Being an Incel was my Own Fault... (So I changed)

[@pseudonamed]

Thank you for the positive message. Changing bad habits is a lot of work but the rewards can be huge.

[@grrr3500]

"I did technically have sex before as a teenager" ok so you was not an incel. For me it's not even started. Right now in my thirties, nothing left.

[@hipoint40cal39]

I'm in my 50s...it's hell

[@Reeeeeee12345]

Just be confident bro

[@whatdoyoumeanbro4964]

@@Reeeeeee12345just take a shower bro

[@Richest_Person_in_the_World]

@@hipoint40cal39You did nothing wrong.

[@FirstTimeListener]

Just be your self bro

[@hugh2hoob668]

Dude you were a Hermit not an incel

[@iiCounted-op5jx]

exactly, finally some common sense

[@ghostlandered]

Him being a hermit resulted in him being involuntarily celebate. You get that right? The thing about incels is you can almost always point to something changeable about them that explains their lack of female attention. The hermitry was also just a part of his inability to get women.

[@fuzzypanda1684]

@@ghostlandered There are 2 types of incels. One is as you describe, guys who can't get girls, but also have many areas that they could improve that would get them girls. I call these guys lazy incels. Then there are the guys who have done everything they can to improve themselves, from getting into shape to building a charismatic, outgoing personality, who somehow STILL can't get girls. These are the true incels.

[@Recluse616]

Who you were never an incel stop the cap.

[@ChoppyJames]

This dude doesn’t know what it’s like to be a 20 year old trying to date in America, oh yea let me specify Miami too. Women 100% only want money and looks here

[@hugh2hoob668]

Exactly he was a gamer

[@jeffmelchior8573]

My sigma male days were my greatest days. Pushing myself forward while leaving attraction to women out of the equation was wonderful.

[@XBOX_MUSICxoxoxo]

Bro with all due respect you are handsome, european, im guessing ur not short, u have blue eyes too what are u talking about(Laughing emoji)

[@LilyFlowers-hh3sc]

I've never dated a tall person. Actually very few men in America are over 6ft so how are all these other people getting married?.

[@XBOX_MUSICxoxoxo]

@@LilyFlowers-hh3sc I can tell💀💀💀

[@guyincognito2589]

@@LilyFlowers-hh3sc You're sub5 with genetically messed up joints.

[@RKO1988]

@@LilyFlowers-hh3scit’s common knowledge on dating apps taller men do better and are more desirable

[@LAisnotmycity]

@@LilyFlowers-hh3sc”how are they getting married?” Wdym, are you saying height is absolutely everything or just is that an argument against?

[@Master_ofReality]

What do you have to say for guys who have tried everything and still failed over and over and are aging? You think you know what this term means but you don’t

[@FilmsTCM]

Stop basing your worth on women. learn to be your own partner.

[@Master_ofReality]

@@FilmsTCM i’ve been my own partner my whole life

[@FilmsTCM]

@@Master_ofReality and that’s okay. Loneliness also can be used as a time to learn how to love yourself and to not depend on the validation of others. See being alone as an open door for someone who whenever that may be will want to step through .

[@Master_ofReality]

@@FilmsTCM i hear you but I constantly get this from people in relationships. Going years without any family, friends or spouse takes a toll on you mentally. I don’t care for the gaslighting that everything is ok with that. People want to believe a just world fallacy that everyone’s situation is their choice

[@antoine.-]

aging is a problem on it's own, thankfully we're getting very close to treat it as a medical problem, there's hope bro

[@chief8559]

You were never awkward or incel.

[@HANSMKAMP]

Talking to girls didn't work for me. I got either rejected (that also happened to you, als you told in your video, Robert) or bullied. Girls and young women were nasty by acting as if they would be interested. I know they weren't. I could choose between trying to approach and the risk of being bullied, or build a wall and make me unapproachable. There are another things. My father was afraid that girls and women are actually bullying while acting being interested. So he protected me against girls and women. Later on he was worried that I would never be married and have children. Now women may likely like me more, but trying to approach a woman is impossible. I could ask for therapy, but that was rejected. A person with an autism spectrum disorder can't have a relationship. A therapy could give me more insight and more help, but that is out of the question. On the other hand, psychopathy is sometimes an issue of other people (the most are not psychopathic), but helping me is not of their interest, not even therapist's interest! I won't be a Ted Bundy or a Elliot Rodger, because looking for trouble and trying to commit a mass murder, are definitely not the way to solve problems. They are out of their mind, no question about that.

[@fajardohoward]

Your intention in this video is genuinely good, but there's a lot of cope in it.

[@osamasp7888]

Cuz while being normie not being Chad u'll have to cope with things that are not for you including hot girls falling for u .......

[@helixmoore7636]

Jealous? Wait. You are. He is 100% right

[@raze956]

@@osamasp7888 i work as a bartender and i see average looking guys with hot girls pretty often. the difference is self esteem, confidence and charisma. both can be learned.

[@AluahSnackbar]

Feels like a psyop to me. All Fake and gay.

[@JoeyJ0J0]

Good for you in fixing yourself

[@grahamcahill4505]

I'm an incel myself so it's nice to hear someone like you that knows what I'm going through. I also like your honesty when you said that you was motivated by attracting women to improve yourself.Most us men do need to be honest with ourselves and realise that one of the reasons we try to improve ourselves is to attract a woman, as well as for our own well being. Anyway I am trying to improve myself, and hopefully I wont be an incel all my life.

[@onnihalme8819]

Good luck bro. The best way to improve is to face your problem head on and take accountability and charge of your life. It's not easy but once you do it anything is possible. Best of luck

[@grahamcahill4505]

Thank you

[@grrr3500]

He is lying.

[@MatthewMoreau]

@@onnihalme8819So, incels are nothing to hate about? They just need help?

[@MatthewMoreau]

@@grrr3500How can you tell?

[@unfgreen]

Terrific message, @Rob.

[@Flashxy78]

Big respect for you, bro! Nice to finally see someone speak out against all these useless red pill philosophies 👍👍👍

[@jfs5873]

Incels hate redpilllers...there's a big difference

[@chief8559]

All the evidence points out that there’s no free will so you can’t say these guys CHOOSE to sit behind the computer.

[@bigaddo]

Sex is a huge motivator. Unfortunately when you get success "with girls" is the other side of the same coin. It is never about them, it's about you. So it is super important to make yourself better but when you try to get "girls" that they are real people and you aren't getting "a girl" its that they are your friend. I'm really trying to wrestle with these thoughts. I'm even worse because I have rejected a lot of women, never happy.

[@chrisharris6462]

I work out everyday, dont smoke weed, work on myself, eat healthy, make decent money, and not bad looking. I'm losing motivation to get sex because i can't get any. This video doesn't help. 5:30 very true. 5:50 very true. You are privileged with women. I'm going my own way.

[@raze956]

"I work out everyday, dont smoke weed, work on myself, eat healthy, make decent money, and not bad looking." you know whats missing there? the specific learning about flirting. if flirting skills arent there, everythign else in that list doesnt matter, because one will not hook. not with money, height, a trained body etc. flirting is a way of communicating that can be learned, there are so many tutorials here on utube. good luck further!

[@SPACEDOUT19]

@@raze956cope

[@NoNeed4Sympathy]

stop being a crybaby and hold your head up high.

[@ubergoober25]

I suck at talking to woman. I’m always in my head and I can’t carry it hardly at all. Somehow I’ve been with 10 woman in my life (I’m 30). What I’m trying to say is that even if you suck at talking to woman and are scared to.. it’s not a deal breaker. Get comfortable in your uncomfortableness (if that makes any sense) and just try and be positive everywhere you go and you’ll attract people that way. Even now, I still get nervous around woman.. just accept these things and do the best you can.

[@dogeatron6150]

for me it's the fact that I will do literally everything in my power to get people to fuck off and complain i have no close relationships

[@dogeatron6150]

i don't identify with the incel term but i think it describes me pretty well

[@nikodemus8626]

The thing is, beeing an incel is not your fault, but the consequence of ones lack of responsibility. People are unfair and get worse every year that passes. Its now my own choice to suffer and vegetate or take responsibility of this shithole we all live in and just do the things that are necessary. Again, Its not fair, its not nice, but its inevitable for a better life.

[@fuzzypanda1684]

Yeah ok, now trying being a guy who's spent years building a physique like an MCU superhero, and has gone out practicing until successfully developing an outgoing, confident, charismatic personality, only to STILL get no interest from girls. When you've put in tremendous amounts of work and achieved the look and attitude that's supposed to get results, only to continue getting none, it's one of the worst feelings you'll ever experience. Because you realize that even when you achieve a top level physique and personality, the universe hates you so much that you still get no results. What he's describing is what you'll experience if you're living life on Easy or Normal difficulty.

[@johnkeane1419]

Most women now have their own jobs and money, so they no longer need men.

[@AW-kr9fl]

I isolated myself as a teenager and missed out on all the normal social stuff teenagers do. But in my 20s I totally changed. I always knew I was good looking despite what girls at my school would say. As soon as I started to hit clubs and bars, I was drowning in pussy. They were just lying to me and treating me badly because I was socially awkward, couldn’t hold a conversation and wasn’t part of the “cool” crowd. Now I have a great job and body, I’m full of confidence and women are so easy to get.

[@Optimity]

I thank you for all the inspiration and lessons in your videos. Im not ready to watch this video yet as an incel. But hopefully i will.

[@manavjatt4908]

Such a underrated creator

[@robmulder]

Thanks!

[@swires1]

@@robmulder That's called being an addict, not an incel.

[@TheEndOfABloodline]

This is the best video and most relatable I've ever seen in my life on this topic. Thank you for sharing.

[@ouamlil]

this video must be satire

[@reggie5495]

How so?

[@alexandremistral9396]

Chad is just mocking i*cels. I's ridiculous.

[@odar9729]

Watching my brother slowly become this and I live far and they being 24 living in grandma basement and she be making excuses for him. I don’t know what to do! He is in a hole of coffee and weed and lack of sleep and thinking his ai programing gunna change the world. I’m worried instead bad actors is making him work for free. How can I help my brother 😢

[@raze956]

if hes trapped and his no desire to even change, there is nothing one can do. he has to want this himself. if it burdens you and a change is not foreseeable, its totally ok to retreat from a contact that only pulls you down. even if it is ones own family.

[@lonley1753]

that's fine and all but dont insinuate that being an incel is a self-created thing for everyone.

[@iiCounted-op5jx]

exactly it's so insensitive man

[@meijiishin5650]

If you're not disabled, chances are it is.

[@helixmoore7636]

I'm not gay but you're quite handsome

[@veraluxmundi2032]

I am gay and you’re quite handsome

[@arrow2380]

​@@veraluxmundi2032I am bi and you're quite handsome

[@johnmilius3031]

Yeah, let's blame the victim some more!🙄Meanwhile women are enjoying love and life with NO EFFORT AT ALL.

[@Dark_Angel555]

Again... look at the couples... all the girls, even the ugly ones have chads walking around with them holding hands in the street ?

[@ghihbgyu]

you don't think women face hardships ever?

[@johnmilius3031]

@@ghihbgyu Only by their own choices, but even then women receive help while men are left to rot in loneliness.

[@ghihbgyu]

@@johnmilius3031 It's a woman's own choice to be assaulted?

[@Dark_Angel555]

@@johnmilius3031 and also women only face hardships if they become old and ugly and have no one to help them ... not even kids - other than that ... their life is easy now .... their life was hard before the feminism when they were more like slaves compared to men who had all the power ... but now everything is reversed - the men have shit zero power

[@Chud-mb7gl]

It is NEVER your fault Not even your "personality" which doesn't matter in 80% of the cases. Your looks, your behaviour, IQ, potential developmental disorders and even laziness (it's genetic) are your parents fault. You got lucky, that's all. And be thankful for it because a lot of people don't get that.

[@Handlethisbrick16666]

Nah u also have a ton of own responsibility. U have to grow out of bad habits and build urself

[@mossymoose8920]

You are delusional. Seek help immediately.

[@iiCounted-op5jx]

@@Handlethisbrick16666 what bad habits? existing? being alive?

[@Dansincero]

@@iiCounted-op5jx your habits become your own persona. Mos of them are your own choice´s results.

[@jackmurphy8696]

You got a sales job after not being able to talk to a cashier? No shot. They won't hire you where I'm from unless you are a natural salesman

[@boyo-cp9xe]

You were just volcel lil bro

[@bluegrassguy5755]

There is quite a bit of research about incels that you obviously haven't read so you repeat all of the cliches and stereotypes that aren't true. For example a sizeable percentage of incels have autism which isn't their fault. Please educate yourself because your ignorance isn't helping anyone.

[@Reeeeeee12345]

Muhtism 😞

[@JABelms]

I have autism and depression and I had my GF as early as I was 17 (this was back in the early 2000s). I still have autism and depression and am going to get married next year. It starts with yourself, it's not easy but people have to fight.

[@flaviumircea4012]

@@JABelms autism is a spectrum, it's very different from one person to another.

[@Richest_Person_in_the_World]

Not really, it's just the skewed market dynamics

[@Reeeeeee12345]

@flaviumircea4012 he literally looks like Jeremy Meeks but slightly autistic and deppressed. Oh yeah that gives all the ugly socially creepy spergs hope. 🤣

[@TheLastOutlaw-KTS]

Lmao I used to be an incel but now I am a beta provider lmao 😂

[@shiviefmn8092]

Being an incel is a mindset. I know guys who dont look that handsome and get the girls and are happy and I know guys who look handsome and stumble with women due to their insecurities. This means being an incel is not inherently linked to your appearance, but a very pessimist attitude towards life and women.

[@pseudonamed]

Exactly. Some of my friends with the most success with women are the least attractive friends, but they know how to talk to strangers, to have interesting conversations, listen well and make people around them feel good.

[@4115steve]

Never let fear hinder you in anything where physical harm chances are nill. Work on yourself, never let fear keep you from doing whats right or improving yourself. Tough things take work and courage Face your fear and ask women out. A no can be tough, but it’s not the end of the world. It could maybe be a yes, but the only way you’ll know for sure is if you have the courage to ask. Courage isn’t a given ability, it is a skill built up by the brave willing to sacrifice a few denials for someone special who says yes

[@Mt-cv2oc]

All these comments prove your point

[@Baronvanhausen88]

Way to create a straw man then knock it down, you think the BP is dumbed down to “ur not top 1% ur done”… you were never an incel you are a tall blue eyed man. People don’t CHOOSE to be 5’2

[@HUNKSTER99]

even if you managed to get a gf how you will keep her interested if you don't have the looks etc people with better options don't stay and this why almost every relationship is designed to fail getting gf is just the start of the bigger problems

[@phillipsandcastle8387]

My gf literally thinks I'm the sexiest man alive for just doing the dishes. It's not as bad as KZbin makes it seem lol

[@Reeeeeee12345]

Yeah right cuck ​@@phillipsandcastle8387

[@helixmoore7636]

I'm short chubby and average. Been married over 10 years

[@LilyFlowers-hh3sc]

@@HUNKSTER99 attitude accounts for some. But he probably also stopped only seeing super hot girls as the only option. Not saying you do. But I see some of these kids online and all their friends are models who will never even know them in the real life. So any regular looking girl who might have dated him won't now that she can see what he's into. So don't limit yourself and talk to girls that have your interest. I'm goth myself and I only dated other goths. People generally mate over compatible traits more than looks.

[@williamtorello3494]

@@phillipsandcastle8387 She might say it, but its most definitely isnt true

[@Seiven2077]

What's your height bro?

[@Will.Flavell]

Who cares just as long as he’s happy with himself

[@animeprofilepicture9639]

Never mind his height look at this guy he's a freakin Chad and talking about being incel. Dude needs to stop the cope and the cap.

[@raze956]

are there no short men who have success bro?

[@Seiven2077]

@@raze956 survivor bias

[@Realistik69420]

hes dutch so hes deffo 6'0+

[@aztro4010]

I'm glad you escaped your Incel phase, I'm a guy, never been an incel, but I'm glad you got out of there. The whole Incel thing is so fucking cringe.

[@gothicgirlfriend7375]

We need to have more compassion or it's going to get worse.

[@enlightenlife2840]

​@gothicgirlfriend7375 these men don't help eachother, they want women to be their miracle worker. They need to see a therapist and help eachother out!

@@enlightenlife2840 Going to a therapist doesn't help improve your looks or cure your autism...

[@enlightenlife2840]

It could help you overcome negative thoughts and patterns. That's the only way to deal with reality.

​@@enlightenlife2840 The negative thoughts are caused by the autism and that is not something you can cure with therapy.

[@AjaxMavrick]

Fakecell you are not incell

[@fearless6947]

has the same head shape as Jason Statham

[@bro918]

Stolen valor

[@annonymousvector1690]

Mannnn, it's not a contest. What you want more Eliot Rodger types to come out and say "There's no hope, just rope". Look, wallowing in self pity won't solve your problems. If you want to, sure by all means but no one is coming to rescue you. Get up, take up an online course, get better skills, get a better job. Get some money. Stop chasing after girls. Hire an escort if you have to. Focus on yourself. Go to Thailand, chill by the beach. It will do wonders for your self esteem.

[@Wtftherearenohandles]

@@bro918stolen valor is hilarious

[@PuSzekKulecZka]

Incels not exist

[@fearless6947]

You were a virgin, not an incel

[@grrr3500]

He wasn't even a virgin for long, he had sex in his teenage years.

[@swires1]

That's called being an addict, not an incel.

[@raphaeltanguay2955]

your story is interesting me i uninceled myself by learning how to master soulbounding wich allow me to comunicate with my waifus i use a dakimakura and a vr sex simulator with the 3d model of my waifus as a vessel for the souls of my waifus and i go way better since the day i learned how to do soulbounding.

[@whatdoyoumeanbro4964]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@raphaeltanguay2955]

@@whatdoyoumeanbro4964 i said nothing funny.

[@grrr3500]

The best comment here so far.

[@BorutRudl]

Your were never an incel in the first place.

[@shay-doran]

Rob - thank you for leading the way & being so honest in your videos. It's inspiring to me

[@grrr3500]

He is lying.

[@jeffmelchior8573]

With all due respect, going from video games to online poker wasn’t a positive flex. Video games aren’t the bad guy - addiction is.

[@cyberspek8996]

my height is not good for them im 5'2...its over for me since the beginning

[@truthhammer69]

So what exacrly makes you not an incel now?

[@Koroar]

He never was

[@iiCounted-op5jx]

@@Koroar 🗣🗣💯💯

[@Matthew_Scan]

You were never an incel , a real incel could never do that

[@jasperworld5343]

Well I’m already one step ahead of this video mate ❤😂

[@cwfqayin]

Nice video. All of these are true. Some of the incels or losers in general might have some mental illness. I, myself was just diagnosed with ADHD just recently in my late 30’s. Now I’m trying to get on a date with a girl fron Tinder. Yes, I’ve got scammed 2-3 times. I’ve got 2 matches previously that failed. I’m still awkward socially, but I’m still trying. It’s not over until you die.

[@thehermit761]

General society has mental illness, do you know how General society treats us?

[@PatronErdos]

So you where 5 feet 2, how did you grow out of the incel mindset,

[@logankue9627]

I'm 5'3 and not the best-looking guy, but I'm happily married with a family. To get out of the incel mindset requires major introspection and changing/doing things beyond trying to get women or sex. Like the guy said the incel state of mind is nothing but a cope.

[@antibotnia3904]

Be confident and go out. Problem solved 💪🏻

[@grrr3500]

If somebody has a problem with it he cant do this like this.

[@Zbomb96]

Just take a shower and get a haircut brooooo

[@grrr3500]

@@Zbomb96 minimum five showers a day

[@JustMalcolm914]

Plz hush

[@bro918]

Never get up

[@woqudo3608]

we all know why he didn't talk about the blue pill

[@TheMetalhead678]

I don't necessarily think you were an incel but I get the message you are conveying though.

[@studabakerb]

As a woman this is what healthy, well adjusted women want in a man. You are physically attractive but your personality and character are marriage material. Self awareness and accountability, paired with purposeful actions are the most attractive qualities in a man or woman. I pray this message reaches the men who need to hear it and women, so that they better understand the brutal plight of becoming a good man. I’m very proud of you and grateful that you made it through.❤️

[@tristan583]

lol 🧢

[@studabakerb]

It’s easier to criticize or hate and slander rather than become great.

[@truthhammer69]

Yeah, marriage material after you've been run through by primitive apes. No thank you.

[@Koroar]

The "brutal plight of becoming a good man" is determined before any of us are even born. Either win the genetic lottery or life is pointless, that's what being male is in the current society.

[@drobo01]

Women's words are useless.

[@aryyahuwilliams-me1mz]

i dont know why people call themselves by that word. it came from someone else. but people have adopted that word and labelled themselves by that which promotes bad health problems. and people based their self worth by not getting a girl. people need to stop calling themselves this. and notice i didnt even mention that word in my comment.

[@JohnnyWalkerBlack142]

Exactly

[@Zbomb96]

Our worth as a man is kinda placed on whether we can attract females or not, if you can’t then you’ve kinda failed at life sadly (I’m also in this boat)

[@LilyFlowers-hh3sc]

​​@@Zbomb96Can I ask how old you are,? If you're under 25 you should not be calling yourself that. If you're over that age then take up a hobby where you can go out and meet women. I go to Church every Sunday with my husband. People seem to meet there. I also go out dancing to a Goth club every Friday. People in goth clubs come in all shapes, sizes , career back grounds and many of them are artists who have autism. Renaissance Festivals are similar but it's harder to meet people at those festivals because they are so big and spread out. When you do go don't just talk to the most attractive girls. Those girls normally already have boyfriends and they're picker in general. Offer a girl a drink that looks lonely and shy. Someone that would probably appreciate you the most. Most importantly stop watching videos and touching yourself. It will destroy your body and mind to the point that you can't get off with a real person. Good luck. Oh and dance when you do go to clubs. People will be more likely to talk to you. Just don't dance all crazy and all over the place. Kinda dance in one spot and copy other people.

[@LilyFlowers-hh3sc]

@@Zbomb96 no it's not. When I met my husband he had not had anyone in 10 years. He kinda hit a dry spell. It happens especially after divorce. I'm 45 and I've never seen so many people upset over this stuff. And you better be under 22. Most of my friends didn't want to chance getting pregnant in highschool so they waited until they were done with that part of their life. I have put up stuff today that people like you should probably watch. There are two things up. It's me in a club surrounded by people in their 20s and only one kinda looks like a Chad. Get off your computer and go out.

[@jonathanv5171]

By your logic, women want to be without sex if they deny these men sex. It's not that they want to have sex but not with that particular person. A wish is not what one wants but what one's possibilities look like.

[@szzk7937]

You really have to listen to what guys are saying instead of trying to pretend you are the same as them. These guys have NEVER even formed basic relationships with ANYBODY. I dont think you really get it. This problem is a LOT worse then you realize. They essentially do not feel or act as human, the focus on sex is because thats what all young people focus on but you obviously have to realize that isnt really what its mostly about, its a part of it. It is essentially an issue with men that are not technically human or experienced human experiences, but as men are told otherwise as they are men and it cant be true due to history of oppression of women etc.

[@burimkllokoqi9265]

Red pill works for everyone, mate. Even for incels, I would argue, especially for incels. I agree that those that preach red pill on youtube did chase pussy at some point in their life but you have to look at redpill as an idea, not as individuals that push it. If you, as an incel, choose to consistently work on yourself, improve yourself physically, reach a financial stability than eventually girls will come to you on their own, you don't even need to have a special skill to acquire them, your successes will do that for you and than, in time and through experience, you will also improve your communication skills and everything else.

[@ericscandinavia3220]

Great video

[@Havoc3k]

Definitely one of the best videos I’ve ever seen around This Subject. Thank You😊

[@ganjarulez009]

The comments are hilarious

[@leo83628]

Congratulations on healing and doing better. Took guts to have a harsh conversation with yourself. I wish you the best

[@jeremyayala2947]

Son, what do you mean use to be incel? You still are son

[@thehermit761]

No he is not he had sex as a teen

[@obitouchiha6439]

BASED. Individual self accountability is the first step of the enlightenment.

[@Richest_Person_in_the_World]

Nope.

[@jonathanv5171]

You are and did not owe others anything either. If hardship is about a choice, when is something involuntary? Sounds like you have a hard time understanding psychology. If you want sex and a relationship, it is not a choice if you are without it. Not all people have similar conditions and opportunities, just because you have succeeded does not mean that other incels have succeeded. Mental illness is not a choice

[@4115steve]

Looks like Ali G learning everyone pickup art

[@robmulder]

I'd love to see Ali G doing some pickup.

[@4115steve]

@@robmulder lol

[@drummykriss]

They wanted to be like real PIMP's 😆

[@ethanr0x]

roflmao...you are a 6-7. You don't have women guaranteed at that range, but with minimal effort, you actually do.

[@Slaaverin]

I see many bitter men in the comment section. All those generalizations about what women want are complete bullshit. Some women go for the most physically attractive but for many that is not the case at all. His exemple with the couples on the street shows this. Most women would not care about looks (as long as the guy doesn't look like a homeless or something of course) as long as the personality is interesting. I think women simply want a full human with capacity to talk normally have conversations and that the person has some kind of interests in some topics. We need also to keep in mind that when some men get rejected it sometimes has nothing to do with them as persons, it's also because the woman is looking for someone who is a match to themselves. Even as a woman with 29374927 men available it is still hard to find someone that is compatible. But it's not because the man "is not right" he's just not right FOR HER. To meet the right person it often goes down to luck. But to provoke luck you need to get yourself out there and try (and fail sometimes). If a man is not confident and lack human skills I think the best thing he can do is simply to work on himself to just be a full person, and then go out there and go with trials and errors until they find their match. But becoming bitter and deciding to stay complacent in the hole you put yourself in and then blaming women for it is really the lowest of lows. Sometimes you need to make a little effort. No gender has it easier than the other, each person depending on their situation has their struggle. If you want you have a situation you don't like you have the capacity to change it. Anything is possible. But it must come from you.

[@lmao_tse_tung]

I don't think your place in the social hierarchy is important. What really matters is your place in the hierarchy of the yous you also could have been.

[@redtree732]

Dude this video is gold. Sub earned.

[@warriora7245]

very true, especially the “average guy” with girl. In Vegas, I see so many couples where I’m almost offended because I’m so much better looking than the guy but couldn’t think I could pull his girl

[@athenz7873]

Last year was my senior year of high school and i was so brainwashed by the whole redpill bs that was circulating online that I rejected a cute girl that approached me asking for for Instagram, solely because I was tricked into thinking “man I don’t need to waste time with this girl, she’s probably a hoe anyways and I’m an alpha sigma male so I should reject her”, and now after developing a better mindset on self improvement overall, it’s devastating knowing that I fell victim to the redpill mindset. Life moves forward though, and all I can do is learn to not be stingy and start giving these girls a chance 💪

[@Zbomb96]

A cute girl approached you? that’s very big of you now to consider giving them a chance with you chad, good job

[@grrr3500]

@@Zbomb96 He just wanted to brag, nothing new on the internet.

[@bro918]

Based sigma chad

[@thehermit761]

Red pill is about loving women

[@jonathanv5171]

If it's a choice why someone is afraid to approach women, why would someone choose it? If it's a matter of choice, why aren't they made to feel like they need sex right then? Feels like choice is more about what you think choice is about than respecting what other people think is a choice

[@keithgalesmusic]

Very proud and inspired

[@Richest_Person_in_the_World]

And today you're a White Knight

[@iiCounted-op5jx]

yep, exactly lol

[@roadtoempowerment3316]

seething Sub 5's mad at someone else's success, jfl

[@Will.Flavell]

Remember rejection isn’t the end of the world look at it as this what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger if she says no did it kill you no because your still standing strong take that as character building you took a shot your still standing that’s true courage there if you don’t make a move you will never know and another piece of advice live your life for you not for others you were not born to follow everyone else’s expectations you were born to lead your own and always stay positive 💪🏼🙏😊

[@thehermit761]

BS BS And more bs

[@Will.Flavell]

@@thehermit761 You are such a sad strange little man always angry always negative 🤦🏻‍♂️

[@thegobe]

Where is the necessity to be a man? Who is sponsoring people in such a way that it allows them to be at home playing games and smoking weed?

[@connorappleton1945]

Could you kickflip at least?

[@neptuneamaru5649]

You're actually handsome tho 😂

[@vanbeet5105]

Blackpill is so dumb, so glad i never fell down that rabbit hole 😂😂 Im an incel though

[@thehermit761]

Your not incel if you do not accept blackpill

[@iiCounted-op5jx]

how can you be an incel without being blackpilled tf? I can understand the other way around but what? 😭😭

[@vanbeet5105]

@iiCounted-op5jx I'm 26 and never been laid; doesn't that make me an incel?

[@AbhishekMishra-i9e]

​@@vanbeet5105 so you are just hiding away from the truth ? Lmao

[@alexandremistral9396]

Chad-teaching here. Again 😂

[@obesebird]

Stolen valor

[@ashaaib]

There is no change for your hair

[@davecopp9356]

Great video. Is there something one can motivate myself with to overcome the state in the comfort zone and go out and do something?

[@exnihilonihilfit6316]

No, there isn't. Stop looking for ANOTHER video, book, or whatnot. I've seen guys do that for 20 years and end up doing NOTHING of consequence. They just read and read and watch and watch and "motivate" themselves... and do nothing. You need to sit in a quiet place for a few days, with no electronics whatsoever, no books too, and contemplate your relentless bullshitting of yourself. You've been "motivating" yourself for years now, haven't you? Well, where did it get you? Look through your KZbin history. How much of the videos' content of the videos you watched just a few days ago do you remember? How much of it did you implement? How much more _effectively_ worthless, for you, content are you gonna watch? Practice the virtue of honesty. Honesty to yourself above all.

[@davecopp9356]

@@exnihilonihilfit6316 Thank you for taking the time. I belief you are right. I have watched self improvement and motivational videos for years and did no do much. Take care and thanks.

[@rmh032]

I find watching extreme videos motivates me. People who are super obese stuffing 10,000 calories a day into their bodies. People with extreme hoarding and untidy, dirty homes. If you watch enough of them you'll think 'I don't want to be like this'.

[@davecopp9356]

@@rmh032 Thanks.

[@MkNonsense66]

No incel has that jaw, I call cap

[@blackmirroxx]

It is tough but is possible

[@staceywoodson8203]

Thank you for not blaming women, or men. But for just trying to teach men, and people, to be people again. I hate to say this.... But this is the first "positive" incel video I've ever seen, as a woman.

[@grrr3500]

This video attacks men, convinces them that more and more can be demanded from them and that they should strive for the attention of the opposite sex, while women should be rewarded for their mere existence and choose the most clowning admirer.

[@grrr3500]

this video attacks men, convinces them that more and more can be demanded from them and that they should strive for the attention of the opposite sex, while wo should be rewarded for their mere existence and choose the most clowning admirer.

[@grrr3500]

I'm not at all surprised that you're impressed by telling men to try harder to the point of absurdity, while women are supposed to be rewarded for simply existing.

[@Nelex5000]

YOU WERE NOT INCEL LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOO

[@narberalgamma7854]

Good video, my brother is in these kind of situation full redpill video. We are both single and virgin (31 and 28 y/o) , he wants to get a relationship with a woman. However I don't really understand people like him wanting so actively a relationship. I enjoying my life as a single with learning languages and doing others activities, I wish your video could wake him up but I suppose he needs to get slapped by life.

[@LilyFlowers-hh3sc]

@@narberalgamma7854 yeah be hopeful but don't obsess. I hope y'all go to clubs and go dancing and stuff.

[@krishmogger125]

You are very good jaw just need hair and thick eyebrows

[@animeprofilepicture9639]

Just another incel coper

[@yelftea6920]

thank you

[@Lieutenantfollicle]

you are truecel rn wym

[@talesfromthebasement-oq9cg]

LtN-MtN truecels aren’t white with good jaws

[@massculini]

Just betabuxx bro

[@CestTenderness]

So how much money did you get?

[@finlanddoesnotexist92]

"If you could kick the person in the pants responsible for most of your trouble, you wouldn't sit for a month." - Theodore Roosevelt