Maybe You Can… But Will You?

[@jaimhaas5170]

I remember dealing with a stroke victim (my mom) and she was completely incapable of moving. Nursing homes nearly always abuse people in her situation...I had proof they had been treating her poorly and took her home to my house. It was such a hard thing to do yet one of the proudest moments in my life. My sister and nephews refused to help take care of her...but I managed. I stepped up. Good women are protected by good men.

[@DesertRat.45]

That is a huge step. My wife died of a combination of cancer and serious doctor screw ups. Mostly, the medical system killed her. Her family never stepped up and when she died they told everyone I knew I left her, didnt know she was dead, etc etc. That was 16 years ago. That ontop of left and right wing antagonists, its been hell and going to get worse. Im ready for it. Other than killing me, no one can hurt me anymore.b

[@HalfWarrior]

I appreciate you myself; I can speak to that on experience; I am hemiplegic from a stroke. Left side is paralyzed; right side works normally; fortunately my family had done research on places I could end up in; but the best option was my own home.👍🏻 I’ll bet your mom appreciates you more than you know.

[@adriantindall2629]

Kudos to you. Well done. Proud of you bud. Not everyone could of done that.

[@jaimhaas5170]

@@DesertRat.45 I am 60 now and lost most of my respect for the healthcare and legal systems we have over the past 20 yrs. I've seen too much. Much of it up close and personal.

[@adriantindall2629]

​@@DesertRat.45Hope everything gets better for you bud🙏. Sorry for loss😔

[@stankittrell7384]

Retired LEO here. Been there. I've walked up the steps before. Turned around and backed off too when no lives were at stake. You find out what kind of man you really are when nobody is looking. It's a lot easier to show courage when you have an audience and a lot tougher when it's just you and God. Respect to you.

[@deeberry650]

Thank you for your selfless service Sir ! We need more of Men like you and Dewayne !

[@darthdonkulous1810]

I admire men and women like you and Dewayne, Sir. All police officers are judged by the actions of the rotten few in todays world. The way police are treated by a large section of society (from one side of the political aisle in the vast, VAST majority of cases) makes me extremely... angry isn't the right word I think, but certainly makes me despair a little bit for the future. We can see exactly what happens when the government and those in power are on the side of the criminals rather than the law abiding citizens. All you need to do is look at Chicago and New York to see how much that, frankly speaking, fucks everyone else over. To all members of Law Enforcement, I think you are some of the bravest people in the world and (the vast majority of you) have my total respect and gratitude. Take care of yourself!

[@ВиталийСлонов-ч4ъ]

Re: character I've read somewhere that your character is what you do when you know nobody's looking. Or words to that effect.

[@retrovcr777]

That’s exactly what the video game silent hill is about. How far, and deep are you willing to go for the ones, or one you truly love, and that matter to you the most. What are you willing to do, and face regardless of the outcome? Are you willing to go through the darkness, and fight demons alone in a foreign location uncharted by man? Are you willing to face the ugly truth about the false realities that the matrix has created, and step foot in the rabbit hole not knowing what it leads to, or if you’ll even make it out alive knowing you could in fact be alone, and lost forever? What do you do if you’re in that situation already? You have no choice, but to keep going, and fighting through hell to destroy the darkness that is trying to engulf you. You don’t care who, what, when, how, or why you’re being attacked because at this point the only thing that matters is staying alive, and you will continue to fight until you keep winning because God is in control, and always gets the glory no matter what we do, or don’t do. We don’t need, or get the credit we deserve for anything because we THINK we deserve it, but we really don’t, and we don’t need it to begin with. God has already infinitely seen, and done everything which includes transcending all of time, space, and matter, every possible direction, and outcome of every single situation, idea, thought, or process including existence itself, we could ever possibly phantom. We don’t need to think, or understand, but we need to KNOW the truth of who He really is, and see Him face to face by His grace, mercy, all His sacrifice, and entire blood He has shed for every single sin committed since the beginning to the end of time that anyone including myself has ever committed on this earth. We can only get to His kingdom by trusting in Jesus Christ the son of God that He is our LORD, and savior that we may follow Him, and seek first His kingdom as He tells us to do, and all other things shall be added unto us. Anyone who took the time to read this I hope it made sense, and all those who have not read this, this far, or may not fully understand, or understand what I’m saying at all God bless you anyways, and Jesus loves you.

[@logantauson789]

Not afraid of the law, Afraid of not measuring up to who you know you are, man that’s awesome. So much respect

[@cbella616]

❤🙏❤️

[@BlazerLz]

The sort of person that created the need for the word "respect."

[@psychodelic1457]

Who's that ?

[@MezzMcGillicuddy1]

In a world of virtue-signalling liars and constant cultural gaslighting, it’s a real joy just to hear good people speaking honestly. The human heart is starved for truth today.

[@timelessadventurer]

Yeah, that’s such a good way to state it: “the human heart is starved for truth today”..

[@chasekloth3896]

Amen to that. I've longed for someone like this for many years

[@j.l.salayao8055]

I heard from a wise man saying, "If you're not willing to lay your life for your family(meaning to protect your wife and children knowing it will harm or kill you by doing so), you do not deserve any." Courage=Doing it anyway inspite of the danger that lays ahead.

[@jeffrey6618]

Theres a saying i think by abraham lincoln people who trade freedom for security deserve neither

[@j.l.salayao8055]

I concur 150% If I may.@@jeffrey6618

[@yuki3034]

@@jeffrey6618 If you wanted more context, it was spoken by Ben Franklin. The exact quote is, "Those who would give up essential Liberty, to purchase a little temporary Safety, deserve neither Liberty nor Safety.". It is mean literally, not figuratively. The quote is far from being a pro-privacy, if anything, it's a pro-taxation and pro-defense spending quotation. It is a quotation that defends the authority of a legislature to govern in the interests of collective security.

[@CosmoNoBones]

​@@yuki3034 It is meant literally, but No, it does not defend legislative bodies. Saying that sacrificing freedom for temporary security is a direct challenge to legislative bodies and governments. The fundamental idea behind The Constitution is freedom, the individual taking security into their own hands.

[@tzurtex6336]

Everytime I tell myself, “I’m just trying to live”, fighting the intrusive urges to quit, these videos bless my KZbin feed.

[@donmikan]

Yesterday i cried my soul out, thinking of the loved ones that died too soon, pondering all the cruelty and loneliness i am dealing with. After i cried, i realised that crying like that even a thousand times again, it wouldnt make me get over my lifes problems. I dont have a god or a meaning in life, but i chose to continue living. Please dont ever quit. If it offers a help, remember that a complete stranger was once deeply moved by the posibillity of you not getting to see the next day. We will never quit.

[@meiscatastrophe]

love exists because you exist. i am so glad you are here.

[@rnupnorthbrrrsm6123]

@@donmikanoh but you do have a God, you just haven’t met him yet. Believe me when I tell you, he knows you, he cares about you, he wants you to know him, he is waiting !!! Call out to God and receive his love, comfort and peace but most of all his free gift of salvation ❤ He sent his only son to die on a cross to pay the price for our sins, Jesus bridged the gap and we can spend eternity living in heaven if we just accept his gift ! It’s heaven or hell, please seek the Lord so you may live in heaven and not suffer any more ! God Bless you 🙏🏻

[@FrostmourneFK]

Quitters never win, and winners never quit. Theres a whole lot unsaid in there, but yes, you are allowed to struggle. You just aren't allowed to give up.

[@angelboogers]

I'm so thankful I stopped and watched. it's January 2nd 2024 and I'm already having a little. Just a tiny little hope 2024 will be turn out to be okay For now.

[@billb3454]

“If I had access to a squad of marines, let’s go boys!”😂😂 Another classic line. Great video.

[@landomerando6362]

Loved it 😂

[@lukemayer8608]

Thank you Dewayne, as a 21 year old man I'm really focused on becoming and growing into a strong, intelligent, dependable man. You're a light for us young men in a feminized world. I appreciate it.

[@virginiacreager4331]

As a woman grateful for men like you willing to do this. I believe it’s about balance. Being equal does not mean being all the same.

[@Vi420TTV]

"that child deserves more than what you are," - for any mothers out there.... i needed to hear this today Dewayne. "Its a dangerous world out there. Meet danger with danger." "I would die for you is small potatoes" "Its in the heart, not in the biceps" I truly hope you and your family is well. I love your videos, I am a married woman who takes all advice like this to heart.

[@sk1zzy337]

What does he mean when saying I would die for you is small potatoes when he thinks that a man should die for his family (which I agree with)

[@DryCreekWranglerSchool]

@sk1zzy337 any one can die. Everyone will die. To give your life for someone is one thing, but taking a life to protect them is a much bigger thing.

[@sk1zzy337]

@@DryCreekWranglerSchool thank you

[@redcapote4760]

My father, a former Special Operations guy who now rests in peace, showed me once or twice that any harm by an outsider to his loved ones would be met with unapologetically savage consequences. I was witness to that and know how it strengthens the trust, bond, and commitment to one another within a family. I have zero doubt about what my obligations are to my family, both alive and in their afterlife. That's all I need to say about that on the internet.

[@RevellAndRepend]

Doing the right thing will always be hard, scary and potentially dangerous. Having looked down that deep well to face your inner coward once does not necessarily mean that you'll be able to do it again, which is why it's important to keep challenging yourself to face that part of you that craves comfort and security by doing things that scare you.

[@GaijinTV]

I just screenshot it that message. Thank you

[@Aya-hj2bp]

I lost my grandpa in October of 2023 and I've lived with him for quite a long time. I just wanted to say thank you for talking to the camera as if you are talking directly to a person. It brings me back to sitting in my little town restaurant with my grandpa while he told me about his life. ❤ Lots of love, and thank you.

[@jlennox54]

November 1979 I was hauling a pneumatic tanker loaded with sand from Rock Springs Wyoming to Lander in a cab over International. Going down the pass the gearbox popped out of gear and then I lost my brakes. I was losing control of the truck on the curves and had to make the decision to steer off the road or wipe out a vehicle coming from the opposite direction. It took all I had to steer off the road up a treeless knoll but I did. At the top of the hill was a 1/2 mile drop into a ravine on the other side. The cab broke off the chassis as the truck flipped several times after I jackknifed it. It took 2 days to recover the rest of the rig from the bottom. A trooper told me the last time 2 other drivers tried to ditch a truck there they were both killed. I’m hearing you loud and clear. I’ll be 69 next month but I can still do what needs to be done.

[@hiddenleafshinobi2608]

Been having a real hard time lately. I appreciate your videos.

[@UrethralSludge]

Me to bro it’s ok just keep pushing

[@kristycook6041]

Just keep swimmin'

[@UrethralSludge]

@@kristycook6041 just keep swimming what do we do? Ohohohhooooo hooo just keep swimming swimming WHEEEENNNN YOU WANNNAAA SWIMMMM

[@ElephantWhisperer222]

We’re gonna make it to a better place mate, patience will secure our victory.

[@7331warrior]

Life is worth it, it may not look like it right now. You must have faith, enjoy nature, talk to new folks, and do your best to travel. Good luck Brotha.

[@sjdarlak]

I had no father to tell me this. One day I was attacked by a dog, panicked and hid behind my little sister. Dog was not even dangerous, I was 6 years old and remember this like it was yesterday. Shame that never gone away.. All fathers should listen and teach their young boys what school don't. God bless you, Dwayne, for this video 🙏

[@Parahelion]

I want to thank you for making these videos. After my breakup I was feeling very low, I hated myself and I felt hopeless. But after watching your videos, over time, I learned to be comfortable with myself. I learned that my flaws are apart of who I was/am and I can work on those things. I can become a better person, friend, family member, and partner. The idea of knowing that I am so comfortable with myself that I can say "I don't need you, but I want you" is so profound. I'm also learning about my interests and how to communicate properly to other people. It gives me the confidence I need to believe in myself, especially since I didn't in the past.

[@digglejiggley1762]

I can totally relate to that situation. There is always someone out there sharing the same experience. Keep on improving

[@mandable]

you're awesome and i love you and you're great and please share your greatness with the world because it would be such a gift. toodles!

[@theianmce]

I totally agree. Doing things out of fear just leads to a life of fear for you and yours. Doing things for honor, respect, and because you believe they are right leads to a life of honor & respect.

[@psychodelic1457]

Fear doesn't just come out from no where you know

[@foodbytheword6262]

I fully support this message!!!🙏🏿

[@Science-Vlog]

Maybe You Can… But Will You?

[@Shadow-r9v]

This was a tough one to swallow, but I really listened

[@m0-m0597]

Unsubbed, I go watch cat videos

[@mikechampion1614]

Tough But A Much Needed message for today's world. And something every person should consider.

[@MrPaulG1]

​@@Science-VlogBullseye! 🎯

[@oldiron1269]

Just because something is legal doesn’t mean it’s always right. And sometimes the right thing isn’t legal. Important point and very well made!

[@urdadshusband781]

Malum prohibitum Malum in se

[@Marcusdwayne639]

Since I was eight I’ve been in multiple fights which forced me to learn how to defend myself some altercations were with weapons as well. Still carry the scars with assurance that no one that I love will come to harm. I payed for everything I did and now at the ripe age of twenty three I’ve learned not every man was born to be a warrior. I know men like this who have never fought, one question I’ve always asked them if something did happen and you put my life and your life in danger by not defending yourself I will come for you. They all agreed I was right. I thank you for your wisdom sir. I have always wished I had a father like you. My father failed me but I will not fail my son.

[@KimLaCroix-s1w]

Dewayne, as a strong independent woman, there is no other man I would want as my partner than the one you are speaking of. Also, I would whole heartedly give my life to protect my child no questions asked because that is what a mother does. Great message today. Much love to you and Mama ❤

[@nohalfwayjourney]

Hallelujah and Amen to "Perpetrators make a choice and ask for the consequences". Solid truth. Much respect for "Do not be afraid of the law, be afraid of not measuring up to who you know you are!" Love the depth of thoughts and wisdom. May God bless you and Mama!

[@ThaTurdBurglar]

One time when i was in my mid 20s, i was staying overnight with my girlfriend in a house with 1 other roomate girl. I couldnt sleep and was downstairs at 2 am while my gf was asleep. Out of nowhere the other girl came downstairs crying in her underwear saying that she had just been raped. My protector instincts took hold, and even though i barely knew her, i was ready to defend her against whatever monster came down those stairs in the next moment, which he did. There was a standoff. I assessed the situation as best i could and decided to protect her and tell him to leave now and never come back. He did. That wasnt the last time i had to deal with a situation like that.. but each time i became more familiar with that well you speak of.. and you are absolutely right.. im not afraid of any law, or any person, or any consequences other than living with myself and god knowing if i did or did not do the right thing. Its an awakening, and these moments show who you really are. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and eloquently putting it into words. There is nothing i wouldnt do to protect my loved ones.

[@samueldawson8582]

Hey, I’m an AEMT and I’m currently in paramedic school. One thing that I’ve had to come to deal with is the fact that the decisions I make now truly have the power to either kill or save someone. Sometimes the decisions I make can even effect my own safety. He’s so right in the fact that in order to do what is right you have to push through and make the decision that isn’t always the easy way out. Thanks for the wisdom, it’s really helping me understand the weight of some of the decisions I have to make now.

[@AnArkansasTrapper]

You have the gift of words and the world today needs to hear more words like this. Keep up the good work, my friend.

[@buds2344]

I ve been stuck in the confort zone for too long currently 22 yo, missed some opportunities fuck. Wish I had my dad back to get me on the right path and keep going.

[@amarbaha]

The fact that you recognize it is most of the battle now you can make the changes. Good luck son.

[@lippi2171]

Don't worry man, 22 is still very very young. You've got plenty of time to improve and take opportunities.

[@camilojames1]

You can still make your dad proud

[@alexanib9763]

He is proud of you always. Take your time but not too long. There is never “a best time” to start something, just start and stay disciplined.

[@erkansefa]

I’m in the same situation too. I’m 24 years old and I am just about to apply for a job after 2 years of unemployment ever since dropping out of college. I didn’t goof around or anything, but I must say I have been very irresponsible from age 22-24, not having a job, borrowing money from my family etc. I never learned how to transition from boyhood to manhood really, until I finally realized that I have to detach from my mom and not seek her approval or permission to do stuff, so I started doing things by my own, as you should as a grown man. I learned that you need to be self-reliant and independent as a young man at age 24. The only mistake I made, because no one gave me the ultimatum or instilled fear in me, was not saving money since dropping out. My mom did advice me to get a job last year, but I refused to listen, bad call on my part. I did things without thinking about the consequences. Do I regret my choices, not really, because I have learned a lot of life lessons and gained experience from my mistakes, but I am very disappointed with myself for being irresponsible with money and not having a source of income and saving money. So, for any of you guys out there who are lost and confused, my story should be a wake up call. If you decide to venture to the unknown and take risks, do it…but do it carefully. Always think about the potential consequences whenever you have to make hard decisions in life, always, no if’s, ands or but’s.

[@marbs4379]

Damn. This was so gripping that the video felt like it was only a minute or two. Powerful. Best YT channel, hands-down.

[@Warriors_Garden_and_Workshop]

DeWayne, I'm a 56 year old Pastor, who's also an Army vet, and I agree. Biblically speaking a gentle man is a man who can control himself, but is still a dangerous man under the right conditions. That being said, if someone were to try to harm my elderly mother, or 30 year old son, or my grandchildren in any way, what I would be willing to do to defend my loved ones would make Hitler look like a choir boy, and I wouldn't regret it, because the Lord knows my heart. Sometimes life demands that good, gentle people stand up and defend themselves or their loved ones with extreme violence, we live in an evil world.

[@scottbeater-man3714]

Honestly Dwayne. This video was a shock to my system. It was frightening to look down the well and ask myself these questions. At first, I was mad. Then I really got to asking myself all these questions. As God is my witness, I realized that I am willing to defend my loved ones at any cost. My parents. My sisters. My woman. I hope to God that I never do have to take a life or sacrifice my life or freedom. I hope none of these horrible things happen. Thank you for making me face my inner self. I realize today that I am a strong man.

[@RozannaPotter-sk5et]

AMEN, brother! I'm raising my 3grandsons and I will be teaching them to be MEN who know what IT is to BE a man! THANKS for the video!

[@HPBenton1]

Solid word. Spot on And a good time for many to hear it.

[@omega197]

I often ponder to myself there is a crucial missing link i miss that i need for a committed relationship. This is one of em, the "they deserve your readiness to stake when it counts". thank you for the lesson.

[@TheFunkybert]

The message I heard today is regarding situational awareness on a deeper level which requires courage and patience to do so. That and knowing that the law is setup for penalty of one who can not govern one’s self. Amen brother Dwayne. Thank you 🙏

[@RagingMonkee]

"I don't live my life based on the judicial system." and "If you need the law to tell you what not to do, then you are missing a really big, important part of you." 100%, straight facts!

[@godsoncoke]

I know it’s said a lot but it’s really true that your timing with each subject seems to perfectly match my current situation it’s crazy. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and wisdom with us and I look forward to your book!

[@MrKittycat1337]

As a child who was on the otherside of that door waiting on some one to save me. I vowed to always open the door the day it wasn't for me. My inner child will always hold my accountable.

[@paulmuller1733]

It seems that nowadays the laws aren't there for the lawless, but for the righteous. Like you said, if you need the law to tell you how to live, something is seriously wrong. I fear a lot of people are going to have run ins with the law one day because technology raised them. The more 'advanced' we've become technologically, the more regressed we've become morally. Keep up the good work.

[@deeberry650]

So very true .well said !!

[@Theirishrose]

This is a very good point Paul

[@XOChristianaNicole]

Well stated.

[@josephluizzi4751]

You're like the father, grandfather I never had, and I'm older than you, LOL. Love what you bring to society. You are helping me to be a better man. Thank you Duane

[@RR-yh6vr]

Impeccable timing, sir. Not sure what compelled me to click your video just minutes after deciding it was time to euthanize a beloved animal. My husband offered to take care of it for me, because he is a good man. But she is mine, has been since the moment she was born, so she is mine to give mercy to, no matter how hard that is to do. This was a good teminder to us women - just because our men are willing to do the hard jobs, that doesn't mean we aren't without responsibility.

[@0num4]

Dewayne, I've stewed on this video for the better part of a day before making a comment. I'd like to voice my vehement appreciation for your words, for sharing your wisdom and your heart with us. I've felt for a long time like an island in a sea of weakness, the waves eroding at my shores day by day. Tempted to make the easy wrong, instead of the hard right. I know I'm capable of confronting difficulty head-on, but this helps to reaffirm my willingness to do so. I hope for the best for you and yours this Thanksgiving and Christmas. Whatever pushback you may receive, know that these videos are helping folks understand and make better choices--that's something we can all use more of in the world.

[@jonathanmchugh5978]

I know exactly what you mean Dwayne. 20 years law enforcement I totally get what you say. Retirement at the end of the year. Can’t wait. Great channel. Jonathan 🇬🇧

[@Gekidogamer]

God bless you breeze through your last year man, have a well deserved rest.

[@jonathanmchugh5978]

@@Gekidogamer Thanks so much. Best wishes. Jonathan

[@DraftyFlatulence]

Dwyane, As always thank you for this. You help people far more than you know.

[@whatsgoodearth]

I’ve gone through this thought process multiple times as a lifeguard. I’ve always been scared of accurately judging a situation and not knowing if my survival is close to 100% if I were to go save a drowner. There are some situations that I’ve heard which made me question my morals if I were to be put into that situation.

[@JohnnyDont]

Oh man, I'm so elated to hear someone else get into the original text of that verse! Thank you so much for this video.

[@QuiteFrankly]

Thank you for the vids over the years sir been an honor watching your channel grow

[@joshuahoogeveen3273]

Always appreciate the sage wisdom. This was a heavy one, but one a LOT of people need to hear. One thing I might add...you don't have to like it; confrontation, doing the hard things that need to be done, its not usually pleasant. But you have to know, when push comes to shove, what kind of man you are.

[@ayara8157]

Your videos are brilliant. This is what youtube was meant for!

[@davidbarnes6410]

Amen 🙏

[@ez2u1]

This talk isn’t just about men… it is a good talk … many times as a women I have been in positions in which in bad health and old but had to push forward and do the job set before me. Also paid the price for that work. Still the satisfaction came from meeting the responsible item that was set before me.

[@МаратЗаруднев]

Nice vid as always! As Mark Twain said: ‘It's not the size of the dog in the fight, its the size of the fight in the dog. ' Keep repeating this to myself when something sketchy needs to be done

[@ngonidzashematongo8824]

I once had a small dog that terrorised much bigger dogs when it came down to fighting.

[@TheSPACEDIEVEST1]

I appreciate your openness. The men in America need to hear more content like this. I’m headed for Cody tomorrow for Thanksgiving. I’m not looking forward to the cold that you and my parents live in out there -especially when it’s suppose to be 20-30 ! I will be wearing my Dry Creek shirt at the airport from SFO to Billings, Montana. Let’s see if anyone recognizes the shirt. Happy Thanksgiving DeWayne and friends.

[@MDR62MULES]

Great message today. You and I think alike regarding this topic. I have been dangerous for many years. People always say i have a good heart, but they dont know what runs deep in my heart. I am not evil. I have just drawn a line that cant be crossed without repercussions.

[@Myglowtips]

I am over here in Europe living in a country that is supposed to be top in healthcare and caregiving. My 27-year-old daughter is blind and mentally incapacitated (physically perfect; not in a wheelchair and can communicate like a 5-year-old). I work full time, very busy job, 60 years old (I look much younger, but my body knows its age) and after much thought and to prepare for when I am no longer here (there is no plan B or family members who are willing to take over from me once I am gone), I decided to put her into a care facility - lovely place with her own private room, ensuite bathroom and a balcony. I visit her twice during the week and bring her home weekends, but it gives me a bit of time to breath and have some sort of life. I cannot begin to say, how much I regret it. I've found her with full blown pooh in her pants more than once, her room does not get cleaned (even though I pay extra for it) and I've found her alone in her room with just underwear, no slippers and had I not come round that evening, nobody would have put her to bed. Her clothes although marked, are constantly disappearing, shrunk or found in someone else's room. recently her hairdryer disappeared and made the caregivers look for it. I make sure to document each of these incidents via a diplomatic email but the main intention, is to chronicle it in case I one day, want to take her out. I have also, made sure that I have a good lawyer to ensure that I remain her legal guardian as I've noticed the rules and law creeps in with nuances in the justice system that is not always easy to catch when it's in a foreign language that's not my mother tongue. With apologies to all caregivers who do their job right, I have to say, it's not good out there. They do not really care. They do not like one to say anything either you are supposed to pay through your neck but shut up when they do their work very poorly. My daughter loves where she is and does not want to come home even on the weekends, but I gently coax her because I want her to stay connected to me and not forget home; so, that has been my only reason for keeping her in the facility so far. The team as a whole, are o.k. but one does need to be brave and speak up for your child and loved ones. Nobody is going to care as much. If you have a family member in a retirement facility or any kind of facility, please go round once a week or at the very least, once a month, check up on things keep your eyes open. Show up at different times unannounced with the sweetest smile but vigilant like a serpent. Gentle as a dove but wise as a serpent.

[@claychains]

My grandfather is named Duane he just passed away on the 11th of November 2023 we just buried him in a military cemetery this last Friday on the 16th is the greatest man I ever met I wish to be more like him ever since I came across your channel here in the last few days it's starting to change my my life and I hope to get ahold of the school and become part of something that can help change the me the now

[@breannelove7442]

Your precious memories of your grandfather live forever 💖 in your heart God Bless you and all the very best of luck with DeWayne Dry Creek school.

[@CHorseGuitar]

It does a heart good to know there are still men like this still in the world.

[@VardaTruffle]

The moment on the stairs is what is called a Torweg or Gateway. Only you can go through it, nobody else. Everyone can comment on it and discuss it but to stand in it is only for you and you alone. Respect to you for having that introspection and epiphany. It is a constituent part of being a mature man.

[@LuisRamirez-yd3dh]

May Abbah Keep on blessing your life my dear brother we need more good man like you in our country. I salute you Soldier of God !!💯🙏🏾💯

[@Shellyd2833]

Amen truth!! You seriously remind me of my grandfather and trust me there is not many like you both in today's world!! I can't wait until your book comes out!! I will buy a few from you! Have a nice safe Thanksgiving! 🙏🏻💙🙏🏻

[@conservativejoe4025]

"Just turn this off and go watch some cat videos." 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Awesome line.👊

[@Herocross64]

I am glad you talked about these sort of things. I know of people who say they're dangerous but when they're put in confrontation psychical of course 9 times outta 10 they won't fight. My mindset is if you are a real threat to me or my family, I will not hesitate to take your life even if it costs me jail time or prison, I do not care as long as the people who are dear to me are safe. Though I don't look tough, mighty or look like I have worked out I'm still dangerously strong in the event that something happens and since I have matured in many ways more than one, though my family can drive me crazy I'll still lay down my life not to be a hero but because that is what a man needs to do. I don't know if you will read this and I cannot force you, I just hope you read this!

[@edreed8811]

One of your most important, critical videos yet. You could be featured on 60 minutes..being totally serious. Awesome work Dewayne.

[@francisbryan4485]

Thank you for sharing the truths that my Dad raised me in. He was a WW2 Marine vet and had seen the elephant more than once. We need truth tellers like you. God be with you and yours.

[@johnr.6453]

This might be your best video, Dwayne. The message is powerful. Bless your heart, sir 🙏

[@wocookie2277]

Well said brother. I’m glad I’ve found you. You speak about things that matter. Veteran with four tours and brother your review of this situation has been felt by many but never better explained.

[@wvbonbonqueen]

Another great thought provoking video. It is videos like yours, that are going to help those males and females to be better people, better tomorrow than they were today. Just because you make people think, and evaluate themselves!!! Thank You. Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family and all the folks right here!!!!

[@MoonZ_eire]

Ex law enforcement in Ireland, 19 years and contemplating going back in after working private sector for 3 years. I have been in this position before, unarmed, only cop in the town, no back up for miles and attending domestics. Knowing I’ve lost colleagues in exactly same situation, I’ve always entered and thankfully always walked out alive. My only concern going back to it in my early 40’s is that split second will become seconds and then that hesitation will get myself really hurt. Not doing my job effectively. That situation will get myself really hurt and I am really on the fence with returning to law enforcement as a result. This was great video Dwayne and amazing how if fits into my own life and it’s decisions. Thank you 🙏

[@tobiasGR3Y]

I'm going to miss these fireside chats when I go overseas, but today's message also is a little bit of an inspiration for the hard things. I look forward to listening to you more when I get back. I've got quite a few of your little chats saved and when I get back I'll hopefully with the work put it be a smarter, more fit, more tan, and more dangerous man. Even have some more money when I get back to boot. Cheers, and many thanks regardless of outcomes.

[@crypto0046]

Hey Dewaine. I can relate to the moment ur talking about. It hit me right in the heart. Many years ago out of me being a lazy F. I would go to an interview for a job and stop on my way there , terrified. I had zero confidence. I even once stopped right by the door of the building ! I later changed things around and the minute I went for my first interview my confidence started to build. I stopped smoking cold Turkey. I let go of many I used to consider “friends”. I bought a property. I became a F man

[@crypto0046]

I know that is not a big moment as yours but it what led to that that I was trying to overcome.

[@griffingard6812]

You’re a good man, Dwayne. Looking up to you in a lot of ways these days. Thank you.

[@wesgriffin9666]

This was such a great video and i agree with all of it whole heartedly but its so good to listen and hear it from you Dewayne God bless you man. This is something that remains in my head daily. That means i know i have to be ready for it and family is my everything good talk

[@trucvu5490]

Hello DeWayne. Love your messages!! Real, truthful, thoughtful, insightful..

[@ironheadforge6308]

Sir you are a true man, a great example for the rest of us out here today. Thank you for your counsel and advice. Don’t care what others may have to say about it, you’ve nailed exactly what needs to be said. 💪🏽

[@bonmj89]

Always a profoundly sobering experience listening to this man. Thank you Dewayne!

[@TheLonster59]

That is one of my favorite videos so far of yours. It is disgusting. The amount of people who put themselves first these days. Things I would’ve never imagined I would see I’m seeing almost daily. My dad raised nine boys to all be respectful and strong world helpful gentleman, I cannot imagine where this world is headed but I loved your video. Thank you.

[@virginiacreager4331]

I wish someone had coming knocking on our door when things weren’t right in my home asa kid. ❤😢

[@trippkelly5856]

This was a powerful one. Thanks as always Dewayne. My hat is forever tipped to you, sir.

[@ryanlion4728]

Always appreciate your talks. A lot of us are sitting back not realizing the time has come to protect our wives and lives.

[@chrisgilling543]

Your best video to date Dewayne. Thank you for this message.

[@jerryziegner]

As a former law enforcement officer in the small town of Dover Tennessee, I can relate 100 percent to what you just described. We work with what we are dealt at that moment

[@1967plymgtx]

You are 100% correct. Few people have the common sense to express these views or the personal integrity to express them. I would be proud to call you friend. God Bless you!

[@sathancat]

I love cat videos! That aside, there is an incredibly important message here I hear more often. Courage isn't always an easy thing.

[@0num4]

Courage is not easy. If it seems easy, it might just be crossing the line into foolishness.

[@alanianfintan]

The truth always hits home. Thank you for your thoughts and taking the time to put them up on youtube for us to learn from.

[@Grave_Digger606]

When you were talking about how a wife deserves a man who would give up any and everything to protect her and her well being, I could almost hear a bunch of men I know growling about how their woman isn’t worth opening the door for. I honestly am sorry for those men, whether the blame truly does lie with their spouse, or it lies with them. Either way, it’s a shame. If you’re not willing to give everything up for her, figure it out. You probably shouldn’t have married her, but you did, so it’s your job and responsibility to be her protector. And it goes without saying about your children. I would do whatever needs doing for my wife and kids.

[@burningdust]

Much respect for your shared wisdom. Thank you. I am that man who turned around on those steps. A coward. It's a hard truth to accept. It's been years since and I don't know what it is I need to do to get beyond it, or if there's even a way. You are completely justified in fearing that disposition more than anything else. An empty shell or a man. damn right.

[@nopenope7777]

Great video. Made this 30 degree walk while I'm really hungry a lot easier. Thanks for being the old man wisdom my father didn't give me a lot of.

[@DREWlanning]

I really appreciate your take on this, mine has always been that if I saw a situation that I felt needed taken care of I would take the fight/struggle regardless of if I thought I could win or not. If we want to keep our home safe we need to be willing to do what is needed. That said I try to stack the deck in my favor (no such thing as a fair fight in the real world) when possible. Keep it real brother I really like hearing the challenging thoughts you put out there!

[@frankgonzales2462]

Perfectly told about our weak society and our weak law enforcement!!!!👍God bless you and your family have a great Thanksgiving!!🙏🙏

[@Zindarak137]

Courage is not the absence of fear, but the rather the willingness to continue toward what you feel needs to be done in spite of that fear. Fear is a natural, primal response to percieved danger. Courage is a choice that you make and must be practiced regularly (like a muscle) so that in a SHTF scenario, it'll be your natural response (while being tempered by logic, as you stated). Thank you sincerely for this video. This is something that Men need to be reminded of in this day.

[@Quazima115]

While solo traveling I almost got mugged by a group of 8. They were standing around me in a semi circle, two steps away and there was a sort of standoff. One looked sideways for witnesses, the others looked me up and down and reached into their pockets (presumably for knives). Body language wise, I saw who was going to make the first move if it came to it and I was fully ready to stab and kill him if he did. 1 Vs 8, you're not going to win, but I wouldn't have been able to look myself in the mirror had I not stood my ground. It's a strange feeling, but you know what you're capable off after getting into a situation like that.

[@aaronmeyerhofer723]

I really like your new video set up! (studio) also I apprecciate the way you speak honest common sense in a way people can relate to. Thank you for putting in the work to reach out to us.

[@jonchapman8344]

Not all males are Men. Trust and believe that.

[@chg31111]

Watching this just reminded me of this quote: "Love wasn’t always about hugs and warmth. Sometimes it was about exposing yourself to the infinity of pain and darkness. Sometimes it was about opening up your own well of blackness and letting it spill out upon the world."- Ashes of the Unspeakable: The Borrowed World

[@ahhhhhlive]

I'm a trans guy and my dad passed away last year. He will never get to be there for me while i'm presenting as a man, but listening to these stories and wisdom really makes me feel like you are a sort of mentor to me. I really appreciate it. I know we are two very different people, but I thought I'd mention how much of a difference it makes for even someone like me.

[@WestTNConfed]

You're very welcomed in this community and sorry about your loss ❤

[@wakawakacody]

So sorry about your loss. I am glad you are here ❤️

[@daisyviluck7932]

Are you willing to not talk about your journey in front of young people?

[@inquiiry]

You’re appreciated and loved here I hope you find peace and comfort with your recent loss❤

[@virginiacreager4331]

You are a beautiful person. It’s what’s on the inside that truly counts. I believe your father is proud of you and sending love and encouragement from the other side.

[@addisonwallace1928]

My name is Addison and I'm from a small town Alabama and I just needed to say Thank you so much for this. I'm going through a break up and decided to come listen to you and this is first video that I watch and this is really speaking to me. I am forever grateful for these videos and your wisdom.

[@38raymondcruz]

Powerful message. I am abdolutely ready to pay any price for my wife and children if the situation arose where it was necessary

[@austinsesler766]

Thank you for being a constant voice of reason in this every changing crazy world we live in. Sending love and appreciation from Tennessee!

[@jeremyevans710]

This is so serious and relevant and significant and I was so immersed and actively listening cuz it's information that I'd pay for. Then all of a sudden he says "that's kinda small potatoes" 😂 I've never heard that and for some reason it just snapped me out of it and made me laugh really hard

[@virginiacreager4331]

I had to take an action involving CPS for my niece and nephew even though it would mean being estranged and hated by my family and even losing the relationship with the kids. I looked deep in that well and wanted so badly to walk down the stairs without going to the door but in the end I knew it wasn’t about me, it was doing right by the children who deserve protection. Hardest thing I’ve ever done and still living with the consequences.

[@Kowalamaster]

Wise, words and a talk for those to understand sacrifice.

[@richardgg2889]

Exactly the thing we need to acknowledge today. So many "tough" guys out there, but they dont seem that tough. Sometimes the "tougher" they act, the weaker they are. Thanks for remainding us!

[@Koku706]

Really like your videos keep them up