The Greatest Realization After Narcissistic Abuse |

[@ericad4569]

“The truth will set you free but first it will make you miserable.” It’s a hard realization to accept but I’d rather know the truth so I can make better decisions.

[@CynthiaSchoenbauer]

I think we must be the emotionally brave when we are finally willing to face all that pain and doubt somehow knowing that faith itself will bring us through it.

[@marijkevandermeer2772]

I have been codepedent to a certain level of him but God saved me...God saved me during my whole life...

[@kathleen4611]

Yes he has saved me from so much stuff besides delivering me from a liar

[@marijkevandermeer2772]

@@kathleen4611 yes, I fully understand...❤️

[@marijkevandermeer2772]

Satan is their father....

[@palapalak.8907]

Fact

[@Wisdomseeker5]

Schools doesn't want the kids and teens learn about emotional abuse, The School system is narcissistic 😢

[@marijkevandermeer2772]

I am single for seven years now..life is so good...❤

[@laceyharris6472]

You would think after dealing with one narcissist you can peg them but I've had to experience different types to truly understand how jacked this PD is....

[@BeezyM345]

Correct! I dealt with two. My first was a relationship of 4 years to an overt. Then 1 year with a covert. It wasn’t until I was with the covert, did I realize what a narcissist was and that my first ex was overt. My first ex tried getting back with me ( I shut that down) and told me that my new boyfriend (now ex) was just a 2.0 version of him and in time I’d see it. I thought he didn’t know what he was talking about but now I see that was probably the one truth he had told me in a long time. So happy to be out of their matrix of lies, infidelity, constant drama and abuse.

[@amandaserle3343]

Really emotional today cant believe hes sent me a friend request after i discarded him 6 weeks ago tomorrow. Can't believe how evil they are.

[@elainecraig8096]

I couldn’t have said this better! I absolutely agree, this needs to be taught about early on. It may have saved me from so much pain emotionally and physically.

[@amandaserle3343]

Everything they do after the fake love bombing stage is premeditated calculated and intentional

[@vovamccher8160]

Thank you! As a Christian I so understand the depth of your words. So true. God bless you. Keep up the good work.

[@valerieputman9107]

The Judus Sprit!!!!

[@marijkevandermeer2772]

I am a light worker..I worked my whole life for people and of course animals...❤

[@kimwells7245]

Amen ! They needed to warn us about this. Nobody ever did. This could've all been prevented for us all.

[@jamesbilclough9728]

You talk so well! Not just about narcissism but the way you speak is very good. I’ve literally been glued to your channel for the past few days and this channel is so informative it’s really helped me gain even more clarity on my past toxic relationship. Thank you 🙏🏻

[@marijkevandermeer2772]

I am with God...❤

[@MsTeelove07]

You are so correct. Im so hapoy i found your channel blessing to you!!! At almost 55 years old im learning this. Its been overwhelming liberating just to say a few. Im free now and yes you can really feel it once your out you will feel the freedom peace and happiness. Blessing to all

[@etaokha4164]

I was fully awakened after I left the toxic relationship and healed and educated more and more and more about narcissism. I see them for who they're. Fake as hell. I am staying single forever because this demons are everywhere

[@palapalak.8907]

Fact

[@Oceansgreen]

Yes, me too, not getting caught out again.

[@theideaplace]

I've found that the first sign of a narcissist is the person that rushes up to you first when you enter a room with a big smile and overly friendly... those for me have always turned out to be bad apples... Narcs know well how to use people and they want first dibs to see if you are worth spending time with... if you have supply they want. .. I always steer clear of the gushy types on first meeting...

[@palapalak.8907]

So true!

[@dub1951]

100%

[@pinkrose4322]

Omg! You're channel is such a blessing!! You're correct!!! When you're young, you have no clue about these things. When you get older the bell goes off loud and clear. We had no idea that their were so many COLD HEARTED people out here. 😮

[@LoveWolves777]

You are dead on with this message, my soon to be ex narcissist wife was, wow, I only survived because of God, pure and simple

[@amandaserle3343]

You definitely are educating people and doing an absolutely fantastic job. ♥️😊🇬🇧

[@TheGameEXPOSEDPodcast]

Thank you so much!

[@brendafrancis4241]

Yaz, you are on point with this video. One of your best videos. These narcissist are cowards, counterfeits. When the devil can't get to you. He will send the Narcissist!!!!!

[@rashidarowe7882]

You are correct, he told me our relationship was not real, that he does not let anyone in, because no one is going to hurt him. He also said he can separate logic from emotions and when he gets to close to anyone he just turns them off. I wish I could do that as well, turn off all of my feelings for him :(

[@kimking3909]

Too much of that, will make one psycho.

[@nadinedavies698]

This is one of your best videos!… I love all your videos, and you have such great wisdom and advice!… I’ve been through probably three or four abusive relationships two our relatives and then two relationships!

[@Camera1931-p5v]

One thing about learning things the hard way, You never forget! Great advice!

[@kathyt.1939]

So true, every word you said about sin. I love your podcasts. You really help people to know, understand and see what goes on in narcissistic relationships.

[@amandaserle3343]

You are so right hard to accept they aren't who they portrayed to be its shocking they can do what they do.

[@lalunar8]

I am definitely not there yet, still in shock, I have derailed my entire life thinking he was my best friend, he said that we were going to have a business together and he wanted to retire with me. It's so crazy because we had so much in common and our interests were so similar. He knew I was single for 12 years before I met him and I stupidly told him I had bad past relationships. I believed him and looked up to him, but when I needed a friend he disappeared. When I told him I was confused and in the dark he ignored me. I had so many concerns and he kept telling me " all is good" " there's nothing to fix" But I was in pain and he allowed me to sit there, in pain. When I told him I couldn't go on another trip with him ( long distance relationship) he told me he needed a break from me bc I was attacking him, and now I can see on social media that he is taking trips with his ex girlfriend a month later... Just horrific 😢

[@markgordon4619]

What is the quote from that movie- the greatest trick the devil ever pulled, is convince the world he doesn't exist. Thanks for being an excellent teacher

[@PamKopp-ot7fd]

😂

[@amandaserle3343]

Yep absolutely spot on as always yes it was the deception and betrayal that really hurt me the most. Going to take me a while to get my head around that.

[@amandaserle3343]

You are doing a fantastic job. ♥️😊🇬🇧

[@pinkfabulous248]

It’s a sad realisation but we now have the knowledge to protect ourselves 🌸

[@kimwells7245]

This is my favorite video of all your videos. It's a treasure trove. I will listen to it many, many times.

[@IzabelaWaniek-i1x]

Thank you 🙏 for another great podcast Yaz ❤ Spot on!

[@GeezerWheelClub]

For me this was your best post. I am 57 and have a narcissistic mother and all my relationships were with narcissists. I think because my mother was one that is what I thought was normal. My last relationship lasted 27 years and I never felt she respected me. Always demeaning followed with love bomb or rewarding. It went really bad the last 3 years. Because of this I finally learned what narcissism is and now it all makes sense. If it was not for God I never would have made it. She drug me down over many years and God oped my eyes and pulled me back up! I’m still healing but feel so much better not walking on eggshells and wondering what’s wrong with me. It never was me, they are truly evil and manipulating.

[@joanharder2124]

I am so grateful for people like you who have shared their experience with us. It’s so hard to leave even with education. I came from a family of narcissists and now married (not for long) to 2nd one!! I am going to grow through this and help others.

[@raidenewalden4354]

You are right there yaz, I didn’t realise narcs exist not until I heard from you .

[@CynthiaSchoenbauer]

I love so much that you are talking about love and faith as concepts to strive for and believe in. You are addressing the trauma narcisssists inflict which has to be dealt with first before life can be see and enjoyed for the real blessings it has to offer. Thanks Yaz. You are putting into words lessons that we actually have to strive to learn.

[@fridachanel8234]

You speak truth! My narc husband claims to be a man of God. Whenever I remind him that a true man of God is a man who treats his wife like Jesus with his church, it's like the demon in him freaks out and tells me to stop preaching to him. It's painful to see this, but more to experience the devaluation and discard from him. I love your videos, they have helped me so much. Powerful how you included the spiritual aspect of things. It's a full blown spiritual warfare. Thank you!

[@cpmama1]

I grew up with my father warning me about toxic People whose main focus is what they can do to fuck up somebody life... I did not believe, I am in my 60s now and my dad passed almost 20 yrs ago.. I never believed until being married over 30 yrs... I am devastated. I did not listen and paying the price now.

[@maureendevore2631]

Thank you for helping me with your videos. God bless you.

[@Empress888Endless]

Love your content! It is all so true! Extremely important and essential to help the victim to see through all this BS, gaslighting and manipulation. God bless you!

[@Rachael-ue9sj]

So true!!! We were homeless and he literally didn't give a shit...and all he did was make my already stressful situation 1000 times worse

[@Truthteller1s]

You hit the 🎯 with this one! 💯💪💯💪

[@aprildamski8365]

Yaz, thank you much for this video!

[@GeezerWheelClub]

I relate to what you’re saying. I thought my ex was my friend but after 27 years God showed me who she really was and took her out of my life. Now I don’t even recognize her as she was, the mask she wore for decades is gone and I now see the devil in her. As much as it hurt getting past that trauma bond, God saved me again and I am grateful!🙏

[@amandaserle3343]

Great podcast thanks Yaz as always. ♥️😊

[@OCKNIGHTRIDER]

facts i'm definitely going through this one too and it's hard i know god is there for me thanks for doing this one

[@martyvirtue4051]

Never forgot to mention: siblings. My brother was a narc. It has influenced every aspect of my life. I became a narc magnet my entire life and I am almost sixty.

[@nadinedavies698]

I have a couple of brothers that are narcissist I can relate!

[@sisteroflovea7215]

Yes I’m so grounded in God, my husband thinks I’m a fool!! God is my strength ❤️

[@gilbertmovay221]

keeping spreading this knowledge you are really helping to heal and be educated on how they think

[@DaisyCruz-yr3bu]

Hello everybody , everything U said is True That the way I being filling , day by day , im a person with strong Faith , getting there ! Thank you so much U helping US . God bless 🙌 🙏 ❤️

[@trudythornton]

Yaz, great video! Everything well stated and I concur…..

[@rebekahjette6304]

"One dodo bird..."🤣 I love it!

[@TheGameEXPOSEDPodcast]

🤣😂

[@carolannburke5450]

Yes, that was hysterical.....enveloped into the very serious/painful subject--kinda lightened things up a minute...

[@Itsmec08]

WOW! THIS WAS SOOOOO REAL 🔥

[@dnotesdnotes8245]

Thaaaaaank Youuu soooooomuch !!!!!! You are helping me … in LA…

[@dnotesdnotes8245]

Yes you REALLY HELPED THANK YOU. 2nd listen jus now ….90 days in healing

[@amandaserle3343]

A post was saying today narcasist are not connected to their spirits? They disconnected from their spirit in childhood. They still know exactly what they are doing i don't care what anyone says.

[@Holly-d1n]

I don't think healthy, normal relational people ever fully understand how cruel people can be, because it takes dysfunctional thought processes to treat a loved one in such a way, it can eventually cause their body to break down.

[@martindiva]

So true the ex Narc i was with use to say I was her soul mate two years later she was calling the police making up fake stories and aligations.

[@Openbookest82]

That man never cared not even a little I couldn’t believe that someone could fake it like that it’s so unnecessary! I totally get it now

[@amandaserle3343]

What a sad life they live. Very sad.

[@ronniecoffey9945]

Thx Yaz for your insight ❤🔥😍!! I'm so grateful u educated this caveman

[@ronniecoffey9945]

We're ALL being Tested by God✝️ So True !!!

[@kevinowens6010]

Outstanding information and spot on.

[@TheGameEXPOSEDPodcast]

Thank you ☺️

[@ladyvirgo013]

I really needed to hear this today, thanks Yaz❤

[@AbbyJimmySwitzer]

Thanks Yaz for this info. Very helpful. Bless you

[@jimcreek961]

Thank you Yazz, it really helps❤

[@henrytorresvlogs]

Same I dealt with a master manipulator for 4 years now I realize what she use to say to me was her really telling me who she was in a joking manner. I thought she was the best in the beginning she was a flat out covert narcissist.

[@noverguy]

And yet another fantastic explanation here by YAZ. Yes, a narc can be fun. Remember, a narc is like a toddler...they love to have fun, but will pout the moment you say "okay now, time to get off the swing set and do your homework"...they cannot and will not do any work...well, maybe at the beginning, but marry them and that will soon come to an end...Listen to YAZ and she will give you the tools to set you free.

[@connylemaire]

THANK you❤

[@Oceansgreen]

Why do narcissists always threaten you with the police🤷🏻‍♀️I went to where my narc ex husband was to try and resolve him walking out, to try and sort things out… he just got nasty, wouldn’t listen to my side of things, then, threatened to call the police if I didn’t leave… OMG!!

[@ldi007]

Because most police aren't intelligent about personality disorders or have one.

[@spbrendasp]

Songs are differently, I can quickly point them out. And after 28 years learning this last year is insane. I got ptsd from NPD

[@amandaserle3343]

Sounds like you have been through it Yaz.

[@pauljimenez6594]

Same thing said she's a Chamillionaire 🦎 but, didn't know what that meant so I got snagged

[@Nonfiction.Reader]

Truth.

[@amandaserle3343]

I really can't believe people like this exist. I was literally crying today thinking how sad they can't love have no empathy or incapable of intimacy. Im sure they could if they set their mind to it?

[@LoveSource1111]

What saved me from a covert malignant? God

[@dannyflood9212]

I have a real problem now. First off I've been away from the narcissist for 2 years and everything you say about her is 100 percent. I don't give any fucks about her at all. The problem is now. I have a girl at work who is a lot younger than me and I know she likes me. But I avoid her because it scares the shit out of me. I avoid her like crazy and even get panic attacks when I see her. That never happened to me before! Can you help me?

[@nilaja-itsmylife]

Thou a mother may forsake her sucking child yet I will never leave you 🙏🏾✨❤️💯

[@amandaserle3343]

Yep i was manipulated for a whole year before trusting him enough to actually meet him. Thought i was being cautious apparently not long enough a year. We lived 200 miles from eachother thank god. And never told him my address thank god.

[@LoisSummres]

I will never ever have another Husband again Free Free at last I'm Free 🎉🎉🎉

[@kjsfl386]

Me too

[@palapalak.8907]

Me three

[@hannahhughes4801]

Me neither or boyfriend.

[@Oceansgreen]

Nor me!!!!

[@Joyfulsurviver]

I knew about evil but not hidden evil!

[@spbrendasp]

My narc cheated on his wife and told me she was crazy, i didnt know of her till i fell in love. I know hes telling this girl hes admitted to cheating with but wont tell anyone else but me , after ghosting me a year and using me. This is insane. Everything you say is exactly right.

[@annab4402]

Could you please make a video specifically on the book called The Game as many men still follow this advice , I think my bf also. He used the ignoring and silent treatment on me and then pretended his phone was dead but then I actually told him this is emotional abuse and he didn't believe I said to google it and then he stopped. So I think some of those men don't understand this is abuse and they think it's just a game but it gives me huge distress. Some people are a bit older and they don't use YT or tiktok and they need something to actually read as they refuse to watch videos even if I send them and they think it's bs... Also in dating online there is a lot of signs of potential narcs looking for victims, I am now so fine tuned to it that I can spot their testing messages. Thank you for your amazing channel.

[@henrytorresvlogs]

Amen 🙏🏾

[@91octobercj]

Can you do a video on the benefits of a smear campaign? How it shows that the people the narc smeared you to always felt a way about the survivor of the narc abuse.

[@amandaserle3343]

Theres definitely something very true on how to tell narcissists by tgeir eyebrows? The one i encountered definitely had them these prominent eyebrows. Its true .

[@LR-yu3mx]

The pathetic "psychologists"That were paid dearly through my medical aid funds, never taught me, what was already known in the 2980's and 90's.

[@amandaserle3343]

How they can block their feelings no idea i definitely couldn't im too emotional for my own good. Its beyond my comprehension they exist pure evil in my opinion intentional

[@Oceansgreen]

Same!!

[@Kingsfrie]

Hey Yaz, I can be your grandfather in years but, man , I SO enjoy your videos your way of exxpressing yourself to the audience is sso really ...... I did not want tto saay ..ccuteBut it iss....I am still crying like a street dog after my narcc love, trrying my utmost to no contact her. Are you a NY girl?

[@TheGameEXPOSEDPodcast]

Yes New York ☺️

[@meloneymoore8856]

ALL FACTS!!!!😇😇😇-Xclusyph Icon

[@amandaserle3343]

Hes trying to hoover me again sent me a friend request didn't accept it he somehow jumped on to my messenger!! Saying he never stole my money he definitely did.

[@starettaelliott1679]

How do I get to your podcast to listen to how narcissists are demons..?

[@amandaserle3343]

Do you think they are nit connected to their spirit Yaz? I know they definitely know what they are doing. Personality disorder or not.

[@kathleen4611]

Everything everything that you just listed it happened to me, and it is Criminal use someone to manipulate God said I hate manipulation, God hates a lying tongue, he hates an unloved married woman and that's what I was I never understood the stuff and I thank God now I do it's a hard pill to swallow but at least I know what happened I'm 70 and I have three marriages like this they're really horrible criminal minded men

[@kathleen4611]

Yeah I'm with you this is not heaven I always said this is testing grounds we are truly on the same page