I FOLLOWED GRAYSON - Autism Safety

[@cloking1088]

The way he kept falling and his inability to understand the danger is terrifying. I get you are try so hard to understand his route but you both could have been hurt so badly. This was way too much!

[@snuff2023]

She's speaking like he travels this alone. I seriously hope not...

[@Sunnysunshine208]

Oh my she is stupid

[@nancygalle1379]

Yoʻuneed þo say stopwhen he gets too high .

[@JustJaceyJ]

You could sew hidden pockets in his clothing for an apple tag

[@FrenchBulldog1]

Good call

[@KirstyM100]

Yes, good idea, just might need to be in something like pants as sense are heightened and things that are different like the weight of an airtag might cause him to rifle through and pull it out in a similar way he did with his bracelets.

[@phenixmccoy4387]

Thanks for sharing 😊

[@annetteprince9739]

Or his shoes. This what a policeman recommended to me

[@florpfleap7521]

That a súper idea

[@colleenpiechowski8511]

I love your tenacity in trying to understand your dear boy. What a good mother.

[@hairdresser1300]

perfectly stated

[@camarojai6832]

mind blown I would have never thought let’s follow him…but makes perfect sense. If he’s non-verbal let him tell you another way

[@apc8805]

Yea love of a wonderful mother ❤

[@kalyco6211]

I know it would be expensive, but have you thought of gating in your front yard and driveway? Would give you a second layer of protection if he got out the front door.

[@kat1368]

Does he not feel pain? I can’t believe he did that in shorts and no shoes. The service dog sounds perfect for him. Sending Tons of Prayers, Strength, Love, and Support ❤And never ever say you are a bad mom. You are a GREAT MOM ❤

[@cathypeluso8617]

All I can say is he has no fear n is very brave for a little boy that has autism. I give u so much credit momma ur wonderful with him. Best mom EVER!!!!!!!

[@ElizabethMartinez-mn9zo]

Yeah no pain

[@LauraKilgourBeninson]

Wow... so scary...

[@sharanthomsen4023]

Oh my goodness Mama... I was literally holding my breath most of video 😞 Grayson is certainly an adventurous child 💖

[@kristenrose1345]

SAME!!!!

[@janicedarmody6794]

Grayson has no fear- just having a good time 🙀

[@ambertoner2598]

Same !!!

[@donnasymoniak5280]

Me too, I was so scared for both!

[@lauradeleon6759]

I was scared to death watching him go up that

[@_Ms.L_]

Grayson is an adventurer/explorer! This was a brilliant idea to follow him to learn his route. You're doing good mama, you really are, so please give yourself some grace.

[@evadelgado7339]

Have you looked into ABA therapy for kids with elopement? My niece did the same thing and once she did the therapy and they taught her to not run away. It was a life saver for the whole family.

[@michellebrando]

my anxiety is through the roof watching this.

[@ruthlovelace1163]

Mines too

[@adriedrake8605]

Omg im a mother of 6 I would be freaking out

[@gene5148]

Oh gosh my tummy hurting

[@countrygirl1128]

He doesn't even look tired, he's like the energized bunny... so adorable

[@MsTitanic99]

A service dog is a fantastic idea! I think that would be a great help to you and your son in so many ways. 🐕‍🦺

[@angieignagni8639]

I’m so happy you found Grayson safe .. no one can understand what you go through with a child with autism.. terra you are a loving mother doing the best you can !! ❤

[@carrieanncancino5118]

The police found him because a neighbor called them. Ugh.

[@daisysummer514]

@@carrieanncancino5118 if you don’t have an autistic kid please keep your worthless opinions to yourself

[@RealLifeCrimeCases]

@@carrieanncancino5118exactly he was found safe thankfully doesn’t really matter by who

[@LindseyMazurek]

Ppl really don't know. Amen

[@tearalewis7532]

I can not imagine, as my son does not have autism and is overly cautious when he was young. But you have a heart of steel to do what you did in this video. I was about to have a heart attack for you!!! So glad everything is ok, and you at least learned from your painful adventure.

[@theblendedtruth1408]

As an autism MomA and prior therapist with special needs I find the dog is the best when it comes to runners they are trained to stop them.they pair with your child and usually a larger breed because of runners but are great!!!

[@jennifersutton3115]

I was nervous watching this video. I'm so glad you found your baby boy safe and sound 🙏

[@truehazeleyes]

I'm so happy Grayson is safe and back home. 🙏 Terra, please don't say those negative thoughts about yourself. You are an amazing mom. Situations happen unexpectedly at times. You have amazing neighbors. I'm so glad everyone stepped in to search for Grayson.

[@Peridot7744]

I was thinking the same thing she has so much patience, she's a good mom.

[@sophiemorrison9820]

Watching this absolutely scared the he'll out of me. Please don't do that again. I don't know what happened before this but I hope you find resolution for Grayson and you.

[@rebekahritchie9012]

He got away from her when she was unloading the car. She was looking for him with the neighbours for awhile 😢

[@palmyrapilato7256]

Watching him walk ahead of you and getting close to the edge. Good luck mamma. I'll be praying for you and Grayson and the rest of your beautiful family😊❤

[@floraguilar966]

I was literally having an anxiety attack.

[@justMary54321]

@@floraguilar966same

[@joycarter7930]

​@@floraguilar966 yes me too. Looking at how high up they were. My niece is fearless like that and it makes me so nervous sometimes

[@JBABRB]

I was literally having anxiety watching this video. You have some huge trust to not be right next to him while he's at the edge of a hill and that's amazing. It's also so amazing how Grayson seemed to not looked exhausted after all of that. It's super duper smart of you to follow him to see where he would go especially after you hearing that they love routine. Again, so so glad he's ok. ❤

[@simplysandeee]

Keep telling him “Go Home” as you are making your way back to the house.

[@MiniMama]

Spectacular idea. Really! Will start doing that on our walks.... on sidewalks not crazy hills. 🙌🏼

[@keely4119]

Sometimes it’s the most simple things that give the biggest outcome! ❤

[@brittanyyramirez]

The Route He Took In The Trees, Explains The Stuff In His Hair When You Got Him From The Police. ❤ I'm Glad You're Taking The Time To See His Thought Process So Like You Said God Forbid It Does Happen You'll Have A Better Idea. 😊 Such A Good Mama. 😊❤

[@None979]

You must be exhausted keeping him safe everyday. You are amazing. Do you ever get a break/ help?

[@trishbrown2297]

OMG that hillside terrified me.

[@CarolynHenton]

I know exactly where you are and I can’t believe he took that route. So scary. Never mind the snakes too! You are one brave Mama!

[@kiannachlo]

She was picking up snake eggs

[@MsBeechnut]

He is fearless asf. I could never And the fact that he dnt listen irritate tf outta me

[@lyndsayhammond6884]

I wouldn’t even let my older kids take a path like that 😳😳 Please be careful

[@WestinNReptar]

Following Grayson, while nervewracking, also brought out a bit of my inner child.

[@kathrinefeinstein2595]

I love that you are learning to understand him. Keep strong mama

[@kathybagley8915]

I'm so glad Grayson is safe please get careful that hill is very steep you could fall if your not careful it's easy to slip want you both safe god bless.

[@aliciawalters2349]

Your a good Mom. I admire your strong persistent love to learn and grow with your son

[@lisalacombe8839]

Bless Grayson and your family. You are a fantastic mother.

[@teijaflink2226]

He really loved exploring, I'm surprised how easily he walks up that high and honestly kind of dangerous looking hill, what a kid. For sure looks like he knows where he's going, with no fear too. Wonder what fascinated him with that place and all those horrible trees, how does he get through all that.

[@Sarah_Black_Sheep_Unite]

My grandson has Austism and girl I love your soul! Thank you for sharing and making others aware, much love to you and your tribe! Your amazing, that was not an easy trek!!!!!!!

[@tyesoamazing]

Also, he is intrigued with the climbing, so you want to buy him equipment and toys that he would have to climb. It will help satisfy his urge to walk those heels..

[@MiniMama]

Already in the plans :)

[@57Pinky_Promise65]

Tara, invest in a Drone that way somebody can be looking around while everyone else is looking for him. Have some walkie talkies to be to communicate with each other. Talk with neighbors to set up a watch and get together to look for Grayson have a plan. I hope that helps. 🤗🌻

[@MiniMama]

Hopefully it never happens again, but my drone should remain charged. Thanks for the suggestion!

[@ritaakalele4801]

Great idea honestly

[@mjwmjw3864]

​@MiniMama Maybe Grayson would enjoy a climbing facility with climbing walls for kids (and A/C, belays, coaches, finger powder, snacks, trampolines, etc.)

[@justMary54321]

Praying he doesn’t tumble over the hill - I’m holding my breath

[@megansmith1547]

Oh my lordy and he did that in those little shorts and NO shoes?! He is a wild soul mama. ❤ And YOU are a ROCKSTAR for living in Graysons world. 🌎 ❤

[@dailyglowjunkie6451]

Tera your an amazing mom. You could have used your platform for any type of content. You decided to use it to educate us all. From one special needs mom to another I send you so much love and above I pray for your everyday strength as we know it’s not easy. But our beautiful children deserve the best. ❤

[@shanonnunn4128]

He made that route last time with no shoes …. It’s crazy

[@MiniMama]

Exactly! Like a mini forest gump, he just kept going.

[@RunLikeHelen-be6sz]

He was definitely stealthy along that hillside, scared the heck out of me for u and him both! Henna is an amazing idea. I hadn't thought of tattooing him with his identification. Again, thank goodness you're both safe!

[@judyblakely7450]

Praying for all of you! Grayson is definitely a strong willed little boy!

[@ruthlovelace1163]

I had got so much anxiety watching him walk ahead of you cuz he could have just turned around and fell God bless you I know this must be hard but he is so adorable just try to walk more behind him just in case anything else happens

[@Suggy1975]

What a great Idea!!! Just curious.... How does he even know this route???? Have you taken him up there before or something and he remembered? Don't those thorns hurt him to where he wouldn't go that way again??? Also, those eggs could be rattlesnake eggs!! Yikes!

[@margadanks4528]

I love your tenacity to find the places he goes, back when my son was small we didn’t know half of what they do today. Good luck terra, you can tell he’s gonna be a hand full for sure, ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@jody6272]

You are such a strong mama. He is such an adorable and strong willed young man! You got this!

[@lisatillman7934]

You are such a thoughtful mother!! You got this!!! You are the best.

[@lovelyhumbug8371]

Omg when you lost sight of him again I got so worried again

[@vickie30]

I do not know how you do it…You deserve a medal…

[@amberrobinson13]

You’re a great momma and don’t let anyone tell you different. You did a wonderful thing by following him and learning his route. Keep up the great work 🩷🫂🩷

[@DianAND-5]

He did that all the so easily & I felt out of breath just like Terra but just watching. Always teaching us new information. Thanks.

[@lucymiranda1757]

That route is scary he should not be walking alone

[@Ra_Q]

No, and he’s going to likely do it again, in some level he’s probably gonna think it’s okay because even mom went with him. I have a feeling he’s done this before….

[@Sandra-vg1jn]

You are a great Mama. God bless you and your family!

[@sebastiantorrenence-lk1ix]

How in the world did he do that without shoes last time and not tear his poor feet up :( goodness gracious mama!!! You are strong , smart, and such an amazing mama !!

[@poshbyjodygreeneisen5147]

This was scaring me at every turn! My goodness! I can't handle it!

[@ruthlovelace1163]

Me too

[@eb5771]

You are such amazing mom. You understand all of your kids individually. You are an incredible person. I admire your tenasity. God bless you😊

[@lucyd007]

There is no concept of fear with autistic children. I see that in my 9 yr old autistic grandson. Sad but something else we have to deal with. You are an amazing mom. It’s not easy! Only the grace of God can help us walk through this journey. God bless you.

[@robingassen9392]

That is so scary! You are a brave mama! I am always amazed and encouraged by your tireless service to your children.

[@erikadavila6574]

You are one heck of a mother. You are so amazing and very inspiring for those mothers who are going thru similar things.

[@kathyquartel773]

God bless you Tara, you've got your hands full. I pray this never happens again, my daughter was missing for a couple of hours after school when she was 6, I was a dang mess until she was found.

[@reginasterlingboone6229]

God bless your heart !! All I can do is pray for u and Grayson !! Thank u for sharing .

[@SideKicks10]

The fact you let him do that without you being right there is crazy dangerous. I understand your reasoning but that was just too close. He could have fallen over the edge, tripped or worse a mountain Lion could have snatched him:(

[@janw1665]

What if you would have fallen and couldn’t walk? He would be out of there. Would not have chanced this experiment. Also, he needs to know this is not ok.

[@loriwilliams2949]

I second that..

[@nuwon8154]

Yep...i totally agree. She is irresponsible. She keeps letting him walk wherever, he will end up gone.

[@ruthlovelace1163]

Exactly

[@bobbi-jolist2350]

I love how he got so mad at you for not letting him go his way and he kept trying to get you to let him go.

[@katie2928]

He can move! In the video prior, he was gone in a flash and has zero fears! You are a wonderful mama everything will be alright ❤❤

[@kygirl523]

I have no idea if VR of any sort would be beneficial or advised, but wondering if spending some time “hiking” different terrains (WII for example) might calm his wanderlust a bit? What an amazing Mom!

[@Just-Steph]

Girl this made me so anxious watching!!!

[@princecornell639]

The things you do for love. Terra you are a fantastic mother! 👏🏻💪🏼❤️

[@christinelips3657]

Maybe a play area in the backyard that includes the same kind of enrichment as the hike, I know you take them to parks but thats what he is looking for and needs that activity every day and if you are busy or not feeling well maybe a helpful person can take him. You will figure it out because you are a great mom and keep trying to.

[@teijaflink2226]

Yeah seems like he has lot of energy and curiosity and his own strong will. It's good to let him explore that side of himself but obviously in a safe way specially as he doesn't seem to understand danger, it's not easy, you want him to be able to do things he loves and learn but in a safe way.

[@ritaakalele4801]

Great idea or build a rock wall for climbing up in the garden child friendly one. 👍🏻

[@euniceguzmanfierros5816]

Wow that was an amazing journey, to try to see how this boy sees the world, there is no hesitation just move forward

[@graceinsinga5831]

You are such an awesome mommy. God bless you for all you do.

[@9people1world46]

The last video had my heart pumping I love how you knew right away he’d be okay

[@nellyhernandez7852]

Terra eres una gran madre valiente y amorosa lograrás una gran familia❤

[@elsalanghoff675]

You’re an amazing mom!Stay strong!I feel your fear!

[@bobbywoods5773]

I'm so thankful that you found Grayson and that you're teaching me about children with autism because I never knew anything about autism but the word now I'm learning how to retire without yourself thank you so very much now you know his route that'll help out a hopefully you never have to go through that again have a blessed and safe 1 you and your family😊❤😊

[@ChellenBobby]

He is so brave and so smart its crazy that we wouldnt think twice about even going near the edge of that hill and he was just like ok i see it and im doing it lol.. Im so glad he is safe and i hope that you figure out a way to be able to be prepared if he decides he wants to take a walk again.. im just so glad hes safe.

[@vanessalauren664]

You are a freaking awesome mom don't you ever forget that!

[@valerielowery5453]

I’m new to your channel, but I’m an autism mom too. My daughter had a lot of safety/eloping issues. She started ABA therapy last October and it has helped tremendously. I know it’s not for everyone, but in didn’t know if y’all had ever tried. Hope you find some way for him to learn safety 🙏🏻❤️

[@Pugmamma]

OMG that definitely isn’t a good place for him to be. It’s so dangerous! I would be so worried for him.

[@susanoffutt2696]

You are such an amazing mama. I'm in awe of you.

[@charonloyal5820]

DONT LET HIM DISAPPEAR ANYMORE ... THATS A DANGEROUS ROUTE

[@cynthiaolivo5134]

I was scared for you both. You're a great mom Terra. You have a lot to deal with. May God bless you and protect your family. ❤⚘️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@renada99]

That was so smart what you did so you would know his route! Thank you Jesus for keeping him safe!🥰🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@annfleming6085]

Seriously I think you should take him to places indoors where he can be taught how to safely climb up and down hills and mountains when he's older !!! He may end up being a mountain climber rescuer ?!? Getting him in regular outings to satisfy his need for climbing adventures !!! ❤️🙏 for him and you and your whole family !!!

[@annfleming6085]

You know places indoor where they have wall climbing and they strap you for safety !!! ❤️🙏 sweet lady ! I can see how very much you love your beautiful children !!! And I loved it when you said thank you Jesus when you found him safe 🥰❤️❤️❤️ He is the One who is our covering of us and our families !!! All glory to Him ! I always pray He covers and protects my family !!!

[@cathypeluso8617]

He has no fear I give u so much credit to do what u did going up that huge hill following him. I just hope he listens n understands when u speak to him cause this is so very scary. But again u r by far the BEST MOM any kid could ask for. N always remember what happened to him getting lost was not ur fault n ur a wonderful mom. Things happen in seconds with kids that can’t b helped. No one’s to blame. Especially u just remember that. Thanks so much for sharing this that was the nicest thing to do. Love u n ur family always❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@28snowbell]

Ok. I’m completely shocked you did this. Kinda showing him that it’s ok to do what he did. Grayson doesn’t understand danger.

[@sharonstevenson1770]

No brains mother for sure.

[@silviafendt7722]

Hallo Terra, dein supersüsser Grayson hat schon eine ziemliche Energie da ist man schon sehr gefordert.. Ich sehe dich oft und finde du bist eine wundervolle Mutter.❤

[@desertwind306]

It's wonderful to know the route he took. They do tend to go to their favorite places. The best yo you Thanking the good Lord he was safe.!

[@bettyblue2089]

I am happy you found the baby safe , I think the air tag is a awesome route !!!!! Great thinking moma ❤

[@KevieG]

Tara you are a great mom!

[@nurseT.MVP2020]

At least now you somewhat know his route, and plus he is not afraid of heights, ...I clearly understand you Mini Mama, and you did good....God Bless

[@mariavineyard1981]

Tara, you are such a strong woman, I admire how patient you are with all your children. I was so scared when I was seeing your video following Grayson, but you were determined to see what your child was doing. Be careful, maybe it will be a good idea to place motion alarms that makes a sound when one of your kids try to get out of your home. So you and your husband are always alert just in the event that Grayson try to leave the house again. Stay positive God bless your family.

[@vickyortiz6776]

U should learn from first time he ran away from your car lucky he was found 🤞🏼🙏🏼 but this way home it's not safe at all for him

[@MagicWandProductions]

And. Be wary of rattle snakes in those hills, especially now when it’s hot. I spied a gopher hole which means there are creatures around that eat gophers 🐍. We live in So Cal too, next to a canyon. Had a baby rattler in our yard not too long ago.

[@charlenejane3571]

I have a autism grandson, they so lovable and adorable, he just wants to be outside, and they get used to their walks, and malls, they also don't know of getting hurt, the only time when you can really relax is when they sleeps ,try to get him some kiddy movie's, please don't walk that route again it's steep and dangerous, and they don't forget their routine, don't worry you a good mama ❤

[@amberc5457]

The fighting over the leash cracks me up every time 😂 it reminds me so much of my son!

[@anastaciarodriguez2381]

God bless you.. You are such an amazing mother/mommy.. I can’t imagine basically living in fear of my child climbing such steep hills and falling in the blink of an eye.. I don’t know the different levels of autism and how you have to care in different ways for different needs.. ❤ I just want you to know you’re AMAZING (I know I said it in the beginning of this comment)

[@saphirexxluv]

Girl I'm binge watching your videos! Your family is beau 🥰🥰🫶 best wishes for you all :)

[@MiniMama]

Thank you so much!!❤

[@kimberlyzamora4437]

You will find the right solution for Grayson. ✌️❤

[@AndreaRice-y3o]

You can tell Grayson is going to love the outdoors when he gets older. He's a smart little adventures but yeah I think you're an incredible mom. Yes GOD BLESS your family. You & Joe have beautiful children.😊😊😊😊

[@shayb.3450]

You are a wonderful mama. I am glad that Grayson is ok. Take care and be safe.

[@JP-qf8io]

That is a very very awesome idea!!! For every mother of autistic children to do!