"Men should not show emotions to women"

[@fryghostkick1099]

If someone leaves because you were vulnerable, they never loved you to begin with

[@ilikepancakes2368]

If you think that’s the case, you don’t understand female nature. Women will never love nor respect vulnerable men, never. The only reason why a woman would want a man to be vulnerable is so she can use his own vulnerability against him.

[@flarethefox9836]

THANK YOU!

[@user-ck9ky1yt8z]

Ain't no love. That's some fairytale made up Bs.

[@user-ck9ky1yt8z]

​@@caseylockwood15well you aren't wife material then. A real wife is with her husband til death. Being tired don't mean sht. Society doesn't care if a man is tired. He just has to push through it and keep going

[@Savage_Thinker]

The woman are dead or trmatized children inside

[@Almighty_rage777]

Well shit, I’m human too. Men can’t be confident and sure of ourselves all the time. We can get overly emotional too 😭

[@hutup9092]

From ur crying emoji, you're too emotional to have a p3nis 💯

[@hutup9092]

From ur crying emoji, you're too emotional to have a p3nis 💯

[@DarkCor38744]

Try to get a real woman. Woman who can't handle a man beeing emotional are just bad people. You'll find someone

[@UnexpectedAmy]

Your humanity is worth more than this guys soundbite x

[@georgekanyoni8029]

WEAK!!

[@OzPozzy278]

Then what's the point of being in that relationship? If she doesn't appreciate your sense of responsibility? It's not good when the partner abuses you

[@SeanWinters]

Not liking you crying isn't "not appreciating your sense of responsibility", it's the opposite. Being insecure is like the opposite of being responsible. It sucks, but that's genetics and that's manhood. You are a man, you're not supposed to be "taken care of", no one is your mama anymore. fact of the matter is, while your opinions matter, and your decisions matter, your feelings DON'T.

[@Southpaw88]

​@@SeanWinters that's just a miserable way to live life. Emotions are the body's way of releasing stress. If you keep them bottled up it's not good for you in the long run. Hence why those old generation guys looked 50 at age 30. Too macho and tough for their own good it cost them in the long run On the other hand, if you're vulnerable with a person it shows you trust them and they take it in a negative light that just means they most likely have a sh*tty character.

[@Faztxx]

​​@@Southpaw88The point for me is (sorry for bad english, I am brasilian): If you lock your emotions for a long time, become easier, its like a progress, the begin is hard, the middle sucks, years without showing emotions make easier to forgot about them. (Well, if I said some shit sorry, Im not good at this.)

[@Southpaw88]

@@Faztxx bro I'm saying this as someone with repressed emotions till they came out, trust me you can "forget" them but they'll always be there. they're the ones making you anxious, self conscious, defensive, have low self esteem, delusional thinking etc. these are all the results of repressed emotions. They day my emotions properly came out I was a mess but felt like I lifted 3 tons out of my body. Suppressing your emotions is the worst thing you can do, you never ever "forget" them lol no matter what you tell yourself

[@Faztxx]

@@Southpaw88 Well, Thanks for this

[@TheWholeWorld1]

😂.. that’s NOT “opening up”. That’s reassuring HER FEELINGS while SILENCING YOURS. You have NO F’ing clue “what to do” OR if things are going to “be alright”, but just as long as SHE’s comfortable, you’re good (in HER eyes, while dying inside). Gentlemen, get yourself a REALLY good mentor, pastor, family member, therapist that you can truly OPEN UP to! And don’t get frustrated or resentful of your woman because she simply NOT DESIGNED to process mens feelings (it’s the way God made her).

[@cheezedoodlenygguh6229]

Crazy how most men don't understand this, women are just not wired that way.

[@jimchoy6764]

Not the way god made women

[@answers_for_all4379]

Ok I see your point. But as a woman I can tell you that if in a situation where you really are lost and don't know what to do, you cannot give up. That's the only rule. Only weak people give up. And since us girls/women are not attracted to weakness then you better not have a mental breakdown and do nothing suddenly. A man should be a leader of the pack, leader of his family. Mental stronghold for the weaker partner aka woman. If you, as the leader did something to pull your family down, into bankruptcy for example...and you see your wife's worried face, the worst what you could do is give up when you said for better or for worse in your vows. So if you know you messed up, a big time, the best thing to do is get some confidence and reassure her that you will make the problems disappear. I'd advise you in that situation to repent before God, for taking it your way, and then give him the lead of your life. Cuz that's the hierarchy: God, man, wife and then kids.

[@mokie7421]

@@answers_for_all4379how do you repent to a god you can’t feel?

[@answers_for_all4379]

@@mokie7421 You pray earnestly that He lets you feel a glimpse of His presence. He is distant from the ones who don't seek Him, close to those who do.

[@rosemarietolentino3218]

Just keep being you until you find someone who likes you the way you are. Then you don’t have to remember what you are supposed to do. Just be you!

[@asparrow9876]

Don't hold your breath.

[@Newtined]

unless theyre a furry

[@darksaintxvi6914]

@@asparrow9876you don’t either fruitcake.

[@dturtles33]

Sounds good, doesn't work

[@diosmioeldiablo8578]

Just be you isn't really great advice. We're flawed individuals. We should constantly be striving to be better, not just be content with whatever we are.

[@UnexpectedAmy]

This is horrifying. So, men should open up, just not authentically. Like yeah, coming in with determination and resolve is great, but if a woman loses attraction because sometimes maybe a man really isn't ok and feels super down for a while...well, I understand why men don't bother.

[@user-lj6jp8qp7z]

Everyone has to cry at some point in their life. As a Man, I only cry behind closed doors. As a Man, NEVER cry infront of your Woman. The relationship will change forever.

[@realxy124]

If a man say things like this when he opens up to me , I will ask again - please tell me your real feelings and emotions. I don't care if he cry or explain himself . I will listen no matter what . Especially - I have a brother who shares his feelings whenever he likes a girl or also cry when our parents scold him only in front of me . So I know it really hard to share your emotions as a man , but I hope you guys found someone who listen to you. So don't worry share your feelings. If they are for you they will listen no matter what. And don't worry if you are having a bad day everything will be alright. And remember guys especially guys - you are special too and your emotions matters❤ And don't listen this guy be tough because only you know how you live . Lastly, its important Don't over explain your feeling keep some secret within you . You will never know someone true intentions unless you know them. Have a great day😊

[@zhen86]

lol, women say this kind of things, but will leave once man really did that

[@realxy124]

@@zhen86 don't worry buddy it happens I already experienced this when I love someone with my whole heart and they love someone else and that was my best friend . I also try my best to not become like them and wait for the right man 😊 If anything happens to you too . Don't worry let's cry together 😅👥

[@leoceanburst3328]

Honestly, this isn't even opening up. Yes, don't keep bitching about your problems every now and then even with your friends let alone your gf. But once in a while, you should open up completely of how you are feeling, this is about being the true you. If you can't even completely tell how you feel to the person whom you are gonna spend all your life with then what the fuck is the point of living your entire life with them and earning for them, having children with them. If you think she's gonna leave you after you open up, I'm giving you brotherly advice, leave her. You deserve better. There are women in this world who are completely fine with their man opening up, and they are much more than we think. You just gotta find the one. It'll take time for everyone. Even the strongest men have cried at some point in their life but it is our job to keep putting in the work. But at the end of the day, we need someone who understands us and supports us emotionally. That's what a relationship is truly for.

[@emmastone8779]

Thankyou! This is it! I was watching this video with a side eye 😂, like mmmmmmI don’t know about that one🤣

[@Imnothere2024]

Always open up to the person you trust, whether you are a man or a woman it doesn’t matter☺️

[@ariariiimo]

Men should never suppress their emotions or be required to handle it 'confidently' (Im NOT hating on this video). Everyone is human after all. They deserve to show emotions because its already built in them. They are SUPPOSED to show it the way their brains tell them to. And if someone doesn't like you for it, they never loved you anyway. So a message to the boys: Do not be afraid to show emotions. You also deserve moments for when you cry, breakdown, get angry or just overwhelmed. "Men cant show emotions and showing emotions is a weakness" is just a man-made phase, it wasnt made by nature. Message to the girls, too: Showing a little emotion isnt 'oversensitive'. Men deserve the same comfort and care that you deserve. Think about it, men get their first ever flowers at their funeral (mostly). Surprising right? So treat men right. They are humans too. And only when we treat each other right we will overcome these gender standards. (Note: Please do not take this as offense. As for the owner of the channel, if you think this comment is disturbing or harming viewers just reply and I will kindly take it down.)

[@Imnothere2024]

Thank you like have the same emotions regardless of gender

[@Imnothere2024]

I really needed to hear this

[@ariariiimo]

@@Imnothere2024 you're welcome 😁 glad I could help

[@Imnothere2024]

@@ariariiimo I hope a lot of people realizes this

[@Imnothere2024]

@@ariariiimo Im also tired of the whole “men can’t show emotions and showing emotions is a weakness”

[@ashmuddy]

How about getting a partner that actually likes you for you instead of just what you show her. I somebody breaks up with you for being you that person was not for you. You need to find someone who can respect you for you and maybe you can relate to. You need to show your true self to your partner if you want a true love

[@EmmaMel0]

This works on any gender really. If someone literally starts bitching and complaining about everything ofc it's a massive turn off. Having the courage and confidence to show emotions and open up about a given situation is quite rare and very attractive, complaining is not. One should be self aware while having an "it is what it is" mindset.

[@tegathemenace]

This is not a full truth tho. Men are willing to sit down and listen to their woman open up emotionally without being judgemental, because we never really expected a stoic, unfazed woman to begin with.

[@EmmaMel0]

@@tegathemenace I agree and it's a beautiful thing, but it should go both ways. A relationship should never be one sided in the first place. If I'm willing to open up and be vulnerable to someone I expect them to be as vulnerable with me. Emotional support has to equal. I'm an advocate for stoicism, but not the one that comes from a place of insecurity and fear of judgment.

[@EmmaMel0]

@@tegathemenace I'm really sorry things had to be this way. When it comes to this men always have the short end of the stick. They have unrealistic expectations they need to meet otherwise they're seen as "weak". I wish we looked out for each other more regardless of our genders for we are made to complete one another, not put each other down.

[@tegathemenace]

@@EmmaMel0 It's only logical that everyone on the ship is allowed to panic except the captain. Authority comes with responsibility. I don't see it as a poor bargain at all.

[@EmmaMel0]

@@tegathemenace glad to hear that

[@SarahRodriguez-1619]

I disagree with this man. If my husband came to me and said man, I feel so bad about A,B and C and even did it the way this guy did I’m not going to lose attraction for him. Matter of fact, I think it would grow my attraction for him that he can show that he can be vulnerable with me. But if he opens up to me and it starts to come out like he’s blaming me, or it comes out in a very toxic way with anger aggression or defensiveness or blaming other people for his problems, then yeah that’s very unattractive and I think anyone would lose attraction for a person like that. If my husband opened up the way this guy said you should open up, I wouldn’t see that as being vulnerable, I would see him as having a big ego.

[@jansonciereszko4968]

That's not opening up. That's putting on an act and hiding ur true feelings and emotions. I agree that you shouldn't go and on about not knowing what to do about something to the point it's just pathetic and silly but it's not opening up if your lying to them telling them you've got everything under control when you haven't. You should be able to tell them how u feel and they deserve to know what's truly going on.

[@ChristopherAmankwah]

Best self improvement channel on the entirety of KZbin hands down

[@providerrr6640]

Correct 💯

[@SarahRodriguez-1619]

As a female I can tell you that’s not being vulnerable

[@jphilly1261]

Note to self: Lie about knowing how to tackle all life's problems and never ever have no idea what the best next step is

[@totallynotdio1311]

glad to know i have to have a perfect life and if im not 100% succesful in all areas in my life im "not ready for a relationship" as people like to say

[@aprioripancakes]

So basically don't actually talk about the feelings. Super interesting, honestly

[@andrewjackson8045]

Ong bro ive cried in front of my girl a few times when i was having the hardest times of my life and i hate hearing these insecure men preaching about being emotionless in relationships just to prove theyre a man

[@thirstykayak246]

Exactly right. A guy who cries/grieves but then stands up and handles things, goes away undiminished in my eyes.

[@user-wy2hw6mr3y]

Recently relapsed last night. But Im gonna fight back hard this time. 💯🙏🏽 good luck my boys

[@GoldenMushroom64]

Cold water on the face can help.

[@asparrow9876]

How about I never open up. It's working for me and they can keep crying all they want, I'm remaining stoic and if they don't like it I throw them away. This is why I don't date and will never marry.

[@etoileshine1011]

How has life been?

[@asparrow9876]

@@etoileshine1011 Splendid.

[@etoileshine1011]

@@asparrow9876 That's good to hear hopefully it stays that way.

[@asparrow9876]

@@etoileshine1011 Likewise. Godspeed.

[@Mantras-and-Mystics]

​@@DemoGlory I never married. Best life ever!! 🎉🎈⭐️🎊🎉

[@rwerwee]

So instead of articulating your true feelings you pretend something else… That is „not opening up“. „Opening up“ is allowing yourself to show vulnerabilities. If you don’t show your vulnerabilities or you don’t have any vulnerabilities to show, then you’re not opening up. So you confirmed that women don’t like men opening up…

[@cheezedoodlenygguh6229]

They never did. They were wired to seek the strongest/well to do men. Not the men they feel "sympathy" for.

[@numarknett1]

Honestly it might just be better to not open up, just deal with your issues yourself as much as you can. The minute you start venting to others is when people can start getting annoyed and think of you as a burden. I'm not saying ignore your emotions and pretend everything's fine, but don't start trauma-dumping on other ppl, work through your emotions in private and find a healthy way to cope without ever showing your vulnerabilities to your S/O.

[@Mr73730]

Why I have to lie? „Everything is going to be allright“ We all know this is BS.

[@GoldenMushroom64]

FAAAAAACTS it’s not about bottling up emotions that’s so stupid lol it’s about being honest about how you feel and dealing with it like a mature adult

[@asparrow9876]

Also the example you used is hardly considered opening up..... Wth is this?....

[@minnesotajude8447]

My friend was killed by a drunk driver. My girlfriend at the time was a b*tch at the funeral.

[@DeepTrader0909]

Showing emotions openly doesnt necessarily make a man weaker...

[@beba891]

No, opening up is fine. Even being insecure, unconfident, and emotional (whether overly or not) is attractive to us women. It's the guy who opens up and unloads his issues, hoping she'll fix him or help him or contribute as his therapist. #nothanks

[@lin3378]

I knew a girl who was in love with a guy that would tell her every single thing of his life until he revealed he has criminal tendencies. It seems that she tried to "fix" him but gave up.

[@Crystal_G_1989]

Agree 100%... Im mysterious guy In the eyes of women first... But when I open up and show my emotion women starting to loss interest in me.. Its like attraction killer.

[@CRose9205]

They're lesser creatures when it comes to relationships. The laundry list of things men need to do to keep/get women is ridiculous, whereas women just sit back and act how they want. They'll never understand.

[@lukelukey4155]

That makes me feel like i cant be totally open in a relationship, which is what i would want from her aswell. Total transparency as a team

[@emmastone8779]

Agreed, I don’t think this is true at all, like when my father opened up to me, same as my brother, all it did was strengthen our relationships, brought us closer and they gained newfound understanding from me. I don’t think it’ll be any different with a guy I’m seeing.

[@asparrow9876]

@@emmastone8779 They were your family....... There was no attraction to ruin in the first place..... Bad example 🙄😒

[@cheezedoodlenygguh6229]

I'm emotionally open to my closest brothers and my father figures. That's it.

[@nope9858]

I will never open up to a woman ever again.

[@arifburakkirik2282]

So long story short we have to be emotionless robots…

[@slagwill5599]

Well we men are not supposed to get hysterical. But we are to be trained to articulate how we feel about thus and so without overly expressing it. Big difference.

[@honkeydonkey1401]

This advice makes more sense to me. I've always thought relationships were based off of honesty. I always thought never telling your girl how you feel was dishonest. This is better because you're opening up to her and being honest with her while still showing her that you are confident and capable.

[@tomazstopar1226]

she loses the respect for a man because he didn't tell her how he's gonna fix it

[@exjester6574]

No. If she doesn't like the way you look that's the issue , it's not about emotions. A woman can care less if you have the mind of a 4 year old boy.

[@angelp4724]

You haven't been around many healthy relationships by the sounds of it, mental maturity and trust are the most important aspects of any long-term relationship. Simple example: the reason toddlers are so difficult is because they don't understand why they get angry/upset/frustrated and they don't know how to process their feelings or emotions in a healthy way or how to assess whether they are being reasonable or not... so instead of processing and assessing their emotions (which requires a lot more effort) they lash out and bite and cry and scream.....no logical analysis whatsoever. That's the difference between adults and children, you develop Self - Awareness & Discipline. It is super unhealthy if an adult still doesn't know how to manage stress/feelings of anger/jealousy or past trauma in a Positive & Productive way 😂. Imagine if you get into an accident & your wife is mentally IMMATURE she will just shut down from the stress or simply scream out of fear or even blame you for her inability to analyse her own feelings and understand her emotions. If she is mentally immature she won't be accustomed to thinking logically beyond her current state of mind to find solutions to the current problem. An ACTUAL Mature person acknowledges they are scared of seeing their partner hurt but processes that fear and faces it head on, they don't let their fear consume them and this helps them make the correct decisions to help their partner in time of emergencies. They take responsibility for clearing their heads of unhelpful emotions. Also, I have seen too many couples in therapy where one partner is too mentally immature and that person always take any criticism personally even when it isn't a personal attack, they simply don't understand that they're getting advised nicely because they are so used to allowing their emotions to cloud their judgement. This spells disaster as they feel upset/angry so they don't believe their partner is genuinely trying to make a constructive criticism. Relationships like that fall apart because one partner always believes the other is mocking them when actually they're just interpreting everything too negatively.

[@Jesse-qk1uy]

A start is to think about your emotions (as a man) with objectivity and define them accordingly, then gaining a deeper awareness of them, and ultimately channelling them and controlling them effectively: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fJrFqGyFnb6dgacsi=Uygn7641JLXcumRZ

[@callum9500]

There’s women out there where this does not apply, trust me. I’m with one. On the other hand a lot of the time this does apply. The ones where this does not apply is like finding a needle in a haystack.

[@boostaah]

Yeah I guess ima then stay alone forever, I am too emotional and too honest with my feelings.

[@TheCheSlav]

Fuсk bro. Call it genetics, childhood trauma, or moms sickness while pregnant. Just got out of a year relationship because she lost respect for me, never took it out on her but my face is telling when I'm upset. It's a fkn black pill, I lift too but I'm going to try DIM which is supposed to balance estrogen

[@bayernjames9546]

Yeah no. It's one thing to be too vulnerable to the point you overwhelm the woman but if you're vulnerable once and she finds it undesirable, then that means she was never meant for you.

[@joakos1122]

Ask Will Smith how being emotional, vulnerable and understanding worked out for him

[@Alex-ww8to]

You could definitely sue the other person if they was at fault and get a good bag from the situation 💰💰💰 find a lawyer and get a free consultation

[@NatashaWarden]

It's frustrating that men try to talk for women. Us women do like to help with men's issues. So actually ask women what we want rather than listening to men on it !!!

[@CyberPunkBadGuy]

Us women, are you like a hive mind since you speak for everywoman.

[@NatashaWarden]

@@CyberPunkBadGuy actually most women , fair enough not all, but most women tend to be better at giving advice than men.

[@NatashaWarden]

@@CyberPunkBadGuy also ALL women would be able to say what their preference is better than a man. You know your preference better than someone else. That was my point. This is about what women are attracted to. Meaning rather than asking men, they should ask the woman what she's attracted to. Thought that was pretty obvious 🤦

[@CyberPunkBadGuy]

@@NatashaWarden You need to stop your yapping. you dont know what you are talking about, you are just some clown on the net think they know anything about anything.

[@rajendrabiswas]

Nonsense we men can show emotions of sadness too

[@sibusiso2841]

Thing is. It sounds like you have to earn the ability to open up. In the sense that you essentially have to build yourself up into someone who doesn't need to open up just so that you can open up to your girl and maintain frame. I'd rather just speak with the homies or spend some alone time thinking about what's on my mind

[@LottimusMaximus]

You’re going to face death of loved ones, job losses and major life changes. If she gets turned off from you weeping and having a grieving process. Please send her back to the streets where she belongs. Don’t ever change yourself to attract someone else. Just be you. You can be a better you, but don’t be a fake you.

[@masturch33f87]

So I should just lie even if I don't know what to do? Yeah great advice 🤦‍♂️

[@AshleyJohnson-er8os]

This is true. My ex was more feminine than I was and he was soooo emotional pretty sure he cried as much in our 2.5 yr relationship as I did my entire 36 years of being alive. You need balance. A partner that can be masculine / feminine yet are able to tell you how they feel. It’s Just like Mr Nice Guy syndrome. Nobody wants a partner who is overly emotional or nice alllllll of the time. It can be extremely draining for the other person. And I also learned that one person being overly emotional all the time and having the other person not be that way is not balancing it out, it actually makes stuff worse. People love to say that opposites attract and I mean they can for sure, but if a lot of their traits are completely opposite especially emotionally it’s probably not going to last long but that’s just my opinion. I have experienced this firsthand, but at the same time everybody is completely different.

[@user-ck9ky1yt8z]

Don't show no emotion to anyone. Matter fact kill off all emotion and go numb inside.. emotions serve no purpose they just get you in trouble

[@thewholephil2913]

Then what is the move when things are not “just going to be ok”? Like job loss in an unattainable job market?

[@MiketheNerdRanger]

If this is true, then this is why you need friends to open up to that way, because you *are* going to feel that way, and you *are* going to need to open up to *someone* about it. Whether those friends are male or female doesn't matter.

[@Chinacommunist]

Honestly open up your feelings to a person that shows respect to you. A person that treated you right in everyway. I just hate that dudes cheat on a girl who is literally a perfect person.

[@deepakss4431]

Now I got another reason why men shouldn't cry

[@TwiddleJones]

You’re seriously telling me my hyper sensitive, childish, pathetic little man act has been a waste of time?

[@user-fv9cm2yc9d]

Fuck the feelings, i always cry when iam alone.

[@Basilisk2077]

What we say: “Everything is going to be alright baby, don’t worry.” What we think: *”Wtf is happening everything going to shit.”*

[@angriboi]

So, what he says is basically "open up about your emotions without opening up about your emotions." That's the most female thing I heard in a while.

[@anantisocialsinsight]

Idk why everyone is agreeing like this made any sense at all. His example was not even “opening up” its just a man admitting he fucked up but will be alright? How is that opening up? No that’s not talking about your feelings. Men should be able to open up to women. Y’all so fucking demanding nowadays it’s no surprise men are not dating or are “fuckbois”. Smh

[@chiclids]

Interesting that’s a little on the toxic side. My opinion there’s nothing wrong with opening up when you’re upset about something and you’re feeling emotional it’s normal it’s part of being human so if a girl gets turned off by a guy showing emotions once again that’s kind of toxic in my opinion 😒

[@heylooknohienz]

Either way they'll most like say bye.

[@timotttthhhyyy]

shit happens thats part of life dont worry baby everythings gonna be alright 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@lilien2321]

Personally I don't see problem or I won't lose respect, because othes for expressing emotions, no matter which gender they are. BUT i would probably have less respect for person who is impulsive and let emotions lead their life and desicions too much.

[@beniverson3777]

So men can cry they just have to also comfort women at the same time while not being insecure or overly emotional. Sure, that tracks

[@iscreamfitness]

True

[@argunmusic]

perfect short

[@theswampfisher3253]

So what are you talking about? No man ever opens up to a woman because he goes through so much crap in his life and last time I opened up to somebody wasn’t because I was complaining about work or anything with that is because I just lost my uncle and I have my ex-wife cheating on me After that, Uncle that help raised so I will never show a woman my emotions ever again

[@iedie1125]

I don't think I've ever disagreed with something you ever said.

[@brucewayne7875]

So basically you have to always know how to get out of the messy situation you're in, or at least pretend to feel optimistic about it after admitting you feel horrible or else you lose. Sounds ridiculous.

[@WocklessGamingforAnimeMoms]

Thank you Gentle Giant,very cool.

[@casfox]

So true!

[@stinkypinkie9029]

It’s true but that seems like a really difficult line to walk, specially as someone that has always dealt with problems by themselves. The double standard completely sucks and is why so many men commit s*icide. Seems like whatever we end up doing, it’s a losing move.

[@twinsoultarot473]

Yeah f*** no, I'd rather have a guy that cries all days long as he's crying about the right thing. Basically -- the state of the affairs in this world.

[@hueyx8826]

So basically the way a man should show emotion is by not showing any at all. Got it

[@0Tony1]

So not only do we have to open up now a days but we also have to fake opening up .

[@abdul-rahmanbilal3516]

The second example isn’t realistic A Man should be able to express himself however he feels necessary as long as he’s not hurting anyone!!! If a woman doesn’t accept that, he doesn’t need her!

[@QWERTY-gp8fd]

goodluck finding such woman.

[@abdul-rahmanbilal3516]

@@QWERTY-gp8fd I know right! But I still believe in GOD! I asked HIM to send me one! I ain’t looking no more tho!!!

[@QWERTY-gp8fd]

@@abdul-rahmanbilal3516if u are not looking then u aint getting any. lol bro look at urself. shave and go to gym for a start. god is cope.

[@bogdanungureanu9225]

Me criyng about my audi's oil consumption...😢

[@dipmalaahir9803]

Very bad advice, don't take this man seriously, what he is saying is utterly nonsense. We woman do love man who is true about his feelings, his emotions and vulnerability, this things create the deep bonding

[@Guarrow]

Yeah so, it's the same thing : don't be emotional.

[@leemagaming696]

Funny how alot seem to think emotions of men seem to be a turn off etc im a dude i can be emotional and if someone is emotional around me im there for them too just cause ur a guy doesnt mean u cant be there for someone and still have times where u feel emotional urself if women are put off by men who have emotions well then honestly i dont think you deserve a guy cause he accepts u the way u are but u cant do the same well then if ur thats how u are then honest to god u arent worth a guy loving, accepting and being there for u

[@sasapetroski981]

If man don't show emotions he is in danger to have heart atack, so if you want to have short life and die with 52 years old then keep everything inside you

[@truthrealtalk9703]

Perfectly said Thankyou

[@NazifAnab]

Fuck this, im talking to my teddy bear. It doesn't judge me

[@TJ-bs4wv]

Better be alone, than have to be a stone brick man, that have to act stoic or whatever ever BS. As a father myself to a son. I would never tell him to stop crying if he feelt afraid or hurt. I disagree with this video. If a woman can't handle a man, when he at the lowest while she can act crazy. Then it is better to be alone

[@mickeyyymousee5679]

I used to be emotional and always wanted to talk to my wife about my feelings. She suggested that I see a male therapist learn to become more 'manly,' but I declined. She then brought a kitten and said that the next time I open my mouth to complain, she's going to make me carry it and pet it in my fanny pouch. 😂😂😂😂

[@TAL1984]

Keep it bottled in men... take the phrase "I feel" out of your vocabulary. He is saying the exact same thing... comment on emotion but dont ever show it. You become a woman to her.

[@yaboiavery5986]

Why even have her if you can't be open with her? If a woman can't provide anything on the emotional side, then what's her purpose in your life?

[@MM-oj2pf]

@@yaboiavery5986you know the purpose. Spread legs. Nothing else.

[@Tolderian]

Whew, ok. Sugar coat it and lie. Got it.

[@user-gi8xu3jd6s]

Why the fuck is jhonny sins giving me life advice?

[@DivineLogos]

If you don't open up her mind will plague her with reasons why you might be down and often she will blame herself or the relationship. Then she becomes down too and then a negative spiral ensues.

[@emmastone8779]

Exactly, she’ll feel out of loop, like you’re hiding something from her or like you don’t trust her.

[@ggggg77273]

​@@emmastone8779don't act like you'll even notice or care. All you want is what your boyfriend can provide for you, not what's inside his skull.

[@cheezedoodlenygguh6229]

She always finds a reason to feel "down" bruh, men gotta stop caring so much that's the entire problem. Men gotta start being closer to BROTHERS and forget what "she" think.

[@lucasdiazjr5679]

They hate if you have expectations but they are apparently right for having theirs wtf

[@user-ho3nd2qj2p]

Exactly that’s why I’m dating a guy

[@zhen86]

The advise he said is not opening up. It just being meh

[@88SimonF]

So lie to her? Got it

[@cannabistalk4164]

Imagine this you have to open up a certain way .... Just don't do it

[@ondragames647]

Dont work, she break up 💔

[@TopG20073]

We are rocks, we are mountains, only God can destroy us.

[@soumyadeepsengupta9797]

And that’s why your girl leaves you instead of helping you when you die on your bed crying of no reason just simply because you have depression

[@jackbennett8371]

no matter what you do, or who you are, race, religion, gender, whatever..People. Just. Do. Not. Get. Along.