If someone leaves because you were vulnerable, they never loved you to begin with
@ilikepancakes23689 ай бұрын
If you think that’s the case, you don’t understand female nature. Women will never love nor respect vulnerable men, never. The only reason why a woman would want a man to be vulnerable is so she can use his own vulnerability against him.
@flarethefox98369 ай бұрын
THANK YOU!
@user-ck9ky1yt8z9 ай бұрын
Ain't no love. That's some fairytale made up Bs.
@user-ck9ky1yt8z9 ай бұрын
@@caseylockwood15well you aren't wife material then. A real wife is with her husband til death. Being tired don't mean sht. Society doesn't care if a man is tired. He just has to push through it and keep going
@Savage_Thinker8 ай бұрын
The woman are dead or trmatized children inside
@Almighty_rage77710 ай бұрын
Well shit, I’m human too. Men can’t be confident and sure of ourselves all the time. We can get overly emotional too 😭
@hutup909210 ай бұрын
From ur crying emoji, you're too emotional to have a p3nis 💯
@hutup909210 ай бұрын
From ur crying emoji, you're too emotional to have a p3nis 💯
@DarkCor387448 ай бұрын
Try to get a real woman. Woman who can't handle a man beeing emotional are just bad people. You'll find someone
@UnexpectedAmy7 ай бұрын
Your humanity is worth more than this guys soundbite x
@georgekanyoni80297 ай бұрын
WEAK!!
@OzPozzy27810 ай бұрын
Then what's the point of being in that relationship? If she doesn't appreciate your sense of responsibility? It's not good when the partner abuses you
@SeanWinters7 ай бұрын
Not liking you crying isn't "not appreciating your sense of responsibility", it's the opposite. Being insecure is like the opposite of being responsible. It sucks, but that's genetics and that's manhood. You are a man, you're not supposed to be "taken care of", no one is your mama anymore. fact of the matter is, while your opinions matter, and your decisions matter, your feelings DON'T.
@Southpaw887 ай бұрын
@@SeanWinters that's just a miserable way to live life. Emotions are the body's way of releasing stress. If you keep them bottled up it's not good for you in the long run. Hence why those old generation guys looked 50 at age 30. Too macho and tough for their own good it cost them in the long run On the other hand, if you're vulnerable with a person it shows you trust them and they take it in a negative light that just means they most likely have a sh*tty character.
@Faztxx6 ай бұрын
@@Southpaw88The point for me is (sorry for bad english, I am brasilian): If you lock your emotions for a long time, become easier, its like a progress, the begin is hard, the middle sucks, years without showing emotions make easier to forgot about them. (Well, if I said some shit sorry, Im not good at this.)
@Southpaw886 ай бұрын
@@Faztxx bro I'm saying this as someone with repressed emotions till they came out, trust me you can "forget" them but they'll always be there. they're the ones making you anxious, self conscious, defensive, have low self esteem, delusional thinking etc. these are all the results of repressed emotions. They day my emotions properly came out I was a mess but felt like I lifted 3 tons out of my body. Suppressing your emotions is the worst thing you can do, you never ever "forget" them lol no matter what you tell yourself
@Faztxx6 ай бұрын
@@Southpaw88 Well, Thanks for this
@TheWholeWorld1 Жыл бұрын
😂.. that’s NOT “opening up”. That’s reassuring HER FEELINGS while SILENCING YOURS. You have NO F’ing clue “what to do” OR if things are going to “be alright”, but just as long as SHE’s comfortable, you’re good (in HER eyes, while dying inside). Gentlemen, get yourself a REALLY good mentor, pastor, family member, therapist that you can truly OPEN UP to! And don’t get frustrated or resentful of your woman because she simply NOT DESIGNED to process mens feelings (it’s the way God made her).
@cheezedoodlenygguh6229 Жыл бұрын
Crazy how most men don't understand this, women are just not wired that way.
@jimchoy676411 ай бұрын
Not the way god made women
@answers_for_all43799 ай бұрын
Ok I see your point. But as a woman I can tell you that if in a situation where you really are lost and don't know what to do, you cannot give up. That's the only rule. Only weak people give up. And since us girls/women are not attracted to weakness then you better not have a mental breakdown and do nothing suddenly. A man should be a leader of the pack, leader of his family. Mental stronghold for the weaker partner aka woman. If you, as the leader did something to pull your family down, into bankruptcy for example...and you see your wife's worried face, the worst what you could do is give up when you said for better or for worse in your vows. So if you know you messed up, a big time, the best thing to do is get some confidence and reassure her that you will make the problems disappear. I'd advise you in that situation to repent before God, for taking it your way, and then give him the lead of your life. Cuz that's the hierarchy: God, man, wife and then kids.
@mokie74218 ай бұрын
@@answers_for_all4379how do you repent to a god you can’t feel?
@answers_for_all43798 ай бұрын
@@mokie7421 You pray earnestly that He lets you feel a glimpse of His presence. He is distant from the ones who don't seek Him, close to those who do.
@rosemarietolentino3218 Жыл бұрын
Just keep being you until you find someone who likes you the way you are. Then you don’t have to remember what you are supposed to do. Just be you!
@asparrow9876 Жыл бұрын
Don't hold your breath.
@Newtined Жыл бұрын
unless theyre a furry
@darksaintxvi691411 ай бұрын
@@asparrow9876you don’t either fruitcake.
@dturtles3311 ай бұрын
Sounds good, doesn't work
@diosmioeldiablo857810 ай бұрын
Just be you isn't really great advice. We're flawed individuals. We should constantly be striving to be better, not just be content with whatever we are.
@UnexpectedAmy7 ай бұрын
This is horrifying. So, men should open up, just not authentically. Like yeah, coming in with determination and resolve is great, but if a woman loses attraction because sometimes maybe a man really isn't ok and feels super down for a while...well, I understand why men don't bother.
@user-lj6jp8qp7z6 ай бұрын
Everyone has to cry at some point in their life. As a Man, I only cry behind closed doors. As a Man, NEVER cry infront of your Woman. The relationship will change forever.
@realxy1248 ай бұрын
If a man say things like this when he opens up to me , I will ask again - please tell me your real feelings and emotions. I don't care if he cry or explain himself . I will listen no matter what . Especially - I have a brother who shares his feelings whenever he likes a girl or also cry when our parents scold him only in front of me . So I know it really hard to share your emotions as a man , but I hope you guys found someone who listen to you. So don't worry share your feelings. If they are for you they will listen no matter what. And don't worry if you are having a bad day everything will be alright. And remember guys especially guys - you are special too and your emotions matters❤ And don't listen this guy be tough because only you know how you live . Lastly, its important Don't over explain your feeling keep some secret within you . You will never know someone true intentions unless you know them. Have a great day😊
@zhen862 ай бұрын
lol, women say this kind of things, but will leave once man really did that
@realxy1242 ай бұрын
@@zhen86 don't worry buddy it happens I already experienced this when I love someone with my whole heart and they love someone else and that was my best friend . I also try my best to not become like them and wait for the right man 😊 If anything happens to you too . Don't worry let's cry together 😅👥
@leoceanburst3328 Жыл бұрын
Honestly, this isn't even opening up. Yes, don't keep bitching about your problems every now and then even with your friends let alone your gf. But once in a while, you should open up completely of how you are feeling, this is about being the true you. If you can't even completely tell how you feel to the person whom you are gonna spend all your life with then what the fuck is the point of living your entire life with them and earning for them, having children with them. If you think she's gonna leave you after you open up, I'm giving you brotherly advice, leave her. You deserve better. There are women in this world who are completely fine with their man opening up, and they are much more than we think. You just gotta find the one. It'll take time for everyone. Even the strongest men have cried at some point in their life but it is our job to keep putting in the work. But at the end of the day, we need someone who understands us and supports us emotionally. That's what a relationship is truly for.
@emmastone8779 Жыл бұрын
Thankyou! This is it! I was watching this video with a side eye 😂, like mmmmmmI don’t know about that one🤣
@Imnothere202426 күн бұрын
Always open up to the person you trust, whether you are a man or a woman it doesn’t matter☺️
@ariariiimo6 ай бұрын
Men should never suppress their emotions or be required to handle it 'confidently' (Im NOT hating on this video). Everyone is human after all. They deserve to show emotions because its already built in them. They are SUPPOSED to show it the way their brains tell them to. And if someone doesn't like you for it, they never loved you anyway. So a message to the boys: Do not be afraid to show emotions. You also deserve moments for when you cry, breakdown, get angry or just overwhelmed. "Men cant show emotions and showing emotions is a weakness" is just a man-made phase, it wasnt made by nature. Message to the girls, too: Showing a little emotion isnt 'oversensitive'. Men deserve the same comfort and care that you deserve. Think about it, men get their first ever flowers at their funeral (mostly). Surprising right? So treat men right. They are humans too. And only when we treat each other right we will overcome these gender standards. (Note: Please do not take this as offense. As for the owner of the channel, if you think this comment is disturbing or harming viewers just reply and I will kindly take it down.)
@Imnothere202426 күн бұрын
Thank you like have the same emotions regardless of gender
@Imnothere202426 күн бұрын
I really needed to hear this
@ariariiimo26 күн бұрын
@@Imnothere2024 you're welcome 😁 glad I could help
@Imnothere202426 күн бұрын
@@ariariiimo I hope a lot of people realizes this
@Imnothere202426 күн бұрын
@@ariariiimo Im also tired of the whole “men can’t show emotions and showing emotions is a weakness”
@ashmuddy Жыл бұрын
How about getting a partner that actually likes you for you instead of just what you show her. I somebody breaks up with you for being you that person was not for you. You need to find someone who can respect you for you and maybe you can relate to. You need to show your true self to your partner if you want a true love
@EmmaMel0 Жыл бұрын
This works on any gender really. If someone literally starts bitching and complaining about everything ofc it's a massive turn off. Having the courage and confidence to show emotions and open up about a given situation is quite rare and very attractive, complaining is not. One should be self aware while having an "it is what it is" mindset.
@tegathemenace Жыл бұрын
This is not a full truth tho. Men are willing to sit down and listen to their woman open up emotionally without being judgemental, because we never really expected a stoic, unfazed woman to begin with.
@EmmaMel0 Жыл бұрын
@@tegathemenace I agree and it's a beautiful thing, but it should go both ways. A relationship should never be one sided in the first place. If I'm willing to open up and be vulnerable to someone I expect them to be as vulnerable with me. Emotional support has to equal. I'm an advocate for stoicism, but not the one that comes from a place of insecurity and fear of judgment.
@EmmaMel0 Жыл бұрын
@@tegathemenace I'm really sorry things had to be this way. When it comes to this men always have the short end of the stick. They have unrealistic expectations they need to meet otherwise they're seen as "weak". I wish we looked out for each other more regardless of our genders for we are made to complete one another, not put each other down.
@tegathemenace Жыл бұрын
@@EmmaMel0 It's only logical that everyone on the ship is allowed to panic except the captain. Authority comes with responsibility. I don't see it as a poor bargain at all.
@EmmaMel0 Жыл бұрын
@@tegathemenace glad to hear that
@SarahRodriguez-16196 ай бұрын
I disagree with this man. If my husband came to me and said man, I feel so bad about A,B and C and even did it the way this guy did I’m not going to lose attraction for him. Matter of fact, I think it would grow my attraction for him that he can show that he can be vulnerable with me. But if he opens up to me and it starts to come out like he’s blaming me, or it comes out in a very toxic way with anger aggression or defensiveness or blaming other people for his problems, then yeah that’s very unattractive and I think anyone would lose attraction for a person like that. If my husband opened up the way this guy said you should open up, I wouldn’t see that as being vulnerable, I would see him as having a big ego.
@jansonciereszko496811 ай бұрын
That's not opening up. That's putting on an act and hiding ur true feelings and emotions. I agree that you shouldn't go and on about not knowing what to do about something to the point it's just pathetic and silly but it's not opening up if your lying to them telling them you've got everything under control when you haven't. You should be able to tell them how u feel and they deserve to know what's truly going on.
@ChristopherAmankwah Жыл бұрын
Best self improvement channel on the entirety of KZbin hands down
@providerrr6640 Жыл бұрын
Correct 💯
@SarahRodriguez-16196 ай бұрын
As a female I can tell you that’s not being vulnerable
@jphilly12619 ай бұрын
Note to self: Lie about knowing how to tackle all life's problems and never ever have no idea what the best next step is
@totallynotdio13112 ай бұрын
glad to know i have to have a perfect life and if im not 100% succesful in all areas in my life im "not ready for a relationship" as people like to say
@aprioripancakes Жыл бұрын
So basically don't actually talk about the feelings. Super interesting, honestly
@andrewjackson80456 ай бұрын
Ong bro ive cried in front of my girl a few times when i was having the hardest times of my life and i hate hearing these insecure men preaching about being emotionless in relationships just to prove theyre a man
@thirstykayak2468 ай бұрын
Exactly right. A guy who cries/grieves but then stands up and handles things, goes away undiminished in my eyes.
@user-wy2hw6mr3y Жыл бұрын
Recently relapsed last night. But Im gonna fight back hard this time. 💯🙏🏽 good luck my boys
@GoldenMushroom64 Жыл бұрын
Cold water on the face can help.
@asparrow9876 Жыл бұрын
How about I never open up. It's working for me and they can keep crying all they want, I'm remaining stoic and if they don't like it I throw them away. This is why I don't date and will never marry.
@etoileshine10119 ай бұрын
How has life been?
@asparrow98769 ай бұрын
@@etoileshine1011 Splendid.
@etoileshine10119 ай бұрын
@@asparrow9876 That's good to hear hopefully it stays that way.
@asparrow98769 ай бұрын
@@etoileshine1011 Likewise. Godspeed.
@Mantras-and-Mystics7 ай бұрын
@@DemoGlory I never married. Best life ever!! 🎉🎈⭐️🎊🎉
@rwerwee Жыл бұрын
So instead of articulating your true feelings you pretend something else… That is „not opening up“. „Opening up“ is allowing yourself to show vulnerabilities. If you don’t show your vulnerabilities or you don’t have any vulnerabilities to show, then you’re not opening up. So you confirmed that women don’t like men opening up…
@cheezedoodlenygguh6229 Жыл бұрын
They never did. They were wired to seek the strongest/well to do men. Not the men they feel "sympathy" for.
@numarknett19 ай бұрын
Honestly it might just be better to not open up, just deal with your issues yourself as much as you can. The minute you start venting to others is when people can start getting annoyed and think of you as a burden. I'm not saying ignore your emotions and pretend everything's fine, but don't start trauma-dumping on other ppl, work through your emotions in private and find a healthy way to cope without ever showing your vulnerabilities to your S/O.
@Mr737307 ай бұрын
Why I have to lie? „Everything is going to be allright“ We all know this is BS.
@GoldenMushroom64 Жыл бұрын
FAAAAAACTS it’s not about bottling up emotions that’s so stupid lol it’s about being honest about how you feel and dealing with it like a mature adult
@asparrow9876 Жыл бұрын
Also the example you used is hardly considered opening up..... Wth is this?....
@minnesotajude84478 ай бұрын
My friend was killed by a drunk driver. My girlfriend at the time was a b*tch at the funeral.
@DeepTrader09093 ай бұрын
Showing emotions openly doesnt necessarily make a man weaker...
@beba8917 ай бұрын
No, opening up is fine. Even being insecure, unconfident, and emotional (whether overly or not) is attractive to us women. It's the guy who opens up and unloads his issues, hoping she'll fix him or help him or contribute as his therapist. #nothanks
@lin33783 ай бұрын
I knew a girl who was in love with a guy that would tell her every single thing of his life until he revealed he has criminal tendencies. It seems that she tried to "fix" him but gave up.
@Crystal_G_19899 ай бұрын
Agree 100%... Im mysterious guy In the eyes of women first... But when I open up and show my emotion women starting to loss interest in me.. Its like attraction killer.
@CRose92057 ай бұрын
They're lesser creatures when it comes to relationships. The laundry list of things men need to do to keep/get women is ridiculous, whereas women just sit back and act how they want. They'll never understand.
@lukelukey4155 Жыл бұрын
That makes me feel like i cant be totally open in a relationship, which is what i would want from her aswell. Total transparency as a team
@emmastone8779 Жыл бұрын
Agreed, I don’t think this is true at all, like when my father opened up to me, same as my brother, all it did was strengthen our relationships, brought us closer and they gained newfound understanding from me. I don’t think it’ll be any different with a guy I’m seeing.
@asparrow9876 Жыл бұрын
@@emmastone8779 They were your family....... There was no attraction to ruin in the first place..... Bad example 🙄😒
@cheezedoodlenygguh6229 Жыл бұрын
I'm emotionally open to my closest brothers and my father figures. That's it.
@nope98588 ай бұрын
I will never open up to a woman ever again.
@arifburakkirik228227 күн бұрын
So long story short we have to be emotionless robots…
@slagwill55997 ай бұрын
Well we men are not supposed to get hysterical. But we are to be trained to articulate how we feel about thus and so without overly expressing it. Big difference.
@honkeydonkey1401 Жыл бұрын
This advice makes more sense to me. I've always thought relationships were based off of honesty. I always thought never telling your girl how you feel was dishonest. This is better because you're opening up to her and being honest with her while still showing her that you are confident and capable.
@tomazstopar12266 ай бұрын
she loses the respect for a man because he didn't tell her how he's gonna fix it
@exjester6574 Жыл бұрын
No. If she doesn't like the way you look that's the issue , it's not about emotions. A woman can care less if you have the mind of a 4 year old boy.
@angelp47247 ай бұрын
You haven't been around many healthy relationships by the sounds of it, mental maturity and trust are the most important aspects of any long-term relationship. Simple example: the reason toddlers are so difficult is because they don't understand why they get angry/upset/frustrated and they don't know how to process their feelings or emotions in a healthy way or how to assess whether they are being reasonable or not... so instead of processing and assessing their emotions (which requires a lot more effort) they lash out and bite and cry and scream.....no logical analysis whatsoever. That's the difference between adults and children, you develop Self - Awareness & Discipline. It is super unhealthy if an adult still doesn't know how to manage stress/feelings of anger/jealousy or past trauma in a Positive & Productive way 😂. Imagine if you get into an accident & your wife is mentally IMMATURE she will just shut down from the stress or simply scream out of fear or even blame you for her inability to analyse her own feelings and understand her emotions. If she is mentally immature she won't be accustomed to thinking logically beyond her current state of mind to find solutions to the current problem. An ACTUAL Mature person acknowledges they are scared of seeing their partner hurt but processes that fear and faces it head on, they don't let their fear consume them and this helps them make the correct decisions to help their partner in time of emergencies. They take responsibility for clearing their heads of unhelpful emotions. Also, I have seen too many couples in therapy where one partner is too mentally immature and that person always take any criticism personally even when it isn't a personal attack, they simply don't understand that they're getting advised nicely because they are so used to allowing their emotions to cloud their judgement. This spells disaster as they feel upset/angry so they don't believe their partner is genuinely trying to make a constructive criticism. Relationships like that fall apart because one partner always believes the other is mocking them when actually they're just interpreting everything too negatively.
@Jesse-qk1uy5 ай бұрын
A start is to think about your emotions (as a man) with objectivity and define them accordingly, then gaining a deeper awareness of them, and ultimately channelling them and controlling them effectively: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fJrFqGyFnb6dgacsi=Uygn7641JLXcumRZ
@callum950010 ай бұрын
There’s women out there where this does not apply, trust me. I’m with one. On the other hand a lot of the time this does apply. The ones where this does not apply is like finding a needle in a haystack.
@boostaah4 ай бұрын
Yeah I guess ima then stay alone forever, I am too emotional and too honest with my feelings.
@TheCheSlav2 ай бұрын
Fuсk bro. Call it genetics, childhood trauma, or moms sickness while pregnant. Just got out of a year relationship because she lost respect for me, never took it out on her but my face is telling when I'm upset. It's a fkn black pill, I lift too but I'm going to try DIM which is supposed to balance estrogen
@bayernjames95466 ай бұрын
Yeah no. It's one thing to be too vulnerable to the point you overwhelm the woman but if you're vulnerable once and she finds it undesirable, then that means she was never meant for you.
@joakos11223 ай бұрын
Ask Will Smith how being emotional, vulnerable and understanding worked out for him
@Alex-ww8to6 ай бұрын
You could definitely sue the other person if they was at fault and get a good bag from the situation 💰💰💰 find a lawyer and get a free consultation
@NatashaWarden6 ай бұрын
It's frustrating that men try to talk for women. Us women do like to help with men's issues. So actually ask women what we want rather than listening to men on it !!!
@CyberPunkBadGuy5 ай бұрын
Us women, are you like a hive mind since you speak for everywoman.
@NatashaWarden5 ай бұрын
@@CyberPunkBadGuy actually most women , fair enough not all, but most women tend to be better at giving advice than men.
@NatashaWarden5 ай бұрын
@@CyberPunkBadGuy also ALL women would be able to say what their preference is better than a man. You know your preference better than someone else. That was my point. This is about what women are attracted to. Meaning rather than asking men, they should ask the woman what she's attracted to. Thought that was pretty obvious 🤦
@CyberPunkBadGuy5 ай бұрын
@@NatashaWarden You need to stop your yapping. you dont know what you are talking about, you are just some clown on the net think they know anything about anything.
@rajendrabiswas Жыл бұрын
Nonsense we men can show emotions of sadness too
@sibusiso2841 Жыл бұрын
Thing is. It sounds like you have to earn the ability to open up. In the sense that you essentially have to build yourself up into someone who doesn't need to open up just so that you can open up to your girl and maintain frame. I'd rather just speak with the homies or spend some alone time thinking about what's on my mind
@LottimusMaximus10 ай бұрын
You’re going to face death of loved ones, job losses and major life changes. If she gets turned off from you weeping and having a grieving process. Please send her back to the streets where she belongs. Don’t ever change yourself to attract someone else. Just be you. You can be a better you, but don’t be a fake you.
@masturch33f874 ай бұрын
So I should just lie even if I don't know what to do? Yeah great advice 🤦♂️
@AshleyJohnson-er8os Жыл бұрын
This is true. My ex was more feminine than I was and he was soooo emotional pretty sure he cried as much in our 2.5 yr relationship as I did my entire 36 years of being alive. You need balance. A partner that can be masculine / feminine yet are able to tell you how they feel. It’s Just like Mr Nice Guy syndrome. Nobody wants a partner who is overly emotional or nice alllllll of the time. It can be extremely draining for the other person. And I also learned that one person being overly emotional all the time and having the other person not be that way is not balancing it out, it actually makes stuff worse. People love to say that opposites attract and I mean they can for sure, but if a lot of their traits are completely opposite especially emotionally it’s probably not going to last long but that’s just my opinion. I have experienced this firsthand, but at the same time everybody is completely different.
@user-ck9ky1yt8z9 ай бұрын
Don't show no emotion to anyone. Matter fact kill off all emotion and go numb inside.. emotions serve no purpose they just get you in trouble
@thewholephil29133 ай бұрын
Then what is the move when things are not “just going to be ok”? Like job loss in an unattainable job market?
@MiketheNerdRanger7 ай бұрын
If this is true, then this is why you need friends to open up to that way, because you *are* going to feel that way, and you *are* going to need to open up to *someone* about it. Whether those friends are male or female doesn't matter.
@Chinacommunist11 ай бұрын
Honestly open up your feelings to a person that shows respect to you. A person that treated you right in everyway. I just hate that dudes cheat on a girl who is literally a perfect person.
@deepakss44316 ай бұрын
Now I got another reason why men shouldn't cry
@TwiddleJones5 ай бұрын
You’re seriously telling me my hyper sensitive, childish, pathetic little man act has been a waste of time?
@user-fv9cm2yc9d8 ай бұрын
Fuck the feelings, i always cry when iam alone.
@Basilisk20776 ай бұрын
What we say: “Everything is going to be alright baby, don’t worry.” What we think: *”Wtf is happening everything going to shit.”*
@angriboi6 ай бұрын
So, what he says is basically "open up about your emotions without opening up about your emotions." That's the most female thing I heard in a while.
@anantisocialsinsight10 ай бұрын
Idk why everyone is agreeing like this made any sense at all. His example was not even “opening up” its just a man admitting he fucked up but will be alright? How is that opening up? No that’s not talking about your feelings. Men should be able to open up to women. Y’all so fucking demanding nowadays it’s no surprise men are not dating or are “fuckbois”. Smh
@chiclids6 ай бұрын
Interesting that’s a little on the toxic side. My opinion there’s nothing wrong with opening up when you’re upset about something and you’re feeling emotional it’s normal it’s part of being human so if a girl gets turned off by a guy showing emotions once again that’s kind of toxic in my opinion 😒
@heylooknohienz6 ай бұрын
Either way they'll most like say bye.
@timotttthhhyyy7 ай бұрын
shit happens thats part of life dont worry baby everythings gonna be alright 🔥🔥🔥🔥
@lilien23214 ай бұрын
Personally I don't see problem or I won't lose respect, because othes for expressing emotions, no matter which gender they are. BUT i would probably have less respect for person who is impulsive and let emotions lead their life and desicions too much.
@beniverson37777 ай бұрын
So men can cry they just have to also comfort women at the same time while not being insecure or overly emotional. Sure, that tracks
@iscreamfitness7 ай бұрын
True
@argunmusic5 ай бұрын
perfect short
@theswampfisher325310 ай бұрын
So what are you talking about? No man ever opens up to a woman because he goes through so much crap in his life and last time I opened up to somebody wasn’t because I was complaining about work or anything with that is because I just lost my uncle and I have my ex-wife cheating on me After that, Uncle that help raised so I will never show a woman my emotions ever again
@iedie1125 Жыл бұрын
I don't think I've ever disagreed with something you ever said.
@brucewayne78757 ай бұрын
So basically you have to always know how to get out of the messy situation you're in, or at least pretend to feel optimistic about it after admitting you feel horrible or else you lose. Sounds ridiculous.
@WocklessGamingforAnimeMoms9 ай бұрын
Thank you Gentle Giant,very cool.
@casfox10 ай бұрын
So true!
@stinkypinkie902910 ай бұрын
It’s true but that seems like a really difficult line to walk, specially as someone that has always dealt with problems by themselves. The double standard completely sucks and is why so many men commit s*icide. Seems like whatever we end up doing, it’s a losing move.
@twinsoultarot4738 ай бұрын
Yeah f*** no, I'd rather have a guy that cries all days long as he's crying about the right thing. Basically -- the state of the affairs in this world.
@hueyx882619 күн бұрын
So basically the way a man should show emotion is by not showing any at all. Got it
@0Tony18 ай бұрын
So not only do we have to open up now a days but we also have to fake opening up .
@abdul-rahmanbilal35165 ай бұрын
The second example isn’t realistic A Man should be able to express himself however he feels necessary as long as he’s not hurting anyone!!! If a woman doesn’t accept that, he doesn’t need her!
@QWERTY-gp8fd5 ай бұрын
goodluck finding such woman.
@abdul-rahmanbilal35165 ай бұрын
@@QWERTY-gp8fd I know right! But I still believe in GOD! I asked HIM to send me one! I ain’t looking no more tho!!!
@QWERTY-gp8fd5 ай бұрын
@@abdul-rahmanbilal3516if u are not looking then u aint getting any. lol bro look at urself. shave and go to gym for a start. god is cope.
@bogdanungureanu92253 күн бұрын
Me criyng about my audi's oil consumption...😢
@dipmalaahir98033 ай бұрын
Very bad advice, don't take this man seriously, what he is saying is utterly nonsense. We woman do love man who is true about his feelings, his emotions and vulnerability, this things create the deep bonding
@Guarrow6 ай бұрын
Yeah so, it's the same thing : don't be emotional.
@leemagaming6969 ай бұрын
Funny how alot seem to think emotions of men seem to be a turn off etc im a dude i can be emotional and if someone is emotional around me im there for them too just cause ur a guy doesnt mean u cant be there for someone and still have times where u feel emotional urself if women are put off by men who have emotions well then honestly i dont think you deserve a guy cause he accepts u the way u are but u cant do the same well then if ur thats how u are then honest to god u arent worth a guy loving, accepting and being there for u
@sasapetroski9815 ай бұрын
If man don't show emotions he is in danger to have heart atack, so if you want to have short life and die with 52 years old then keep everything inside you
@truthrealtalk9703 Жыл бұрын
Perfectly said Thankyou
@NazifAnab5 ай бұрын
Fuck this, im talking to my teddy bear. It doesn't judge me
@TJ-bs4wv7 ай бұрын
Better be alone, than have to be a stone brick man, that have to act stoic or whatever ever BS. As a father myself to a son. I would never tell him to stop crying if he feelt afraid or hurt. I disagree with this video. If a woman can't handle a man, when he at the lowest while she can act crazy. Then it is better to be alone
@mickeyyymousee567910 ай бұрын
I used to be emotional and always wanted to talk to my wife about my feelings. She suggested that I see a male therapist learn to become more 'manly,' but I declined. She then brought a kitten and said that the next time I open my mouth to complain, she's going to make me carry it and pet it in my fanny pouch. 😂😂😂😂
@TAL198411 ай бұрын
Keep it bottled in men... take the phrase "I feel" out of your vocabulary. He is saying the exact same thing... comment on emotion but dont ever show it. You become a woman to her.
@yaboiavery59869 ай бұрын
Why even have her if you can't be open with her? If a woman can't provide anything on the emotional side, then what's her purpose in your life?
@MM-oj2pf7 ай бұрын
@@yaboiavery5986you know the purpose. Spread legs. Nothing else.
@Tolderian5 ай бұрын
Whew, ok. Sugar coat it and lie. Got it.
@user-gi8xu3jd6s9 ай бұрын
Why the fuck is jhonny sins giving me life advice?
@DivineLogos Жыл бұрын
If you don't open up her mind will plague her with reasons why you might be down and often she will blame herself or the relationship. Then she becomes down too and then a negative spiral ensues.
@emmastone8779 Жыл бұрын
Exactly, she’ll feel out of loop, like you’re hiding something from her or like you don’t trust her.
@ggggg77273 Жыл бұрын
@@emmastone8779don't act like you'll even notice or care. All you want is what your boyfriend can provide for you, not what's inside his skull.
@cheezedoodlenygguh6229 Жыл бұрын
She always finds a reason to feel "down" bruh, men gotta stop caring so much that's the entire problem. Men gotta start being closer to BROTHERS and forget what "she" think.
@lucasdiazjr56797 ай бұрын
They hate if you have expectations but they are apparently right for having theirs wtf
@user-ho3nd2qj2p10 ай бұрын
Exactly that’s why I’m dating a guy
@zhen86 Жыл бұрын
The advise he said is not opening up. It just being meh
@88SimonF4 ай бұрын
So lie to her? Got it
@cannabistalk416411 ай бұрын
Imagine this you have to open up a certain way .... Just don't do it
@ondragames64711 ай бұрын
Dont work, she break up 💔
@TopG2007311 ай бұрын
We are rocks, we are mountains, only God can destroy us.
@soumyadeepsengupta979711 ай бұрын
And that’s why your girl leaves you instead of helping you when you die on your bed crying of no reason just simply because you have depression
@jackbennett8371 Жыл бұрын
no matter what you do, or who you are, race, religion, gender, whatever..People. Just. Do. Not. Get. Along.