They are too busy thinking about what they can get from you. 😮
@Maverik19892 ай бұрын
Absolutely spot on. If you go deep on whatever conversation not related to them they are staring you without saying nothing. No depth conversations never with these empty shells, just superficial conversations with those jackass supreme
@aleciamoten68672 ай бұрын
They don't want you to ask or tell them anything. Whatever you have to say is stupid to them.😢😅
@garybrown77652 ай бұрын
I thought I was the only one that noticed this. They don't like deep conversations about life or Relationships. They will immediately change the subject or just get Quiet. They won't engage.
@ValerieRoberts-uv7kf2 ай бұрын
Their attention spans are like kids. 😮
@JF323042 ай бұрын
They don't care at what is coming out of your mouth. If it isn't supply they don't want to hear it.
@TitanTribble2 ай бұрын
I'd listen intently with empathy, praise, feedback, and humor for multiple hours....but whenever the ball was in my court for her to listen, she'd quite literally say that time feels like it's going slower and then all patience was lost. The abuse that followed was terrible when all I ask was some effort and my care because it's a two way conversation, not just about her.
@marisolflores14192 ай бұрын
They have a plan and when you talk you ruin their plans . They are so self absorbed , they are the crazy ones .
@leighwatkins172 ай бұрын
Plus they love the sound of their own voice. So if you're talking, they tune you out. It's all about them.
@GoWithin42 ай бұрын
They have the memory of an elephant too.
@splender882 ай бұрын
We have a presidential candidate just like that!
@Sherrilynnkalmar2 ай бұрын
Yep, he called me crazy after projecting.. after watching all your videos you would think I would learn, but I still get bamboozled!
@petrag.40922 ай бұрын
Yep, true on the one as well. 🙏
@elove2.0382 ай бұрын
The narc i knew said he think he had Adhd. Very selfish & sneaky
@Ian-jr2wl2 ай бұрын
HOW RIGHT YOU ARE
@DonnaWaligorski2 ай бұрын
I got a family member like this.....😮
@jeffreyplum52592 ай бұрын
I had shrink like this. She was "treating" me for damage caused by a Narcissistic mother I lived with.
@ninamars3572 ай бұрын
You'll never really communicate with them. Anything important you tell them is conveniently forgotten - if it doesn't benefit them, they don't retain it. You have repeat yourself a million times - exhausting! The less you say the better because they'll twist it around.
@yankeehillraymie12962 ай бұрын
Once again thank You for reminding me im just wasting my energy trying to talk about something that has bothered me for decades. I finally as gracious as i possibly can bring it up just because it's bothered me for decades. Just to literally get ignored and ruin my hod damn 20 minutes of actually feeling better after wanting to literally die. But i can't voice the fact that ive literally lost my gd mind in a full nervous break down because they will just say that they cant handle the fact that im so upset and they STEAL MY Breakdown as thier own. So godamn frustrating. The simple truth is not pretty. Im sorry. Im SORRY IM SORRY
@Joe-dg6vs2 ай бұрын
Well said
@deborahtoney3522 ай бұрын
Amen
@bruceemmert68462 ай бұрын
Let them count there toes
@barnbum66772 ай бұрын
Rage always just rage.
@Tommytwostroke2 ай бұрын
Truth
@Alice-ts3vlАй бұрын
Selective hearing is also healthy sometimes
@DANNYDOHERTY-xp5luАй бұрын
That's true
@sism30282 ай бұрын
TRUE!
@lefantomer2 ай бұрын
Which explains Taylor Swift's "songwriting" style.
@ZOOTSUITBEATNICK12 ай бұрын
?
@michelledickson55716 күн бұрын
And then they get made when you demand a response. Truly no winning with these deranged people
@shannonwashburn41262 ай бұрын
Any form of conversation with the narc is a mistake. Items like handfuls of gravel start flying my way, if we're outside. Its not worth it. Its always bait, if I take the bait, Its an opportunity for him to attack.
@barnbum66772 ай бұрын
They're fkin lazy.
@robertmoore-g9s2 ай бұрын
No time for thi....
@voxveritas3332 ай бұрын
Describes Trump to a "T".
@astroturfmatador91192 ай бұрын
I had to stop watching this video about ten seconds in.