Men: Love Your Naked Body!

[@tysondouglasrand5613]

Okay, diving into this one yet again. I'm pretty sure this is a primary issue for me.

[@MrJimAalen]

Bravo Kaelan. You are a sweet and insightful gift of The Universe. And a profound inspiration. Namaste and love, jim

[@EcstaticSelf]

Xoxo

[@newworldlove7031]

Body dismophia is a big deal and then being aware of judgment from other men makes it worse! After 2020 lock down I stopped going to the gym and now I have this inner battle of not liking my unfit, non gym body but not wanting to be in the harsh gym environment!! More self healing needed!! We need more people on Instagram who promote inner health and happiness, rather than the extreme gym steroid look!! I just don't want to be in a gym with horrible bright lighting, mirrors everywhere and loud nasty piped music!! Home work outs and self exceptance!! Great video topic thank you 👍💓🙏

[@EcstaticSelf]

So much love to you!

[@wojciechwooszyn1413]

Thank you for great videos. As we all know everything is vibration/ energy. And yours really resonated with me to the core. After a while I started crying and felt some shift in the way I perceive my body . It's still a long ongoing process to accept yourself but watching you really helps me change my old, destructive thinking patterns. Sending much love from Poland.

[@EcstaticSelf]

Thanks for sharing!! Sending you so much love to 🇵🇱

[@legoshirocha]

I managed to loved my body overtime because it’s ok to have love handles, a little of belly, etc. But as long as you’re healthy you’re happy.

[@EcstaticSelf]

Namaste!

[@Mcclaine]

Im learning from you thank you

[@andrzejmaranda3699]

Ecstatic Self: VERY IMPORTANT video!

[@jimmikin1382]

I love your vids I have learned alot from them nobody talks about us guys, I love that you do

[@jackdeweese1971]

Thank you Kae!! I’ve been struggling with body image for years and this opened my eyes to what is possible!❤❤❤

[@Зоя-в6н]

Я Теб. 00 Я,, ,

[@Зоя-в6н]

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[@Зоя-в6н]

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[@Зоя-в6н]

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[@Зоя-в6н]

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[@scmick68]

In our home my partner, our son and myself aren't allowed to say anything negative about someone's body if describing or referring to them!

[@tysondouglasrand5613]

Wow. I hear you. I really need to work through some stuff in this area. I'm feeling very conflicted. I may need to listen to this one a couple more times. I need ice cream. (just keep doing the work, tyson - you've got this...)

[@ak5659]

Very good points all around. My only minor quibble is about X,Y, & Z starting at 14:00. When that comes up in my life I seem to get two extreme views. One is that they are insurmountable and I'm supposed to both accept that they thwart me and take some sort of ownership that never gets defined ... all just because some random person says so. The other extreme is that X, Y, & Z aren't real and are only my feelings. It took me years to realize that both of these views usually fail to reflect reality very well (I'm being super polite here). So...... NO....... X, Y, & Z are real and will not change in response to anything going on with me. They are obstacles I must find a way around..... and I will. It might take me 5 minutes or it might take me 5 years but I will find a way around them. I just wish screening out other people's babbling didn't take so much energy.

[@neilschipper3741]

Another great video their Kae! Each decade of life brings a new awareness, knowledge. Also a deeper peace comes into your life. If I may suggest... Viewers really need to read your book and when a situation of Life comes up you have basically covered the situation. XOXO love and blessings back at you my friend🙏❤

[@EcstaticSelf]

Awe. Thanks, my friend, Blessings back again to you!

[@neilschipper3741]

@@EcstaticSelf really enjoyed the blessings you've shared with us viewers tonight! Sending you special blessings and love XOXO❤🙏

[@sumanjoshi9649]

​@@EcstaticSelf How can I meet you

[@EslamMoradi]

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[@donaldheuvelman6406]

Kae, once again, Bullseye 🎯! , so wonderful to hear from your voice, that how i operate and what I do, can be placed into comprehensive words im slowly becoming God. I'm so glad I'm one of your initial followers. you're phenomenal...always so insightful.

[@EcstaticSelf]

Awe. I am so glad it resonated, Donald. So much love and blessings to you!

[@myacerisawesome]

Goshhh I’m 6’1 and 140 pounds🥺 thank you so much for your video. People give me so much shit for being skinny. But thank you, your video definitely helped.

[@EcstaticSelf]

I’ve been that exact place, brother. You’re beautiful where you are!

[@EslamMoradi]

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[@sawcsam1019]

Wow this was great! Love your insightful view!

[@shanemorris3554]

Totally relate to the disconnection: I've got sexual anhedonia/anorgasmia. Things that feel great the first time, stop feeling good after that.

[@EcstaticSelf]

[@magicfingers12265]

Kae, I love your heart. I love your soul. I love your mind. None of that is bullshit. Thank you for sharing "you" with all of us! Namasté. ❤️

[@EcstaticSelf]

Awe. My sincere pleasure, Brian. Love to you!

[@EslamMoradi]

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[@Bob841007]

This video made me cried , literally

[@EcstaticSelf]

Awe. Buddy….

[@protegemoi9819]

Man you’re great! Thanks for sharing

[@EcstaticSelf]

My pleasure

[@jamesjohnson5341]

Thank you Kae......James

[@EcstaticSelf]

You're very welcome, James

[@protegemoi9819]

You are definitely part of the Vedic ascension happening right now, people are screaming it’s the end but only the end of the Cabal and beginning of true spirit.

[@EcstaticSelf]

Thank you, Christopher 🙏🏼

[@Malehanger]

Excellent as always Kai!

[@EcstaticSelf]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@josephfowells7721]

thankx, very interesting talk esp taking responsibility

[@EcstaticSelf]

Glad it resonated.

[@thenativeamericans]

Thanks for this video.

[@jbson33]

Thank you for saying that it gave me a lot to think about

[@EcstaticSelf]

I'm glad you found it meaningful.

[@EslamMoradi]

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[@flyjet787]

Excellent reminders! I'm curious. Do you have pectus excavatum? I do. It appeared more pronounced before puberty and it got negative attention from peers from time to time. It created an obession about my body image. I'd love to hear you talk about pectus excavatum if you do indeed have it too. Thanks! Looking forward to your next video!

[@EcstaticSelf]

Yes I do! I have talked about it a bit in previous videos. Check out the one about me spending a week naked. The reason I haven't talked more directly about it/made a video specifically on the topic is that I don't want to sound like I am complaining about something that is rather minor in the grand scheme of things. Yes, I was picked on horribly about it as a youth and teen. Yes, it caused me great psychological distress as an adult--where I thought I was wildly unattractive and wouldn't take my shirt off...but others deal with much worse than that. I don't want to sound ungrateful.

[@ak5659]

@@EcstaticSelf I have P.E. and a "few other things". My Haller score is too low for treatment but I had one doc tell me that my "few other things" give me a visual score of AT LEAST 4.0, prob closer to 4.5. I.E. way past the threshold to warrant surgical intervention. My parents told me I was imagining it. Let's just say that when I took my shirt off if I only got stared at that was a good day. And no, it has not abated with age. I'm on the wrong side of 50 and I get just as many stares and rude comments now as I did when I was 15. Weirdly, when I go to a nude beach I get ZERO stares. And nobody stares at me. What's kind of strange (I think) is that people's unsolicited negative reactions no longer trigger me. What DOES trigger me is any kind of suggestion that there's subjectivity involved such as it's my perspective, that it's how I feel,etc. All this talk of body dysmorphia usually assumes a huge psychological component. What about all the guys like Chris Berger (above) and me? That we do not fit society's model of what's acceptable in appearance is medical fact. It's completely physical. And tbh I no longer have any patience for people who fantasize a psychological component and try to project it onto something that does not have one. What I am curious about is your exercise routine. Ex. were there any specific exercise that made your rib flare less prominent? Ok, I've ranted enough........

[@ak5659]

I have P.E. too. Please scroll down to see my reply to Kae's comments. Thanks.

[@TROS19]

yes, because in the U.S. everyone has health insurance. everyone can afford a trainer, a private coach, and healthy lifestyle. seriously, the more I see these self-help gurus, the more I see how classist the community is.

[@EcstaticSelf]

yup

[@nuzulluddin]

Is very good

[@lancemorley7507]

It's great to be totally naked and as often as possible Nude is best

[@christopher2cv]

My favourite video so far Kae. That really hit home. Thank you ❤️

[@EcstaticSelf]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@EslamMoradi]

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[@ronneyrendon5045]

Discussed or Disgust?

[@mikenealon4042]

ugh modern social mores have me yearning for less

[@gsogso3444]

🙏🏼💫🙏🏼

[@siddharthaguin2754]

Bro, I have a huge rod for girls

[@markmullaney5178]

Dude you have a huge rod and are genetically gifted if you can’t accept your insanely hot body then the rest of us are doomed

[@EcstaticSelf]

hahaha. Everyone feels insecure. EVERYONE... or else they are a psychopath, probably

[@mrjawaidkhan4107]

Excellent our gay community I love it