Mennonite Lifestyle Q and A: on dating, swim attire, + what I don't love, and being "weird"

[@HarvestYouthDayton]

I loved that - "I am A Mennonite, I am not THE Mennonite." What a great disclaimer! Thank you for sharing about your beliefs!

[@michellemarquez2440]

Same!!

[@mrkennedy4394]

A lot of religious people need to think about that statement! 😀 it's a good one for every religion

[@bekkkabby]

I'm not religious at all but I love hearing your perspective. While we don't agree on all things, I think that in order to learn and grow we need to be open minded and willing to listen. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and way of life with us.

[@kelizabethg1]

Love this!

[@countrymama2839]

Thank you for having an open attitude towards different religions and ways of life. It seems that many non-religious people are totally closed off to anything that stems from or hints at faith.

[@cbear7918]

Well said

[@livw8650]

@@countrymama2839 being non-religious myself and knowing many non-religious people, I don't find that is necessarily true for the majority. It's more that as a group, if we give an inch, others try to take a mile and try to get us to see "why we are wrong". It's not that we don't have interest in others beliefs and it's not that we look down on them, it's simply that we don't want our own beliefs attacked because they are still beliefs and we still have morals. I'm sure there are absolutely some non-religious people who are downright rude and disregarding, but I feel more often than not non-religious people are leaning on the side of caution and just keep to themselves.

[@countrymama2839]

@@livw8650 I agree! Both sides have understanding people who are willing to have the "you do you" attitude and both sides have the people who have the my way is the only way attitude. I will share my opinions if someone is open to them, but telling someone they're wrong isn't going to help anything. I have close friends who are non-believers and we can have great conversations about different opinions (not only religion).

[@taragetter]

I’m a lapsed Catholic (pretty non-religious), queer, divorced, highly progressive mama of twins. While I think we probably don’t align in many ways, I feel nothing but warmth, authenticity, and care from you. We probably couldn’t be more different but I’m sure we both love our children and do our best to be the best mothers we can to them ❤️

[@remisworld5887]

Beautfully put🥰

[@brennapetersen8522]

Yes mama. You keep it up.

[@mnichols180]

I love your comment! You said it very well! xoxo

[@sbragdon212]

Love this. Thanks for having an open mind 💜

[@taragetter]

Thanks:) I think I’ve learned since having my kids that there is no “right way to mother”. As long as you give your children love, safety, and respect you’re succeeding in my book.

[@alisonmoore7815]

I really appreciate your gentleness, humility, and Christlikeness in this video. I am not Mennonite, but I am a Christian… I’m a member of a Southern Baptist church. I think we honestly have far more in common than we have different as far as worldviews and lifestyles go. One thing I really love that you spoke about is the concept of aging. That is something that I feel our culture devalues so much. The Bible talks over and over again about the honor and inner beauty and wisdom that comes with age, and I honestly look forward to the wrinkles and the greying hair because that will mean that I’ve had the gift of getting to live life with the people I love, serving the Lord together. Of course there is that balance of still taking care of our bodies and practicing health and hygiene! But I’m thankful that I don’t have to feel that pressure or being tanned, toned, and twenty-five forever. Living as a Christian releases us from so many temporal and unnecessary things. 🤍 May the Lord bless you and yours, Megan!

[@emelybrito4047]

"Modesty is a posture of the heart first." That was awesome 👍💕💕💕☺️. God bless you sister!

[@gracemetivier]

STOP apologizing, please! You apologized for the history lesson and for the commercial break. OWN IT! this is your channel, we're here to listen to you, it's fine if you tangent and have a commercials. you're awesome! please keep keeping on!

[@jenniferkelly6124]

This! ❤

[@lilahslessor7351]

I’m a teenager and I grew up wearing jeans, long shorts, skirts, and dresses. I’ve never worn something that’s shows anything that should be covered. Basically everything you said, was how I was raised and whole heartedly agree with, except that I’m not a Mennonite! This year though, God has put it on my heart to wear more skirts and dresses. And yes, I have gotten comments about how cute they were (and some weird looks😝). To the people that ask why I wear skirts and dresses, I tell them that I want to be modest because it’s what God wants, which shares my faith. (I got most of the dresses and skirts from Inherit!) I think people are so used to seeing immodest dressed teenagers nowadays that the modest dressed teenagers stand out. So, I just wanted to thank you for the clothing inspiration, and your beautiful personality! You are a person that I look up to, as I approach adulthood. Thanks again!

[@mbwilson8592]

God bless you. I wish I had been as mature as you are at your age. Your message is beautiful ❤ I'm 36 years old, and finally this year I've matured in my faith and dressing more modestly is one of the areas that our Lord convicted me of as well. I love how you you stated that dressing feminine and modest is an outward testiment of your faith. It's very different in our current culture, so it absolutely stands out in the best way. Blessings to you.

[@auni2955]

I am a teen and came from the same background. It’s cool that you felt God telling you to do that, I know how hard it is in this world to be a teen with everything calling you everywhere and putting labels on you. have a good day 😊

[@pettylilthing]

I’m also a teenager and I notice that people always assume I’m older than I am mainly because I’ve started to dress more modestly and people aren’t used to it.

[@jessicahaddox1264]

you go girl! wow! i am so impressed with your maturity! its SO nice seeing modestly dressed children and teenagers its seriously a breath of fresh air! there is to many teenagers especially that walk around not modest at all and its very disturbing and wrong in my opinion. 👏 so proud of you and wish there was more like you!

[@kaylariggs5188]

Wowwwwww this is so beautiful!! I always feel like I'm in the minority when I talk about the teen dress these days. The crop tops, and cleavage, off the shoulder tops, shorts that show their behind, I just don't understand why a young girl would want to be on display this way at that age. It makes me sad. But I feel so hopeful to see that there are young people like you who can see the value in not going along with that to fit in. You must be a really good kid. I hope you treasure that ability to think for yourself, if I had that at that time I may not have endured a life of addiction and bad choices starting in my teen years and changing the course of my entire life. That's such an important time stay strong and faithful, be careful of your choices and the people you surround yourself with!! You've got a bright future ahead ❤️❤️❤️

[@hilltophomestead1328]

I love that you touched on family building and the different ways that can happen. I'm not a Mennonite but my husband and I struggled with starting a family. We never felt right about IVF for the exact reason you stated. We ended up adopting two children but when I still desperately wanted to experience pregnancy we adopted our son as an embryo (his name is Fletcher, only a few months older than your Fletcher

[@momoflittleladies]

That’s amazing!! What a blessed family you have!

[@deborahdimond4538]

Wow, amazing :)

[@kaylariggs5188]

So you've had two kids... + two pregnancies... + one adoption? Wow!

[@mbwilson8592]

"Modesty is a posture of your heart first, and your outward appearance will reflect that." Amen. So so true. I never would have really understood this concept until finally experiencing it for myself later in life.

[@feliciawhite7728]

I love how transparent you are!! Always looking so bright and you bring so much happiness. Never stop making videos. The world needs you!❤❤

[@kelsigammon8328]

Hi Megan! I am not religious, though I have studied and explored several different faiths, but I really enjoy your channel and this video in particular. You shine as someone who is truly Christ-like - compassionate and loving and open-minded. I love learning about the beliefs and cultures of others, especially when they present it with so much joy and love!

[@lavonneward6068]

Glad the Mennonites are for adoption. I was adopted at the age of 7 years and it was a blessing. I was introduced to Christianity and became a Christian. Love the innocence, purity and family focused . God and family!!

[@hildamclawhorm6305]

God bless you LaVonne

[@lavonneward6068]

Thank you!!

[@brennapetersen8522]

I was adopted too! (And a woman of color as well. :) ) I am a Christain, but I always found it hard to be one because of the biases that surround Christianity. You're adorable and I am glad you're happy.

[@hildamclawhorm6305]

@@brennapetersen8522 God bless you sweet lady🙏🏼

[@barbaraokin6507]

Megan, I loved so much of what you said about Mennonite culture. I am Jewish and raised my children in a Chabad synagogue. The topics you addressed about being or bringing light into the world, modesty, head coverings, brotherhood/sisterhood, following the words in the Bible / Torah, daily worship, our inner being vs outer ( makeup, Botox ) etc. are very similar to how my family lives. I don’t wear makeup, taught my kids not to leave the house with dirty or torn clothes, only bought modest, age appropriate clothes, not frumpy, for my 4 kids, sent my girls to girls only camps, and my husband (29 years) and I love each other very much and have not worn wedding rings for 25 years. I enjoy your channel mostly because we have very similar values and I learn so much about your culture. There is something so special about women who are “women of valor- eshet chayil (proverbs 31 10-31) The more we know about others the more we can appreciate what is special and the less fear about what is unknown and misunderstood.

[@kristinperry9918]

So eloquently said, especially on some very difficult topics. Well done and thank you.

[@lisarosebud6404]

I was raised very similar. Conservative Baptist. Let our lights shine ✨ My personality is similar lol Big smiles and happy disposition

[@leahbrie97]

Pentecostal raised Christian here and I just want to say that I love the fact that you are learning why you do something so you can educate your children instead of just saying “because that’s what we do/believe”. There was so much confusion in my up bringing and my own salvation because I had no idea WHY anything I was taught was important. Great job. Love your channel.

[@bettykline414]

Yes I would be interested in hearing/seeing a video on staying pure while dating/courting. Thank you! I enjoy your laugh 😆 It makes my day brighter!

[@daniellengarcia]

Me too!

[@swampophelia2098]

Staying pure ? What does that actually mean though

[@janeevans4758]

@@swampophelia2098 I'm not religious but pure to me is..you don't give in to temptation or get in the situation of intercorse before marriage. Those situations are to be cherished with the man you intend to share your life with and vise vers, Alot of people have already jumped into bed with several ppl before even being engaged to any of them and then when that relationship breaks down all the ppl feel is used and hurt as you gave the most precious thing way just like that. That's how I see it and everyone's take on it I'm sure is different. Get to know each others ins & out,like,dislikes,etc etc yes go on fun dates & enjoy each others company but sex is unnecessary.

[@kindnessmatters4068]

@@janeevans4758 well said!!!

[@elisemendoza7918]

Me too!

[@eileenfezza2539]

As a former Catholic and now Christian, I love this video and I’m looking forward to using your channel as a positive female role model!😁

[@tadiwanashet]

This is a great video! I am enjoying myself. Let your light shine not make your light shine, great insights.

[@Codababy]

I love how accepting you are - you are not of the world, including the world's hate. KZbin recently suggested to me a video where someone was interviewing you as a "conservative Christian mother" and the comments were so ugly and filled with hate that I couldn't bear to even watch the interview. People saying that they hope you hate LGBTQ people and other religions.. oh it was so horrible. It weighed so heavy on my mind because I try so hard, as someone who isn't a Christian religion, to not think of all Christians as hateful, ugly, violent people but wow some people make it REALLY REALLY hard to do that. You are one of my bright spots where I can point to you and say "But Megan isn't like that." You personify "hate the sin and love the sinner," and you really DO let your light shine. ❤️❤️❤️ I'm here for it. Thank you.

[@madelinegrant]

Young Catholic mother here! I have to say I appreciate your grace and openness in talking about your beliefs. We don’t agree on everything but your witness in living a Christ centered life is beautiful!

[@rebeccacastro5405]

I’m Catholic and I really enjoy your channel! I really appreciate how the Mennonites strive to live simply and focus on following Christ - I think living simply is a wonderful example that’s not always easy in this day and age to follow. I also respect the emphasis on modesty. Thanks for sharing!

[@jannier9766]

I find this interesting. I use to think of Mennonite as living simply, but after watching some Mennonite KZbinrs, including Megan- I don’t (in my opinion) feel they live simply. They have fancier homes and home decor than I do. They keep up with trends and remodel their homes to participate in those trends. One I watch even collects vintage cars. I’m not saying this judgmental way- but, just very surprised. I don’t view this as living simply. I do admire and respect their Christian values, value of fellowship and family, and modesty.

[@jennyzepf6327]

Not a mennonite however I dont wear makeup and am aging gracefully at 49. I think most women look better in their natural state! Love your channel!

[@hjkahvedjian4628]

Your outfit made me smile. Such a cool idea to pair a frilly top with overalls! Also, I love that macrame table runner!

[@alisongreen7382]

I could listen to you speak all day. You have such a way of telling your perspective without judgement. Thank you for letting us be a part of your lives!! ❤️

[@mrstdh2458]

You answered the questions so well! You are wise beyond your years. Thank you for your honest Christian channel!

[@eversosophi9653]

amen

[@Jess-ee5gt]

As someone who is currently expecting an IVF baby, I can tell you with certainty that nobody experiences more anguish over those "leftover" embryos than their biological parents. We can't control how many embryos come from a cycle, and they are most definitely our children that we wish we could realise. There are options to donate the embryos to other women trying to become mothers, which is wonderful. Also, in some countries like Australia where I live, it is incredibly difficult near to impossible to adopt. I would've gone down that route if it was possible or as accessible as it is in the US. For those who haven't experienced the anguish of infertility, it is impossible to understand the journey that leads to the decision to undertake IVF.

[@BioBioLove]

That! Congratulations on your pregnancy!

[@Jess-ee5gt]

@arabellasmom we have a very complicated history with our indigenous people and the stolen generation in the 1960s so I think that is a large part of it.

[@ahuman5772]

@arabellasmom because unlike america, they do not try to pressure people to give up their babies just because they are poor or young. You might want to look up the reality of adoption in america!

[@thatblvckhippie1911]

@arabellasmom you should look into why all adoption is trauma from adoptees

[@thatblvckhippie1911]

@arabellasmom again, do your research and listen to adoptees who talk about why adoption is trauma. Please domt do whataboutisms. They get the conversation nowhere.

[@marilynloucks1121]

Megan, that was I think my favourite (sorry for the Canadian spelling…lol) Q&A that you’ve done. Firm in your belief but super respectful to others who may not share your views or values. I was doing a jigsaw puzzle after a busy day but I found myself ignoring it and listening to you fully. Thanks for the devotional ideas. I just sent my sister a book called Every Moment Holy, maybe look it up! Have a lovely week!

[@loiscassels8966]

Never apologize for being Canadian! ❤️🇨🇦

[@justclara3595]

Thank you for the insight! Yes, would definitely love a video more about dating/courting and (physical) boundaries!

[@lmmartin959]

My favorite part of this video was when you talked of letting your light shine through. The way you explained that was beautiful!

[@PaigeBuckner]

this was such an interesting video! my grandmother grew up mennonite in Indiana but ended up leaving the community at a young age due to many family problems so I have always wondered what her life was like and how my existing family members are in the community. thanks for posting and speaking so well about many controversial topics!

[@ashleyt6237]

I would love to hear more about parenting philosophies and practices. I respect you as a mom and would love to learn more from you!

[@reneeunger333]

Thank you for sharing your life with us! You’re integrity and honesty is much appreciated! 🥰

[@sarahrking]

Megan, you are so genuine and kind. Your love for Christ shines through in the way you share your faith. Thank you for being an encouragement! 💕

[@debbitaylor77]

Great Video! Living not far from you, I have encountered the same behavior of some mennonites. I am an outgoing person, and talk to just about anyone! I love that you mentioned that Jesus walked among all types of people and did so in love! The only thing about jewelry that I differ on is the wedding ring. I don't see it as "adornment", but as a reminder of my commitment to my husband. I smile when I see it, and in this day and age, when there is no ring, it's another signal..lol. It doesn't make us any more or less married, but for me, it's a symbol rather than an adornment. We were married at 18/19, 45 years ago this may! Blessings!

[@blessed4737]

as an ex amish i just wanna clarify,the only "holiness" we have is filthy rags.only the covering of Jeesus blood can make one holy.no amount of works can "holify"you.only spoken in love❤

[@lorainefleeman6011]

There are churches here, with no dress code, that will open their doors to the homeless so they don't freeze to death. The ones with dress codes..nope. That spoke volumes to me about which churches are true holiness churches. "Whatsoever you do to the LEAST of my brethren, that you do unto me." The churches that opened their doors to the homeless are the true holiness churches.

[@lorainefleeman6011]

I should add that I have no problem with having a dress code, but that's not what defines holiness.

[@FrogeniusW.G.]

@@lorainefleeman6011 Amen!

[@kathydavis6408]

Girl!! You rocked this Q & A ⭐️ I enjoy ALL of your videos. Thank you!

[@gretchenmctavish7823]

You did a marvelous job conveying who you are while also making sure your viewers know and understand that Mennonites vary widely. I was struck by the comment about Mennonites being rude and wondered if that perceived rudeness was not actually shyness or social awkwardness.

[@ms.g1709]

I was very not confident and introverted as a teenager. Many of my classmates thought of me as a snob. Now I'm comfortable, confident introvert! Lol.

[@kathiecrider]

This was such an interesting video - thank you for sharing about your beliefs and way of life. I love all of your content, but your chatty videos are always so fun and fascinating! Thank you for always being so real and honest with us. ❤️

[@bdrummond5414]

I would love to hear one on the dating aspect! I always find it so interesting to hear different perspectives. Especially now that my oldest child is 14.

[@igiveup7929]

Very well done, Megan 😊 As a more conservative Mennonite I have a little different view on IVF...we conceived 2 adorable boys through IVF and we did it with God's guidance and truly believe God walked us through...a lot of people have limited knowledge on the process. I'd be happy to talk to anyone including you Megan😉 if interested 👍 I kinda doubt any Christian who goes through the process "abandons" any of their embryos...first there usually aren't a ton and second they don't select the best. They usually watch them as they develop and sadly only the strongest survive....I still remember the deep soul wrenching sadness that we felt each time we lost one precious embryo. It seems people who have never had to walk the road of infertility are very quick to say...."oh I'd never do that". So I try to remember that when I have never been in some one else's shoes ❤️

[@deniseneary8392]

yes I had twins from ivf and it is true, when you're actually doing it and find out all the details and options, there are absolutely ways to go about it without compromising our beliefs! I am not a Mennonite but am a pretty conservative Christian and I feel awkward sharing with people how i had my kids but I know 100% it was exactly what God led us to do, and no sins were committed in the process! except maybe me not believing it would really work till i was holding my babies!

[@Shieldmaiden600]

congratulations ❤❤

[@Shieldmaiden600]

​@@deniseneary8392 not believing isn't a sin,For even Sarah didn't believe even laughed about it! and God never condemned her for it,he kept his word and she was blessed

[@melaniewaschbisch8663]

Thanks for sharing! "Let your light shine..." wow that spoke to me deeply.

[@tracynaj]

Meghan you truly are the best ! I do not identify as being religious , but as a human I love learning about how other people view the world, find their purpose, and experience life! You are a ray of sunshine and speak so honestly yet eloquently about your perspective and experience, it's very refreshing ! Being non-religious can sometimes feel vulnerable around religious folks because of that "judginess" that you talk about I think, so hearing your views is so heartwarming! There are SO many ways to be a kind, loving, giving, and joy filled person and you absolutely seem like one of them ! If I ever met you in real life I truly feel like we would be friends ! I look forward to "hanging out with you " every Thursday haha. Take care Meghan !!! Keep shining your light ! ☀️

[@bee4short]

I am so heart-warmed with the idea of adopting an embryo baby. What a beautiful thing to do! 😭❤️❤️

[@michellemarquez2440]

What a sweet way to answer so many questions! Also, you handled describing your beliefs so CLEARLY and graciously. It's exactly what attracted me to you from the beginning. You are genuine and a bosom sister- although I'm not Mennonite, so much of what you say and HOW you say it could come right out of my own heart and how I've grown in maturity in Christ since becoming a "grown up" ha ha. I must be a Mennonite-hybrid in my heart. 🥰 And I'm so glad you shined light on snowflake babies because my sister in law adopted some and it's such a good thing to share! So many people just don't know about them!

[@candicemast4209]

Thanks for sharing, Megan! As a fellow Mennonite I agree that there is such a spectrum of belief so I'm really impressed that you were able to dive in and answer all these difficult questions without claiming that you are representing all Mennonites across the board. I especially loved what you said about letting our lights shine and about how Jesus hung out with people from all walks of life. Yes, there are great things about Mennonite culture, but we also shouldn't be in some kind of isolated subculture- we are meant to share and shine! Appreciate all the thought and care you put into this.

[@melaniepalmer4206]

YES!!! ALL things dating, courting and boundaries. I want to keep my kids from maybe making those mistakes that my husband and I did and would like to hear your boundaries.

[@cynthiafisher9907]

I understand your sweet mama’s heart that wants to protect your little ones from heartache. One thing to remember, you are their model and they will make their own choices. Pray for them that they will make wise choices. And if they don’t, love them anyway. Life will bring the consequences for them to learn to make better ones.

[@babyruthnbr1]

Thank you so much for explaining your Mennonite lifestyle. I had so many questions that I was afraid to ask for fear of offending but I'm so glad you did the Q&A. God bless you and your family. P.S. Yes, please do a video on purity, it's not talk about much lately.

[@gabriellemanier2223]

Fellow homemaker and Christian here. I would call myself more traditional than a lot of women around me even in the church... so i feel alone a lot. I feel like an alien at times in this world. Ha! This is so refreshing and beautiful. I respect and deeply have a love for the Mennonite community. Hallelujah. I have a 1.5 year old Grace (she's a rehead too🙂) and I'm 29 weeks pregnant. Happily married to a godly man who follows the Lord. I love your content and channel. One of my favorites!!

[@johannawhyle9]

This was an awesome effort at answering some tricky questions that I’m sure you get often. Solid delivery Megan!!!

[@RAM-eb2te]

Thank you for sharing. I'm not Mennonite, but I was raised in a small, independent Bible Church. Your answers were well-thought out and very biblical, which as a Christian needs to be our basis and dictate our standards. 🙏

[@summerfroelich1]

Thank you for sharing this!! I’m LDS and I love listening to other Christians because we have so much to offer each other with our unique perspectives. 💖 Glad to have learned more about you!

[@emmyisamerican]

How interesting! I’m apostolic and we dress very similarly, when we swim we wear swim dresses though (Dainty Jewel’s has beautiful styles) and it covers the same things I ever cover. Love your content 💕

[@EliseWood]

There’s a lot of apostolics in my area (PNW:)

[@rahilawarsi2013]

I agree. And there are modest swim wear out there that's not revealing covers your knees etc.

[@lorainefleeman6011]

Just to clarify that many apostolics dress the way most everyone else does as well.

[@emmyisamerican]

@@lorainefleeman6011 that’s not the type of apostolic I’m talking about :) I’m talking about holiness apostolic Pentecostal like UPCI, WPF and ALJC and many independents

[@lorainefleeman6011]

@@emmyisamerican I know. I was UPCI for over 20 years. I was just saying there are plenty of oneness apostolic churches that don't do the dress code. Dress code isn't what defines holiness. I have no problem with it, but that's not what defines holiness. There are 3 apostolic churches in my area. When we have dangerously cold temps, like -20F, or even colder, it was the non dress code church that opened their doors to the homeless so they wouldn't freeze to death. They even got in a van and rounded them up. My former church? Nope. Neither did the other UPCI church across the river. That spoke volumes about what true holiness is."Whatsoever you do, to the LEAST of my brethren, that you do unto me."

[@annabergen4876]

I love how well you can explain things! I’m a Mennonite as well and I grew up not knowing why we do certain things and having so much questions that never got answered, so I absolutely love hearing when you talk about it. Fully believe life is black and white and got to just love how the Bible tells you! ❤️❤️

[@charlenesilberg6894]

Thank you for sharing! Always enjoy your Q&A's. Personally I LOVED hearing your history lesson 😊 It may seem silly that so many others are interested in the Mennonite culture. I can tell you that no one else is even coming close to covering these topics on here. Megan, you do an outstanding job of so openly answering with straightforwardness and honesty! This makes your content even that much better!! Although, you feel some people might get lost following more in depth about the different types of Mennonites - I think videos on those things would be very enjoyable also. We adore your personality and look forward to learning more from you!! Keep letting your light shine!!! 🌞❤️

[@emerie44]

You are very eloquent. I have a lot of similar beliefs to you but our lives are different. It’s nice to see! 💗

[@meschouxpetits]

"Modesty is a posture of your heart" - beautifully phrased!

[@hannahpugh730]

You are so humble. I am not Mennonite but love the values you believe in & how sweet you go about it. 💗💗

[@marybethtaylor8066]

I love all your videos thank you for sharing...I would love to see more videos on what it would be like if someone wanted to visit a Mennonite church and what to expect. I feel so awkward visiting other churches just because you don’t know what to expect and you don’t know anyone there.

[@catmor84]

I love what you've said there about "Let your light shine, not Make your light shine." So true!

[@melissamdevries]

Funnily enough, the reason I found your channel was because I saw a group of teenage Mennonites out at a restaurant. I had never seen anyone dressed that way before, so I went down the Google rabbit hole researching Mennonites and found my way to your channel. As a Christian, I have so enjoyed learning about the Mennonite way of life and watching your family grow!

[@elizabethfigarelli7599]

I grew up independent fundamental Baptist (IFB, different than southern Baptist) and I had no idea that Mennonites are derived from the same history! Thanks for teaching me something new! 😊

[@mirandabaker3137]

A lot of hard questions with hard answers Megan! ☺️ There were some other comments on this as well and I agree…..just a thought I had while listening as a fellow anabaptist……. I know there can be very rude people in the anabaptist culture, but I don’t think we should all be lumped together as being rude! As you mentioned you’re are used to getting “ looks”, and you live in a huge anabaptist community. I am German Baptist and wear a full cap and dress, so I feel like I stand out even more than you! You would think people would be used to seeing us by now but, most common question is, are you Amish? Sometimes when you’re being stared down like you’re an alien from another planet it’s easier to go about my own business!! I know that can come off as rude but it goes both ways!! I am also a very shy introvert, I try to smile and be friendly and I think it should be reciprocated!! Always teach my children not to stare and smile and be friendly! Not speaking for everyone and I know I can do better at being more like Jesus, just find it interesting that others think we’re the ones being rude! No one likes to be stared at! ❤️

[@stacyray4459]

Different topic but would love to see a video on how you do a day with your 3 littles, how you keep them going throughout the day while you get your tasks/mom work done with 3 kids. Mom of 3 with 4th on the way 💁🏼‍♀️ a little nervous about having enough of me to go around 🤣🤣

[@emilykazak]

Your emotions when discussing the makeup question hit me! Yes, you are truly blessed to be in a culture that does not put emphasis on outer vanity. The crazy thing is…my husband tells me all the time I don’t need to wear makeup and prefers me to look natural. Most women in our worldly culture do it in honesty not to impress their spouse but to compete with other women….which is just sad! Definitely trying to take a more natural approach to my ‘beauty’ regime

[@emilykazak]

Also…you definitely will age more gracefully without slathering your face daily with all those toxins. Just had to say it. You’re beautiful as you are Megan!

[@annekenabuurs881]

Everytime I see American Christians with al lot of make up and see preachers praying for make up, I think, this make no sense. Show your natural beauty.

[@bpeters6704]

Enjoyed this video! I find it so very interesting how ALMOST ALL Mennonites have something in common even if they were born & raised miles & miles apart, Hello 👋🏽 from a Mennonite in Texas 😁!! There was soooo much in ur video I could relate too and I love ur kind way of explaining things.. I could learn from u💖 but I’m with u ~so thankful I was blessed to grow up Mennonite…

[@hcd621]

After a stressful week, this video is exactly what I need to wind down ❤️

[@angelheaven72]

One of my favorite videos Megan!!! You did such a great job, I loved what you said about the narrow mindset!! I grew up Mennonite but not super conservative. My Dad worked with conservative Mennonites and Amish, and it was a hard reality to feel like my Dad’s bosses and families disapproved of us because we were not as conservative. Loved your overall dress!! Checking out Amazon now! :)

[@kaylariggs5188]

You are SO good at sharing your beliefs in a LOVING and humble way. It's such an admirable trait. You should be so proud of yourself. Who knows how many people whom you've opened up the minds to Christianity.

[@godisgood2919]

My husband and I had our first kiss on our wedding day. I loved the hands off dating we did!

[@karij995]

We were the same way and have been married nearly 22 years!

[@emilieferrin6799]

I’m LDS and a lot of the things you mentioned are similar in my faith, too. Pretty cool!

[@Craftitup64]

Hi Meg. I’ve been watching your channel for almost 3 years now. You were so genuine and down to earth and wise beyond your years. I would love to listen to your story about purity and I’m also interested in hearing about shunning and the difficulty that families face as a result.

[@danaejavier]

I got married at 18, my husband 21. That was the best decision of my life (well besides baptism) we are going on 16 years now!! It been so nice to grow together!! We were both mature young adults and we also saved ourselves for marriage!

[@Alice-qy2vk]

Same here😍I also got married at 18 and my husband was also 21…we are three years married now and I’m so thankful for him🤍 greetings from Germany

[@doll.ov.poetrii4682]

@@Alice-qy2vk Congratulations to both of you!

[@deniseneary8392]

hello not trying to start an argument or anything negative. i just wanted to say that for ivf you don't have to have the embryos tested and discarded. we didn't have them tested and we froze the extras and tried to get pregnant later with them after we had our twins but unfortunately none of those stuck. but there are Christian ways to do ivf. We did. the doctors might recommend this or that but they don't force you. I had concerns as well about ivf and if it was going against the Bible. So I did a lot of research and asked lots of questions to the doctors and also prayed about it and sought council from my pastors. In the end i ended up with beautiful twins, a boy and a girl, and they have been the biggest blessing to us, our family, and our ministry (my husband became a pastor right after they were born and we are now missionaries). If you don't agree with it that's fine. but I just wanted to share my story because I think people who haven't been through it don't have a lot of actual facts about how it actually works. I know because the stuff I found on the internet was not what i actually experienced doing it. everything that was questionable about it was able to be modified in some way so that we didn't have to compromise our beliefs. at least in my situation that was the case. just wanted to share my experience.

[@charlievalencia5401]

I don’t see your comment as argumentative at all. I believe you’re bringing light to this situation from another perspective.

[@twealth2983]

thanks for sharing this!! as a Christian that has recently been diagnosed with a form of infertility I have been looking into all of starting a family and I really value your honesty and openness. Blessings to your family and you!!

[@kailiegundry7312]

I am not religious at all, but I love hearing about your faith, your way of life, and your culture. Thank you for sharing.

[@vivianarosa1825]

I bet making this type of video makes you anxious. I just want you to know that I think most of us like you just the way you are. Thats why we are drawn to your channel. If you ever come across a question that's going to upset you or in anyway make you anxious don't answer it. Most people no matter how you put it will never understand and try to pick at every single explanation. If you don't feel peace about the question don't answer it. ❤

[@Lou-oy2eh]

I appreciate you sharing modesty. I came from a very conservative church and people often ask me if I am mennonite. I am not but my church was founded by a former mennonite. I do wear a wedding ring but that is it. No piercings, very little makeup (mostly mascara because of my blond eyelashes), and I wear conservative clothes. I enjoy watching you channel and totally relate to your way of life. Thank you again for sharing!

[@jerushacarlson]

Oh, as I’m watching this, another thing: concerning makeup, I asked my hubby how I looked when we’d been married a few days how I looked after I’d done my makeup. He said “You’d look a lot better without all that junk on your face!” So, I don’t do makeup much anymore.

[@angelaferguson2305]

It was so interesting to me to hear your answers. I go to (and am on staff at) à non-denominational Christian church that also believes in pursuing biblical truth. Our church is probably sooo sooo different than yours (very non traditional) and yet for the most part we have the same beliefs and we love the same god. Good reminder to not be judgemental. Also I loved how you answered not From a place of judgement or condemnation, but honesty and humility 💗.

[@mylifeisasong]

I'm Pentecostal, some might also say I'm Messianic, because we are really into the Hebrew roots of our Christian faith... but, like being a Mennonite, there are so many variations of personal convictions within those faiths! Sometimes when I'm watching your videos, I can relate to so much of what your saying about the Mennonite faith and culture, that I feel a little bit Mennonite too! 😂 I wear a headcovering and have since I was 6 years old, I dress along the same lines of modesty that you follow, etc.. I have/had several Mennonite friends throughout my life, as well as ex-Mennonites who have held onto many of the Mennonite convictions and I have visited in their circles. There are definitely SO many variations of Mennonite and I believe you answered all of these questions very well, without downing or offending anybody on the inside or the outside of the Mennonite faith/culture!!🙌 Also, I love what you pointed out about -letting- your light shine... so good!💖

[@janwea108]

Megan, Thank you so much for sharing all of this information and doing Q&A videos! I’m new-ish to your channel and have learned so much already. I especially appreciate your candor and honesty and how willing you are to answer questions from non-Mennonites. My grandparents all grew up Mennonite in Lanc Co, but I was raised in a fundamental evangelical church and realized I don’t know a lot about the culture they came from. I also think growing up in rural Lanc Co surrounded by the “plain” community I formed some unhealthy judgements from just a few limited experiences or observations. Your videos inform and challenge those opinions, and I’m enjoying learning from an “inside” perspective. Also, most importantly, thank you for all you are doing to share the light of Christ with your audience! Your influence is motivating me to examine how I could do that better in my own life. ❤

[@cindywaldrop4287]

I love this video! I was born and raised and believe as a Southern Baptist, and ai embrace s lot of the Mennonite beliefs. Be holy; do not embrace the things of the world, etc. Amen! Thank you Megan for sharing! Love your channel!

[@kmm1254]

I'm your neighbor across the Susquehanna (York County PA). I actually grew up Brethren which is kind of similar to Mennonite so I understand a lot of what you were saying. I appreciated your view on letting your light shine and reaching out. You have a great heart! Thanks for sharing.

[@jerim4543]

Wow, I am so impressed by the obvious thought and prayer that you put into answering these questions. Your answers were so well thought out and informative. I learned a lot, most of all that we are all more the same than we are different. Congratulations on an excellent and thoughtful video.

[@larawalker4737]

@MeganFoxUnlocked, As a fellow sister in Christ, I have to say...well done sister. The light of Christ does shine through you. Your posturing is refreshing and there needs to be more examples like you out the in the world for others to see. Thank you for sharing and God bless. BTW... the shawl that you have hanging over the chair..love it! Did you make that?

[@magnoliahollowhomestead6506]

Thursdays are my favorite day! Because I know I will be encouraged by your videos once again!

[@MeganFoxUnlocked]

I'm so glad! I enjoy thursdays so much too!

[@mm-tm2jk]

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[@aliciawhite5102]

I completely agree on IVF. I actually think it’s so sad that that subject isn’t discussed more amongst Christians. Love these q&a!

[@traciecarlson4706]

Love the shirt! I bought the pink one after I saw you where it in one of your last videos. Also your white skirt to go with it. Can't wait to wear them together! Thank you for this video. My son and his wife were 19 when they got married and I worried about it but he definitely was mature enough to be a husband and take care of her and then they didn't deal with the temptations they would have had they waited. I wish my husband and I had married sooner, even though I was 22.

[@jennifernoll6367]

You explained it all very well ! I was brought up as a Pentecostal Christian and after our private Christian school Close going into my senior year I was sent to a mennonites school in Redding PA. I loved it! I loved seeing their culture, they never shund me or was mean to me they accepted me and I had a really good senior year. When I am around them in Lancaster and the surrounding areas sometimes you do run into them not really wanting to be bothered but the thing of it is I understand so I love how you said though that you wish they would be more open because that personally is what I try to do even if it’s somebody I don’t agree with I try and be open and friendly and show love and that’s what I think everyone is looking for. Love and acceptance. I love watching your channel you’re an amazing person ❤️

[@torip2244]

This is awesome! I have Mennonite and Amish family (I’m Baptist myself), and it’s so interesting to hear about Mennonite communities outside of my family. Thank you for taking the time to answer these questions! :)

[@cynthiar7350]

I first heard the name Mennonite when I was young in the early 1960’s. My great aunt & uncle had a lovely Mennonite couple who worked in their home. I remember my Aunt Rosalee (Rosy) carefully considering the scheduling, mindful of the days they weren’t able to work & were very respectful of their culture & faith as Protestant Christians themselves. Stuck with me for some reason.

[@vergieclark131]

Very good video today ! I grew up Mennonite and you answered these questions so well ! Thank you so much ! 👏🏼🥰

[@ourgardenkitchen]

Our family joined a Mennonite church a year and a half ago. We’ve felt very very welcomed. But we have an “in” My husband was raised Mennonite and his grandpa was a church elder. I imagine as an “outsider” the Mennonite faith can look pretty exclusive. Our church is trying to figure out how to be more welcoming, especially to people of other ethnicities and races.

[@andreacoughlin2736]

I’m a torah/whole Bible follower and I get asked frequently if I’m a Mennonite and I take it as a compliment! Love the simplicity and biblical cornerstones of your faith.

[@clairecole2485]

You said you see us your viewers as your friends, I feel the same I love hanging out with you while I work. You have given me ideas on how to live practically too, thanks Megan x

[@kyliegarber9359]

I am so impressed with the way that you speak about your religion/culture while still respecting other cultures. Especially your perspective on de-emphasizing outward appearance!

[@rachele4593]

I love your videos, my mom was a mennonite in canada, she joi ed the brethren later in life, and her community successfully reached out to my father. overtime he too became a member. I appreciate the love and acceptance their community embraced them with. I am not a member but can appreciate how much love they showed us as their adult children. Much love and appreciation to you and your family.

[@adventuresofhuckleberryfin3970]

Hi! I’m a long time subscriber from Holmes county, Ohio and while I grew up english and Christian, I’m obviously surrounded by Amish and Mennonites. As you said, the narrow minded attitudes are very real in this community. You can tell immediately which ones are kind just by their look at you. Some of the best people I’ve ever met are Amish and Mennonite and also some of the worst are. No matter where you come from, you have that judgement. I work on being completely non judgmental of everyone because I believe God wants us to love every single human being no matter their choice of lifestyle. At the end of the day, what matters is serving Him in ALL we do ❤️ p.s. I love your content and videos so much! Thanks for always giving me good, quality videos to watch while I am working or have free time!

[@lifeinthepiedmontVirginia]

Great job explaining how the Mennonites are and came from. I myself have become more of a modest dresser / no makeup jewelry (a story behind why) to which I give God the glory for giving me the strength to dress the way I do now and wear the head veil. I know the exact moment when I was convicted of this and being obedient has given me great freedom and peace not to mention my husband loves it. My friends in Lancaster love my transition and have told me they wish more would do so. Like the verse, you quoted let your light shine and I hope people see that light in me. Thanks for always being real with your channel and for sharing. Blessings to you and your family.

[@Kra-ri6fd]

I have been feeling this conviction to dress more modest lately. I am in a weight loss journey now and am going to be buying dresses and skirts when I get to my weight goal (I will need to buy all new clothes as it is so why not then?). I have had the hardest time trying to figure out what dresses to get. I told my husband that I would wear a dress if I could find some like the Mennonite wear...but you don't find clothes like that at Walmart! I recently found dresses that are practical and pretty and modest (all hard to find in stores IMO) so i have my wish list and am awaiting the day. I expect to be there 5.5 months 😊 I can't wait. I also can't believe I can't wait to dress in dresses daily. I never saw this conviction coming. My husband is fine with this new way of me dressing so I am happy about that too. In the mean time I am praying God give me the confidence to do this daily as an outwardly sign of my faith.

[@carolebyham172]

I spent several years visiting a Mennonite church in NW PA and your church culture is amazing. I have yet to find a church outside of your culture that is as beautifully knit together in the love of Jesus. I’m a member of a loving church now but it still a far cry from Mennonite. And the lack of pressure for “beauty” was amazing. I never had to be insecure about not wearing make up or styling my hair or jewelry…etc. Being in my young 20s this was refreshing enough to make me tear up too. 😉 I loved this video 🥰

[@stephanieh7614]

to anyone: I respect anyone's decision to be modest -- for their own self. I just hope it's never because they're told they have to--by family, by their Bible, or whichever. If you(any person) want to wear a tank top and shorts, do it. You don't have to feel uncomfortable because your legs are showing, theyre JUST legs (or shoulders or ankles or back, ITS JUST THAT). Another person's opinion of you isn't your business. Stay kind friends❤️

[@Kreations4KidsbyK]

That’s called “Satanism” and I’d think twice before promoting that line of thinking on a video like this.

[@stephanieh7614]

@@Kreations4KidsbyK it is not "Satanism" to dress how you feel comfortable. It's called "living".

[@Kreations4KidsbyK]

@@stephanieh7614 so you haven’t ever learned about satanism is what you’re telling me with your comments.

[@stephanieh7614]

@@Kreations4KidsbyK there is no reason for me to, especially in this context. This isn't promotion of Satanism. I'd love to hear your explanation on how this is considered disobeying or whichever other description you'll give it to justify it being "satanism".

[@Kreations4KidsbyK]

@@stephanieh7614 I really implore you to understand what it is that we are speaking about before you refute any claims. It’s okay not to know, but seek to understand. You can find these answers for yourself anywhere you choose, I recommend Google lol.