The 4 Mental Blind Spots That Are Making You Stupid

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Chris Williamson

Күн бұрын

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@ChrisWillx Жыл бұрын

Hello you legends. Watch the full episode with George Mack here - kzbin.info/www/bejne/p3OxqGaradGCqJo

@KingADGaming Жыл бұрын

Chris, you’re the goat for real. Visit Canada one day

@johnsondeng Жыл бұрын

Love these conversations. They're like the developed versions of shower thoughts I've had over the years.

@ChrisWillx Жыл бұрын

Absolutely the best description. Gold star for you

@KnottyCeltic Жыл бұрын

lol same.

@ashleyeatsmuffins Жыл бұрын

Is this not an example of a mini/humble brag?😅

@Snakebloke Жыл бұрын

I find myself getting angry when strangers stare at me, or shake their heads. I realised, that I'm angry not because they're judging me - as they'll have forgotten me 2 minutes later - but more that I dislike myself, and I'm assuming they're hating me in the same way I hate myself. I didn't explain that well, but I hope the point got across.

@calvinchabot2528 Жыл бұрын

Hey. I hope you’re doing well. I’m sure you’ve heard the cliche before, but it never hurts to hear it again. Be as kind to yourself as you would be to someone else. Cheers

@d33pLuM Жыл бұрын

Why would someone look at a stranger and just shake their head?

@ChrisBrown-or8ky Жыл бұрын

Gotcha. I think I'm the poorest person in my building, which I probably am, so I'm judging myself, so when my neighbours look at me, I judge myself for them.... Argh!!

@Thomas...191 Жыл бұрын

We project our dark thoughts and insecurities on those blank canvases of other people. An awareness of this phenomena can elevate some of its worst consequences

@d33pLuM Жыл бұрын

@@ChrisBrown-or8ky it’s ok to be poor(er) than others, you’re TCOB-ing and if others look down on u for $$ reasons that has nothing to do with u- are u a good person? That’s what u should judge yourself & others on. But if men want to stay in the toxic paradigm of letting money and status control their perceptions of people and how they feel about themselves then that is a choice. We have to get comfortable with not being liked. Their boos should mean nothing, you’ve seen what makes them cheer.

@sunmoonstars3879 Жыл бұрын

This makes me so thankful I grew up before we had social media. I only use KZbin nowadays & have no wish to ever go near insta, Facebook etc. it just brings out the very worst human traits & magnifies all our deepest insecurities.

@MaggieMMM Жыл бұрын

I do not adjust any of my photos, not even with filters but I’m 46 and can’t be arsed 😂 I find all the face tuning stuff weird and pointless because when people meet you in real life they can see you, the can actually see you.

@the_schan Жыл бұрын

1) Ego feeding 2) Lack of introspection 3) Opportunity cost 4) Envy Since this video serves nothing for the title, here y'all go

@ShepShepFT86 Жыл бұрын

6:30 is pretty spot on but I think it's required if you want to navigate through modern times. Just need to make sure you are playing the right game.

@jakedo4577 Жыл бұрын

8:22 The solution to the “We vs. The World” is easily to “Don’t Try”. Especially when you are in late teen years and early 20s.

@martynspooner5822 Жыл бұрын

It is absolutely true the universe just doesn't care, whoever you are in comparison you are completely insignificant.

@MotivaVibes24 Жыл бұрын

Such a profound video! The idea of 'bragging razor' really stood out to me. It makes me question the way we perceive success and how it's portrayed by others. The concept that our own achievements should naturally come up in conversation rather than being thrust upon others is a refreshing take. It was interesting to think about the 'Instagram razor'. The false reality created online can indeed be deceiving. We tend to forget that we only see a carefully curated fraction of people's lives on social media. The part about being an 'extra in someone else's movie' hit home. It's a great reminder that we shouldn't be overly concerned about what others think, as they're likely caught up in their own narratives. Great content, as always!

@paulwarren8832 Жыл бұрын

Good points about narcissism. Be interesting to see Dr Ramani on your podcast. She’ll be a great guest - and supercharge your views too!

@M0viLover Жыл бұрын

Ooooooo - Dr. Ramen Noodles?? I hope MW has being a Single M0m as a topic! And, why men prefer to *not* date / marry them.

@JaleM Жыл бұрын

Love the ZT shirt ❤

@ChrisWillx Жыл бұрын

My boy

@GPAC78 Жыл бұрын

I worked with an instagram model/influencer for a couple of weeks, and if didn’t already know who she was, I would never have been able to pick her out of a crowd, based on her Instagram photos.

@nuttcaseprod Жыл бұрын

I might be a bit stuck in the old ways, but it's always been considered polite to mention oneself last when listing up people. Example: my mate and I.

@wackojacko2001 Жыл бұрын

Interesting point about how to view people bragging. One of the problems of people flexing on social media these days

@KnottyCeltic Жыл бұрын

I always did well in school. It didn't come easily, I studied hard but kids always copied off my tests. I was always shocked when those who copied STILL failed the test. Admittedly I always lied about my test scores b/c I hated being the "smartie pants" in the class. kids would ask your score and then treat you poorly for scoring well. It was easier to just lie.

@michaelmyers6985 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for that slice of humble pie. 🔪 cuts deep.

@OneWithLogic Жыл бұрын

4:00 Same thing happened to me at an amusement park while waiting in line. Girl wasn't that unattractive but she was still using the filters to look like a model. Biggest tell was when she posed with her (I'd assume) boyfriend and he looked way out of her league in the previews. The materialism of people astounds me sometimes. I don't even like taking selfies and people complement me that I look decent all the time.

@powerfuel297 Жыл бұрын

There are lot of 6 that look like 8 on insta i saw that again recently

@brock5946 Жыл бұрын

@@powerfuel297And that's based on their looks. Their personality would be even worse most likely

@salmanahmed4718 Жыл бұрын

What watch are you wearing ?

@JOHN----DOE Жыл бұрын

How's this for judging success: anyone who's bragging is only concerned with his own ego. Really successful people have moral purpose beyond themselves.

@McMurchie Жыл бұрын

Amazing

@letsgobrandon416 Жыл бұрын

Haha, there's no one envying my Instagram 😂🤣🤣

@LillyA-u5n Жыл бұрын

Even when we know absolutely nth about soe else who isn't us I guess still everyone has an opinion..

@robdegoyim4023 Жыл бұрын

Great insight into the modern insecure mind, thanks. Had no idea things were so bad.

@jam469 Жыл бұрын

id rather be looking at the landing pages produced by the guy for his clients as opposed to the one he did for himself. The illusion has been created and you've got under the comfort blanket ……… If there are two dentists in a town you don’t go to one with the best teeth. If you favor illusion over achievement it says a lot and you're walking around with a target on your back.

@120dbdavid Жыл бұрын

The dashboard says Taxation is theft .

@craigfrober316 Жыл бұрын

All well and good telling us not to care about others' opinions, but surely guarding one's reputation is important too? It's not so easy to remain indifferent when a vindictive ex-partner, colleague, family member, etc is in the midst of a smear campaign, for example.

@gotinogaden Жыл бұрын

I think it's almost impossible to NOT care at all, since this goes completely against the in-built evolutionary desire to stick to the group at all costs and avoid exclusion from it, because historically, social ostracism often lead to death. Having said that, I've quit jobs over smear campaigns (well, one job, but it was bad enough to leave it) and people do tend to believe what they hear, unfortunately. Trebly so if they do not possess critical thinking skills. It's one thing to hear the rumours, but once you start acting upon them without hearing both sides of the story, it becomes a huge issue.

@dakaelo Жыл бұрын

all the brit references lol...

@adrians5875 Жыл бұрын

Title very loosely connected with the content

@brylosafuriosa Жыл бұрын

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@EL_394 Жыл бұрын

a mear insect is more significant then the entire nothingness combined

@overtblowfish4439 Жыл бұрын

No u

@EL_394 Жыл бұрын

I do care about others suffering

@kentondragon9263 Жыл бұрын

9:24 If you wanna blame someone, go blame your parents for bringing you here. 🤷‍♀️ otherwise stop whining and playing by other ppls "rules" and go be a reliable person.

@Rakyr Жыл бұрын

Honestly I follow very few figures/celebrities. I mainly follow friends and potentially dates(oi oi). It keeps things real instead of unrealistic comparisons. Not even the actual millionaires can compete with he ideals they throw out there.