Men’s Fashion Is Broken: How Fast Fashion Kills Masculinity

[@walterfoyt5985]

I agree with everything you said. However, I don’t think that the reason men, especially in American, dress bad is limited to fast fashion of following trends. I have gone to grocery stores and see people wearing pajamas and house shoes. If I go to a mall the major of men are wearing plastics or canvas shoes that they throw out after a year. I have Church’s shoes that are over 25 years old and still look like new. As I said I don’t think this is limited to fast fashion and trying to keep up with the current trends. American men have adopted a casual way of dressing that evolved to dressing sloppy. This is not because American men have bad style, it’s that most American men have no style at all. As Tom Ford said, “Dressing well is a form of good manners.”

[@AllureSecretary]

You make an excellent point: it's not just fast fashion or trends, but a deeper cultural shift towards casualness that has, unfortunately, led to sloppy dressing for many.

[@CocoKoi321]

Wtf is church's shoes

[@Kevin-o5q7d]

When I go to my local mall, I see well dressed women walking with men dressed like lil boys. It’s sad when I wear a turtleneck, jeans , and boots, I’m asked by family and friends, “ Why are you so dressed up?” This used to be considered normal or under dressed. Please don’t mention men’s fragrance. Men either smell like lil kids or marijuana. That’s content for another day.

[@28pbtkh23]

If you have Church's shoes that are over 25 years old, then I know at least one thing about you: you have really looked after those shoes. For even good quality shoes can fall apart if not cared for properly.

[@unknownuser6809]

When you dress like a James Bond you get respect. At many workplaces people would assume I was the manager just because of the clothes I was wearing.

[@AllureSecretary]

Absolutely. Dressing sharp commands respect and can change how people perceive you instantly. It’s amazing how much impact the right outfit can have.

[@abulafia9834]

Same here.

[@Andoy12]

Amen, that's it. Be the man in charge.

[@TomTom-sj3bn]

Agree a 100%, I work in one of the oldest private banks in the City. I have been told by a lot of people that I probably the best dressed men in the company, including our chairman who is a billionaire! The catch is is work in IT and i's definitely not wealthy ,at all ! But I wear clothes that fit me, quality shoes some that are more than a decade old and ties every day. I enjoy dressing up and I like to show respect to my work and the people I work with. I despair at the falling standards of dress especially when it comes to young men. Women are still dressed in a tasteful manner while most men wear clothes that they are clearly only wearing because they must.

[@jazzman1626]

Wearing a suit, shirt and tie, mirror shined shoes, results in a definite change in the way you are treated. It doesn’t even need to cost an arm and a leg. In fact, it costs much less than the designer branded clothes and lasts much longer too. It does wonders for my self esteem when I get what I call “the silent compliment” from ladies. That’s where you can see it in their eyes that they like what they see.

[@rlkinnard]

Another reason to think that LVMH is no longer mainstream. But no man is actually wearing skirts except for kilts. But there is a place for formal attire and there is a place for casual attire; you don't wear formal attire for every occasion.

[@AllureSecretary]

You're right, formal and casual attire each have their place, and context is everything. What we're seeing, though, is a shift where traditional masculine style is being diluted by trends that prioritize 'fluidity' over timeless elegance. And while most men aren't wearing skirts, the push for these styles in mainstream fashion does say something about the industry's direction. It's not about rejecting casual styles, but about preserving the core of classic masculinity in fashion. What do you think about the balance between tradition and modern trends?

[@rlkinnard]

@AllureSecretary When i walk onto Harvard Yard or down to MIT are men who wear very casual clothes, not skirts. When I go to work, I dress more casually than my father did years ago. I wear more athletic wear, but then men are going to the gym more than they did 40 years ago. Cary Grant was not in the same condition as Ryan Reynolds or Chris Helmsworth.

[@Andoy12]

Modern clothes in most retail stores don't fit real men. Short-rise jeans and pants, cheap materials, trim fit pants. etc. Most guys aren't built like that .. and they would rather project strength by wearing classic wear.

[@rlkinnard]

@AllureSecretary When i testify in court ir ti the Symphony, for example, I wear a very traditional blue suit with a tie and nice black oxford shoes that are polished. The people who hire me would scream if I worse something casual or even worse sexually fluid. But I would wear something less formal even to a good restaurant, at the very most formal Armani, not Hermes or Brooks Brothers suits.

[@markg.4246]

Living in the upper midwest of the US, has to be the easiest place in the country to be the best dressed for ANY occasion! Just don't wear a "hoodie". DONE! Seriously, everyone looks like everyone else. Men and women, but mostly the men. Their entire wardrobes consist of ill fitting jeans, cargo shorts, crocs, new balance tennis shoes, and wrap around sunglasses. Of course, there's the "hoodies" they have to suit any event. If it's somewhat formal, they will wear 2 hoodies. For my money, the "hoodie" is a fashion train wreck, especially for anyone beyond college years. Thanks for letting me vent. ✌

[@28pbtkh23]

I loved your rant. Vent some more please. In Britain where I live, every springtime I have to suffer the sight of British men and women suddenly putting on shorts or mini-skirts, t-shirts or crop tops as soon as we get a sunny day. I am then exposed to mounds of pale, puffy flesh, covered in ghastly tats and piercings. The skin and muscles are soft and pudgy, lacking any tone or definition. It's a horror show, I promise you.

[@theodoretucker247]

Been well dressed all my life. Tailored suits, ties, staples a man needs. Being in great shape and finely dressed does wonders for a man's psyche

[@AllureSecretary]

Absolutely! Staying in shape and dressing well are powerful for both confidence and presence. Thanks for sharing!

[@aeolus75]

Keep it up man :) Nothing is like the classic look, and from my experience you always get a lovely smile from ladies

[@plaguebunnyproductions]

The deceptive thing is that fashion companies want to fool consumers into believing the "Fluid Fashon" is about being inclusive, but it's not. The real reason is Money! It's cheaper to create one style of clothing, and the reason it leans more feminine is because they know women are the larger client base. Less options but more profit.

[@AllureSecretary]

You nailed it, fluid fashion is marketed as inclusive, but profit is the driving force. Simplifying designs and targeting the larger female client base maximizes their margins. It’s a strategy that sacrifices individuality for convenience and profit. What’s your take on how this impacts men’s fashion specifically?

[@28pbtkh23]

@AllureSecretary I think that most men ignore this fluid fashion trend. You will only see it in the big cities. You don't come across these wacko trends in small provincial towns. Gender fluid fashion is even a minority taste in global cities like, NY, LA, London or Paris.

[@larskamenec]

I am over all these videos and people claiming you cannot dress right anymore and you cannot be a man anymore. That is all BS. You have a choice. If you want to be fluid, you can. If you want to be classical, you can. Nobody is FORCING anybody to be anything. Stand up. Be your own man. Define yourself. Be yourself. It is all still possible.

[@dain6250]

You should have maybe researched the history of masculine fashion prior to the 19th century before writing this video. High heels, lace ruffles, bright colors, feathery coats, and colored tights were originally firmly in the domain of masculine fashion for many centuries. I wear suits weekly, but a man wearing bright colors and less conservative forms of attire is simply the pendulum finally swinging back the other way after 2 centuries of conservative suit fashion changing relatively little. Add more variety to your wardrobe. I'll happily wear a suit and tie Monday morning, but then put makeup on with spiked hair for a metal show Friday and Saturday night. I welcome the diversity in expression now.

[@davidfzambrana]

BRAVO! This video is clearly devoid of ACTUAL knowledge of male fashion history. You are correct, the pendulum is swinging in the opposite direction, where men's fashion was a bit more peacockish. My rule of thumb is to always have a firm grasp of "Style," and not be a "Fashion Victim" and to not flagrantly follow trends, but use certain trends that work with a person's overall aesthetic. A man's suit is great, and always will be, and designers make those items, but with slight changes to fit, to complement the new style of dress of the moment. You can still be masculine in a man's suit from Yves Saint Laurent from Anthony Vaccarello, fedora and all.

[@AllureSecretary]

Your knowledge of historical fashion is accurate, but context is key. High heels and ruffles once signified power and status because they were exclusive to the elite. Clothing then was defined by class dominance and superiority. The modern equivalent isn't bright colors or makeup; it's clothing that enhances a man's presence and purpose. Variety in expression is fine, but the pendulum hasn’t swung, it’s been dismantled. Dressing boldly isn't inherently masculine unless it reflects strength, purpose, or confidence, rather than fleeting trends. True masculinity isn’t about variety for variety's sake, it’s about intention. The suit, unchanged for centuries, persists because it embodies discipline, power, and respect. Trends come and go, but some symbols remain timeless.

[@VikingMale]

Dress like James Bond or Adam Ant…. I’ll take Bond any day.

[@pranavgainz4180]

Theres a balance between timeless fashion but also leaving room to explore new trends to explore more creative styles. Some say at least 80% of your wardrobe should incorporate timeless clothing and the other 20% is clothing that you like and express more of who you are. Which seems about right. Fast fashion is definitely in the extream, and very wasteful encouraging people to throw out "outdated" clothes and keep up with new trends. How people choose to dress to express their gender identity doesnt matter. What matters is that they act grown up, responsible, and rational. What's also more important than how people choose to dress is if they're taking good care of them selves, eating high quality foods, not over eating, making sure their body stays fit and feeling healthy, basic hygiene, having a balanced personality and perspective on life.

[@ronaldbrown5842]

When I was a kid I thought I had to look like everyone else. You know, typical street attire. I don't want to make this a racial thing but unfortunately i thought that since i saw black males dress a certain way and they looked just like me, i thought i had to dress like them. Im 33 now and i have a different approach when it comes to fashion. I stopped sagging my pants, i don't wear Jordans anymore and everything else that the majority of the black community are known for wearing. When you open your mind to new things in life you'll learn that what you thought you were supposed to be wasn't good for you to begin with as far as fitting in with the crowd and or a certain demographic/community of culture. I want to look like Frank Sinatra or Nat King Cole and not any rapper or someone on the corner in the streets of Baltimore selling. I'm really excited to learn a lot from this channel 😊

[@AllureSecretary]

It’s inspiring to see how your perspective on style has evolved! Embracing timeless icons like Frank Sinatra and Nat King Cole is a powerful choice, it reflects confidence and individuality. Welcome to the channel!

[@ronaldbrown5842]

@AllureSecretary Thank You

[@ezpz4646]

@AllureSecretary This sounds like me with the skinny ripped jeans trend. Took me years to get out of it, and when I saw how my tailored straight pants looked I never went back, now I dress with a code, timeless elegance.

[@SeanA.Skeete-wd4vi]

Another "personal observation" that is killing men's fashion in my opinion is the relaxed hip hop athletic wear combo where grown men 25 and over are wearing hoodies and athletic shoes everywhere even to work😞. Great video😊❤🎉💯.

[@silentsir2446]

Hip hop culture in general is ruining society

[@unsinnkim3690]

Absolutely right. I live in Berlin and not a single man here wears a suit or a waistcoat over his shirt anymore. And I don't think any man under 50 knows how to tie a tie anymore. Last summer I saw a guy in his mid-40s wearing a Jurassic Park t-shirt - that grown up was literary carrying his childhood with him.

[@AllureSecretary]

It’s a shame how rare suits and ties have become in many places. Dressing well is a sign of maturity and self-respect, something that seems to be fading in today’s culture. Thanks for sharing your observation!

[@WannaSleepaf]

Gender-fluid fashion is not going to erode anything. There is no way that men are going to actually choose to wear these things at work or in their personal lives. A person has to feel gender-fluid to wear these outfits, and will probably still not do in corporate environments. All this fashion does is give more visibility to gender-fluid people and make it more acceptable for them to express themselves. The rest of us are just not wired to express themselves like that. Just ask yourself and then look at the people around you. This can't become mainstream, it is only going to become a socially accepted option for those who are wired to express themselves like that.

[@ALC-K-5]

So, with this logic Chinos would not be masculine because it is a trendy style of clothing; however the chinos were designed and made for the military during the Great War and later used by the Greatest Generation in World War II. Would you refer to those men as being un-masculine? The Scottish wore kilts as a traditional wear and for combat, but can be considered as "skirts". Does that make them any less masculine? The Romans were tunics which were widely available and used by their military which would go on to build one of the most successful empires. Are they less masculine? A lot of this video is BS backed by simply perception rather than true strengths and values. Funny enough, there are plenty of men who wear suits who are barely able to do any physical activity as they lack the musculature needed. Would you consider that to be a masculine man? Much of this video holds no merit as masculinity is generally on a case by case basis of the culture, tradition, and clothing trend practices. But this can be solved with, "Who cares and wear what you want." It is not as though tailored suits are no longer available because of this fashion practice and trend. Now if the goal of this video is to radicalize individuals in the guise of a fashion trends and practices, then this video is perfect.

[@AllureSecretary]

Your argument is a fascinating one, though it hinges on conflating context with essence. Let me clarify: masculinity is not inherently tied to any single garment, be it chinos, kilts, or tunics. Rather, it is expressed through how these garments complement and elevate the natural form and function of the male physique and role within a given society. Chinos, kilts, and tunics were masculine because they served purpose: utility in war or labor. Modern trends, however, often lack this connection and diminish rather than enhance the male form. Suits, by contrast, celebrate masculinity, accentuating strength and presence. A man’s fitness matters, but so does how he presents himself: discipline and purpose define masculinity more than subjective trends. Saying 'Who cares, wear what you want' dismisses the fact that our attire communicates who we are. Masculinity thrives in intention, not apathy."

[@mauricebederon869]

The Godfather was a movie with brutal gangsters. Also, a lot of men who provoke our financial crisis were wearing suits from expensive brands. You need a classy person in a classy outfit, not only well made clothes!!!

[@Andoy12]

It takes more skill to manufacture a tailored masculine outfit, so of course, the marketplace wants to crank out easily produced junk. Shop at stores that make real men's attire.

[@aeolus75]

Nothing like a sharp light wool pants, a tailored shirt, brown belt and British classic shoes, a classic effortless look , in case you don't want to go into a full tailored suite :)

[@AllureSecretary]

Absolutely, timeless, effortless, and refined. The foundation of true style is precision, not excess.

[@mwisch117]

Absolutely correct!! It took me some time to define my own style… But now: Chinos, tailored shirt/poloshirt, Chelsea boots or a pair of wellmade boatshoes, tailored leather jacket… One of my colleagues once said, after we haven‘t met each other for a while: „ah… leather jacket is back…“😎

[@AllureSecretary]

That’s a solid foundation for a timeless and masculine style, classic pieces that speak for themselves. It’s all about finding what suits you and owning it with confidence. Well done!

[@patricktracy7940]

My typical 'uniform' almost daily whether at work or on days off, dark blue or black denim jeans, button up shirt, tie, blazer/sport coat, sometimes a waistcoat and or a pocket square, almost always one of my 5 pairs of Thursday Boots. Never has this let me down. I think that many men do not dress in this manner is because they think it must be uncomfortable, and in some weird way, they think they are selling themselves out. By the way, I am a fit 68 year old retired police officer, still working in the law enforcement world. Thanks for the video.

[@AllureSecretary]

Your style sounds impeccable: polished yet practical! It’s inspiring to see how you maintain such a sharp look, proving that dressing well is both comfortable and empowering. Thanks for sharing your experience and for your service!

[@AliasHSW]

7:37 is throwing the Miami Vice vibe. Were Sonny and Tubbs the first to sport Fluid wear?

[@HaroLi41]

This video is so contradictory. Self expression but also dogmatically following a set of rules for classic traditional wardrobe is just not it. I believe as long as a man takes pride in his appearance, buys quality clothing, regardless of the style if it's a suit, casual, rugged, etc, that should be good enough. Every person is different.

[@d4l3d]

At the outset no attempt is made to even define basic terms. This comes off more as bigotry by another name.

[@krampus3901]

Modern fashion trends follow ideologies, and as society becomes more feminist and emphasis on equality (blurring the lines of men and women), traditional masculine attire is seen as a threat by women (not all) and other men (who rather follow the trend then to be outcast). Even if you don't go the suit and tie route, other masculine pieces of clothing like denim, leather jackets, working boots, etc, can be your wardrobe.

[@Nebur9180]

Insecurity shouldnt be a factor of clothes.

[@mrtoldyou5589]

The same is occurring with mens fragrances...too unisex, too feminine, too sweet. The keys to wearing traditional men scents are clean body, clean clothes, one spray.

[@raiiny_day42]

I'd rather have women pick up on my pheromones than wearing stinky cologne.

[@doug6259]

Good advice in this video. I will be staying with traditional and classic masculine attire thank you.

[@raeeshalder]

One of the best videos on masculinity in fashion and style. Keep up the great work 💯

[@lv2465]

I enjoy wearing traditional classic masculine attire, unfortunately the occasion to wear such clothing is very rare in our digital antisocial era. That being said i aim to purchase a well tailored suit, shirts and a fedora. In the meantime I'll stick with casual attire. Not tracksuits.

[@capt.raptor4650]

please tell me you mean an _actual_ fedora, not the short brimmed trilby that so many people (including many low-quality manufacturers) call a "fedora".

[@lv2465]

@capt.raptor4650 No no, a proper fedora. The Trilby doesn't suit me.

[@capt.raptor4650]

@@lv2465 good man.

[@mrtoldyou5589]

I agree with you. I've learn to create the occasion...!

[@mauricebederon869]

Men in the middle age or later or in the 18th century were dressed colorful and not like men around 1900 in grey suits! It is our point of view to think something is masculine or feminine. And it is not a historical fact that powerful men are dressed very calm.

[@PotsdamSenior]

Don't get fooled by black and white movies! Not all suits were grey. They just look grey because colour film wasn't around yet.

[@Nichomachus]

Good video! Small comment: when you discuss the basics, I see a guy wearing what seems like white socks at 11:08. I consider it basic to not even own white socks, let alone wear them with a suit.

[@stefanhnavetsea1588]

men don't follow fashion, I wear the same style I wear 15 years ago, I pick things I like and stick with these style for life. I found heavyweight raw denim and I liked it and I adopted it, when I turned 30 I bought my 1st leather jacket and I loved it and so I custom designed some and ordered them some more, and I tried chunky turtleneck sweater and I liked it so it becomes another staple, and I tried m65 field jacket and I loved it and it stays with me, I found side zip boots and classic combat boots and double monkstraps work well on me so I stick with them, and last year I found western shirt with slant chest pockets (without embroidery) worked on me so I buy another. that's it I never follow any fashion.

[@shirleynoble685]

Go have a look at the illustrations of J. C. Leyendecker, leading graphic artist of the early 20th century. Very sharp. J.C., as almost every one knew at the time, was gay and he sure knew how to paint a sexy man. But keep in mind that tailored suits were preceded by not just centuries but thousands of years of long robes, fluid fabrics, jewelry, etc. The severe tailored suit was brought into fashion by Beau Brummell in the early 1800s. So it is only traditional in a limited cultural context. And you can hardly prove that the men who wore velvet and lace in the 17th and 18th centuries were lacking masculinity. This emphasis on “traditional” tailoring also says nothing about other cultures like Persia and China who wore long robes in certain contexts. It should be recalled that trousers came into wide use as an accessory for riding a horse. Who likes sweaty hair clinging to your bare legs after. It’s only a personal opinion but for sheer masculinity I prefer a kilt and fly plaid over that 3 piece suit, ye ken, laddie. Tailored suits are not truly timeless. But, basically, you are telling the younger generation to dress like my father and he did always look sharp. Loved the overcoats.

[@AllureSecretary]

Your comment reflects an appreciation for historical and cultural variety in fashion, and I respect that. However, while long robes, lace, and velvet were certainly markers of their time, the tailored suit transcends eras because it is designed to emphasize and enhance the natural masculine form. The broad shoulders, tapered waist, and sharp lines inherent to a suit communicate strength, discipline, and refinement. Qualities universally admired across cultures and generations. Beau Brummell’s influence may have formalized the suit, but its timelessness lies in its ability to adapt while remaining rooted in those masculine ideals. Unlike the fleeting trends of lace or robes, a well-tailored suit endures because it speaks to the very essence of what it means to be both strong and elegant. As for kilts and fly plaids, I agree they have a unique rugged charm, but they serve a different purpose. The suit, in contrast, is a language of timeless sophistication. It’s not about clinging to the past, it’s about carrying forward an enduring standard of masculine style that inspires respect and admiration, no matter the era.

[@Mamba0809]

It is disheartening to see how our community do no longer care about how people perceive us in the society. Pajamas, joggers and hoodies have replaced suits these days. Those clothes have been worn at church, restaurants even at church. But those awful ideas do not deter me to dress to impress at work, churches or public places. I witnessed lots of evil eyes looking at me everywhere but i do not care. Just showing up better than what people are expecting of you.

[@r.stevens6205]

Maybe they finally wearing clothes that define who they are. I don’t care for it but there are several avenues for men to pick from to be stylish. The classics, and those who choose it, will always be and never go out of style.

[@j.p.e.777]

Excellent video. I agree with it 100%

[@AliasHSW]

The strong, dignified well dressed man are now poor due to stagnant wages and can’t afford quality clothing because all brands at all price points are crap when compared to clothes of 20 years ago. 1:23

[@lakatu-iw1yv]

By the way sorry if my opinion is wrong but the idea of masculine cothing is dependant on the period of time like in 1600 the ideas where diffrent to now so if a man is capible to style skirts and male dresses also it depends on culture because in china there is a male like dress whitch is worn so i would say a evolution of style is need

[@lakatu-iw1yv]

I hate the suit jacket in my opinion it is the most dumb and useless piece to have been made

[@AllureSecretary]

You make a good point about cultural and historical differences, but classic masculine style remains timeless because it objectively emphasizes the natural features of a man’s physique: broad shoulders, a strong chest, and a tapered waist. This is why tailored clothing has endured as the gold standard of masculine elegance, enhancing the traits that define masculinity rather than obscuring them. Thanks for your insight!

[@jimmyjay6497]

@@lakatu-iw1yv😂😂 I’m sure your wealth account says just as much! But your opinion is valued.

[@jimmyjay6497]

Well, yes but I’m Tonga rugby players ware a Lava lava ( long “ dress “ ) it is in no way feminine! So…

[@SouthernG-ManTx21]

I love this, changing my style of clothing today...

[@peuptyhaha]

Thought this video was a joke but came to the comments and 🤯

[@Janus10001]

I might revise the first two tips: 1: Buy craft, not fashion; 2: Fit, fit, fit.

[@ilmizarnanda]

Well done,mate. Modern world especially feminist today,they spin around what masculinity really is.i have friend,a woman to be precise who claim that men who dress in classic style perceive either boring,too stiff,or toxic alpha male😂.i laugh at her face.it's amazing how feminist change the narrative on men who choose to dress well.

[@mauricebederon869]

I have lived through times when society had a dress code! That didn't support any individual personality either! In the 20th century, many men were gray mice. And, there was the discrepancy between youth culture and the established circles. But the fact is that sloppy casual clothing doesn't look good on almost any man and it doesn't make him seem interesting as a person.

[@mauricebederon869]

The younger generation in the 1950's very often dressed like adults, but they were still teenagers and people with no experience!

[@spark300c]

the well dress man is classic style. Work wear is made to last. Most men will not buy fast fashion if they are into fashion. Since fast fashion styles and quality are garage. since there is 52 micro seasons fast fashion is not meant to last for 5 years.That leaves to more girly men would like to shop like women.

[@Dimas451]

Amazing video. Loved!

[@Duke_of_Lorraine]

Skirts for men have existed for a long time, it's called a kilt.

[@AllureSecretary]

Exactly, but kilts and modern fluid fashion are worlds apart. Kilts are steeped in tradition and masculinity, while fluid fashion has entirely different intentions. The distinction is clear.

[@AliasHSW]

Hey! - Jaguar! Here’s looking at you, kid.

[@albertoblanco9152]

Excelente !!!!

[@jimmyjay6497]

Anytime someone is “ tryin” to break societal norms, RUN!!

[@LaMach420]

"It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society"

[@cthrly]

Well made video

[@bryan_gurrrero]

Damn this sounds really biased/ homophobic. How does sex neutral clothing confuses men? Its because yall gay😭im not confused by feminine clothes

[@appahoopjack2514]

Good Video.... nice to see you include Psychology Papers here too

[@AllureSecretary]

Thank you! I’m glad you appreciated the inclusion of psychology papers, it’s fascinating how style and psychology intersect, especially when discussing topics like masculinity and fashion.

[@alligator4347]

I agree with the fast fashion thing. But if you define your masculinity by what you wear I truly feel sorry for you. I'm a guy in my 50's and I'm a man, no matter if I wear a suit, a pink tutu, my blue collar pants and work garments or a red ball dress. Clothes dont define my person and identity and I am man in a pink tutu because my character makes the man, not the clothes. Once you get this you can make a video about the world which you somehow don't really understand. Buy the way, my wife is an engineer, she wears suits and shirts. Where is the problem, guess what Scotisch men weer skirts called kilts. And my dear, I can express my masculinity even in my pijamas, traditional masculinity, good God I have never heard so much bullshit in my whole 50 years!!!

[@AllureSecretary]

Your indignation is fascinating, but it seems you've misunderstood the point. Masculinity, as I discussed, isn't solely about what you wear, it's about amplifying qualities that inspire respect, strength, and confidence. Clothes, like tools, are extensions of those traits. Can a pink tutu express masculinity? LOL. You speak of individuality, yet dismiss the collective wisdom behind traditional elegance. Perhaps it’s not the message you reject, but the discomfort of realizing it might not align with your worldview.

[@alligator4347]

@AllureSecretary Masculinity and femininity are concepts and definitions of our culture and society and thus they are subject to change like every concept and every morality. I, on the other hand, am an individual who does not conform to the definitions or concepts of society. My self-worth and self-perception are not tied to society's expectations, but to my life experiences. Clothes are something for me to keep me warm, nothing more and nothing less. Those who look for their self-worth and expressiveness in clothing fit into our society but are very impoverished in character, sorry.

[@Derp12348]

good video

[@AnEnglishGentleman]

Gentlemen, please do your bit to resist the feminisation of society in general. There will always be a place for masculine role models, who dress and act in a way that is aspirational for the young men of today. Brett, is this your new spin off?

[@quadaerospacespacecat8061]

Did you mean Brett Mckay?

[@fids54]

This is a very insightful video. But developing individuality and non-conformity are not helped by formal wear either. Suit wearing is conformity to a set attire.

[@AllureSecretary]

I see your point, but in today’s world, dressing in classic masculine attire has almost become an act of rebellion. It’s about reclaiming individuality by embracing timeless elegance in a society that often overlooks it.

[@jethrojacinto2798]

Nice try AI 😂

[@christopherdolan7330]

I think this video was entirely AI generated

[@alexmillion25]

Yes. Which makes nothing about it masculine.

[@platobodybuilder]

Perfect!

[@basicdose.9872]

I love made in Bangladesh clothing.

[@AllureSecretary]

Are you from Bangladesh? Greetings!

[@jimmyjay6497]

Good thing Elon bought X or you tube would never allow this content! Btw, the fashion is a psyop!!! They don’t want men! But the US has a leaser again so perhaps there’s a lil hope. Men are lost. Good thing though is that success is easier than ever!!!

[@4WHEELBIKER]

Absolutely correct !!