Finally Opening Up! | Q+A | Sunni or Shia, Becoming a second wife, Having a baby

[@dansedevie123]

I'm Catholic but I find learning about other faiths fascinating and important in our diverse society. It's also great to meet people dedicated to their faith. Muslims' dedication to praying 5 times a day inspired me to start the part of the liturgy of the hours which are similarly a set of prayers prayed at different times of the day. It's only mandatory for priests and religious but anyone can pray it. :)

[@mhinz57k]

Also Catholic here! It’s beautiful to see the commonalities and how other faiths can challenge us to go deeper in our own faiths :)

[@Snowball_Maltese]

Same here I love learning about other religions! I am atheist tho :)

[@werak.8595]

I tried that as well, but this liturgy is so long...

[@dansedevie123]

@@werak.8595 Maybe start with Night prayer; it is the shortest! And I play Morning prayer as a podcast on my way to work. Seemed long at first but now I look forward to it.

[@werak.8595]

@@dansedevie123 Well maybe I would but now I'm not even christian. ^^ But I'm happy you found it working for you!

[@lila3240]

I also converted in 2018, and the most hurtful thing that my family said over and over again is that I was "brainwashed".... Not only is that implying that my (now) husband was manipulating me, but that I was so easily manipulated that I couldn't make my own decisions... What an insult, especially coming from your own mother.

[@tinkeramma]

I had a similar experience with my own mother regarding my different faith. I've been married 15 years now and she still believes I converted for my husband. I know the truth. He knows the truth. My daughters know the truth, because I want them to choose the faith of their souls because they believe it not because I taught it to them. My mother? I love her and have accepted this is not something she is able to understand.

[@MehdinaTV]

Its sad that people can never give credit to the person that converted. Its always 'you must have done it for the one you married...'.. its truly heartbreaking coming from a loved one and takes away from the credibility of our actions. 😢💔

[@lila3240]

@@MehdinaTV Absolutely. Thank you guys for sharing your story, I know it will help so many like myself who are in similar situations.

[@soumaya4960]

It sounds awful 😔 what a test from Allah, may He reward you immensely for your patience. And remember that even the Prophets were mocked!

[@maryambintjames605]

I'm so sorry you went through that. I reverted in 2015,my family had similar reactions. I was told I was brainwashed, and one family member told me it was "time to grow up and stop playing dress up", they told me if I married an Arab I would be abused. Alhamdulillah I will say them meeting my husband and having children has eased their minds and I have done my best to educate them when they have questions. My relationship with my family isn't as close, I do my best to keep ties with them.

[@imran4968]

Ever couple on KZbin and TikTok has arguments and disagreement but how you settle those disagreement is what matters the most

[@louisenielsen7106]

*every couple ever! There is no such thing as a succesfull partnership with out disagreements.

[@itz_blossomsthebunny2179]

Bibiang ko pangas🥺

[@lot5953]

​@@louisenielsen7106yep I agree .. from our culture we compare husband and wife like tongue and teeth because they get along well together but at the same time there will be conflict even it's painful one like you accidentally bite your tongue. But after the incident, tongue and teeth are back to normal, getting along with each other

[@alexandrabreen5545]

To ask a married couple if they want children is fine. what to say to a married couple when are they going to have kids, I think it’s very private. That’s their business and I think it’s very rude to ask to be honest. All people have their own timeline and they shouldn’t be pressured by society to do some thing. You don’t know what kind of position a person could be in.

[@BeepBoopBopBap]

Period

[@danamichelle1290]

I never ask. Many who want children are infertile or have miscarried.

[@msb5775]

I don’t think “do you want children” is an inappropriate question to ask in general. Like what good would that info do you?

[@Jasmine-ge2xv]

@@msb5775 well if the woman can’t get pregnant or the man can’t impregnate the women, it might seem rude to remind them

[@MashAllahMari]

I think its ok to wonder do you have kids or ask but like when when is too much there are situations where people cant

[@emmy3561]

Alhamdulillah- I love the answer to the Sunni/Shia question ♥️♥️ may Allah reward you both for reminding us that our ummah is one.

[@tbaugh82]

Thank you two for being open with your knowledge and understanding. My husband and I try very hard to teach our children not to judge religion or those who practice a different religion than they do. Rather, to make friends with folks who have different beliefs, and find out from THEM. Because one thing is constant in history. Different is to be feared and destroyed, rather than embraced and learned from. Thank y'all for helping educate us!!

[@elliieeify3796]

I always thought: Why are people still asking about the Baby thing. This can be so hard and hurtful for the couple 😔

[@laraib99]

6:58 you guys answered this question very nicely, I really appreciate it👍 and I also want all muslims to call themselves muslim neither shia nor sunni😊

[@ayeshxd]

It’s not bad if they call themselves shia or sunni

[@thisisarika]

I just really love your story like how you met and developed feelings overtime and how Mehdi found Islam in this way, masha Allah! I think this was my fav video from you guys, so open and thoughtful while sharing so much knowledge and inspiration ❤

[@MehdinaTV]

Thank you, we are glad you enjoyed it 😊❤️

[@Beccahun]

I really hope Mehdi's family's heart get softer by time. But till it I hope knowing that what you guys do might prevent tons of children getting disowned by lack of knowledge ease your heart to some point.

[@ADanley1980]

I have learned so much from watching your channel. It has challenged me to think in ways I've not thought before, which is something I appreciate. It has really helped me understand Muslim faith. Thank you both for sharing and making changes in the world.

[@danamichelle1290]

I love how she was strong and told him to sit somewhere else instead of her moving to a different spot and he was respectful of her space and didn't get his ego hurt. Genuine love and respect. ❤❤

[@tuntun-en3qf]

so happy to see that u converted mashaAllah i m happy that u hve saved ur hearafter boy u hve got ALLAH u hbe everything

[@NotRemYouTube]

First, and I’m Shia and I have very much different beliefs from Sunnis. I’m so excited, thank y’all very much for educating and entertaining me! 🥰

[@NotRemYouTube]

@your favorite iranian I’m from Iraq, nice to meet you!

[@Always_Alexa]

I'm sunni

[@itz_blossomsthebunny2179]

I'm sunny 🥺🥺 wind wind ahh it's cloudy now!

[@itz_blossomsthebunny2179]

omg it's sunni 🤲 now it's shaini🤞Omg it's clowdi too ahhh 🥺🥺🥺🥺

[@itz_blossomsthebunny2179]

@@NotRemKZbin nice to see you 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@lauraanne341]

I haven't been able to get to know many Muslims in my life because of the areas I have lived, where being either atheist or Christian was the norm, and so I'm glad to have found your channel. I'm always quite shy around people I don't understand so being able to learn about how Muslims actually live with their faith is really helping me feel more educated on and familiar with the topic.

[@ruinedcloset]

This video is so adorable! Also I totally agree on the identifying as just muslim instead of any specific sect, that is the label I've chosen for myself as well.

[@Hiwhyureadingthis]

I'm shia, I'm soo happy you didn't tell your sects bc ppl start to hate you if you're not the same sect

[@MehdinaTV]

Sadly that’s very true. It’s best to promote unity in the ummah rather than division :)

[@mohammadparekh31]

@@1970Mom calm down, they can choose to state it or not. yk prophet muhammad swt used to wish that muslims wouldn’t fight. stop trying to start an argument

[@Lzali10469]

Becuase you curse the companions. Find unity in your religion then become Muslim

[@bintemuhammed5104]

@@mohammadparekh31 he also loved his sahaba, so we shouldn't befriend those who curse his companions

[@mohammadparekh31]

@@bintemuhammed5104 exactly

[@hnhgirl10]

Love seeing your positivity every video, always so refreshing! And I will pray for medhi’s family to see acceptance in your relationship, I wish they could see you guys the way we all do!! ❤

[@sophiephilomenia4905]

I'm 100% an atheist and I absolutely don't believe that anything spiritual or even a god exists. Buy you guys just seem so nice and funny that I love learning about your religion and just following along with the stories you tell. Love from Germany. :)

[@BeepBoopBopBap]

Same! Ex Christian atheist here but their vibes are immaculate, great channel.

[@sahrafarah3527]

Please learn about Islam will safe you and of course no pushing or forcing,but iam sure you will see the difference what media says about islam when you learn

[@BeepBoopBopBap]

@@sahrafarah3527 oh I mean Muslims are cool, I love this channel, I know all about it! Fascinating and rich history, we owe the fact we bathe and have diningware and probably half of modern medicine to Muslims. I personally do not believe any higher power exists and that if any did they would show themselves in a provable and measurable way, but that is my personal burden of proof, everyone is entitled to their own opinions! Have a wonderful day my friend

[@danamichelle1290]

How can you feel love without a degree of spirituality?

[@klaudiawojcik730]

@@danamichelle1290 Because love is an emotion, a chemical reaction in brain, so it doesn't requires spirituality

[@grafflover100]

Your babies are so cute! 🐈

[@ryanheinig7975]

I'm a muslim revert myself, and love your comment regarding Sunni, or Shia, and totally agree with your reply. There shouldn't be these divisions. I totally agree with your explainations as well. Very well said response.

[@syedakulsumbinsazzad9b230]

Yes, you're absolutely right but it don't divde us. I believe it just tells us what you follow cause shias and sunnis have different bilefs so it determines that by saying you're sunni or shia

[@ryanheinig7975]

@@syedakulsumbinsazzad9b230 I'm pretty sure u misunderstood my use of the word "divisions". I didn't say that it "divides" us, as Muslims, but divisions implying of the differences of opinion or beliefs in Islam.

[@jeniferjohnson374]

Yes! I answered “Muslim” right along with them because Ik the right answer. We shouldn’t cut off into segments. That’s division whereas Islam is supposed to be uniting as they said.

[@syedakulsumbinsazzad9b230]

@@ryanheinig7975 yes you're right I understood what you said on the first place itself but I meant that either we are sunni or shia we are all praying to allah (SWT) but in different ways. Allah (SWT) see intention of people not the ways of what they are doing

[@famopsych766]

I really like how you talk about sunni and shia and unity of muslims One of the best answers to this question⚘

[@AMuslimMiss]

Very nice response to the sunni shia question. That's great that you want to promote unity and positivity. 💐🌻

[@farahnnaazsaibe5417]

I love ya'lls story so much!!❤️The way ya'll met,how you explain Islam to us,its all so amazinggggg to be honest!!🥳May Allah SWT reward you both.☺️Jazakallah for your amazing content,Keep it up,we love you guys!!❤️✨

[@MehdinaTV]

Ameen. JazakAllah khair, May Allah swt bless you.

[@farahnnaazsaibe5417]

@@MehdinaTV Ameen.❤️

[@andreawhittvalleyhs8900]

I have met so many Muslims, and they have all been incredibly friendly (within the confines of the religion) and gracious. You guys are so amazing. I love how you share your experience and faith to help break down the stereotypes and prejudice surrounding Islam. It is such a beautiful and peaceful religion.

[@imran4968]

Why would anyone want a 2nd wife? 2 anniversary to remember and more gifts to buy, 2 valentines, and 2 birthdays. Sounds like a big headache and it's hard to find the perfect person let alone 2 people that you like so enough to marry. I barely have time for 1 relationship with a job, bodybuilding, cooking, and then time for family and friends. I could never love more than one women and I can't wait for the 4 wives video as that never made sense to me.

[@MehdinaTV]

Facts 😂😂

[@tinkeramma]

Across many faiths, it's difficult to find enough pious men for all the devoted, believing women to marry. So I understand why the option exists. It also sounds like an insane amount of effort to balance in righteousness. I can't imagine anyone choosing that path unless they felt God called them to it.

[@kittycat2167]

Its so funny when people ask Muslim men if they have multiple wives when plural marriage does not exist in Islam alone. There are Christian denominations/groups that allow polyamory, but nobody is going around asking every Mormon or fundamentalist if they have multiple wives.

[@BeepBoopBopBap]

Exactly, or some people are just into that. I’d never judge anybody for consensual decisions.

[@mkwke215]

Because it's more commonly practiced in muslim societies

[@mariapittalis2147]

Mormons abolished definitively poligamy over a century ago, so it's not the same thing. And poliamory is not allowed for Christians in general

[@83lulube]

That's so sad about your family. Thank you for your amazing videos, people need to see what being a true Muslim is like. I'm learning so, so much from you guys. 💗

[@abi.291x]

Mubina’s headscarf is very pretty MashaAllah

[@daawesomequeen9813]

I know you must get a lot of comments but you have truly taught me so much about how culture has made it seem compared to the actual religion. I'm proud to say ive changed a lot with your videos and how they have shown what's actually true.

[@danajoyner9266]

Wow, people demand to see inside your house?? Ask about your fertility?? Don't even get pressured into pettiness.. express and share what YOU BOTH are comfortable with. I hope other will respect that..... love you two sooooo much!

[@theartoflolita935]

Thank you for being open. I love your answer for Sunni or Shia. I really respect that. Islam shouldn't be divided, our world should be more connected, and everyone should be respected. Insha Allah Scarface

[@javedhussain6273]

I loved hearing "We aaare Muslims" 🎉

[@amandaphillips4344]

I'm so sad I missed the live🥺 helping a friend out and there wasn't reception 🥺🥺 so now I'm going to just watch this 🤗

[@bushraakibriah5529]

I like your guys optimism Inshaallah I can and our fellow Muslim ummah can embed that optimism into our lives. Aameen

[@andreawhittvalleyhs8900]

I am a World History teacher, and we just finished our unit on the Protestant reformation. My kids didn't realize how different Christianity, Judaism, and Islam are.

[@threea1061]

People shouldn't be asking for house tour. It's personal.

[@MehdinaTV]

You’re definitely right, it is personal. We don’t mind sharing parts of our home, but influencers in general should not be pressured if they are uncomfortable sharing it.

[@wan7634]

People might have asked for it because its a thing and many vloggers, youtubers do it....if someone is not comfortable, they can speak for themselves and deny it...simple!!

[@DeNoobdi]

The whole video was so positive and soothening. You guys opened up very well. You explained every single thing very wisely and patiently. Lots of love and appreciation from Pakistan! and SCARFACE :)

[@أبوعبدفتاا]

I have a question, were you wearing the veil " niqab" before or after marriage?

[@SajiSims]

…. I just realized how you got “Mehdina” 🤣🤦🏻‍♀️ Wowwww I was slow on that update lol

[@newone7173]

Thanks for everything! Islam leads only goodness. Real muslims respect everyone and do only positive things. "Assalamu alaykum" means "Be healthy and take care of you".

[@Jasmine-ge2xv]

Doesn’t it mean peace be upon you

[@madokafirefly]

OMG YOUR CATS ARE ADORABLE!!! I LOVE YOUR CHANNEL TO YOU POST THE BEST CONTENT!!!

[@Ridima-ek6xo]

I love your videos you guys taught me so much about Islam and your videos also have good Messages Allahmubarik 💖💖💖💖💖

[@dollsNcats]

Wow I am SO sorry your family won’t talk to you over your religious beliefs 😢 my aunt is a convert while I have personally only ever known her a Muslim but luckily all family has always accepted with no issue even back in the 40 + years she’s been Muslim

[@Hoosier_StepDad]

Okay, but those babies are so cute. 🐈💖

[@havvacieslak7192]

Maşaallah 🥰 You are a wonderful couple. It's nice to see you guys. May Allah bless you🤲

[@KnittyKitty86]

Love seeing the furbabies making an appearance! And thank you for sharing your faith.

[@ShaistaFarheenSF]

I pray to Allah that you're soon back to good terms with your family, Mehdi, Ameen....and not only that, but also that they too become aware of the truth and embrace Islam. It was very inspiring to know that in spite of being raised in an environment where Islam was disliked a lot, you were guided towards it. Truly whom Allah choses to guide, can never be misguided.

[@riyatomarr]

can y’all clarify the difference between sunni and shia? i don’t know the meaning

[@rosethompson1983]

Main difference is the belief as to whether or not the Prophet (peace be upon him) at God’s (Praise be to Him) command appointed someone to lead the Muslims after his death. Sunnis do not believe anyone specific was appointed, Shia believe his cousin and son-in-law Ali (peace be with him) was appointed.

[@rosethompson1983]

Of course there are differences in practice that have developed over the centuries, but this is the difference in belief.

[@fizzabatool469]

@@rosethompson1983 he was not appointed because Ali was Mohammad’s cousin or Son in Law. He was appointed because he was the one highest in Taqwa. He was the best Muslim among all others and only person worthy of guiding the Ummah.

[@SajiSims]

Yesssss loving the unity talk and the acknowledgment of polyamory ma shaa Allah!! I was polyamorous before I was Muslim (so like that’s my natural relationship orientation). I’ve ALWAYS wanted a polygamous marriage and alhamdulillah my current husband feels the same (last eventually was but… it didn’t work out. W Allahu alam). I actually know someone who had* four wives (his second wife just passed, inna Lillahi w inna ilayhi raji’oon 😔). It’s definitely super hard, people don’t realize! You have to be “built a certain way” and really communicate if you want it to work out well. And financially it’s a major burden on a man! So yea. People are silly thinking all men just automatically polygamist 😅😅😅 Also on the boundaries thing lol My kid tried to hug my “little sisters” at the masjid and I was like “oh. Kiddo. Yea. You can’t hug them. *explains Islamic boundaries*” whoops should have explained before taking him to the mosque for the first time 🤣

[@SajiSims]

SCARFACE!???

[@Lovethyself887]

You plan on being poly? As a woman, you literally cannot, are you even educated on the matter?

[@SajiSims]

@@Lovethyself887 my husband can have multiple wives. That’s poly. La hawla w la quwwata ila Billah.

[@saimachannel3863]

Every couple is different and we should always respect their decisions. Especially regarding children because honestly u should grow as a couple before having children. Children are difficult don’t let the fantasise media on children trick u because it actually have lead many couples to depression and divorce because they jump too quickly. Maybe because of social and family pressure. It’s hard but think of ur relationship first because u would have the burden and responsibility alone. Not saying having children is bad but to just respect ones decision. I love this couple. ❤

[@s.deergarnell1716]

Most men have enough trouble remembering one anniversary

[@adeliciaallya6700]

Regarding the wives question: I'm a Muslim and was born and raised in a Muslim country. I've only met a man with 4 wives and 2 wives once. Non with 3 wives. Most of the men like probably 95% of muslim men in my country only have 1 wife X'D

[@laraandrews9710]

Marriage is a sacred institution in Islam with very important objectives. In most cases, the objective is achieved through monogamy. However, in certain situations, a man is allowed to marry more than one wife, with the condition that he treats his wives with justice, and takes the decision with Taqwa or God Consciousness. The idea that Islam allows polygamy so that men could pursue lust and as an excuse to fulfill sensual desires is a far cry from what Islam actually wishes to achieve.

[@laraandrews9710]

Polygamy is allowed, though not mandatory, as a remedial measure for certain situations that may arise from time to time. The primary occasion then for the provision of polygamy is in war-time situations. During times of war, the number of men in the society is reduced due to war casualties. Consequently, there is an increase in the number of widows and orphans. For such situations, Islam gives the provision of polygamy so that the widows and orphans could continue to have the possibility of a family life after the passing of the husband/father.

[@Mochamoon-z4q]

I love your vids I'm learning more about islam because of you my uncle know a lot about islam too

[@minty69420]

I wouldn’t watch your videos if it they weren’t made with you together, y’all are just too cute and I hope you never ever get divorced or have an argument… EVER.

[@tahminaminu241]

I love your niqab style Mubina! Allah may bless you both! MashAllah! You are very lucky Mubina that your husband is so respectful! Love your videos!❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@tahminaminu241]

Thanks for the heart

[@zoyathecat533]

You guys are admazing ! I am a Shia Muslim. And enjoy learning about other people.

[@hafeezuddin-cl5zy]

Wholesome! ❤❤

[@someoneplays2122]

I do understand that we’re all Muslim, but Sunnis and Shias have some very big differences ( like Shias believe in Ali (ra) is a prophet or something, correct me if I’m wrong, I’m Sunni so I don’t know much myself 😅 ), but otherwise for the subsects ( Like Sufism or Salafism ) and stuff we shouldn’t divide ourselves cause it’s just very confusing and the ummah is supposed to be united as one

[@rabiaali11]

We all believe in 1 God, 1 Quran and Prophet Muhammad is the last prophet

[@nasrinsafdari221]

Us shias we believe in Allah as our God and Prophet Muhammad as our last prophet. Imam Ali and our other 11 imams who are the family of the prophet us considered as guides after the prophet where they kept Islam, they are not considered as prophets but like our Imams. There many other sects in shia where people think other things like Imam Ali is our God astaghfiruallah. I can guarantee you this is not real Shi’ism. We are not muslim if we dont believe in Allah and his prophets. We are impatiently waiting for Imam Mahdi ( the grandson of the prophet and Ali) where Islam will he united.Hope this clears the misunderstandings.

[@someoneplays2122]

@@nasrinsafdari221 I see, but then why make yourself a whole new sect? We should follow the way of prophet Muhammad pbuh But i heard y'all do things like pray on a rock? ( SORRY IF IM WRONG THATS WHAT I HEARD ) so there are some differences, no?

[@someoneplays2122]

@@rabiaali11 Yeah i believe that's the core belief of Islam, but these sects do have differences, i just like to say I'm Sunni and that i follow whatever Allah and the Prophet pbuh say

[@fizzabatool469]

@@someoneplays2122 STOP POINTING OUT THINGS THAT YOU HAVE ONLY “HEARD”! that’s so disrespectful. Heres your answer. The Shi'ah Muslims prefer to prostrate on a small block of earth, called a Turbah, which is usually made from clay from the land of Karbala in Iraq. According to the Shi'ah Ja'fari fiqh - which is one of the five main schools of law in Islam - prostration must be performed on pure earth or what grows on it, provided that it is not eaten or worn. This includes dust, stone, sand and grass, provided that it is not a mineral. Prostration on paper is permitted, because it is made of a material which grows on earth, but not cloth or carpets. Praying on the earth was certainly the practice of the Prophet (s) and those around him. • Narrated Abu Sa'id al-Khudri: I saw Allah's Apostle prostrating in mud and water and saw the mark of mud on his forehead. [Al-Bukhari, Sahih (English translation), vol. 1, book 12, no. 798; vol. 3, book 33, no. 244] • Narrated Anas bin Malik: We used to pray with the Prophet in scorching heat, and if someone of us could not put his face on the earth (because of the heat) then he would spread his clothes and prostrate over them. [Al-Bukhari, Sahih (English translation), vol. 2, book 22, no. 299] According to this hadith only in exceptional circumstances would the Prophet (s) and his Companions prostrate on cloth. This is the reason why Shi'ah Muslims carry small tablets, usually made from the earth of Karbala, which enables them to do prostration on this highly recommended object and to follow the sunnah of the Prophet (s).

[@ayeshxd]

Guys make sure you say S.A.W whenever she says it!

[@nickgonzalez7617]

I knew somebody and I believe it was Pakistan that I got a second wife because his brother had died and as the next eldest brother he felt it was his responsibility to take care of her and the children that she had with her previous husband and she became his second wife even though they never had children together but that's the only case I ever heard of it. I'm guessing it was more of a cultural thing than an actual religion thing

[@BeepBoopBopBap]

@@1970Mom let’s be polite, he said they never had children together, there’s no guarantee they even touched each other, he was caring for a widow and his nieces and nephews. Unless it wasn’t consensual on her behalf this was a good thing

[@brittany.harden]

Since your family disowned you, I'm your new family 💜💜💜 I didn't have a choice, I was indoctrinated into the Christian faith. Now that I'm in my 30s I'm atheist. I use to be such an Ignorant Conservative Christian and believed everything I had heard from the media and society. I'm so glad that my eyes were opened to reality. Thank you so much for your channel and content. It's really educational and fun. I'm scared to let my family know, I don't want them putting the blame on my son's dad, even though he isn't atheist. But I did however go to him and ask questions regarding things I was feeling or thinking and he'd answer them. But because of his religion (Satanist) the blame will be placed on him, like apparently I'm not smart enough to make my own decisions about MY BELIEFS 🤦🤦🤦

[@HoneyBakedHamlet]

You have such beautiful babies!! 😍

[@rubimalik4878]

She must be loving the fact that she has mehndi minus his family the inlaws

[@yvettemurray7259]

Scarface. You are a wonderful couple and I love your three furbabies. 😊

[@JisanAliShaikh]

The best thing that I liked who was when you answer the question about Sunni or Shia... I too believe only in being Muslim not of any sect 😊

[@sknight2810]

Idk why ppl always ask married couple about kids. It’s always why dont u want a baby and never why do u want a baby lol.. bc alot of ppl DONT wAnt kids periodt

[@mahabubakhanam1498]

I love your answer when you said we are muslim no shia no sunni

[@jessie.papageorge10]

Just curious, If one had fertility problems, would it be ok in Islam to seek fertility assistance? I.e. hormones, IUI, or IVF?

[@MehdinaTV]

Depends on the treatment but yes :) its perfectly fine to do so

[@visenyatargaryen9130]

It's ok. But sperm donor, egg donor, surrogacy, are not allowed. The egg has to be from the wife. The sperm has to be from the husband. And the baby has to be carried by the wife.

[@visenyatargaryen9130]

@@1970Mom I know some devout muslim couples who have children through IVF. So, I think that's ok

[@visenyatargaryen9130]

@@1970Mom there is no official stance. Islam today has no single leader like the Catholic Pope. Scholars can have their own opinions, their own ways. Maybe different from one to another. Topics like IVF did not exist in the 7th century whem Muhammad lived. So, there can be different opinions today. I can say that in my country, no scholar say againts IVF.

[@danamichelle1290]

Happy wife, happy life!! He's smart.

[@rahimzabimza]

Just want to clarify that the reason why some Muslims ask if you're Sunni or Shi'a is not because they hate Shi'as or Sunnis, rather it's because they view the other sect as deviance and want to help the person realise that. I am a Sunni and all Sunni means is a Muslim that follows the way of the Prophet ﷺ. It also needs to be noted that there aren't sects within Sunnism, they are called madhabs, and all of them are accepted by other Sunnis. For example, I am a Hanafi and another person may be Maliki. We do things differently but we don't oppose what the other does or believes because all madhahib are accepted. As Muslims, it is important we teach other Muslims about Islam, and the Prophet ﷺ said there are 73 sects, of which only one will be saved and admitted to Jannah. I know you have good intentions by not stating whether you are Sunni or Shi'a, however, Shi'as can be considered as deviants of Islam by Ahlus Sunnah wal Jama'ah, and you would not see any scholar responding ambigously when asked if they are Sunni or Shi'a. I say this with a lot of respect and hope someone can benefit from this 🤍

[@ShipperFireMist]

Question for Garret, did your close friends, who supported your convertion weren't at the wedding? (i came from your convertion story video. I was confused if you invited your friends who actually support you)

[@pelin1911]

I really like your answer about the sunni and shia thing. Personally I was born into a sunni family but nevertheless i would not say i am sunni because i am simply a muslim alhamdulillah

[@C-SD]

Love watching you guys, as always.

[@christinarothleitner-stu-zz3vc]

Dear Mehdi, I feel sorry for you, that your family broke up the contact to you. That hurts. It's true, people hear, without askig so many bad news about the Islam that you may, think that this is the core of the religion. And it's hard to leave this place. I hope your family reaches out for you and gives you a hand and talks to you again, trys to understand you and your motive and your motivation. I'd be so happy for you and your wife. With good wishes for you and your wife 💐

[@truestriver6512]

Please pray for me i have got many exams inshAllah i pass

[@MehdinaTV]

May Allah swt make this easy for you and grant you success in this world and the hereafter. Ameen.

[@truestriver6512]

@@MehdinaTV jazakallah khairan really appreciate it.Tommorow ill be having my exam for my ulamah studies hope it gos well inshAllah

[@windowstherapy]

Yes, you are right. There is only one identity we should have, we are muslim.

[@V4MP1RE_CULTURE]

I’m pagan, but I think every religion is beautiful! I really enjoy learning about other religions, and you’ve both taught me so much! Thank you ❤️

[@jjqq4116]

You should read the Quran.

[@nurununu]

@@jjqq4116 you should read a book about paganism.

[@Jasmine-ge2xv]

@@nurununu what is it? Who do they believe in

[@purplestripes4076]

Unfortunately, these Abrahamic ones don't feel the same about you

[@Jasmine-ge2xv]

@@purplestripes4076 yes they do lmao ur just racist

[@NatalieLeBron]

Just a question, Mubina, would you still love garrett if he came back to Jesus?

[@IciECei]

😂 why are you Christian’s getting upset Just because he left Christianity you guys have to study your own religion before understanding why people leave

[@NatalieLeBron]

​@@IciECei I never said I was mad, It's sad but i never said anything. and yes we study our religion, Jesus told us to

[@jxxlr25]

you guys inspire me, i love you🥰

[@jura3899]

SCARFACE!!! Hey guys, great video as always 🤍 So I have a question, what if you’re a person on your own who lives in the western world and has grown up in a predominantly Christian country but you’re drawn to Islam? Knowing your heart belongs to god but your family and friends would give you up and reject you. Even confirmation out of their mouths? I know a lot of people’s answer would be to follow your heart but what if without your family you had nothing and you’d be in terrible financial struggle. Is it right that this prevents you from converting? Or does it mean in spite of all the problems, you should convert anyway and if you don’t then you aren’t ready to convert?

[@tinkeramma]

They mentioned this in another video. What makes someone Muslim is simple and private, a sacred moment with Allah. That can happen regardless of anything else and you would know that about yourself. God does not ask us to run before we can walk. Everything else should come one step at a time. Maybe the path to becoming more able to practice is developing financial independence. Maybe it is strengthening relationships so that when this truth is shared, those relationships can withstand trials to come. Maybe it's just continuing to research and learn while being unable to actively practice Islam out of concern for safety. Faith is a journey without end that brings us closer to God. This is true of Islam as well.

[@jura3899]

@@tinkeramma thankyou

[@algerianstudenthasmuchtosa630]

I think the solution (if you are convinced of Islam and you did research and it leads you to Islam) is to hide it from your family (if you know that they are against Islam and other religions) For example, if hijab causes family to attack the girl, then she does not need to wear it. (My Hungarian friend was beaten to death because of it I am so sorry so the advise everyone gave her is to take it off, I mean this huge attack is because she is Hungarain European not Arab, or Muslim from childhood) The same thing with other duties, if it is possible to practice secretary I wish you the best of the best, and I wish you find the right path Smile and have a nice day!

[@stargazer2561]

I’m Shia and when I say that I get attacked so much, I usually don’t bring it up unless I’m asked directly because at the end of the day we’re all Muslims and nobody should attack anyone I want peace and unity of the ummah InshAllah in the future Ameen ❤️🥰

[@ibrahimalharbi3358]

I think that happens a lot now for political reasons but If we really know what the prophet teach; we can't criticize Muslims as long as they are not far a way from Islam and that happen with every sect. Best regards.

[@sabagaming9815]

I loved when they said they are muslim exactly my thought proud

[@luislozano6073]

I thought you would answer: No, we are not getting divorced

[@Jls728]

Just want you guys to know, during your video there was an ad for some kind of stories app thing and it mentioned condoms and other things which are not appropriate for an Islamic video. I think you can adjust your ad preferences for your videos so you won’t have bad stuff like this pop up in sh Allah.

[@ZainabAhmed-n8g]

New subscriber! Love your video! ❤️

[@bilkisuawwal6490]

Scarface. love you guys May Allah guid and protect you and may Allah bless you with good children when the time comes.

[@grafflover100]

I love watching your videos!

[@sharkteam6990]

They were collage mates and Chemistry mates!!! Correct me if I’m wrong!!! Yup I was Right they worked together for along timeء!!!

[@kpopcappuccino]

I really loved your answer to suni or shia thing , because I also can't understand why people want to lable themselbes , we are just muslims , these labeling just divides people

[@ireadfanficsforcomfortandn2534]

You guys are so cute Omg May Allah grant you both success in this life and the next :D

[@mjbritton6554]

I love this channel! I'm a Christian, and I downloaded a free Quran app on my phone. Where should I start reading?

[@sharkteam6990]

Yes it was his decision!!! He love and wished to be Muslim!!!

[@AmatuAllah111]

Asc how are you guys I hope you are well and your families too? This video was very entertaining and informational and may Allah bless you and your families Ameen Asc 😊

[@Marlenpotato]

3:47 3:50 3:54 OMG SO CUTEE 🙏❤️❤️❤️

[@christineclay4663]

I love your babies! 😺😺😺

[@solo_pursuits_]

I enjoyed watching this video so much 🤗

[@itz_blossomsthebunny2179]

same lol

[@sarabarnes8862]

I love your channel it's so awesome learning about your culture and religion

[@NOTHINGcutiepie]

I was shocked when mehdi said he converted, i thought he was Muslim from before

[@saifbubere2137]

Do you guys live in Canada? Also mubina is from Pakistan?