Why Narcissists Don't Feel Bad For What They Do To You

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Mental Healness

Mental Healness

Күн бұрын

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@Babbie.d
@Babbie.d 3 күн бұрын
I don’t need a narcissist to feel guilty nor do I care. Just need them to know they’ll never try it with me again.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
Protect your peace
@ModelValeriaa
@ModelValeriaa 3 күн бұрын
If you don't care, then don't even watch narcissistic videos. People who don't care, wouldn't click on this type of videos lmfao.
@arizatheabstract
@arizatheabstract 2 күн бұрын
@@ModelValeriaa We watch them so we can learn more how to protect ourselves from these evils.
@ModelValeriaa
@ModelValeriaa 2 күн бұрын
@@arizatheabstract That's just an excuse. Cutting off contact and setting boundaries is the only way to go. There are a lot of people addicted to watching these videos thinking they're doing well, but they're still addicted to the topic because it makes them feel close to the narcissist, thus traumabonding.
@chininejacobson7608
@chininejacobson7608 3 күн бұрын
Don’t let them get away with it… Leave them. You gotta be tougher and Leave. When my Narcissist try to come back after gaslighting lying cheating . After 16 yrs… I changed the locks and haven’t spoke to him in 7 yrs . Yess he tried to come back to the Good supply but I did the HARD WORK!!! Victorious over the Narc
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
Have to stay safe
@teecee1678
@teecee1678 2 күн бұрын
Did you have children with him?
@luciaoneill2189
@luciaoneill2189 3 күн бұрын
They pretend have empathy and pretend and cry and throw tantrums but unchanged behaviour is real empathy..
@ginawillis4
@ginawillis4 3 күн бұрын
You're not victim blaming. You're telling us the TRUTH we NEED TO HEAR. Thank you!!
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
You’re welcome
@haneefahmuhammad3447
@haneefahmuhammad3447 3 күн бұрын
Yes, sir...love is not pain, nor is it confusing and draining.
@hanifahal-amin3583
@hanifahal-amin3583 3 күн бұрын
Exactly!!!
@heatherjeanjacques3938
@heatherjeanjacques3938 3 күн бұрын
He caused me so much mental, emotional,and physical pain, that i finally realized thr pain of getting over him would probably hurt less. And its been over 2 years no contact on my part. He stalks me and still has emails go to my spam. Showed up at my job, and so so much more, but i still give him nothing. Not one one word.
@Annie-ol3jx
@Annie-ol3jx 3 күн бұрын
@@heatherjeanjacques3938 I appreciate this comment! We are so much stronger than we thought we were. It's been 6 going on 7 years of no contact for me. Keep pushing, I'm proud of you!!
@WhitemenaresoSexy
@WhitemenaresoSexy 3 күн бұрын
Good! Don't give him a minute's chance
@christineevans1486
@christineevans1486 2 күн бұрын
@heatherjeanjacques3938 Same here. 2 years and he's still financially and psychologically abusing me. Even with a final restraining order
@silverlakegirl9078
@silverlakegirl9078 3 күн бұрын
The only thing better than telling the truth is listening to it. Much respect, Lee. 👏👏👏
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
I appreciate it
@sherimascote7495
@sherimascote7495 3 күн бұрын
Lee you speaking the truth. They can't change.
@KayNKateTV
@KayNKateTV 3 күн бұрын
This reminds me of what my mother would say to my narcissistic father..”damn if I do, damn if I don’t” there truly is no making these people happy. If you leave they blame you, if you stay they still blame you. Just run and save yourself! 1yr NO CONTACT!💪🏾🌻
@knoxx1111
@knoxx1111 3 күн бұрын
Congrats on the hard work of no contact. ❤ I’m 1 year no contact as well. He still hasn’t given up tho. All I feel for him is disgust now. He literally makes me sick.
@KayNKateTV
@KayNKateTV 3 күн бұрын
@ stay strong💪🏾🤩 they play the long game. Stand firm.
@candyc6057
@candyc6057 3 күн бұрын
My ex use to say this to me yet when I left him alone he sent messages non stop and said a bunch of bs. He would say " you always trying to make me out to be a bad person" like be forreal. Love dosent hurt and it damn sure dosent steal your peace away. Thank you for this
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
you’re welcome
@PriscillaPagan-od1hi
@PriscillaPagan-od1hi 3 күн бұрын
Exactly 🔥 the behaviors mean everything
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
🎯
@Annie-ol3jx
@Annie-ol3jx 3 күн бұрын
Narcissist put their conscience to sleep a long time ago. They really are unbothered and have no empathy for those they hurt. They have no remorse either. Now if you were to attack and do what they have done to many, oh they feel that for sure. Thank God you got out, stay no contact and indifferent!!! And keep pushing right on into 2025❤❤❤❤❤
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
❤️
@tranquility9325
@tranquility9325 3 күн бұрын
The one I last knew caused his ex wife to end herself. He DOESN'T CARE.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
😩
@nicholecornes1915
@nicholecornes1915 3 күн бұрын
It was soo painful but i never went back
@hanifahal-amin3583
@hanifahal-amin3583 3 күн бұрын
This is pain....this is trauma. Exactly!!! Yes, Sir 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@reallue
@reallue 3 күн бұрын
I only wish I'd found this content 15yrs ago. It's been soo helpful in wrapping my head around everything tht was just never making any sense to me. Esp why she won't let me go, but won't do anything for me either. Well, now it finally just clicked w/ this video. Thank you, Lee
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
you’re welcome
@mollykayramstack6193
@mollykayramstack6193 3 күн бұрын
6:04 My ex narc never said that to me, never asked why I stayed. He ALWAYS claimed he was SOOOO good to me and I was just taking advantage of him etc... and I am a "mean" person. It was always poor me with him, turning everything around on me. Blaming me for every issue HE created. It was maddening!
@DanceChickaDee
@DanceChickaDee 3 күн бұрын
So true……….. mine would say “I’m not a bad person! I’m not a pos!” And I would respond….. “Says who?!?! Who is telling you you’re not a bad person?! Cause it’s not me?!”
@mollykayramstack6193
@mollykayramstack6193 3 күн бұрын
@DanceChickaDee Right!? They never make sense!! He once said Why am I in trouble? 🤯 Who said you're in trouble? It wasn't me. Completely bizarre behavior 24/7. It's literally like dating a child in a 58 year olds body!
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
‼️‼️
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
🫨🫨
@jackiecolbert3915
@jackiecolbert3915 3 күн бұрын
Lee thank you , I love the truth. You are helping so many people. We need tough love.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
You’re welcome
@anavb326
@anavb326 3 күн бұрын
I’m gonna need Lee to quote his videos in print. Cause some of these lines I need in front of my face every day!!!!
@annascorpio117
@annascorpio117 3 күн бұрын
Thank you it reached me
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
🙏
@stormi9951
@stormi9951 2 күн бұрын
Big FACTS why they get worse each time you take them back
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 күн бұрын
🙌🏾
@hermosotino
@hermosotino 3 күн бұрын
I guess most or all narcs don't understand the concept behind the meaning of the word "chance"...or to be given a chance. A chance is given to the narc with the MUTUAL understanding that there will be an expectation for a positive improvement in the narcs behavior that must be permanent.
@mollykayramstack6193
@mollykayramstack6193 3 күн бұрын
Yes, 💯 this! I'm guessing the understanding is not actually mutual, because they don't get it! We give them chance after chance for the perpetual and ever changing crap they pull - and stay with the hope it will stop, but it never does. I think it was after his 3rd or 4th rage that I made it exorbitantly clear that it needs to stop. That type of behavior and reactions are intolerable and I won't stand for it anymore moving forward. 3 weeks later, he did it again and I'm out. It's been 5 months and I'm still rebalancing from all of the anxiety and abuse. It's getting better, but damn! They sure do a number on us!! 😡
@sharikawillis4281
@sharikawillis4281 3 күн бұрын
I needed to hear this today
@DanceChickaDee
@DanceChickaDee 3 күн бұрын
5:48 YUP!!!!! Facts!!! Mine would say the say thing!!!!!😢 Glad I finally left
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
😮‍💨
@sandrasentimile8754
@sandrasentimile8754 3 күн бұрын
They feel like they have done anything wrong.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
🥴
@LakeishaMonique
@LakeishaMonique 2 күн бұрын
No they dont care at all that's the worst part. Knowing that they NEVER REALLY CARED and NEVER WILL.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 күн бұрын
💯
@gigicooper1759
@gigicooper1759 3 күн бұрын
Remember…knowledge is power and YOU are responsible for YOUR healing. This will take time, therapy and being brutally honest with yourself. Lee’s videos helped me understand who I was dealing with. “They” think completely differently from you! That is why it is a DSM-5 diagnosis. Get out and save yourself. As Lee has stated…”You do not need a diagnosis to leave.” It is super hard!!!! Choose Your Pain! You deserve peace.
@kimoywilliams4530
@kimoywilliams4530 3 күн бұрын
Your educating me so much
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
🙏
@silverlakegirl9078
@silverlakegirl9078 3 күн бұрын
Same here. He's better than all the others because they only speculate on what the narcissist is thinking. Lee tells us straight-up.
@sherricoffman
@sherricoffman 3 күн бұрын
ThankYou4Sharing!!! 💙 🕊 MuchLove
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
You’re welcome
@Notehead_notezart_tooManyNotes
@Notehead_notezart_tooManyNotes 3 күн бұрын
Lee after 5-6 minutes you went so DEEP- preach- truth- and I was impressed with what you said and I had to make this comment immediately and I haven’t even finished the video but each bar and feedback you state is truly appreciated and evolved advice on this topic and I just want you and your wife and fmaily and team to know all your team members and you help so many of us daily ❤
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
♥️
@Missybella92227
@Missybella92227 3 күн бұрын
Very true! When I would express to the ex covert how I felt about his cruel, disrespectful behavior all he’d say is “Then don’t deal with me” or “Stop coming around then” He never tried to change.
@Notehead_notezart_tooManyNotes
@Notehead_notezart_tooManyNotes 3 күн бұрын
Lee thank you for your adorable smile and insight and courage to tell the truth and also offer solutions, or spice it up with the hard facts where it’s needed to get us through ❤❤❤
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
♥️♥️
@kenyattawashington9928
@kenyattawashington9928 3 күн бұрын
I tried to get him to leave my house and he wouldn’t until he stole, manipulated, gaslighted, triangulated, and all of the above now he wants to abandon his own kids in which I don’t trust him with anyway
@EvaBentleyy
@EvaBentleyy 3 күн бұрын
Lee .... Please help me with this part .... My narcissistic ex and I were living together with our one year old daughter. he was still in a marriage (stating he was having a divorce) which I found out about a bit later... but I was already living with him. he began harshly discarding me, it became rough and physical, with harsh insults etc. he was even texting my mom trying to play the victim by saying "I tried to help her, I cannot do this anymore.. this is over." so ... I definitely had enough and decided to pack my things and physically leave the house. months after I left ... he made the statement (you actually left, you left.) I replied "you asked me to leave, what was I suppose to do ... stay??" he says (I know, but you actually took action on it) lol. why was he surprised that I left when we both agreed to end it, plus he asked me to leave?
@on-the-way
@on-the-way 3 күн бұрын
Your words exactly described what I have experienced the last 25 years
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
🙏🏽
@islabonita6304
@islabonita6304 3 күн бұрын
You know what Demon? I hate to be your flying monkey but you are always on point, and I appreciate that. Thanks buddy. This was a great reminder.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
Demon? lol.
@KayNKateTV
@KayNKateTV 3 күн бұрын
@@MentalHealnesslol I guess he was trying to spell your legal name lol
@tranquility9325
@tranquility9325 3 күн бұрын
Demonde
@Notehead_notezart_tooManyNotes
@Notehead_notezart_tooManyNotes 3 күн бұрын
Lee got them dance moves on the intro today🙌🫶🙆‍♀️ we love seeing that joy Lee💯😇 proud of your work and time and fun, with a hard topic. You got that balance in your delivery that you only have done this far 🎉
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
💯‼️
@deniserandall4397
@deniserandall4397 2 күн бұрын
Because they blame you for sticking around and for loving them. They don't trust you.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 күн бұрын
‼️
@TheDistancWithin
@TheDistancWithin 3 күн бұрын
Thank you Lee.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
Very welcome
@ladyjaz6817
@ladyjaz6817 3 күн бұрын
But when you do leave they act like their whole world is crumbling😮‍💨. Don’t fall for it, they’ll do whatever to get you back and have you in a whirlwind of bullshit 😵‍💫😵‍💫
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
😫🫨
@LolaAileenVanslette
@LolaAileenVanslette 15 сағат бұрын
That explains a lot. I told him I only wanted to know I mattered to him. I guess he just couldn't understand that.
@paulam9911
@paulam9911 2 күн бұрын
Really like your presentation, it brings it home. thank you for your work
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 күн бұрын
you’re welcome
@A_Natural_Goddess
@A_Natural_Goddess 3 күн бұрын
You have no idea how much I needed to see this video, with perfect timing. While driving to visit family this weekend, I checked the pet camera only to see my wife going down on another woman. I highly doubt there was any remorse for her actions and there will be no guilt on my end for leaving and choosing me. 2025 is going to be my year of healing for me. Thank you for your videos Lee, they've helped me for so long ❤
@Vanessa1983_
@Vanessa1983_ 3 күн бұрын
I have to say Lee, I’m thankful for your insight and so glad that you were able to change and that you’re happily married and able to be loved and give love. Im currently dealing with a narcissist and this was good to hear, it wasn’t harsh it was cold hard facts that need to be said. Thank you, appreciate your growth and honestly keep up the good work ✊🏾❤🙏🏾
@JA-nx9wb
@JA-nx9wb 3 күн бұрын
Preach! Thanks for the message ❤
@jemilayoutubegirlstar341
@jemilayoutubegirlstar341 2 күн бұрын
Lee, thank u so much for all ur video, ur help, time and input, u help a lot of people, for sure u help me alot and my two kids cos I was almost loosing my mind.
@cathyjennings5580
@cathyjennings5580 3 күн бұрын
Thanks Lee!!! U are always answering the many questions that have bothered me over the years of living with many people with your type of personality. Thanks so very much! Great job!!! I thought they were the crazy ones. & mentally & emotionally damaged at birth . The light grows 🔆brighter! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
You’re welcome
@francescamiller4340
@francescamiller4340 3 күн бұрын
The Key Words Are Never take them back before making a change periodt........😒
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
😢
@IamSoRhonda
@IamSoRhonda 3 күн бұрын
The crazy part is if you try to leave they won't let you and then blame you for staying....lmao
@Babagirls
@Babagirls 3 күн бұрын
This is one of my favorite vids from you, Lee.
@ModelValeriaa
@ModelValeriaa 3 күн бұрын
Can you do a video about the narc who smears behind your back that you stalk him? I've heard a lot of people saying this and I dealt with this yesterday too. I would talk to him on the phone, he would say he would go to the shower and if I would call him in 5 minutes, I called him and he screened that I just called him and smeared to others that I was stalking him? He met up with me, then came late, he asked me if he was late I should call him, I called him and now he tells everyone I'm stalking him. I screened to the friends what he asked me, now he doesn't reach out anymore to me yet tells everyone that I stalked him while we had contact because we both wanted to. Now I feel like a stalker and I feel humiliated, he doesn't reach out and it's just weird. If you can make a video about this I would really appreciate because this dynamic is weird from other smearcampaigns or other narcissistic dynamics.
@Analist_altijd_elegance
@Analist_altijd_elegance 3 күн бұрын
Dealing with the same thing, no one has any content on this so far
@Analist_altijd_elegance
@Analist_altijd_elegance 3 күн бұрын
Maybe Lee doesn't know this one either
@paulettelamontagne6992
@paulettelamontagne6992 3 күн бұрын
The Narcissist in my life is my spoiled rotten meme 35 year old daughter I can't imagine being in a romantic relationship with somebody like that
@JenMS7
@JenMS7 3 күн бұрын
Who spoiled her?
@KKP20111
@KKP20111 2 күн бұрын
A wake up call for the ones who are still 'sleeping'. 💯
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 күн бұрын
💯💯
@Wanderweeds2024
@Wanderweeds2024 3 күн бұрын
“SHE” had so much control over me. It took 10years for me to realize she was not a friend of mine.
@user-sx9hq7qwert
@user-sx9hq7qwert 3 күн бұрын
Sth we get wrong about boundaries: it's not about THEIR behavior, it's about OURS. "If u do this, then I will do that." "If u start talking about this, then I will not say anything about it." It's hard 2 do this right, esp. when we r learning 2 do it. We need 2 give ourselves grace if we mess up, n we need to b relentlessly consistent. In many ways, most of them r lifelong toddlers n that's how we need 2 deal w/ them: as toddlers. It's exhausting.
@lexionis3901
@lexionis3901 3 күн бұрын
Question: Don't narcissists need love as well, since they're people? The hope that they could change for the better and need love as hurt people is what keeps empathetic victims stuck in these relationships. The alternative would be to just demonize them and ignore them, and leave them - but they know this induces guilt in the empath and is clearly wrong and forces the empath to come back, but once they come back out of their empathy, the toxic person continues in their toxic behaviour. Vicious cycle.
@Annie-ol3jx
@Annie-ol3jx 3 күн бұрын
@lexionis3901 this is why ACCEPTANCE is so important. Accept that only God can help the narcissist. Accept that you have to become indifferent, Accept that narcissist don't know what to do with love. They can't feel it or give it!
@deborahyarborough1080
@deborahyarborough1080 3 күн бұрын
But if you don’t stay with them? Do they know it’s them?
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
They tend to blame you
@heatherjeanjacques3938
@heatherjeanjacques3938 3 күн бұрын
Nope
@Analist_altijd_elegance
@Analist_altijd_elegance 3 күн бұрын
Can you maybe do a video about victims craving a hoover? Not because they want to get back into contact with the narcissist, but as some type of vengeance and justice to have the narcissist hoover them, desiring them and the victim being better and declining it? It makes me feel undesired that he doesn't hoover, it's like I think about him sometimes and he doesn't even think of me, doesn't even desire me back, I just want him to desire me back and not having contact with him anymore. I get that it's sometimes frustrating for victims who the narcissist can't leave alone, I get that but there is also some type of pain in the narcissist who doesn't even try to hoover or come back, it translates in them don't desire you anymore or don't find you anything anymore worth to be with.
@thebirima91
@thebirima91 3 күн бұрын
Don’t give him the power over your desire. The hoover doesn’t have any meaning anyway. As difficult it is, indifference is the only way to go.
@Analist_altijd_elegance
@Analist_altijd_elegance 3 күн бұрын
@@thebirima91 Indifference is hard when you still care to get a hoover, it's not a switch you can put on. That's why I wondered if he could make a video about the victim not feeling desired due lack of a hoover, maybe a video so I can switch the perspective and don't give in to desiring this.
@ModelValeriaa
@ModelValeriaa 3 күн бұрын
Kudos to you for admitting this. People craving a hoover sounds taboo, which is weird to me. A lot of people feel undesired after narcissistic abuse, you want to feel like the narcissist can't get over you, it's very legit this desire. I hope a video on this comes
@thebirima91
@thebirima91 3 күн бұрын
@ when u really allow grieving it will slowly get better. At least that is my experience. Any hope even for a Hoover leads to more pain. I feel u because I am going through the same process. Be strong and you’re not alone.
@Analist_altijd_elegance
@Analist_altijd_elegance 2 күн бұрын
@@thebirima91 Thank you! At first I was doing great but unconsciously after years I still hoped for a hoover and I think a lot of victims do so, that's why they want to post every shining picture of theirs. But after years when it doesn't come, it can be triggering. I hope the taboo around this topic resolves
@neganwalker8425
@neganwalker8425 3 күн бұрын
NARCS BE LIKE - DID I DO THAT
@Shut-up-Shelly
@Shut-up-Shelly 3 күн бұрын
Yeah but when you wont forgive them they guilt trip you with you are horrible for not forgiving them. So they actually pressure you to let them stay!
@traceydean2803
@traceydean2803 3 күн бұрын
That smile and title on the thumbnail is wild Lee 😂😂
@nopereradicator
@nopereradicator 3 күн бұрын
But they won’t let you leave. 😩
@nopereradicator
@nopereradicator 3 күн бұрын
That’s the mentality. We’re married. You can’t be free. Ever.
@Annie-ol3jx
@Annie-ol3jx 3 күн бұрын
@nopereradicator I walked away from my marriage almost 7 years ago and still no contact today!! Priceless
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
😩
@One-x2x8o
@One-x2x8o 3 күн бұрын
I'm loving the way they flock to the drama like llamas lmao but they ain't full of sh** they are the person who is a loserrrrr 😂
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
😅😂
@Damoose39
@Damoose39 3 күн бұрын
My narc siblings have one phrase I swear they live by. I’ve had them con me multiple times and I’ve watched them do it to others. If I screw you over and your too dumb too know, than that’s ur fault
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
😢
@shaktievans7478
@shaktievans7478 3 күн бұрын
To avoid accountability he refers to life as rolling experiencess just happening. Its not that deep. No need to feel bad then. Right?
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
😩
@chivonfortney1656
@chivonfortney1656 3 күн бұрын
And do ya know what heart pain and heck this does to the other spouse and the children that are involved??!! It's so scarring.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
💯🙌🏾
@bekind7288
@bekind7288 3 күн бұрын
It irks me with the political correctness that says "you can't diagnose, only professionals can" I say bullsh*t. God gave us a brain, logic and discernment for a friggin' reason. If the shoe fits.... And "professionals" get it wrong...many narcissists are misdiagnosed. Bipolar, add, depression. There is no pill to help with this disorder. I wish there were.
@Analist_altijd_elegance
@Analist_altijd_elegance 3 күн бұрын
I fully agree. Whenever I view a narcissist, people come here with this ''i'm sick of people throwing the narcissist label'', meanwhile you are actually seeing narcissists. Then they ask if you are a professional, but professionals don't even diagnose narcissist because they lack experience, they only read things out of books. It's maddening.
@whitneyparker5168
@whitneyparker5168 Күн бұрын
Lee my ex narc is still on his bullshit it’s awful. Yesterday my son called him and asked him if he got him anything for Christmas this muthafucka said “yea me I’m the gift” 😂😂😂😂😂😂 to a 7 year old my son was disgusted i literally can’t
@kelseypavestheway
@kelseypavestheway 2 күн бұрын
Hes a predator. He SAed me by recording me without my consent. He's probably recorded multiple women and screenshots fat people he sees on tiktok for his corn addiction. I see that now. I should of had him arrested
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness Күн бұрын
😢😢 omg
@kellyanne4207
@kellyanne4207 17 сағат бұрын
They don't feel bad bc they feel the persin they hurt deserves to be treated badly.
@TRUTHSPEAKER-888
@TRUTHSPEAKER-888 3 күн бұрын
FACTS💯
@mikewatmough1312
@mikewatmough1312 3 күн бұрын
9:09 right make sure your boundaries are stronger than that one submersible made out of carbon fiber 😂 too soon? Ill get on the bus.
@JohnSzwed327
@JohnSzwed327 3 күн бұрын
I gave and gave. Was used and abused. One day I went supernova on her. I hit a wall. She pushed every button. She knew. I sent a simply text message. I was done. Walked away. It’s been 15 months and will never ever go back.
@nicholecornes1915
@nicholecornes1915 3 күн бұрын
Good Godv😂 thats bad! But when they harrss you after the break up then you know
@danovangrinnell4479
@danovangrinnell4479 3 күн бұрын
N when u do leave they go bonkers.🤔😃😁
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
Sometimes.
@marilynmonheaux
@marilynmonheaux 2 күн бұрын
You can raise your cognitive empathy but emotional empathy is a personality trait you’re born with. Either you’re compassionate or you’re not.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 күн бұрын
🙌🏾
@samonecharisma3043
@samonecharisma3043 2 күн бұрын
Lee turned up tonight! He fed up! I Changed my # recently to make finalize deal, can’t contact me period! 2025 free from that demon man
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 күн бұрын
💪🏽💪🏽
@ArielAla-kf4qd
@ArielAla-kf4qd Күн бұрын
My experience with a narcissist was annoying. He tried to do everything to hurt me like he imagined I hurt him 😂😂😂. I’m just not emotionally capable of caring about someone who does everything with such malice. They show you very early on they are insecure black souls.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness Күн бұрын
🤭
@dalitaba
@dalitaba 3 күн бұрын
I have a Random question, where did you get your tube sock? I’ve been looking for one like that one. The ones I find don’t fit properly.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
it's a head band
@nicholecornes1915
@nicholecornes1915 3 күн бұрын
I like you in bright blue
@trudyshepherdyah2830
@trudyshepherdyah2830 3 күн бұрын
It's demonic Lee.
@nicholecornes1915
@nicholecornes1915 3 күн бұрын
Yes the fuck it is
@kayesmith2518
@kayesmith2518 2 күн бұрын
He doesn't have remorse or mayb he does now only bc he's sitting in jail bc he of course wants to b out. I'm sure he hates me but its his actions that got him there
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 күн бұрын
😢😢
@dreamtimelotus7894
@dreamtimelotus7894 3 күн бұрын
All the lies today another one I heard omg. I feel nothing anymore when he tells me. I just feel like right again you fucked up the relationship with lies. But I left. I stopped justifieing. still traumabonded but whatever
@rebekahhawkins1318
@rebekahhawkins1318 2 күн бұрын
So how o you know it’s the revers or just them being th normal ass. I tried to leave an got pt several times then got the Hoover /9 if they didn’t want me why Hoover? Once I reuse the shirt lived “good” I get for good. An got the rage machine. I got hooves but said HELL NO. It’s it changing and you can’t even say sorry yeah I WAS AN ASS AND I AM AN ASS.. so it proved the ghosting was still going to be the relationship I was going to be in. I did not matter The hope I lived on was a delusion I erased EVER PICTURE ERASED EVERY MESSAGE THREW AWAY EVERY NOTE LET GIFT SHIRT BROOM … nothing happened in a relationship way since July 1 2019… You cannot live life on hope and dreams… you only pull yourself through more glass shards and heart break. LEAVE THEM! Leave them and remove all things that remind you of that time! Don’t dwell on a fake love Don’t want a fake love Don’t wait on short short short moments of less pain. It’s never a good day it’s just les pain you are given BE DIRECT AND MAKE THESE PEOPLE WAKE UP! You are dreaming of a relationship that was a dream to start. How much emotional neglect will you take! !? How much emotionally neglectful fake person will you take? You can and will find someone that Does want you and WILL treat you like a person. Narcs do not want relationships they want a pet they can play with when they want… don’t be the pet or THEIR PET
@Donyellesmile
@Donyellesmile 3 күн бұрын
Do they feel bad for themselves when karma hits them?
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
It depends
@ginawillis4
@ginawillis4 3 күн бұрын
@Donyellesmile Ha! They will NEVER admit that it was Karma or that she exists. They'll just chalk it up to "bad luck" aka "poor me.....this stuff always happens....". Yep, it's called Karma, bit**, and you ARE on her dance card. Enjoy the tango. 😁💃
@mercedeswalker7819
@mercedeswalker7819 3 күн бұрын
Nope my mom still after 30 years is still the same they wax worse and worse!
@poekykayla4814
@poekykayla4814 3 күн бұрын
Question does the narcist even have remorse for the things she did and miss you? Some empathy ? Because according to her it is my fault for the things she did and she is mad at me for saying she is a skank. That is the only thing I said to her.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
a lot of them don't
@marilynmonheaux
@marilynmonheaux 2 күн бұрын
No. You aren’t missed and they are not sorry.
@nicholecornes1915
@nicholecornes1915 3 күн бұрын
Nope im half way though this divorce
@orahcgrant
@orahcgrant Күн бұрын
Brilliant my God maybe I am a narcissist honey pot I don't know I want to lov for real it is a scam isn't - does real love exist? I don't know anymore - the narc ruined me much more than even he wanted to - I am lost but healing
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness Күн бұрын
🙏🏽
@orahcgrant
@orahcgrant Күн бұрын
WOW this really helps I miss the bastard why uff I don't know but I am not going back EVER! So I left held held on on white knuckels but I did not go back - now he wants meso much WHY? Bc too late not possible thank you GOD!
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness Күн бұрын
🙌🏾🙏🏾
@brandnewday-nov2024
@brandnewday-nov2024 2 күн бұрын
Good Lord.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 күн бұрын
💯
@unlikerjm
@unlikerjm Күн бұрын
Love the videos. Would just love if it was more relaxed spoken
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness Күн бұрын
😊
@michellem7290
@michellem7290 3 күн бұрын
❤❤❤
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
♥️
@trudyshepherdyah2830
@trudyshepherdyah2830 3 күн бұрын
Well, it's OK, Lee. The Most High said, some of you are born unto the devil. He'll for sure. 😮😮😮
@jokettedj
@jokettedj 3 күн бұрын
You even look like my ex, triggering lmao 😅
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
😶🤫😢
@yemedemure414
@yemedemure414 3 күн бұрын
Narcs are a big barrel of confusion and no mental stability!! Ruuuuuun Forest ruuuuuuuuun!! He discarded me for talking to a coworker while he was on the phone who asked me a question. He discarded me for the last time because I told him the truth about himself. I was fed up and let him have it! 🫢🤸🏽‍♂️
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 күн бұрын
🙌🏾
@KKP20111
@KKP20111 2 күн бұрын
🔥🔥🔥💯
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 күн бұрын
🔥🔥
@PriscillaPagan-od1hi
@PriscillaPagan-od1hi 3 күн бұрын
Ayee ayee lol 🔥
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 3 күн бұрын
Aye
@almag0410
@almag0410 2 күн бұрын
❤🎉
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 күн бұрын
♥️
@brandnewday-nov2024
@brandnewday-nov2024 12 сағат бұрын
🤔😚👌🙃😜😌
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