Men Miss You More When You Master Magnetic Habits

[@SaveTheMessenger]

Thanks to all of you that have subscribed to my channel. It means a lot to me to see you want to learn about these topics.

[@zaarakhan]

Uaah amazing ma thanks for d information in future might be follow

[@marylennon1524]

My mom found a great love at age 75. They had a wonderful “intimate” life as well as loving relationship. I think if we continue having an open heart despite life’s difficulties, love comes around at any time. Thank you Ismael! You have a great vibe

[@SaveTheMessenger]

Another wonderful story. Thanks for sharing, Mary.

[@tracetaskew7116]

That's so nice there's still hope for me then starting to feel past it at52 still optimistic though😁

[@salamatugarba8904]

Quite inspiring!

[@Portia620]

I think at that age you realize what’s important and what’s not I think younger people don’t get the importance of certain things and other things are just stupid like if he leaves the toilet seat up or not.

[@haydeecruz6907]

wow, thats inspiring 🥰

[@jeanauguste-f7i]

I met my love at 61 whilst on holiday in the Caribbean. I lived with him for 5 years. And no I didn't pay I lived rent and bill free at his house. He told me after 5 years his feelings had altered, so I immediately packed my bags and caught the first flight I could back to my country. I dont need to hear it twice if someone says they've lost their feelings, I'm not going to hang around pleading . This was 6 years ago and he still messages me every single day and keeps asking me to go back. Love can happen to us older ones it's all down to being at the right place at the right time. So get yourselves out and stop sitting in the house wishing and hoping, no-one is going to knock on your door. Good luck. ❤

[@vhayashi7369]

You didn't deserve that I'm sorry he flaked out on you.

[@cecilyremy7899]

It sounds like he regrets his decision.

[@kayleencoward2442]

You should go back.

[@karadiberlino]

This story sounds weird…

[@MoxiraDexqonboyeva]

This came true, the more you are not available to men, the more they appreciate and spend time on you❤

[@SaveTheMessenger]

I'd rephrase this to "the more you invest in yourself, the more they appreciate you."

[@karadiberlino]

@@SaveTheMessenger Well said! This „availability“- game is childish. 🙄

[@boomerangsruckflug8513]

Meaning you want to be available 24/7? Sounds clingy​@@karadiberlino

[@deec411]

After a lot of inner work and truly letting go of the need for someone, I met a wonderful man with no hang ups about being "whipped" He treats me wonderfully and only wants to make me happy. Thank you Ismael and Thank you God!! ✨

[@carolinechase614]

Hello dear Ismael I’m 65 and just happened upon your channel. Down to earth, not too long but long enough and you have helped me to understand men and my effect upon them. Awesome and thank you

[@SaveTheMessenger]

I’m so glad you found the channel and that it’s been helpful for you.

[@stellatong5002]

A man says, “Hey, listen. I cheated 3 times in the past.” Or, “Hey, I really like going to strip clubs with my friends”, are already BIG red flags 🚩…

[@zephy9208]

That's not a man. That's clearly a boy. - Let them talk and lnow when you're out. Also many just talk. If someone is acting suspicious I usually leave. Including stuff like making you jealous. Immature af. XD Trust your gut ladies. So agreed: ANY red flag (your personal ones that is) get out there asap Ladies!

[@fatimasalie3911]

Thanx😊

[@bubbles4905]

Yes. For me, I would have to say goodbye, to that man.

[@Yellowcat520]

This is good for introspection ~ There is no age limit for finding real love ❤

[@angelaschnettler5013]

There is not, I truly believe that 🎉🎉

[@bettywinn8296]

Love 💖 the way you "cut to the chase" by directly getting to the point. Great advice, as well...

[@RR-kv1zj]

6:00 is so true. Such a lovely video, so so good

[@veronicadavila3180]

Wow Ismael thank you for saying that Love can start at any age, I was about to give up

[@shareenmonga]

He’s absolutely correct even the last point 💯

[@mars9582]

Ismael, I love how the tips you give out actually have much deeper reasoning and are not nonsensical and temporary. Thank you so much for doing all this!

[@michellekavanagh2053]

Well, finding love at a later stage in life sounds very promising. I feel much better. I would love to experience true live at least once, so you have given me the hope to keep moving forward. Thank you

[@fagunbahar5506]

You're so positive ❤

[@nwpv7170]

Hi Ismael, Thank you for today's advices. I keep gaining the right steps to succeed in my present relationship. You so are amazing!

[@SaveTheMessenger]

Thank you so much. I’m really glad to hear the advice is helping you in your relationship. Keep going strong.

[@rinkeypal5172]

Always leave some mystry behind, create us moment , single fragrance , dont show everything on social media, listen him

[@erishposhclub]

Thank youuu Ismael. You are the best ❤

[@pallabkushari1916]

I'm still 14 but I like to see your videos Ismael sir. Thank you for sharing these.😁

[@Gal.D.K.]

I love your tips and advice.. really practical and makes a lot of sense… thank you Ismael.. 😊

[@vanillal6315]

Hi dear Ismael!! I'm happy to be the first one to come and receive you here. I cherish you a lot Sir and you must really know that you've helped me a lot, for real🙏🏻❤.

[@SaveTheMessenger]

Thank you so much for your kind words. It means a lot to know that my insights have helped you.

[@danmaromila4942]

Absolutely correct !

[@fanaberia82]

thanks! 😉

[@lindamc1436]

Love the last thought something I need work on. Listen without judgement

[@shrutidebnath573]

Amazing to hear ❤

[@tinaali3686]

Thank u for great advice as always ❤

[@aalaaahmed5217]

I'm in a long distance relationship, my boyfriend and I are so honest with eachother. He has female friends and he went outside with one of his female friends to museums and so on..he told me about this outing with her *So I totally appreciate his honesty and talking openly* but I don't accept that he goes with other girls and I'm not with them + he uploaded a picture on his story with her almost hugging eachother... I don't think it's something normal to do, right? Would you please tell me how to express my feelings regarding this with him and what to say? I'm so calm and like to discuss anything calmly but this thing I don't like it so what should I do? Thank you so much Ismael for your help in advance!

[@cecilang9721]

Go somewhere with a guy friend and post some pictures. Why don’t need to be calm if you feel jealous? If you don’t express jealousy then he might feel you don’t care. By the way I give my guy a lot of freedom too, and I’m also very calm. But don’t hide your feelings. Just be mindful you don’t be nasty or bossy about it. Good luck to you. Why doesn’t he have guy friends? I’m certain at least some of these female friends are wanting to get with him.

[@dr.sidkouser4668]

Be careful just saying be very careful please please

[@aalaaahmed5217]

@@cecilang9721 you mean I should express my jealousy to him? Could you please tell me how can I express it and what to say???

[@aalaaahmed5217]

@@dr.sidkouser4668 thank you sooo much dr🥺

[@riasb]

lol sis ily. You cannot change him. This is who he is, if you bring it up, you are seen as jealous. If you don’t bring it up, you are seen as a doormat. Throw the whole dude away. Next time, watch how he moves and first red flag, dump him. For now, fall back and dump. Do not give him a reason or he will gaslight you to stay. Respect over feelings or he will trample on you.

[@vania698]

Thank you

[@yehpanganiban]

I'm 65 next month. Just got out of a 10 year toxic relationship. I don't go out much but I'm on a dating site. Thx for this channel. I'm understanding how men are at this age ha ha. I stumbled upon your channel last night and watched few videos already and oh...I subscribed. Love and light ❤

[@SaveTheMessenger]

Welcome to my channel, Lynn. Glad to have you here.

[@Ahbhswrzq9221]

The example Nadia Khaled gave was great, thinking about the when and how should not be the focus

[@Princess29-y9k]

Thank you for sharing ❤

[@dinakp6294]

Great! So there is hope for me yet! I'm 56 and still single, but might get lucky in the future! 😃

[@FranWarren-vy1lr]

Hi Ismael! Love your videos - and I hope to set a new record (at least on KZbin) as your oldest success story. I’m 63!

[@SaveTheMessenger]

I love that mindset. Age is just a number, and I’m sure you’ll set that record.

[@angelaschnettler5013]

Great and wise ! advice, as ever 😊 ... and really, why shouldn't it be true? You can find a great love, regardless of how old you are ... 🎉🎉

[@SaveTheMessenger]

Absolutely. Thanks for your comment.

[@domingacanilang2929]

That's inspirational advice ❤ thank You dear

[@IrmaQP-zk1ni]

AMEN! Thanks.

[@seekingenlightenmentbeauti1848]

Why its so hard to b in love n respctd from both sides. Why we need to learn tactics to kp hm. Love lasts whn the man loves more othrws its a compromise n attntion grabng game.

[@somefootprints]

Very true

[@Steph_1215]

Very helpful!!!

[@MonicDelaware]

Is not the universe. Is God… Remember… God is bigger than the universe and he created it!

[@karmakuntz]

💯

[@andreadonar7597]

Amen!!!!❤❤❤

[@chivu688]

Amen

[@Lillian-pt7tp]

Hey @Ismael do you have a podcast on Spotify? Great work ❤

[@MilenaBiberovic-jj8wt]

Yes great vibe and mind Smart man

[@deysig26]

Love your content!

[@SaveTheMessenger]

I appreciate you, Deysi.

[@definategidioni3636]

I really need to know how to deal with a controlling patner who threatens breakup everytime you don't do things his way

[@NKbutnot]

You deal with that by exiting stage left because you’re a woman of value who loves and respects herself and don’t tolerate and accept this type of behavior from a man

[@dv6531]

You leave.

[@badwaterb118]

You realize that this isn’t for you to deal with. It’s something he needs to deal with and he’s probably not interested in that. That’s when you prioritize yourself, leave, and find someone you don’t have ask this question about.

[@joykorshiwor699]

You leave. You leave

[@reenichase8686]

Follow your feelings. What are your options. BE THE CREATOR OF YOUR LIFE🪷

[@tatilee4816]

Tbh I don't give a *!%4 anymore what makes him stick to me or not. My eye is on him and his behaviour and if it is in line with my values, green flags and expectations or not. The rest is just guy focussed fluff. I'm going to walk if he doesn't treat me right and that's the bottom line.

[@debbierichards8182]

My great aunt was the town's magnetic girl, men wanted to marry her. Her last love was at 90 with an old "beau!" Fun, lively, fiesty & surprising so he always checked on her. They married & 2 years later he got ill. She took care of him 6 months. Asked her if it was worth it & tried to help. She said it was worth it gave meaning & companionship. She enjoyed people's reaction & taking his name officially. He passed. She lived years afterwards bittersweet.

[@karmakuntz]

Ismael, I love you

[@MoxiraDexqonboyeva]

Lovely ❤

[@brinsuleivani]

Ok I have a question to you... what if he actually really said "hey I admit that I had only texting contact with some women on the internet". Sure some might say ok as long as they never did more than texting, its not cheating. But for me its emotionally cheating. Anyways I knew it already because I found some chat screenshots on his sd card one day (by accident, I thought it was my sd card). So when he told me i just listened and didnt judge and let him pour out his heart, how bad he felt and bla bla. And when my silence made him nervous he asked me why didnt I say anything. And I said I knew already (not only from my gut feeling) but also that I found the screenshots accidently. He suddenly apologized so much for the betrayal and told me how much he loved me for forgiving him and that he knew it was a stupid act. I forgave him and pray to god that he guides him and this will never happen again. But sometimes im unsure if im dealing with too much, if i am to easy on him, especially when friends say I could never forgive that. Its not easy in a marriage and 3 kids to leave your man only because a bunch of internet contacts. What do you think?

[@chrystaljennings1300]

As soon as you wrote bla bla, about him pouring his heart out to you I immediately understand why he seeks attention from other women. I don't think he is the problem.

[@michellekavanagh2053]

I was told the best scent for you is the one you cant smell on yourself😊

[@Kiimjieun]

Hello Ismael, any tips for getting a man commit for marriage? We've been together for almost 8 years now. He's refusing to marry because of his narcissistic mother who doesn't want him to marry. He wants to live together instead without marriage.

[@esthero1994]

He's trippin...

[@danicaharley6273]

If he cant respect your needs and places his mother before you, this isnt a relationship ready man. Tell him this arrangement doesnt work for you anymore and leave him alone. If he comes back wanting to make you happy good if not, move forward and find your happiness with a better guy who doesn't want to waste your time

[@Kiimjieun]

@@danicaharley6273 Thank you 🥺 I asked him for one last time and he said "I won't marry" then I said "okay, we are done" and left him alone. Its hard but I think I can get through this ❤

[@yvonneschwartz3929]

If you need to bring the conversation, it is not his idea. I have had 3 rings in my hand and you bet I never spoke about marriage to any of them. If he is telling you he doesn't want to get married, why you don't believe him and respect his plans for his life? He is also telling you he doesn't want to marry you because whatever trauma he has, if you are not valuable enough to change that trauma, then he doesn't want you enough. You want to know if he wants you, start daiting another! Men show up when they realize if they really don't want to lose you. Tell him I want to get married one day to a man that is the right match for me, if marriage is not for you, I respect, but then we shouldn't waste each other's time! Do you want to get marry to a man that is madly inlove with you and goes to his knees by his own free will to tell you I want to be with you for the rest of my life, provide for you and be your protector? Yes or no? Then you have to let a man make that decision for himself! I would never want a man that I dragged all the way to the altar! You want to marry a guy that is in it because he values you above his lonely life and wants to share with you amazing experiences. If he is not that guy, there are four billion men on this earth, so go find him! You only live once!

[@JillCee]

He isn’t going to make you a priority. Actions speak louder than words.

[@divyap2310]

Love ❤ you.. Th@nk you*

[@ButterFly-si9xs]

I have a question Today a guy,i’m trying to help him in his studying So then he starts to talk about his life and his wrong actions in past. It really surprised me,why he is talking about that private things with me ?? I know i’m helping him But i don’t think he will gonna talk about these things ? What’s your opinions

[@trishitachandar9557]

Because he started trusting you. You gave him a safe space. Maybe he thinks you're not judging him. If he's younger than you then he has started trustinh you like a kid.

[@ButterFly-si9xs]

@@trishitachandar9557 thank you for your response💕 Yes,he is younger than me But also i think he has feelings for me Idk how to think He makes me confusing How can he like me and talk about his past ?

[@trishitachandar9557]

@@ButterFly-si9xs It's okay. Boys do talk about their past when they form a trust. But let him get over/forget his past completely, just because he seems to like you doesn't mean you have to like him back or you owe him something. If he's only willing to change his wrong actions, then u might give him a chance in the future if it goes right between u too. But him sharing about his past to you, simply means he wanted a safe space to share and clear his mind. He should completely get over his past then give his attention to another girl. Thats what my opinion is.

[@ButterFly-si9xs]

@@trishitachandar9557 yes, i think the same💕 Thank you for sharing your thoughts

[@oliverajovovic5661]

Nice 😊

[@SaveTheMessenger]

Thank you.

[@thekirst8359]

May I request that you discuss feminine energy please? I have a real problem with this as a non-binary person who is assigned a female gender at birth and publicly. I look, sound and appear to be a woman for all intents and purposes, but identify a strong sense of male energy in myself and always have. Even as a little girl, I tried to explain this aspect of my persona to my mother and this was long before being non-binary was even a thing. Now I constantly bump up against this idea that men want women to operate in their "feminine energy" because expressing male energy is somehow a threat to them. I however feel that I am unwilling to abandon this part of myself as it has been and still is such and integral and useful part of who I am, not to mention I enjoy my masculine energy so much more than I enjoy my feminine energy. Help please

[@reenichase8686]

Why push one away. Be YOU. All of you. Accept both and find a balance in yourself. Don't worry what outsiders think.

[@reenichase8686]

Love and accept both sides of yourself.

[@thekirst8359]

@@reenichase8686 Thank you. I ask because I have no intention of pushing one away. Both have their uses in my everyday life and I tend to be very effective professionally, but apparently men don't like this. I don't play all the silly dating games that they love and I hate apparently. 🤣🤣🤣 Being authentic is harder than they say. Thanks for the encouragement.

[@speakyourheart8548]

We are made up of both energies. This may not sit well with you but it's the truth. No one wants to change sex, they want to embody a particular energy. I grew up loving that tomboy energy, the adventure, the fun it was such a part of me. Imagine as a kid of my mum had said yea being a boy is what you are ect. Anyway I digress. There was also a part of my feminine energy I couldn't embrace. It invited people towards me that wouldn't have made it safe. As I got older I fell into my feminine and wow how transformative!! But the masculine energy is a huge part of me. I'm at peace with both. I don't judge them I just flow in them. What I would just check in on yourself with is..what do I fear when I'm in my feminine? There will be something. But I would say just be at one with what ever. No lables ect. Enjoy!

[@thekirst8359]

@speakyourheart8548 Thank you. That does really help💕

[@chanel13101982]

Sorry darling. Oh dear. Sorry Lord. Amen.

[@carmenmacias6551]

❤❤❤

[@kiawas1]

My name is the car he drives that’s torture enough

[@khushboogupta2051]

❤

[@tatilee4816]

For right one man, yes. Who cares what the rest think and whether they miss you or not. When you are a self actualized, self assured woman, you don't focus on the other person. What they think. How to get them to think or feel. I don't agree with you on this one Ismael

[@aramarsarabia8130]

😊

[@tedamjoke]

I appreciate your videos. At 53, I absolutely believe it WILL happen. Your oldest client was 59! 😳 well that gives me 6 years lol 😊

[@SaveTheMessenger]

It will happen. Age is just a number when you’re open to what’s meant for you.

[@WaterlilyWaterlily-y9t]

Dear u look like paul walker

[@xoxtina143]

So because he likes strip clubs and strippers but him and I barely know each other.. any advice on this lol

[@Erika-qu3nf]

Market here and there, market everywhere, even in relationships, calculated steps of length in conversation and what-not. C'mon :) One can get tired of all this theater.

[@SaveTheMessenger]

Why do you consider it theater?

[@Jasmina-Marseille]

You are very speciell Mr Gomez and undoubtedly an exception for my kindness - but, for anybody that is not you, I treat very harshly. Bitchy! And yet they adore me.... oddly enough. And follow me, like dogs, from every corner of the world. Its been like this my entire life. Take care x

[@CeciledeLuire]

then you will attract men that have low self-esteem and little integrity, because no man with true self-esteem and integrity will accept bad behavior.

[@naranjamorena]

Guys who are attracted to the bitch vibe have low self-esteem. Insecure men with low self-esteem are the ones who tend to be unfaithful. But it works for you. go for it!

[@CeciledeLuire]

@@naranjamorena yup. i answered sth similar, but my comment disappeared...

[@CynLeeAm]

Haha lies!!! Why are you utterly alone then? Where's your ring?

[@TV.vardagsrum]

7:58 But are there age-limit for you men? Ofcourse every man from 18-70 wants a 25-30 year old girl. Unless they both started young together, the man will always Always, Always look for a younger onre. Admit it. Better to know than be surprised.

[@TV.vardagsrum]

So my advice is: after 40 don't even try. and this Ivonne will unfortunately be exchanged for a younger as soon as the man gets a chance.

[@unterdessen8822]

Aw, come on. It's really just bjs. I see THE most horrible, crazy, disagreeable ladies do super well with guys, and I know it's not their perfume or conversational skills. Personality doesn't matter when her vacuuming skills are good and consistent enough.

[@petrahorcicova6641]

I am just tooo hot haha....

[@reemsaif3105]

Strange..guys do talk to me and no i don't judge thats why they tell me stuff. Both genders tell me that they can tell me anything without being judged. It doesn't mean i get pursued.

[@SherylMcCoy-jb5wh]

Sorry but if a guy tells me that he is a cheater then he's also a liar and a loser! Bye bye to him. No thanks!!

[@ACE_Fluent]

I have a gift for you or I have a sexy dress to wear is not my thing.

[@SamriddhiPandey-wl4iy]

Can I contact you mr. Ismael...if can contact me ..