I like your common sense outlook on life.

[@scottbeater-man3714]

Honestly Dwayne. This video was a shock to my system. It was frightening to look down the well and ask myself these questions. At first, I was mad. Then I really got to asking myself all these questions. As God is my witness, I realized that I am willing to defend my loved ones at any cost. My parents. My sisters. My woman. I hope to God that I never do have to take a life or sacrifice my life or freedom. I hope none of these horrible things happen. Thank you for making me face my inner self. I realize today that I am a strong man.

[@HPBenton1]

Solid word. Spot on And a good time for many to hear it.

[@samueldawson8582]

Hey, I’m an AEMT and I’m currently in paramedic school. One thing that I’ve had to come to deal with is the fact that the decisions I make now truly have the power to either kill or save someone. Sometimes the decisions I make can even effect my own safety. He’s so right in the fact that in order to do what is right you have to push through and make the decision that isn’t always the easy way out. Thanks for the wisdom, it’s really helping me understand the weight of some of the decisions I have to make now.

[@foodbythewordmedia]

I fully support this message!!!🙏🏿

[@Science-Vlog]

Maybe You Can… But Will You?

[@Shadow-r9v]

This was a tough one to swallow, but I really listened

[@m0-m0597]

Unsubbed, I go watch cat videos

[@mikechampion1614]

Tough But A Much Needed message for today's world. And something every person should consider.

[@MrPaulG1]

​@@Science-VlogBullseye! 🎯

[@AnArkansasTrapper]

You have the gift of words and the world today needs to hear more words like this. Keep up the good work, my friend.

[@ayara8157]

Your videos are brilliant. This is what youtube was meant for!

[@davidbarnes6410]

Amen 🙏

[@robinnormannjespersen1602]

Thank you so much Mr. Noel. You have inspired me to read more, smoke cigars 😂 and overall become a better man for myself and my family. Lot's of love from Denmark ❤

[@RevellAndRepend]

Doing the right thing will always be hard, scary and potentially dangerous. Having looked down that deep well to face your inner coward once does not necessarily mean that you'll be able to do it again, which is why it's important to keep challenging yourself to face that part of you that craves comfort and security by doing things that scare you.

[@GaijinTV]

I just screenshot it that message. Thank you

[@volodymyr_dmytrash]

That is a damn wise point.

[@Herocross64]

I am glad you talked about these sort of things. I know of people who say they're dangerous but when they're put in confrontation psychical of course 9 times outta 10 they won't fight. My mindset is if you are a real threat to me or my family, I will not hesitate to take your life even if it costs me jail time or prison, I do not care as long as the people who are dear to me are safe. Though I don't look tough, mighty or look like I have worked out I'm still dangerously strong in the event that something happens and since I have matured in many ways more than one, though my family can drive me crazy I'll still lay down my life not to be a hero but because that is what a man needs to do. I don't know if you will read this and I cannot force you, I just hope you read this!

[@godsoncoke]

I know it’s said a lot but it’s really true that your timing with each subject seems to perfectly match my current situation it’s crazy. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and wisdom with us and I look forward to your book!

[@josephluizzi4751]

You're like the father, grandfather I never had, and I'm older than you, LOL. Love what you bring to society. You are helping me to be a better man. Thank you Duane

[@TheFunkybert]

The message I heard today is regarding situational awareness on a deeper level which requires courage and patience to do so. That and knowing that the law is setup for penalty of one who can not govern one’s self. Amen brother Dwayne. Thank you 🙏

[@RozannaPotter-sk5et]

AMEN, brother! I'm raising my 3grandsons and I will be teaching them to be MEN who know what IT is to BE a man! THANKS for the video!

[@jonathanmchugh5978]

I know exactly what you mean Dwayne. 20 years law enforcement I totally get what you say. Retirement at the end of the year. Can’t wait. Great channel. Jonathan 🇬🇧

[@Gekidogamer]

God bless you breeze through your last year man, have a well deserved rest.

[@jonathanmchugh5978]

@@Gekidogamer Thanks so much. Best wishes. Jonathan

[@1967plymgtx]

You are 100% correct. Few people have the common sense to express these views or the personal integrity to express them. I would be proud to call you friend. God Bless you!

[@QuiteFrankly]

Thank you for the vids over the years sir been an honor watching your channel grow

[@VardaTruffle]

The moment on the stairs is what is called a Torweg or Gateway. Only you can go through it, nobody else. Everyone can comment on it and discuss it but to stand in it is only for you and you alone. Respect to you for having that introspection and epiphany. It is a constituent part of being a mature man.

[@joshuahoogeveen3273]

Always appreciate the sage wisdom. This was a heavy one, but one a LOT of people need to hear. One thing I might add...you don't have to like it; confrontation, doing the hard things that need to be done, its not usually pleasant. But you have to know, when push comes to shove, what kind of man you are.

[@DraftyFlatulence]

Dwyane, As always thank you for this. You help people far more than you know.

[@МаратЗаруднев]

Nice vid as always! As Mark Twain said: ‘It's not the size of the dog in the fight, its the size of the fight in the dog. ' Keep repeating this to myself when something sketchy needs to be done

[@ngonidzashematongo8824]

I once had a small dog that terrorised much bigger dogs when it came down to fighting.

[@peenockquill8195]

Thank you brother for this great video. I can definitely relate to your LE challenges and looking deep within in your own soul to see what you’re made of. Every young man should go thru similar situations for their benefit…and everyone else’s. Love all your vids! Blessings to you and yours

[@MDR62MULES]

Great message today. You and I think alike regarding this topic. I have been dangerous for many years. People always say i have a good heart, but they dont know what runs deep in my heart. I am not evil. I have just drawn a line that cant be crossed without repercussions.

[@omega197]

I often ponder to myself there is a crucial missing link i miss that i need for a committed relationship. This is one of em, the "they deserve your readiness to stake when it counts". thank you for the lesson.

[@TheSPACEDIEVEST1]

I appreciate your openness. The men in America need to hear more content like this. I’m headed for Cody tomorrow for Thanksgiving. I’m not looking forward to the cold that you and my parents live in out there -especially when it’s suppose to be 20-30 ! I will be wearing my Dry Creek shirt at the airport from SFO to Billings, Montana. Let’s see if anyone recognizes the shirt. Happy Thanksgiving DeWayne and friends.

[@edevane-valencia-productions]

Thank you. You are setting me up for my future success. Words cannot describe how much I look up to you. Have a blessed day. -20 Yr old struggling in STEM field, while trying to build my future.

[@whatsgoodearth]

I’ve gone through this thought process multiple times as a lifeguard. I’ve always been scared of accurately judging a situation and not knowing if my survival is close to 100% if I were to go save a drowner. There are some situations that I’ve heard which made me question my morals if I were to be put into that situation.

[@buds2344]

I ve been stuck in the confort zone for too long currently 22 yo, missed some opportunities fuck. Wish I had my dad back to get me on the right path and keep going.

[@amarbaha]

The fact that you recognize it is most of the battle now you can make the changes. Good luck son.

[@lippi2171]

Don't worry man, 22 is still very very young. You've got plenty of time to improve and take opportunities.

[@camilojames1]

You can still make your dad proud

[@alexanib9763]

He is proud of you always. Take your time but not too long. There is never “a best time” to start something, just start and stay disciplined.

[@erkansefa]

I’m in the same situation too. I’m 24 years old and I am just about to apply for a job after 2 years of unemployment ever since dropping out of college. I didn’t goof around or anything, but I must say I have been very irresponsible from age 22-24, not having a job, borrowing money from my family etc. I never learned how to transition from boyhood to manhood really, until I finally realized that I have to detach from my mom and not seek her approval or permission to do stuff, so I started doing things by my own, as you should as a grown man. I learned that you need to be self-reliant and independent as a young man at age 24. The only mistake I made, because no one gave me the ultimatum or instilled fear in me, was not saving money since dropping out. My mom did advice me to get a job last year, but I refused to listen, bad call on my part. I did things without thinking about the consequences. Do I regret my choices, not really, because I have learned a lot of life lessons and gained experience from my mistakes, but I am very disappointed with myself for being irresponsible with money and not having a source of income and saving money. So, for any of you guys out there who are lost and confused, my story should be a wake up call. If you decide to venture to the unknown and take risks, do it…but do it carefully. Always think about the potential consequences whenever you have to make hard decisions in life, always, no if’s, ands or but’s.

[@francisbryan4485]

Thank you for sharing the truths that my Dad raised me in. He was a WW2 Marine vet and had seen the elephant more than once. We need truth tellers like you. God be with you and yours.

[@edreed8811]

One of your most important, critical videos yet. You could be featured on 60 minutes..being totally serious. Awesome work Dewayne.

[@CHorseGuitar]

It does a heart good to know there are still men like this still in the world.

[@wocookie2277]

Well said brother. I’m glad I’ve found you. You speak about things that matter. Veteran with four tours and brother your review of this situation has been felt by many but never better explained.

[@Warriors_Garden_and_Workshop]

DeWayne, I'm a 56 year old Pastor, who's also an Army vet, and I agree. Biblically speaking a gentle man is a man who can control himself, but is still a dangerous man under the right conditions. That being said, if someone were to try to harm my elderly mother, or 30 year old son, or my grandchildren in any way, what I would be willing to do to defend my loved ones would make Hitler look like a choir boy, and I wouldn't regret it, because the Lord knows my heart. Sometimes life demands that good, gentle people stand up and defend themselves or their loved ones with extreme violence, we live in an evil world.

[@TheLonster59]

That is one of my favorite videos so far of yours. It is disgusting. The amount of people who put themselves first these days. Things I would’ve never imagined I would see I’m seeing almost daily. My dad raised nine boys to all be respectful and strong world helpful gentleman, I cannot imagine where this world is headed but I loved your video. Thank you.

[@conservativejoe4025]

"Just turn this off and go watch some cat videos." 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Awesome line.👊

[@johnr.6453]

This might be your best video, Dwayne. The message is powerful. Bless your heart, sir 🙏

[@LuisRamirez-yd3dh]

May Abbah Keep on blessing your life my dear brother we need more good man like you in our country. I salute you Soldier of God !!💯🙏🏾💯

[@Shellyd2812]

Amen truth!! You seriously remind me of my grandfather and trust me there is not many like you both in today's world!! I can't wait until your book comes out!! I will buy a few from you! Have a nice safe Thanksgiving! 🙏🏻💙🙏🏻

[@0num4]

Dewayne, I've stewed on this video for the better part of a day before making a comment. I'd like to voice my vehement appreciation for your words, for sharing your wisdom and your heart with us. I've felt for a long time like an island in a sea of weakness, the waves eroding at my shores day by day. Tempted to make the easy wrong, instead of the hard right. I know I'm capable of confronting difficulty head-on, but this helps to reaffirm my willingness to do so. I hope for the best for you and yours this Thanksgiving and Christmas. Whatever pushback you may receive, know that these videos are helping folks understand and make better choices--that's something we can all use more of in the world.

[@mojo_joju]

Man, that part about being in a life-or-death situation really hits hard. I worked security services for 6 years, and honestly it still shocks me how quickly things can go to shit. Your survival instincts kick in and it’s all about staying alive no matter what. One minute everything’s just fine, and the next somebody’s about to die unless you get your shit together even if you yourself are terrified. Many people never experience what being in real danger feels like, but for those who’ve been in enough of those “holy shit, I could actually die here today” moments, it’s a scary experience.

[@crypto0046]

Hey Dewaine. I can relate to the moment ur talking about. It hit me right in the heart. Many years ago out of me being a lazy F. I would go to an interview for a job and stop on my way there , terrified. I had zero confidence. I even once stopped right by the door of the building ! I later changed things around and the minute I went for my first interview my confidence started to build. I stopped smoking cold Turkey. I let go of many I used to consider “friends”. I bought a property. I became a F man

[@crypto0046]

I know that is not a big moment as yours but it what led to that that I was trying to overcome.

[@robbychism]

I have had this talk in one form or another from my Dad many times. Thank you, Dewayne, for giving to everyone who didn't have a dad like mine so they could hear it. A wise man right here, folks.

[@RR-yh6vr]

Impeccable timing, sir. Not sure what compelled me to click your video just minutes after deciding it was time to euthanize a beloved animal. My husband offered to take care of it for me, because he is a good man. But she is mine, has been since the moment she was born, so she is mine to give mercy to, no matter how hard that is to do. This was a good teminder to us women - just because our men are willing to do the hard jobs, that doesn't mean we aren't without responsibility.

[@L0CV5T]

29:26 Dewayne I cannot describe how much I felt the resolve in that statement. I respect you more the more I hear your voice.

[@paulmuller1733]

It seems that nowadays the laws aren't there for the lawless, but for the righteous. Like you said, if you need the law to tell you how to live, something is seriously wrong. I fear a lot of people are going to have run ins with the law one day because technology raised them. The more 'advanced' we've become technologically, the more regressed we've become morally. Keep up the good work.

[@deeberry650]

So very true .well said !!

[@Theirishrose]

This is a very good point Paul

[@XOChristianaNicole]

Well stated.

[@trucvu5490]

Hello DeWayne. Love your messages!! Real, truthful, thoughtful, insightful..

[@griffingard6812]

You’re a good man, Dwayne. Looking up to you in a lot of ways these days. Thank you.

[@chrisgilling543]

Your best video to date Dewayne. Thank you for this message.

[@tobiasGR3Y]

I'm going to miss these fireside chats when I go overseas, but today's message also is a little bit of an inspiration for the hard things. I look forward to listening to you more when I get back. I've got quite a few of your little chats saved and when I get back I'll hopefully with the work put it be a smarter, more fit, more tan, and more dangerous man. Even have some more money when I get back to boot. Cheers, and many thanks regardless of outcomes.

[@JadensRedemption]

Amen Brother! This speaks a lot of truth to why I love tree work, or arborism so much. That Arborists are amongst a rare breed of people who are willing to put their life on the line to do our job. Idk. Another part of it is that we are putting our lives on the line, to do good for the world. It isn’t something that can be taught. As you are saying, it is either had within our hearts, or it is not.

[@MrKittycat1337]

As a child who was on the otherside of that door waiting on some one to save me. I vowed to always open the door the day it wasn't for me. My inner child will always hold my accountable.

[@jessemefford4234]

I just came back to the channel after a long while and I've had a son now and seeing this video has brought forward a different kind of resolve that I previously lacked the mindset to achieve and this is a blessing you have bestowed to me time and time again. Thank you, Sir, for sharing the knowledge that young men need and lack in their lives.

[@JohnnyDont]

Oh man, I'm so elated to hear someone else get into the original text of that verse! Thank you so much for this video.

[@Selah1141]

Hardy - "Get in the Truck." A good man, a dangerous man who does the hard thing. We need more men like this.

[@wesgriffin9666]

This was such a great video and i agree with all of it whole heartedly but its so good to listen and hear it from you Dewayne God bless you man. This is something that remains in my head daily. That means i know i have to be ready for it and family is my everything good talk

[@DarthPeruzi]

Congratulations for 1 million subscribers!

[@RagingMonkee]

"I don't live my life based on the judicial system." and "If you need the law to tell you what not to do, then you are missing a really big, important part of you." 100%, straight facts!

[@alanianfintan]

The truth always hits home. Thank you for your thoughts and taking the time to put them up on youtube for us to learn from.

[@wvbonbonqueen]

Another great thought provoking video. It is videos like yours, that are going to help those males and females to be better people, better tomorrow than they were today. Just because you make people think, and evaluate themselves!!! Thank You. Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family and all the folks right here!!!!

[@eddard9442]

Ive watched like 40 of your videos, first time i find out that you were a cop, this explains a lot. Now i know why you are so wise.

[@bonmj89]

Always a profoundly sobering experience listening to this man. Thank you Dewayne!

[@DREWlanning]

I really appreciate your take on this, mine has always been that if I saw a situation that I felt needed taken care of I would take the fight/struggle regardless of if I thought I could win or not. If we want to keep our home safe we need to be willing to do what is needed. That said I try to stack the deck in my favor (no such thing as a fair fight in the real world) when possible. Keep it real brother I really like hearing the challenging thoughts you put out there!

[@sathancat]

I love cat videos! That aside, there is an incredibly important message here I hear more often. Courage isn't always an easy thing.

[@0num4]

Courage is not easy. If it seems easy, it might just be crossing the line into foolishness.

[@addisonwallace1928]

My name is Addison and I'm from a small town Alabama and I just needed to say Thank you so much for this. I'm going through a break up and decided to come listen to you and this is first video that I watch and this is really speaking to me. I am forever grateful for these videos and your wisdom.

[@frankgonzales2462]

Perfectly told about our weak society and our weak law enforcement!!!!👍God bless you and your family have a great Thanksgiving!!🙏🙏

[@aaronmeyerhofer723]

I really like your new video set up! (studio) also I apprecciate the way you speak honest common sense in a way people can relate to. Thank you for putting in the work to reach out to us.

[@ryanlion4728]

Always appreciate your talks. A lot of us are sitting back not realizing the time has come to protect our wives and lives.

[@darthdonkulous1810]

Dewayne, you have this subscribers complete and utter respect and admiration. With each video of yours I watch, my respect grows for you. I hope you keep at it, with the content my friend.

[@ez2u1]

This talk isn’t just about men… it is a good talk … many times as a women I have been in positions in which in bad health and old but had to push forward and do the job set before me. Also paid the price for that work. Still the satisfaction came from meeting the responsible item that was set before me.

[@austinsesler766]

Thank you for being a constant voice of reason in this every changing crazy world we live in. Sending love and appreciation from Tennessee!

[@virginiacreager4331]

I wish someone had coming knocking on our door when things weren’t right in my home asa kid. ❤😢

[@MRV9512]

Thank you, Dewayne. Your videos allow me to have clarity from a lot of what goes on in my mind, and put life into perspective. I'm glad there are still men of honor in this world.

[@claychains]

My grandfather is named Duane he just passed away on the 11th of November 2023 we just buried him in a military cemetery this last Friday on the 16th is the greatest man I ever met I wish to be more like him ever since I came across your channel here in the last few days it's starting to change my my life and I hope to get ahold of the school and become part of something that can help change the me the now

[@breannelove7442]

Your precious memories of your grandfather live forever 💖 in your heart God Bless you and all the very best of luck with DeWayne Dry Creek school.

[@MichiganSilverBack]

Amen. Spot on as usual. Thx for sharing the truth brother.

[@jerryziegner]

As a former law enforcement officer in the small town of Dover Tennessee, I can relate 100 percent to what you just described. We work with what we are dealt at that moment

[@MoonZ_eire]

Ex law enforcement in Ireland, 19 years and contemplating going back in after working private sector for 3 years. I have been in this position before, unarmed, only cop in the town, no back up for miles and attending domestics. Knowing I’ve lost colleagues in exactly same situation, I’ve always entered and thankfully always walked out alive. My only concern going back to it in my early 40’s is that split second will become seconds and then that hesitation will get myself really hurt. Not doing my job effectively. That situation will get myself really hurt and I am really on the fence with returning to law enforcement as a result. This was great video Dwayne and amazing how if fits into my own life and it’s decisions. Thank you 🙏

[@jonchapman8344]

Not all males are Men. Trust and believe that.