Mistress Who Pressed Lover for Commitment Dies in Mysterious Manner | Paula Poolton & Roger Kearney

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Dr. Todd Grande

Dr. Todd Grande

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@kathymichelle1978
@kathymichelle1978 4 ай бұрын
If someone ever does leave a spouse for you, they've already proven how untrustworthy they are.
@noahschmartz2354
@noahschmartz2354 4 ай бұрын
do it with u , do it to u they say.
@chrisnoname2725
@chrisnoname2725 4 ай бұрын
He was too trustworthy to leave his wife for someone.
@bigtimepimpin666
@bigtimepimpin666 4 ай бұрын
I worked with someone, a former Marine, who met a Marine's wife in the in base gym. They had an affair. She divorce raped the husband and took him for everything. Then she married Jodi/the affair guy. Even then he kept encouraging her to sue for more alimony and more child support. I am sure at this point she cheated on him with many more Jodis and divorce raped him too. We couldnt believe he thought his experience would be different.😅😅
@grandma4557
@grandma4557 4 ай бұрын
Thk u exactly
@glow1815
@glow1815 4 ай бұрын
Depends on whom he/she left for. Not every person cheated is unworthy for the next person. People cheated for many reasons.
@CleverCatCooking76
@CleverCatCooking76 4 ай бұрын
I'm amazed how a mature person who led a relatively normal life up to a certain age, decides that committing a crime is a good way to solve a problem.
@lauradelregno99
@lauradelregno99 4 ай бұрын
sexual immorality always leads to murder.
@ReturnOfTheJ.D.
@ReturnOfTheJ.D. 4 ай бұрын
@@lauradelregno99 I can attest to that in part. Someone I was with at age 19 for a few months (while she continued to see a boyfriend she'd had for over five years), contacted me again at age 22, after literally two years of no involvement. The boyfriend found out about it six months after it happened (at my behest) and was not happy about it - issuing a direct threat to me via her rather than dealing with his problem. On New Years Eve 1994 I was at her mother's place and a well-built thug or hired henchman came around just after midnight, but she talked him out of it at the door. Later I found her talking to her boyfriend on the upstairs phone (this was before mobiles) and crying. I believe I escaped unscathed because I was going overseas for a year in early February, and had been in an Army Reserves unit for 18 months just six months previously. Back then being in the Army Reserves meant you were physically in top shape and also psychologically geared up for enemy confrontation all the time. I went from being a wimp to someone who could defend themselves, and was just about to leave the country for an extended period, so I guess they thought better of it at the last moment and called him off. It's 30 years ago now so is too long ago to investigate unfortunately - I don't know how you could prove it anyway.
@lisabradford8180
@lisabradford8180 4 ай бұрын
@@lauradelregno99 many times it has💯
@lisabradford8180
@lisabradford8180 4 ай бұрын
that's scarier than the criminal with the mile long record.
@MikeBaxterABC
@MikeBaxterABC 4 ай бұрын
I am amazed too?? Even ewildeed!!! How can someone normal, bring themselves to kill another human in cold blood?? Especially in such a sudden and deliberate method?? Especially someone they have been intimate with!!. I still have a place in my heart, for every girl I have ever had sleepovers with!.. I'm sure many people feel the same. It's nothing similar to say ... defending his family against a home intruder, or at war with a enemy combatant ... to just kill your friend, your lover, just to avoid some relationship drams??? And to get caught so easily?? I feel the vast majority of murders, must be due to some disturbing hidden mental health problems???
@sayhello5377
@sayhello5377 4 ай бұрын
Honey, if they will cheat WITH you, they will certainly cheat ON you.
@kyleboulanger170
@kyleboulanger170 4 ай бұрын
Same thing goes for murder. If they murder for or with you, they'll murder YOU. A classic example is Kathy Augustine.
@heatherchandler1184
@heatherchandler1184 4 ай бұрын
That’s absolutely not true and depends on WHY they’re cheating.
@carriefawcett9990
@carriefawcett9990 2 ай бұрын
That's bullshit. I cheated on people I didn't love, as soon as I met someone I actually LOVE I never cheat. It doesn't cross my mind.
@cplmpcocptcl6306
@cplmpcocptcl6306 4 ай бұрын
What a dream catch. A married man. There aren’t appropriate words to express how little I think of both of them.
@Ad-Lo
@Ad-Lo 4 ай бұрын
It is a tough call, but him suing HM Royal Mail pushes his selfish, delusional traits of anti-social personality into first place. That, to me, says it all!
@michaelstarmer7760
@michaelstarmer7760 3 ай бұрын
100%
@malgorzatadymecka2959
@malgorzatadymecka2959 3 ай бұрын
Some women fetishize married men. Probably has to do with the fact they wanna feel like they are irresistible. Childish and sad.
@Timefortracy
@Timefortracy 4 ай бұрын
Him suing Royal Mail for firing him is absolutely hilarious 🤣
@miriamorwin7603
@miriamorwin7603 4 ай бұрын
totally
@OnTheThirdDay
@OnTheThirdDay 4 ай бұрын
It shows how entitled he is.
@adotintheshark4848
@adotintheshark4848 4 ай бұрын
especially since "murder" looks like hell on a future resume.
@kathymichelle1978
@kathymichelle1978 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@TerryLawrence001
@TerryLawrence001 4 ай бұрын
@@adotintheshark4848 Narcissistic Psychopaths do well in management.
@allaeli2020
@allaeli2020 4 ай бұрын
My biggest fear is people describing me after my death as a “bubbly personality with an infectious laugh”
@auxaus4613
@auxaus4613 4 ай бұрын
Yes same. My smile did not light up any rooms either.
@schrox2452
@schrox2452 4 ай бұрын
SAME lmao. And also ditto with auxaus, no smiles lighting up rooms. I want to be remembered as the asocial bunker hermit that I am.
@flinchfiles8445
@flinchfiles8445 4 ай бұрын
Yes, exactly. Especially the, "she had an infectious smile/laugh" ugh, so overused these days that it has lost its meaning. Trendy words come and go, but this "infectious" description has been around and overused for too long and beyond cringeworthy.
@terrybeasley5931
@terrybeasley5931 4 ай бұрын
Mine is people saying" She was so NICE."😁😁
@edelweiss2.076
@edelweiss2.076 4 ай бұрын
​​@@schrox2452, you just described me perfectly . 😅 My neighbors called my hubby today (who's visiting his elderly dad out of town) to report that a vase had fallen from one of our balconies a few days ago, our dog was barking & shaking (probably pissed at their nosy stares) and wanted to know if anyone was at home, or not. I had a hearty laugh! 😂 I have a perfectly functioning doorbell, btw. They just were afraid to ring, I guess.
@janeyrevanescence12
@janeyrevanescence12 4 ай бұрын
I read a quote that sums up why having affairs is a bad idea. When a man marries his mistress, he creates a vacancy
@charliechurch5004
@charliechurch5004 4 ай бұрын
Excellent
@jkjives1786
@jkjives1786 4 ай бұрын
I'm glad we got upgraded back to "always" generating an interesting dialogue.
@hauntedireland9237
@hauntedireland9237 4 ай бұрын
Only fans of Dr G will understand 😂😂😂😂 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@jacquelinedeblue5231
@jacquelinedeblue5231 4 ай бұрын
Yay for us! What was he thinking of anyway, using 'consistently' instead of 'always' when the latter rolls off the tongue much more easily than the former...?
@hauntedireland9237
@hauntedireland9237 4 ай бұрын
@@jacquelinedeblue5231 he was giving that big brain of his a workout for a change. Things come so easily to this man in matters of intellect…. And sarcasm. With sarcasm he’s feral. 🤣🤣🫡🫡 RIP all who come under his radar!
@marissasimas9258
@marissasimas9258 4 ай бұрын
Same
@TheMensRea
@TheMensRea 4 ай бұрын
Agreed! I have objected to only being "consistent" 😂
@janelleyharris5042
@janelleyharris5042 4 ай бұрын
I love the conclusion that they don't count on the other person being equally sadistic, pretty well put.
@emeraldemerald6459
@emeraldemerald6459 4 ай бұрын
Stop forcing love. Stop cheating. It will always end in tears.
@rachellandry3116
@rachellandry3116 4 ай бұрын
unfortunately, it IS human nature.
@adotintheshark4848
@adotintheshark4848 4 ай бұрын
can't force love. It's not there and never will be.
@agostinodublino1387
@agostinodublino1387 4 ай бұрын
that's just false, many couples chose to "cheat" (I suppose that if the partner is ok with that and he/she do the same is no more "cheating"), the marriage flows more easily with no dramas and anger, the side stories naturally fade with time because they are based on s*x, and the main marriage lasts. Of course no one would tell you about these "successful cheat stories" because of the strong social scandal they makes.. but look at the bioghraphies, a lot of famous people is allowed to tell how they happily cheated and nothing gone wrong. Frida Kahlo cheated both with men and women and the ove for Diego Rivera never faded, both sides. The list is long.
@JohnMack-f3f
@JohnMack-f3f 4 ай бұрын
Vows should never be entered lightly or dismissed easily.
@JediMasterKal
@JediMasterKal 4 ай бұрын
Ended in blood in this case.
@AmandaSusAnna
@AmandaSusAnna 4 ай бұрын
Anything "forced" is not natural! I'll never understand the mindset of someone who tries to "force" someone to love them.. this just isn't logical... but neither is thinking that "sex" equals "love!"
@earlofcumbrae-Ground_Zero
@earlofcumbrae-Ground_Zero 4 ай бұрын
Dr.Grande...almost 1.5 million subscribers! Well done! You are da 👑.
@henning439
@henning439 4 ай бұрын
Love and commitment are given not taken
@haleytruslow7200
@haleytruslow7200 4 ай бұрын
Well said.
@BuckFidenMD4547
@BuckFidenMD4547 4 ай бұрын
Not a cheater demanding a relationship from the other cheater and ending up dead! Ultimatums rarely work and often result in a bad situation.
@tupelohoney1803
@tupelohoney1803 4 ай бұрын
Premeditated murder and he gets life in prison with parole possible after 15 years! What in the world is wrong with the British justice system?
@BuckFidenMD4547
@BuckFidenMD4547 4 ай бұрын
They’re more concerned with citizen’s complaining about them on Twitter. They sure dole out the sentence then! Unbelievable.
@lynzannabel6990
@lynzannabel6990 4 ай бұрын
@@BuckFidenMD4547 👍🏽
@INTELLIGENCE_Revolution
@INTELLIGENCE_Revolution 4 ай бұрын
Australia is even worse. Probably get 1/2 that in Australia.
@dwaynemcallister7231
@dwaynemcallister7231 4 ай бұрын
@@INTELLIGENCE_Revolution Like Canada sadly.
@sunnynights68
@sunnynights68 4 ай бұрын
Dude painted himself into a corner and thought murder was his only way out…spineless! Sadly this is a theme in the crime community.
@edelweiss2.076
@edelweiss2.076 4 ай бұрын
It makes me wonder if he'd killed before. He was a serial cheater. How had he resolved past trysts gone awry? 😳
@ursodermatt8809
@ursodermatt8809 4 ай бұрын
@@edelweiss2.076 yes, makes me wonder many things, like the end of the world
@lochnessmunster1189
@lochnessmunster1189 3 ай бұрын
Paula probably threatened to tell his wife.
@janelleyharris5042
@janelleyharris5042 4 ай бұрын
Watching this video from my desk in a maximum security prison as a prison nurse lol
@mariebernier3076
@mariebernier3076 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for doing a tough job
@agostinodublino1387
@agostinodublino1387 4 ай бұрын
I bet you have a lot of interesting stories...
@edelweiss2.076
@edelweiss2.076 4 ай бұрын
Stay safe. Always. ⚕️
@djquinn11
@djquinn11 4 ай бұрын
Don’t know how you can do that job but thank you for your service… 😂
@littlerichie874
@littlerichie874 4 ай бұрын
Is Roger one of the inmates?
@PaganGrace
@PaganGrace 4 ай бұрын
She might have threatened to tell his wife about their affair. That one seems to set-off men very quickly, and is a lesson to never make that type of threat, as it’s too dangerous.
@basswars7060
@basswars7060 4 ай бұрын
More than anything in the world, I pray that Dr. Grande never does a video about me.
@maryanderson2759
@maryanderson2759 4 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@jakebe4915
@jakebe4915 4 ай бұрын
Particularly when he throws in the adjectives describing the defendant at the end. BRUTAL, MAN...LOL
@pameladee
@pameladee 4 ай бұрын
He would be merely speculating! Never fear 😆
@southbug27
@southbug27 4 ай бұрын
Him suing his employer & wasting everyone’s money & time is just selfish & evil. It tells you a lot about his character.
@ghosts231
@ghosts231 4 ай бұрын
I love your insight, voice and great subtle sense of humor!
@ReSearcherSusie
@ReSearcherSusie 8 ай бұрын
Thanks for covering this case Dr. Grande. 👍🏼👍🏼
@jsvideos2261
@jsvideos2261 4 ай бұрын
Hello, Dr. Grande (and viewers)!
@babblingalong7689
@babblingalong7689 4 ай бұрын
hi
@rayross997
@rayross997 4 ай бұрын
Hi there!
@user-ov8mq4op4i
@user-ov8mq4op4i 4 ай бұрын
Hey there! Have a great day!
@OnTheThirdDay
@OnTheThirdDay 4 ай бұрын
Hello.
@Ann-sj4pt
@Ann-sj4pt 4 ай бұрын
I need food,but my cat is lying on me
@mariebernier3076
@mariebernier3076 4 ай бұрын
priorities...
@kadzo6614
@kadzo6614 4 ай бұрын
​@@mariebernier3076😂😂
@Ann-sj4pt
@Ann-sj4pt 4 ай бұрын
@@mariebernier3076 yes the cat is my priority 👋♥️🤣
@loiscassels8966
@loiscassels8966 4 ай бұрын
I get that❤️🇨🇦🐾
@stephaniesamra7960
@stephaniesamra7960 4 ай бұрын
Ahhhhh lovely image ❤❤❤
@georgeoh-well8116
@georgeoh-well8116 4 ай бұрын
What also may be worthy of analysis is that the sentence in the UK is possibility of parole after 15 years ! 🤔
@drewmunny
@drewmunny 4 ай бұрын
The UK always seems to do this, it's super bizarre. Some people just need to go away forever IMO, but the UK seems to disagree
@zumurudlilit
@zumurudlilit 4 ай бұрын
@@drewmunnybc uk has so much lower crime rate - my guess is - they are better at managing crime and punishment.
@AnAdorableWombat1
@AnAdorableWombat1 4 ай бұрын
What can you expect? Their officers don’t even carry!
@AriesMoneychanger
@AriesMoneychanger 4 ай бұрын
🗡 "...mostly because of the 'murder' part." 😅😅😅
@coastaf
@coastaf 4 ай бұрын
Please cover the Bonebreaker case of Thadius Philips and Joe Clark. A teenager kidnapping an 11 year old to “satisfy” his “needs” to break bones. Curious about everything from what possessed that 15 year old, what was going on with his parents for them to live in such a horrific hoarder house, and the trauma of the survivor, Thad to live through that. Unbelievably after going through that whole ordeal Thad was shot by a friend of Clark’s the week or so before he could testify - what was going on in that town?!
@billsmafia_
@billsmafia_ 4 ай бұрын
Just a reminder, I'm not subscribing to Dr Grande's KZbin channel because of this video, only speculating on what could happen if I subscribed to a KZbin channel like this.
@anamosquera8417
@anamosquera8417 4 ай бұрын
😂
@MayorWilliesSideChick4prez
@MayorWilliesSideChick4prez 4 ай бұрын
How often do you drink milk?
@gazXspace
@gazXspace 4 ай бұрын
This happened down the road from where I live. He maintains his innocence.
@Steven-rp8zo
@Steven-rp8zo 12 күн бұрын
he's guilty as sin
@ElementoryMyDearWatson
@ElementoryMyDearWatson 4 ай бұрын
Also begs the question of how someone can enter a supposedly high security Royal Mail facility without a key card
@janpierzchala2004
@janpierzchala2004 4 ай бұрын
At last shopping at Tesco not WallMart prior to crime
@adotintheshark4848
@adotintheshark4848 4 ай бұрын
that's a badge of honor
@JohnDoe-yj5ng
@JohnDoe-yj5ng 4 ай бұрын
You mean Asda, Walmart doesn't exist in the UK
@JohnBrown-rg7ug
@JohnBrown-rg7ug 4 ай бұрын
Lowes, home depot, Target.
@g.flesch9731
@g.flesch9731 4 ай бұрын
Did he buy duck tape, shovel, sturdy gloves, wire, tarp, don't forget the Gatorade & protein bar. People can be so stupid & evil.
@jakebe4915
@jakebe4915 4 ай бұрын
It's the UK, silly...Tesco is like our CVS or Walgreens
@weasellylittleliardude
@weasellylittleliardude 4 ай бұрын
What a blessing on this fine Sunday morning
@agostinodublino1387
@agostinodublino1387 4 ай бұрын
already sunday evening here in Europe! Still good
@kadzo6614
@kadzo6614 4 ай бұрын
​@@agostinodublino1387same here in Kenya 🇰🇪
@maryd253
@maryd253 4 ай бұрын
I assume the husband had an alibi……… I’m stuck at the fact Roger didn’t have blood on him when he arrived at work or blood in his car.
@edelweiss2.076
@edelweiss2.076 4 ай бұрын
It was a premeditated murder. He was likely careful to dispose of evidence.
@MakeItSo1111
@MakeItSo1111 4 ай бұрын
Thank you Dr G! Are you there? Do you ever read the comments??
@Sharon-kl3by
@Sharon-kl3by 3 ай бұрын
Anyone telling fibs cannot be trusted. Period. Great insight Dr. G. 🎉
@moondancer334
@moondancer334 4 ай бұрын
ZERO sympathy for anything that happens to married people who cheat
@lisabradford8180
@lisabradford8180 4 ай бұрын
💯
@LúciaKitten
@LúciaKitten 4 ай бұрын
Another great analysis, Dr. Grande. I appreciate you and the work you put researching these cases, analyzing them and making the videos for us. You're the best!
@jeanholmes7976
@jeanholmes7976 4 ай бұрын
Thank you Dr. Grande….i hope you are enjoying your weekend!!🌵💕😇from Jean.
@meFatuations
@meFatuations 4 ай бұрын
The difference between prisoners and free people, is that prisoners did not think they would get caught ... as in this case.
@31Alden
@31Alden 4 ай бұрын
Cheating is a deadly business! Roger was a philanderer, as was Paula, but I feel there is a bit of wiggle room in terms of Roger, who more than likely murdered Paula. In other words, the case against Roger is not rock solid. Cheating is a fast track to no where.
@haleytruslow7200
@haleytruslow7200 4 ай бұрын
DAMN that was a strong closing statement, Dr. G.
@grannyonwire8926
@grannyonwire8926 3 ай бұрын
…getting involved with someone that is equally sadistic. You are brilliant Dr. Grande❤
@lindawilson4625
@lindawilson4625 4 ай бұрын
I think you nailed it yet again, Dr, Grande! Thanks!
@JosiahModeste-p4h
@JosiahModeste-p4h 4 ай бұрын
Good Sunday morning video from Dr Grande I really enjoy this❤
@zenawarrior7442
@zenawarrior7442 4 ай бұрын
Agreed both had the same characteristics but different goals. Terrible he could just kill her like that. Great breakdown again. Thanks Dr G😊💜💜
@izzatihassan1475
@izzatihassan1475 4 ай бұрын
The entitlement of this guy suing his employer while being imprisoned for murder...
@philipbest364
@philipbest364 4 ай бұрын
Powerful closing words, Dr Grande
@jameshayes1024
@jameshayes1024 4 ай бұрын
I would be hard pressed to identify the make/model of car from any of the presented photos, but then I am not from the UK.
@Leafs4evr
@Leafs4evr 4 ай бұрын
PEUGEOT Pronounced PURR - my first car. Spot on analysis! There's a saying "You can't help who you like, you just can't.
@eadweard.
@eadweard. 4 ай бұрын
I think Americans pronounce it "POO".
@PukeyMcDork
@PukeyMcDork 4 ай бұрын
i'm ready to speculate too!
@ChicaG-vg7pj
@ChicaG-vg7pj 4 ай бұрын
With all the cameras in the UK, and extensive use of ANPR, I'm surprised the prosecution couldn't find evidence of his vehicle movements
@mariebernier3076
@mariebernier3076 4 ай бұрын
what's ANPR?
@belleooo
@belleooo 4 ай бұрын
@@mariebernier3076 Automatic number-plate recognition. Police use them for car related misdemeanours lol.
@zijlstraus
@zijlstraus 4 ай бұрын
@@mariebernier3076 Automatic Number Plate Recognition
@SparkesIsRunning
@SparkesIsRunning 4 ай бұрын
@@mariebernier3076 Automatic number plate recognition
@doomnoises
@doomnoises 4 ай бұрын
Why are they all potatoes though? Webcams in the 1990s had better quality
@tinad8561
@tinad8561 4 ай бұрын
Dear side pieces-even if you get the key to his primary residence, it is likely you are a placeholder/bedwarmer/discount girlfriend experience until he finds a new wife candidate. Tailor expectations accordingly, it’s safer.
@chrisnoname2725
@chrisnoname2725 4 ай бұрын
He’s probably not looking for a new wife at all and just wants what he is getting.
@djquinn11
@djquinn11 4 ай бұрын
Show of hands from those who identify as a “side piece”.
@BuckFidenMD4547
@BuckFidenMD4547 4 ай бұрын
From a purely hygiene viewpoint, having sex with more than one person in a given period is just foul. You’re having sex with that person’s partner as well, and vice versa. Think higher of yourself and your health for crying out loud.
@Koozomec
@Koozomec 4 ай бұрын
​@@BuckFidenMD4547that's not healthy people you are talking to.
@hiddenname9809
@hiddenname9809 4 ай бұрын
Better yet, never, ever be a side piece. Have some self-respect.
@derekkingd50
@derekkingd50 4 ай бұрын
Those high resolution evidence photos are epic.
@janetebonanno
@janetebonanno 4 ай бұрын
Yes, what century is this?
@rak7293
@rak7293 4 ай бұрын
Violence against women in the UK is on the increase. I left the country in 2013 because I was stalked and worse by an ex. Police did not take it seriously and would only warn him. It took me moving to a different country for him to slow down his stalking. I last heard from him in 2019. I had then been stalked by this man since 2003.
@melvinlovejones9722
@melvinlovejones9722 4 ай бұрын
Cheating is bad enough and gets worse when the side-piece demands more than the casual episodes.
@camellia8625
@camellia8625 4 ай бұрын
Why shouldn’t the other woman want a proper committed relationship, nobody likes being used.
@flowerchild3312
@flowerchild3312 4 ай бұрын
​@@camellia8625Why than would you Choose a married man? He already is " Committed " at least his wife thinks so .
@melvinlovejones9722
@melvinlovejones9722 4 ай бұрын
@@camellia8625 It's not always "the other woman" who's the side-piece and people in these type of situations use each other.
@MakerInMotion
@MakerInMotion 4 ай бұрын
@@camellia8625 She's expecting a proper committed relationship from a guy she knows is having an affair. Someone who cheats WITH you will cheat ON you.
@nishottara777
@nishottara777 4 ай бұрын
​@@camellia8625dont go after people already with other people-duh!!😂😂
@catherinegriessel56
@catherinegriessel56 4 ай бұрын
Always ends in tears
@RheverendJ
@RheverendJ 4 ай бұрын
Commitment to Homicide sounds like the name of an Emo band from the early 2000s
@DrDeuteron
@DrDeuteron 4 ай бұрын
"I hate myself" (4:35) "Life is bleak" (2:44) "The Infinite Pain of Existence" (7:49) . . .
@richardhart9204
@richardhart9204 4 ай бұрын
LOL! 😂 True!
@SunShine-qk4rb
@SunShine-qk4rb 4 ай бұрын
The amount of affairs that end the same way is horrific but hardly unexpected
@citizenoftheearth6
@citizenoftheearth6 4 ай бұрын
Is there ANY man out there who knows how to break-up a relationship peacefully, or who knows how to appreciate good fortune without unaliving his partner, or how to even abandon his wife and kids and never come back (again, much better than eliminating all of them)???? It seems that these days, everything ends in murder.
@VincentManiscalco
@VincentManiscalco 4 ай бұрын
I’ll Telya they are very lenient on violent murderers in the UK
@adotintheshark4848
@adotintheshark4848 4 ай бұрын
Advice to mistresses.."never take seriously what's poked at you in fun"
@rosemadder5547
@rosemadder5547 4 ай бұрын
I always wonder why people assume that mistresses are taking the cheater seriously, in the first place. Half the time, the woman doesn't want a commitment, either, and that's why they mess around with married men.
@protectedearthempress3986
@protectedearthempress3986 4 ай бұрын
Don't be a mistress. It will never end well for you. If u want something casual, find a single person who also wants something casual. Period.
@IndigobluBeauty
@IndigobluBeauty 4 ай бұрын
How about advice to MARRIED people to honor THEIR vows…
@MichaelZepplin
@MichaelZepplin 4 ай бұрын
How about don’t be a Harlot.
@Reina.Nijinsky
@Reina.Nijinsky 4 ай бұрын
LMFAO 😂
@MikeBaxterABC
@MikeBaxterABC 4 ай бұрын
8:33 Such a blatant indicator, that ALONE could convict him?? It was SOO obvious he as aware she wa dead!!! :( ... What an evil man, uncaring, insane even!!
@dsadad21
@dsadad21 4 ай бұрын
For the husband this is the best case scenario as a victim of cheating. Your cheating, lying spouse gets taken out by the person theyre cheating with, and the person who stole your spouse goes to jail for life. Two birds one stone type shit. Am i wrong for feeling this way? I would love to hear opinions on this
@camillecoccagna194
@camillecoccagna194 4 ай бұрын
Imagine never having the chance to confront your partner cause they died while cheating on you? I think about this often. I feel like I’d literally be tortured
@NealBurkard-ut1oo
@NealBurkard-ut1oo 4 ай бұрын
​@@camillecoccagna194 true. I bet the husband had a hunch something was going on. 6 months and she looking to buy a house 😅
@poindextertunes
@poindextertunes 4 ай бұрын
thats seems like a motive 🤔
@holocene2164
@holocene2164 4 ай бұрын
I think your opinion is quite extreme. Cheaters don't deserve death. I'm not saying it's Ok to cheat or condone it in any way but just break up with them, you know?
@OnTheThirdDay
@OnTheThirdDay 4 ай бұрын
No alimony and no divorce. However I don't know if it is correct to say that it is a best case scenario.
@Hambond477
@Hambond477 4 ай бұрын
I like the drapes.
@juliushummer1069
@juliushummer1069 4 ай бұрын
Oh what a web we weave, when at first we do deceive.
@tapsars7911
@tapsars7911 4 ай бұрын
If she was married to somebody else then why was she asking her lover for a commitment ?
@m.f.richardson1602
@m.f.richardson1602 4 ай бұрын
Always interesting Thank you❤
@CarolCattle
@CarolCattle 4 ай бұрын
Always interesting content, thank you!
@edelweiss2.076
@edelweiss2.076 4 ай бұрын
Moral of the story: don't cheat. Just don't.
@chrisnoname2725
@chrisnoname2725 4 ай бұрын
The moral of the story is to accept reality. The woman refused to accept the affair for what it was. If she wanted a relationship she should have left her husband and looked for one.
@gerry2345
@gerry2345 4 ай бұрын
Good insight and great analysis.. She was bubbly and gregarious enough to out Roger to his wife. But she did not deserve to be stabbed to death.
@RickPugh
@RickPugh 4 ай бұрын
Doc, you need to put your face on your merch. Id recommend an artistic rendering. You underestimate your iconic visage. Cheating is one step away from murder. Great breakdown of this tragic case
@simondaughtry4619
@simondaughtry4619 4 ай бұрын
I'm tired of Paula's drinking too. My theory....Paula's current husband at the time hired Roger to kill her. Well, he may not have but he felt like it IMO. Roger's actions took her husband off the hook for wanting her dead himself.... Roger turned out to be a godsend to the situation for her then husband.
@ForeverLuxeDesigns
@ForeverLuxeDesigns 4 ай бұрын
You have a very calm demeanor
@Robin-xt7yo
@Robin-xt7yo 4 ай бұрын
I love how prolific Dr G is! Spoiling us with lots of content including stories like this, which is lesser known. Dr G is the GOAT 🐐
@MARIA-and-CATS
@MARIA-and-CATS 4 ай бұрын
Dr. Grande, I love your humor and ironic comments… 😊
@icturner23
@icturner23 4 ай бұрын
The second W in Swanwick is silent.
@SparkesIsRunning
@SparkesIsRunning 4 ай бұрын
I was just about to post this!
@SallyIronic
@SallyIronic 4 ай бұрын
I agree with you, the evidence provided, along with the photos is barely passing the line, especially considering how the police "lost the plastic bag" and his wifes testimony. The police must have not uncovered any threatening texts or emails from him otherwise they would have supplied them. Simply stating that they had a disagreement does not mean he killed her. The phots do not establish anything other than there was a SUV in the area. She sat in a quiet parking lot late at night alone, several of her items were missing, her car was unlocked. Risky business doing that. He must have had a bad defense lawyer, even l could have swept this one out of the court room.
@robertstrachan3482
@robertstrachan3482 3 ай бұрын
I was waiting for the bit where there was actual evidence that he did it, but it never came. There was even a bloody fingerprint in the car that wasn’t his. This should have been thrown out of court.
@Anna-lz7mr
@Anna-lz7mr 4 ай бұрын
Let's speculate 🎉
@cadillacdeville5828
@cadillacdeville5828 4 ай бұрын
Just facts and rationality. Thank-you.
@Chopper650
@Chopper650 4 ай бұрын
a continued "casual affair" is never casual
@g.flesch9731
@g.flesch9731 4 ай бұрын
Is there such a thing as a serious affair instead of casual affair. Is the casual more light hearted. Ridiculous. Not casual for the cheated on spouse.
@sandrajunghall9725
@sandrajunghall9725 4 ай бұрын
A psychopathic nurse to my then-infant daughter moved from three states away to within 5 miles of our home, infiltrated our child's disease community, stalked my family and has persisted in slander and harassment, affecting all areas of our lives, beginning nearly 10 years ago. I can't believe someone would get to such a murderous place after only 3 months of possible stalking. What an impatient jerk!
@edelweiss2.076
@edelweiss2.076 4 ай бұрын
It makes me think this wasn't his first rodeo. I hope your family has found some peace. 🫂
@beautifulsunset4071
@beautifulsunset4071 4 ай бұрын
Yikes, that sounds awful? Why is she so obsessed with your family? Can you get a restraining order?
@haleytruslow7200
@haleytruslow7200 4 ай бұрын
Jesus Christ! Is there anything we can do to help?
@macideyldzatsz8563
@macideyldzatsz8563 4 ай бұрын
Also there is a huge AGE GAP which is 17 years
@JaysonBernardo-ch9fv
@JaysonBernardo-ch9fv Ай бұрын
She's 17 years younger then him! Yikes the average woman has it rough
@Laura-k5u
@Laura-k5u 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for the great content.
@YamTornado
@YamTornado 4 ай бұрын
The humor is as dry as they cacti and I’m here for it
@puspavelai8353
@puspavelai8353 4 ай бұрын
Weird that he could think of his employers as being unfair in termination of employment, when considering the sentencing received. The Police hopefully, made a thorough search of parcels/mails and such for clues/evidence of crime, like the missing murder weapon.
@chrisnoname2725
@chrisnoname2725 4 ай бұрын
Why would police do that when they could easily get him convicted? Have you not watched enough shoes about the actual behaviour of police and prosecutors. Maybe the wife did it. Or maybe she had other men. But they went for the easiest to prove. I am not suggesting they got the wrong person, only that they didn’t choose to go after him because of evidence but chose him then only bothered with the evidence to convict him
@messrsandersonco5985
@messrsandersonco5985 4 ай бұрын
He may not have had a lot of time but he had a whole load of motive!
@TerryLawrence001
@TerryLawrence001 4 ай бұрын
I am 100% convinced that OJ didn't do it this time.
@stevenm5082
@stevenm5082 4 ай бұрын
When you cheat in a relationship, the only person you're cheating is yourself. You're cheating yourself of morality and dignity.
@poindextertunes
@poindextertunes 4 ай бұрын
okay Dr Phil 😂
@southbug27
@southbug27 4 ай бұрын
You are cheating yourself, but you are also hurting lots of other people as well like your spouse, kids, other family members, friends, etc.
@ginac895
@ginac895 4 ай бұрын
That is so true, very insightful.
@ginac895
@ginac895 4 ай бұрын
​@southbug27 That's where the morality and dignity come in.
@MakerInMotion
@MakerInMotion 4 ай бұрын
This case would be even easier to solve today. The CCTV cameras are higher definition and there's more of them.
@lastpme
@lastpme 4 ай бұрын
Suing a company for firing him for being convicted for a crime shows he doesn’t take responsibility for his actions. He blames her for the affair, but it takes two people to make that decision. He could had been attracted to her, but walked away since he was married. He also didn’t want to leave his wife and his girlfriend was looking for apartments to take the relationship to the next level, but he just wanted the benefits of sleeping with her and probably lost interest in continuing the relationship since he was already sleeping with her. He felt trapped and killed her…but doesn’t want to take responsibility for his actions.
@ZP-xyza
@ZP-xyza 4 ай бұрын
I hate that life here means a minimum only 15 years.
@OnTheThirdDay
@OnTheThirdDay 4 ай бұрын
Yeah that is pretty disrespectful to the victim.
@MakerInMotion
@MakerInMotion 4 ай бұрын
Especially when homicide is mostly a young man's crime. They can be convicted of one and be free in their 30s.
@Koozomec
@Koozomec 4 ай бұрын
I understand why brits have to dab on french. UK sucks plain and simple. Dumping on french is a way to cope with the depression to live there.
@LindaengelustrupBlogspot
@LindaengelustrupBlogspot 4 ай бұрын
I recommend to talk about the case of Josephine Owino from Kenya...
@pineywoodslawandcrime
@pineywoodslawandcrime 4 ай бұрын
Thanks doc. Interesting case that I’ve not read about. What is the name of the documentary?
@rfoley402
@rfoley402 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for this content. Please do an episode on the Killer Nurse Heather Pressdee.
@julieshaffer7140
@julieshaffer7140 4 ай бұрын
That bag with the partial fingerprint sounds suspicious. Why in the world would the police destroy it? Whether it was Roger's or not is still evidence.
@digbysirchickentf2315
@digbysirchickentf2315 4 ай бұрын
Recycling Quota.
@veganandlovingit
@veganandlovingit 4 ай бұрын
We are always told leaving a relationship is the most dangerous time for women. Yesterday on a crime show the narrator said being murdered is the most common cause of death for pregnant woman. Now we find out pressing for a commitment has its risks too. Oh boy, we can't win.
@anniemacleod
@anniemacleod 4 ай бұрын
Weird because I just learned that same fact last night too, the Laci Peterson doc , is that where you got it?
@neonfiresquaw1789
@neonfiresquaw1789 4 ай бұрын
😂 thanks I needed a laugh
@richinderbyshire4779
@richinderbyshire4779 4 ай бұрын
Oh you poor women. Nothing ever happens to us men, oh no...
@ZP-xyza
@ZP-xyza 4 ай бұрын
@@richinderbyshire4779yeah but your biggest threat is another man. So, guess we’re in the same boat.
@bigunclevince
@bigunclevince 4 ай бұрын
@@ZP-xyzabiggest threat is a drunk wanting to get married to someone she’s having an affair with 😂
@robloggia
@robloggia 4 ай бұрын
She wanted to move in with him. Did I miss a step, wasn't she still married?
@Meela234
@Meela234 4 ай бұрын
She was willing to leave her husband and start a brand new life with Roger. Roger...not soo much.
@Rebecca-hc5ju
@Rebecca-hc5ju 4 ай бұрын
And how old were they? I became confused, lol! One more question, was she pregnant?
@bingbong4848
@bingbong4848 4 ай бұрын
This is where I live. Literally It adds nothing to the story. But at least a bunch of comment section strangers now know.
@icturner23
@icturner23 4 ай бұрын
Weird comment. What is it supposed to ‘add to the story’? What does the location of your residence ‘add to the story’? No one cares about you.
@holdencawffle626
@holdencawffle626 4 ай бұрын
Then add something, Sherlock. Sheesh
@Trouble_Bubble36
@Trouble_Bubble36 4 ай бұрын
I don’t know why people write these type of comments. Go watch something else. Your input is boring.
@bingbong4848
@bingbong4848 4 ай бұрын
@@Trouble_Bubble36 yikes! You’re fun
@bingbong4848
@bingbong4848 4 ай бұрын
@@holdencawffle626 like what?
@EthnosSynergyEnergy
@EthnosSynergyEnergy 4 ай бұрын
This is disturbing. Totally disgusting
@kalieadams24
@kalieadams24 4 ай бұрын
I’d love to see your thoughts on Alexandra Eckersley’s case.
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