How To Hide A Larger Stomach - Do's & Don'ts. Apple Shape. With Personal Stylist Melissa Murrell

How to disguise a larger Stomach. Do’s and Don’t’s of dressing an apple body shape / menopausal stomach / extra stomach weight with Personal Stylist Melissa Murrell. Click the ‘READ MORE’ link below for all the items mentioned in the video.
For reference I’m:
A UK Size 8-10 (USA: 4-6, EU: 36-38)
5ft 3.5 (ish) = 161cm
Contact Details:
Instagram: melissamurrellpersonalstyling
Website: www.mmpersonalstyling.co.uk
MY OUTFIT (UK Links)
Reiss Navy wide leg trousers, Size 8 rstyle.me/+6FvW9UClfz4-cmKtlx...
Reiss Navy and Camel Jumper, Size Small, rstyle.me/+Jr3ZjG3-h-nYTQwsN0...
MY OUTIFT (USA Links)
Reiss Navy Wide Leg Trousers rstyle.me/+5lwntoATJqsoVgomMv...
Reiss Navy and Camel Jumper rstyle.me/+Jr3ZjG3-h-nYTQwsN0...
OUTFITS - UK LINKS:
Whistles Alba Shift Dress (UK link) - rstyle.me/+gnACtBp2O8jNM-q0I8...
Neutral Looser Blazer (similar) rstyle.me/+Ta6j0XoyEaGVsUudi_...
Neutral Fitted Blazer (less expensive version) rstyle.me/+jxnc-QcUAP5DdMoPK5...
Linen blend thin duster cardigans (2 colours) bit.ly/3i0Efic
Zara Pink Tighter Trousers - go.zara/3vPvOOu
Zara Nude Heels - go.zara/3Ce8qvC
Reiss Navy Linen Dress rstyle.me/+e1EoOEW8IqNER6j7vg...
Reiss silk vest top rstyle.me/+0q8HHLuq4SUO_WR2oY...
Prym Shoulder pads with loops: amzn.to/3v0COb4
Faux Leather Cropped trousers, size S rstyle.me/+mWyCGAAoO6st2WJJ3e...
Leather Cropped Trousers rstyle.me/+vbHCvfSqqaY6gkgsp2...
Waist Nipper - amzn.to/3I0T9PP
Striped top rstyle.me/+EIwHjtyyf7RKwN0nLa...
Zara basic natural jumper go.zara/36bxLdk
Zara silk/satin wide leg trousers (blue not pink) go.zara/3IbC9Xq
Mint Velvet Tunic Blouse - rstyle.me/+UpMlMET34J8mqVbaM1...
Jigsaw small floral print dress - rstyle.me/+9_wmNdMRfpCrwzvFWu...
OUTFITS - AMERICAN LINKS:
Fitted Blazer (similar to Zara one shown) rstyle.me/+a3nsoCfzrX-Q92SHfI...
Whistles Alba shift Dress rstyle.me/+kP_PcCX7Rnl2p1B1Fu...
Linen blend thin duster cardigans (2 colours) rstyle.me/+TNYoNOl6Abf3vzOF6C...
Neutral Blazer (Similar) rstyle.me/+bVY1oisBWc8Riy9dSh...
Neutral more fitted blazer (similar) rstyle.me/+6IlI06JWLXKKFEaJQ8...
Reiss Navy Linen Dress - rstyle.me/+uFSAecdXNOSSd5JWVj...
Reiss silk vest top (similar) rstyle.me/+GICp4sLcTI6hkhQ9lS...
Faux Leather Cropped Trousers rstyle.me/+I4zvIqt4vvvkFXvjZt...
Camel Blazer (similar) rstyle.me/+dXZb-YqSnXTcFtlw63...
Shoulder Pads amzn.to/3i0K3YT
Waist Nipper amzn.to/3tWRZA6
Striped top rstyle.me/+5Hubi-CAb_Eov1YiCE...
Zara basic natural jumper: www.zara.com/us/en/basic-knit...
Zara silk/satin wide leg trousers go.zara/3hYnhAX
Mint Velvet Tunic Blouse rstyle.me/+UpMlMET34J8mqVbaM1...
Lady who helped me get into shape!
Ashley Palmer
Psychotherapist MBACP
Metabolic Mindset Coach, Trainer.
www.theflclinic.com
[e-mail]
07770751300
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[@dominiquecandelaria5436]

As a bigger woman, you using the belly to show how things might actually look was done in the most respectful way possible. You didn't put it on and make jokes or giggle. You were completely professional. You came up as a recommended suggestion and this video has given you an instant follow from me! Excited to see what else you come out with xx ❤️

[@mmpersonalstyling]

Thank you so much, I appreciate that. I have 3 new body shape master class videos coming up and each of the ladies have larger stomachs and bigger busts for me to dress so you may find that useful x

[@ellenbassett3598]

My thoughts exactly!

[@janewhitzend688]

I found it really helpful to use the belly add on. It illustrated how to over come the issues I am having perfectly.

[@chrissied575]

I agree!!!

[@kaylynnhuddleston5533]

@@janewhitzend688 OMG NO NO

[@laelakarimi]

The extra mile that you did to help your bigger tummy audience is amazing. I feel so seen and heard. Big tummy issues aren't highlighted well in the fashion and styling categories. Thank you!! 🤗🤗💚

[@mmpersonalstyling]

That’s really nice that you feel heard - I’m really glad, that’s made my day! 😘

[@dr.dshomedecorandmore5824]

Yes, absolutely. Nobody helps us who have big bellies.

[@Yorkie2]

Laela Karmiri... I agree with you , fashion catalogues are designed to make us chubbies feel ashamed .

[@amyjohnson7527]

Yes! Thank you!

[@fentonsmith3509]

Mia

[@sarahwood3888]

Just because I am 79 years old doesn’t mean I don’t want to look stylish and put together! I just found your videos, and have been binge watching. I’ve learned so much, and even though it means purging my closet of all the wrong things, like wrong length, wrong waistline, wrong leg width, etc. now I will go shopping with the right tools in my arsenal!! I was completely misunderstanding the concept of tucking!! Thank you for what you do, and sharing it with all of us. I’m going to check on your personal styling. Never to old to learn!!

[@mmpersonalstyling]

Absolutely never too old! I’m really pleased to hear you’re enjoying them and learning from them. X

[@kimslate5715]

Just found this today. I'm 52. My mother never taught me anything about clothing or makeup. I have secluded myself over the years and found more and more ways to avoid needing those skills. I've always secretly desired to be a casually elegant woman. This video answers so many questions. Thank you!!!

[@mmpersonalstyling]

You got this! There’s loads more videos on here where I dress women of all different shapes and sizes live on the channel so hopefully a few more tips and you’ll be feeling confident like you deserve x

[@akekifs]

Same. Except that I'm just about 30 😔

[@inhalemusicexhaleartjj]

This is ACTUALLY life changing for me because I've been sitting here feeling so gross and just gave up on fashion because of my tummy and large bust. This gives me hope, I'm definitely going to try this and hope that I can feel better about how I look! 💗 Thank you for making this video for us mid size to bigger girls 💞 I hope maybe in the future you might consider making a video similar to this but for busty girls like myself who carry sizes DDD+

[@mmpersonalstyling]

I'm glad it helped. Have you seen the one where I dressed a woman with a barrel tummy and large boobs live on youtube? if not here's the link to it. kzbin.info/www/bejne/i5LOkJmvjbqjmpo

[@inhalemusicexhaleartjj]

@@mmpersonalstyling I just watched this! Been exploring your channel, thank you for what you do!!! 💐🥰

[@melissafedeli2022]

I 1,000% agree this is mind blowing. At first I was like oh cool another skinny person talking about how to dress for a bigger size - but this so good! Thank you!

[@AmonarayIsalay]

I felt this myself

[@soph5669]

Wonderful! New sub ❤thanks so much!

[@heatherstevens8798]

Dear Melissa. I know it's more than a year after you posted this video but I just came across it today. Two words - GAME CHANGER! Finally someone understands and I can't thank you enough. Having you wear the "tummy" that comes all the way up to the bust is key! That is a true apple shape in my opinion. I, for one, am always trying to hide my barrel and never tuck in my shirts. But after watching this I am going to try it! Thank you for bringing humour and respect and talking about real life bodies. From my little corner in Canada - THANK YOU!

[@mmpersonalstyling]

You’re very welcome, thank you so much for watching. There’s now 16 other body shape masterclasses on here, where I dress women of all different shapes and sizes live on the channel, including many who have apple shaped barrel stomachs. To watch any of these simply click on my logo then the ‘videos’ tab and it will list all of my videos in date order. X

[@vanessamackey3857]

I was one of those that resisted tucking in my shirt because I felt it exposed my tummy too much but you have convinced me! It looks so much better with just that simple front tuck. I will always do this from now on!

[@ACozyCasa]

This was very helpful. I've always had a big bust and now that I'm 52, I'm larger through the mid section - always have had a belly, so apple shaped I would say. I think the majority of the problem for those shaped like myself is the horrible way clothing is designed - just square and no sort of fit. For me, blouses are often too short and much more wider than they are long - this is a problem when you have large breasts that take up much of the front length of a blouse or dress. It's a design problem...everything is made one way - "cookie cutter" one size fits all.

[@jaquelinewright1656]

Please consider doing a part 2 on this subject! I'd love more outfit ideas and more details on what to look for when shopping. Thank you! Love your channel.

[@mmpersonalstyling]

I plan on re-visiting this using summer day outfits - i'm just waiting for the summer pieces to arrive in stock in the UK!

[@jaquelinewright1656]

@@mmpersonalstyling this is wonderful news!! Thank you!

[@jeannekuiper1796]

Thank you so much for your very helpful video! As a type 2 diabetic, insulin injections are the main culprit of my barrel belly. My belly sits above my belly button. I have broad shoulders (no shoulder pads needed), heavy upper arms, small bust, long torso with no hips, butt, or thighs. High/low shirts seem to exaggerate my flat rear end. My belly pulls the shirt up even higher in the front & leaves my rear end non existent. Sadly, there is very little info on how to style this body shape. I am looking forward to your summer video. Thanks again!

[@robertamartinson144]

@@mmpersonalstyling that is great to hear as I will be planning a vacation and would love to have to help with my big tummy. lol

[@reneeca5696]

@@mmpersonalstyling that’s wonderful!! We’re already starting to see summer weather here in California. ☀️

[@skdaniels3730]

You are really, really good at illustrating how to “do” the styling in a way that works along side a way that doesn’t. For those of us who need a 1-2-3 process, we can see 25 ways to tuck, and the first 10 look terrible. I enjoy your teaching so much!

[@lorraineklimek1677]

I am 73 years old and gravity has taken a toll. I also have a hernia, right in the middle of my belly, that is not suitable for surgery. Finding clothes that hide my belly has been a super challenge. Your video is absolutely terrific. Thank you!

[@mmpersonalstyling]

Sorry to hear about the hernia but if it makes you feel any better about the gravity bit, I'm only 46 and gravity has already taken a toll on me too 😂 I hide it with a good fitting bra but my husband says that padded bras are like false marketing or fake news!!!! I tell him it's his fault for getting me pregnant!!!!

[@thefadingmoonlight]

I love that she provided ways to adjust the clothing you already own

[@foiblesanonymous]

And you win the award for the most helpful video in this category. So many talk about what to do but you really helped explain and visualise why I must tuck my tops in over my menopausal paunch and how a couple of quid on a pair of shoulder pads makes it possible for even an hourglass to style smock tops, a question I had been dying to ask anyone who might have an answer. All those pretty tops languishing in drawers because we know they are pretty but they make us look pretty awful if we don't utilise these game changing tips. I hope this video flies for you. One of my top ten fashion youtubes of all time now. xx

[@mmpersonalstyling]

Thank you so much Arabella!

[@AyeMama]

Amen 😻

[@cristyb.7755]

Thank you so much for this video. After you put the fake belly on, I felt like I was looking at myself in the mirror. I am very similar to you in frame, slim pretty much all over but due to gastrointestinal issues and allergies/intolerances I’ve been suffering from for years, I’ve got a constant bloated belly, people often think I’m pregnant and it makes it so hard to find the right clothes, that’ll still flatter but hide the belly. Thank you for all your tips. I really love watching your videos

[@nickytreagus8548]

I am apple shaped with gastro issues so I completely get where you are coming from. It's so nice isn't it to get helpful non judgemental tips.

[@abcabc2211]

Maybe omnibiotic is of help? Please google it. (I am not doing advertisment, just want to help) I do have similar problems and this helps me a lot.

[@laelakarimi]

Omg, are you me? I'm the exact same. People definitely think I'm pregnant.

[@fionaH101]

Same here, such a pain isn't it? I find it so hard to find jeans because if they fit my bloated stomach they are crazy baggy on crotch, bum and thighs 😭

[@cristyb.7755]

@@fionaH101 …..and if they fit our thighs, butt and crotch, then they can’t even close the front, zipper on both sides won’t even meet! Exactly, same here! 😅😓

[@cccynova]

Thank you for making the distinction between the barrel-type apple shape with the bulge that comes up high under the bust, vs. the poochy lower abdomen!! I have never heard anyone -- ever, anywhere -- discuss the former type! In my mid-40's, I began to notice that my rectangle shape was giving way to a more barrel-like rounded belly shape, which seems to be a universal characteristic of all the women on my father's side of my family. But, I felt so alone, because nobody discussed that type of shape at all when talking about how to dress the "apple" shape lady.

[@mmpersonalstyling]

I’m glad that distinction has helped. Since this video aired I’ve filmed many videos where I’ve dressed ladies, live on the channel with barrel stomachs, apron stomachs etc so hopefully one of those videos will also help you x

[@VickyLashenko]

This is literally the best video I’ve ever seen on how to hide the tummy. Wow! I’ve gained a lot of weight with baby and still have quite a large tummy one year postpartum - this was SO HELPFUL! I’m literally making all the mistakes 🤦🏽‍♀️ thank you very much for going the extra mile and putting on a tummy! That makes it so much more relatable!!! I hope this video goes viral! I’ve also shared! Thank you!!!!!!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@mmpersonalstyling]

You're so welcome and thank you for sharing. Have you seen this one where I dress a lady with a larger stomach and bust live on camera? kzbin.info/www/bejne/i5LOkJmvjbqjmpo

[@kristinahansink2494]

I've literally been searching Google, youtube, everything... for this exact content. Thank you! This is exactly what I've been looking for. Please, do more just like this. Maybe swimsuits/shorts/summer ideas. ☀️

[@mmpersonalstyling]

Summer looks are coming - I’m just waiting for the items to come into our shops as it’s still very much winter and spring clothes x

[@Mrsdeanroad]

Thank you! You really go the extra mile to help us understand body shape. The side by side views of what to do and what to avoid is super helpful too. Perfect 🤩

[@mmpersonalstyling]

I'm so glad!

[@LewisPsychology]

I’m 51 and had a flat stomach all my life but I’ve recently had major abdominal surgery and I now have a big round belly. I’m struggling to dress so thank you so much for your video. Best wishes.

[@mmpersonalstyling]

you are welcome 🙏🏾

[@TraceyBudgell]

Thank you so much! This video was awesome. We see so many "hide your tummy" videos from people who don't really have a tummy. It was nice seeing the added belly to make it feel relatable. I went from a curvy hourglass figure to a barrel figure that gets emphasized even more because of IBS.

[@mmpersonalstyling]

Thank you. Have you seen episode 7 of the body shape master class videos where I dressed a large chested, apple shaped model live on youtube? You might find that useful... Thanks for watching x

[@arunicahom-choudhury1641]

Apple😂

[@arunicahom-choudhury1641]

I'm a combination of 3 shapes- pear, apple and hourglass, I become apple when my weight goes on my stomach but not a huge belly

[@arunicahom-choudhury1641]

when women get pregnant they look like apples

[@genevievemorin3299]

I am an obese person and I am not offended at all! On the contrary, I am happy you are giving tricks to live elegantly with our bodies as they are. Thanks a lot :-)

[@mmpersonalstyling]

Thank you Genevieve and you're welcome xx

[@sun_up]

Hands down the best advice and demo I've ever seen/read on this topic. (And I've seen my share.) Explaining about the 2 different types of belly/paunch and going to the length of using a (fake) belly to demonstrate. Love it! Thank you!

[@mmpersonalstyling]

Wow, thank you for search lovely compliments, i really appreciate you taking the time to comment xx

[@kaytamaki3869]

Just a wee bit to long explaining

[@joyg3189]

Thank you! I've heard "tuck in" over and over again but now I understand what that actually does to give you shape and hide a tummy. The Santa tummy visual was brilliant!

[@mmpersonalstyling]

I’m glad. Have you watched the follow up video where I show all these tricks on a lady live on you tube? She has issues with her stomach and we managed to get all of the tricks working on her. Here’s the link for you kzbin.info/www/bejne/r3PbZWN7bLqFmbs

[@rubylioness727]

This is great! Thank you for the tips! I appreciate you using the extra padding! I actually have been doing some of these things intuitively but I hasn’t even thought of some like the shoulder pads with the tunic style blouse! Love it!

[@margaretames6522]

Thank you for demonstrating each of the looks with and without touches that hide extra tummy. It makes it so much clearer how these adjustments work. I don’t know what shape I am anymore - I’m just out of shape! I’ll work on that but in the meantime, I’ll be able to look my best in my current body.

[@jaquelinewright1656]

Thank you for going the extra mile for us in this video! The tummy you added was extremely helpful to see a visual difference. Very well done with all the side by side shots.

[@facesunderwater]

After 25, I have never had a flat tummy. I have the barrel "pregnant" stomach and I've spent 20 years trying to figure out how to style myself better. I also happen to be 5 feet tall, so that makes things extra challenging for me. I really appreciate your styling advice. My outfits are starting to make a little more sense to me now. And you have convinced me to always tuck now!

[@mmpersonalstyling]

Oh good, i'm glad. There's a few body shape masterclasses coming up with people shaped like yourself so watch out for those!

[@brittneygearheard5485]

Thank you so much for this. I have struggled with a tummy even when I was 127lbs and had a 26 inch waist! It's just my shape unfortunately. This was really encouraging!

[@Bid361]

The tucking in tip is simply brilliant! What a difference it makes. Am going to rethink and revisit shirts and blouses I had given up on as they made me feel and look bigger.

[@SK-lw9ku]

Omg that was the best styling video ever!! I’m an inverted triangle with broad shoulders and a belly but skinny legs. So the tucking in tops examples were so helpful! I loved how you showed the split screen with the 2 versions of untucked and tucked in. My style is the last one with skinny jeans and a blazer. Also no shoulders pads needed for me and they’re broad enough! x

[@mmpersonalstyling]

Glad you found it useful. It might be worth you watching episode 2 of the Body Shape Master Class and that lady had a similar shape to yourself so you might pick up some more tips x

[@BellyJae]

Me too! I have very broad shoulders, round belly that sits high and very skinny legs, no bum! Thanks mum and dad! 🤣🤣 I’m going to have to rethink my entire wardrobe now!

[@vgwils3604]

@@mmpersonalstyling Love it. I'd love to see you use models with smaller Boobs, large belly 43" plus with flat bottom 43" plus. I've always said Boobs should be bigger than belly but at 65 my belly has outgrown my boobs. I love your ideas because I used them too when I was smaller. Now I'm trying to find ways to dress stylish and comfortable without looking frumpy. Thank you for suggesting Shoulder Pads! Added height can help disguise wide shoulders in certain clothes.

[@blacksorrento4719]

Me too. I own nearly of those tops and I can see where I am going wrong. I got my fathers broad square shoulders, whilst my brother got the coat hanger ones of our mother. Life isn’t fair sometimes is it 🥴 all boobs and tummy, no bum, half decent legs.

[@hauenluu]

We're just the same shape! The struggle can be too real sometimes.

[@Katrinagaming-en1os]

#1 you transformed your shape to a realistic demonstration #2 You did this with respect #3 The side by side videos sold me everything that you were talking about Well done and thank you 👏👏👏

[@mmpersonalstyling]

Glad it was helpful! Thanks for watching and commenting x

[@JodiYeager]

I truly appreciate your showing, not just telling us how to disguise our tummy pooches. I learned a lot. Thank you.

[@nancyjames7925]

Oh! Thank you so much for taking on that shape for a bit to show us ladies how we CAN still have style! I've had this barrel shape all my life at all weights and I love how you have shown to style myself!

[@janeta3509]

Love these tips. I usually tuck one side in creating a diagonal line that also camouflages well and gives my 5' height a bit of lift.

[@domystique]

Thank you for showing this with the "tummy" added in! So much easier to see the difference in the fit of the clothing. Very helpful!

[@protopiannelson5]

Thank you so much for this! I just hit menopause and dressing my belly was almost depressing. Now I'm armed with your tips and feel like I can be fashionable again ! ☺

[@mmpersonalstyling]

Oh great. Hopefully you've seen the new one i've just put on showing how to dress a larger stomach and larger bust on the lovely 'Denise'.

[@juliehayne4636]

Same. Menopause is rough....

[@nazeeniranfar2616]

Great video 🥰 thank you very much for demonstrating the do’s and don’t with the aid of the padding 😍 I also agree that the side by side views are very useful 🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@chandragray8186]

Thank you so much for this, I haven't known how to dress myself for years. I was a nice hourglass in my younger days, but after two kids and weight gain of have a blend between a pear shape and a apple shape and it has been frustrating to know how to dress myself. This has been very helpful, and gives me stuff to look for and play with when shopping.

[@divergentone777]

Thank you for this video

[@linda7452]

Perfect suggestions for me - they really do work and I've tried it with various outfits I own. Can't believe all this time I have been letting all my tops, oversized, just hang down and over to cover the lower belly pouch!! Thank you so much for your lovely demos!

[@marymiller8370]

Much appreciation for all the effort you put into this video. From the similar colored clothes with side by side images to the incredible editing. Thank you!

[@pambukhari1282]

Thoroughly enjoyed this video! Really an eye opener, can’t wait for the next one… thank you xxx

[@jennifersharp6209]

I loved your simulation with the fake belly! Would love to see the same demo with a heavier, real person with this same bigger Apple shape. Like others have mentioned, major gastro issues and huge bloating really affects my overall shape. It makes me look like an overweight person who is about 8 -9 months pregnant. I also have a very large hernia just slightly off center that looks just like the baby’s head is sticking out when it’s doing a biiiiig stretch! I also have small boobs, short torso, short legs and I’m (almost) 5’4. I know you can’t do videos that are That specific, but all the normal helpful tips just don’t work. Maybe someday you could do one for the really heavier person? I really do love your channel and the very specific tips you give as you walk us through the demonstrations. Thank you so much. ❤️

[@mmpersonalstyling]

I've done loads of videos using real women. Have a look at the body shape master class series where I dress real women of all different shapes and sizes live on youtube. Click on my logo then the 'video' tab and you'll see them all in one place. x

[@anatolia0222]

I'm with you on this! The more apple shaped tummy was great in the video, but I'm currently a UK 24 and 155cm tall and it makes me look extremely pregnant with the large bump starting just under my breasts. Would be great to see these demonstrated with a much larger apple stomach

[@kellylindsey1492]

This is absolutely the best styling advice I have heard in a while. Thank you for the informative video.

[@trudiroach]

Wow, this was so amazing. Thanks for the insights. This is literally wardrobe-changing!!!

[@sharronwood3639]

So much content Melissa - thank you for the split screen demos …. Excellent ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

[@lenisselippert1639]

Thank you for all of the wonderful tips. I have been thin most of my life but with age came a belly. I definitely will be using your tips.

[@louannluongo5885]

This was just what I needed to see. Thank you so much!

[@mmpersonalstyling]

You are so welcome!

[@brendashaw6747]

Brilliant ... more fabulous advice. Really helpful. Thank you Melissa

[@InspiredByCreation]

Loved this and found it very helpful! Thank you for more excellent content!

[@kelleyrn27]

So, so helpful! Thank you! I loved that you added the tummy to show the difference that styling makes!

[@graceong1432]

Thank you for this video. I'm a rectangle shape with a barrel middle, also petite too. The way you showed us how to tuck in tops and using shoulder pads help, thank you.

[@jenniferlynn1037]

Adding and the belly and the side by side are amazing. I can actually see what you’re talking about!! So much easier than trying to see it in the mirror (which is already terribly difficult for me). Thank you!!!

[@cel6111]

Another great video Melissa, I appreciate your work and the fact that you talk about very practical, real life things

[@Open-MindedObserver]

Ditto what is said. Thank you!

[@barbaraschwartz8872]

First time I have ever seen anyone address body issues when dressing correctly. Thank you

[@reddenver]

This is the best apple video I’ve ever seen. So thorough and respectful

[@paulamiller3878]

This is the best styling video ever! using the fake belly really helped visualize that the styling tips and tricks do work. This is a game changer for me. Thank you so much.

[@helanalurie9962]

Thank you very much for sharing this. We clearly see what a difference it makes when the top is tucked in. You gave us much to think about and re-think our strategies!

[@mmpersonalstyling]

You are so welcome!

[@_firelocks_]

Thank you so much for this. Seeing the do’s and dont’s is so important. I finally decided to buy clothes for the body I live in instead of living in two pairs of pants and three shirts until I lose weight. You made it clear to me that I can still look pretty and wear flattering things and not hate what I see in the mirror. Thank you again.

[@mmpersonalstyling]

I’m so glad to hear that. Life is too short so embrace the here and now x

[@lindajohnson5671]

I'm so happy I just found your channel. I used to be an hour glass but now I'm heading into pear territory and have been trying to hide the tummy and butt. You've given me some great ideas! Thank you!

[@Brigitte_Cantin]

THANK YOU so much for this. Because of age and medical issues, I've gained 40lbs almost all on my tummy and I just look fat no matter what I wear. (Thank goodness I rarely go out) now I'm going to use your tips with what I have in my wardrobe 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

[@martinjewiss1059]

Excellent video Melissa, great visuals for disguising the tummy area. really enjoyed this. Thank you. Laura x

[@YaEliRoCz]

I love that you refer to those shapeless dresses apple belly women wear! I used to wear those all the time and about a year ago i decided no more!

[@cheryltobey8683]

This is so helpful! I am going to try the looser pants and work with my tops and blouses, using the techniques you have demonstrated. Thank you so much!

[@amberpolk]

This is very helpful. I've recently gained a lot of weight(mostly in my belly) due to thyroid issues and I cant tell you how many times I got asked how far along i am..... Thank you for the help!

[@mmpersonalstyling]

Aren’t people rude! I’m sorry that you’ve had to deal with that and genuinely hope that some of the tips stop that from happening again to you. Take care 😘

[@aprilwalker6033]

I just commented above I had been able to wear about anything until about age 50 then thyroid hit me like a sledgehammer along with gastro issues now at age 54 I try dresses in summer and sweats or leggings rest of time. I just can't put together an outfit that looks good on me! Im ALL belly!! Makes me not even want to go anywhere !!

[@mavis2444]

Hi Melissa. Thank you so much for your time and this video. I’ve been learning a lot from you and your videos. This video is not offensive at all, it is super useful for apple shape body type woman like myself. I really appreciate your help and time for showing me I’ve been doing wrong all these time. Xoxo🙏🙏🙏

[@mmpersonalstyling]

I'm so pleased. Thank you for watching x

[@mariabuffo4258]

I love that you used a tummy because it makes it more realistic to the struggles of having a belly. Thank you!

[@haustittus]

This is amazing! The way you show the difference between how to wear clothes and how not to really illustrates your point. I’m so glad I found your channel. Thank you for the work you put into it!!

[@mmpersonalstyling]

You’re very welcome, thank you for taking the time to watch x

[@AyeshaRameez]

Thank you sooo much! This was the most relatable video I've seen. When you showed a larger tummy, it looked realistic rather than looking pregnant like other women try to show when making videos like this. I've learnt so much and I'm so grateful

[@mmpersonalstyling]

I’m so pleased, thank you for letting me know.

[@marshadwrye9950]

Life affirming! Its nice to sea video that confirms what I've been doing to be correct as my body changes. The examples are terrific. Clear visual demonstrations and your practical experience. This video is well executed informative and speaks to women like you'd want a good and trusted friend to say. I've seen your videos in my feed from time to time, but today, I'm subscribing. Well done!

[@mmpersonalstyling]

Thank you so much, such lovely comments as well. X.

[@Roadie247]

Brilliant styling ideas for myself! Thank you so much.

[@svg7335]

Very helpful. Thank you. The side by side comparisons were helpful.

[@karokaro7902]

Amazing. Was waiting for that a long time. Thank you Melissa for your effort in doing this for us.

[@mmpersonalstyling]

You’re welcome, thank you for watching x

[@nancylorenz5082]

Thank you for this wonderful video! Putting the fake belly on was a wonderful idea to show the reality of having a belly. No one should ever be offended by you adding extra padding to illustrate how to properly style clothes on our not so perfect bodies. Love your videos!! Watching from Orlando, Florida USA

[@mmpersonalstyling]

Thank you Nancy. x

[@rojabella]

This is the first time I've ever seen someone model these alterations in such a clear and helpful manner. Thank you!

[@mmpersonalstyling]

You’re welcome. You can watch me apply this theory using real women of all different shapes and sizes. It’s called the body shape master class series and there’s 9 videos to watch so far x

[@linaskidmore6769]

Thank you so much for this video! I love your visual help by using the pillow. Excellent video! ❤

[@precioussword2263]

Thank you for doing this very informative video. But I hope you could do a part 2, focusing on what design would hide that big tummy when attending formal occassions such as weddings or events that require more formal dress. Thank you.

[@mallorybanting575]

Thank you so much for this video!! I found it so so helpful! I would love a 2nd with more examples and suggestions! I won't lie I am scared to try the tuck in because I feel like it just shows my tummy more. But you have inspired me to give it a try!

[@mmpersonalstyling]

I have a new video going up this weekend using a lady who has an apple stomach and a FF chest - hopefully that might help you. x

[@janis7964]

This was so informative! Thank you so much. I can't wait to learn more from you.

[@isochrome]

This has been the most useful video I have seen about styling! Thanks!

[@mmpersonalstyling]

I'm so glad!

[@marycole434]

I’m back, with another thank you. I had to try few times before I was comfortable, but I am so glad you talk about the half tuck because I LOVE it. This has absolutely changed how I feel about how I look in clothes, finally! I’ve gained 5-10 pounds as I approach 50. You’ve saved me from frustration, expensive wardrobe replacements, and insecurity, if I’m being honest. I’m so grateful you share your expertise with us.

[@mmpersonalstyling]

Thank you Mary - I’m glad you persevered! X

[@christinezwicke1002]

Brilliant all round! Thank you for giving me my "shape" back ❤

[@mmpersonalstyling]

you're very welcome xx

[@pageremick5504]

BRILLIANT! I'm going to copy and paste this link into a file so I can refer to it several more times. What a difference it makes...and I'm so glad you shared just how to take the emphasis away from our middle. Thanks!

[@mmpersonalstyling]

Thank you for watching. Hopefully you've seen the new one i've just put on showing how to dress a larger stomach and larger bust on the lovely 'Denise'.

[@Daydreamer-ok6jj]

Your suggestions are invaluable!!! I’ve never thought of trying ANY of these ideas but they really do make the tummy look better. Thank you, thank you, thank you! I’m almost in tears because there’s help for me when I needed it most. Your channel is amazing. 👏

[@mmpersonalstyling]

Thank you so much! There’s many more videos on here where I dress real women live on camera with apple shaped bodies so they might help too xx

[@susieguinness5398]

Another brilliant video and advice. Learned so much. You’re a breath of fresh air and very talented 🙌 x

[@mmpersonalstyling]

Thank you so much!

[@siby6117]

This is far and away the best take on how to dress for an apple shaped body that I have ever come across!! Great understanding, explanation and advice for those who with a barrelled torso, as well as those with a pooch or apron. But the best thing is that the focus is not just on disguising the tummy area, but also on balancing it with shoulders, bust and legs. Thank you so much! I am now going to lay out my wardrobe and get rid of anything that does me no favours, replacing with options you mention as I can afford to🙏😊

[@mmpersonalstyling]

Thank you so much x

[@estrellasyfrases]

This was very well done and helpful. I learned a lot that I can apply while I'm shopping for clothes. Thank you! ❤

[@DanaGoldbergMD]

Super helpful. You demonstrate in a way that is clear and makes sense. Thank you for your content.

[@mmpersonalstyling]

You're very welcome!

[@kimpotter3045]

Thank you ! I get bloating from certain foods so it’s great to k ow how I can hide my belly. Using your fake belly is really helpful as you can see exactly how it works. Shoulder pads on order 😁 ❤️

[@juliejohnston9355]

This is so helpful for my menopausal expanding waistline!! Great tips and tricks, thank you!

[@mmpersonalstyling]

So glad! Thank you for watching x

[@flowerpeace100]

Blimey this video is SO good! I’ve been raking the internet for tips so thank you, KZbin Algorithm for getting it right and thank you, for making this 😊

[@mmpersonalstyling]

Glad it helped! There’s lots of body shape masterclasses on here where I dress many women live on the channel that have stomachs that they needed my help with. X

[@meridomo2677]

Amazing innovative transformations ❤ I Really appreciate this instructional video!

[@christinekelly-rose303]

I avoided button down shirts for the exact reason you shown. Thanks for the excellent styling tip...now I don't have to avoid the wardrobe basic button down shirt. You have the best tips on KZbin!!

[@mmpersonalstyling]

Goodness me, thank you very much, all of your comments are so lovely and encouraging xx

[@SusieJefferson]

Just found you yesterday, watched the video and immediately went out and bought 2 pairs of wide leg trousers. Those and the Tshirt tuck-in trick were a total revelation! I'm 69, just lost over 4 stones so I'm down to a size 12/14, which is OK for 5ft 8in I think - but still have that big wobbly belly. So it's been a real help. No, I didn't find the false belly offensive in the slightest. I'd have found it offensive for someone slim and petite, with no apparent figure problem, to suggest solutions for a problem she doesn't have! So seeing all your tips work 'for real' has made all the difference. Needless to say, I've just subbed. Thanks so much!

[@mmpersonalstyling]

I'm so glad my tips have inspired some new purchases that make you feel wonderful - love that! Thank you so much for watching xx

[@astrudlang7557]

Great advice and demonstration!! Very practical- thank you!

[@mmpersonalstyling]

You're very welcome!

[@jcswood]

WOW! I would never have believed tucking your top would've made such a difference .... and would've never believed that you could convince me to start tucking my tops now, in my late 50's, but you've done it!! Thank you 🙏🥰

[@mmpersonalstyling]

Glad I could help!

[@kathrynroyles468]

I have been struggling with my weight for years now! I have a large upper stomach area and large chest area, I came across your video by chance tonight. I've never been confident in what to wear and wear well. This has really opened my eyes. I'm feeling so close to tears right now wondering why I haven't seen anything like this before. Thank you so much.

[@mmpersonalstyling]

Oh bess you, I'm glad I could help you in some way. I think this video might really help too as it shows me dressing a lady live on youtube who has a larger bust and barrel stomach. kzbin.info/www/bejne/i5LOkJmvjbqjmpo

[@sarahh3061]

This is so interesting. Even at 57kg and 5 ft 4 I have a barrel shape and small bum. I have very slim very muscular legs as well. I feel seen 😂 These tips are great. It was a good explanation as to why certain things I've tried look really bad as well. Thanks!

[@nehasakhrani9130]

Amazing!!!Thank you so much for doing this.So many great ideas to hide my apple shaped tummy.Bless you❤️🤗🙏🏻

[@deedhlamini3325]

New Subscriber here! Thank you so much 💓 This video came up on my feed when my self esteem was taking a real clobbering! Have been relatively slim all my life...and feeling hopelessly lost in how to shop and dress for menopause and covid working from weight gain! All I can say is a huge THANK You!

[@mmpersonalstyling]

Thank you for taking the time to watch and comment. Really pleased to hear that it may have helped you. If you're interested I also dress real women with real lumps and bumps as part of the body shape master class series. There's 6 on here so far with more to come. Click on my logo then the videos tab to see all of my videos in one place.