Meet Spencer - "She 100% Gave Up, Moved Out, Separated & Told Me to Stop Trying. And now..."

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Hey guys hope this was helpful! Want results like Spencer? Want to apply for the Relationships Revival program? Be sure to check out my brand new masterclass on the 5 Proven Steps to Rebuilding Your Relationship/Marriage. (Warning: Spots are limited) 💪 Here is the link to the MASTERCLASS & To Apply for the Relationships Revival program -> relationshipsmastered.com/masterclass 🎉 Click here to see more inspiring stories from our clients from the Relationships Revival program: kzbin.info/aero/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU

[@805_tj5]

Hey Geoffrey does the master class show how I can purchase your program? Cause I keep looking on your website and I only see the enroll to the master class. Just trying to figure out how to access the program. I know your program is what I need! thanks brother!

[@kevinloganjr2280]

Dude… I watched every single one of your video 2 weeks after my wife and I separated. I started with another program and it just wasn’t for me but it had a roadmap that made sense. I took that along with your videos and created with the help of chatGPT my own program which was heavy use of your info (couldn’t afford your program to be honest) but last night my wife after 2 months of working on my BPV and interval shifts and decoding my DOD’s that she said she wanted me to date her again. YOOOOO, swear I would never been even close to this place without your strategies and testimonials. I mean. I’m still only like 5% of the way there but now the real work begins. Thank you thank you thank you. This is what everyone needs for life. Forget just a reconciliation. It’s so much more powerful!!

[@scottjohnson1117]

It would be great to have the spouse also be in a video to discuss their thoughts.

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Note that we don't enroll easy cases where people enroll as a couple. We take difficult cases where it's one person trying to do the work to grow themselves, and re-attracting their partner. We thought about doing this, and have done a few like this, but it creates a very awkward dynamic because the partner has not been through the program and cannot speak deeply to the principles.

[@PokeDaBearUSA]

Man this is literally my situation almost exactly. Him going through and explaining his growth gives me hope for my relationship to get fixed! Awesome stuff man. I think this program is exactly what I need!

[@oliverrichardson4186]

Thanks Spencer for sharing this. I am currently working through my victim to hero exercise in P1 M2 Step 4. Spencer’s story has helped me to rethink what my standards should be regarding being “irreplaceable” from my wife’s perspective. The process has helped me get out of the illusion of thinking I am, or need to be, the perfect product. I will focus on having the perfect process within the programme. Thank you Geoffrey for your programme from across the pond in England, UK.

[@iamdarenjoseph]

I'm so happy for you Spencer! You give me hope. Thanks both of you!

[@dday009]

Really inspiring and positive interview Nice Job Spencer and Geoff!

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Hi Peter Day, Yes! Agreed, Spencer has been very inspiring for many and an example of what just one person can do to turn things around.

[@imagegotbeats]

Awesome video!!! I love the consultation calls with the clients!!! The world is missing out on these topics and videos.

[@kylew791]

I am a member of this program and I have said the exact same thing Spencer did about instilling this into my 13 year old son so he don’t have same issues. Us boys/men are not taught this stuff. And you get on KZbin and it’s all about being “alpha” and letting her go/walk instead of focusing on improving yourself since you are the reason your relationship failed in the first place. And if you aren’t by some miracle the main root of the problem, then you can just improve yourself to be the best. Win-win. Quit making excuses, playing victim…man up and really become an “alpha” by humbling yourself to do the work!

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Exactly brother! No matter what, you can't escape the work, nor should you escape it!

[@fernandocabanillas8133]

How’s the program working for you brother? On the fence about it.

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

@@fernandocabanillas8133 Not sure how much more evidence you need. We're already giving you so much evidence to allow yourself to drown in them. We enroll people who have spent close to $50,000 on other program, and swear by ours and ours only. We enroll about 4-5 dozen therapists per year, all whom abandon their system to practice mine. Don't believe me? Look below. @optimus prime - I don't know what your real name is in the program, but I'll let you chime in to confirm that I'm not making any of this shit up :) This first video is a walkthrough of our program. kzbin.info/www/bejne/gnSXfYZ3eruBjdE This second video is addressed to George. See for yourself how many people are raving about this program. This is an every-day occurrence. www.loom.com/share/2699d4ec9c70437e85a16ffb628b581a?sharedAppSource=personal_library This third video is a recent client story with Liam Rose, kzbin.info/www/bejne/goTWaKxmqJWaj8k This fourth video is another recent client story with Jason Newman. He quit his high paying job to come work for us, because we changes his life in ways un-imaginable through any other programs. kzbin.info/www/bejne/fKDbm4SVg6iojNE This final link is to our current collection of client stories: kzbin.info/aero/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

@@fernandocabanillas8133 And last thing brother - this might sound pompous, but I will say it anyway because it is true. We have an extremely full calendar of applicants, and we're not really interested in convincing your to join. If you are not 100% on me and the program, then I would hate to take your money. I have more than enough - we make $3MM per year at 90% profit margin. We actually turn down 90% of the clients who apply. That's right - only less than 10% of applicants get accepted. We do this because I want to work with people who are 100% on working on themselves, on this journey, and who we KNOW we can coach in an effective way. And those who get accepted are the ones who pay attention to instructions well, and who are able to do their own research to understand the life-changing nature of this program.

[@fernandocabanillas8133]

@@GeoffreySetiawan You’re not sounding pompous brother you’re just telling it like it is and I appreciate that, i’ve been following you for sometime now and I know that you experienced this firsthand yourself. I also know that you understand how a man can feel so lost and crushed and confused and not sure about anything at that moment. I’m just doing everything that I can to find a reason to continue breathing.

[@VitalityGamezz]

Honestly this sounds a lot like my situation but hearing the end gives me so much fkn hope to get this fixed

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Great, now let's get to work!!

[@iDanceMyButtOff]

Same here, the title of this video is exactly what I'm going through right now. Being pushed away, being stonewalled, ignored and treated like a stranger in my own home. I have a month left before she leaves me for good, trying my best to convince her that I can change for us, but she so set on her decision on leaving. Hopefully I can save my marriage through these videos.

[@MassGradingTeacher]

@@iDanceMyButtOff any update?

[@peace_in_golf]

This is exactly what I’m going through now! Wife living at one of her new running friends houses, kids swapping back and force. A lot of blaming and minimal contact. Separated now 19 months

[@tb87670]

Any update? Anything help you?

[@jonjbivins]

He said “I was smoking that guy” 😂. My man!

[@superespiritual1553]

This is so useful, thanks for not engaging in the gender wars and focusing on bringing people together.🔥🌟🙏

[@zaracyn]

Are there any financial assistance programs out there that one could avail themselves of to aid in paying for this?

[@StevoSparta-tt5vu]

A personal loan

[@MatthewCastil]

Can i do this program together with meditation .?

[@biersmorgen6609]

I cant afford this program i may be separating but im holding on tryjng not to hunt which means im not untethered yet im learning to be bulletproof i dont want to give up on us even tho she has

[@cardcollector1299]

Did you keep it to yourself you're working on yourself or let your partner know?

[@mikerussell9034]

Hey Geoffrey, I have a question about your program. I want to be as respectful as possible before considering it. It's been 10 months since I was with and seen this woman. I was with this woman who I've known for 11 years but reconnected in 2020 for 10 months who we both had an affair together when she was married (Now she is in the middle of a divorce and child custody) I was really close with (my best friend) we were was supposed to have a baby together (miscarriage) I supported her and her 1 year old daughter. Now we have grown so apart with heavy resentment on both our sides and to the point where we both said very mean and hurtful things to one another. Basically initiating the end of us and our communication last week. Also, there is significant hate of the thought of us together, from husband, her family etc. Also, considering that she was still in a relationship with me at the time she also proceeded to cheat on me and lied about it for 10 months (Not with her husband she is divorcing) She also fell into a financial hole and went into mens clubs for work for a little which has really brought a lot of negative aspects for her life and my life. On top of this her husband knows about me which has made the divorce very rough for her and her child. He has the potential to be very very dangerous physically with who he is as a person, also for the fact that when the divorce is done, that if anything were to arise with her and my relationship that he would go back to court to proceed on fighting her having her daughter. There's a lot of conflicts and resentments from all parties about this situation and was wondering if this program is meant for someone like me in this situation who still deeply wants to live a life with this woman and her daughter. But I don't know if this seems valid and appropriate for a man like me to be in this program with everything that has transpired with our affair together. Any insight and advice if proceeding is appropriate and valid. Should I move forward with life for a relationship that isn't brought up on an affair, dangers, and others becoming hurt, or should I consider this program? Thank you.

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Hi Mike, Let me be honest with you. I am not sure if we would be a good fit. If your reasons and motivation to change are only based on the conditions of you having a chance to reconcile your relationship. You will never make it and I wouldn't want to take your money like that. To me you have missed the underlying message from not only Spencer's story but all of my client stories. Feel free to rewatch to see what it takes to become successful and stop playing out the cycle of failure. kzbin.info/aero/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU

[@lioncross1849]

I’m sorry to say mate but her daughter is actually his daughter too and I question why you decided to step in and help break up her family to begin with.

[@christiancezar5870]

Early Bird here! I really want to join in the program but I have a language barrier by the way from the Philippines

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

If you can understand the YT videos, then you should be able to understand the program without a problem. We have lots of individuals from Asia and Europe for whom language is a second-language.

[@christiancezar5870]

@@GeoffreySetiawan Hi Geoffrey I really want to join but also I want to know how much is the masterclass?

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

@@christiancezar5870 As I mention in all my videos, the 1.5-hour masterclass is free.

[@fernandocabanillas8133]

Do you ever have thoughts or doubts for that matter that she just came back to you because the guy that she was with didn’t work out in other words you were a back up plan? And if you do how do you deal with that? Also how do you deal with the thought of her having sex with another man and him having his way with her? The reason why I’m asking is because I want to be prepared on how to handle the situation if me and my wife were to ever reconcile. I’m not sure if the program will teach you how to deal with this or not.

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Dude, watch the video. We addressed this, and the answer is no, he is not worried. She is not choosing him out of need, but out of WANT. The proof is that his wife is literally bragging about him to all of the girl and guy friends they meet! Here's the bottom line - if you are still worried about the politics of all this petty stuff, it's normally because you have not grown yourself to become someone irreplaceable, and you do not know how to act out of deep conviction and self-esteem. Once you make these changes, like Spencer has, you TRANSCEND having to worry about all this petty stuff. You know that your partner will pick you, because it becomes the no-brainer decision. You don't need to worry, force her to do anything, she just comes to you. P.S. You worrying about this stuff should be a wake-up call for you that you need to grow massively. Your paranoia during this stage is most likely the same paranoia that caused the breakdown in the relationship in the first place.

[@fernandocabanillas8133]

@@GeoffreySetiawan I know I have a lot of work to do I acknowledge it, it’s just so fucking scary right now

[@davidlomas2889]

@@fernandocabanillas8133 Mate sign up, you won’t regret it. I am only new to the course but I have already learnt so much and I had the same fears and reservations as you. What do you have to to lose? Nothing. What do you have to gain? EVERYTHING!

[@fernandocabanillas8133]

@@davidlomas2889 I appreciate it brother I think I am.

[@morgansimpson315]

@@fernandocabanillas8133 Did you sign up? What happened in the past 7 months?

[@omarleslie5299]

I would have never taken her back