Middle Class And Bimaar Rishtedaar | An Interesting Take

[@priyag1901]

Really practical life content. Thank you sir for speaking on this. In India, we have made it all about" how we look" instead of really being helpful.

[@shirleybose1798]

Your topics are excellent, Sir. There's one more point I'd like to bring into focus. When people come to visit a sick person they also expect to be entertained. So you have to give them tea, coffee and snacks. Someone would think they've come to party with the sick person and relatives. And then they will sit for a minimum of one hour without any concern for the people they are visiting.

[@neelammongia8718]

@@shirleybose1798 I u i nii

[@green.frugal.minimalist1316]

In 2020, my mother had an serious accident. Doctors even had no hope. Being the only child, I have to take care of everything. I literary asked, actually begged help from everyone. Nobody come. They not even called me after first call as they realised I need their actual help. Log darte hai sachmuch ke help karne se, sabko bas hazri/attendance lagani hai.

[@mousonasarkar1037]

Yes I too have gone through this kind of difficulties...

[@vaishalikaradkar1940]

Sir I am a doctor. Thank you for bringing out this topic. No one thinks about post operative infection. Patient's relatives do disturb us. On the other hand, if we have a patient at home, then all relatives come home without informing and we have to pay attention to them.

[@anuradhamakhe2402]

I am a doctor and teacher for hospital administration as well. You mentioned about additional load on hospital resources because of visitors of patients, this is hardly discussed or acknowledged by anyone. In fact planning budget can be utilised for more patient centric services if this additional load is not there. Upar se waste management department struggling with disposal of empty coconut shells of nariyal pani bought for patients by visitors. Thank you for everything that you have discussed till now.... Keep up the good work....i am a fan and binge watcher of your videos.

[@temporayaccoun]

Patient relatives are actually your potential Customers, show your hospital neat and clean and if possible try to keep the respect for them But do not let them disturb or interrupt the patient treatment done under your guidance or by you. Instruction board is a must thing to have for the people to read with especially written ‘please keep the hospital neat and clean or keep silence’ are must to mention.

[@sg_j1547]

Good topic. One of my mamiji was diagnosed with cancer, the moment doctor announced her reports, my mamaji started calling all the relatives and even business friends and informed them tht his wife has cancer, mamiji was in shock and was crying her heart out but mamaji was more busy in personally informing friends and family. I found it really awakard and intervened and questioned mamaji why is he peeting dhindhora 🧐 his answer left me speechless. He said "aacha nahi lagta batana padta hai, fir lagega lo cancer tha bataya bhi nhi " . And now his expectation was sabko aana chahiye milne. My cousin mama couldn't travel to our city and visit hospital and mamaji was like "guddu aa nhi sakta tha kya " 😎 So sirji it's a web and it works like, discharge ho jaye hospital se usse pehle chale chalo aacha nahi lagega late ho gaye toh.kyuki agar hospital nhi aaye and 7 days baad ghar milne gaye toh patient and immediate caretakers comment karenge "yeh toh 7 din hospital he admit thi, Tu aayi nhi? " Fir aab kya bologe aap 😜

[@vinitasinha9780]

Sir, I am a doctor, I am very pleased with you to take up this topic, hardly any one talks about this. ..really ye attendants are hardly of any help to the patients .😁😁

[@rashmidandriyal9035]

Sir i m a doctor and this relative problem is truly irritating. Relatives came to waste our time in interrogation there will be 4-5 relatives with a patient... They will hamper even our rounds.. As you rightly said whenever we ask them to donate blood for patient they will hardly be any relative seen.

[@Sanjaykumar-qg7gk]

👌🏻 बिल्कुल सही। यही होना चाहिए और मै इससे पूर्णतः सहमत हूं। मै ऐसा करता भी हूं।

[@navabora9489]

क्या कहे सर जी, हमारे यहां तो हाजिरी लगाने के बहाने लोग चाय की चुस्की लेने आते हैं। सारा गांव घुसा चला आता हैं!

[@krishnakumarsinha2000]

A very good and important topic indeed.your tips for probable helps are perfect .

[@jaya7117]

काश की सब ये बात समझ पाते😔 whatever you said is 100%correct 🙏

[@DrAshishMittal]

Thanks Mr Sangwan again for excellent video. People can send this video to their relatives whenever they have medical emergency. Dr Mittal

[@corinneteron9637]

Genuine and practical..... mantras to live by.......excellent advice

[@parthamp4751]

Excellent practical points. The strain and stress of receiving and talking to visitors and relatives when your loved one is admitted itself is too much.

[@alameludevanathan7399]

Totally true sir. The attendance recording part is most difficult thing to handle. Even if we say something, then the people who come for visit will take it ill and get angry. People done understand that we can update the health status through technology. Another problem is this sir. Each one would start asking the detail. It is already mentally tiring for the person who attends. Why not contact the person who has got the info etc and be updates. People want updates Indidually also. It was what I faced, pretty tiring and exhausting. Really nice you touched this topic.

[@seemachopra9768]

Good thought s.. Yeh change hona jaroori hai aajkal

[@amarbali4951]

Very nice explained Sir .

[@drakdebhowmick5524]

I truly appreciate your attitude and rational thinking. I am a Gynaecologist and I am very strict regarding visitors both in the hospital and home. I wish you great success in your endeavour to educate the general public

[@abs7702]

Good..visitors other than 2 family members on a daily basis have to be charged 1000 rupees then this nonsense will stop automatically..

[@poojapatharkar1]

Wonderful.... hopefully earlier generation understands and take it in positive way

[@ishansingh4791]

bahut sahi practical baat

[@divyasharma1054]

Absolutely agree to these thoughts. Middle class is so stuck in making their presence felt, they actually have forgotten the idea of help. They have become burden on the suffering family rather than being a support. It very difficult to explain to them especially from our parent's generation. They do not understand, they are still living in social pressure. Hope these things change soon.

[@annigerisunanda5048]

Sir it is not only in the hospital, even when we have elderly sick people at home, just to prove they share a very close connect with the sick, people visit them quiet often. Actually the daughter in law/ daughter taking care of the sick is over burdened with attending to the guests also. Even if they are told on a subtle way they are very insensitive.

[@rajankoli5380]

Sahi topic uthaya apne, please aese topic or laeye

[@kiransharma7848]

Excellent! We all need to hear and practice these practical tips.

[@pritinagpal8931]

Sir .. zindagi ki sateek baatein..bahut dua kamaoge or kama rahe ho .. God bless much light

[@vandana2705]

Well articulated sir Society should looks towards practical approach rather than dikhava/hazari system

[@shraddhajoshi1535]

Very true, when my father was in hospital relatives came only to visit and did nothing. Their attendance and calls didn't help in any way.

[@bindunair4773]

Amit ji....Good morning!!!!....i like the way you make your videos....it is informative... practical and quite innovative.....you speak on all the topics that' was never addressed by anyone...it's unique and very much required in our society....love your geneuinity and honest no frills attached delivery of information.....we need more people like you to change the mindset of people

[@shahidmehmood8302]

Great practical thought.

[@abharazdan8082]

यह सच है लोग मदद नहीं करते केवल झूठी हाज़िरी लगाते हैं ।

[@ajaykumar-banker]

Practical and very useful tips for helping sick near & dear ones. Shun visit for attendance sake and instead focus on solving real problems of the affected family like: drop & pick up of children from school, arranging food, transport for family...A novel take.Wonderful.

[@babitagaur4768]

Acha idea ha ...ab es tarah s hi chalage..

[@moraddhwajvarma9957]

What you have done through this video is the real purpose of You Tube. Highly practical. Keep it up, Sir.

[@apurbanarah7277]

Finally somone addressed this very practical issue. Great work, sir and very lucidly explained. Hope this opens a lot of eyes to the truth.

[@parimalpurohit6805]

Absolutely correct ! fully agree with you sir ji !

[@allthatinformation]

Sir as a doctor, I would like to say ki aapne yeh bohot hi Badiya baat Kari…Attendance ke chakkar mein single patient room mein 10-12 log Bhare hue Milte hai guard ko dhamki ya paisa ka Jorr dikhake…Random bande apse “case discuss” karna chahte hai, koi input nahi bad tor dikhani hai. Most of the times I’ve seen na toh patient khush hai aur na uske attendants inn visits se. Sab social pressure hai. Meri mother ko ek rat ko emergency observation mein admit rehna pada..rishtedaro ko pata Chala toh agle din subhe se Shaam tak koi 25 bando ko chaye paani pilana pada humein…aur koi input nahi bas faltu ki lip service. Mere kisi rishtedaar ya friend ke saath aisa kuch hota hai toh , main WhatsApp ya SMS message likhta hun….ki jab time mile toh reply Karle agla Banda…yeh race thodi hai ki Maine tujhe sabse pehle get well soon bola, ya sabse last nahi. Aur agar itna concern hai toh chai paani ek thermos mein banake lechalo dookhi bande ke ghar..hosake toh lunch/dinner bhi pack Karlo uske liye

[@meenachauhan1389]

I'm health personal.....u r saying correct... people should know this....thank u for making vedio on this valuable topic... especially today s environment...🙏🙏

[@onlinemahendra1]

Bhaisahab Namaste, very nice intervention in the thought process of society. You are doing great for making our society happy and content. Also gving confidence to people with this thought process.

[@JaiHind_SamruddhaBharat]

Well said sir , purane jamane main 45 days tak pregnant women used to stay in a separate room and no one was allowed to meet the mother and child . many village homes still have a separate room reserved for all just delivered mothers and their new borns which are warm a bit dark and somewhat more silent and cosy .even for naming ceremony only women were invited. Men were kept away and were not needed and it was only a small function at home as d lady n baby were recovering .. Our ancerstors had infaact better unserstanding . Nowadays people are interestsd in clicking selfies with baby n posting on social media .🤣

[@shashipatil6522]

Very practical suggestions helpful to the suffering famity

[@Rush2KPK]

Dil ko chhu gaya ye video. Maine hospital life bahot dekhi hai..mere papa jab hospitalized thhe..ek rishtedaar raat me waha soney ko ready nai tha, tab pata chalta hai kaun kya hai..sab k asli chehre pata chalte hai. Such experiences teach you so much.

[@abhijazzsharma]

Bahut badhiya Sango ji.....i luv the way you present things.

[@manibatta8242]

Very good n practical

[@AmrikSingh-tm2lt]

Very practical good advise

[@SparklingHenna]

Jitni bhi tareef karoon Kam hai A different approach Really liked 👍

[@kavita9249]

बिल्कुल , सही कह रहे हैं आप ऐसे ही सोच रखनी चाहिए और करना भी ऐसा ही चाहिए , वरना अपने घर बैठे चुपचाप, कोई दिखावा नहीं

[@shilpaihiremath]

Very correct advice. Thank you Sir

[@amitchandra2965]

Really appreciate your thought process. Very Practical and sensible

[@manishsachdev9378]

Sangwan ji . I am highly impressed by your presentations because all of us know this, but coming forward with these issues and discussing it on platform like KZbin makes sense.Our society definitely needs some reforms and your practical tips are definitely creating awareness. P.S. I am a doctor having my own nursing home.Dealing with relatives of the patients has become really tough now a days

[@ParamjitKaur-xn6wr]

My friend’s husband died in another city. Her whole family was there. I told her I will come when there is no one with her and she needs to sort out things after his death. She and her whole family appreciated my approach. I am like that with everyone and now I am left with few true relatives and friends.

[@dharmendrakumardewan9055]

As a doctor I feel you hv touched on human psychology v well...deep rooted customs are slowly moving out of fashion....a topic worth consideration at your level is : trials n tribulations of a doctor due to unreasonable expectations from relatives n even distant ones...a serious issue in middle classes

[@SohamSamy]

Sahi kaha absolutely practical

[@swapnildahake1389]

Very nice message. I already followed some practice but you explained many good things .

[@ranbirnain6678]

Bahut sahi kahan aapne sir, it's true

[@JitendraKumar-ji8xq]

Great topic sir.

[@jaishreeramjaihanuman3433]

Very important topic u hv covered..thanks for speaking

[@manisha5207]

Aapko sunkr hi life easy lgne lg gai h ... thought process change ho gya h ....actually life itni bhi complicated nhi h jitna hum soch soch k bna lete h....

[@AnilKumar-qm4yv]

Real humanitarian way.🙏🤝🤝🤝

[@Sakshi-fu9zi]

Very Well Decoded and Explained 👍

[@a.asharief]

Yes Yehi Sach Hai No one asks for the Real Help as you explained

[@ChandanKumar-hf3bm]

Wow. Finally someone said it. Ye hazri wala tamasha band hona chahiye.

[@hummingbird8103]

Absolutely agree with each and every point!

[@arvindkaul3747]

Sir I have been listening to you since the beginning of your channel , though it was for the real estate knowledge , however sir u have never stopped amazing me with your understanding and knowledge about life , you are like a modern day krishna giving us much more tangible gyan - I am doctor too and can't agree more with thiis - this dikhawa should stop - God bless you sir

[@kulbirsingh1080]

Sir your topic is a genuine social issue which our indian society needs to be aware of this . Thanks for a great article this time .

[@rishabhsehgal537]

Beautifully explained it’s true sir .

[@AnshuSingh-wk7pf]

Eye opener

[@ratnakorpe9763]

Big P 👍Really must implement.

[@sunandaparmeshwar489]

The practical suggestions were really good. This is the way it should be. 👍 Practical issues addressed by you are great. Look forward to more such topics.

[@gamern083]

It's so true ......but no one think like this....... impressive video

[@gurvinderjeetsingh7735]

Main sochta tha ki main duniya se alag hoon. Lekin aaj pata Chala ki main practical hoon aur ek normal insan hoon.

[@sharadhabharat901]

बातेँ नहीं मदद करो केवल मुसीबतों में अपनों की और दूसरों की भी सदा 😮😮😮😮😮😮😮

[@jaishreeramjaihanuman3433]

During my first delivery I was in my in-laws house , all the ladies, relatives came and I had to sit all the time to greet them. I could nt rest or sleep. Also I had to wear sari and do pallu to meet them..there was no rest atall..my back would ache all day and night, I had to stay awake at night bcz my baby would stay awake at night and I couldn't sleep at the day time as I am bahu and I should wake up early..during my second delivery, I was all alone and nobody came to see me. I was so happy bcz I could rest..my husband's male friends came to meet me at the hospital(hazari Wale). It was so awkward..bcz I didn't know what to talk with unknown men about delivery 😀

[@sudhatomar3244]

Right sir 👌 thank you sir 🙏🙏🙏

[@pawanpatel1198]

Sir we need more videos on such issues...this will increase real love n care instead of show formality

[@Moversandreaders]

True But no one oppose it just to show how caring and milansaar we are

[@jaishreeram9734]

Bilkul sahi kaha. Aese formalities bahut sir dard hoti hai. Thoda sehen karne wale ko bhi spasht wadi hona chahiye. Meri Mom ko cancer hua tha to maene apni sisters ko clear kaha tha ki ilaag lamba chalega to ek ek karke aana. Teeno ek saath nahin aana.

[@author4694]

Namaskar Sir🙏. I have seen almost all your videos within a month with your subscriber base rising rapidly from about 94K to 154K until today. I eagerly wait for a new video with a unique, still relatable topic. Thanks a lot for sharing your valuable thoughts on both of your channels. Huge respect for you.🙏

[@seemagambhir2940]

Death par video bansye

[@sreelathapendu]

Seriously very good content. I really liked it. Death, last rites, aur rishtedaar is par bhi video banayiyeega

[@x_man007]

Exactly sir i m against such useless visits but no one listens will forward your video now🙏😀

[@S.A.1]

Jai ho Sir! 💯 agree! You are the first one that thought about the immediate caregiver who gets stressed attending and entertaining these “checkmark” relatives.

[@devangkumar9188]

Agreed 👍I apply these helping tips. But nowadays people believe in Show off

[@chandu3142]

REAL PRACTICAL VIDEO

[@krishnabhat1606]

💯% I agree..and matches in toto with my own belief....and has undergone similar situations in life

[@NeelamGupta-er1po]

Bilkul agree on this sir... Actually yahi woh log hain jo samjhtey hain n inko hum sath mann saktey hain.. Ek category aur hai.. Jo thoda bolney se .. Inform karne se muh khol k.. They are 100% with us.. Unko khul k bolna chahiye help k liye

[@gillazad7650]

100% correct. Thank you sir

[@anjusingh5082]

Very relatable and much needed topic to address. I think mostly people and homes faces this issue... Haziri only

[@Deep99994]

Sir bahot acha bole ap

[@dipankarsaikia6419]

Ladies jyada krti hai Sir, unke waje se jene prte hai. Perfectly said, appreciate your choice of content 🙏.

[@alpnamittalclasses8361]

Ladies ko hi परेशानी होती है जब बीमार को देखने आते हैं और हर बार चाय पानी की व्यवस्था करनी parti हे

[@shashwatsomawar139]

@@alpnamittalclasses8361 sahin baat

[@reshmavadhvani4645]

You are right sir.koi nahi puchta khte hi koi help ki jarurat ho to batana.but bolte nahi bnta ki hum bole help kre.aapki sab video bahot acchi hi also reality.

[@swetamazumdar1778]

Bahut sahi kaash sablog ye samajh sakte

[@Ramandeep-t5y]

Sir, bilkul sahi soch hai aapki… main bhi ase hi sochti hun.. lekin kai baar agar aap ye soch k .. k unko pareshaani hogi rishtedaar ka pata karne nhi jaate to vo hi complaint karne lagte hain k sab aa gaye ye nhi aaye ek baar bhi poochne😮

[@parthadebbarma9143]

It's itself a kind of bimari Opened my mind

[@findoc2943]

100 percent true sir.. I am a doctor .. Many a times it becomes so much problem to other patients also when many relatives come... and also very to difficult to explain the same thing again to all relatives

[@abs7702]

Say the patient was infected due to external contact and charge more for tests this will stop automatically...BC!!

[@ritusaxena4498]

Very well explained sir,mazaa aa gaya,pls come up with more such topics

[@honeytrehan1987]

Yes banaye video

[@ritugaba2078]

Yes very nice topie.👌

[@sonaliagrawal5656]

बिलकुल सही बात sir मेरे घर वाले मेरे इसी thoughtprocess को लेकर मेरी family वाले मुझे बुरा कहते हैं 😅

[@shauryakavishorts]

So bad!!

[@vinita_twl]

Ekdum sach... 12 minute haazri is damn annoying!

[@shilpipani2949]

Most most practical things on KZbin channel 😁😁😁😁💯💯💯💕🙏💐

[@nileshsharma3104]

Thanks to your advice, I'm learning more and more every day.

[@manjularavishankarravishan2788]

Very beautifully said sir